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- Question: Should I be worried about my mom's friend?
- Question: Is my friend a bad friend?
- Question: Urgent help required?
- Question: Will i definetly become friends with them?
- Question: How to stop getting bullied and why am I getting bullied?
- Question: How do you respond to serious confrontation?
- Question: People at school are making fun of my last name "porn"?
- Question: Have you ever caught your friends stare and smile at you?
- Question: If MSM were fake, why do we see all these people busted for being perverts?
- Question: A couple of days ago Mike looked at my husband and said "the voices in my head are telling me to kill you." . What should we do?
- Question: My friends seem to ignore me in public?
- Question: Why is everyone so mean to me?
- Question: What should i do about my friend?
- Question: Can we just get rid of depressed people?
- Question: HOW THE HELL DO I BE HAPPY?
- Question: Am I not compatible with anyone? Is there anything wrong with me?
- Question: I dont fit in with my friends?
- Question: A suicidal friend has lost all of her friends but me and now is constantly calling me and texting me and wants to hang out with me everyday?
- Question: How do i get out of a spanking?
- Question: Are your friends fake?
- Question: Friend said I love you via text. Is that a sign of strong friendship?
- Question: Is he being friendly? or more?
- Question: What does it mean if a girl seems to have her friend play the middle man?
- Question: Why is my boss being petty?
- Question: What is the best way to console someone who's lost their house in the fire?
- Question: Help mothers have fell out over daughters falling out.. advice please...?
- Question: Friends that choose relationships over friends?
- Question: How to stop worrying about friendship so much?
- Question: Would this annoy you too?
- Question: Advice please?
- Question: Why does she do this?
- Question: Clingy Friend Advice?
- Question: Would you feel weird if your neighbor randomly gave you some weed/ smoked you out?
- Question: Why has my "friend" changed so much?
- Question: Can someonr give me tips on improving my social skills?
- Question: Why would 2 strangers laugh at you when you pass by?
- Question: How do i deal with having no friends?
- Question: Is this lady attracted to me?
- Question: All my friends at school became republican, what the hell, why?
- Question: Should opposite sex friendships be treated the same as same sex friendships once you're in a relationship?
- Question: Did you feel like you were a teenager in an adult's body when you were in your early 20s?
- Question: My friend annoys me?
- Question: How do you deal with losing your only best friend?
- Question: How can I ignore a close friend?
- Question: I don’t want to ask for a raise I don’t know what to do?
- Question: Can you make new friends?
- Question: Why is my friend ty a *****?
- Question: If i just stop talking to my “friends”?
- Question: Do best friends that are both women take care of each other?
- Question: Do best friends take care of each other?
- Question: Do best friends take care of each other?
- Question: Is she going to get mad at me please answer?
| Question: Should I be worried about my mom's friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:44 PM PST My mom works at a hair salon, and there's a gay co-worker. My mom is friendly with him and sometimes, she'll call him when she gets home. Then they'd talk on the phone about their customers and stuff. I've never seen his face before, but I can tell by his voice alone that he's gay. One time, my mom was talking to him, and he said "because I'm gay, so and blah blah blah." Should I be worried? Or is this normal? Also, I'm a teen girl, and live with my mom and dad. And my dad has seen him before and said he's gay. |
| Question: Is my friend a bad friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:41 PM PST I'm 17 and I'm not allowed to date yet, but I did anyway behind my parents back with someone else who was allowed to date. Anyway, my friend, Haley, knew about it and just told us to be careful. Every once in a while she's ask me how it was going and etc. well today his mom found out and I was faced with having to tell my parents. I called Haley to ask her some advice of how to tell them. First thing she said was "I don't wanna get involved, I didn't even know you were dating till now I didn't know any of this". (She could get in trouble with her parents for not telling anybody, but I wasn't going to tell my parents she knew). She refused to help me with advice. She wasn't obligated to, I know, but I thought as my best friend she'd at least do that. You know who your friends are when you need them the most, and she wasn't there for me. Is she a bad friend or was she in the right? *i meant to say that he also wasn't allowed to date |
| Question: Urgent help required? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:27 PM PST Got invited to a friends birthday get together who I haven't seen or talked with for over one year now. Not sure if I should go not as I don't feel very close to him and i need to buy a gift. Should I still go as they invited me to go to or say I'm feeling unwell and don't go.. Really don't feel like going? |
| Question: Will i definetly become friends with them? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:18 PM PST so there are these twins sisters who i want to be friends with and they are in my video edting class at school and they want to be friends with everyone so will i definetly become friends with them |
| Question: How to stop getting bullied and why am I getting bullied? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:03 PM PST I'm studying in Japan. Starting my freshman years in high school. I'm not the best at speaking Japanese but I could understand them. I'm getting bullied why is that? Is it because I'm a shy introvert girl that when you get to know I'm actually talkative and bold? Is it because I'm not the best at speaking Japanese or is it that they assume I don't understand? Is it because I'm ugly and not the slimmest? Is it because they think I don't take a shower and that I smell bad? When in fact I do. I do take take shower every day. They keep saying stuffs such as " kusai " which means stinky. They keep mocking the 'foreign' things I do. IT'S NOT THE WORST CASE SCENARIO, but I'm only human too. I have feelings and I get hurt. How do I stop them? How do I ignore them? NO JOKE PLEASE. |
| Question: How do you respond to serious confrontation? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:01 PM PST I did something really bad 10 years ago, and despite the length of time that has passed, it is bad enough that both people who were involved (my best friend/housemate and another friend/ex who lives overseas) will hate my guts and view me as the most disgusting human being on the planet, so will everyone else who cares about them - and rightfully so. I've hated myself ever since. I haven't told them because I forgot about it for most of high school and the guilt came back much later. Plus, all my therapists have advised me not to because I'd just be borrowong trouble after all the work I've done to become a better, trustworthy person. However, my ex has been trying to reach out to my housemate (the second I mentioned her name he started asking questions about her and went to look her up even though he barely knows her. Didn't give a crap about any of my other friends, only her). So basically, the truth is going to come out one way or the other, it always does eventually, and I need to be prepared to lose them and deal with the consequences. So how do I respond when the situation arises? My housemate will likely talk to her other friends before confrontong me, so she might be somewhat calm, but she'll be heartbroken. Me ex will be very angry... More angry that he's ever been in his life. He will curse the day he met me, call me every name under the sun, and probably wish death upon me. So the confrontation on his part will be very nasty and explosive. What do I say to them? |
| Question: People at school are making fun of my last name "porn"? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 04:51 PM PST I'm Thai, and some Thais have the word "porn" in their last name. For us, it means a blessing, but of course, not in English. My last name is "Wanthaporn." And it sounds exactly like, "Want the porn." I am extremely embarrassed by it. Everyone in class laughs when they hear it. And it's even worse when we're having a ceremony or when they call my name on the school intercom. Some people even only call me that and not my first name to make fun of me. I'm a girl. In Thai, it doesn't sound like "Want the porn." But when you pronounce it in English, it does. |
| Question: Have you ever caught your friends stare and smile at you? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 04:19 PM PST Ive noticed this only a coulpe of times with me or other people i see stare and smile at there friends. Im not talking about a boy and a girl situation,but like other my friends that are girls (no they are not lesbians) im not sure if guys do this maybe they do to there other guy friends. The best way i can describe it when a mother stares and smiles at there child . I want to know what they are thinking, is it beacuse they said something funny,or because there something about that person, sometimes even stranger stare and smile at other strangers. |
| Question: If MSM were fake, why do we see all these people busted for being perverts? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 04:09 PM PST It is real news, and is going off on a tangent about perversion and molesting lately. The perv and rape coverage is like the inverse of the copycat effect with spree shooters - the more accusations that are made against the famous, the more WILL be made in the future. How could all of this be fake? This is the realness, and randomness, of Life. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2017 03:37 PM PST I have a friend that I have known for 21 years named Mike. He has always been a bit unstable, it seems to come in few years or so. Each one of these episodes are getting worse with each one, he is usually pretty harmless but now he is getting a more aggressive, not towards anyone in particular but talking about "they" or Them" I am uncertain as to who "they" or "them" are. |
| Question: My friends seem to ignore me in public? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 03:00 PM PST I have two good friends - one I went to high school with and the other I went to middle school with. Now, we are in our early 20's. We still talk on social media and we used to hang out everyday in school. I noticed both of these friends in public pretty recently. I noticed my friend from high school was at a restaurant with her family. I was with my family too. I think she noticed me and I started walking in her direction and she started walking in ours. She didn't even say hi; instead she looked down while passing and I was surprised she basically ignored me. My best friend from middle school I saw very recent at a store I work at. She was in there and I'm pretty sure her and her husband noticed me because they came toward the back where I was working at the cash register. Is it just a coincidence or do they not want to say hi for a reason? |
| Question: Why is everyone so mean to me? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 02:51 PM PST I'm very nice to everyone. I give off of my back and give to them even if i do without. Everyone calls me names and tries to make fun of me. I'm attractive according to everyone but they say I'm annoying. I don't talk a lot and I'm a friend to everyone and if i see if someone is hurting I comfort them. I have no friends and not even a best friend. I'm hurting really bad and need help. What can i do? Please no answers saying it's all of my fault. |
| Question: What should i do about my friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 01:49 PM PST Ive been friends with this guy for 3 years i never had a prblem with him but recently i overheard him and his friend say something really really rude about me. i even went home crying. Now every time and everyday i hang with him, all i can think about is what they said. I really dont wanna be friends with him anymore because of it. even if he aplogizes it wont change anything |
| Question: Can we just get rid of depressed people? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 01:09 PM PST Such killjoys, screw them. Can we just kill depressed people who are purposely negative 24/7? Mind as well become hostile with them rather than catering to those f*cks. I'd rather get rid of the trash and let happiness flourish later. seriously, BE MORE FUN. I feel like they just need to get hyped up. God help them please. |
| Question: HOW THE HELL DO I BE HAPPY? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 01:07 PM PST I HAVE A FAMILY THATS LIKE OK ? MY MOM IS KINDA CLINGY WHICH FREAKS ME OUT IM 13 AND IM SAD OK MY BROTHERS DONT GOVE A CRAP ABOUT THE WORLD. I TRIED MEDITATING AND SHET BUT NO IT DOESNT WORK PEOPLE. IM NOT TRYING TO ACT SPOILED HERE BUT HOW THE HELL DO I BE HAPPY I FEEL LIKE A BARBECUED CHICKEN IN BED AND A FRIGGING TURD CAUSE I DONT DO ANYTHING AND MY MOM WONT TAKE ME ANYWHERE BC TRAFFIC I GUESS? AND MY BEST FRIEND IS A PRISS SHE THINKS SHES PERFECT AND SHE HAS EVERYTHING SHE WANTS. LIKE CAN LIFE GET ANY WORSE |
| Question: Am I not compatible with anyone? Is there anything wrong with me? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:48 PM PST When I tried befriending someone and to try and create a bond with someone, they always end up leaving or not interested. I am always the outcast. I have no friends and no family members, so I am basically alone. It must be something wrong with me. I don't think that I am bad nor "ugly". |
| Question: I dont fit in with my friends? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:48 PM PST My friend are kind and sweet. They arent judgemental and they dont bully or pick on anyone but they get alot of attention. They get invited into parties and everything but im not included. Like for ex, outsiders guys and girls would come speak to every single one of them except me. I was invisible. The outsiders didnt want me around but wanted my friends around. This girl came over and started talking to my friends and when i came over to my friend i heard her whisper to my friends "ew whos friend is this?"and the girl started laughing and another girl would move away to another spot everytime i walk over to my friends and call ALL my friends names except mine to go where she moved. She didnt call my name so i walked over there to my friends and the girl yelled "PLS DO NOT COME OVER HERE" my friends do include me but its just the outsiders dont want me included ad influence my friends not to include me. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:40 PM PST the problem is that because i am now her only friend the only thing she ever talks about is her problems and she is always attacking me somehow. i really am trying my best to help her and be there for her but it is ruining my days it makes me unhappy to listen to her whine and it has also affected my general happiness and i hate it, but i have no courage to tell her that cuz i have a feeling she is going to kill herself (she has already tried to alot) and i just can't have her dead because of me |
| Question: How do i get out of a spanking? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:39 PM PST So today I yelled at my mom and accidentally called her a *****. So she called my dad who had work at his law firm to finish so he said when he got home he was going to spank me! So like what do I tell him tp get out of it because I mean I am 12 and lime told old for it plus I am smaller and skinnier than most of my friends and classmates and he spanks me harder now that i am 12 and not like 7 so what do I do or say |
| Question: Are your friends fake? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:34 PM PST At my school all the teachers and kids are talking about how a lot of friends are untrustworthy and i myself have seen friends talk about each other behind their backs, and get into arguments over stupid things....does this happen to you? (just wondering) |
| Question: Friend said I love you via text. Is that a sign of strong friendship? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:32 PM PST We're both guys. We had plans to meet today but he had to cancel. I know he is going through a lot in his life atm but it still annoyed me he cancelled last minute. We had a heated argument via a call and I hung up. I got a long text later saying he was really sorry to let me down and he hoped I could forgive him and at the end put "I love you mate" with several kisses. Is he being genuine as a friend or is it just throwaway words? |
| Question: Is he being friendly? or more? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:29 PM PST 2 months had passed and when I saw him stare at me 2 Sundays in a row in church I texted him he said wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me and wi should know why it won't work. He iinsulted my mom 's dress and I Insulted his mom's back a bit harsher. It's been almost 3 months and he constantly stares at me in church said hi and smiled a couple weeks ago and smiled last week. He was looking and staring again this week. What is he trying to do. Also, he had his dating site open for 2 months, sunday he closed it I was wondering if he's foud someone but why would he be staring at me on Sunday if he did.. |
| Question: What does it mean if a girl seems to have her friend play the middle man? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 12:15 PM PST This girl flirts with me a lot with her friend and approaches me with her friend. I caught her alone and she still is flirty but it's limited. Her friend kind've directs attention on to her. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04 |
| Question: Why is my boss being petty? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 11:38 AM PST I work a part time job that's 2-3 days a week depending on my schedule. I missed a few Sundays because I don't have very good transportation and I've started taking classes so I've had homework to do. I've already discussed that with them and my supervisor. Lately she's been removing my shifts and calling me telling me the same thing over again. I'm probably about to be terminated but I don't know why she just can't she just fire me instead of cancelling my demos? |
| Question: What is the best way to console someone who's lost their house in the fire? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 11:19 AM PST I don't know really what to say other than I'm sorry. Any other suggestions, I don't know what to do. I'm assuming these people are staying with someone, they live 2 hours away from me. I don't know them that well, but enough where I want to say or do something. |
| Question: Help mothers have fell out over daughters falling out.. advice please...? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 11:13 AM PST My 15 yr old daughter has had a very immature friend and has tried to break free. She has been trying to be more distant without being mean over.. but she finally told her they have grown apart and said she didn't want to hang about anymore. This friend wouldn't accept her reasons and kept demanding why.. my daughter didn't want to hurt her so she just kept saying they've grown apart and they don't have much in common etc.. This girl had been playing the sympathy card online and posting up things about my daughter and the school r talking about it The mother rang me today in a rage.. DEMANDING reasons why my daughter doesn't want to speak to her and wouldn't accept why they have grown apart. She kept demanding and I just said things like she won't take no for an answer.. eg... when she takes her phoneand dosent give it back ... when she takes her rubber and dosent give it back in class..I said these were minor but I couldn't give her a proper reason for why my daughter dislikes her She then started being nasty and saying those reasons r pathetic.. over a rubber and phone.. and made me feel awful! I regret saying it now But I was put on the spot. What's ur thoughts?? Have I done the wrong thing?? |
| Question: Friends that choose relationships over friends? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 10:28 AM PST I was friends with this guy for probably 10 years. Just friends, never any feelings of any sort. The entire time I've known him he's been on/off with this girl and I have heard all the stories. When I think back now, the only time I would see him after a while is if I asked first, and if he was currently not with her. Anyways, a month ago he posted the engagement ring for sale for the 5th time. I said, "Never should have bought it" and later I found out he deleted my comment. When I asked him why, he says he just didn't want the negativity in his life right now. I proceeded to say I wasn't trying to be negative, it's just the truth. He then goes on a rant defending her, saying nobody knows what him/her have, etc. and I'm entitled to my own opinion. I told him but yet, he's constantly making himself unhappy and I'm pretty sure I DO know what's went on between them. But I was taken back by his rude responses. A few days later I texted him and apologized explaining what I was saying, and never got a response. I noticed today that he has me blocked on Facebook, so I'm wondering if he even got the message. So he can go back and fourth with this girl who clearly doesn't care, but blocks the people who have been there for him. Is it really a huge loss on my part & something I shouldn't even let bother me? |
| Question: How to stop worrying about friendship so much? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 10:16 AM PST so when me and my friend argue, i get so worried she wont talk to me again and i always say sorry even if shes the one to blame. i want to stop this. i want to be more confident about this, that its not my fault.. any tips? |
| Question: Would this annoy you too? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 08:53 AM PST So one of my friends recently got a new job working at a local restaurant. But she literally talks about nothing else. It's not like she's excited and talking about the fun things, she just complains. Every. Single. Day. She. Complains. She says "Oh my God I worked so late last night!" Or "my coworker is such a jerk." Stuff like that every day. The first day I could handle it because she hadn't worked anywhere for a long time but now I'm getting so annoyed. I want to tell her that I've been working late shifts like that and dealing with crappy people for a long time in my old job and my new one. Shifts that could last 8-9 hours multiple times a week AFTER school. I'm not saying complaining is wrong. I've complained quite a bit in my time of working but that's all she does. She very rarely says anything positive. Even stuff she posts is negative. "Got a 10 hours shift today ugh" "so many annoying people" "don't get off till 5 and it's 6 am." Those are just a few examples. Now I don't know what annoys me about it since nobody I've confided in related. My first thought was maybe I was jealous but I'm not really interested in the field she is working in. It's not for me. I'm extremely happy in my job. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2017 08:38 AM PST I've liked this boy for nearly 7 months and we was really good friends before and we've been through it all. At first he said he liked me but didn't want to go out cus it was too soon and then as time went past he started saying he doesn't know if he likes me and a month ago he said he didn't like me in that way. When I found out he didn't like me, we both agreed on a friendship because we nearly lost everything. So I was the one just asking for a friendship because it was better than losing everything and having nothing even though I really wanted more than that. He said that's what he wanted so we was friends for a few weeks and now he's starting to come back, which I really didn't think would happen. He brought up me liking him the other day to see if I still do and he brought us up and said "who knows what's gonna happen" and he seems jealous/annoyed when other guys text me whereas before he didn't care. As Christmas is coming up and we only have 2 days left of school I don't know if I should get him a Christmas present, for some reason I find it really awkward. He isn't getting me one and I don't want him to feel bad. Would a chocolate selection box be okay? I'm really nervous, or shouldn't I bother getting him one? What do you think? Thanks xxx |
| Question: Why does she do this? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 08:36 AM PST This girl at my school keep making fun of me and i didnt do nothing to her. She only does it when she has a boyfriend or a guys attention. She makes fun of me when she is with her boyfriend and points at me. When i ws with my guy friend, he started talking to her because she knew him and i heard their convo, She stared and me and waited for me to look away so she could say something about me. When i looked away she pointed at me and teased him saying i was his girlfriend (in a rude way) and laughing. I caught her and she hurried up and walk away. My friend was like ew no and she just kept saying it. |
| Question: Clingy Friend Advice? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 08:30 AM PST Hello, everyone! I was wondering if you could offer some advice... I have a friend who I have had some good times and some bad times with. So, we spend a lot of time talking online. It's fun and sometimes she gets very upset. At first I wanted to drop everything to help her. But then, it quickly turned sour. This has been going on between us for over a year (about 2 years), so it's not a temporary life crisis. She will pretend it is a crisis to gain sympathy, and do it out of boredom. However, when I say I cannot talk because of work she doesn't understand and will leave tons of voicemail or texts until I answer them. I've tried setting boundaries, or explaining, and even being firm and nothing works. I found the only thing that works in the past is not responding at all,but if I do that we both won't be friends any more. It stresses me out to see 8 voicemails (current number) and all are from her. Any advice you can offer? As I wrote this, there are 9 voicemails from last night until this morning... |
| Question: Would you feel weird if your neighbor randomly gave you some weed/ smoked you out? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 07:51 AM PST I just moved into a new town. I ve noticed a really cool neighbor across the street. I hear music coming from his house that I like and my friend told me that he was asking if they knew where to get some grass. Now I have some, I m new to town so I wanna make friends. My plan is to go offer him some free grass and smoke him out but I m a bit worried I might come off as strange and then wreck a chance at being friends altogether. Advice? |
| Question: Why has my "friend" changed so much? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 07:30 AM PST I remember just 2 years ago, we were still in middle school and always talked to each other. We would call and text everyday about school problems or just about our lives. She'd share food with me in class and always hung out during recess. Then, we didn't have any class together for a year and stopped talking. But I thought we were still friends. Now, we're sophomores in high school and she has completely changed. She doesn't say hey to me. She talks to her other friends(about ten other girls) when I'm right there. She doesn't sit by me at lunch. I waved at her and she just glanced away. It's like I don't exist anymore. Should I call this friendship off? |
| Question: Can someonr give me tips on improving my social skills? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 06:07 AM PST so i am attractive guy and you would think that i would be getting alot of girls but i cant get any at all. so i figured i must be doing something wrong. i am also 26 and getting old so i should have social skills already but i waisted my life gaming too much. there was this girl in my class and i could tell she was interested by how much she talked and interacted with me, but all of a sudden i noticed that it started fading away and she ddint talk to me anymore. this happens to other girls too. but i finally noticed 2 problems that if fixed i think i'd be good 1. awkward silence. when there is an awkward silence, or before it even happens but i know its going to happen, i start walking infront of the person instead of side-by-side, or just completely walk away if its a random stranger. its like my mind thinks there can never be an awkward silence at all or im doomed. 2. keeping conversation going. sometime its not even the awkward silence that is the problem. i just dont say anything back. like i say something, then the person says one thing, after that i say nothing. And then i realize wait why didnt i keep the conversation going, i could have said so many things from that statement the other person just said. Maybe im am not listening good enough so how can i fix these two things? i have 2 weeks for break and wondering if i could practice so that when i go back to school the problem is fixed. is that enough time? i am also a cashier at a very busy fruit market. |
| Question: Why would 2 strangers laugh at you when you pass by? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 05:00 AM PST I was running late to my final this past week and as I was rushing down the hall, these 2 girls were sitting on a bench and they looked at me and busted out laughing at me - clearly making fun of me - I was in a hurry and did not stop to ask what their problem was - but it totally threw me off and stressed me out so bad - I could not wait for the final to be done and by the time I got to my car I was in tears. I carefully examined my outfit and hair and face - no pimples, I was wearing Uggs, a Jessica Simpson Coat, I don t wear make up, I had my glasses on - they re dark framed New York style, No pimples - I just have a light scar from an accident a few years back - Jeans were fine - I Just could NOT for the life of me find anything worth laughing about - no snot on my face, nothing. People have told me in the past I m pretty - even though I m one of those girls who "feels" ugly and doesn t really know - but I d like to believe they are telling the truth - even so, true or not, I would NEVER laugh at someone for how they looked- so why would they laugh at me? *I m a bit of a loner from moving around a lot as a child so I don t have any close friends to really have a good insight* (This was college by the way). Thank you for any suggestions... Or ideas as to what they were laughing at. |
| Question: How do i deal with having no friends? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 04:58 AM PST i never had any friends outside of school but i cant get in touch with any of my friends cause im 28 and out of school and cant find any people who have the same interests as me so i cant talk to anyone, help please |
| Question: Is this lady attracted to me? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 04:27 AM PST I got to know an English literature graduate, who also does acting and singing. When we first met, I showed her a story I had written and she thought it was good and beautiful. Afterwards, she wanted shuffled next to me to show me her story online on her phone. I then leaned back into her personal space and she accepted it. When we met the second time, we chatted about her life in Cyprus, how she done A levels and GCSEs; we talked about homeless people/dogs, and general stuff. During the conversations, she then randomly changed topic and said "I am thir… did I tell you how old I am? I am 37." I didn't even ask. Last week she read my story that used the adjectives dying and dead and fell into her chair laughing hysterically and stating "you're funny." Even though I didn't say nothing funny. She then looked inquisitively to see if I was laughing, too and had a happy face and smile, and then made the defence she was laughing because she was tired. Today I made her laugh by mistaking a hunting thong for a thong thong, and she said "you're funny, sometimes." Again, we talked about general stuff – her modelling, her acting, her going home for Christmas and her OCD friend. All the time she had a happy, cheery face, and seemed to always want to joke and laugh and get me to join in. When we talked about the movie Disaster artist, she said it was funny and I should go see it. When discussing the modelling, I said she had natural beauty and she should pursue it. She seemed to go quiet – not sure if she was shy or something else – and then said enthusiastically/appreciatively "thanks." When I started to drink my drink, she would then get me to engage again and laugh and try get me to laugh about the fact she applied for an acting job, which she knows nothing about and now has to research it. |
| Question: All my friends at school became republican, what the hell, why? Posted: 16 Dec 2017 01:21 AM PST Since last year, they go on and on about being republican and poking at progressives and their ideals. We're just teens! They're extremely republican because it's the good side now. You'll be accepted more. I feel I have to have socially republican/conservative views now - being very traditional as an American. |
| Posted: 15 Dec 2017 11:42 PM PST The wording of this question is a little confusing so let me explain- Me and my boyfriend are having an arguement regarding his friendship with another girl. I don't like how much he confides in her, goes to her for advice, and talks to her about our relationship However, he defends this by saying he doesn't treat his girl friends differently from his guy friends I guess maybe this belief was ingrained in me growing up and maybe it's wrong or old fashioned nowadays, but I was always taught that there are boundaries in opposite sex friendships. I don't think it's appropriate, especially as you get older and when you're married, to be spending one on one time and confiding with members of your preferred sex My sister is marrying a woman and she agrees with me saying she wouldn't like it if her fiancée was that close with another lesbian woman I'm not trying to start an argument, but I would genuinely like to know other people's opinions on the subject and whether I am in the minority on this |
| Question: Did you feel like you were a teenager in an adult's body when you were in your early 20s? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 10:56 PM PST I'm 20 y/o. I feel ashamed because I don't have my license nor do I have enough $ to live on my own or pay for college. I am working on being proactive. I know as a 20 y/o I'm expected to act like an adult in public. I try to motivate myself to get my life together so I can move out, but I feel my mother encourages me to stay with her. When I procrastinate she usually just lets me. She doesn't push me to stop procrastinating so I can move out instead she says it's my future I'm an adult so it's up to me. I know this is true but as a parent I feel that having a push to get my life together would help instead of allowing me to get away with it. I can't complain though because I'm grateful I have shelter and food and I wasn't kicked to the curb. It's difficult for me to motivate myself when there are no immediate consequences for procrastinating. |
| Question: My friend annoys me? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 10:19 PM PST Basically my friends always sings it's my pet peeve when ppl sing over songs I think it ruins it unless we are all singing it together usually it's just her. I WANT TO PUNCH HER IN THE FACE she sounds like a shakira wannabe who is failing horribly. Right now I'm with her and her younger brother and they are singing and I am so annoyed. I am only nice to her since our parents are really good friends and we also don't get along as friends any advice |
| Question: How do you deal with losing your only best friend? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 10:16 PM PST Back in middle school I was depressed because I couldn't make any friends. There were a couple here and there but I always wanted a friendship where we were both each others best friend rather than a third wheel. So in high school, I happen to find that friend I was able to relate to and have so much in common with and we've become best friends. Of course people change over time, especially now that she went to a University. I'm not exactly afraid of her parting ways with me, because whenever she comes back home she does reunite with all of her friends but she's changed so much that I feel like I'm not talking to the same person anymore. I'm now afraid to speak my mind or what I've because she's gotten to be a lot more judgmental and overall attitude feels like I could be put down. I don't want to say some things because I don't know what I am to her right now, such as whether she'd talk about me towards her other friends. I don't think I could ever really be best friends with someone I feel inferior to, so that's why I feel like I'm losing her. It kind of sucks because I feel like I can never find someone who I was able to relate to be so close with not only her but her family as well. I have a hard time finding interest in making 'new' friends because they all have their own group or are just not approachable, and I find it hard to believe I could make a stronger friendship( I go to a CC so the social life sucks ). I've tried to accept it, but over time it gets lonely. |
| Question: How can I ignore a close friend? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 10:09 PM PST I'm a guy by the way, and my female friend and I aren't really close as we used to. Most of the time I talk to her through texting, and barely in real life. We talk to each other for a few min at school butthats it. Plus she has a lot of other friends she dedicates to now, so I think I'm gonna withdraw from her life. |
| Question: I don’t want to ask for a raise I don’t know what to do? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 08:55 PM PST |
| Question: Can you make new friends? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 07:16 PM PST |
| Question: Why is my friend ty a *****? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 07:13 PM PST Whys is my friend ty a ***** |
| Question: If i just stop talking to my “friends”? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 06:55 PM PST so ya lol im p sure my friends all hate me lol cause im in general a piece of **** and no one likes me so if i do them a favor and just refuse to initiate conversation do u think thats good bad or will they notice lol its just i dont think they wanna talk w me u know if i just left they'd be better off u know idk what should i do if i just dont talk to them at all |
| Question: Do best friends that are both women take care of each other? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 06:53 PM PST The reason I ask is because I'm a 25 year old female fixing to be 26 and I have a best friend that's 58 and she's a woman too |
| Question: Do best friends take care of each other? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 06:30 PM PST |
| Question: Do best friends take care of each other? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 06:29 PM PST Okay so I have a best friend that thinks we shouldn t go for months without talking and we re both females by the way and she s a lot older than me to so is this normal? |
| Question: Is she going to get mad at me please answer? Posted: 15 Dec 2017 06:19 PM PST Okay so I'm a 25 year old female fixing to be 26 and I have a friend that's 58 and she says that I'm her best friend forever and sometimes me and her go days without texting and talking because I know she's really busy and she gets worried about me when she doesn't hear from me but I'm just wondering is she gonna get mad at me if she doesn't hear from me for several days again? And she's coming over to my house on Thursday but now since me and her haven't talked then I'm scared she's going to say that she doesn't want to come over Thursday. Can someone please help me with this? |
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