Ok so my ex of a year and a half dumped me a month ago via text because he claimed our relationship "ran its course" and he was incapable in relationships right now and he needed to find himself again and its better for him to be single" anyways it crushed me cause he was my first love even tho we were on and off for a year and a half we had great times we went on vacations , he showed me off to his whole family and at one point he told me i was the one and we almost moved in together anyways so i asked him after a month of him not explaining how things really went wrong i said "hey did you leave me over things lacking in our sex life ? or did i fail to do other things i just hope i did everything to keep us together thats all i wanted " and he responded with " it wasnt sex or anything you didnt do in particular, Im just a complicated person and it simply just didnt work. I hope that gives you some clarity to move on" so exactly what was he trying to say? he's 32 and im 23 and i feel like a used piece of young a$$ now and like he sold me a dream so was he really just saying he got tired of me? :( he use to tell me that i wasnt on his "maturity level" and i needed to grow up when i said things he didnt agree with and would also make fun of the fact that i would always make him use a condom (im not on birth control) and didnt want to get pregnant and we broke up on our anniversary in august (he cursed me out at a bar) then we got back together a month later and he never told his family he were back together & didnt want me around his family anymore like he use to before we broke up

So, i smoke weed, quite often, but my boyfriend recently has gotten into taking pills, like Xanax and OxyContin and i hate it, i dont do any other drugs i just smoke because it helps me get rid of panic attacks, but my boyfriend says that if im gonna smoke, then he should be able to take pills, and ive told him constantly that i dont want him to take them because theyre really addictive and he could possibly overdose but hes still sticking to what he originally said, is there anything Else i can say (other than saying that weed cannot kill you and doesn't have an addictive quality, but the pills he wasnts to abuse are all highly addictive and can kill him) that will make a good argument that will convince him, i dont NEED weed, i can give it up easily, i even offered to if that meant he would stop taking pills but for some reason he's so insistent on it. I don't wanna break up with him.

I just dont like her, it's a long story. Anyway, my brother and I went and bought a house. We both paid half. Could I just kick her out if i I felt like it. Or would my brother and I have to talk about it first amongst our selves.

My ex contacted me after no contact of 4 months. I told him nothing had changed when we last met and maybe it's better to keep the past behind us. I told him I want someone who knows what they want. He replied days later saying he's really sorry he only just got my message. He said he honestly hasn't had any internet since he saw me. When I didn't respond he blocked me. He said hello yesterday and I said "Hi, so you've finally decided to unblock me." He replied that he didn't think I was blocked and said he just wanted to say happy Christmas. Apparently, he had been to an exhibition of my favourite singer and thought of me. He sent me some pictures. Then today I got 2 missed video calls from him this morning. I'm guessing these were a mistake as he never video calls. What does he want? We split up in April 2016, but we have seen each other on and off. Is he just being friendly?

I work as caregiver, maid, and house cleaner on a old man. I have to cook, wash his clothes, clean his house etc, so, i sleep on his house. The problem is that after dinner, he wants i stay in his bedroom, in front of him, the night, with my pajamas, my nightgown, my bedroom slippers and my opaque black pantyhose under pajamas, in a chair and with a blanket on my legs, until 2:00 A.M, until he fall on sleep. Maybe he is excited about that because i am a beautiful woman (i'm tall, with long and soft blond hair, blue eyes, white skin and red lips), i really don't know, but it's stressful and it's not on my contract! I don't have to do this! And If i do that i can't work in the morning! It's very embarrassing too, because with pantyhose my feet smell! And i have to fix my tights in front of him, it's very embarrassing! is he selfish? is he a old pervert? He wants to have sex with me? I have to talk to him about this weird situation?

with me? Thats scary.

The wife already has everything and I want to reward the girlfriend for being very naughty......just how I like it!

So I'm pretty worried about meeting my friend's mom, my friend and I went to pride this summer and her mom saw the pictures. It was crazy hot that day so I had on short sleeves. She saw my old scars in the picture and now thinks I'm a bad influence? My friend deals with a lot. Her dad can be.. violent at times.. And the police don't do **** about it. So she struggles with self harm and depression. She told her mom good things about me like how I'm helping her stop, and that I'm a nice person. I'm really anxious about meeting her. What do I say? My friend and I have weird jokes too.. like we joke about a gnome creating the universe, having a cult, we also have a joke about a homeless drug dealer selling off brand ramen noodles ( called ramen oodles).. we also sorta made up our own language called ' gayiskh ', ( friend= fag or gay, adding mc to words makes them nice. Excuse me= mc-cuse me, etc..) I bring up the jokes when at her house? What should I do? I'm nervous... I'm just a 15 year old girl who is awkward and confused the majority of the time. If you could help.. Please help me?!