I am the only son. I am 37 years old. I feel like I'm not as upset over my sister's death as my mother and other sister are. Christmas is coming up and I still want to make out my Christmas list and send it out. My mother advised me not to. But I still want to. I still expect presents. My other sister has expressed that she is not interested in returning home for Christmas or anything else for that matter. I also noticed that, when my sister died, everyone kept asking me how my mother was. Nobody asked me how I was doing. It's like I don't matter. Like I'm expected to deal with my sister's death in private on my own time and to be strong for everyone else. I don't know what else to do anymore. I want things back to normal. I want people to stop worrying about my mother so much and to start thinking about me. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Do I really NOT matter to people? Am I supposed to deal with my sister's death on my own time in private? Am I wrong for wanting Christmas with my family the way it's always been? My mom said that this Christmas is going to be really hard on her and my other sister. What about me? I lost a sister too. Even though I didn't grow up with her like my other sister did. That shouldn't matter though. I still lost a sister too. I'm actually the one who found my sister's body. So that should count for something. I even make it a point to tell people that I'm the one who found her.

She comes back from Mexico on tomorrow. We've talked about doing stuff together when she comes back, she invited me to her apartment the last time we hung out. I'm 18 she's 37. I think she's really hot. I had my arm around her the whole time we were together last time and we took a lot of pictures together. I ended up on her Snapchat kissing her cheek. With all due respect I'm trying to get it in with her when she comes back. She's Latina she's got great curves she's still got it. Can you offer me advice

This was already asked once but i worded it wrong. Anyway we are selling my child hood house. I wa living here alone a year ago. Had no WiFi or cable. I had Asked my neighbors daughter if i could Use it while i waited To get mine. She gave me the passcode said she set it up simple so her mom could remember. I was On it longer then anticipated maybe a few months. Now months and months later i feel Like her mother is upset with me. She seems to snub me off every time i pull Down the street and it almost looked like she told me off when we drove passed each other. I feel Like if she had a problem with it she would have said something months ago when i was actually on it. She's not really techy so I'm not sure if she even knew i was On it or if I'm just over thinking things. What do you think?

For example, pretend that it was very hard to think of any good things about them? Could you then still love them?

I've been going out with someone for a while and have been keeping it secret from my family, who I am not very close with. Co-workers and friends know. Now I'm at the point where I'm slowly opening up to my family because I feel like this has been going on long enough for them to at least know about it, but my parents are asking so many questions I don't know what to answer. Even though we've been together for quite some time now, we've had some major problems and we're still figuring out a lot of things. How can I keep this relationship more to myself without being rude or not answering their questions?

So, I've recently come to the conclusion that I need to pack up and move states. I don't have any kids or family holding me back, and I'm fact, I don't speak to any of my family anymore, and I'm trying to completely disappear from them (which has proven more difficult with us all being in the same area). But I'm a young 21 year old, and I want to go somewhere that I have a better chance at success. Or less probability of failing at least. So I'll be moving from Ms to Chicago IL. I know absolutely no one there, and it just makes the most sense to me to go there. I have to admit that I'm terrified though. I've always had someone else telling me what I need to do to succeed in life. It feels great to finally take the reins in my own life, but Terrifying at the same time. Have any of you ever made a jump decision like this? Just up and moved to where no one knows you, and began a new life all on your own? How did that go? What should I prepare for? I lived in my van for 6 months before, while hardly eating anything, so I'm sure I can make it

Sto uscendo con questa ragazza che mi piace molto ma, ogni volta che la vedo o che stiamo insieme mi si congelano le mani. Spesso succede anche quando sono davanti alla sua classe e penso potrebbe uscire dall'aula (siamo a scuola insieme). Non capisco proprio perché succede questo, di solito non è il contrario? Qualcuno mi sa dire qualcosa a proposito?

So this girl is always nice to me in class and even though im not looking for a relationship, i really want to be her friend. It was the last day of class and we had a final exam. I finished my test first and literally sat there pretended to do my test until she finished. When she got up i turned in my test also (not making anything noticeable). I asked her how she did on the exam, then asked her what she wanted to be in life. After that i said "anyway i have to go, but i think you are really nice, can we be friends" She said sure, then i asked for her number. I dont know if real number or not yet but do you think this was weird to say???

I texted a former crush on accident because I was just curious who it was in my contacts. I just texted "hey just going through my contacts, can I ask who this is?" Now it hit me who it is! I won't lie i still have feeling for this guy And I know he too HADD feelings for me until I ignored him. I was stupid. We never texted he gave me his number a year ago. I'm so scared of his response......

The lady I work for is moody and so mean to me sometimes. I never know when she'll make some smartass, rude comment or take a pot shot at me in which she belittles and puts me down. I have suffered so much abuse already by both my mom and ex-husband that I don't think I can take anymore. Should I just quit?

So, I've recently come to the conclusion that I need to pack up and move states. I don't have any kids or family holding me back, and I'm fact, I don't speak to any of my family anymore, and I'm trying to completely disappear from them (which has proven more difficult with us all being in the same area). But I'm a young 21 year old, and I want to go somewhere that I have a better chance at success. Or less probability of failing at least. So I'll be moving from Ms to Chicago IL. I know absolutely no one there, and it just makes the most sense to me to go there. I have to admit that I'm terrified though. I've always had someone else telling me what I need to do to succeed in life. It feels great to finally take the reins in my own life, but Terrifying at the same time. Have any of you ever made a jump decision like this? Just up and moved to where no one knows you, and began a new life all on your own? How did that go? What should I prepare for? I lived in my van for 6 months before, while hardly eating anything, so I'm sure I can make it

Hi I am 23m . Actually I received a call before one year. It was wrong call from old women house wife age 40.after that we made lot of conversation but this month she started about sex feel. now she call me for sex without condom is it safe because she only did with her husband

There is this guy I work with and we are nice toward each other and we get along. Weirdly enough though, I feel like our personalities clash sometimes. He seems sometimes clumsy or at times irritated around me but he asks me a lot to work with him on tasks. I noticed on two separate occasions he's dropped things. I am wondering if he likes me just out of curiosity. He recently changed his appearance too and he seems to stand close to me at times. I think I've caught him staring at me a few times. He is mostly very outgoing with other people except for me I guess because I am somewhat new to this place. Is this guy irritated or does he like me?

She is just 5 years younger than me and we both are single currrently .. I'm divorced for around 16 months

If it's between two consenting adults?

I would really appreciate anyone who takes the time to read this. I've already talked to my boyfriend and he's done talking to me for tonight. We have been together for 3 years. He tends to put the blame on me for most of our arguments because of my low self esteem. He says I'm inconsiderate, negative, and mean. I do have low self esteem unfortunately, I feel ugly and worthless a lot of the times and I think that causes a lot of problems. Anyway back to the argument, he said that this girl he was friends with was way more nice to him than I was and that he was happier hanging out with her than me. And that it makes him sad that he was more happy with a friend than his girlfriend. Of course that made me feel really bad and made my self esteem worse. And the last thing he said was that if he had known me and how I was when he first saw me, that he never would've talked to me or bothered going out with me in the first place. He's also told me that when it comes to intelligence and work ethic that I'm pretty average. He loves attention and he has a big ego, and when I can't give it to him he insults me and claims that I don't love him even though I do. I am a nursing student pursuing a BSN so yes I do put my education and patients before him and I don't think he likes that. Im not sure if we should break up although I'm getting really tired of our circle of fighting. But I do love him very much. Anyway, thank you to whoever reads this and for advice.

He was begging or trying to get them for practically weeks or months. I left him cause I think its an u healthy relationship but yeah...it sounds like girls have a hard time resisting sending nudes

So my fiancée mothers step son and girlfriend moved in with us about a couple months ago. Before they moved in, Her step daughter contacted me and told me that I needed to be careful what I keep out around them because they are known for stealing..I didn t too much listen because you never want to just listen to what anybody tells you and run with it! Okay fast forward... my fiancé hid something under the bathroom counter about a week ago (and even I didn t know anything about it), he told his step brother to get it for him and bring it to him, and then my fiancé put it back when he was done. The next morning my fiancé went to get it and it was gone! (Mind you, the step brother was the only one who knew about it) and when confronted, the girlfriend claimed she was cleaning and threw it away. BS! Anyway, they left for Virgina a couple days ago and I get a call from my bank today saying they spotted fraudulent transactions on my card and they said it was a purchase made at a Gas station in Virginia. (Btw I haven t seen my card in days) The problem I m having is, they are in Danville, VA visiting family and friends and the card was used in Petersburg, VA. That s 2 hours apart. The step daughter claims that they have been in town all day from what she knows of but she isn t sure. i just don t want to blow up and be wrong. What do you guys think? Im thinking to bring it up to their dad because they still are gone.

Who would you most want as a personal mentor to give you motivation, wisdom and guidance in your life. Mine would be JFK as many rules I live by are quotes of his a couple of my personal favorites are "Conformity is the jailer of freedom and the enemy of growth" and "Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger men". Thanks for all answers and for sharing opinions.