Hi I am 23m . Actually I received a call before one year. It was wrong call from old women house wife age 40.after that we made lot of conversation but this month she started about sex feel. now she call me for sex without condom is it safe because she only did with her husband

I told her alridy tons of times that women are in the kitchen period. What should I do? She don't want to go back to the kitchen. Should I slap her? She's pragnint 8 month if it is related to her unobidiency. Thank you, Abdul Son of Hamis

I've been married for a year now and her college age daughter moved into my basement. She has her own bathroom, but sometimes I have to use it. When I go down to the basement she always have very sexy dirty panties on the floor. I accidentally picked a pair up and they have a very sweet stench to them.

She is just 5 years younger than me and we both are single currrently .. I'm divorced for around 16 months

How would you resolve that? Is an open marriage something that should be considered, especially if they both still love each other?

My husband is turing 33. What should i get him?

So my husband is 23 and I am 22 he was abused as a child emotionally and physically by his dad. He is a really sweet guy who would do anything for anyone but he started to drink very very very heavily. He has nightmares and tremors and says the alcohol and pot help him cope with the stresses of life and the past. I really care about him but when he comes home he brings whatever vodka or whiskey is cheap and just goes to town on it. His work and grades have suffered but its heart breaking to see him drink himself till he passes out. It is heart breaking to see a the man I love harm himself like this. The worst episode we had was after he fell and injured himself and broke his ankle and had a minor injury he was drinking and took some pain pills and had to be rushed to the emergency room. I love him but I need to know how to deal with this he has virtually no family support except mine...I talked to our Bishop and he said that rehab is what he needs. How do I go about this to get him into rehab?

About 2 years ago, my husband and I had a 9-month separation. 3 weeks before we decided to work things out I slept with someone else. A month and a half later I found out I was pregnant. Based on my estimated date of conception, it ruled out the possibility that the other mas was the father, I also had a period after the fact. My son was born, my husband signed the birth certificate, my son didn't look a whole lot like my husband but nothing distinguishable I guess so we brushed that off. Fast forward a year, the man I had slept with is now my boss and is married with a 5-month-old son of his own. I show him a picture of my son, he gets really quiet then says "he looks like me" and walks off. I blew the comment off for a week, thinking he was just being dumb and paranoid. But then it started eating at me. I started looking at pictures of the three of them. There are some pretty undeniable similarities between the man who is now my boss, and my one-year-old son... Like things that are hard to brush off, and I'm having a hard time fighting the urge to post the photos (should I or would that be a huge breach in privacy for all of us?). Either way, the potential bio father is now my boss, like the main boss at my job, and is recently married and I know he would not want to have to explain this situation to his new wife. I'm kinda ok with him not being involved if he really was my son's father. My husband doesn't want to even entertain the idea, he knows the possibility is present but he doesn't want to acknowledge it. And that is understandable. My concern is for my son and my belief he deserves to know the truth about his paternity. I would hate for him to find out in the future that we were not honest with him. What should I do?

My wife is afraid for our son to go to school tomorrow f he has it she hope's it snows again so he won't. She said tomorrow is the 5 year anniversary of the Sandy Hook shooting. He's been going to school 4 years now he's been doing fine plus we live in a safe city nothing like that could happen but she said that's what they thought at Sandy Hook too. She really hopes they'll cancel tomorrow. How can I help her feel better ?

I feel ashamed discussing this but it happened and I can't go back and change it. My girlfriend found some pictures on my phone that I used as a spank bank. She was going through my phone when I didn't notice and found them in an album that wasn't protected. These weren't dirty pics and were mostly photos of girls from school that I know, which is what we argued about. I'm mad at her for going through my phone and she's mad at me for the pics and I don't know what to do next. I don't want to cheat on her and have no intention of doing anything bad, but we don't have sex very often and I have to compensate in other ways. Is there anything I can do now to make things less worse?

How would you have reacted if your sister said this? Our daughter Joy is eight and she is a spitting image of me. She likes to wear her hair and wear what Mommy does. Yesterrday my sister Laura came by right our house. I told her please don't go in the living room cause Joy is getting a spanking and she is undressed. Laura instead looks in at our daughter across Daddy's lap with her dress raised and her underpants showing. Joy was at that time in the midst of a lenghty spanking. Laura then "insulted" our daughter by asking if I "wiggle in my panty when David gives me a spanking?" This cause Joy wants to be like Mommy and she wears white nylon briefs. I don't find this funny and I told my sister to grow up. How would you have reacted?

Hi. I'm dating a juvenile detention officer. She is 31 and I'm 22. We have been dating for about a year but she sometimes says like "you still look very young." "you still look like a teenager. no body will notice if you just put on the yellow jumpsuit and join the inmate group at the detention center. haha." or "it will be so funny if you wear the uniforms. i will displine you from day one" I thought it was funny but on the other day, she asked me if I wanted to see what I will look like in a yellow jumpsuit. I was curious about it but said "maybe next time" because I didn't expect the question and didn't look like a prisoner at the time. And she asked me if I wanted to wear handcuffs several times. I have put them on just for fun but I wonder if she meant like she wants me to put on the suit and get cuffed when we have encounters. She hasn't said it straight it forward. She just teases me so I don't know if she was just joking or if she really meant something. I mean I'm ok with it if that was what she means but I want to be careful and don't want to upset her.

I always knew our son would end up in prison, its a mother intuition. Husband says that I need to put all my ill will beside and stand by our son. I never told husband the in depth problems I had with our son as a kid. The times I would wake up in my bed with my son standing over me , numerous times seeing him masturbate on dolls. Mangle dolls, hurt our dog. So why should I support my son when I feel he's a monster?

I am trying to start my divorce but my ex says he will only agree to a uncontested divorce if we do split custody so he doesn t have to pay child support. I have been seperated from him since 03/19/17. We have a 2.5 year old daughter as well as a 4 month who was born 7 weeks early. I live in Tennessee he lives in Colorado. I live with my mother who owns her house and pay her 700 a month. He is someones roommate. I do know know his physical address nor his place of work. I work 35 to 45 hours per week at 9$ an hour and he works less than 30for 14$ last he told me. He does have a record in both states. Im not sure what all is on his record but he does have a felony in colorado for check fraud. Im not comfortable sending my children out of state and he refuses to come to Tennessee. What should i do?

This is very private but I have no one else I can confide in. My husband and I have not had sex in almost a year. When I try to initiate sex he rejects me so I back off then sometimes he will start initiating things and when I try to respond he will just stop and kind of laugh it off like it was all a joke to get me worked up. I will ask him if he's still attracted to me and he says he is. Also another thing that worries me is that a few years ago he admitted to being bi-curious after I caught him looking at website for gay people and bisexuals to connect on his phone. So it worries me that maybe he really just isn't interested in me anymore and would rather hook up with other men instead. Another thing is we are looking for a larger place and he says he wants to look for a place where we can have our own bedrooms because we both snore when we sleep so he feels we will get better sleep at night if we sleep separately. I am so confused. We've never had an extremely active sex life but lately it's the worst it's ever been and we are drifting further apart. I am getting older and would like children but I feel like it will never happen if this continues. Talking to him does no good because he doesn't think there's anything wrong. Can anyone offer advice or suggestions please? I'm willing to do just about anything to save my marriage!

It's easy to see all that was wrong with the douchebag you were pining for. But it canbe hard to examine yourself as a woman and ask why you wanted and chased a man who clearly was not marriage material--he was just a whoremonger slutty vain man with a big ego. For you to have wanted him, there must have been something inside you that connected with this manwhore. Its hard to see into your own motives.

My boyfriend and I were discussing our future, beliefs, etc. And he said "I do think men have more control in marriage, but if he truly loves her, he will do everything to make her happy, and she will do the same for him." His views are fairly modern and align with mine for the most part, but he also has some traditional views, like the husband should always be strong and take care of his wife, and the wife's respect for him is super important. He's always encouraging me to do the best I can in school and get the best job that I can and etc, so I don't feel oppressed or anything but we come from two different cultures and sometimes it scares me if we don't see exactly eye to eye on something. I fear that it will come back to haunt us. He never said anything that I very strongly disagree with, but sometimes I felt a little uncomfortable because it felt a little 1950s. We want to get married in the future, so do you think this is something to be concerned over, or am I just overthinking? Are these beliefs fairly normal for men?

I know it's sad situation this often happens some husbands are weak. Some women are Homewrecker knowingly they wreck home. When they know his married with children I hope karma bite them like a snake. His not only hurting his wife his also hurting his children as well. A husband is not suppose to go out with random women because his also bringing STD to his home.

So, on Friday my father's funeral takes place. The day before those attending from out of town arrive at the local airport. My wife & I live over an hour's drive (if done on a weekend) from my parents home which inst to far from the airport that my best friend is flying into. I told my wife i need to pick him up tomorrow, but the traffic usually sucks big time during the am weekday commute - when he arrives (at 10). So, basically assume 2 hours instead of just one to get to the airport from our house. The wife does not want to leave late tonight - avoiding the drive. Instead she wants me to go "early" in the am Thursday, and have my friend get uber or a cab - or she is not going to my dads service. unreal. Not something i need right now. What am i supposed to tell my friend? Any thoughts?

My husband is upset that I don't have a personal relationship with his mom and family he asked why I never check up on them or call them I don't dislike them or have any hard feelings towards them I respect them as his family but I don't understand why I should reach out to get to know them personally I mean after all I didn't marry them I care about my husband and my relationship with him not his family and we don't have any kids so it's kinda awkward forme just to call his mom am I wrong???

To start with, we were married 10/14/17. Everything was fine, until we got into an argument over the idea that I pushed we wait to have a baby. (We had previously agreed my birth control would come out in october, but now I want to postpone to May when I graduate) He was very hurt, and betrayed that I made the decision alone, and held his hopes up the entire engagement(one year long). He said he understood my reasoning, but I could sense that he sort of resented me for it. Fastforward, and our arguing increases, (finances, home remodel, the normal small stuff), but at the end of the day, I thought we were both happy. I could tell he was becoming more distant, but I attributed that to him working 7 12s and being exhausted. I noticed over the course of last week, that the affection had dwindled to nothing, and that he hadn't really even looked at me the three days prior. Sunday we talked, and he told me how miserable he was, and that he wanted a divorce because he was unhappy. I asked what had happened, and he said he had lost the infatuation(did I spell that right?) that he had once had for me. I asked if he still loved me, and he said yes. I told him I wanted to try to work it out, but he said he was afraid things would be good for a little while, and then he would become unhappy with me because he wasnt sure if he could find the desire again. He promised he would try though, and so the next day began.

I have been Married for a little over year. I know I am not perfect and I say things I shouldn't. we are going through a rough spot in our marriage. he had severe depression this time though he gained feeling for another girl he works with. I called him out on it and he admitted to me that he had feelings for her but nothing happened and nothing will happen that he knows he loves me and wants to be with me. I was crushed and still hurting now about it. I want to move forward with him but I don't know how him and this girl remain friends and text all the time. if I say something i am over reacting and the bad guy. if i am to to text him as much as she does he gets annoyed with me. I know he tells me i am beautiful and that he wants to start a family with me but were having trouble conceiving. he sweet to me and understanding but at the same time I cant get over that he is trying to get rid of feelings for this girl he never did this before all the texting with her drives me crazy and I question everything in my head and i know i trust him he never has done anything to show me not to but why do i feel this way? what can i do to just move on and enjoy life with him and not be stressed? am I just over reacting because he was honest and told me and told me he wanted to be with me? my inner battle is just eating at me from how i should and shouldn't feel and how to make my marriage stronger and be the only woman in my husband life. any advice would be great

Like if you have done it 10 times after the wedding.... or maybe after a year.... would you get bored having sex with your spouse? if YES, what is the cause? no lust anymore... ????

Occasionally we will roast each other and I found out last night I take it too far sometimes. He's very self conscious about his weight (he's small but hasn't always been) and like sometimes out of love I'll jump on him, touch his chest, and be like "these ma titties or I'll grab on to the little bit of fat he has and squeeze it (not hard but like out of love and ****, I just love touching him). There was also one time I handed him a candle I couldn't light but he could (he has small hands) and said "they come in handy". Anyways he had a really bad day the other night and we were outside smoking a cigarette. I was on tumblr and saw a picture of some black dude and commented on his hair and said that I liked it. He got mad and went inside. I followed him to the room and tried to consult him about it. He told me that I deserve better. I told him I love him and that it wasn't true then proceed to ask why felt that way and he said cause he's ugly and has too many flaws. I told him he's not (I tell him he's beautiful and handsome all the time) and that I love him just the way he is. So now idk what to do. I love him to death and it pains me that I hurt he's feelings. I didn't know he was taking it that way, to me it was all just for kicks and giggles. he's convinced that he's unattractive and that he's worthless and that I deserve better. Help me please I know mentally ill people think differently so I don't know how to approach him. I don't wanna lose him. He's all I have.