So today me and my friends ditched school to go to the mall. While we were there, one of the guys needed to tie his shoes. As a joke, I kicked him in his crotch, bent over, and farted in his face. He's not talking to me anymore. What did I do?

I'm a nice and quiet person. If someone asks me for help on an assignment or a pencil, I'll gladly help them. But nobody talks to me about anything besides that. They never ask how my day is going, what I did this weekend, or just any other thing teens usually talk about(movies, games, music, and etc.) I think I'm the loneliest kid at school. Everyone else has at least one friend, except me. I don't have any. Why doesn't anyone ever talk to me? And I don't want to just approach them because I'm shy. I'm in high school.

So in French class I literally dont know anyone and everyone knows each so other so im pretty much quiet, and im stuck with these rude girls who are glaring and laughing at me for no reason and talk crap about me for no reason just because they saw some guys hit on me for no reason and the teacher literally has to make them talk to me when we have to do discussion I just want to skip that class, all my friends take spanish so im stuck all alone I hate it so much :(

Recently one of them called and I said to call me up in an hour or so since I was busy. He never called so I checked up on him to see what's up he never answered. The next day his brother called and asked me for money he could loan for weed, I couldn't give him any. We used to be closer when I was smoking now Im clean and sober and not so much. We've knew eachother since 2006 are we getting tired of eachother? We barley speak or hang out anymore. And they only reach out when in need of something.. Should I move on?

I have this one 'friend' who always enjoys insulting me to boost her low-self esteem. Everyday I have to cope with her calling me stupid or something else. I've tried to put up with it but now I just can't take it. She talked bad about me and a former friend of mine so I told the friend what she said about her. Now my 'friend' is mad at me for telling the other girl what I said about her. She's extremely hypocritical and told me I'm the immature one for telling on her. Sometimes I feel the world would be a better place if she didn't exist. Long story short, I need new friends. The only group I have is her and a few other people. I'm really desperate for new friends. The only reason I still talk to her is because I have nobody else to sit with. I have a sister who's a senior and I decided to sit with her and her friends today but we have nothing to talk about because we're not in the same grade. How should I make new friends??

I'm about 150lbs at 5'8.5. He's like 275 at about 5'10. He thinks he's so much better than me because he says he can deadlift 350lbs. He's all like "I would outlift you any day". No sh*t. You're twice my size what do you expect? He says I can only lift 50lbs (which I can actually deadlift a solid 225lbs) he's never seen me lift but he's so sure of himself. He thinks that just because he's big that means he can fight. He doesn't have the balls to beat me up. I'm a hell of a lot quicker than him, I can promise you that, AND I train on my heavy bag every day. He makes these assumptions that I'm such a weakling because I was small in gradeschool (I was only 5'2 and like 120lbs in 8th grade. We're currently HS sophomores. Do you think I could win in a fight against him?

hello everyone! there is this girl in my class and she is so nice to me. like she tries talking to me, says hi to me when i get in the class, helps me with my work. she even stayed in the class to help me with my work even though she could have left early. i think she is really nice and i want be friends with her. but i dont want to be in a relationship with her or anyone, just want to make friends. unfortunately i have waited too long. tommorrow is the last day of class and we have to take a test. so the only shot to talk to her is after the class, being lucky if we both finish at the sane time. questiin is what exactly do i say "anyway i think you are really nice, can we be friends?" if she says sure then ask for her number? is that good to say or not???

He told me if he knew what I was like when he first met me, that he never would've liked me at all or go out with me. We've been fighting a lot recently and we've been together for 3 y

I do swimming twice a week, and lately I dicoved this boy staring at me. (Usually around the butt area) He is at least 3 year older than me and a foot and a half taller. One time I heard him talking to his "friend" (To my amazement he has friends). He was saying rude things (calling me fat, short, ect.) At the same time though, he was telling his friend that he wanted to touch me. After that swim practice I was sitting outside texting my friend. He walked over and stopped a few feet away from me. He peered into my phone screen. I was so terrified. This week he was swimming in the lane I usually swim in. I had to go to the next lane over. When we all got out to do dives, he switched over to my lane, right behind me. I didnt want to have to get into a diving position right in front of him so I went to hide in the bathroom. So I was wondering does anyone know how to stop this? I am too embarised to talk to anyone's face, so I need you, mighty internet! But seriously I am tired of this and it makes me terrified.

My friend and I have been having problems about something for like three weeks now and she is completely crossing the line now. She invited herself over to my house twice and so I told her that I was upset that she did that and I also expressed my feelings to her about her nonstop cussing about everything and so she said sorry countless times. Then everyday for the next three or four days she asked if I hated her and why I had sat with someone els at lunch, I told her nothing was erong and there really wasnt, but she still thought I hated her and so I began getting upset but then put it all behind me and hopes that she did too becuse I hate fighting and arguing with people. My other friends noticed that she had been avoiding me so they asked her what was wrong and she said that I had no right time to be mad that she cussed and ivites herself over to my house. Now she is making fun of my religion and me believing the word of God. I an getting very very offended and she also talks to people about me in bad ways behind my back...can she get into trouble because all of this happened at school?

I wasn't actually at the party, but I heard that the woman was completely wasted, nearly unconcious, and my friend took a swing....

I have been suffering from CRPS and its very severe. Im only 15 years old. I was doing so well in school ive been winnig the best grades award for alot of year. Last week I failed a math test from being absent alot with appointments and also I started physio and its causing me extreme pain even more than before form my CRPS so I have a hard time concentrating. This week I failed a history test but the teacher said he could give me another chance to try and pass it. When my mom got a call from the school each time was seperate to tell her I had failed she could not believe it she thought it was a mistake. She was very dissapointed in me because she knows I can do better. The second call she got her reaction wasshe was very dissapointed and she didnt understand why all of a sundden im falling and she was extremely mad at me. I have so much pressure on me I dont know how I deal with it and my friends either. Now that ive dissapointed her countless times before and now for this week and last week and I cant deal with it anymore I feel like a failure, im tired of seing myself hurt her. I just cant see it anymore it breaks my heart. I honestly dont know what happend during those tests I even studied super hard. I just dont know what to do anymore..... I just dont want to be here no more. I create too much drama, dissapointment and conflicts. I hate myself, I already lost all my self confidance and im just ready to be done with life.In one way I want to end it but in other way I just feel like I would causeven more drama in my family. My entire family is already dissapointed in me and im waiting till my mom gets home to see what punishment I will get for failing. She will probably want to meet the teacher and the teacher will probably say a bunch of bullshit to try and justify why me failing was my fault and not his teachings fault. Im also afraid to have a conversation with my mom about it because then it makes me feel even more guilty and I cant stopcrying and self harming but not the type where you cut yourself. What should I do? or how should I deal with the situation? Im at a loss..... Whats wrong with me? what should I do at this point?

My friend and I only hang out once or twice a year. I tried asking her to hang out several times she always said she's busy. Once I asked her to hang out and she said she wanted to stay home. However I found out she went out with another friend of hers that night. I confronted her about it and she said her friend dragged her out of the house. I asked her THREE times what our friendship is based on through text (since we don't hang out) but she ignored my text. But she texted me back on other stuff. I asked her several times how she feels about me as a friend but she also ignored it. She complains when my crush hasn't made an effort to come see me (I haven't made an effort either) but when I asked her where's her effort she ignored the text. I asked her to hang out she ignored the text. She claims she wants me around when we text each other and we were Facebook friends but I don't feel she wants to hang out with me. Do you consider this a fake friend?

I was supposed to go back after school to see my super strict and unreasonable drama teacher, but it completely slipped my mind and I went home as usual. When I go back to school tomorrow, what should I say to him? Like excuses. If I tell the truth then he ll keep me back after school even longer, because he doesn t like me and I have absolutely no idea why. I know this is probably one of the most stupid, petty things, but he s casting a play and I ll get a really terrible part if he thinks I m unreliable. If you answer this, then thank you soooo much xx

"It's okay. life doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be lived"

So my ex best friend thinks that I'm the one to blame in the situation when it's really her fault so here's how it all started me and my ex best friend always used to go to the Gym together then out of nowhere she stopped going and hanging out with me I have no clue why she did that I haven't done anything wrong but be nice to her then one day she posted she was at the Gym and I texted her saying "No invite"? And she was like you never text me to go to the Gym anymore and so on but I always used to ask her but I stopped because she kept giving me the same excuse over and over so I stopped inviting her for a while and now she is making me seem like the bad person in the situation So I really need help and advice what should I do?

We are taking midterms this week. We aren't allowed to talk or walk around or use laptops, tablets, or phones. I've read every book in my house that interests me. Any ideas on what to do?

I am friends with a some of the popular kids in my middle school, but whenever I see them in the hall they only sometimes say hi or when I am near them in the hall they usually wait for a different friend to walk with and they never ask to sit next to me in class. I just want to know how to become one of their best friends. They are popular so it would be harder than someone else that only has a few friends. Also how could I make more friends with the popular kids because i think that matters to them on how they choose their best friends. Especially when most of the popular kids aren't even in my classes. How could I make friends with them then? So my two questions are: How could I become better friends with the popular kids in my middle school? And How could I become friends with more popular kids in my school especially when they are not in any of my classes? Thanks. What I am saying is that I am friends with popular kids. I just want to know how to become BETTER friends with them, not change. And for my other question, how to become friends with more popular kids when they don't have classes with me or we haven't had a chance to talk in class, I just want to know how I could interact with them in some way to talk to them when we have never talked before. I do not want to change myself and make fake friends. Fake friends are terrible and just bring drama.

My ex best friend tries blaming me for the little disagreement we had and tries to be the victim of the situation?

So basically when he's just with me he treats me kindly but when he's with his other friends and me he treats me like trash and insults me and acts popular I hate popularity it destroys people what do I do

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So way earlier this year I went with my male friends to Buffalo Wild Wings, I was the only girl that day our other friends couldn t make it. So earlier while we walked around the mall one of our friend talks about him and his girl at the time doing anal; this led the boys to not let it go and rowdily talk about it through the duration of us eating. It made the lady from the couple next to us uncomfortable and I felt bad, I wasn t in on the convo I m not really bothered by stuff like what they spoke of. I just still feel bad for making people around us uncomfortable. Side note they didn t speak ill of the girl they were only going on about the act he did.they just wouldn t let it die down. Though we did talk about other things. Future reference how do I shut them down or fully change the topic?

We all sit at lunch together. Me, and about 6 other friends. Theyre cool people, but the thing is, I started realizing at lunch all we talk about is grades. Who got the highest grade on an algebra test, who needs the questions for a calculus test, who has the highest GPA, who's PSAT score is what. Today, they started bullying up on me. We're sophomores and I got a secretly got an 1130 on my PSAT. I've been lying saying I got a 1250 just so they wouldn't bombard me with questions like "you're so dumb" "wow how" and even though I said I got a 1250 they still do."I got a 1490 you're so dumb wow idiot" it's just so annoying. I don't want to spend my relaxing period (lunch) like this all the time. I get that school is important and grades are, and I try my best. I don't have all A's but I have had a majority of A's in my classes (all honors/AP) since 9th grade. My GPA is about a 4.3 when my maximum is a 4.5 if I got all A's. Yet because of my GPA I'm labeled as stupid I'm sorry for ranting. Point is, I'm planning on going to a new table. I can't handle their constant obsessions with numbers, it constantly drives me insane. I want to sit at a new table to 1. relieve my stress on grades/GPA/college, which is all we talk about 2. find positive people to improve my outlook on life 3. find new friends &get out of this friend group that i'm stuck in. I've joined the highschool band this year and am trying to make new friends in it. Is this a good move for me? What else should I do? thanks a lot people. my life sucks really, i have friends but I dont have any true friends that will stick with me. i thought I did but all these friends do is hop on the bandwagon and stick with what most people believe. If 2 people are ganging up on me making fun of my test scores, another will. then another, all the time and it's so annoying

Just a general question I'm curious about. How much influence does a friend group have on you?

I went through a pretty rough break up recently and it's really taken it's toll on me. My brother hangs out and talks to my ex consistently and I don't want to break that friendship because he struggles with his own depression and I want him to be able to talk to someone. Not to mention my ex has some pretty gnarly issues as well. They make each other happy and they're good friends to each other. But it's left me feeling like if I'm not out with people or doing something, I have the worse life than my brother. And I hate feeling like I need to compete with my brother because he can talk to my ex and I can't. I don't want their friendship to end. I just want to stop caring that they are. How do I do that?

I have alot of friends but they ALL talk about me behind my back. They all talk about how im ugly and laugh behind my back but they come to me the next day all nice like they never said that. I always find out that theyre talking about me and its always the same thing. I even saw one of my friends talking with another person laughing at me but he didnt think i saw him.Then another friend made fun of me around the whole school almost everyday and comes up to me like he doesnt do that but i see him do it. I dont understand why they hang with me if they think im so unattractive. i have some ppl and family tell me that some of my friends talk about me behind my back because they are friends with my friends as well i overhear my friends conversations with THEIR friends

i have an ad on a dating site and this man had contacted me that did not particularly interest me so i was basically messaging him back to be polite (like i am with everyone that messages me on there). anyway..he repeatedly messaged me so I politefully responded back a few days later since i had not been on there for that time and he messaged me back saying that he appreciates my response and wishes me the best of luck but he met someone and wants to pursue things with her without distractions..meanwhile i ONLY messaged him to be polite. I also noticed that he still has a profile on there..so if he really met someone that he is that interested in why does he still have a profile up?? I even told him that he might want to take it down if he wants to be respectful of her..anyway, my question is..did he just reject me? i dont understand why he messaged me to begin with just to say that? any thoughts..and will choose a best answer.

I'm 15 and my best friend is 19. I called her the other night. (both female) and I called her last night when I knew she would be in her dorm and told her how much she meant to me and I cried and cried and cried....describing how much she means to me and how much she helps me with my struggles even when she doesn't realize she's helping. She told me how much it hurts her heart when she hears someone she deeply loves talk down on herself (me) and she started crying and it was so sad. What do you think really made her cry and such being that she is 3 years older than me (I'm about to turn 16) she even told me that if she wishes she could drive home from college that night just to give me a hug and she promised that when she comes back for Christmas break she'll come see me at school (she graduated this past year). so what to you think I mean to her exactly? Why do you think she cried so hard? Any similar stories? My thoughts on why she was crying is like I said she told me it hurts her heart to see someone she cares so deeply about hurting- I just need other opinions. And no I didn't forget to ask her about anything- we talked about her college finals and tests and such and when she's coming home and all sorts of things this was just one piece of a big conversation:)

I'm asking for a friend.

I was trying to talk to my crush but this other girl thought I was talkin to her because last semester i had a group project with her. Now I'm stuck siting with her each class talking to her, starring at the back of my crushes head. Is it rude to just ditch this girl and sit with my crush?? She's so gorgeous! We have never spoken and I think she thinks I like this girl...

I haven't made any friends in college. I've lived on campus and worked on campus for 3 years. I still don't know anyone and I have zero friends. Never got invited to a party or anything. I feel like I really tried my best to meet people but it just wasn't enough. I have less than a year left and I've given up on making friends. I'm just a reject here. So I'm feeling like I'll regret not having friends. Virtually everyone says that friends in college are extremely important. Everyone says that friends make college infinitely more fun. Everyone says that they teach you how to function in the real world and everyone says that you'll regret not making friends. Everyone says that if you don't make friends, you'll struggle to form healthy relationships with people. Everyone says that if you don't make friends in college, you won't have any friends for the rest of your life. There is just so much pressure to make friends, but I can't do it. What do you think? Will I regret it?

I just want a bestfriend. a few years ago i think one of my old friend (we werent close tho, we just knew each other for a long time) did things that only now i realize that she did not have a best friend either and is kinda depressed. looking back on how stupid i was and how i didn't realize that the best friend i want could be this person, now its too late, cuz she already got someone and they literally spend every second together. i cant even talk to her. there is absolutely nothing i can do. i cant make new friends because there is no one in my tiny school who i can be friends with. being an adult is so awkward and just horrible i want to make the most out of my years still as a kid.

My account was logged into my friends phone and her older sister got onto it and went onto my Instagram and read all my unopened dms and liked random peoples pictures. She spreads rumours about me, pushes me when she sees me and has made people hate me by making stuff up. How should I react?

I'm not even sure what I'm trying to ask other than your opinion because I'm at a loss for what to tell my best friend. Here's the story: she dated a convicted rapist, left him for a bit to sleep with two twin brothers, told the wrong brother he was the dad even though she knew otherwise. Drank thru pregnancy, etc. She had one of the twins' baby and then went back to the rapist. He broke up with her and she continued to try and go around him, while drunk w/ baby, which got baby taken away. Then she dated someone she knew was violent and angry. Purposefully tried to have another baby with him and succeeded. The relationship was abusive, they are both poor and on welfare, she refuses to change her lifestyle. Only cares about boys and smoking weed. Second baby was taken because she kept going back to him, etc. And now she's still trying to go back to him even though he's trying to stay away from her to receive much needed mental health help. What the hell do i tell this girl? She's making so many bad choices and I don't know if I can keep pretending everything she did was okay. I get that she's a victim too but how do I get her to stop chasing men and chase after her goals - to get her kids back and on her feet. Advice? Opinions? Don't hold back.

I'm in middle schools and there's this guy in the grade above me who just annoys me. I am pretty sure it's just because he's racist, I'm Indian and he only ever does this with Indians. He is never punished though so when he takes it too far talking about things in my personal life I act out, usually by punching him in the jaw, so satisfying that punch. But now I'm usually the one to get in trouble and he still does it, what do I do to stop him or at least be able to tolerate him.

I'm one of those people who try to act good a lot but gets stuck in bad situations all the time. It used to be because of the people I hung out with, they brought too much drama around me, I decided to not hang out with them as much and they naturally stopped being friends with me, but now the vice principal has had to meet me all the time for their issues and I look like a bad guy in each meeting. A year goes by and I'm stuck on the bus and I am sitting behind two people punching each other for some reason. One guy was smaller so I thought it was an actual fight, I tried to stop him and I supposedly went too far, I got written up and put in an in school detention and got banned from the bus. Now whenever I do something small like bump into someone in gym and cause them to get hurt I'm the bad guy, it's annoying me now and I don't want to tell her because I've tried before. She consistently blames me and sticks me with punishments I don't think I really deserve. What do I do?

Listen. Um it's kinda hard to talk about but I'm 15 and my name is Dylan and a couple months ago a close personal friend of mine that was a junior named Payton who was 16 committed suicide. I've known him since I was 5 and this really struck me hard. I live about two minutes from him via bike and for any gamers when I got the news I was listening to that song at the end of portal 2 the sentry symphony or whatever and now whenever I hear that song I cry. I just don't know what to do. This happened at the end of my freshman year and I'm a softmore now. I spend every night thinking about him in my bed. This is someone who I wanted to be like. In fact the only reason I took some difficult classes is because he told me I could do it. I just want him back but I know that will never happen. And the thing that bugs me most is that I was home when he did it. I could have been there but I wasn't. I just want to be able to live my life without feeling like there is a unfillable hole in me. I still have his cell number in my phone and I can't delete that ya know. He used to carry a fourth grade pic of me in his wallet and call me his son at school. I just don't know what to do!

I barely know this girl she keeps looking at me like she is going to kill me before she used to smile at me. She even knows my name what did I do..? when i see her its in the hallway since i have no classes with her, and I know one of her friends.. thats it

A friend of mine. I'm not too fawend of anymore, certain things went down that I'm just not going to explain. Anyway. About a year ago i basically told him I don't want to be friends anymore. A couple months ago i saw him at the store and told him feel free to text me because i I felt bad. I guess he took that as an invitation to hangout. I felt obligated so I did. It was terrible. For me at least. Anyway. Sense than we've been texting. Well he's been texting me. I've just been replying with very vage responses hoping he'd take the hint im not interested. Our conversation go something like, him:sup me:nm you? Him: just chilling. Me: cool. He's always the one to text first. After about a week of silence he sends a text saying, wanna hangout sometime? We hadn't hung out for a couple months. My response was sure. Basically every week or so he texts me things like, hi, sup, or hey. I feel bad, but I really don't want to be friends with him.

Let's call her "Tessa", I known her for 8 years we have always been good friends we are in year 11, and then one time after school i caught up to her and said hi and then her friends came and she just ignored me then said she would wait for me and she basically ditched me for no reason and she even told them she only hangs out with me when she has no one else to talk to and said im annoying, i never talk about her behind her back and it hurt me real back what do i do? Loved all the answers everyone i gave all of you a thumbs up but sadly i can only give one best answer thanks all! :)

2 months had passed and when I saw him stare at me 2 Sundays in a row in church I texted him he said wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me and wi should know why it won't work. He iinsulted my mom 's dress and I Insulted his mom's back a bit harsher. It's been almost 3 months and he constantly stares at me in church said hi and smiled a couple weeks ago and smiled last week. He was looking and staring again this week. What is he trying to do. Also, he had his dating site open for 2 months, sunday he closed it I was wondering if he's foud someone but why would he be staring at me on Sunday if he did..

I am perfectly fine with having no friends and actually welcome it. I have some co-workers who I could easily be friends with, we laugh together, etc. But I am honestly too lazy to always worry about other people or to hang out with them. I rather just do nothing and have no friends than to try to fake having a friend(s), who I don't genuinely like. The problem is I rarely come across people I genuinely like, but at the same time I don't mind that cuz I like being alone, espcially when I'm at home. Im perfectly fine with sitting at home the majority of the day, just playing video-games, watching TV, surfing internet, etc. I don't feel like a loser and don't want friends. I'm also lazy AF, that may be why.

I am in middle school and I don't want what frineds to call me Gay, which I am not. What should I do I need help? P.S. the most of the school thinks I am Gay. Please answer Asap

In 9th grade this girl and i liked each other so we "went out". Surprisingly we got pretty close and i regarded her as one of my closest friends as well as my girlfriend. Out of nowhere she started to not talk to me so we broke up in march/april 2016. Turns out shes known for being kinda two faced.That was the last time we talked until april 2017(10th grade) when she contacted me out of nowhere and asked me about something. We texted for a few hours and we never talked again for a few months. Then in the beginning of 11th grade we have three classes together. We talked a few times and we started a lot and we both ended up liking each other again. We went out for 10 days and i said something poorly worded and she took it completely wrong and put words my mouth and we had a big verbal fight and broke up. That was around two months ago. Weve been strictly friends since then but weve talked every day in class. During class we were talking and laughing like usual and then she went and did her work. When we left the class room i tried to talk to her in the hall like we always do and she yelled in the middle of the hallway (twice) for me to back off when i hadnt even done anything. That was friday and now its tuesday and she has talked to all her friends except me. Do you people think she is nutty or what because im lost on what i should do.