Family: Question: I don't want to live with my mom?

Question: I don't want to live with my mom?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 01:58 PM PST

She always yells at me and she's saying she's to poor to even afford the house so she's selling it and she's telling me she's going to move into a one bedroom apartment and live with a roommate with me.. isn't that such a bad influence plus my dad is really rich and he lives in florida and it would be a better influence to live with him but I can't unless my mom signs the papers but she won't, and it's literally so depressing living with her she can't afford me anything I visit my dad like once a month and buys me food clothes and my new iPhone she can't even buy clothes for me. I bet she can't even afford Christmas presents for me. So my question is is there any possible way that I can move in with my dad? Do I need her signature or what.:( And btw my dad wants me to live with him also but she won't sign me over.

Question: Caught my dad about to watch porn?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 01:34 PM PST

I'm 17 and I walked in my dad about to play porn in the living room on the couch next to our christmas tree. This isn't the first time I've caught his porn on our tv or computers. When I was a little kid I accidentally clicked a folder on the desktop of our family computer and a bunch of naked women showed up. Other times I would come home from school and it was accidentally left on the tv. My parents have fought about sex my entire life and he's left out toys or things he wants to use to spice things up or whatever. One time he took me lingerie shopping for her. Anyway it has bothered me and disgusted me my whole life. Like I'm messed up by it. I don't know if I'm over reacting, but it really makes me uncomfortable and I don't want to be around him. I feel like it's not normal for a daughter to come face to face with her dad's porn/sex obsession so often and feel like he doesn't even try or think to keep it secret. I mean when I was 6 and I opened up that folder it was just out there on the desktop. Who lets their 6 year old unsupervised on the computer where their porn folder is so easily accessible? This sort of felt like the last straw. He didn't know I was coming home from school early and didn't hear me come in, but just knowing he was about to do it on the couch made me realize that he's done it there before which grosses me out. It sucks because I know this could ruin christmas because I'm upset about it, but I can't help the way I feel. Any advice or help?

Question: Hand-fed a child for the first time, i'm so fond of him now, what to do?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 01:13 PM PST

I recently got to babysit a child for the first time. He lives in my neighborhood, and is kinda close to my family. He gives us a visit sometimes, and plays games on my phone etc. It wasn't that much of a babysitting, but he was hungry and likes to be hand fed which I had to do, as he was close to me. Idk, I'm just so much fond of him after that... I dont even have a lil sibling of my own which I always wanted. I'm an only child (22 right now). I'm feeling sad and missing him badly now that he is away, doing normal routine things w/o me... He is like 5 or 6 y/o... and why is that I feel this nurturing bond towards him? :/ Just wanting to take care of him, protecting and snuggling him all of a sudden? Is it normal?

Question: Boyfriend on drugs?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 12:47 PM PST

my boyfriend of one year is 16, he moved to a really bad part of town a few months ago and has a really bad friend group. his dad has been doing drugs his whole life and now is getting my boyfriend into them as well. his dad is buying them every night and does them with my boyfriend. they try something different every night. first it was weed and alcohol and then ecstasy, molly, acid and shrooms. his dad does cocaine in front of him as well. my boyfriend doesn't see anything wrong with doing the drugs for fun. but when he does them with his dad and all his friends he's a total different person. his mom won't take custody and he won't leave his dad. he is now dealing drugs as well and has gotten hurt a few times and still won't realize what he's doing is wrong. if i try to get him away from that house and from his dad he gets mad. he was never like that before he moved to this town. now he's never without his friends and never not high or on some kind of drugs. idk what to do because he won't realize what he's doing but it's hurting him and our relationship and i'm scared. please give me suggestions.

Question: Do you know any single mother who leaves her kid at Daycare?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 12:45 PM PST

If yes what job does she do? I am asking this because Daycare is expensive. And I am referring to cases where the father is compeletely out of the picture.

Question: How do I convince my parents to let me live with my best friend?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 12:42 PM PST

I'm 17 and I want to live with my best friend. I made a list on reasons why I should live with her I have 20 things on the list right now and my list is gradually growing. I'm really close to her and I'm not close to my parents. I just live with my mom and step-dad and that's it. I asked both my mom and my step-dad they say no and my dad will say no also. My dad will say I could live with him but I don't want to and I'm not close to him either. When my mom and step-dad said no I was in tears and I feel like she will take care of me better than anyone in my family. Please help me with this

Question: I'm going to church today and last week I caught my little 15 y/o sister on her phone. What should I do? Should I take it?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 12:21 PM PST

I'm her 37 y/o brother. I'm her legal guardian and I pay for it so it's technically my phone. What should I do??

Question: My spider ran away. Where should I look for him?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 12:07 PM PST

I loved him very much and he is about the size of a quarter but he ran away when I took him out to give him so water.

Question: Do you have a parent you've always been scared of cause they abused you in some way?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 11:04 AM PST

I'm adult still didn't get over it

Question: What should I choose, moving a year in London or staying home? (Read more)?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 10:56 AM PST

I'm starting high school, and my parents pitched an idea to move to London for a year. I don't want to leave my friends or home, but the experience would me amazing. They let me know that if I'm not on board with the idea we would stay home. I want to feel grateful for the opportunity but I don't want to leave. What should I do?

Question: Girls mature advice please?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 10:49 AM PST

I recently re-connected with my high school sweetheart online. We are now 24. We flirted and talked about us getting back but that was it. I invited her multiple times to dates and she said she has been busy. So no dates. I continued with my life. I then began to flirt/like other girls pics online. These girls some i know and some i don't. The pics i liked would be of them being half naked/in bikini pics. My ex gf confronted me about it and i thought it was a joke. I continued to like pics and now she blocked me. I keep sending her txts and she's not responding. I'm sure it's over social media again except she had enough. My question is do you think she's in the right? as in we're not even together officially and she's already mad wtf. What kind of girl who "likes" you will block you? should i continue to chase her or leave her alone?

Question: My brother woke up drunk and puking. he is an alcoholic. Do I need to call our parents (he is 26 and I am 22)?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 10:00 AM PST

Question: My mother resents that I'm spending part of Christmas with my Dad's family (Dad is deceased). How do I calm her anger so not to be anxious?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 10:00 AM PST

She was divorced from my Dad and when he died she moved her resentment down to his surviving family members. She resents that I am going for 2 hours over to their afternoon brunch. I will be with her and her family the rest of Christmas. She wrecked last year cause of it. She makes me nervous when she gets mad which is why I care. She hates her ex-husband with a burning passion and moved it to his siblings when he died. I am the pawn she has always used to get back at him or not his family. Please advise. I know I can go where I want as I am 26 but that doesn't mean I am not going to be anxious cause of her (my mother). Lying and saying I am going for a hike or something won't work, tried that last year and she wanted to come. She knows through my lies when I am seeing people she resents. She is a resentful person who hasn't spoken to her own brother in 6 years.

Question: My Dad has no compassion on me when I am anxious or depressed. How do I teach him compassion?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 09:56 AM PST

Like Christmas makes me anxious cause my parents sucked me into family disputes when I was a kid and so now Christmas is a holiday that represents rejection and anxiety. How do I teach my Dad compassion? I am 22 and male.

Question: Is a relationships abusive if the abuse is only occasional, rather than daily?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 09:56 AM PST

My dad's always had anger management issues, and over the years has flown off the wall at even the slightest infraction. He criticizes my appearance frequently and tells me I smell, which makes me extremely insecure, despite my friends and other family members all telling me I look and smell fine. He sometimes gives me backhanded compliments ("You look nice...for once...") and then gets extremely angry when I tell him not to insult me like that. Over the years he's called me a slut (when I was 10), blamed me for his temporary separation from my mom ("We wouldn't be having marital problems if it weren't for you," "You're tearing this family apart"), and very rarely apologizes for his actions. He always denies any wrongdoing on his part. The problem is is that this sort of thing doesn't happen daily (it's very cyclical), and he's not a terrible person to be around when he's in a normal mood. How do I know if this situation is abusive vs. occasional anger from him that is genuinely my fault?

Question: What do you call a controlling mother who only do things in the house the way SHE want's it and dont bother listining to others in the house?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 09:48 AM PST

She only care about her own feelings, and only wants to do things her way if not she gets angry starts yelling and wants to fight. :/

Question: What does this situation sound like to you?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 09:23 AM PST

I'm 23 years old & I live with my mother & two little sisters (14 & 4). Since I've been here I've been helping out by taking care of my youngest sister while my mother is at work during the day(she works from home) & even helping around the house (cooking cleaning etc.) At times my mother & I don't see eye to eye at everything. She complains about my commute to work ( it's 40-45 mins from home & I work night shifts) I am also trying to enroll into school but she doesn't believe that I can work & go to school at the same time (but I think different). I'm always in the house I don't go out or party as much (my mother has gone out more times than me since being here) the way I see it is that she doesn't want me to live for me she just wants to limit me & not allow me to be independent. Recently she told me that she picked up another job & she was going to try to work a schedule that interferes with my work schedule. So when I asked about me & work she told me "just chill on working I have to work & you working is just an option." I find that to be untrue because half of my check is dedicated to utilities groceries or any other needs in the house. I love my mother.. I love my family dearly but what does this sound like to you?

Question: Why do people lie to kids about Santa Claus?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 09:17 AM PST

Why do people tell kids that a fat immortal man living in the North Pole with flying reindeers and a red nosed one that shoots infrared lights that gives all kids around the globe presents in one night exists? Is it tradition? Vengeance? Why the lies?

Question: Do you think he wants to break the ice?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 09:03 AM PST

2 months had passed and when I saw him stare at me 2 Sundays in a row in church I texted him he said wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me and wi should know why it won't work. He iinsulted my mom 's dress and I Insulted his mom's back a bit harsher. It's been almost 3 months and he constantly stares at me in church said hi and smiled a couple weeks ago and smiled last week. He was looking and staring again this week. What is he trying to do. Also, he had his dating site open for 2 months, sunday he closed it I was wondering if he's foud someone but why would he be staring at me on Sunday if he did..

Question: Why does my second oldest nephew (my oldest sisters son) just stare and not say anything?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 08:07 AM PST

he acts the way he does like a brat and doesn't listen when I tell him something bc my sister doesn't say anything to him. plus I'm helping taking the kids to school in the morning bc my sis hasn't gotten her car fixed yet (I hope she does) and every morning in the car my nephew has a candy cane in his mouth and he puts his fingers in his mouth and touches the car but my sis says it's not sticky and yes it is. She's just saying that bc it's not her car. But I don't want anyone eating in my car and he's still eating candy canes in the car and it's annoying and no one tells him anything and he's a brat.

Question: My parents ignore me when I am depressed or anxious. Where would I find someone who has compassion?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 07:38 AM PST

My Dad is especially ignorant.

Question: Mom doesn’t want to buy me anything and wants all my money?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 07:32 AM PST

I get around 50 dollars every month to buy things that I want. Whenever I ask my mom really nicely if she would pay part of what I want (things are pretty expensive where I live) or as I'm a foodie, but me a sandwich or brownie she yells at me, argues and even fights. She asks me why do I keep on saving my pocket money? Why don't I give all of it to her and then ask her for stuff. As mentioned above, my parents fulfill my basic need and my mom sometimes makes me pay for some of them too without my dad knowing. She knows that I suppress my wants and save the money instead. The point is why does she be so harsh with me and fight so much when I just ask for chocolate milk or a muffin or sandwich? FYI, she even possessed a huge amount of money that I inherited from my grandparents and says that it was hers and dads. Even dad says that part of it is his and the rest is mine.

Question: Girls am i wrong for this?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 07:31 AM PST

I recently re-connected with my high school sweetheart online. We are now 24. We flirted and talked about us getting back but that was it. I invited her multiple times to dates and she said she has been busy. So no dates. I continued with my life. I then began to flirt/like other girls pics online. These girls some i know and some i don't. The pics i liked would be of them being half naked/in bikini pics. My ex gf confronted me about it and i thought it was a joke. I continued to like pics and now she blocked me. I keep sending her txts and she's not responding. I'm sure it's over social media again except she had enough. My question is do you think she's in the right? as in we're not even together officially and she's already mad wtf. What kind of girl who "likes" you will block you? should i continue to chase her or leave her alone to cool off?.....

Question: I asked my mom and dad what they wanted for Christmas and said a grandchild-what do I say to that?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 07:14 AM PST

Question: Do you think your kids see the Mom's parents more often than the Dad's parents?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 06:55 AM PST

A few of us were talking about that a while ago, and we noticed that it seems like the Maternal grandparents get more time with the grand kids than the Paternal grandparents. It's something about how the Mom is just with the kids more often than the dad, and how the dad doesn't really visit their parents as often... (They need a reason.) Or how the mom, who has the kids, just rather not see their in laws as much, and they are closer to their mom... What do you think?

Question: How to gently stop a child from doing something w/o making him sad?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 05:40 AM PST

So this kid lives in my neighborhood, and really likes to play games on my mobile phone. I don't mind it, and actually enjoy playing along with him. But whenever I'm outside and he sees me, just runs toward me and asks for the phone. He's only like 5 or 6, so I dont like to refuse and see his adorable crying-face lol. I fear that he could drop my phone or something, the thing is pretty expensive! So how to not lose bonding with this lil bro of mine, and not make him sad by humbly refusing?

Question: How should I go about breaking up with my abusive ex and what can I expect afterwards?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 05:26 AM PST

I've been with my daughters dad for 6 years but I've recently made the decision to end our relationship. He has been in and out of jail and prison since our daughter was born (she is 4 now), cheated on me numerous times, and started being very violent and abusive. He has told other girls we weren't together when we were and has went as far as saying "**** you" to our daughters face. I know he is not going to change and I know it is better and safer for my daughter and I to move on. He is currently in prison for the third time and is doing 6 months. I have a letter written out stating I am done with him and I'm done tolerating his behavior and how he treats me and our daughter. The only thing that is stopping me from sending the letter is that I'm afraid that he'll become more violent or try to harm me or my daughter or himself. He is used to me running to his rescue but I've ran out of chances to give. What exactly should I do and what can I expect after sending him the letter? Should I start taking safety precautions? He has threatened to harm me or anyone I'm seeing if I ever moved on but he is not the person he used to be and he does not treat me the way I know I deserve.

Question: I don't want to sound like my dad.?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 05:22 AM PST

My parents and peers always tell me that I am a miniature model of my dad, but I don't want to be. I already look similar to him, and that's practically unavoidable. But I don't want to share his dialect. My voice is able to be deep, like his, but mine is a little higher than his, and of brighter timbre. But what about word choice? My mom sometimes tells me that I tend to have the same word choice, but is there a way for me to change the words I often use? I just don't want to be associated with my father, as I already share enough traits with him.

Question: Secondo voi è giusto che io vada? O posso restarmene a casa?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 05:19 AM PST

È stato il compleanno del mio nipotino, 1 anno. Mia sorella non ha fatto nessuna festa. Sono andata col mio compagno a casa il pomeriggio a darle un pensiero e per stare con la bambina un po'. C'erano anche mia madre, mio fratello con la moglie e la madrina del bambino. Ora lei mi ha detto che farà comunque una pizza a casa sua sabato sera. Una pizza coi parenti , in piedi insomma. Festicciola in casa. Siamo al sud, quindi figuriamoci. Lo ha deciso ora. Io ho partecipato a doppie feste di una mia nipotina dal lato del mio compagno, ma senza imposizione e sempre in orari gestibili . Lei organizza sabato alle 19 e alla fine, è una festa per gli adulti. Mio fratello lavora quindi viene "giustificato". Io ho detto "non so" e sono stata subito additata anche da mia madre. Questo perché con mia sorella già ci sono state diverse divergenze e la famiglia del marito rompe quando mi vede. Non mi sento serena. Quindi forse anche questo mi limita un po'. Mia sorella è immatura e presuntuosa e non manca occasione di mettermi poi in cattiva luce con mia madre e mio fratello che pendono dalle sue labbra perché ha i bambini. Consigli? Grazie

Question: I want to leave my fiance, do I have to be homeless again too?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 05:06 AM PST

My fiance has been unemployed for over a year now. Because of this, I lost MY home and we ended up at my mothers. Due to being at her complete mercy I wasn't allowed to "fight" with my fiance so mom prevented every avenue for me breaking up with him before we moved out of her home again and signed a new lease. New apartment finally, we both sign the lease and he still doesn't get a job. Two month in, with rent and all bills, plus food expenses in my hands. I have no money left to vet my cat, dog, take myself to a doctor, or eat more than ramen. Fiance demands steak however. I've given up my future to raise a child that isn't mine. He also destroyed my secondly income instantly when he broke my pen tablet and stole the money I was going to use to replace it. This isn't fair to me. I want him gone, I've tried to break up, he literally cries and refuses to leave, he's got it too good manipulating my life for a free ride. Cops won't get him out for me, it's a civil matter to them and they refuse to get involved. The only thing I can think of is the age old "if it's so bad leave, but you won't, so it's your fault now" but I PAY EVERYTHING why is my only choice to give the landlord a 30 day, surrended the senior cat I've had her entire life, and then go to a homeless shelter? Where he would litterally follow anyway??? Like, what the absolute heck do I do? It's winter in Maine, I don't want to sleep on the streets because he drove me out of my home and life by draining it. And this is why imnstuck with him. I CANNOT go back to mother. If she is the type to stop me breaking up with an abuser, she is NOT a suppourter of me. I cannot ask IRL as I mentioned.... You know what. I just give up, thanks for victim blaming further.

Question: Girls would you be pissed off?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 02:47 AM PST

I recently re-connected with my high school sweetheart online. We are now 24. We flirted and talked about us getting back but that was it. I invited her multiple times to dates and she said she has been busy. So no dates. I continued with my life. I then began to flirt/like other girls pics online. These girls some i know and some i don't. The pics i liked would be of them being half naked/in bikini pics. My ex gf confronted me about it and i thought it was a joke. I continued to like pics and now she blocked me. I keep sending her txts and she's not responding. I'm sure it's over social media again except she had enough. My question is do you think she's in the right? as in we're not even together officially and she's already mad wtf. What kind of girl who "likes" you will block you? should i continue to chase her or leave her alone to cool off?...

Question: I feel unappreciated in my family?

Posted: 13 Dec 2017 01:33 AM PST

My mom ignores me, she's always hanging out with my younger brother (he's 8). My dad is always sleeping, coaching hockey teams, working, etc. They never pay attention to me. They haven't in 8 years, since my brother was born. They make it so painfully obvious they love my little brother more than me, maybe not my dad, but my mom? For sure. I just kind of wish i didn't exist a lot of the time. I stopped eating and sleeping. They haven't noticed that I've been starving myself. Ive tried everything. Ive tried playing the virtual keyboard (which my mom said wasn't even a talent, so i quit right then and there), I've tried drawing (Which i did for years, until i just couldn't take it anymore), I've tried starving myself, dehydrating myself, throwing up... everything. They don't care. They never will. They never hug me. They never show me any affection. It's just criticism and complaints about how I ruin everything. I do homeschool, i need a service dog in order to go to public school but my mom just tell me that i ruined her day if i talk about it. I ruin everything. They tell me I'll never go into college. I'll never be good enough. I just wish i wasn't born. I was i was dead sometimes. Nobody would miss me, i wish they loved me. I don't know what to do. I cry myself to sleep every day. I cry knowing they'll never love me, i can never tell them I'm bisexual, ill never impress them. It's always about my brother's success and my failure. I'm a mistake to them. Always will be.

Question: Should I back out of going to Milwaukee w/ my husband for christmas? I'm dreading going especially with a screaming 19 month old?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 10:33 PM PST

My husband and I have had our ups and downs the past 21 months (March '16) when I was 36 wks pregnant he flipped out on me to get the **** out at 2:45 am , 45 degrees outside. I had enough time to swipe my keys and phone and ran down the 3 flights of stairs barefoot in my pj's and big as idk what from being so far along. It only got worse after that and he's threatened to kill my parents, hes threatened me to hold a gun to his head this past summer due to an argument and we separated.his family all lives in Milwaukee and in his mom's eyes her sons can do no wrong. He's 33 and I'm 31. His older sisters who hate his mom aren't his moms daughters but his dads daughters who she beat while they were growing up who along with his older bro who is his full brother sat the mom down to discuss my husband's behavior that I had been telling his sisters about. His father who none of them respect except his oldest sis because he was on drugs along with his mom and he punctured his mom's arteries back in '94, calls maybe once a month to ask how my husband is treating me and he always tells me to be honest. His mom and grandma and my husband are very stoic and so is his younger brother. Ive been up there twice w/ him before we had our son, once for Xmas and 2nd for his late grandpas bday but we flew. He'll ride a 4 hr car trip not speaking to me because he said my conversations arent worth having. I said well neither are your families conversations b/c u dont say anything to them either.

Question: I heard my sister in law (bhabhi) moaning and screaming while having sex in next room and now I feel embarrassed to face her?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 09:41 PM PST

In our culture , your brothers wife is regarded as a second mother and my bhabhi(sister in law) is a very shy person who wears decent clothes at home and acts very good . I respect her like god . But 2 days ago I had to sleep in another room due to guests and it was right next to my brother and bhabhi .. I could hear them having sex and bhabhi kept moaning and talking vulgar language while doing sex for half an hour . Now when I saw her in morning wearing a Saree and praying to god .. I feel so conflicted . I know sex is a basic need for every couple and I can't wrap my idea that my pious bhabhi Moans and talks like a whore I try avoiding her as when I see her, those Moanings come to my mind and I feel disgusted

Question: Will my ex win?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 09:20 PM PST

I am a single mother of 3 children. My oldest is my daughter she is going to be 8 in March. Her father was my bf at the time. I dropped out of high school because her father refused to work and pay for anything she needed. When my daughter was born she was born with a birth defect that later in life lead to surgeries and long term health problems. When my daughter was 2 my ex would lock her in her room (with a baby gate) on the 2nd floor so he could spend hours on his PS3 down stairs in the living room all while I worked. My ex left my daughter and I the August after she turned 2. For almost 6 years now he has not once tried to reach out to us. Never once sent a single dollar to us. I had to spend several nights in the hospital by her bedside alone after the surgires mentioned above. She has never met him and does not know him. In the beginning when he left she'd talk to him on the phone the best a 2 yr old could but that lasted maybe a month before the calls stopped coming in and he changed his number. Last night while at work I received a visit. I was served with custody papers from him. He lives in Florida and I live in Connecticut. I am so worried that I am going to lose my daughter. I can't afford a lawyer. All of my money goes to raising my children, getting bills paid, making sure they are fed and clothed and all their needs are taken care of. Is there any chance that he could win this after he has been gone all these years? I'm devistated please help me.

Question: Is this normal?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:34 PM PST

So let me give a bit of backstory... This last summer, my family and I took a trip from California to Tennessee, to see some old friends/other family. During that time, we stayed most of the nights at my grandma's house, and I made a lot of nostalgic memories there. So we went back to california, then we planned to move to the UAE for awhile. So we went back to tennessee for a bit (cuz we didn't have a house at that point, and all of our family was in TN) and then we moved. We were there for about 4 months, and then we realized we REALLY didn't like the UAE (no offense to anyone who lives there) and so my mom, brother and I, came back to tennessee december 1st (my dad is gonna get here in a few days). So at this moment, I'm at my grandma's house, and I feel like I should love this place since I have so many good memories here. But... I don't feel nostalgic. I mean, I feel nostalgic for those memories, but this feels like a different place... Like an exact replica, rather than the actual thing. It think I might feel like I didn't leave the UAE... Like they just sliced out this part of america and moved it over there. This feels really weird, and I don't like it. Is this normal?

Question: Is my mom going to easy on my little brother?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:23 PM PST

Okay so first of all I'll give you the run down on my brother. He is 8 years old. He is very rude, and whenever he's mean to my mom or me or anyone else and they get mad at him or even raise their voice a little he feels like they're at fault and that they were screaming at him. Also if he does something to you and you excpect him to say sorry he'll say something like "only if you say sorry too". He doesn't hold back hitting and punching his brother in public. Sometimes in a fight to get him to his room he will scream nonstop and if you try to speak he'll cut you off and you can't get him to get out of that stage till he calms down. He goes to a therapist, and I think he's taking some medication. He has anxiety. He is also always disrespecting my mom and hitting her. Okay so is my mom going to easy on him? Whenever he hits her she threatens to take away electronics. She never follows through. He might hit her multiple times through out the day and usually he's getting multiple chances to try and be good. it really bugs me how he can treat her like that and how easy she goes on him. Is she being too easy or is it just me? What should I do?

Question: What do you do if you have a family like this?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:18 PM PST

My mom's siblings. She has two sisters and a brother. What can I say about them? well they are weird and their children are also weird. Like for example, I have a cousin. He is about 5 years younger than me (we are in the 30s). When we had a family gathering few days ago, I bought pizzas for them to try (two boxes). There were about 7 people came to my mom's house. Everybody who came was eating the pizza except for this cousin of me (let's call him, John). When I offered him the pizza, "John, try the pizza, they are good!". He ran away and went outside the house to the porch of the house. Let me describe John, he is a banker, about 5"11 and skinny tall. When I saw this, I told his mother who sat across the table "it's ok to gain 5 pounds...." (what I meant it's ok to eat the pizza, he will look the same anyway if he eats more). Suddenly this cousin was angry "Please don't talk about my body!". Then I asked why.... then he ran away to outside again.... What a strange guy..... I was kinda confused what he was mad. What should I do to my family? most of them act this way.... To be honest, I was confused WHY he was mad and act that way..... everybody was having fun and eating the pizza except him.

Question: What would you say to a mom who wishes she didn’t have to work full time?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:16 PM PST

But has no other option?

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:10 PM PST

I recently re-connected with my high school sweetheart online. We are now 24. We had flirted and talked about us getting back but that was it. I invited her multiple times to dates and she said she has been busy. So no dates. I continued with my life. I then began to flirt/like other girls pics online. These girls some i know and some i don't. The pics i liked would be of them being half naked/in bikini pics. My ex0gf confronted me about it and i thought it was a joke. I continued to like pics and now she blocked me. I keep sending her txts and she's not responding. I'm sure it's over social media. My question is do you think she's in the right? as in we're not even together officially and she's already mad wtf. What kind of girl who "likes" you will block you? should i continue to chase her or leave her alone to cool off?

Question: Does my mom have the wrong idea about sarcasm?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 08:03 PM PST

okay usually I use sarcasm quite a bit but my mom says I use it in every literally every sentence. After that I payed more attention and I don't even say it that much. She still says I do. Tonight my mom and I were driving home and my dog has been in the kennel for quite a while and I had homework to finish when I got home. Me and my mom had a little argument on the way back and then it was silent. I was worried about our dog, so I asked "are you going to Kenna out when we get home?" And then she told me to stop using sarcasm and that I do it all the time and that it's annoying. And then she mocked me. I don't understand how I was sarcastic at all, but with everything that I say apparently it is sarcasm. What should I do?

Question: My mom asked me a question I dont know how to answer.?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 07:24 PM PST

My mom asked me where I got the idea pf cutting and i honestly don't remember and if i say social miedia she will take it away, if i say a friend I'll be taken out of school. In so confused and my stml is nkt helping rn.

Question: My niece's dad is now dying of heart failure?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 07:21 PM PST

My niece's father is dying of heart failure. I told my sister that I remember a fight with him when I was 14 years old, he was 28 years old... he was 6 Ft 8, 400 pounds. outside of the apartment at Adams run apartments, I picked right up, slammed him against the wall, slammed him to the ground, and beat the ever loving sh!t out of his face and head... and they were not just blank punches either... they were real fight winners I hit him with. they broke stuff on him. after that he hated my guts. My niece said to my sister, yeah he did... But I don't want to hear about it.

Question: Should I move away from my parents?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 07:15 PM PST

I moved away from my home state as a teen and now I'm finishing college and ready to buy a home? Most of my family has moved here. So I'd be by myself. If I stay I can save a lot of money because it's cheaper here but I hate it here. Any advice?

Question: Why do my parents blame me whenever they let my brother beat me up?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 06:53 PM PST

Question: Is my mom wrong or am I?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 06:49 PM PST

Ok so my mom is mad at me right now and I don't think she has any reason to be. I am 17 years old and me and my mom haven't been getting along recently (typical teenage problem I know) . I feel like she is always mad at me for something. Now about tonight... So she doesn't have a job right now and my dad is retired so we live paycheck to paycheck but that isn't enough sometimes. I have a job though and always lend them money to use until they can pay me back when his paycheck comes. So she smoke cigarettes and my one rule was that they couldn't buy cigarettes with my money bc I'm against it completely. So every once in a while if she really needs them she'll ask and I will say yes. But lately, more recently tonight, she made up an elaborate story about how she needed to go get toilet paper and that she needed my card to pay for the rest cause she only had $9. So when she got home I checked my bank account and there was $13.50 taken out. I knew that was about the price of a pack of cigarettes and I questioned her about it and she confessed to lying about buying them. So I nicely told her how much it bothers me when she goes behind my back like that because I feel like she's trying to pull one over on me and be sneaky and now she is so mad at me! I really don't feel like I did anything wrong! I calmly tried to tell her something that bothered me and she flipped out like she always does. So does she have a right to be mad at me? Or am I entitled to feel this way?

Question: How can I stop my mom from being so clingy to me?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 06:48 PM PST

Question: Should I stop calling my parents mommy & daddy?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 06:37 PM PST

I'll be 15 in about a week and I have just realized that I still call my parents mommy and daddy. Is that weird? Should I stop?

Question: My preteen sibling and I have a shared chore, they refuse to do their share and our parents don t want to get involved, advice?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 05:41 PM PST

I can t just postpone the chore. Sadly, I ve been put in this situation the past 4 times and caved just to get it done. I don t know how to deal with this, they won t listen to reason

Question: My Grandma on my mom's side of the family and lots of her family hate my dad and HIS family. Help!?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 05:34 PM PST

My Dad did do some bad stuff, he did drink and stuff, and he still does, and he was abusive to my mom because of the alcohol. I understand it's EXTREMELY bad, all the dru*s and stuff, but I want to see him! My Grandma and I fight a lot, and I don't have a phone, so I can't text him or call him on my own. I really miss him. He was never mean to me or my brother, but he truly is a nice kind hearted person. He had a really messed up childhood. Please help! ❤

Question: What do you do after a family member sees you naked?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 05:10 PM PST

This is really weird but I was laying on the couch naked and my sister came home unexpectedly during the middle of the day. It's kind of strange but when I'm home alone I like to relax so I ordered 20 buffalo wings and then I put a plastic wrap over the couch like what painters do when they're painting and I was just eating the wings completely naked watching tv and getting sauce all over myself then my sister walked in around 12:30pm and she was supposed to be at school but for some reason it was a half day. It was really awkward. I was in a state I didn't want anyone ever to see me in. I just been in my room all day since I haven't talked to after the incident.

Question: My Dad ignores me. How do I teach him how to show sympathy when I am depressed?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 05:03 PM PST

Question: Whats wrong with me??

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 04:51 PM PST

im a 24 year old male with ADHD and im fairly mature and i have a youtube channel with 272 subscribers as i have worked to grow my channel from 17 subscribers i dont get any hate and according to social blade my yearly income is about $20 to $32 a year and im currently trying to build my youtube channel my mom hates my channel and make matters worse this my decision i did not randomly wake up and ask permission hell i made a DAMN birthday cake i was so dam* passionate about youtube and my channel i have black Lab Puppy that im Bipolar as hell about and any time do like Brad Peterson the dog trainer does my mom and my brothers yell at me and complain how i could damage her throat by grabbing the collar to make the Damn Dog and my farther divorced my mom when i was 7 years old and then turned right around and wants me in his life then make matters worse my best friend of 17 years committed suicide and the only i have personally been tubing on a tube for the last 7 years of his suicide have been down a river and 1 of the rivers Nearly gave me a heart attack and so i have this 7 year Bordon on my shoulders of not tubing on the lake behind a boat for 7 consecutive years i now love to catch channel cats on hot dogs and post my channel and now i have 3 Nascar Tickets that nobody but me wants to go to and i feel like there'e hell to pay if my dad me and my youngest brother we all 3 go since they were all bored bored last time we went while i had the best time of my life

Question: What is it like to have a mother/father/parents?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 04:47 PM PST

My mom died when I was 7 dad became a drunk/drug addict basically passed from place to place by family members sometimes I'm with my grandparents sometimes I'm with an uncle or aunt sometimes I'm with my older sister or brother ps I'm 15 almost 16 I see happy family's and it breaks my heart I'm wamdering what I'm missing out on what is it like to have a mother and a father who love you pack your lunch before you go to school kiss you goodnight I just wanna know the feeling

Question: Why is the sister acting this way toward me the fiance?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 04:25 PM PST

I had begun taking care of my fiance after a stroke. Now when I kiss him on the forehead or hold his hand his sister moves me away. She then tries to order me around and saying I'm not caring for her brother right. I bathe him, shave him, comb his hair, message his feet, hands, arms, okay relaxing music, exercise with him, song to him? Read the bible, etc. I don't know how to approach this. She comes for an hour and for that hour she's bossy, and doesn't want me near him. What should I do as this is making me angry.

Question: Why can't I so crying because Mt step dad was mad at me?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 04:23 PM PST

I didn't clean and he called me name like pig, and I can't stop crying. Why can't I stop, I'll be in trouble if I don't.

Question: I asked my mom and dad what they wanted for Christmas and said a grandchild-what do I say to that?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 04:07 PM PST

Question: Can u fined my dad juan fransisco guevara the 2nd. Cuz this man saying he my dad but I don't no my name is juan fransisco guevara the 3rd?

Posted: 12 Dec 2017 03:56 PM PST