I trusted your *** and you let me down. You spread rumors about me all around. Then you constantly badmouth my family? It is NOT my fault that you grew up with no father and your mom is a slut. How could you have the audacity to disrespect my livelihood after all I've done for you? After all the times I stood by you? Good luck with a new friend because I sure as hell won't be around!

Okay, I'm in 10th grade and I'm being excluded by my friends. I like the reason is because of all the stupid things I've done/said. Im starting to feel depressed to the point where I think I'm useless and nobody wants to be around me. They make fun of me a lot as well because of the things I've said, I really try to be less foolish but they just find ways to pick on me. They treat me like a kid, like their babysitting me and it makes me feel horrible why can't they just treat me for who I am? I don't know how to get out of this situation, I've already asked them why they're doing this but nothing ever changes. I feel like it just gets worse. They have even said I'm such a handful like I'm hard to carry? I need help, I don't know what to do.

Hello, I'm looking for a military pen pal as I have a lot of time on my hands and it would be nice to have someone to either write or email too. I'm a 22 year old female and am looking for friendship. I've tried finding a penpal on one of the many sites but it seems their for sending random letters out. Does anyone know anyone in need of a penpal and someone to talk to? If so, please email at Crystal975@email.com Thanks!

So basicly,im a boy and my friends got me a dildo for my birthday for fun and they have written special and funny things on it and i kinda don't want to throw it away because i want to remember..and the question is, do i hide it from my parents or let them know it's a troll present, but i dont know what they might think.. Maybe they will not take it as a joke, Shall i put it in a self and leave it there or what?

Long story, I will try to be as concise as possible. I am friends with someone, let's call him Jack. I had sex with someone Jack knows, I wouldn't call them friends, more like acquaintances. I came to learn that the guy I had sex with "stealthed" me (didn't wear a condom when I asked him to). I unfriended this stealther, his defense was that he had already ejaculated when I gave him oral, so he didn't need one, yadda yadda yadda. He isn't too bright. I told Jack about this. However, last weekend Jack and his boyfriend went out with this person, even though Jack has insisted all along they weren't that close. I got angry with Jack, and at first he was reluctant to apologize and defended himself saying the stealther invited his boyfriend out for drinks (his boyfriend does not know about the stealthing). So he said that he can't control who his boyfriend hangs out with and I mentioned that he could have refused to hang out and left, or done something, at least. So he realizes he hurt me and he apologized. However, this weekend, he was out with many people and the stealther was there as well. Jack posted a picture to Facebook of a bunch of people (including the stealther) playing a game. I just feel betrayed and as though he either doesn't believe me or is playing both sides. I understand he is in a difficult situation because he has many mutual friends with the stealther. Any advice?

im in college and its been a good few years since high school and i have a small group of friends about 6 but they are not really the best people besides 1 of them they don't really wanna do much and kinda just hang around each other so they can say they have friends but low key all hate each other ..me and my 1 good friend are continuously talking about the fact we need to make some more well rounded friends but its been hard in college nobody in our classes talks ..everybody is super stick in the mud serious do work immediately go home no small talk etc its quite depressing and when we go the route of hobbies(we have had quite a few) everybody we meet is generally really 1 note like whatever hobby we try all the ppl we meet are so dedicated to it they have little to no other interests..so yeah we wanna start trying to make friends we can do stuff with and socialize with not just ppl that spend 20 hours a day playing video games or only want anything to do with us when related to doing 1 specific thing ..any advice?

I'm a junior and most of my friends go to this smart school with me. It's not that I don't have friends, it's just that I don't feel super close to them because we can never hang out. One group of mine has like 10 people. It's hard to find a day that all 10 of us can hang out, and if one person flakes, the rest follow. We all have a lot of schoolwork, and many of them work so it's very very hard to find a date that works with everyone. Another group is 2 other people and me. The issue with this one is that the other two are super close and I feel left out. Not to mention making plans with them is like pulling teeth because there's always an issue. I'm trying to make plans with a newer group but no one seems to be making an effort. I'm getting a little sick of it. I'm sick of never being able to hang out with people. I'd hope it's not because of me. I feel like making plans/hanging out is such a huge production because we have to pick a date that caters to everyone's work schedule and i'd rather have it be simpler. They're also too responsible and they enjoy depriving themselves of joy so i don't even think they like hanging out that much. I still want to have fun though. I'm usually bad at making plans and putting effort to people and whenever I try it just falls flat. I'm sick of always being the one to make the effort too. Idk I'm trying to make new friends as well but at this point I just feel like waiting til college to find better friends.

My friend s mother is in the hospital and is very ill. He grows worried each passing day, but puts up a mask and says "Everything is okay, I m fine". I ve been with this dude for quite a while, and I know he isn t. Though he just seems to just push me away and isolate himself. Then something happened last week. He never came to school, he stopped responding to my texts and calls, he didn t even come to church today. He LOVES church, so I wonder if his mom died. Please help.

Hello I am 23 male. I have a celeb crush and cant get her out of my mind, how do i get her out of my mind? Is this a sign that i am lonely? I havent had a gf before because i was focusing on school, but i have graduated.....i would appreciate ur advice.

I have a group of friends that I ve been friends with for years. I am a furry and I recently found out that they despise furries. They re slowly finding out that I am a furry based on what I draw and how I act. They will not accept me for who I am as a furry- one of them flat-out told me "if you re a furry then we re not friends anymore". They are extremely stubborn, but they re the only friends I have and I don t want to be some weird loner with no friends if they all see me as strange for being a furry. They re going to find out eventually and I m not sure how to tell them/explain when they do find out. How do I tell them...? I can't avoid it because they constantly bring up the fact that they think I'm a furry.

I mean I do have a best friend but to be honest we are not very close we haven't even met up outside of school . I feel like she doesn't really think of me as a best friend and I feel like I can't really tell her anything because I don't feel comfortable around her. I just wish I had a best friend that I could feel comfortable around and not get scared to meet up with and someone I could just talk to about anything. Everyone I know has someone like that and it makes me think maybe I have done something to make people not want to become close to me sorry about that rant

But when me and my friend were talking he interrupted us both by asking "what are you guys talking about?" I told him bout how we were talking about how My friend had never seen the twilight movies I said "can u believe that!?" He said I've never seen them either and we just stared eachother for about 6 seconds until my friend snapped me out of our trance but I could still see that he was lingering his gaze on me & then looked down at the floor? What is he thinking? Is this a good sign that he still talks and makes eye contact with me for a while? He is a cancer so it does make sense that he retracted from talking to me as much as he usually does. I am a taurus

I was having a conversation with a guy I don't like, we were discussing our differences and why I had to end our friendship and the friendship of another individual. He recorded our conversation without letting me know beforehand and showed it to other said individual. I didn't really care at first because I didn't say anything bad, but when I told my friends about it they were furious. Is what he did wrong? Why?

So me and this particular friend have been friends for about 2ish years, but became particularly close in the last couple of months. I was so excited about this because I had never had a friend like him before. We made each other laugh constantly and just enjoyed each others company so much. We even got to the point where he as a fairly guarded person starting opening up to me about his life and worries so I really felt like we were becoming best friends. Fast forward to not too long ago and after we had a performance together (we are in a band together) I was so happy about our performance and all that I texted him a message just saying how much I appreciated playing music with him and how he had become one of my best friends so quickly. He didnt respond to it and I didnt really read much into that, but lately he has been treating me differently. I have always been a bit on the weird side, and I like that about myself, and I thought he did too (so when I was extra he was at that level with me/non-judgmental), but now he is being more snarky and a bit judgmental of me. Like we will have moments where everything feels fine and we are joking and having a good time, but he has become so hot and cold. I recognize there may just be something going on with him that is not my fault/in my control, but the timing feels off. Any advice on this in terms of getting back to where we were?

I used to hang out with my squad for years but somehow we started getting in a lot of fights and arguments. I found new friends and split up from them for about 2 years. Whenever we run into each other we seem to have a good connection. I want to be friends with them again. How can i do it?

I just want some statistics on bullying. I was never bullied or a bully, I was just average me. Just a random person on the street. However, recently, a new girl has moved to my school, but no one seems to like her. That's just got me thinking: what does it feel like to NOT fit in anywhere? I've also heard in some schools, bullying is actually encouraged. Is that true? I was hoping for stats on emotional bullying. I think it's more related to what is happening.

She says its not about the sign but about how it feels..? Its so weird.Why is that? Just wondering.

I'm really sick I feel like vomiting but my friend texts me to come to school because she's alone. I'm ******* sick I feel like throwing up on her I texted her saying I was sick and I'm not coming to school and she replied back saying that I'm lying just so I can get out of doing school work. Now she's mad at me. This is why I hate school and want to do homeschool because I'm better off with no friends than fake friends

My friend, Debbie absolutely hates this one girl, Sarah, because Sarah is dating Debbie's crush. I would always just go along with Debbie as a path of least resistance even though Sarah was always super nice to me. At one point I was fed up with always shunning Sarah and hung out with her and her friends when they invited me. When Debbie found out she got VERY mad at me and attacked me and called me a horrible friend and person. Now I can see her side of the situation. I knew that Debbie really didn't like Sarah but I hung out with her anyways. At the same time though Sarah has only been nice to both of us and I feel like Debbie shouldn't have the right to tell me who I can or can't hang out with. I don't know I'm just looking for people with some advice or maybe a similar situation to my own.

Worried about my friend. Something must have came up. But a week ago we made plans for her to come over my house today. I've texted her twice this morning asking her when she would be coming over and she hasn't answered. I just tried calling her too and after it rang several times, it went to voicemail. I know she has her own issues she's dealing with, but this is something she wouldn't do. If she couldn't come she would have told me. I hope whatever is going on, that she's ok. I just feel anxiety and sadness right now cause I wanted to see her. And no, I can't go to her house cause I don't drive and also because I don't know her address. She usually just comes over my house or to my town because it's easier. I've never thought of asking her for her address.

I've seen him a couple of times in the hallway at school, but we never said hi or anything. Recently, I've been going to the library everyday and so were him and his friends. Now about 2 weeks later, he came up to introduce himself and says he noticed that I've been coming everyday. We've been chatting now for few days, and he has mentioned topics about facebook and his phone, but he hasn't asked for phone number? He has a GF though but he is pretty cool.

Okay so i have a friend who barely showers and smells really bad but i can still breathe around him its tolerable but sometimes he turns around his butt smells so disgusting its stinks up the entire room, ive never smelt anything like it...its like ***+sweat+****+dead rats, maybe even worse than that and he sometimes has the audacity to touch my food and when i dont eat it hes like why arent you eating it? am i that gross? HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT HE IS WITHOUT HURTING HIS FEELINGS???? I literally couldnt eat dinner at my own house yesterday because the thought of that smell just made me lose my appetite!!!!

I was a bad kid in high school, doing drugs and drinking because growing up my mom was addicted to rock cocaine, and my dad was never around so i could always do whatever i wanted. It wasnt until I was older when i came clean, held my job and got my own apartment and settled down. now nobody wants to be my friend, its hard to find a girlfriend or have any social life. Im wondering if I should just move away where nobody knows me at all to start new.

sometime ago this unknown lady was talking to my mom and she saw me and told me something is special about me and i'm gonna help alot of people in this world, and i just need to stay focused, idk why but it was weird and i'm always making my friends laugh and i enjoy it so i guess maybe that's really what i'm good at

Why do people or certain people cl I know to money so hard. My roommate and his bestfriend which is a girl talks so much **** about me not having a good enough job and they always talk about money and superficial **** like it's inside their aura.. they ooze money money money.. looks looks looks.. and they'll treat you like crap if you're not damn near rich.. so what is these people's problem? Why do I have to go to school to learn about being a good person to find out that most people have cold hearts and just want cash? No wonder I skipped school because I actually tried to learn in school but I sensed they didn't care about school the way I cared about it so it embarrassed me..Do they feel like they're going to die if they don't have money or value people with money? I'm about to go to college too.. should I do computer science as a newbie?

I am a 45 year old woman from india who is a lawyer and has been in the country for 20 years. I am 6'7 320 pounds. My height, weight, and cultural differences made dating impossible. After years of activley pursuing men im still a virgin at 45. I befriended 3 white attractive females in their 20s who are 6'0-6'2 and are are all taller than their boyfriends. I was friends with them for 2 years, and we became very close, and i was like their older friend they looked up to, for advice and was their role model. I was also friends with their boyfriends, who were very attractive. I would sneakily, touch myself while watching them have sex with their boyfriends. I also had been touching their boyfriends, it started with feeling their muscles, but then escalated to feeling their asses and crotch. The girls talked to me and said that i betrayed their trust, and I overstepped my boundaries and they dont want to speak to me again. I know what i did was wrong, is their a way to apologize, and revive my friendship.

my guy friend loves bringing me down and pointing out my flaws but in a joking way. I thought he was a nice person until his friend came up to me and told me that my friend liked me. My friend didnt say anthing but i remember the next day i heard them talking about me. My friend asked his friend "why did you tell her i like her?? Ew i would never, shes ugly." Then My friend told everyone that me and his friend were dating and i was his girlfriend as payback. But now my guy friend is telling everyone im dating him now and we did sexual things. One of my other friends came up to me and asked if i dated him and i screamed out to the top of my lungs "ew nooooooo "and he looked really hurt and sad. i was confused because he called me ugly and said he would never now he is telling everyone we are dating and gets mad when i said that ^^???

i've known my friend for a long time and her guardians are so strict. they won't allow her to do anything. she's never been to public school, has barely any friends, isn't allowed to listen or watch anything that doesn't fit christian standards (she once tried to watch hip pop dance and got her tablet taken away for a long *** time) now i understand that they're her guardians but she is a CHILD and should have friends. she's not allowed to even watch kids movies like moana because it contains "witchcraft". i feel so bad for her and i don't know what to do. she isn't and has never been a bad kid. the only way she can talk to me is through an old iphone she found that has all the original apps on it blocked except imessage.

So yesterday my friend/roommate said she was going to shower. I needed to shower too but I said I d go after her. Before she goes to shower I say I need to use the bathroom, and she runs to the bathroom and won t let me pee. She kept coming out to let me go and then running back to the bathroom and closing the door so I couldn t. Anyway, I got pretty annoyed and told her she needs to learn when a joke isn t funny anymore (I really had to pee)! So then she starts pouting and I m like are you gonna shower? (Cause I still had to) and she won t go to shower but she kept standing outside the bathroom door and wouldn t let me go shower either. Then she said "I ll go shower if you say I love you" and I didn t respond cause I was really annoyed. So then she goes into the bathroom calls her boyfriend and complains loudly for about 20 minutes about how I m so mean, completely omitting everything she did and basically telling him that I was cold to her for no reason. So I sent her a long text message explaining that what she had done was annoying (I want to emphasize that I didn t get mad or yell, I just had an annoyed expression the whole time) and that it s not okay to talk sh*t about me to her boyfriend like that. She ignored the entire message and is now giving me the silent treatment. I was ready to accept an apology, but now she s not talking to me?? What do I do?

So i'm a girl, and my 2 best friends (boy and girl) have been together for almost 3 years. the three of us have been best friends for about half a year and about a month ago we started all doing stuff together. i'm bi and so is my girl best friend. we all three talked about it and we're cool doing any stuff to eachother whenever. so i've done stuff with my boy best friend and my girl best friend. we have had several threesomes as well. we are all super close and between the three of us we think what we're doing is pretty normal. but is it? there's nothing wrong with this is there?

When I'm around a few people that I sometimes hang with, they have more than me. They know more people in the city than me. I don't really have any friends so when I'm with them they know everybody. My peers have girlfriends. The others in the group who don't have girlfriends still can pick up girls when we go out at night. I, on the otherhand get nada. Every time. I can't pick up girls. None of them like. Also, my peers have more money than me. I'm just broke as fück and don't have anything to give monetarily. So I feel they look at me as useless and no benefit to them. That's how I feel. Because sometimes when I just open my mouth to talk to them they just ignore. Zone out and look the other direction while I'm still talking.

Me and my friend r 15 and have been close for 4 years. He's never cut his pubes before so he asked if he could send a picture of them to me so i could help him. i said ok but felt a bit weird abt it but we had talked about ***** a lot before tho. Then he suggested we both send pics of our ***** soft and hard because he was self conscious and wanted to compare like boys at our skl do. he did both but i did just soft cus i felt rly weird abt it. he was a bit shocked at my size cus mine was quite bigger but i asked if i HAVE to send a pic hard and he said he doesnt mind but i can just tell he wants me to send it. idm if i send it to help him see how he measures up to other guys but should i?

She is very blunt with her criticism but will hang up the phone if I bring up things she says or does that bothers or offends me. We talk almost every day, which is kind of a problem because there just isn't that much to talk about every single day. She is my best female friend. She has stage 3 liver disease but still drinks. She can be so sweet and than so mean and selfish. I do love talking to her but more often than not lately I just feel sad, dragged down or angry after talking to her.

She was making indirect posts against me on social media about "not making your friends become business partners" and the other way around. I was not becoming that active before because I insist on her that I want to quit but she wouldn't let me go. Time passes, I become less cooperative because I can't reach the same level of expertise as her and our other friends involved. As soon as I realize she becomes more demanding throughout that startup business of ours and anytime we hang out as well as those indirect posts online, I started becoming disappointed by her actions. As if my kindness is becoming abused to the point that I suddenly ignored her. Even if she starts any conversation online, I just did not even bat an eye on it. But as time goes by, I felt that I want to return to the things that used to be the way we do before all that startup and others. It's as if I want to reunite with her now but I don't know what's stopping me. It must be pride but I don't want the same mistake to happen from her towards me again.

how would you rate his looks from 1-10? will choose a best answer. Thanks for honesty

so there are two guys from the dive club i joined and i don't mind talked but the convos are on face book and never ending. I tried to say "thanks and good luck! " and one writes a whole paragraph back, and then the other it will end but he will be like 'having a nice weekend?" i don't mind being their friend, since we have dives together, but don't really wanna chat always. i have also tried not writing back to one :/

I cannot afford to alienate her family from my life, and when I agree with them over her she gets mad at me. I am tired of being in between them, it's causing my Mom and I undue stress, we are both disabled and I am my Mom's sole caretaker. Just how much loyalty do I owe my sick friend if all this stress is making my Mom and I sick? I am getting to the point where I don't want to see her anymore. Any advice?

So I recently asked this question and didn't get much info mostly got rude answers back .. now this issue or problem has been going on did some time now and I don't understand it , every time I asked my friend would she like to hang out ( come to my house and maybe chill and watch DVD and just eat Lots of food ) but when I do she always makes up excuse not to call , when she asks me I always do or at least try when I'm not busy or working , I really don't get it ( my house doesn't smell or is dirty she's been there a million times before that ) I spent my time with her and she can't even do the same for me for a hour or two , how's that fair ??

I known this person for 10 years who said she love me as her sister. We became close and supported each other emotionally. For my part I also helped her financially when she need help. I was there for her during her crazy relationship drama between her ex, make sure she is safe from depression, etc. Then she found new man, become happier and I was happy for her. Together they build a future and that future need help with some money so I lend them some. Soon they become rich and busy and I understand this but then she ignored me for days, weeks, months. I have no idea why. One day she contacted me and ask to end our sisterhood. Being the person that I am, I don t ask question and say Ok. And let it be. Her last promise was she will pay everything back so I wait and wait and it been 2 years. I figure i will never see the money but this let me know what kind of a person she is. How can there be someone like her with no gratitude or can t keep a promise? To add insult the money I helped was from my SSI. This is more of a vent because from time to time it linger in my mind and it hurt.

in my friend group (3-4 people) have been friends for 5+ years but this one certain friend is way too serious and can't take a joke. Everyone time we all joke around and Laugh, she's never laughing with us and she looks at us with this pathetic look on her face. She gets mad way too easily too and always has an attitude. All my friends in the The friend group want to drop her but she's clingy and doesn't have any other friends so if we try to avoid her, she'll get mad at us and throw a tantrum. She'll cry so we can pity her too. It's making our friendship with her awkward because we can't relate with her at all since she never finds our humour funny. Advice on what to do?

I was born and raised in Toronto, loved my city, and had a great life there. I'm a 14 year old girl and I moved to Calgary for about 4 years this year in june and I hate it here. I hate my new school as well. Back home, I used to hang out with friends everyday, and I had a great life. I lived in downtown and I'm just so used to living in a noisy, urban area but I hate it here. Haven't really made any friends at my school, I usually just go on my phone at lunch and this girl in my class always gets on my last nerve like 'you're not supposed to be on your room. I'm telling a teacher' like omg stfu snitch. I don't like the teachers here either, and like I hate the city, it's got me depressed tbh. There is NO nightlife here, NOWHERE to go, and even though I always hated the ttc, moving to calgary made me love it cause the ctc is nowhere as good. Like people in here are so rude sometimes towards Toronto. At school a teacher asked me where I was from and I said Toronto. And he went like 'Oh well, we consider that a foreign city' like who gives a f about your opinion, mr teacher? I'm honestly depressed. People are so different here and the weather is so harsh. I haven't been able to make friends here at all and in Toronto, I KNEW EVERYONE AT MY SCHOOL. In the high school in Toronto, I know almost everyone. I cry every day when I come home from school and at nights. My diary is full of my tear drops and rants about how I miss Toronto. I hate Calgary sm theres NOTHING interesting here P.S. If you're here to tell me to suck it up, this isn't for you to answer. So please don't bother. And like I haven't made any friends at my school either. I mean I knew EVERYONE back in Toronto. I have a really bubbly, outgoing and friendly personality and I am an extrovert, but here, people often think of me as shy because I don't talk to people a lot in this school. And like some kid sat on my spot and I didn't know we changed seating plans and so my teacher tells him 'get out of her spot please. She's probably too shy to ask you' and I'm like no I'm not shy i just didnt notice omg like idrc about making new friends, I already have enough back home and I love them, what bothers me is the city and this damned school. I hate it here phone** not room by nightlife I mean it ain't noisy here, and the nights are just so quiet. I remember me and mah homies would hang around downtown and go to eaton centre and stuff on the weekends and it used to be lit. it's so boring here I can't seem to settle here. I've honestly tried so hard but I can't. How do I deal with this by everyone i mean everyone at my school

I'm a 15 year old girl. I'm a sophomore and I hate my new school I honestly don't know how I'm going to get through these last two years it has been depressing. Even though I really didn't talk to people like that at my old school I miss it, I don't know why but I do I had a lot of associates. At this new school I feel alone, at lunch I'm alone. I do talk, I'm an introvert. I talk in some classes I only talk when I am comfortable no one In my classes seem like people I could be friends with. I don't know my life feels empty I feel like when I get older I'll be a boring person with no group of friends to hang out with so lonely 😭 help

So there's this guy in one of my classes (I'm a girl) who keeps on tapping me on the shoulder for no reason and then walks past acting like he didn't do it. It's happened three times now. It's honestly so humiliating and embarrassing. I've known of him since freshman year, we've never really interacted and he's never acknowledged me until this year, and even now the only time he ever said anything to me was one time where he tried to give me a high five? I ignored him thinking it was a mean joke (idk why I did that I felt like he was just making fun of me) and this all started happening after that. Also one time in a presentation we had to do where we had to make up a character he used my name, which is kind of uncommon and idk but I felt like he did it intentionally? It was really humiliating for me, you might feel like I'm overreacting but I have major social anxiety and problems with bullying before so I just felt like he and the rest of the class were laughing at me. I just have major anxiety in class now all the time and I feel like I have to watch my back at all times to make sure it doesn't happen again. I don't like this, but is it actually bullying or am I just overreacting? What should a shy quiet person like me do to get him to stop? I think he's just doing this because I'm a total loser, tbh. Sorry if I'm insulting actual bullying situations with this petty thing but it really makes me feel bad. The teacher loves him because he's loud and always talks (teachers love those types you know what I mean) so I don't think she'd take me seriously if I told her, and I don't want to tell her anyway because he'll just find out and who knows what will happen then. He definitely does not like me, trust me, and as for myself I only "tolerate" his actions because I'm too scared to say anything to him. He has a lot of friends in that class and I have none so yeah. Thanks for answering though.

yes the type of women which the most annoying....

My friend was over at my house and we were laying on my bed talking, when his shirt came down a bit and I saw that he was all bruised up and cut. When I asked him about it he started crying and wouldn't talk, but he finally told me that his dad has been hitting him. He showed me his back and it was all scarred and messy, but he told me I couldn't tell anyone or he'd get in trouble. Should I at least tell my parents? Or is that okay/normal?

So my best friend made the comment to me again tonight that he is not as smart as other people and he is kind of slow. He has made this sort of comment to me more then once. They made him go to the learning center in school his whole life because he had trouble with some subjects like maths. It made him feel like he was not that smart and he felt he was below the other students. I went through all the same stuff and I later learned in university that I actually am well above normal and ended up hitting a 3.8 GPA. My friend is now in community college instead of university because he thinks he is not capable of more. He keeps telling me he is not very smart, and it really hurts me to hear him say that. I really care about my friend and I want him to feel better about himself and more confident. I keep telling him he is way smarter then most, and I can see that he is and that he just has a different way of looking at and solving problems like I do. But he just does not seem to believe me. I need some way to prove to him that he is smarter then he thinks. Please let me know how I can help him, I really care a lot about him and I want to help him! There has to be a way to trick him into seeing how smart he actually is!

I had a small get together with some of my friends and this one friend in particular had been anticipating the get together for a long time and the day before she was literally hyping it up like, "I'm so excited." and "I can not wait, I'll definitely be there." So the day comes, I asked my friends what time they're getting there and I noticed she had been reading my messages and not replying so I pm'd her and asked if she was coming and she said she didn't think she could make it. Which I was kind of like what the hell? why didn't you tell me before? but I got over it because she does this all the time I wasn't even surprised anymore. Next thing I know, one of my friends who was at the get together, who is super close with the girl who couldn't come, said she had to leave. After she leaves, a friend from the get together tells me that she left to go to the girl who couldn't come's house. At that point I was like what the ****? because if she couldn't hang out, then why the hell would you invite someone who I'm hanging out with to come over your house? Long story short, this made me very upset and I feel hurt that she would ditch on me like that and then not only that, invite someone else over when she knows we were all supposed to be hanging out. I want to confront her about this, but I don't want to start drama because I do love her as a friend but what she did really hurt my feelings. What do you think? Am I overreacting?

I'm saving money for a vacation abroad in about 6 months. I've decided to eat nothing but ramen noodles or from a fast food joint. Not buying my own ingredients from the grocery store. I also want to sell my old clothings or electronics that I no longer use. And not to buy any more new clothes until I get back from vacation. Do you think I'm overdoing it?

so theres this girl who i want to be friends with but i feel like her boyfriend wont like me being friends with his girlfriend so should i play it safe and not be friends with her

A popular person invited me to go to his youth group so I️ went. We hit it off on text, but in the church, I️ was unfamiliar with it so I️ was a little awkward because I️ didn't know what to say. After that, I️ texted him that we should hang out again. He said yeah, and the next day, he stopped texting me. He left without explanation, and kept leaving me on read. Why?

So i was at this store buying something i stood in the Line behind two girls and they where Just talking to eachother. While was Just waiting in the Line one the girls turned around and Saw me behind her and was then shocked and dan a few feet a front while looking down and at her Friend she kept looking at her Friend with big eyes and looked at me one second. I was like wtf and so was her friend. And she kept looking concerned at her Friend. Other people where looking at me like did something which felt so himuliating.... I dindt touch her nor did i stand to close behind her . Whybdid she do that?

My circumstances aren't great right now due to a relationship break down, so I've no friends and also I've no job at the moment, which means limited funds to keep myself entertained and few ways to meet new people. I'm already doing voluntary work but none of my voluntary roles really aren't the ideal situations to make new friends so it's not helping in this regard, being without friends is messing with my mental health. Any suggestions for what to try? The goal being to try to make friends/interact with others.

At the moment I feel lonely and like there is none out there who will want me, kinda feeling depressed atm. Most of my day is spent online and I don't know were to go out and find friends, I am 18 and just want to know where someone my age can go out and meet new people. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V2kx4K_h2Sg