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- Question: WHAT DO I DO WITH MY PATHETIC LIFE?
- Question: This is making me depressed?
- Question: Can attractive girls have mostly guy they want?
- Question: My friend is a jerk!?
- Question: How to get women?
- Question: Mutual connection suddenly stopped talking to someone I know...what is going on?
- Question: Can I travel the world at 17?
- Question: My friends have been really mean to me lately. Help!?
- Question: How am I supposed to have a social life?
- Question: How can I locate my friend who is doing hard time in prison?
- Question: Why would my bf say " Yes ma'am"..?
- Question: Is there something wrong with me?
- Question: What is the best advice to handle a best friend who has been contacting me only once every 3 months and acting as if that is normal?
- Question: Is this a friend or a bully?
- Question: I moved and I HATE it here?
- Question: Is being pretty supossed to make me a social butterfly?
- Question: Getting high for the first time..?
- Question: Why doesn't Big Bill get off of social media?
- Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do?
- Question: Should I be worried about this bully on Devinatart?
- Question: Am i annoying?
- Question: Why did my boss do this to me?
- Question: If someone you loved accused you of trying to sabotage you, how would you feel?
- Question: Would it be best that I disappear?
- Question: Siamo in 60 a capodanno, tutti attorno ai 17-18 anni quindi senza patente. Cosa si può fare?
- Question: Is waiting for someone to say hi to me first a waste of time?
- Question: I just want a true friend. Be my friend..?
- Question: Will liberals attend the next commiecon?
- Question: I'm a very social person and outgoing, but I sometimes find people scary?
- Question: Got into a fight and ****** her up, they got video of me, are they going to come after me?
- Question: Why are my friends so toxic?
- Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do?
- Question: How do I apologise for my Christmas work do stupid actions? Please help?
- Question: Should I be worried about this bully on Devinatart?
- Question: I feel like me friend has just been a golddigger all along and it makes me sad :(?
- Question: What would make her want to soend so much on me, to be so thoughtful?
- Question: Why do they like stealing my friends?
- Question: Am I being unfair or is my friend being unfair?
- Question: Why do i stop replying to people?
- Question: What would make her want to soend so much money on me?
- Question: Is My Friend Insecure?
- Question: How to befriend a girl?
- Question: So why do people work so much?
- Question: How do I fix a ruined surprise?
- Question: Friendship problems? Any advice?
- Question: Does anyone think that this is messed up?
- Question: One of my best friends started smoking to fit in with the popular squad what do I do?
- Question: Trying to impress upperclassmen?
- Question: Roommate Trouble?
- Question: How to make friendships in high school that are meaningful?
- Question: My friend is socially awkward/spectrum autistic and doesn't have many friends. How can I help?
- Question: How to make better friends with a girl with Social Anxiety?
- Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do?
- Question: My friend abuses me! what can i do?
- Question: Should I talk or reply to my ex?
- Question: My friends say they need time from me bc of my drinking mistakes. They're scared of being hurt again. Will they come back? what do I do?
- Question: Would it be wrong to invite my black friend to dinner if we're having KFC?
- Question: How do you tell a guy you like him ?
- Question: I have no friends. I need advice.?
| Question: WHAT DO I DO WITH MY PATHETIC LIFE? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:24 PM PST Im 24, been undecided on a career my whole life. I decided to take a chance and take a loan to go to electrical trade school 1 year ago. I was an electricians helper for a year and I absolutely hated the field. I hated the mechanics who treated me and all helpers like crap. I lost ALL interest in being an electrician because of them, I was miserable. I have a 10K loan to pay off now. In the summer I quit. I got a job as a Home Security Alarm installer. Although the job itself is OK, the customers are extremely nasty and cruel and are demanding. Im one of ONLY TWO technicians in the company. We get overloaded with work and it is totally UNFAIR. I work 12 hour days and the OT is NOT worth it for me. The company does not want to spend money to hire more technicians to help. Im on the verge of quitting. But I dont know what to do with myself. Im stressed and depressed. Im not skilled at anything but I totally was a career change that is NOT construction or customer related. WHAT DO I DO WITH MY PATHETIC LIFE? |
| Question: This is making me depressed? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:24 PM PST I was born and raised in Toronto, loved my city, and had a great life there. I'm a 14 year old girl and I moved to Calgary for about 4 years this year in june and I hate it here. I hate my new school as well. Back home, I used to hang out with friends everyday, and I had a great life. I lived in downtown and I'm just so used to living in a noisy, urban area but I hate it here. Haven't really made any friends at my school, I usually just go on my phone at lunch and this girl in my class always gets on my last nerve like 'you're not supposed to be on your room. I'm telling a teacher' like omg stfu snitch. I don't like the teachers here either, and like I hate the city, it's got me depressed tbh. There is NO nightlife here, NOWHERE to go, and even though I always hated the ttc, moving to calgary made me love it cause the ctc is nowhere as good. Like people in here are so rude sometimes towards Toronto. At school a teacher asked me where I was from and I said Toronto. And he went like 'Oh well, we consider that a foreign city' like who gives a f about your opinion, mr teacher? I'm honestly depressed. People are so different here and the weather is so harsh. I haven't been able to make friends here at all and in Toronto, I KNEW EVERYONE AT MY SCHOOL. In the high school in Toronto, I know almost everyone. I cry every day when I come home from school and at nights. My diary is full of my tear drops and rants about how I miss Toronto P.S. If you're here to tell me to suck it up, this isn't for you to answer. So please don't bother. And like I haven't made any friends at my school either. I mean I knew EVERYONE back in Toronto. I have a really bubbly, outgoing and friendly personality and I am an extrovert, but here, people often think of me as shy because I don't talk to people a lot in this school. And like some kid sat on my spot and I didn't know we changed seating plans and so my teacher tells him 'get out of her spot please. She's probably too shy to ask you' and I'm like no I'm not shy i just didnt notice omg like idrc about making new friends, I already have enough back home and I love them, what bothers me is the city and this damned school. I hate it here |
| Question: Can attractive girls have mostly guy they want? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:21 PM PST I've been told I"m pretty/beautiful by guys and strangers. So I've believed them and also thought so when I looked in the mirror BUT I've been attracted to tall handsome guys that seemed indifferent to me. So would that mean I'm going for guys out of my league? I mean I don't think they're out of my league I'd think we're the same. BUt I'm not sure. I've had few handsome guys attracted to me too, but the few times I've found a guy attractive they didn't seem to think so this is my IG: https://www.instagram.com/krstiy_ what would you rate me 1-10? which kind of guy would be out of my league and which in my league i.e. which actors? |
| Question: My friend is a jerk!? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:16 PM PST So basically I was at his house and he had a toad pet and I wanted it badly and I asked if I could have it maybe and he said "I don't really want this pet anyways so I'll ask my parents if I can give it" And he asked them and they said no and he told me I'm sorry but they said no but I was so mad at that that I grabbed the toad cage and ran to my house with it which is across the street I know it was wrong but I was really angry so my friend screamed what are you doing! and I said it's mine you idiot and he caught me at my front door so I screamed go away but he demanded it back so I said "FINE IDIOT" and grabbed the toad in the cage and let it go into the forest so my friend started crying and I just smashed the toad cage on him and it shattered with glass so today I went to his house to apologize and I braught toad food as a gift of apology and I gave it to him and he took it but I screamed you didn't give the toad idiot so I threw the bag at him and ran home |
| Posted: 03 Dec 2017 04:57 PM PST Why don't girls ever approach me They just look and stare I'm not ugly Is it man's job to smile and approach |
| Question: Mutual connection suddenly stopped talking to someone I know...what is going on? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 04:56 PM PST One of my "neighbors" in town and I have a mutual friend who has suddenly stopped talking to her completely out of the blue. She hadn't done anything to upset her and they had always gotten along really well but now our mutual connection has been snubbing her seemingly for no reason. It hurts me a lot because I like them both a lot and I am baffled by it. What do you think is going on? I hope there is some way they can reconcile. |
| Question: Can I travel the world at 17? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 04:47 PM PST Me and my friend, who will be 18, are wanting to travel to almost every continent after we both graduate high school. the only problem is that i'll only be 17. could i legally travel with her? & could you give me some advice or tips thanks! |
| Question: My friends have been really mean to me lately. Help!? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 03:52 PM PST Hi! I'm in highschool and I'm not popular but I kinda have a big friend group. Lately everyone has been glaring at me and whispering and telling each other things about me. I can tell because they always look at me when they tell each other. At lunch they make me eat at a different table and say "sorry! This seats taken" and I have to eat alone. I don't do drugs or drink, and don't even have a boyfriend! I don't know what they can be saying about me. They call me Karen for some reason. I'm wondering if they're fake and what I should do about it. I've been having trouble trying to talk to people too. Some people I don't even know are glancing at me. They're obviously spreading rumors. Please help! Thank you. |
| Question: How am I supposed to have a social life? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 03:03 PM PST I'm between jobs - yes, yes, clearly getting back into work is the first step but there are serious barriers preventing that right now (no recent work history or references, I've struggled just to get a voluntary job without references). I've just come back from living abroad and as well as no job it means no friends here either. Trying to date again too, as I'm not getting any younger and trying to get everything back on track at once, but it stalls as I have nothing to talk about...no social life when guys on apps ask 'What did you do this weekend?' It just feels like EVERYTHING is working against me right now, I'm stuck staring at walls without anyone in my life and I just want a life back...no one wants to be friends or date someone with no life, but no friends means no life. |
| Question: How can I locate my friend who is doing hard time in prison? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 02:54 PM PST |
| Question: Why would my bf say " Yes ma'am"..? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 02:47 PM PST is no that odd? |
| Question: Is there something wrong with me? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 02:43 PM PST For the longest time and since as long as I️ could remember I️ never really fit in anywhere, and after my parents divorced I️ kind of just slowly drifted off into a depression when my dad remarried and kind of left me and my siblings out of his life... and I've just grown up always feeling like no one really likes me that much or is really my friend. People are always saying they "love me" but it's also sad because it's in a sarcastic way that a friend says it. I've just been trying to fill this void my whole entire life because my family is so ******* distant and set in their ways. And my best friend just kind of like disappeared after high school and didn't want anything to do with me after that. And it's like I️ really don't have any friends other then like aquatintences and I️ just feel so awkward around everyone cause I️ barely leave the house. Why can't I️ feel close to anyone :/? |
| Posted: 03 Dec 2017 02:04 PM PST I have a guy friend who I became close with. We have known each other for two years and for about a year until 4 months ago, he would call me on the phone every single day or text me. My life started becoming crazy with my mom suffering with cancer and my boss being a b at work. He would call me after work every day until suddenly he faded out. I have asked him why before and he acts like nothing is wrong. He said if I don't talk to you for months that is okay we will always be friends. He also said his life is going great and to hear about my problems with work or my mom brings him down and he basically doesn't want to hear it. Still saying we will always be friends. It is so hurtful for me that: a.) He won't acknowledge that he has essentially dropped me as a friend when I needed him most because of my mom passing b.) That what he is doing isn't what friends do. If you don't want to be friends with someone you say that not call every few months after being best friends for so long and talking every single day. |
| Question: Is this a friend or a bully? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:54 PM PST I have this friend and she always hits me and my other friends she always something rude about me or says I can't do something bc I didn't make a "special band" she tackles me and will throw me into the wall and call me dramatic. And when I'm getting somthing out of my locker she will push me out of the way while I'm getting my things down almost making me drop everything. She is always trying to make me holy her hand. Or she is trying to hold me face all the time. And I don't like it. I've tolf her to stop hitting me and touching me but she doesn't stop. She will tackle me and like touch my breast. It's gotten worse. If we lay a finger on her she freaks out and will punch us. She's like obsessed with my best friend and is always trying to seperate us it's so annoying. We are tired of her. We have gotten bruises bc of her. She will call me names and make me cry sometimes. Me and my other friend are tired of being treated like this we want to go to the counselor. But if we do and we stop talking to her she will kill herself. We don't know what to do. |
| Question: I moved and I HATE it here? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:49 PM PST I was born and raised in Toronto, loved my city, and had a great life there. I'm a 14 year old girl and I moved to Calgary for about 4 years this year in june and I hate it here. I hate my new school as well. Back home, I used to hang out with friends everyday, and I had a great life. I lived in downtown and I'm just so used to living in a noisy, urban area but I hate it here. Haven't really made any friends at my school, I usually just go on my phone at lunch and this girl in my class always gets on my last nerve like 'you're not supposed to be on your room. I'm telling a teacher' like omg stfu snitch. I don't like the teachers here either, and like I hate the city, it's got me depressed tbh. There is NO nightlife here, NOWHERE to go, and even though I always hated the ttc, moving to calgary made me love it cause the ctc is nowhere as good. Like people in here are so rude sometimes towards Toronto. At school a teacher asked me where I was from and I said Toronto. And he went like 'Oh well, we consider that a foreign city' like who gives a f about your opinion, mr teacher? I'm honestly depressed. People are so different here and the weather is so harsh. I haven't been able to make friends here at all and in Toronto, I KNEW EVERYONE AT MY SCHOOL. In the high school in Toronto, I know almost everyone. I cry every day when I come home from school and at nights. My diary is full of my tear drops and rants about how I miss Toronto P.S. If you're here to tell me to suck it up, this isn't for you to answer. So please don't bother. And like I haven't made any friends at my school either. I mean I knew EVERYONE back in Toronto. I have a really bubbly, outgoing and friendly personality and I am an extrovert, but here, people often think of me as shy because I don't talk to people a lot in this school. And like some kid sat on my spot and I didn't know we changed seating plans and so my teacher tells him 'get out of her spot please. She's probably too shy to ask you' and I'm like no I'm not shy i just didnt notice omg like idrc about making new friends, I already have enough back home and I love them, what bothers me is the city and this damned school. I hate it here |
| Question: Is being pretty supossed to make me a social butterfly? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:41 PM PST I've had social anxiety my whole life and I recently transferred to a new school, so you can imagine how hard it has been on me. for two weeks straight I couldn't bring myself to make friends with anyone because I'm too damn scared of embarrassing myself by saying something stupid, I just go to class after class lunch a few classes and I go home. So today this girl walks up to me and starts talking saying things like why the hell do I think I'm better than everyone and why I'm so stuck up and why I keep glaring at everyone, honestly I was so shocked! I didn't know where all of this was coming from so I started talking to her and asking her why does she think this and how did she judge my personality just by looking at me, and I told her that I'm kinda socially inept, and guess what she said "you're just so pretty it never crossed my mind that you are just shy!" I honestly need someone to explain this, is it just this girl or is everyone thinking this, is being pretty somehow supposed to help my social life? Because if that's the case it's either the girl is blind or she just has weird logic |
| Question: Getting high for the first time..? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:33 PM PST So last night I got really high for the first time and everyone was clowning on me.. Should I smoke with them again or are they fake friends? Some black kid even wanted to beat my *** for no reason. |
| Question: Why doesn't Big Bill get off of social media? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:30 PM PST It's obviously you Big Bill can't handle social media. Your advise is "If someone bullies you, get off of social media." Yeah Big Bill, you think people should run away like cowards, obviously you're not as big as you think. Opps, I submitted this question twice. I was under the oppression it didn't go through the first time. |
| Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:53 PM PST I just am going to give a background as to why I believe this as comparative to my last question. Basically me and this roommate been having some very serious tension lately. Both of us just simply hate each other. Now the other day me and him got into an argument, I have my stuff in the fridge a certain way and when I came back it was all disarrayed, still being on the same self but I know for a fact they were touched and moved. How should I deal with this? Before you say it's not being sabotaged, if you saw how tense it was, you would understand. Basically what should I do..? Should I aggressively confront him? Or what? I could always try recording? I just don't know where I would put the camera. |
| Question: Should I be worried about this bully on Devinatart? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:50 PM PST So this one guy tried to pick a fight with an argument. After I answered his aggressive questions, he ignored all my points and claimed that I made stuff up. So I told him off and blocked him. He posted a journal about me saying I'm bad at arguing. I posted a reply showing snapshots of his flaw argument, which he hid. After thinking about this more, I realized; *He doesn't have any proof in his journal that I'm bad at arguing *Even if he hid my comment, it still shows someone did comment, thus people know he hid comments *His Profile Page has nothing to show, just a journal ranting about me *Compared to my Profile Page, it's well organized and has lots of my art posted. My own journal on the page talks about how I did something special for someone's birthday. Should I be worry that people will see his journal and try to start something with me based on just his words alone? |
| Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:34 PM PST When i was in high school i was always called annoying, and i hated it. But now i'm 20 and that was a long time ago. I feel much more mature untill a few hours ago. I was at the store i work at as a cassiere and i wanted to buy 2 chocolate bars. So i went to my 'friend' who is the cassiere but she said she was closed. I was like oh come on i only got 2 stuff, she told me in a rude manner to go away. I said 'ok fine ill check out myself'. She yelled 'NO' and turned off the cash desk. I asked her what her problem is since im not bothering anyone if i check out myself. She told me again to go away and another colleague stepped in and she said she wanted to check out for me. She again yelled 'No' and that made me pissed. I turned on the cash desk again and told her again 'Ill do it myself'. She than turned off the cash desk again and she was like 'omg you are so ******* annoying right now do you know that?' And that hurt me so much, i dont understand how you can call me annoying if im trying to do something without bothering you. So i said 'yeah and do you know how damn immature you're acting, you're like 22 and still act like a damn child by keep turning that cash desk off'. So than her 'best friend' came and also said i was annoying. So i was like who tf was talking to you? How can YOU find me annoying if i didnt even say a damn word to you? She told me again to go away and she threw my stuff on the floor. I was so pissed and just left. Am i an annoying person? |
| Question: Why did my boss do this to me? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 11:03 AM PST I am the only woman in an office of 12 people. My boss who is also a good friend is the greatest boss in the world. He gave me a job when no one else would and I just adore him. He is always available to help me when I need help. He is giving me training so I can improve my skills and get a higher wage. He is very generous with raises. All the guys I work with are my friends and I enjoy working with them. They are just great people and I enjoy coming to work each day. I found out my boss called a meeting soon after I was hired of all the guys and told them "We now have a beautiful woman working here and I do not want any problems with sexual harassment". "Anyone that is going to hit on her will be fired immediately". "I know having a beautiful woman working here is new for you guys, but she is a very valuable member of our team and I don't want to loose her". "It is my moral and legal obligation to see that she does not feel the slightest pressure of sexual harassment". I think my boss paying me a compliment. My friends that I told about this told me he was just trying to protect the company from sexual harassment claims. What do you think? |
| Question: If someone you loved accused you of trying to sabotage you, how would you feel? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 11:03 AM PST So one day I was feeling very sad and depressed and went and hung out with friends thinking it'd make me feel better even though I probably shouldn't have. It was a friends birthday and I was depressed and just no fun but then later my friend said I tried to sabotage her. No, I was just depressed and couldn't help it. How'd you feel about this |
| Question: Would it be best that I disappear? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 10:42 AM PST My dad said that I need to get out my shell because I'm shy. No matter how many times I talk to people they don't wanna be my friend. I'm not a bad person I help people. I dont have girlfriend sometimes I wish I did. No one talks to me or asked me how it going but I talk to them and they never reply maybe I should end my own life because no one doesn't like me or care about me. It'll probably make them happy |
| Posted: 03 Dec 2017 10:27 AM PST L'idea era quella di prendere una Casa tutti assieme in zona Versilia, ma non abbiamo idea di cosa potrebbe essere adatto a noi ne se ce ne siano adatte a così tante persone...idee? |
| Question: Is waiting for someone to say hi to me first a waste of time? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 10:20 AM PST since that will probably never happen and i would be waiting for a long time |
| Question: I just want a true friend. Be my friend..? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:58 AM PST I just want a true friend. I m 16 and I never really had a close friend before, and because of that I often feel lonely on my own.. I have some issues like social anxiety and depression ( have had it since I was 13), and I used to have ocd when I was younger, and I was never really much of a talker or a good conversationalist. The few friends I used to have at school, weren t really that close with me and for some reason it never really felt real to me.. I was never really concerned about having someone to talk to about my inner thoughts or likes, but the past few years have been like this lonely and I have been trying to find some friends online lately. I don t really care if we don t meet personally and all that stuff, I just want someone real and who really cares. I m not really all that interesting, but I guess some things I can say about me is that I am pretty a chill person and I listen to pretty much anything chill (ambient, chillstep, classical) I like psychology, hypno science, cooking (I am vegan), reading, daydreaming, drawing, tea and I also play table tennis. Btw I am a girl if that matters Also, I m aroace, so I m just looking for a friendship whatsoever (nothing romantic or sexual). And if you re a troll or are just going to spam me, it d be better if you didn t even text me then.. You can mail me at z1232015z@gmail.com, and if there s anything else you d want to ask me, I can give a more detailed info about me. |
| Question: Will liberals attend the next commiecon? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:49 AM PST |
| Question: I'm a very social person and outgoing, but I sometimes find people scary? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:45 AM PST I don't know why, it's just thati think I know what they are thinking but I dont and their eyes are scary and the smile u can't know if it's fake or real so it scares me alot and when u look at their eyes u see nothing it's just space and there's no answers in their eyes it's scary(srry bad eng) |
| Question: Got into a fight and ****** her up, they got video of me, are they going to come after me? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:23 AM PST I'm worried about the fact that i ****** them up, but it was seriously self defense in all truthfulness. There was a dumb ***** that thought she can fight me until i ****** her up, i guess they thought i looked pretty and couldn't fight, but they didn't know i did boxing. so i scratched her face up and punched the **** of her, her friend then came after me, but that ***** couldn't handle me either, their friend was recording, i'm worried that they know what i look like can they come after me? or will they post it on the net? what can i do thanks FYI even if they show it i mean it will also show that they're the ones that asked for the *** whipping lol |
| Question: Why are my friends so toxic? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:23 AM PST My friends aren't the greatest people. I've battled with depression for a couple years now (I'm 16 almost 17, male) and i've noticed that my friends honestly aren't the greatest people. For instance, I'll show up to the lunch table one day or whatever and some person will ignore me, won't answer me, and just be negative to me. When I ask them if something's wrong, they'll go "uh what, no" and make me look like the bad person. My friends can also be really annoying too, i'll be trying to talk to someone and they will keep interrupting, or do something annoying, and when i ask them to stop, even when I do it nicely, they call me a dlck. Also its totally fine for them to be in a bad mood or to ignore me but if I ever did that i'd be attacked. honestly i can't take these people anymore and i can't just lose all my friends. wtf am i supposed to do. |
| Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:20 AM PST I just am going to give a background as to why I believe this as comparative to my last question. Basically me and this roommate been having some very serious tension lately. Both of us just simply hate each other. Now the other day me and him got into an argument, I have my stuff in the fridge a certain way and when I came back it was all disarrayed, still being on the same self but I know for a fact they were touched and moved. How should I deal with this? Before you say it's not being sabotaged, if you saw how tense it was, you would understand. Basically what should I do..? Should I aggressively confront him? Or what? |
| Question: How do I apologise for my Christmas work do stupid actions? Please help? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:05 AM PST I got drunk and long story short tried to feel up a boss from my company, he quickly told me he was a married man and I stopped He was fine the rest of the night and messaged me to make sure I was okay and apologised for his behaviour (he tried to fight everyone) Thing is I've only just NOW remembered How do I apologise I can't do it face to face so I'll do it over Facebook like he did but HOW do I go about it please someone help I feel disgusted and sickened with myself I'm looking for other jobs I'm that mortified |
| Question: Should I be worried about this bully on Devinatart? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 08:29 AM PST So this one guy tried to pick a fight with an argument. After I answered his aggressive questions, he ignored all my points and just tried to say I made stuff up. So I told him off and blocked him. He posted a journal about me saying I'm bad at arguing. I posted a reply showing snapshots of his flaw argument, which he hid the comment. After thinking about this more, I realized; *He doesn't have any proof in his journal that I'm bad at arguing *Even if he hid my comment, it still shows someone did comment, thus people know he hid comments *His Profile Page has nothing to show, just a journal ranting about me *Compared to my Profile Page, it's well organized and has lots of my part posted. My own journal on the page talks about how I did something special for someone's birthday. Should I be worry that people will see his journal and try to start something with me based on just his words alone? *Compared to my Profile Page, it's well organized and has lots of my ART posted. My own journal on the page talks about how I did something special for someone's birthday. |
| Question: I feel like me friend has just been a golddigger all along and it makes me sad :(? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 08:18 AM PST I overheard her saying to another girl about me "he knows his place because I have a va***" and she laughed...And like she always talks about her financial situatons :( |
| Question: What would make her want to soend so much on me, to be so thoughtful? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 08:08 AM PST Ive become best friends with this girl (im a girl too) this past year. She knows i collect wind chimes. I told her i wanted a certain wind chime for my collection. Shes not a big giver but shes the sweetest girl.. she called me and said they had them on amazon. I was happy and excited because she helped me find them, she went out of her way to help. She then said on the phone, "give me your address and I'm going to get you this for christmas" and i bursted in tears and thanked her with all my heart because i was not expecting that from her. Shes tigt on money and the one i wanted was $100. She later told me "okay, there are 2 coming!" And i called her immediately and asked what she ment, well she bought me another beautiful one just like it but in a different color!!! So she bought me 2 of them! It made me cry more and i felt so loved.. why did she do that for me? |
| Question: Why do they like stealing my friends? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 06:56 AM PST This new girl came to this school and started hanging with me and my friends. I thought she was cool but I found out she has been making fun of me to them. My friends don't say anything but she targets me and makes me look bad. Another new girl came in another class and she befriended all my friends except me she also tried to get my friends to make fun of me but they didn't wanna do it cause they said it was mean. She would complain about how she didn't want me in the friend group which I never knew why and would constantly ask my friends to tell me to move away. When I was walking to talk to them one day I can hear the new girl go "tell her not to come over here" twice and one of them yelled it and the new girl laughed. |
| Question: Am I being unfair or is my friend being unfair? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 06:38 AM PST All of a sudden she's been hanging out with different people for a month straight and I unfriended her. She's acting really mad and is yelling at me about why I unfriended her. |
| Question: Why do i stop replying to people? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:56 AM PST Hello everyone. I don't know when this problem started but i randomly stop replying to people. Like recently i made a "friend" in a mobile game. And we talked daily on facebook. And 1 day i randomly stopped replying and stopped opening facebook entirely. And month later i came back and replied lol i had exams even though i didn't. After that 1 day later again i stopped replying. Thats the phase im in right now. I have Facebook notifications on block. Also this is just 1 example i have did this to many good people/friends. I don't know why im like this. Im like this only online whenever i meet someone im completely alright i talk without hesitation. Thank you for reading. |
| Question: What would make her want to soend so much money on me? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 04:13 AM PST Ive become best friends with this girl (im a girl too) this past year. She knows i collect wind chimes. I told her i wanted a certain wind chime for my collection. Shes not a big giver but shes the sweetest girl.. she called me and said they had them on amazon. I was happy and excited because she helped me find them, she went out of her way to help. She then said on the phone, "give me your address and I'm going to get you this for christmas" and i bursted in tears and thanked her with all my heart because i was not expecting that from her. Shes tigt on money and the one i wanted was $100. She later told me "okay, there are 2 coming!" And i called her immediately and asked what she ment, well she bought me another beautiful one just like it but in a different color!!! So she bought me 2 of them! It made me cry more and i felt so loved.. why did she do that for me? |
| Question: Is My Friend Insecure? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 03:55 AM PST I'm 15 and I have a friend who can be really rude sometimes. A list of all the things she does: -She likes to harshly judge people's appearances when in reality she's quite unattractive herself. -She calls people stupid and boring. -She always insults my art or anything I do for no reason. -She's selfish; I let her borrow a few dollars sometimes but when I ask to borrow a measly dollar she says no even though she has hundreds of dollars in her wallet. -She tells me I "should be a better friend" when she's the one who's creating drama by acting mean. This would be classified as a hypocrite. -She also gives backhand compliments. She would say, "good job, I didn't know you could do that." Can this attitude be fixed? Should I even bother being friends with her anymore? |
| Question: How to befriend a girl? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 02:49 AM PST I get really shy and anxious whenever she's around |
| Question: So why do people work so much? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:01 AM PST ok so i have had part time jobs and i always wonder how people can choose working so much over spending time with friends and family. especially over the weekend. |
| Question: How do I fix a ruined surprise? Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:44 AM PST So my best friends birthday is on Monday and I decided to throw her a mini surprise at Sarbucks. I ll drive her there and some if her closest friends will surprise her. The thing is as I was sending people the invitations I sent it to her on accident and know she knows and I really don t know what to do. |
| Question: Friendship problems? Any advice? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:54 PM PST I'm friends with this girl who I met a few months ago at College. It turns out that we have a lot in common and it turns out that she knows two of my family members. I used to have feelings for her until I decided to rather be her friend. She isn't into relationships. But since I met her, I have became more than her friend but less than her lover. I have tried coming over to her place and hanging out, her parents changed their mind on it because some idiot at College tried to put the moves on her. Her parents became overprotective with her after this and it almost destroyed my chance with building trust in her parents. On Friday I hung out with her at College, when I should of been at home(as I was done 3 weeks ago). We walked around in the garden and had lunch. I also waited with her until her mother picked her up. I met her mom but she wasn't really fond of greeting me. Her mother assumes that I'm her boyfriend. Yesterday I didn't hear from her for nearly the whole day, I tried to talk to her but she was in church. She did attempt to talk to me in the middle of the day but she seemed very busy(replied 30 minutes late). This morning she didn't talk to me. Usually I would wake up to my phone buzzering because she wants to talk to me. I fear that our friendship will end up volatile like all the previous friendships I had with girls. I'm the reason why most of he anxiety attacks are gone and I'm the reason why she is cheerful. Any advice for how I can build up our friendship |
| Question: Does anyone think that this is messed up? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:35 PM PST So I messaged my friend on Instagram since I haven't talked or hanged out with her but yet she never answered to my message but yet she would post stuff or look at my Snapchat stories she stopped hanging out with me a while back I have no clue why she did. I didn't do anything wrong that's for sure everytime I saw her I was Always nice to her so I don't get why she is treating me this way. Has anyone else ever had this issue? I need some advice on this someone please help |
| Question: One of my best friends started smoking to fit in with the popular squad what do I do? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:57 PM PST So we are in or first year in high school and me and my other 2 bestfriends just found out that our other bestfriend started smoking just to fit in with the popular squad in school. We tried to stop her but she doesn't care about what we say and now she barely hangs out with us because every time we invite her she already has plans with the other squad. And something really pissed me off because last week we were in a hangout with another group of friends but our best friend that smokes decided to ditch us and go to another place with her other squad, and the next day when we asked her y did she decide to just ditch us an we told her that she missed a lot she said "oh my god do u guys need me to babysit u guys all the time?" When she said that I was like wtf who do u think u are? Babysit us? Hell no, if u want to be with the other squad be with them then, that was what I thought when she said that but I didn't say anything. So what should we do about her? She's just being such a ***** right now and we don't really know what to do about her. |
| Question: Trying to impress upperclassmen? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:44 PM PST I'm currently a freshman in college and I'm on the varsity soccer team and am slowing becoming friends with more people on the team. A lot of the freshman are already close with other people and upperclassmen and I feel like I'm not cool enough to be friends with them. I don't wanna change who I am but I feel like I'm trying to change the way I act. Any advice rather then just "be yourself" to get them to like me? |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:32 PM PST We are in college and I have 2 roommates. Both of whom I'm friendly with but not hanging out friends with. One of the roommates has her BF over every night. A lot of the time they take up the dining room table in which case I feel awkward being in the kitchen and can't eat at the table. I just noticed that he is here even when my roommate is not. What do I do? Do I ignore it? |
| Question: How to make friendships in high school that are meaningful? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:09 PM PST I don't have any best friends and I don't know how to get them or even make friends in general. I guess I have friends but half of them think I'm boring, though I try to find things to talk about, but I guess i'm not a good conversationalist. I don't even know how I got these somewhat friends, we just started talking and realized we had nothing in common but we still talk when I find things to talk about which is rare. I look on snapchat and see my friends going to other people's birthday parties, but never mine. Nobody even remembers my birthday. So please help me figure out how to make meaningful friendships or just friendships in general. |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:04 PM PST He's a nice person but he does weird stuff. He'll move his desk around in class, walk around for no reason (in class), and blurt out random stuff. He also always joins in on conversations that he's clearly not "invited to". He also sometimes un-ironically "reee"s. His name is Marco by the way. |
| Question: How to make better friends with a girl with Social Anxiety? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:41 PM PST There is this girl I've known at church for years, but didn't know her that well but knew who she was and her parents. From what I know is she is introverted and has Anxiety. When she turned 18 I talked with her a little bit more, once at church she offered to share with me a Hymn Book. There have been a couple occasions where I messaged her to see how she's updated, she responds with short answers. But I only message her once in a while, not all the time. What would you say? |
| Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:34 PM PST I just am going to give a background as to why I believe this as comparative to my last question. Basically me and this roommate been having some very serious tension lately. Both of us just simply hate each other. Now the other day me and him got into an argument, I have my stuff in the fridge a certain way and when I came back it was all disarrayed, still being on the same self but I know for a fact they were touched and moved. How should I deal with this? Before you say it's not being sabotaged, if you saw how tense it was, you would understand. Basically what should I do..? Should I aggressively confront him? Or what? |
| Question: My friend abuses me! what can i do? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:29 PM PST so i was at her house and we were playing on our phones doing nothing else really just bored and she suddenly came over and snatched my phone away and i asked why and she said "because you are trying to find a new best friend" and i said "what?" and she SCREAMED SO LOUD "SHUT UP YOU KNOW YOU ARE!!!!" and slapped my face and i asked for my phone back and she SCREAMED no and threw it on the floor and stepped on it over and over till it broke and i said youre paying for that bye and walked out of her house back to my house across the street. and yesterday at school i saw her in my history class and she told her friends that im trash and she told the teacher lies about me that i bully her and the teacher came over to me and started BEATING my head and slapping me which is also abuse in the us where i live btw and so my friend saw me walking home from school yesterday too and started beating my head too and hitting me and slapping and kicking and punching me and i still have bruises and cuts and scars from her now what can i do to report her |
| Question: Should I talk or reply to my ex? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:00 PM PST We dated for 2.5 years and he broke it off out of nowhere cuz of college a relationship was too much to handle and that he doesn't love me as much anymore. I said okay and we haven't talked in 5 months. I see him on campus since we are both in Business school. Out of the blue yesterday he texted me this. "I miss you so much. I feel like something is missing in my life no matter what I do and that missing part is you. Can we please talk? I love you." Honestly feel like this was a drunk text. I didn't respond and he saw me on campus and came up to me and asked if we could talk and I said no I've a final and work. This is so much BS. How can you just randomly drop someone then do this crap. He is extremely goodlooking so I know just getting with someone else will be a piece of cake for him. Throughout the relationship even my friends drooled over him lol |
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| Question: How do you tell a guy you like him ? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:11 PM PST My friend has a huge crush on this guy she does theater with. They've been friends for a year she follows him everywhere. Last year they did a play together she even fallowed him and waited outside the bathroom for him. She has more of an obsession with him. Yesterday she got mad because one of her friends was taking to him saying they're gonna get married he's way to old for that girl I think they were just playing around. My friend is about his age she's 25 he's 31. She said he's her future husband she even has names picked out for their kids. She's too scared to talk to him she's really shy especially around boys. She said he's super hot. How can she tell him she likes him ? |
| Question: I have no friends. I need advice.? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:08 PM PST what do you do when your only friend tells you that you annoy them and they don't want to hangout with you anymore? i have no other friends to hangout w at school cause i left all them for the girl who all of a sudden finds me annoying. |
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