As I was getting ready for our weekend getaway,. he calls me to uninvited me. There were female friends and male friends so it was not a guys trip. He tells me there was no more room in the car for me. He told me he told his friends he had those days off so it would be a lie if he said that he suddenly couldn't go. And that he did not want to tell them his reason for not going was to stay back with me because in the Middle East, men get picked on for taking their girlfriends/wife's side. I was shocked by all this...he had begged me to go on this trip because on a previous hang out with us and his buddy, my bf ignored me, did not awknowledge me and spoke to his friends in a another language (they are fluent in English as well). At some point his friend asked "why is your boyfriend so down, what you do to him?" And my boyfriend let her talk to me in such way.

So my wife is a personal banker, and so is my GF. My wife worked at a different bank 25 miles away. Now unbeknownst to either of them they now work at the same bank. I have had this GF just as long as I've been married about 7 years. Please be advised that my GF already knows I have a wife and I know she has a husband.

It's my 2 year old's nephew on Dec 15th. I plan to order online and send it to him as he lives in US and I'm in India. What would be a good gift idea? An educational toy or anything else? Thank you.

So the girl I likes has a car and I don t ?. So, I am an international student here in the US and I like this chick who has a car and I don t ( she has a JEEP don t know what year). Thing is that I feel bad right now cause she has a car and I don t. Right now I have been thinking if I am low, middle or upper class. I mean my dad pays around $9,000 per semester all at once no loans no nothin, I normally travel on airlines the cheapest ones no matter what, my dad has a few cars like 4 ( Toyota, mazda) brands like that. My dads family has been involved in politics back home. I went to private school back home and currently attending private college here in the US, I really wear brands like Ralph Lauren, Nautica, Zara, Pull and Bear, Nike and alikes. I just feel like weird because she has a car and I don t. I can have a car back home but at least in my country having a JEEP at such a young age 19,is considered to be like you have money, since it is hard to get a car back home. To be really honest, I thought she was low class because I have seen her pictures and I don't know people she joins with and everything but I mean she has a car that is a great deal to me. My dad told me he will get me a car later on.

I'm getting to the point that I'm almost getting desperate to get out this house an move in with a guy I only been talking to for 8 month so she can MYOB

I broke up with him which is a big step but now I think I need serious help because somedays I want to run to him. I feel insecure very much. He used tell me he didn't want to tell me he loved me or else I would take it for granted, he would act like I wasn't his girlfriend around other women, looking at them then moving away from me when they would look at him back, Uninvite me with friends because there was no room in the car. He said he couldn't tell his friends to make room for me because in his culture that would be laughed at, as I am a women...he yelled at me for my anxiety disorder. He was trying to work on himself before I left him so it hurts me that I didn't give him a chance but I know I did right but I'm scared

Stamattina sono venuti ad installare un ripartitore sul termosifone nella mia stanza. Poco dopo, l ho smenettato un po e si è aperto.. io l ho rimesso al suo posto peró sul display ogni tanto compare la scritta Open (cosa che sugli altri ripartitori non compare) Visto che devono tenere sotto controllo l enegia comsumata dal termosifone, posso finire nei guai? Considerate che sono uno studente fuori sede e il riscaldamento e le spese condominiali sono incluse nel mio affitto.

Being assigned male at birth in the West just seems like a waste...

I went on vacation with my boyfriend (our first vaca together) and there were so many young people on board the train we took. He told me if I wasn't there, he would be at the bar. I felt sort of hurt but brushed it aside, later on in the train, he locked eyes with this beautiful girl. Each time she would come by, he would stare at her. He didn't hold my hand or kiss me at all during the time. We went to hang with the others and he sat apart from me, some girl flirted with him thinking we weren't together. Later, out of immaturity she made bunny ears behind my head, my boyfriend laughed. He even hugged her at the end of the trip. I felt so stupid the entire time.

Wants to know what it looks like, etc. is that inappropriate?

I went on vacation with my boyfriend (our first vaca together) and there were so many young people on board the train we took. He told me if I wasn't there, he would be at the bar. I felt sort of hurt but brushed it aside, later on in the train, he locked eyes with this beautiful girl. Each time she would come by, he would stare at her. He didn't hold my hand or kiss me at all during the time. We went to hang with the others and he sat apart from me, some girl flirted with him thinking we weren't together. Later, out immaturity she made bunny ears behind my head, my boyfriend laughed. He even hugged her at the end of the trip. I felt so stupid the entire time.

My father and mother were divorced since I was little but we still saw my dad often, my dad passed away when I was 17, I was so torn up I was barely there to help my 13 year old sister even with my girlfriend to help me through it. When I was 18 after about a year of my mom being really sick she passed away as well. That was much harder than before and I was immediately pushed into a world where I was taking care of my sister, I had to pick up a second job to pay for all the bills. When my girlfriend turned 18 she moved in with me shortly after my little sister moved in with my aunt who has kids of her own around the same age and can help her grow better than I can. Everyday it seems like The Grieving with my parents gets harder. Most people don't know that they have past.. I hate myself for the way I treated them when they were here.. and now I'm 19 and after months of me and my girl slowly getting more and more easily agitated with each other. I don't even know why but I suggested we take a break during a mild argument and after we both cooled down, she told me that she needed a break to work on herself... She's been my pillar through all of this. And now in my own house I don't feel at home, she's staying at one of her girlfrien. I'm so worried that she's not gonna wanna come back.. I honestly just don't know what I'm supposed to do, how I should react.. she means the world to me.. but there were so many times where I wouldn't show her that I cared. I appreciate any help

I'm 19 met this guy online he's 24 we never had sex but we did engage in sending nude pics and vids on snapchat but he's married and i thought he wasant he lied to me , he also has 2 kids , At first i saw his wife on his snapchat story and i asked who's that ? He said it was his "baby mama" but they split up and that she was just getting the kids from him anyways I found his Instagram and found out he was still with her! I felt so guilty I sent him paragraph telling him how disgusting he was for doing that to his kids and wife I also told him I hope he changes his ways and blocked him .. But I never actually told his wife what he did should I feel bad and guilty?

my grandparents came over to my cousins house yesterday. they came from asia and are just visiting us. my cousins are 2 and 4 years old. i am a 16 year old girl. my grandparents are not the kindest people but today i saw how much of an understatement that was. as soon as my aunt and uncle left for the store, my grandparents started talking about how disappointed they were in all of us. they spoke in japanese and my cousins obviously cant really understand just yet but i can. and i heard so many awful things about all my family members until they started talking about my cousins and how ugly and spoiled they are. i have been through mental illnesses because of my grandparents and i couldnt bare to hear them now direct their hate on my two tiny cousins. so i would talk back to them and get angry. finally my grandmother turned to me and told me how i am such a ******* ugly stupid disappointment. And how i should have died instead of my sister. And that i should shut up about things i dont understand. my older sister passed away when i was only three. This is the first time in a while where i feel so lost in the dark. this was earlier today. today marks the first day ive ever self harmed. I am so broken. My only hope is that my cousins dont turn into the sad thing that i am today. if you want to hate on me or call me troll, go ahead, ive heard so many insults that they barely have meaning anymore. i promise its true but believe as you please...

I work with this guy who is a complete jerk. He tells my boss on me all the time for nothing. He tells my boss that I don't do anything for no reason even though I do all my work. He non spies on me and comes into work when he's not even on his shift just to spy on me. What do I do and how do I get revenge?

I have this guy I work with he is a complete jerk. All I know is his first name is Scott. How can I find about more about him?

I freaked out when my crush asked me out for drinks. I declined in a moment of hesitation because most guys who ask me out for drinks on a first dat only go for my looks and bad intentions. Now I'm feeling awful about it. Should I talk to him?

el dia 7 estaba con mi novia y empezamos a fajar, posteriormente, mi pene se introdujo menos de 1 segundo en la entrada de su vagina y nos quitamos porque no nos estabamos protegiendo. Ella sangró y pensamos que se le rompio el Himen. Tiene ovario poliquistico y por ello es muy irregular, a veces su regla llega antes de lo esperado y a veces despues y su ginecologo le dijo que para poderse embarazar ocupaba un tratamiento, que sin el era muy dificil lograrlo. Lo que hace es tomar pastillas anticonceptivas para que su regla se regule un poco,en fin. Hoy es dia que no le baja su regla y estamos algo nerviosos, lleva algunos dias de retraso y no sabes que pasara Debemos comprar la prueba de embarazo? o hay que esperar mas? a alguien le ha ocurrido lo mismo

Where I work my boss is in his 50s and his wife Sue, is in her 20s, my age. It is known through out the company that my boss is very jealous of his wife around other men. We try to avoid her as much as we can. I have had a few brief conversations with her and she seems to be a nice person. One day Sue ask me if I could drive her home as her husband had to work late. I told her I would if it was OK with her husband my boss. I did not want to get in trouble with my boss for being around his wife. She said my husband does not control what I do. If he objects to you driving me home, I will cut him off from sex for a month. OH CRAP. I am in a lose lose situation. If my boss is mad at me for driving his wife home and is cut off from sex for a month, goodbye my job. If I refuse to drive her home she and possibly my boss will be mad at me and goodbye job. After some thought I decided to drive her home. When I got home, I started updating my resume. The next morning my boss called me into his office. He thanked me for driving his wife home. He said she had a great meal waiting for him when he got home. Did I dodge a bullet by doing what I did? The LAST thing I want to do is become her friend. Do you think I was worried for no reason?

Basically, I hired this guy but he's been refusing to show up ever since our pastors wife has not been able to drive him. She lives 5 minutes from him. It is not my fault this guys parents or anyone has never taught him how to drive. He appears to be under 20 I do not know his full name, he says he doesn't know how to drive or own a car. I agreed someone would pick him up every Sunday for him to play guitar at our church but I cannot follow through with that. When pastors brought him here and he played 8 times i never paid him the agreed amount of $35. no one else has been wiling to play for us and we have been trying to find someone since 2011 when we started! Others that have came for auditions/interviews have told me our 3 singers who sing badly(out of tune) have caused them all to not want to play. It is not my fault they sing that way, they are just worshipping. So I suggested to the under 20 guy to walk to church he calls me insane? The church is 16 miles from him he told me he is not walking for over 5 hours with a guitar and amp and if he does choose to do that I better have water money(like gas money) for him and to actually pay him. But I can't afford either. I told him to call taxi he did and said taxi would be $50 to get to our church and $50 back and that he is not paying $100 per Sunday as we don't even pay him. Would you sue if you were me? For 6 years NO ONE ELSE has been willing to play for us.