Family: Question: Guys, how should I have answered this question.?

Question: Guys, how should I have answered this question.?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 12:53 PM PST

I am a high school guy with a step sister about my age. I really like her and I am very protective of her. She loves to joke around with me and/or tease me. One day she said "Are you like Tom Dolley"? "He was hung you know". Being a guy bragging I said "You sure have that right". Another time she told me the batteries are dead in her dildo. "What can I use as a substitute until I get new batteries" she said. Guys, how should I have answered that question? You all know what I was thinking.

Question: Was I Wrong for asking my sister for $50 she blocked me on facebook and refuses to talk to me now? I never asked her for money in my life.?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 12:31 PM PST

Question: My mum is always shouting at me and I cant take it anymore ?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 11:27 AM PST

My mum shouts at me almost everyday, calls me a dissapointment, a brat, selfish etc. She makes me believe these things and now i hate myself. Everytime she comes in the house I become anxious and everytime she leaves I instantly relax. She is very stressed and works all the time and she takes it this stress on mostly me but sometimes my dad and my brother. If i forget to tidy my room, she shouts at me for an hour. Sometimes i think about killing myself because i cant take it anymore. Tomorrow is my birthday party and so tonight i came home and organised the house and put up the christmas decorations, and organised the attic so everyone could sleep there. She comes home and shouts at me and calls me selfish for putting up the decorations without them. I hate myself so much right now. I am hiding in the attic and can hear her downstairs shouting to someone on the phone about me. She told me i disgusted her and she cant look at me and to stay away from her. I cant handle this anymore and desperately want to die.

Question: Why can't my kids be like my sisters kids?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:47 AM PST

I have a sister she is 52 I am 55. Her kids are 17, 26 and 30. Her 17 and 26 year old are in college and neither still live at home. My 30 year old nephew has been in and out of rehab since he was 17. He has not lived at home since age 17. All of them can drive, my kids have no idea how(I've never taught them), both of my kids lack friends as I have had them homeschooled . My kids are 18 and 19 why can't they be like their cousins? I do not want to show either how to drive, drive them to a college(college is 30 miles from us, help them pay for a college), basically I don't want to support them in their young adult life now. I just want them to be like my nieces and nephews and not live at home anymore. The bus is 35 miles from us(public transport) the closest shopping center for jobs is 8 miles away. They both refuse to walk in the middle of the highway, who is in the wrong?

Question: Should I just focus on myself and not worry about dating?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:26 AM PST

So I had a beautiful baby boy 4 months ago and he is the love of my life. He father physically assaulted me when he found out I was pregnant. Needless to say I filed a police report and left him. He fled to another state and is currently serving a jail sentence for crimes he committed in that state. Obviously I am terrible at picking men. I just want to focus on my baby and getting my life together. I want to go back to work and finish my medical degree. I'm sick of meeting bad guys who use and abuse me. I'm terrified to get involved with a man again but my family and friends keep encouraging me to date. They keep telling me my son needs a father. It's putting stress on me and I'm happy the way things are. So should I just focus on me and my son and not worry about dating. Or force myself to date just so my son has a father figure? I already feel guilty that my sons father is such an *** and I do want him to have a father but I don't want to rush into a relationship again that ends terribly for me and my son. Thanks sorry for the rant.

Question: My mom wants me to be a doctor?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:19 AM PST

I always said that I wanted to be a doctor since I was a kid, and I never really thought about anything else. I'm now in college and my major is biology, however, I've discovered that I don't want to be a doctor and now I'm considering what i want to be, I don't know anymore because I always had my mind set on being a doctor. But now it just seems hard to get into that field, and my grades aren't the best and I'm also. It committed to it as I should for someone who would want to be one. But my mom keeps insisting that it's what I've always wanted to be and she says that it's the only job that will keep me financially secure as I will have to take care of her later, because she won't be able to work much longer due to her health and she's a single mother and I'm an only child. I just don't know what to do, I told her that I want to be a dietitian but she says I won't earn much and I'll just waste my potential away, because she thinks I'm capable of being a doctor. But I just know I'm not and i won't be happy, but she thinks I'm just rebelling. And also, I'm very dependent on her, I live with her and I don't have a job so I feel like I kind of owe her for her hard work but at the same time I want to do what makes me happy without disappointing her cause she means everything to me. I'm not really sure what my question is, but more how should I handle the situation?

Question: Why is my dad scared of my brother?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:13 AM PST

My dad is so scared of my 24 year old brother he doesnt say anything to him and instead he says it to me my brother lives with us but has never ever paid rent or bills or nothing and is abusive to me

Question: That means my mom is done with having kids?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:26 AM PST

My grandfather just died, people keep telling my mom even before he died he was he for a reason. My mom keeps saying it's because he got to see all the grandchildren. Meaning me and my two younger sisters. That means my mom is done with kids?

Question: My mom said she wanted to get me a new computer to be nice for christmas but it had strings attached?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:25 AM PST

Shes mad now because she said it was expensive but suddenly without telling me, exoected me to drop my life and go live with her for a few days to learn to use it and install programs? Well that would include home reoairs and being subject to her abuse. You see I git away because she used to scream at me and demand I go plaves with her or do extra chores around the house on my only day off on her terms when she snapoed her finger even though I was paying rent! Shes been promising me a computer for years. I am saving up to get one anyway next year used or new. I feel guilty though and am I being unreasonable? Id have to find time off work and bring my dogs. I also cannot stand how controlling my mom is and bossy. Treats me lije a little kid too a lot. Even as an adult I am treated like a clueless child then called a bunch of horrible things

Question: Do you think my dads family is rich?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:14 AM PST

I am not trying to show off or whatsoever for that reason I post the question as anonymous. So both of my grandpas were senators back home ( foreign country),My grandpas uncle was President of my country like 40 years ago ( long time ago I know),. So my grandma passed away 4 years ago she lived with my grandma in a house worth around $390,000 besides that they own ( now my dad and brothers) a building which is worth $1,200,000 and other 8 houses which price varies, they have a school with another 4 owners but if my dad and brothers were to sell their part they would receive around $800,000. Besides that, mst of the time we would travel every year here to the states for vacation for about a month). Now I study here in the states, I wouldn't say they own the best cars to be really honest, they ( and me as well) like brands like ralph lauren,nike,adidas, lacoste but we buy them whenever they cheap and discount They don't really have like new cars like Mercedez,Audi or any other expensive brands but Ford, Toyota, Mazda and similar. From my point of view I think they do have money but they are just cautious with it and try to keep a low profile. So, do you think the family is well established??

Question: Plz help w advice. I am feeling gyilty over abusive family or toxic that want me over for christmas?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:10 AM PST

I moved out and hot the hell away from them they wont change. I even have film recording of them breakimg stuff , screaming, demanding people do things for them or with them, and drama. So I was told they woukd get me a new computer for xmas to help ke out but...it came with strings attached and like bait to move back in. They want me to stay there to learn to use it. I know that will lead to other things and favors. A new art school opened up there right after I moved and I would have loved to go. But I told them I wpuld never step foot in their house or stay w them ever again. I miss the dog thete but have my own. I also have a job here and life I cant just oack up and go or risk being stuck there but its a 2 thiusand dollar computer my mom is making me feel guilty now. I said why cant you just let me use it here? Anyway Life was drama at home but simpler of course but..honestly. I am no longer controlled or emasculated here now that I moved away. I dont miss them and they never botheted with me before much. Nowits like suddenly once people drift apart they panic.

Question: HELP!!My dad sexually abused me and my mom wont let me do things till he gets out of prison what should I do ?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 08:08 AM PST

can I leave without parent permission I'm 17 turning 18 in July I want to leave Right now what can i do please help

Question: How do I get over a death of a family member?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 08:04 AM PST

Yeah so last week during thanksgiving dinner my cousin richie was as drunk as a sailor and hes was talking about how great our lord and savior Drumpf is and my grandma sally didn't take too kindly to btichie richie's words so grammie got out grandpappie's katana and went to town on richie. I mean the dude got cut the F*ck up I mean I hadn't seen grammie move like that since she killed that one Arab after 9/11. Anyways- Richie is now 6 feet under and I'm scared that he's going to come back as a zombie and kill grammie. What should I do???

Question: How to get out of my house?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:38 AM PST

I am 15 year old teenage girl I homeschooled unwillingly and isolated from the outside world I have no friends because my parents never let me leave the house I can't handle it anymore I am scared of speaking out to my parents they just make my situation worse I need out now

Question: How to legally remove someone from my mom's house?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:27 AM PST

Hello me again, I have a problem I live with my mother with my younger brother and sister, and our dad Randy is a Dbag and I mean hard core Dbag, To the point he is actually verbally abusing s and making threats and breaking stuff, it's not even like he has a reason, like today (16 minutes ago) he got like how I described over mom not bringing home a sandwich for him. It's not good in the house if I could move out I would,but I don't make enough money, and I literally want to die(I'm not joking about that I mean it) because it gets so bad. Mom doesn't want to call the police. So is there a different legal way to remove him from the home? I really need help with this. My mom isn't ok with any of this she is the one being threatened the most,and at this time the police are not an option. just wanted to know if there was another way,like HE doesn't own the house at all my moms mom gifted it to her, also we will call cops if there is no other way but it would be last resort sPam · just now

Question: For my son Evan to feel like nobody is on his side.?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:22 AM PST

I was really sick and can't sleep at night because my husband and my son evan keep having these horrible fights. It stopped for a long time but then it started up again.I ended up blowing up at both of them and my husband says it's evan's fault and that I should call the cops on him and have him arrested and not bail him out. Evan is like go ahead, I will tell them all of the a million little ways he beats the crap out of me emotionally and physically . So then my husband told me to say I am going to text his gf a tape of our fight so she can see what a piece of work he is and break up with him. And he is like ,wow you don't care about me at all. And then he went over his gf , my husband threatened to stop paying for him to go to college, but he has not texted us back. I feel really bad now. Because I love my son and my husband, but they both are like it is either me or him. I am so confused. My husband can't get over his car getting dinged, he thinks evan did it, even though he didn't. He also is furious because evan made the ice cubes the wrong way and can't let it go.

Question: My mother was being sad about how the family don't bond like we used to anymore. How can I make things better?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:18 AM PST

Question: How would you handle your dad's reaction to this dispute?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 06:51 AM PST

A stranger contacted me and told me that she had heard that my father was building a new life with another woman and was leaving my mother. I told my entire family and confronted my dad about it. He couldn't believe I was confronting him over something that someone said without even talking to the woman to be able to decide if it was true. A basically just read it and didn't reply to her. He is very upset about it and is trying to identify the woman and her address. He said that he was taking me to her house to get to the bottom of it.

Question: Don't know what to do with myself?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:40 AM PST

I haven't seen my pops in almost a year and it's really been getting to me these past couple months, I started doing drugs, mainly xanax. My older sister decided to forget about us as soon and move on with her life so she wouldn't have to deal with our problems & she gets home sometimes and just argues with my mom so she mainly stays at her boyfriends house, I don't have anybody. All I have is my little sister and mom, I feel lonely and betrayed. We stopped talking to our cousins as soon as everything happened. I don't know what to do & I try my hardest to correct my little sister so she doesn't become like my older sister. I've missed a lot of school days too and its really catching up to me, I have really bad anxiety and feel like I'm going to get judged about everything I do. I don't know man, please help.

Question: How do I get my mom to stop calling me a hippie ?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:34 AM PST

I am 20. She keeps calling me a hippie because I am not really into materialism and I am thinking about getting solar for my house to leave less of a carbon footprint. I see these as more lifestyle choices.when it comes to politics I am independant. Most of the hippies back in the day were liberal or socialist.

Question: Motherless Daughter Help?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:32 AM PST

So I have a step mom and step siblings- that came into my life 9 years after my mother's death. My mom died four days after my birth- I'm a 16 year old and my stepsister is 7 and doesn't understand it really- But she'll tell people "My big sissy's mommy died" and when I'm around it brings up alot of feelings I don't feel strong enough to deal with and am trying to avoid- How would you deal in a situation where it brings up a lot of feelings- also my school has a group counseling that I go to once a month and I'm going today- but I'm not sure how to talk about it- so what would you do to deal with the feelings? and how should I bring it up in group (if at all)???

Question: What is a good Christmas gift for the extended family (cousins, aunts)?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 04:42 AM PST

Question: How do you deal with living with idiots?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 04:27 AM PST

I moved in with some relatives in order to get a better education since they have better school systems here. I thought I'd have a very great experience, because I always visited these relatives in the summer. Boy was I wrong. I'm stuck with a bratty cousin who lies, steals, and does stupid **** that even warranted child services to almost take ME away. The two "adults" (quotes because they sure don't act like it) consist of an illiterate woman who doesn't know how to save money and buys **** we don't need even though we're practically broke + she literally gives our **** away to neighbors. She's also constantly on the phone complaining about how she's so busy cleaning the house. All she does is gossip, meanwhile there'll be one or two days out of two whole months where she actually cleans the house. She's not even unemployed, so what the hell gives her the right to ***** about sweeping the floor and how "no one does anything in this house but me." The other adult is a grouchy racist guy that doesn't know how to say no to the woman. He goes along with her dumb ideas and can't speak out against her because he claims that he "doesn't want to deal with her attitude" yet accepting her stupid behavior has just made everything worse! Under them, I'm constantly criticized, angry, and unable to actually tell them **** without them making such a big deal out of **** or making snarky remarks that are "just supposed to help" me.

Question: Why Is my life so stressful, how do you cope?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 04:25 AM PST

Im a 21 yo female & I feel alone and used. Im alone in this world since my mom died @ 14 leaving just me and my dad. Now my dad started a new family with his new gf. I had friends growing up but now I don't have anyone to vent to or even hang with. I have a bf but I feel like he could be low key trying to take advantage of me but swears he's not. My mother passed & left me with nice things so I'm blessed to have nice things but it's lonely by yourself with the finer things. Im not close to my family though before my mom died I was. I have half sisters that are older than me & out of state so its hard to keep up with them but I long for sibling love. My bf is all I have & he low key uses my car since his car is broken, he's unemployed & lives with his mom. I have underlying tension towards him since he's been abusive before but I stay after to work out problems cause who else I got? He is really close with his family & earlier @ his home was his sister watching tv & walked out to talk on the phone I change the channel & my BF goes off on me & says "SHE WAS WATCHING THAT!" I was hurt. I feel like he'd stand up for his family before me. His mom & sister have used me & then been rude to me but I still come back. Also I'm short & have a really nice heart,people take me for weak person b/c of my nice & friendly demeanor. I'm stressed & trapped in thoughts with no one to talk to. Therapy is too expensive (I've tried) & I can't talk to my Bf, dad, or anyone else. Please help

Question: What should I do with my 2 sisters?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 03:48 AM PST

I have two sisters. Both of them have kids and married. They both like to pick a fight with me. Regardless of what I do, they are still angry to me for no reason. I always come to their son's bday party. I gave their children presents many many times and I play with their children as an uncle. Recently, I talked to my older sisters regarding her babysitter. That bsitter taught my nephew how to make a "sex language" sign. I showed her a pic of him making that sign. I wasn't finish with what I was trying to say and then my sister was rushing to run away from my home office room. When I stand in front of her, suddenly she jerked her head like a crazy person and shouting and jerking. Like a chicken when they eat. I was so startled and she kept doing that for about 5 minutes. I had to calm her down... and I said I'm not trying to hurt you, calm down!!! I realized, she is mentally ill. My younger sister? she is a drama queen and liked to make up bad stories about me. We are all above 30 years old and went to college and have a job (my younger sister is a house wife). Well to be honest, I do not what to do with these crazy sisters. I love my family and I want them to be cured.... PS: why I suspected the babysitter? because my older sister worked like a workaholic.... she works from 9 to 9.... morning to night.... once, my mom visited her house at 9:30 pm and she wasn't home. she only met the babysitter with her two children. and my bro in law of my older sister also works full time.... they both work and never home and left the kids to the babysitter...

Question: Are some people destined to be alone?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 12:53 AM PST

I have been in a relationship for 3 years. I have a year old daughter. I am 26. I come from a broken home and have been through my share of rough times. My relationship is rocky and I am losing hope. Sometimes I wish that I was free. Just my daughter and I. I know how hard it would be but I just know that if this relationship with my daughter's father fails I will not want to deal with another relationship at all. Even just a physical one. I absolutely do not want multiple children with different fathers(no bashing it is just my own personal choice). I honestly feel exhausted with having to deal with another person's insecurities and issues when I have my own that I'm trying to heal from. I want the best for my daughter and I want to be a role model for her. I also want her to have a family with mom and dad together. A family like I never had. How can I do that if I feel like I'm held back..irritated even with being in a relationship? I don't always feel this way. But it seems to happen more and more the longer I stay. Can this be mended? What can I do? Am I destined to be alone in order to be happy?

Question: Please help me?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 12:20 AM PST

my dad says mom has affairs with 2 people that she does eveything what they say that she is not scared of god and other cheap things.. my dad drinks alcohol and does not speak to anybody not his friends bcoz he thinks eveyone has betrayed him i dont know what to do my mom says she doesnt wanna live bcoz dad treats her like servant .. also we r a indian family so divorce type things doesnt suit my family i have a elder brother but he lives somewhere elese i dont wanna trouble him i m scared of talking with anyone about this thing.. please help me what to do

Question: How do I decide between my future vs family?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 11:31 PM PST

I want to create music in a foreign country once I finish high school. I know how difficult it will be and how I hard I need to work. I also know I have to continue my education. My dad is not supportive because he is judging a country based off of scary action movies and believes that I'm gonna get chopped up and get sold by the company I might get in. I think thats completely childish. I explained to him how the process works and how I can pay off debt once if I debut. He thinks that they're gonna make me do sexual favors to older men, please like the media can find out in 5 mins and put their asses through a lot of trouble. I also asked my dad why is trying to take over my future and make me regret doing what I don't desire to do if I don't try my dreams out first. How do I decide if my family is more important or my future. Is it just because he wants me to do what he didnt have the chance to do? I'm currently 16, turning 17 in a few months.

Question: I hate my self - entitled sister?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 10:55 PM PST

for so long she got everything she wanted. even when we had the collection agency bothering us my parents got her a diamond necklace for christmas. they've let her skip school that she finally just dropped out. yeah she doesn't have a diploma or a ged now but my parents and her keep saying she's going to college. she doesn't have a licenses but once she does my parents promise to get her a car. they even once said they would pay for her rent if she wanted to get an apartment with her boyfriend who does nothing but smoke pot and doesn't have a job. she's been fired from her last three for calling in and not showing up. she can't pass a drug test. now apparently she's engadged and my parents are paying for the wedding even though they have so many over due bills and my mom just quit her job. i've been living on my own without their help. have my own car, my own insurance, got a job, and they're giving that to her. no charge

Question: My sister thinks its all my fault?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 10:47 PM PST

my sister is 26, im 16. My dad has bills in everyones name but his own. there were two in my sisters name and i only knew about one but i did have a suspicion that there could have been more and told her that and she said she would call around. eventually directtv called her and said it would be sent to a collection agency or something. her credit has gone down almost 100 points because of an unpaid bill my dad had in her name pretending to be her spouse. all i did was tell her i had suspicion and now shes saying she cant believe i didnt tell her and she said i knew what it was and kept it from her and how im such a bad person now. i didnt know any of it, in fact my dad takes the mail and hides it then burns it. I am the one who told my sister about the electric bill that my dad had in her name and it got shut off and i was freezing for days because of it. why would she think i would be hiding this? shes supposed to be the mature older sister why would she accuse me of lying and saying im a bad person over something i didnt know? shes blocked me on everything and texted my gma saying im just like my father and shes done with me

Question: You would say my half brother and I look like brothers?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 10:20 PM PST

So i'm just wanting your thoughts of weather we look alike, if you thinks so please also include the traits you think we share. In the photo, our dad is on the left and is in his early 50's, im in the middle at 19, and my brother is on the right at 24. Thanks!

Question: How do you know for sure when it s time to move out of your parent s house?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:59 PM PST

I am a 24 year old college student, and I m also holding down a full time job. I pay a small amount of rent that my dad has assigned me to pay, as well as my own phone bill, car note, insurance, and college tuition. Every time I mention moving out my parents get upset with me, and convince me that I m not ready. I listen because I figure that because they re my parents they know what they re talking about. However, living here is becoming unbearable. I abide by their rules because I live in their home, and I will not disrespect them by not abiding by the rules of their home, but I just want to know if I m overthinking things. I have a 1 am curfew, I am required to come home and clean the kitchen after I get home from work (even on nights when I get off at 1am & I ve not been home to mess up the kitchen), I am required to clean and vacuum the living room area (even though I never sit in there, and I m never home to mess it up), I am required to mop the whole downstairs area, as well as clean the downstairs bathroom I never use. I can t go on dates unless they ve met my father first, and the rare occasions that I have time to hang with my friends they complain about it. When I ve tried to sit them down, have an adult conversation with them, and voice my displeasure respectfully they get upset with me and it typically ends with them yelling at me, accusing me of calling them bad parents, and not really taking the time to listen to what I have to say because they don t agree.

Question: I don't like my Dad?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:56 PM PST

Hey, this feels like a weird thing to say but I don't like my dad and I just want someone togive their opinion on whether they think my reasoning is valid. 1. In 2nd grade I think we lived in this house and I don't remember much but my dad pushed my mum who was sitting on a sofa and the next thing that happened was that I think the neighbours called the police and we got taken to the police station 2. Secondly my parents DID NOT get divorced, but my dad lived at my cousins house for a while and he went overseas to Lebanon. When he came back one of my cousins showed a photo album and it was basically a bunch of pictures of him and another woman and he cheating on my mum. So I was crying at their house and my dad kept telling me don't tell ur mum cause then she'll never let me see you again 3. In 3rd grade my mum asked me do you want your dad to live with us again and my stupid *** didn't know any better so I was like yess, and then I was on his phone and he was cheating again with this lady from work and they sent really inappropriate pictures to each other :/ 4. He ******** cheated AGAIN with another lady from work - I don't know much, but they mainly just talked and texted a lot 5. Idk what happened but he doesn't cheat anymore (I'm in 12th grade) buts he's such a ******* awful person. He's very sexist and racist to asian people (my mum) and he makes every single situation negative, and he's so ******* rude to my mum and he still hits me across my face and in general

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:49 PM PST

gf has been throwing attitude over instagram girls. I told her all i do is like pics that's it. Lately she's been thinking of it as in more. So she's being distant. Last night i txt her "if you don't loose that attitude i will fck it right off you". Do you think that was funny? i was trying to be funny romantic in my own way lol...

Question: Nudity with other guys?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:46 PM PST

I recently went on a trip with my uncle and his two sons. His sons are 5 and 11. When the bathroom in the hotel room was being used they would strip down and change in front of each other without thinking about it and I did the same since they did. I guess I'm a little shy but is this how most guys are?

Question: Guys does he want me back?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:42 PM PST

Ex looks giddy and happy when I'm around, and no matter what he does he constantly looks back to see what I'm doing. He acts like a guy with a crush. His body language is flustered, and excited. I don't understand because 2 months ago he said he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings again and that he wouldn't forgive what I said about his mom although he said something about mine first. Does this mean he changed his mind? He smiled and said hi a couple days ago too he said something about my moms clothes and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable and didn't have new clothes. That's what he's referring to. Also I'm a virgin and he knows I'm waiting till marriage to save the people who say he wants to "smash" -_-

Question: As a dad, how can I help my nineteen year old daughter through a breakup?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 09:35 PM PST

Her boyfriend of two years unexpectedly broke up with her a few nights ago and she's been basically hiding in her room ever since. She's devastated

Question: Is there another alternative other than to file for full custody?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 08:02 PM PST

My son is two and his father will pick him up maybe once or twice if I'm lucky every couple of months. When his father actually does show up to pick up our son he just looks at him with a blank stare & cries for me when he's being put in the car. It breaks my heart! I've tried to give him other days out side of the visitation schedule so that they can bond but his father always cancels. Tried switching weekends when his father says he has to "work" but really he's out at clubs and he no shows. Now the courts have had his father put on probation due to him not paying child support and will be revoking his probation if all of his back support is not paid in full by tomorrow. I know he's not going to be able to pay that lump of money and he's looking at jail time now. I am worried about my child's mental well being with having a father randomly popping in and out of his life. Although my boyfriend who my son refers to as Dad has been around filling that role since he was about 3 months I still feel like it's imperitive for my son to have a strong relationship with his biological dad. I cannot make his father take him for his visitation but I also feel like I cannot protect my son from feeling that pain of having an absent father & it's hard. I plan on speaking to a lawyer about this but has anyone else gone through this? Is there another alternative other than filing for full custody?

Question: Dealing with death?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 08:00 PM PST

I ve recently found out my Grandma is dieing of colon cancer, and I want to know how to get through this. She s not even passed and I m a mess. She s like a mother to me and she s my person. How do I go day to day and still be able to take care of my family and me? This is how I am when she s not even passed yet, how am I going to even deal when she s gone?

Question: What do you think of this?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:40 PM PST

I was with my husband ,dad ,Mom and sister . My mom and sister dont drink ,i do . I wanted to get a margarita and my sister points her finger at me and says no drinks tonight . I didnt order one but I thought really ,i am 31 u are 36 but i am not your little sister any more you can boss around and i talk to my dad about it and he says im not going to be apart talk bad about your sister ,i said what i have to you to him . Anytime i am mad at her or anyone he says that . Idk im over her and my mom getting upset when i want a drink . I'm not going to he'll like they think and I'm not an alcoholic

Question: Feel like mom doesn’t like me/hate me.?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:34 PM PST

Hello, fellow teenager here. Me and my mother practically feel like strangers. She only asks where I'm going if I'm going to go eat something so she doesn't have to make something for me when I get back. She giggles at walls all day long, then goes into loud cursing fits. Whispering that she'll kill you, cursing in between English and another language. She doesn't look at me, we do not spend ANY time together. I've once disappeared for over 6+ hours, she did not once look at me or ask where I went. Used to hit me with a stick when I was a child, called me ugly and worthless. Last year she would stare at me at the dinner table, and would give me disgusted looks whenever I passed by. Told me to kill myself once —"if I die and your father dies, then go to a morgue and ask them to kill you." I have openly cried in front of her, came downstairs with tear-streaked face and she does not care whatsoever. Told me to never trust teacher, also has tried to damage my education by telling me to hide in closets to avoid having to go to school. Also has told her parents to go kill themselves and thrown my dad's mother onto the streets. Has gone into police custody multiple times. Me and my father have a fear that she might just come around with a gun and just kill us both. She's screamed for hours on hours, I'm seriously not kidding. For over 8 hours she screamed non-sense, like chicken sounds and things about sex when I was a pre-teen. Apologizes for being so long.

Question: What is the relationship between my wife and my sisters husband? are they technically in-laws?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:33 PM PST

Question: Am I just being dramatic?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:32 PM PST

My little sister and I got into an argument because her and her friend asked their parents if I could take them to a ball game, it was a home game so I didn't care. I drop them off at a restaurant that's not even a fifth of a mile from the gym where they were holding the game. when it comes time to pick them up I wait in the parking lot for about 15 minutes, she texts me and asks if I can go back home, an other 15 minute drive, and get her friends bag, our parents, who are beyond strict, are expecting us home in no more than an hour tops. I go back home and get the bag and drive back. when I park in the parking lot I have several texts saying to meet them at Mcdonalds that's about 2 miles away from the school. I turn around and I text her a couples of times when I get there, I call her and she finally answers, she wasn't even at Mcdonalds. she finally gets dropped off and I notice that she was riding with her friend and her boyfriend in his car, when I ask her about it she tells me that she did get in this strangers car. our Parents told her before she left to not leave that gym until I was there to pick her up. she deliberately went against what our parents told her not to do. I get that kids will be kids but this senior (she's a sophomore and so is her friend) has been rumored to not be the nicest to girls, physically, and I don't want my little sister in the same car as him. I got upset and was yelling at her, I shouldn't have yelled but I did. and I feel like ****.

Question: I'm 23 years old and I need help. I have no support system. I live in a dysfunctional family and I don't know hw to handle it.?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:30 PM PST

My family has there own problems. How can I get help

Question: Why cant my grandmother stop arguing even for one moment?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:26 PM PST

She repeats the same thing over and over again for years. She needs to have tape wrapped over her mouth.

Question: What to do when people bring you down ???!!!?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:12 PM PST

And these people are family who I live with. I tried to ignore these Id iots but still. Always ignore these idiots but they still won't keep and always bite. An example when I walk they walk past or walk past me and always twist in turn or move on me go over me. Like wtf . It happens I ignore these id iots but still. Why ? What can I do ???? 😡😡😡😡😡😡

Question: Having a bad day?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 07:01 PM PST

Both of my parents died this morning in a car accident im only 18 and have my baby brother too care for and my 11 year old sister no other family around besides me wut do I do?

Question: Why do my parents think i m rebellious?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 06:41 PM PST

so, my parents are constantly breathing down my neck. I m sixteen years old and I m a boy, I don t think I ve ever really done anything immoral. I barely have friends, I m pretty sheltered and honestly, I do things boys ordinarily won t do (Such as crocheting, cooking, liking weird girl stuff and whatnot). Well, what I m trying to convey here is that they think I m opposing them. They think I m doing drugs, sending inappropriate stuff to people, drinking, and many more things, although considering my mother s history, she is an abusive smoker and she drinks quite a bit. They invariably accuse me, and team up to try and humiliate me in public or wherever about stuff I ve never done, they use offensive words and my mom says that I make her depressed or she doesn t love me. They get suspicious of me. If my mood is imperceptibly off, they accuse me of being intoxicated or they complain about how I m such a terrible son. Another thing is that my mother is trying to do is restrain my future. I stay quite a bit after school to volunteer on art events and attend tutorials and so then my mom thinks I m lying to her and keeping secrets. She wants to transfer me from schools or obstruct my learning capabilities. She also interrupts me while doing homework and she just doesn t really care about my future. This just bothers me so much and it hurts me. I m probably a little sensitive and it s caused me to harm my self and feel alone. Why do my parents think I'm rebellious?

Question: I'm gonna be sad this Christmas. Why does my brother get treated better than me on Christmas?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 06:26 PM PST

Well I'm in my 20s female with disabilities and my brother doesn't have any. He is in his 30s. Well anyways. My mom is only gonna spend 100 dollars or less on me. But she is going to get him a new ps4 pro,and another controller for it also new games for it too. She also is gonna get him a 100 dollar itune cards. And also a 100 dollar visa giftcard. Makes me jealous. I'm sad. Because I have told my mom how I feel and she just yells at me and tells me to drop it and if I don't she yells at me more.

Question: I did the DNA and Me test and now I am feeling enormous anxiety about what I will find and must wait until January for results?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:49 PM PST

How do I stay calm? I am nervous about it and afraid it will wreck my Christmas. My mother was never sure who my Dad was. That is why I have so much anxiety. I fear his family will reject me as it was my Dad's (the Dad who raised me) mother (my grandmother) who gave me the 23 and Me item as a present on my birthday November 12th. If it is one of the other two people my Mom slept with then my Dad's family might reject me not as a person but as a family member. My Dad is all Italian and the other two men who might be my father has one with some Italian but also Scottish and Scandanavian. I have met him. The other guy my mother said she would have no way of finding and he was black (she doesn't know much else as it was a one night affair). She doesn't even know his last name. So what do I do? I am scared.

Question: Do I have a voice in my parents' post-divorce relationship with me?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:45 PM PST

I am 14. My parents divorced four years ago. My Mom has told my siblings and I ever since that if our Dad loved us he would have treated her better. She reminds me when I reach out that he does not love us because he does not love anyone. When he responds to my outreach my Mom says, in front of my brother and sister, "well I guess he wants a relationship with Andrew but I sure wish he did with his other two children". She has long put him down to us and I am nervous when I do see him that if I make one mistake I will be rejected. This is cause of the stuff my Mom has told me. My Dad lied for years about fiances to our Mom. That was why she divorced him. I am unable, because of my Mom's rules, to see him on birthdays and holidays. Do I have a say on being able to see him or must I be out of high school? I don;t like Christmas as much as when we could see our Dad. My Mom punishes us to get him back for lying.

Question: My Mom is a racist and her nephew who was adopted is black. What do I do to keep the peace at Christmas?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:41 PM PST

My Mom is not a hard core racist but she is known for racial stereotypes like when Obama was elected she said "finally a black superstar who is intelligent" to which my Dad warned me never to say something like that at school. When OJ Simpson was released and I asked about his history my mother said "the all black jury wasn't intelligent enough to convict him" to which my Dad said, "honey, my God don't say that in front of your sister's family" referring to the sister who has the African American child (they weren't there). So how do I keep the piece with my mother who is racist vs. her sister who adopted a baby who was of Ethiopian descent? The baby is now five.

Question: Wtf am I sopose to do to let people know that I'm not the damn problem with my sister wanting to commit suicide?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:18 PM PST

My sister is thinking of suicide and we both have attempted it in our lives while people always treated her better from day one of her birth. I'm 4 years older and they tell me to talk to her nice and respect her while I attempt to do so, but she treats me like a joke and do some sneaky childish kid **** to piss me off. I'm always getting in trouble for saying something negative while she can say anything and get to live life like disney land. I'm in court process for some dumb family ****, got put in hand cuffs 10 times in my life, had to be in a cell 3 times which was longer every time. My sister has done things that she should have got to see what it feels like just to be in the court system and never gets penalized. She had trouble in school with bullying. I've had trouble with bullying my whole life and even now since I'm an adult. I mean if someone is always making her have joy throughout her whole life and she's always on top and is such a spoiled brat then I ask those people why that is? She is getting her high school diploma from school which I got no help like her. She doesn't work at anything ad quits on everything possible but to eat food, or use electronics. I work at basketball and even school work just to get to college for NBA which I play like a crystal meth addict 10 hours everyday while my sister works for absolutely nothing.

Question: Are your legal guardians kids your sibling?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 05:02 PM PST

If somebody has become your legal guardian and he has kids, are those kids considered your sibling

Question: Should I call a relative to say happy birthday when I saw them a few days ago?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 04:56 PM PST

I was wondering if it is expected that I call a close relative to wish them a happy birthday if I saw them a few days ago and wished them a happy birthday then.

Question: Hi. I am an older brother whose parents and I need help. My little brother is 10 and though gullible not stupid. And we lost the elves.....?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 04:26 PM PST

My mother bought one of a kind elves online from some old lady who passed a few months ago. My elf is a classic elf on the shelf but my brothers was one of a kind. Last year he demanded that "Santa" Send touchable elves to the house. "Santa" Did and I have been discretely moving them about the house for that last 2 days. He noticed this this morning but this will only hold up another day or so. We need a reason why Skip and Jam have disappeared. So far we are going with one elf retired due to his having of great grand children. The other is simply not coming back because he can t bare to go without his partner. Please help

Question: What should I do about my family situation?

Posted: 30 Nov 2017 04:06 PM PST

I moved in with my aunt/uncle/grandma/cousins 3 years ago when my mom passed away. I'm 14 now. My dad and mom divorced when I was a baby. And I haven't seen him in years. My aunt and uncle are emotionally abusive, especially my uncle. They yell, get up in my face, and call me names. They have both threatened to slap me before. My grandma (my official guardian) lets it happen. She has said before that we'll move out but we don't. We just stay here and it continues. Last year, a DHS worker came to our house and interviewed us. I said that I wanted to stay here but it was a lie. Sometimes I have suicidal thoughts. Nobody knows this though. I don't know what to do anymore. All of my siblings have moved out already because of the situation. My cousins (all younger than me) aren't treated like this. My aunt's mom came over for thanksgiving. Everyone was just pretending that everything was all good. But I can't pretend much longer. I do online school so I'm home 24/7. Should I tell my school counselor? What should I say to them? Any advice? I have no clue.