My seventy something neighbour mentioned in passing that she is going to some kind of fancy concert at the city hall and I offered to borrow her a necklace since she had no jewellery. I mentioned that she is to give it back tomorrow. At the time it seemed like a kind thing to do, but since she didn t return it I m starting to think that she thinks it was a present. How do I get my necklace back without insulting her?

Me and my fiance have a good relationship and despite the short time of us dating I know he is the one and we were meant for each other. We are suppose to be getting married soon. The only issue I have is that I know I'm not his typical preference which makes me feel insecure sometimes in the relationship. I have lost a lot of weight unexpectedly these past seven months. I went from 156 pounds to 136 pounds I am 5ft4 by the way. Me and my fianc'e have been together since September. Last month he admitted to me that he wanted me to gain some weight and told me he wanted to get me pregnant so that I could gain some weight. He's apologized and never made a comment about my weight again. He openly admitted that he prefers and likes bigger woman. And if he sees someone bigger and attractive he'll tell me but not in a disrespectful manner. Sometimes he'll look at a woman with a fake bottom shaking her booty and he'll show me. I've let it go but it bugs me sometimes now because sometimes I feel like I'm not attractive to him or good enough and it makes me feel like crap. He says he loves me and that I'm perfect just the way I am but I don't be live him sometimes. He still seems very attracted to me which is interesting. He's always holding me and kissing me telling me that I'm beautiful and sexy. He initiates making love even more than I do. But if I'm not his typical preference body wise why would he want to marry me?

I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me and I was very upset. To get back at him I had unprotected sex with one of his best friends and I did not feel guilty. In fact the sex felt so good and I have no regrets about what I did.

he was married. Now one of his friends is showing interest in me. I feel he is aware of his friend likes me. What would you do if you were me? I I go out with his friend, will it be awkward?

Because she has trouble hearing and is a woman. I have disabilities and he probably thinks the same thing about me too. I am seriously depressed because of this. Disgustes me how he think he is better than her all because she has trouble hearing and he doesn't and that she is a woman and he isn't and he is a moody jerk. My mom does a lot more for me and is more caring and giving and he is greedy. He didn't even want to give me 10 dollars because he thought that was too much.

My ex gf dated a guy for two and a half years. I worked with her at the time and she always used to say how much she hated this guy. I broke up with my gf and started to like her but didn't really make a move because I respected that she had a bf. As we became close work friends she would tell me how much of an ahole her bf was and that she wanted to break up with him. She even said he put his hands on her a couple times and always made her feel like ****. She started flirting hard with me. Saying she wanted to **** me and see my dick etc. She even showed me a pic of her **** so she clearly didn't love the guy she was dating. So they eventually break up and two months later her and I start dating. We date for three years and recently mutually broke up. We were very different people. THREE WEEKS after we broke up she was back in a full blown relationship with the ex from before me. Facebook official and all. Her and her family claimed to hate this dude for the last 3 years. It honestly tore me up and still bothers me. Made me feel like she never care about me . The strange part to me is that this ex of hers always wanted her back. She could have had him at the snap of a finger the whole time me and her were together. So if she had feelings for him all along why would she spend three years with me? Why not go back to him sooner? She was also always talking about a future with me such as moving in together and getting engaged etc. Thoughts?

I'm trying to buy a car, so I originally called the woman a couple times with no answer until she finally texted me saying she's always working and texting is easier. So I told her I'm coming all this way this weekend specifically to buy her car and that we would touch base Thursday. I texted her Thursday, it's now Saturday and she never replied. I'm pissed because I'm coming this weekend specifically for this reason and she can't as much text me back saying "sorry it sold" or "sorry I can't this weekend" if that is the case? What should I do from this point? Should I touch base again or just wait until WHENEVER she replies if ever? If I see the car there this weekend when I drive by I'm gonna explode lol

Please no rude comments. Read before you judge.I fell in love with this teddy at the store ($60) I've been with my boyfriend 3 years and have never asked him to buy me a cup of pop., I've never asked for it And i've never wanted it but i admired it and he knew. He grabbed it off the shell one day and bought it for a girl friend of his (birthday gift). Here is the real reason I was pissed, he took me out with this friend and other friends and ignored me. He, nor his friends spoke to me, they speak a different language ( fluent in English). THEN, to "make up for it" invites me on weekend vaca...and then uninvited me because his friend no more room for me. He left me for this trip because "I didn't want to tel my friends I wasn't going to go because of a women" I felt so sad, and even worse that he bought this girl a teddy. His friend who never has liked me.

So I was hooking up with this guy for a few months during the summer. He said he liked me but he was weird about dating and we never discussed it. I left cause the job was seasonal. I found another seasonal job for the winter and it turns out he works here too. We were away from each other for a month. We never really texted, he never answered my snaps, so I forgot about it. Turns out he now has a gf and said he's trying this boyfriend thing and long distance. P.S. he told me we wouldn't work out because of distance. So the rent day he cheated and we hooked up again. And it's continuing. I know I'm also the bad one here And he's taking advantage of me. I'm so freaking confused...I don't understand why he wouldn't date me and he said it would change things. I think he likes how fun and spontaneous it is and he also said he likes that we can just chill. Which is what we could do if we were together. I'm just asking if anyone's been in a similar situation and has any clue why a guy would act this way. I already know how I should handle the situation, which I'm gonna take care of soon, I just want to know why he's doing this to me

I grew up without my father in my life, I met him three weeks ago and now I feel a very overwhelming feeling of possessiveness. I am 18 years old, btw. He and I talk throughout the day, but when he needed to help his girlfriend, I became very jealous and wanted him to only talk to me. Which is super selfish and obnoxious, but it was just my feeling. Is this normal? Will it go away? What should I do? I told my father and he said it didn't bother him...

Hello everyone. I am a 25 year old male and I have been in a relationship with my 23 year old boyfriend for nearly three and a half years. We have been living together for 1 year. I adore him to the ends of the earth and would never wish to harm him in any way, which is why I need of some advice on how to come clean to him regarding some issues I have that he is not aware of. I was born with a rare heart defect called Ebstein's Anomaly and was told by my Cardiologist that it is a severe enough case, that she predicts my life expectancy would range somewhere in my early thirties, which is five years or so away. I have known this information since I was the age of 15 and yet, I have been unable to tell my boyfriend about it; let alone that I have anything wrong with me. He is beginning to talk about the ideas of starting a lifelong journey together and he seems so genuinely excited for our relationship to become a promise, that it terrifies me to tell him. How do I tell my boyfriend, who is so precious to me, that my life could possibly end, right before his is truly beginning; right before our relationship is becoming something truly permanent? It terrifies me to think that I may leave him, hurt him, scare him and I am truly lost on what to do or how to tell him, or even if it is a good idea to tell him. Is it selfish of me to tell him? To not tell him? To be with him when I know I may not be here in five years? Please tell me what I need to do to deal with this situation.

My boyfriend of over a year recently started having wet dreams. Always saying the dreams are only me. He's distant about it and seems angry at times. We argue enough about his lack of sex drive. He's 23, I'm 42... I could really use some advice

So my girl and I had sex and ofc used a condom.She was at her point of ovulation though. I finished inside and we pulled out immediately.The condom didn't slip out or bust or have any holes cuz I checked and there was no leaking.i guess I'm just alittle more paranoid this time since it happened during ovulation where it's easiest to get preg. So we both agreed no more on ovulation or fertile days. Are we most likely good?

My roommate is addicted to league of legends, and typically plays in until 1-2 in the morning every night. I deeply value sleep and try to go to bed around 10 on weeknights, but she thinks this is outrageously early. Her constant clicking and vulgar talking onto the headset makes it impossible for me to sleep, and I often can't get to sleep until she finally goes to bed. I've asked her to quiet down, and she thinks it's "unfair that she has to accommodate me by not talking when I'm doing nothing to accommodate her". Because this is "how she socializes". We finally agreed that she'd not talk for half an hour after I go to bed, then whisper after I'm already probably asleep. This isn't working, and I still stay up. I talked to her about it again, and she is only willing to not talk from exactly 10:15-10:45, because anything else would be "unfair". Gaming is such a big part of her life that she sees it as as important as sleep, and doesn't understand that it definitely isn't. We agreed that she'd shut up 10:15-10:45, and I'd wear earplugs if I want to sleep before or after, and she'd whisper. I think it's absolutely ridiculous that she knows I can't sleep and have to wear earplugs because of something she can absolutely control. Thoughts on this? I don't know if this earplugs thing is going to work, and she's so stubborn, selfish and unwilling to see past herself that I think it's going to be hard to bring it up again and change anything. What should I do? It's driving me crazy.

I've hated my fiancé's porn addiction. He was in therapy and had this addiction prior to meeting me. Not only was it porn, it was paying webcam models and "mistresses" to talk dirty to him. There were times where he did it behind my back and I would receive messages from these women because apparently humiliation was one of his fetishes. I told him stop paying the webcam models or we were through, so he did. As for porn, he hasn't stopped. A few months ago I tried to be open minded and watch it together during sex but he didn't even pay attention to me. I felt so unloved and insignificant. He only stared at his phone the whole time, he wouldn't even make eye contact with me. I tried to kiss him and he pushed me away. I don't feel I deserve this. I feel so unloved

Which housewife is your favorite and why? For me, I like Stephanie, she's hot, quite pure as she grew up in a christian family, and she organises her family stuff well. I don't like Brandi much as she's manipulative, trying to occupy all Stephanie's love for friends, stirring up conflicts among friends and being against LeeAnne after befriending her

I m 19 years old, turning 20 December 23rd. My boyfriend and I want to rent a cabin for a night or two with a group of friends to celebrate my birthday and another friends birthday. My parents are kind of strict and I m not sure if they would let me go or even consider it. I m kind of scared to ask and don t know how to go about it. Is it wrong for me wanting to go? Should they let me go? If you were a parent would you let your daughter go? I m not sure if I should even ask. I m thinking of just leaving the house with out asking. Any thoughts?

I only hear from when i see her by her design . Idk , is this normal

Today while we were showering, he commented "baby, your boobs are so low." And 2 weeks before this, he suggested that I get a breast augmentation so that my nipples will poke out. I know they're not the best, but I can't ******* control it. And I know he thinks I'm fat because he always tries to buy me clothes that fit way too tight. At Old Navy, he got me size 6 jeans that I have to squeeze squeeze into and he says "babe, they're skinny jeans. They're supposed to fit like that." I've been wearing skinny jeans my entire life and literally nothing else. I know you're not supposed to spend 5 entire minutes just trying to get them on. What do I do? I know he's an ******. Everyone tells me that, including his own parents.

My boyfriends best friend thought it would be a good idea to tried set my bf up with another girl.. even gave her my bfs number.. obviously we are and were together. My bf wants me to still be friends with his friend so we can all hang out.. but i dont see how or why i should.. Some backstory: me and my bf have been together 6 years and have 2 kids. Obviously we live together. He comes home to me every night so its not like it seems we are not together.