Friends: Question: Was it fine that I made out with a friend's ex after my ex broke up with me? What do I do? |
- Question: Was it fine that I made out with a friend's ex after my ex broke up with me? What do I do?
- Question: How is it to date your bestfriend's best friend?
- Question: How do you interprete this message?
- Question: Should I be mad at my best friend?
- Question: Friend Calls Me "Stupid"? Advice?
- Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do?
- Question: How should I deal with this type of pain?
- Question: Should I end my relationship with my best friend. I have a good job 2.3 children a nice house. He...well doesn't.?
- Question: Why am I so depressed and anxious?
- Question: If a girl I’ve been with for almost year doesn’t want to ‘flash’ me yet, should we just break up?
- Question: How to help a friend who has lost her best friend?
- Question: Everyone who is behaving with me abnormally and like a child will pay for it?
- Question: My Team Leader got in trouble for making me cry at work ?
- Question: My best friend (who lives up the road) did not invite me to a sleepover with all my other best friends. Should i be mad?
- Question: What can i do?
- Question: Does the way someone dresses define them in a way?
- Question: My classmate asked why my parents moved to America? How do I explain it?
- Question: Is my cousin using me?
- Question: Why aren't some people aware how rude it is to try to self-invite themselves along or to someone's home?
- Question: My mom talks down to me and wants me to move back in yet is mean to me. Is it normal to want to cut ties with a parent who brings you down?
- Question: How do you find positive influence friends? And making them long term friendships?
- Question: Ignored an Aries friend for sometime coz was angry.we havent spoken for 2 years, then she recently hinted that she didnt want to fogive me..?
- Question: Are there any apps for making friends?
- Question: Don't you hate making friends and get attached to them and they go away and you don't see them anymore?
- Question: How to network in school?
- Question: I want to rely on my friends and open up to them about my BPD and Depression, but how?
- Question: My classmate s phone got taken away.?
- Question: My best friend is treating me differently than her other best friends, and I don’t know how to fix that! (Read details)?
- Question: My crushes best friend just asked me out?
- Question: My friend, a Chinese, is going to study in Ontario as a graduate next year. He wants to take his kid to kindergarden there. What should do?
- Question: Im guessing its not meant to be then?
- Question: Why do people who hurt me like being around me?
- Question: Is this a dating couple if two people of the opposite gender are sharing blankets on the same bed?
- Question: Advice please?
- Question: Should I ditch my 2 friends?
- Question: I'm literally so done with being used all the time?
- Question: I think I am a cyber bully.?
- Question: Co workers denying requests?
- Question: Please tell me what is wrong and what I should do.?
- Question: IS my best friend being a jerk?
- Question: Is my best friend being a jerk?
- Question: What’s wrong with me?
- Question: Hey, I am asking the audience on this one. What should I do about this?
- Question: Why did she do such a sweet thing, it meant so much?
- Question: My friend wants me to get my nails done and I’ve been thinking about getting them done as well?
- Question: How likely is it for a 15 year old girl to have already met someone who has been sexually assaulted?
- Question: I've lost all my friends?
- Question: Why did my dad's employee/co-worker laugh at what i said?
- Question: What do you think of this girl’s appearance?
- Question: Is this a good or a bad thing?
- Question: Friend makes fun of my depression?
- Question: Guys: one if your friends (girl) pushes a banana cream pie intoyour fave would you be Mad ir laugh it off?
- Question: Why is my friend s friend so rude & mean?
- Question: Is it dumb to be annoyed when a friend won't pay half a parking ticket when you were on a trip together and she had offered?
- Question: Advice on making friends?
- Question: I m struggling to be around my best friend s boyfriend and her together, and it s causing a strain on our friendship. Advice?
- Question: Why do my mom and I fight so much?
- Question: How can her husband ask for permission?
- Question: HELP! I don't know what to do! School dance drama!?
| Question: Was it fine that I made out with a friend's ex after my ex broke up with me? What do I do? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 05:44 PM PST Almost 5 days after my ex broke up with me, I got high and dunk with a close friend, who is also my other friend's ex. He said he wanted to hang out at the park and we did. We smoked, got drunk, and just talked a lot. Then, we ended up making out and having oral sex. There was no actual intercourse though it would've gotten that far if there was a condom. The only person I've told is my other closest friend and my older brother, but she only knows the kissing part. I don't plan to do anything anymore with this guy. Should I tell the rest to my other close friend or leave things as be and don't continue engaging in these activities? |
| Question: How is it to date your bestfriend's best friend? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 05:34 PM PST I met my best friend's best friend and I think he is interested in me. Is it okay to date him when there was a point when me and my best friend acted as the couple and were in friends with benifits type of relationship (never had sex with him though) but I have slept with him. My best friend never wanted me to meet his friend, it's just the co incidence that I met his friend, My friend is committed though... still he is a very big flirt. |
| Question: How do you interprete this message? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 05:30 PM PST "You're so special to me. You're everything to me. You need to know how much you mean to me. And I love you. I want to hug for this and everything else. If you left me, everything will be screwed up, my life will be the worst. That's the hardest thing I never thought that one day you'd leave. Please don't, I don't want you to leave. I cannot take it. You have to stay with me. We still have a lot of things to do. "Everything is hitting me at once. Everything hurts me. I think I'm attached to you and that scares me. Because you get me, better than anyone else. We understand each other. And I'm afraid of not being good enough for anyone. I feel ashamed of myself. I can't be in your life anymore I don't deserve it." |
| Question: Should I be mad at my best friend? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 05:08 PM PST My best friend and I have been together for about 10 months. Her ex and her broke up 2 months ago. She always claimed to me she had never sent nudes before, only he had. Until last night she claimed she had sent them to him and deeply regretted it. Should I be mad at her for lying to me for 6 months or should I forgive her? I feel like I've forgave her a lot of times because she has left me numerous times within the 10 month period and chose her boyfriend over me. But I think she should tell me things and not lie to me. What do I do? |
| Question: Friend Calls Me "Stupid"? Advice? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:31 PM PST I'm 15 and I have this one friend who always likes to comment on my intelligence. She makes errors too and I don't go around calling her stupid. So today, I was buying candy at a mall with her and some of my other friends and I told her "hey, why didn't they tax me?" and she yells at me and says "because they don't tax food." And then she goes to my other friend and tells her "why is [my name] so stupid?" One time I made a mistake on my essay and she tells me "did your parents drop you on the head as a baby?" And then she realizes that may have been "too harsh." Instead of yelling at me, she could've just told me politely. My grades are actually better than hers and I currently have all A's taking advanced classes, so I don't understand why she's being such a rude person. Advice? Sometimes I feel like friends just joke about these kinds of things but other times I think she's just a bad person. The only reason I still hang out with her is because I'm not a very sociable person who can talk to people easily so I have a hard time making friends. I've been friends with her for four years so it'll be hard just ditching her. |
| Question: I believe my roommate maybe sabotaging my food, what should I do? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:24 PM PST I just am going to give a background as to why I believe this as comparative to my last question. Basically me and this roommate been having some very serious tension lately. Both of us just simply hate each other. Now the other day me and him got into an argument, I have my stuff in the fridge a certain way and when I came back it was all disarrayed, still being on the same self but I know for a fact they were touched and moved. How should I deal with this? Before you say it's not being sabotaged, if you saw how tense it was, you would understand. Basically what should I do..? Should I aggressively confront him? Or what? |
| Question: How should I deal with this type of pain? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:24 PM PST No, I wasn't broken up with. A relative didn't die. I was best friends with someone then did something that I had no idea would piss her off. She would push me, look at me with hate in her eyes, she tried to punch me a couple times (it barely hurt, she's short and skinny). She would embarrass me in front of our friends, she yelled at me, she did plenty of other hurtful things yet I feel bad and miss the person who was my friend. How can I distract myself, what can I do to heal? I know it's weird to feel this way over the loss of a friend than a boyfriend, please don't mention it. I need suggestions. |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:39 PM PST My friend got super heavy into drugs. he got arrested the day of my wedding. My best man. He called once then we didn't speak until he got better, two years. We started talking occasionaly again.He was still on drugs, but slowly weened himself off of drugs including pot. Yay Great! except the story continues. He spent all of his time from about the age of 16 or so on drugs until about 27 or 28. Maybe more. Now he is a diagnosed paranoid schizophrenic with violent Hallucinations. He hasnt committed a violent act, but he still has the potential. He either never learned, or forgot how to do basic hygiene. He smells. Bad. He doesn't respond well to "take a shower" He always gets weird rashes. His friends get weird contagious diseases. He randomly has Lice and Scabies. I suspect he may have bedbugs. He smokes 3 packs a day. I have to pause whatever I'm doing with him because he needs to smoke. At his house he just smokes. I have thrown away clothes just from stepping into his house. I usually can get the smell out, but not always. He lives with his parents and has never had a real job. His brothers also live with him. Similar scenario's with them but they all do drugs still. I don't know how much or what kind. All this is bad enough but its weird, but here is the kicker. He now has a girlfriend. I don't know her at all, but imagine the kind of person that would date him. Thats what I imagine. I cannot trust her or let myself meet her. What should I do. I need to add, we were friends from birth until the wedding incident, and we have both tried to make it work, but I keep him at arms length. I love him. I really do, but It is so hard to make myself be around him. We even have fun. I enjoy our time together, but I feel he is a threat to my family (unintentionally) He wouldn't steal from me. No doubt in my mind about that. Not naivety either. The time for that would have been when he had unfettered access to my home when he was on drugs all the time. He had all kinds of terrible women then. However, I have no faith in her. If she is even remotely like I imagine. I have no doubt that she could ask him detailed questions about my life, and he innocently tell her. Then rob me. |
| Question: Why am I so depressed and anxious? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:32 PM PST Hey guys, I'm 16, female, and a junior in high school . A year ago was when I developed anxiety . I had a solid group of friends but they decided to be with other cliques , so it was me & two other girls left . One of my "best friends" decided they didn't like me anymore for whatever reason and wanted my other best friend all to herself . It felt like they were dating & I was the third wheel . I constantly felt left out . So I left that toxic situation . That semester was horrible for me . I ate lunch alone and all my other friends stopped talking to me & I was a complete loner . Ppl were also rlly rude to me when I talked to them . I was constantly picked on for it bc it made me an easy target . This made me anxious and insecure bc I thought I was weird and nobody liked me . I didn't stand up for myself and I didn't tell anybody bc I thought that it would only get worse . I ditched class a lot ( missed a total of 30 classes that year) so I would avoid being picked on. I couldn't wait until the last day of school . Fast forward now I am halfway through junior year . Still a loner , still being bullied , but at a different school . The first month of the school year I was at my old school but still nobody liked me and the snarky comments kids made about me being alone were getting worse . So I moved to a new school. The bullies here are WAY worse than at my old school. One of them made me cry so bad I told the principal. I feel like everyone is out to get me & I hate school. |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 02:42 PM PST She hasn't done anything sexual with me at all, never flashed me her breast or anything exciting. Only as far as making out of course. She seems nervous and it's been almost a year. It's just boring and I've been thinking of breaking up with her, I just think it would be really messed up, but it'd be best for me. She's not fun. |
| Question: How to help a friend who has lost her best friend? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 02:03 PM PST My new classmate who I have become quite good friends with, recently opened up about her recent loss. She lost her best friend, someone she thought she could trust her life with, to a text saying "I don't need you anymore". At first she just told me that she's sad about it, I told her that it's okay, we all go through that. But as the days went by, we talked more and more, she opened up to me, and I realized that she is in major depression, she wants to isolate herself from everyone. I have lost my stepfather, I went through the same, I thought this was the best way of getting through it, but only saw it getting worse. Now my friend is going through this I just can't agree to ignore her at school, not text her. It breaks my heart when she says that she want to die or just sit in a room listening to music and crying. I tried explaining to her what I went through, that it doesn't help. But she won't listen, how do I help her? She doesn't want to talk it out to anyone, I don't want to force her, but I know that she really needs it. |
| Question: Everyone who is behaving with me abnormally and like a child will pay for it? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 02:02 PM PST I am treated like a child because i am mentally ill, i have been mocked and even bullied and it's happening since my childhood, and people don't expect me as a friend and exclude me and it's happening wherever i go, i am 24 and still no life, I have no friends and gf, everybody has stigmatized and rejected me, as inferior, I have been diagnosed with mental illness but that doesn't mean i should be treated like this, I can't give my more hope and tell my self and think everything will be fine. The time Is gone, I will commit suicide but people who has rejected, mocked, bullied me and maybe more... will pay for it. I did a mistake asking here. It's waste I did a mistake asking here. It's waste. |
| Question: My Team Leader got in trouble for making me cry at work ? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 01:42 PM PST I work at target and on the weekends my manager is off but we have a "Team leader" that takes her place on saturdays and sundays. Anyways last weekend I was really sick with the flu and was stocking shelves not usually as fast because I had a fever so the guy that takes over my managers spot on the weekends was being a major *** to me I wasn't giving him any attitude at all just letting him tell me whatever he wanted to even letting him make rude comments to me. I couldn't take it anymore and started crying after work and my co-workers followed me and told me to tell my manager but I didn't wanna stress her out and cause any drama! Anyways I went in for work last night and got a text from my friend that the guy that was being mean to me got in trouble and had to report to the offsite location for the night. Am I wrong ? Am I bad person for this happening ? My co-workers must have said something. |
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| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:41 PM PST my friend (lets call her A) has another friend (call him B) who's sorta her best friend. In the past whenever i hung out with them we had no problems. but everything had to change, doesn't it? they started driving (cuz we reached 16), whenever they leave school to go somewhere (and im following them), A goes like "why r u following us?", "go away" I felt unwanted, and that they don't really want me around and only hang out with me when there is no one else to hang out with. A seems reluctant for me to get in her car too. OK, but the most IMPORTANT THING IS. She used to have no problem with me around! but she slowly seems to drift away from me! once going to get pizza, and she told me afterwards it was so awkward getting pizza with me cuz I didn't talk much (what? i thought your friends are the only people you DONT feel awkward with in any circumstance!). Well, I'm afraid she is slowly drifting away from me and towards B. because A and B is literally spending every second of their time together. they are acting literally like best friends, and this happened recently. I mean, I have no problem with them being best friends but I feel like it's messing up my friendship with her. oh, and no, I can't look for new friends. My school is tiny and these are the best people I can find. I know everyone very well. What CAN I do? |
| Question: Does the way someone dresses define them in a way? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:07 PM PST A study did a research on a bunch of teenage girls. The ones who dressed in skimpy and revealing clothes had more people thinking they have less morals, less self-respect, and more attention seeking. The ones who dressed "appropriately", however, were treated more like kids rather than a young adult. More people seemed to have less negative views on them. As individuals, more of them said some people thought they had self-confidence and positive role models. All these teenagers were the same age. |
| Question: My classmate asked why my parents moved to America? How do I explain it? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:03 PM PST My grandpa immigrated to America from Vietnam in the 80s, and when he gained his passport, he sponsored my dad, who then sponsored his wife(my mom). Someone in class asked why my parents moved to the U.S. and didn't stay in Vietnam. My family told me it's to get a better life and education for myself since there's not as much opportunities in Vietnam. But I just don't know how to explain this to my peer. They seem kinda ignorant. I'm in high school. I guess my classmate just think that my family just out of nowhere decided to move to the U.S. for the fun of it or something. |
| Question: Is my cousin using me? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:55 AM PST Whenever his friends aren't available to hang out with him, he asks if I want to hang out with him and he always talks about his friends and for thanksgiving, on social media the only people he was thankful for was his friends. Whenever I need someone to talk to he ignores me and pretends I didn't say anything. Only when he needs to rant he uses me as his ranting person. When he hangs out with his friends they go out to really fun places (see this via social media) and they go to restaurants and go on adventures, but whenever he hangs out with me he's too poor, we don't really do anything fun as he does with his friends. I never cared until my family started pointing out to me that he maybe just using me but I'm trying to look at the good side of him. What do you guys think? |
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| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:01 AM PST She does not approve if me living away from the city and working to get by. I am happier though staying away. She is acting like I should not have moved out and does not approve of my dogs, location, or my girlfriend. She says I am just like my father. |
| Question: How do you find positive influence friends? And making them long term friendships? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:25 AM PST |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:51 AM PST For ignoring her and would not talk to me yet she texts me asking abt a sick family member and sometimes acts nice.Does that mean she still likes me or she is just playing mind games and acting friendly because we have to meet each other since we have common friend circles??? i am just confused |
| Question: Are there any apps for making friends? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:39 AM PST Most apps for meeting people are for dating, but I'm just looking to meet people as friends - granted it's complicated by the fact I'm a woman and prefer to be friends with guys. I'm looking for something where it's casual like chatrooms or forums but in app form, rather than showing interest in individuals like on dating apps. |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:31 AM PST I stopped trying to make friends because I get a little despondent when they go away and I don't see them anymore, and that goes for pets to I get attached to and they die. |
| Question: How to network in school? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:36 AM PST All through my middle school carrier I have been known as the person who only sees his friends in school has no social media and has bad social skills. In short: not someone you'd want to have fun with This only happened because I caught on to late. I want to know how I can change that. |
| Question: I want to rely on my friends and open up to them about my BPD and Depression, but how? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:17 AM PST I really need someone to rely on that I can open up to, talk to and build confidence, this way I strongly think that I can get better. I'm a new highschool students, I have a few friends, but they don't seem to exactly like me as much? Like, there are way more closer to each other and to the other students.. And I'm new, well it's been half a year already... I thought opening up to them and telling them would make me more at ease, make us closer, break misunderstandings and I can rely on them or have some hope. However, since I'm not close to them yet, I don't know how to, or if I even should tell them. |
| Question: My classmate s phone got taken away.? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:51 AM PST So my classmate was texting me and suddenly I told him, I feel you ll regret your life decisions. Because I gave my friend his number because my friend had a crush on him. And he asked why and he kept asking me so I sent him a link to make him stop. The link I sent him was a link to a hentai site (hentai is pretty much anime porn). He then was like, Don t send me that stuff. I have a girlfriend. I replied with That s your excuse for everything. Worst excuse tbh. And he called me a lame excuse for a girl, nasty, etc etc. And then later he texted my friend that his phone got taken away forever and his mom is talking to everyone (his contacts). Now I feel really bad because I only meant it as a joke and he took it seriously. I already apologized to him by text despite his phone being taken and I m apologizing to him when we get back to school. I just feel really bad and wished I never did that and I know I did something wrong. What should I do besides apologize and explain? I know he won t listen to my explanation though, because I hate him and he hates me. We were just getting on good terms and I went on and ruined it, like everything I do. It s not helping because I just found out my sister was pregnant and my other sister has autism and a bunch of other crazy stuff. Please tell me what i should do, because i feel so bad. |
| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:42 AM PST So my best friend told me that someone we hate likes my other best friend. She told me not to tell him but I did out of peer pressure and as a joke. I didn't think it was a big deal because it's just a crush, but it turns out my best friend that told me got really mad and told me that she's going to never tell me anything and treat me differently. Now she's treating me like how it was when we were just friends, but she doesn't understand that I would never tell one of her secrets that are about her, like who she likes or why she's upset. This was about someone else that we don't even like so I thought it would be ok. She says she can't trust me, but I've never told anyone else any of her secrets! She is ignoring the question "what can I do to get your trust back" and now I feel really lonely. I feel like she's a fake friend because she just changed the way she treated me over one small thing. I know I'm at fault for telling someone but they are also my best friend and I thought they should know. |
| Question: My crushes best friend just asked me out? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:37 AM PST Well I really like this girl that is in my grade so to get closer to her I have been trying to make friends with her friends. So as a result I think her best friend thought that I liked her instead of her friend and asked me out. How should I tell her no? |
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| Question: Im guessing its not meant to be then? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:11 AM PST so theres a couple people i want to be friends with in my classes but im too shy to walk up to them and say hi in class so then i guess that im not to be friends with them then right |
| Question: Why do people who hurt me like being around me? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 06:21 AM PST People say rude things to me (to my face) and I get really upset and cry. After seeing me upset they always try to cheer me up and feel bad for me. Even my family tell me I'm not beautiful and when I agree with them they get angry. I try to distant myself from their negativity but they ask to hang out or the ones coming up to talk me. It's like if i don't hang with them something bad will happen to them. Ex. - my friend told me I was ugly and he'll never date me to one of his friends and his friend told me the next day. I was sad the whole week , I told me friend I heard what he said about me and he got worried and tried to apologize even after I didn't accepted his apology he still wouldn't leave me alone like I told him to. He acts like my friend but talks about me behind my back and acts sorry when I find out. He acts like I'm forcing him to be my friend. Or something |
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| Posted: 02 Dec 2017 02:53 AM PST Okay so I've liked this boy for 6 months and I love him so much. We was very good friends before i told him I liked him and then things got awkward and we just agreed on being friends. I still want more than that, but I am starting to realise we're probably better off as just friends, anyway these few weeks have been a lot, he has hinted at calling me beautiful when I said I look bad, and at school he bought a milkshake and me and my friend went with him to buy it and he's much closer with me and he was like "can you hold this a min, you can have some if you want, try it" and we've already both discussed and have a joke about if you drink after someone you're lips have basically touched and you have basically kissed them. Does that mean anything? As he sits with me and my friends, my friends are being a bit mean to me and he stood up for me and said to stop cuz it's getting mean now Advice please Thanks xxx |
| Question: Should I ditch my 2 friends? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 01:11 AM PST I'm a sophomore guy in high school, and I'm in marching band and am a really dedicated lifter. I met these 2 friends last year, and 1 of them actually became one of my best friends. Anyways, it isn't like it was last year, and I constantly feel obligated to hang out with these guys because I did last year, but I've finally had enough. I feel discluded in our conversation, they ignore what I say, make fun of me for everything, especially my dedication for lifting even though these guys are skinny and weak as hell lol, but I don't make fun of them at all and I've only tried to encourage them with their interest in basketball. They also are quitting band next year and say that they are gonna make fun of me next when I'm still doing it because I can actually stay dedicated. I feel like they changed lot over the summer and their goal is become popular and sleep with a bunch of sluts. I'm not a geek or anything, but I honestly don't give a **** about being popular because it won't mean **** after high school. I would rather focus on academics and my passions because these will define my future. These guys also do stupid **** that kinda embarrasses me when I'm around and get in trouble which is not something I've ever really done. They are also takin part in bad behaviors like vaping and they might eventually want to get into drugs. I basically feel like these guys are not who they used to be and are not positive influences on me. Should I call them out or ditch them? |
| Question: I'm literally so done with being used all the time? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:19 AM PST Every time I'm nice to someone they take advantage of me and then leave me or are never there when I need them or just flat out ignore my messages and never respond. ughhhhhhh |
| Question: I think I am a cyber bully.? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:18 AM PST I made an instagram account to troll people just for some laughs. I would dm people odd things. One day I said one of thoses things to a girl, the conversation started off as friendly, then she started saying meanis things then I replied with even worse things. I ended up insulting her, and blocking her. Now my teachers are getting involved. Help me please. |
| Question: Co workers denying requests? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:13 AM PST I feel really awkward because last night I impulsively added three of my closest and friendliest co workers. I am new at my workplace and I have been there nearly three months but my reason for doing so was because we have a Christmas party soon and I wanted to add some people so I could talk about it or at least be able to go with someone and not on my own- it being my first out of work event with them all. One of them didn t answer the request so whether she saw it or not I wouldn t know, the other ones profile had no option to add anymore however I could still see the profile so I m assuming she saw it and changed her settings,and the other one I could see I could add again so clearly she had rejected the request. On second thought, I realise it was too soon to do so and I should have considered what they maybe felt towards being friends with a very new co worker on their social media. Now I feel awkward to the highest degree 😓 Is there any advice on how to not take it so personally or how to deal with the feelings of awkwardness knowing that they know I sent one and got rejected. I personally find it a bit rude to decline as it was a offer of friendship and to have just ignored the notification if they did it want me on there. Being the anxious person that I am, I now feel like they may mention it to their colleagues they have known for a while - such as mentioning I added them. They ve all known each other a while. |
| Question: Please tell me what is wrong and what I should do.? Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:07 AM PST my friend (lets call her A) has another friend (call him B) who's sorta her best friend. In the past whenever i hung out with them we had no problems. but everything had to change, doesn't it? they started driving (cuz we reached 16), whenever they leave school to go somewhere (and im following them), A goes like "why r u following us?", "go away" I felt unwanted, and that they don't really want me around and only hang out with me when there is no one else to hang out with. A seems reluctant for me to get in her car too. OK, but the most IMPORTANT THING IS. She used to have no problem with me around! but she slowly seems to drift away from me! once going to get pizza, and she told me afterwards it was so awkward getting pizza with me cuz I didn't talk much (what? i thought your friends are the only people you DONT feel awkward with in any circumstance!). Well, I'm afraid she is slowly drifting away from me and towards B. because A and B is literally spending every second of their time together. they are acting literally like best friends, and this happened recently. I mean, I have no problem with them being best friends but I feel like it's messing up my friendship with her. oh, and no, I can't look for new friends. My school is tiny and these are the best people I can find. I know everyone very well. What CAN I do? |
| Question: IS my best friend being a jerk? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 11:52 PM PST We just had a huge argument about how i dont provide her rides and when it comes to rides, im not considerate or thoughtful unlike my best friend. So she went at me and thought i was taking advantage of her. While she was arguing with me, she was talking crap about me to her friends and boyfriend. I wanted the conversation to be private and between us but whenever we have an argument, she always have to tell her bf and friends everything and it really hurts me because they're talking smack about me behind my back. Is my best friend being a jerk? |
| Question: Is my best friend being a jerk? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 11:44 PM PST well we just had a huge argument about rides and how i wasn't being considerate to take her home. She said she supported me and gave me rides but i was never being considerate in rides. Now she's talking bad about me and her friends like always but i wanted our conversation to be private. Is she being a jerk for making fun of me for talking crap about me to her friends? |
| Question: What’s wrong with me? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 11:12 PM PST I can't socialize with people like others can. It's hard to explain but I literally don't know how to act. I have 2 friends that often tell me i'm 'the weird friend' and I don't know what to do. I don't want to give examples because I'll seem dumb or like this is a troll thing but it's not and I'm scare I'll never be able to sustain an actual relationship. A few years ago I lost my only friend at the time because of this... social ineptness.. and I was seriously considering suicide and now I am extremely attached to one of my two new friends to the point where I have to go to her house everyday and hang out with her all the time or I feel empty and useless. That friend now gets mad at me very often and she doesn't laugh and joke with me like she does with her other friends. IDK what to do. My self esteem has plummeted and I'm trying so hard to act like everyone else. My friends think I'm simply annoying but I can't xontrol who I am and I hate this... idk if this was more of me venting or asking for advice but it doesn't matter. answer with whatever you want. |
| Question: Hey, I am asking the audience on this one. What should I do about this? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:36 PM PST I have had this "friend" online of the opposite sex (girl, I am a guy) who mainly encouraged me, prayed for me, and talking about ministry stuff briefly over the past 4 years. Sometimes in the past she would respond to my happy birthday or merry christmas or happy easter. She even followed me on social media at one time so I thought she wanted to be friends with me. She told me she did not mind praying for me. It just seemed that overtime, she did not seem interested in even connecting with me personally or having anything personal to do with me. I understand it is online, but I sense she mainly just wants to pray for me and leave it at that. Since prayer is an intimate thing and she is a woman and I am a man, I do not want to connect personally if she doesnt. Overall it feels as if she wants to pray for me, but not be friends with me or connect with me. I tried sending her happy birthday and even thanking her for being a good friend and she ignored it. She tells me I am not a bother and she sometimes forgets to send messages back so it probably is not anything, but I just get the impression that she only wants to pray for me and nothing else and I just do not feel comfortable sending her prayer unless a personal connection is established. Any advice? Usually if someone does not want anything personal to do with me, I just let it go, but if you see otherwise, let me know. |
| Question: Why did she do such a sweet thing, it meant so much? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:06 PM PST Ive become best friends with this girl (im a girl too) this past year. She knows i collect wind chimes. I told her i wanted a certain wind chime for my collection. Shes not a big giver but shes the sweetest girl.. she called me and said they had them on amazon. I was happy and excited because she helped me find them, she went out of her way to help. She then said on the phone, "give me your address and I'm going to get you this for christmas" and i bursted in tears and thanked her with all my heart because i was not expecting that from her. Shes tigt on money and the one i wanted was $100. She later told me "okay, there are 2 coming!" And i called her immediately and asked what she ment, well she bought me another beautiful one just like it but in a different color!!! It made me cry more and i felt so loved.. why did she do that for me? |
| Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:04 PM PST But I wasn't feeling good and when she asked if I wanted to get my nails done that day I said no cause I didn't feel good but she kept trying to push it by saying that I'd just be sitting there like I was than. It really annoyed and bothered me that she'd be so inconsiderate. Should I say something to her if she brings it up again? Also it turned out that I had the flu |
| Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:49 PM PST If the teen has met the average amount of people in their lifetime and has constant interactions with people everyday. The average adolescent probably knows a few hundred people (including people they barely know, acquaintances, etc. from birth to present time). How likely would they have already met someone who experienced sexual abuse? |
| Question: I've lost all my friends? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:37 PM PST I don't know what happened. I guess I turned into a loser. Over the years I became very shy and socially anxious whereas all my friends started blossoming and doing great things with their lives. As a human being, I've been progressing and maturing in reverse while I watch everyone else surpass light years ahead of me. As a result, I've lost all my friends. Even people I was really close to. And I don't have a flying chance in hell at making any new ones, I am simply unable to connect with others. I feel so alone. One of my friend groups even kind of "replaced" me with someone else, and they are much more bonded and connected with this new person than they were with me, even though I knew them for 10 years. Anyway, it sucks. How do you cope with having no friends? |
| Question: Why did my dad's employee/co-worker laugh at what i said? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:35 PM PST So today me, my dad and his co worker were riding in the truck (my dad owns his own business) and he asks me do you want to go to school today?, i replied and said umm sure i guess, it just doesn't seem like you gonna take me anytime soon and the co worker laughed (i didn't even intend my comment to be funny or get a laugh i just said it) I've been told to my friends i'm funny, so idk it was kinda out of the blue. lol |
| Question: What do you think of this girl’s appearance? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:34 PM PST https://flic.kr/p/ZJm9ok Your honest opinion? And how old does she look? |
| Question: Is this a good or a bad thing? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:14 PM PST I'm a young teenage girl and ever since my parents divorce my dad and I have gotten very close. I tell him almost everything to my friends, school, drama etc. He never judges me or anything. We also joke around a lot like friends I'm wondering if its bad that I tell my dad everything and that I consider him a friend? |
| Question: Friend makes fun of my depression? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 08:43 PM PST My friend who's almost like my best friend knows that I'm very emotional, and he keeps making fun of me about. I would be minding my own business and out of nowhere he would come up and say "shut up with your depressed a**" and it truly tears me apart inside. I have already asked him to stop but he just doesn't take me serious. I can't even talk serious with him cause that'll just give him more of a reason to make fun of me, so what could I do? |
| Posted: 01 Dec 2017 08:20 PM PST I might be seeing my guy friend Xmas anyways I️ want to prank him! I️ want to bring a banana cream pie to him ask him if it smells good and when he smells it SPLAT push his face down into the hokey custard pie. Is this funny or humiliating to him? Like I don't want to lose the friendship but I've always wanted to push a pie into his face |
| Question: Why is my friend s friend so rude & mean? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 08:05 PM PST My friend (let s call her Julie) introduced me to her friend (let s call her Romana.) Anyways Julie introduced me to Romana recently and Romana was like ,"Ew, who is she?" and Julie said ,"Oh, it s Lia." (Lia isn t my name, but let s pretend it is.) so then my other friend, Carol, said "Lia, mia, dia, sia, kia," like our inside joke just rhyming my name. And then Romana was like ,"Ew, ew, ew, disgusting." And my friend Julie said ,"Be nice, Romana." but then she was being so mean and she called me irrelevant and that if she didn t know me, i was irrelevant. :( help me augh how do i deal with her attitude and make me good friends with her |
| Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:52 PM PST We got a ticket on a trip together, and she offered to pay for half. I followed up today, and she said she would "rather not" because she had gotten a parking ticket herself this month (which, so have I), but if I really wanted her to she would. We're both students and in the same boat, and I had figured it was something we would split because we were together. I asked if she wanted me to not charge her, and she said that would be good, so I said I'd cover it. Is it super dumb to be annoyed about it? It's not a huge deal but it feels annoying; she has the tendency to be really specific about money and I'm miffed. |
| Question: Advice on making friends? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:50 PM PST I'm a Junior in high school and for the first two years, I had great friends that I'd do everything with. Two of them ended up going their own way which left me and my last friend. I didn't really realise it at the time but she was slowly starting to forget me. She found new friends really quick which made me in the awkward position of following her and her new friends around. I've tried multiple times to be friends with them as well but it just seems that they don't want me in their "circle". Every time I get close to being friends with any of them they start to ignore me again. My friend never talks to me anymore, and instead of hanging out with me, she'll be with all of them and totally ignore me. She acts like I'm a strange person she's never met before but we were such great friends less than five months ago! I've always found it difficult to make friends and right now I'm very lonely, it's so depressing! How do I either get them to include me or just move on? |
| Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:38 PM PST They do almost everything together. I'm happy for them, but it's been a process to adjust, as my best friend and I used to do everything together. And it sucks to be around new couples when you're single. They think I have a problem with the boyfriend; it's just it feels like he is such a part of my life (all social stuff, he comes over a lot) and I'm overwhelmed. My best friend is stressed bc she feels like she has to accommodate, bc I get annoyed when her bf is a part of everything |
| Question: Why do my mom and I fight so much? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 06:58 PM PST There's not a day that goes by when my mom and I don't fight, and argue. Wer always arguing... I'm 17, she's 37. When we fight it makes me very emotional because she's my bestfriend, I just feel like she's never proud of me./: I think I've started to get depression.. does any other teenager feel like this or have gone through this? I feel torn |
| Question: How can her husband ask for permission? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 06:39 PM PST So I have been friends with someone (a female) for two years now and she happens to be married. I have only met her husband like three times (and once I made a small conversation with him) and we (my friend and I) worked together during all that time. She recently got a new job, however, we made a promise to each other that we would remain, as she would call it, "best friends". She said herself she hopes we never stop being friends (and, of course, that's all I want too). My birthday is coming up in the next week and I asked her if she would be interested in going out for lunch. After asking, I immediately followed by telling her to ask her husband if he would be okay with that. Now a lot of people would say men and women can never just be friends. But to be honest, we both think it's very possible and I would never do anything to try to take her away from her husband. It's not even on my mind. So right now she's wondering whether to ask her husband or not for permission because she's uncertain how he will respond. What are your thoughts? ****** Thank you. -Josh The question is worded wrong. It should say: How can she ask her husband for permission? |
| Question: HELP! I don't know what to do! School dance drama!? Posted: 01 Dec 2017 06:34 PM PST So basically, I got asked to winter formal by this sorta popular guy - so I was also invited to the pre game party. The problem is, I'm not good friends with the "popular" people.. I mean, out of the group that's going, I'm good friends with maybe one, friendly with like 3, but that's about it, but theyre all pretty close themselves. I really wouldn't care if they genuinely invited me and wanted me to come, but I feel like they're obligated to because I'm their friend's date (the sorta popular guy that asked me). I mean, it's not like I'm a social outcast, I've been invited to one of their parties before, but it's because I was good friends with the host. What should I do? And I can't not go, because my date has my tickets and he's going to the pre game party. (And yeah I consider my date and I to be close but like hes close friends with this people, and I don't wanna awkwardly tag along w him). Also do you think they want me to come, or are just obligated to invite me? I mean, I'm a little bit less social than they are... Please help, haha I'm getting such anxiety about this! Thanks you guys |
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