Family: Question: How to get my dad to respect me?

Question: How to get my dad to respect me?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 01:58 PM PST

Alright, so, every time I say something even the SLIGHTEST bit louder, my father thinks that I have an attitude and proceeds to reprimand me for it. This happens every. Single. *******. Day. I'm sick of it, and I want him to respect me. It's not my goddamn fault I have a loud voice. What can I do?

Question: Do babies carry viruses from parents?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 01:15 PM PST

I have a brother and his wife and he have been sick with some type of stomach bug. Apparently my brother had it first they say, then my sister-in-law had it. They have a baby but she said the baby has spent the day with someone else since Thursday, and my mom has him now. I'm wondering if he would have the virus by now or be carrying and hasn't gotten sick yet? I don't want my family getting sick from this. NO rude comments.

Question: How do I be silent!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:32 PM PST

When I say something, people act like what I say doesn't matter at all. They act annoyed as if they don't want to bothered with. But then when they want to say something to me, they want me to listen and do what they say. Even my parents and sister do this. This leaves me sad and disappointed to where I wish I feel unwanted and worthless. I'm really quiet and don't talk much, but how do I become even more quiet? Practically silent.

Question: What should i do?!?! Help?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:31 PM PST

Ok long story short i hate my bfs family and mine dislikes him and vise versa.. We love each other and have a kid together.. But his mother keeps coming in between us and he lets her as well as his brother who hates me.. I try to bite my tongue so there's no more drama than there already is( i usually speak whats on my mind to anyone).. His brother hates me because he hears our arguments because hes nosey.. And his mother dislikes me because i wont let his brother hold our kid because he threatened to kill him.. Wtf... Its like theres no winning here.. Im about to just leave.. Idk what to do please help me lol

Question: Is it okay if I beat my wife?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:20 PM PST

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Question: Can I stop sharing or pause my location on my iPhone without the person I'm sharing with know?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:14 PM PST

My mom just made me share my location with her and she overreacts and doesn't want me to go anywhere. Sometimes I want to hang out with my friends so is there a way I can stop sharing or pause my location and make my mom still think I'm sharing my location with her even though I'm not?

Question: Should I severe the relationship between my mom and son?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:48 AM PST

I currently live with my mother while I'm finishing my B.A, I have semester left. My mom is a bipolar alcoholic that makes living there very difficult. I have a 5 year old son who also lives there. My mom will come home drunk and act innapropriate but it's manageable. Today she came home and started calling all kids seedlings and spawns becasue the t.v remote is missing. She starts screaming at me and I say this is not safe for my son and were leaving. She gets up and says u want to fight me *****, you want to take me on. I said no your drunk and we need to leave. Then she goes on to tell my son I am being mean to her by taking him away and that I hate her and she's going to commit suicide like my dad did. My son starts saying I don't want you to die.. I grab him and leave immediately. He then persists to say to me that his grandma is nice and he wants to go back home with her and I'm being mean from not letting him. I try to explain to him I need to keep him safe from what I grew up going through and I won't allow him to be around people who aren't safe. I'm moving out soon but I don't know if she should be able to have a relationship with me son.. would you allow it?

Question: My big sister is always trying to get me in trouble. What do I do?!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:37 AM PST

She is so annoying and I HATE HER SO MUCH!! When I tease her an say something as minor as "you have a pumpkin head" she tells our mom and exaggerates it! And she always tries to make me feel like I'm the bad guy! I feel ATTACKED!!!

Question: What is wrong with my parents?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:18 AM PST

I am 19 years old and I need to reactivate a code but I lost the product key. My mom yelled at me I cursed at my dad and he said if I do it again, I'll never work with him again. I so f**king hate them right now, I feel like I don't even know them anymore and I kinda wished my grandpa was here to help me but he lives far away.

Question: What do you do when a parent brings you down with berbal abuse and does not approve of your relationship and acts like you need to move back?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:02 AM PST

Question: Honestly, who do you love most? mom or dad?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:50 AM PST

Question: Is this a good reason for my mom to get mad at me?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:44 AM PST

Last weekend our family was going to a party and I was helping them with one of the babies, Matthew (showering him, dressing him, feeding him, and watching him) while my mom showered, did her makeup and hair, and got dressed. So when my mom was done she took over to watch Matthew and gave me about 10 minutes to get ready so when everyone was in the car I told her to leave without me and I would catch up with them at the party and she said "We ll wait for you" so I kept getting ready and she suddenly comes back inside super mad because I was making them wait and I said "I was helping you the whole time you got ready and you can t wait for me while I get ready?" And she started crying of anger and didn t talk to me for 2 days. Did I do something wrong???? I didn t raise my voice not even once. The only disrespectful thing I did was say "ok" sarcastically.

Question: My mom is very controlling and verbally abusive, yet even though I am an adult and moved out, shes saying horrible things to me?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:41 AM PST

We exchanged texts and the stuff she said about my father and me was horrible. I am glad I mived out and she seems angry I no longer need her and my life is not up to her standards. She really said mean things and think I am throwing a tantrum or protesting by moving out. When hinestky its to love my own life and be happy. I need some help or advice here because I said I was not going over for christmas. My dad passed awy a decade ago and she made uo a bunch of mean lies about him and said things you just do not say about a oerson who passed sway.

Question: Is this abuse? I'm a 15 y/o girl and my bro is 31 my legal guardian. He started yelling at me over my grades. Read question in details.?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:06 AM PST

My mom died during birth and my dad left when I was 3. So I live with my brother. He was flipping out because I failed my math test even though the whole clsss did bad on it not just me. I pushed him but it wouldn't even hurt becuase I weigh like 90 pounds and am super weak. Then I slammed my door. ( our house is relaly old and I don't have a lock on my door). I told him to fu*k off and he bursts through my door and slapped me across my face. It hurt so bad I fell to that ground and was crying. He then went on a hour speech about how disrespectful I am. Is this abuse? What should I do?

Question: Does my husband have a reason to be mad at me?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:05 AM PST

Many years ago my mom was in a car accident. When she got out of the hospital the doctors told her she had to have some one with her to take care of her for 5 days until she was able to take care of herself. It would have been very hard for me to get off work so my husband Jason took care of mom for the 5 days. Mom fully recovered thanks in part to the great care Jason gave her. Mom is going to have surgery soon and she wants Jason to take care of her again for a few days when she gets out of the hospital. The problem is Jason is now my ex husband and I have remarried. I told mom that even though we had a friendly divorce I didn't think I could ask Jason to do what she wants. She said I will ask him myself and she did and he readily agree to take care of her. I really have mixed feelings about this. I know Jason will give mom great care. It is almost impossible for me to take the time off to care for her and hiring a private nurse would cost way more money than I have. My current husband is upset that mom is asking my ex to help her but at the same time he does not want to do it. Should I just be grateful that mom will great care after her surgery and that Jason will do if for free because he really likes mom and she likes him and that is what really matters?

Question: Can I legally move out at 14/15?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:38 AM PST

I m gay and my parents are emotionally abusive about the situation (for 3 years now) and my dad has hurt me physically in the past and called me worthless and disgusting and a lot of other insults. My mom says rude hurtful things but she thinks she s doing the right thing and "saving me" (?) I have a girlfriend that I told them was just my friend for 4 months and I decided to be honest and tell them about her but it went very badly and my dad basically abandoned me and my mom. My mom won t talk to me much and makes me responsible for feeding myself (which I guess isn t that bad?) but I really really don t want to continue to live with her/my dad if he comes back. I might be able to stay with my cousin in her apartment or my gf s family but I don t really have my parents permission (I might be able to stay with my cousin but it s not likely) please is there any way I can live with someone else!! Most of my family is very homophobic

Question: How do you deal with an OCD parent?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:19 AM PST

I'll start off by saying good afternoon. And well... I'm sick of my mom's personality. I'm a university student, junior, 21 yrs old. Recently moved back since it would significantly lower housing expenses, rather than living on campus. Anyhow, my mother offered me to move back with my dad and her. Well, truth be told, I've never gotten along with any of them. Feels like I'm really different from all of them. But they're still my family so I'll always be there for them. But I'm seriously sick of my mom's personality. I think she may be OCD. She has all the symptoms. Of course I'm no one to categorize anyone, but it's very clear. She is obsessed with doing work, and chores. She even creates chores for no reason, and wants everyone involved in doing them. And when no one wants to help she screams all day, none stop. (Weekends.) I told her to stop / calm down. And all hell broke loose. So I decided to go for a drive to church. So when I got back she said go find your own place to live at. You're not welcomed here anymore. I said, what? She said, I told you to pack the water bottles in the cabinets. You didn't do it. So get out. I said aren't you overacting? It's just bottles. She said: oh, you think I'm over reacting?! I'll show you who's overacting!!! And well, I'm in my bed room studying for finals now... I can still hear her shouting. I'd move out, but problem is, I work a part time at my university and I don't start work until next semester. Sigh...

Question: Parent drinking problem?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:14 AM PST

My mom always had a terrible drinking problem, she drunk most free days from work she had and I basically lived on my own, because she would always go out drinking somewhere else, come back and shout at me that I am always having sex and that I am pregnant and that I do drugs (mind that I am 14). I lived with that until five weeks back, when I finally convinced her to quit drinking. She visited doctors, got special medications. Everything was perfect, we finally got a long again, I didn't need to hide from her, or cry somewhere in a corner. But yesterday she came back a bit drunk. I mentioned it to her, but she got really angry and told me to mind my own business (which is something she never used to do), I went to my room thinking that it's her medicine. Doctors told her that she'll be irritable. Today I woke up, to her being sober. I felt relief, not for long. She said she was going to the shop, but came back 5 hours later, completely drunk. She couldn't walk, talk. She walked in and passed out straight away on our kitchen floor. I couldn't even wake her up. I just don't know what to do. At the very beginning I told her that I don't really believe that she'll change, because that's what she always told me. But as soon as I finally got faith in her, she got back drunk. I just feel broken inside. What should I do in a situation like that, should I try to talk with her, or what, I am lost.

Question: My parents fight alot, and it always makes me nervous. Its not just them fighting, but what they fight about, like bills. What do I do?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:50 AM PST

Whenever I try to talk to my mom about, she yells at me to "stay the **** out of it", and my dad gives me some stupid sarcastic remark. I don't know what to do, and I'm nearly at my limit, and am rather scared.

Question: My live in house help always keeps making me sound like a really bad person?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:48 AM PST

I've had this horrible nanny/maid and she lives with us. I don't speak to her cus she doesn't show the slightest interest in me or my brother. She knows I don't like her, but yesterday she crossed her limits. I was watching TV and it happens that she was watching it as well. I switched it off and when I go into my bedroom she's like why does your daughter hate me so much? I overheard them so I was like what the heck? Now my mum thinks I did it on purpose but I genuinely wanted to switch off the TV and she's mad at me.

Question: I'm a 16 y/o girl and I always drop my phone. I have a screen protector and it breaks all the time. Read the rest of question in detail?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:27 AM PST

And we have the warranty so it's free besides shipping. But my dad is rich so paying for shipping isn't a problem. He just got married again and my step mom who hates me told him not to buy theming he agreed with her. And right now it's all cracked. And he won't buy one because of her. She said it was disrespectful and irresponsible. How is it disrepecul to accidentally drop a phone.? And how is it irresponsible to be clumsy.? What should I do? He's like brainwashed by her. (My mom isn't in the picture)

Question: Should i leave my son with my mom?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:23 AM PST

i just lost my car and job in the exact same day. I got a call from a family member who lives on the other side of the county he offered me to come stay with them were I'll have transportation and a job and gain some stability to save up. I would be away for a year max i would still visit my son and talk everyday with him but Ill be a great distance away. Should i go and save money so me and him can be stable in the future, or stay and struggle and figure out away to provide?

Question: Help me plz my dad is about to beat me. What should I do?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:33 AM PST

I have lied my dad that today there will be no classes. He didn't believe me and then he called at the classes and asked the details. And now he said I will beat you. But I have studied the whole day. I'm scared help me

Question: Stuck at home and sick of it?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:59 AM PST

I'm a young adult who's stuck helping my parent pay rent because I don't make enough to live on my own and the parent is in the same boat so we share the rent and almost all of the expenses, minus most of our personal expenses. That out of the way, 'moving out' is not the answer. It's not possible for it to happen right now until one or both of us gets back on our feet. We both work, we're both working on getting better work. My parent is mentally ill. I've known that my whole life and delt with it. There have been times where the parent has been entirely out of control. There have been times of calm when all seemed okay. We love each other, but my parent is out of control again and I can't deal with it. Living together is obviously financially ideal and the only option right now, and emotionally we both WANT to live together but my parent makes it impossible and blames me. Maybe it is my fault, tbh I'm not even sure anymore. #1 thing my parent has done recently that's out of control is move themself into the same room I sleep in and refuse to leave. Movingto their old room is a no,they'll throw a tantrum and try and force me into their rituals.I need privacy. For the last 3-4 months I have been living off 1-3 hours of sleep a night, sometimes more when they work and I'm off. They blame me for not being able to sleep, claiming I'm paranoid and anyone would be okay with it Moving out is NOT AN option, I just need help with emotional support. Does anyone have any ideas?

Question: How do I convince my parents that if they keep enabling my sister her cruel behavior will continue?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:43 AM PST

She uses them as slaves and they submit to her. Sister is 22. It has always been this way. When she was a teen if Dad punished her then Mom lifted the punishment.

Question: My whole family rejected me on Thanksgiving. Now Christmas might be the same, how do I get over the fear of this?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:42 AM PST

I am the outsider of the family. I am overlooked cause my Dad is an alcoholic and my Mom has died. I reach out but they still overlook me. I can't just crash their party and so I am alone. My Dad's family is spread out across the country and my Mom's family overlooks me and was never close to her as she was bitter. So Thanksgiving I was alone. I plan to contact my Mom's family "I have a gift I would love to bring by" but only her sister who has no kids responds and that's after Christmas. How do I handle all this

Question: Can I search any user name nika052088 relate?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 02:35 AM PST

Question: I never really loved my parents should I just abandoned them?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:44 AM PST

I don't think they ever loved me. They never bought me anything. Everything I got were hand me downs. They weren't poor we were average. They favored my older brother and sister more. I don't think I can remember any good memories with them. It was my sister who was more of a mother to me. And my older brother who I looked up to. They were always mad at me and I felt like they hated me. My dad died already and I don't really feel sad. I'm 35 by the way. My mother is sick and needs someone to care for her. My sibling are too busy having a family to care for her. I am the closest one living wise to my mother. They never treated me well unlike my older sibling who had a great child hood.They abused me as a child. I was thinking of dumping her of to some nursing home but the family will look at me like a horrible person. When I needed a place to crash they made me sleep in a broken old shack when i came back from college. It wasn't tough love they just really despised me. My mom one time tried to drown me as a kid when she gave me a bath and squeeze my side when she got mad at me. It was all so traumatic. They use to beat me with a belt even though my other 2 siblings never got beat, they made me stand out in the rain as punishment, they starved me, lock me in a closet, my mom even scratch me once. I just hate them so much. But I feel a slight guilt SLIGHT. Whakt should I do? Am I being as *** hole?

Question: Why would she do such a sweet thing for me?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 12:08 AM PST

Ive become best friends with this girl (im a girl too) this past year. She knows i collect wind chimes. I told her i wanted a certain wind chime for my collection. Shes not a big giver but shes the sweetest girl.. she called me and said they had them on amazon. I was happy and excited because she helped me find them, she went out of her way to help. She then said on the phone, "give me your address and I'm going to get you this for christmas" and i bursted in tears and thanked her with all my heart because i was not expecting that from her. Shes tigt on money and the one i wanted was $100. She later told me "okay, there are 2 coming!" And i called her immediately and asked what she ment, well she bought me another beautiful one just like it but in a different color!!! It made me cry more and i felt so loved.. why did she do that for me?

Question: Why are both poor and wealthy children more likely to turn out badly compared to middle class children?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 11:12 PM PST

Poor kids seem to have too much freedom without supervision, like going wherever they want. That leads to exposure to drugs and violence. Rich kids seem overprotected or spoiled (in some ways) and might do things to get attention. I know not all poor people are homeless and not all rich people are the Kardashians. But why are the poor and wealthy less likely to make sure their children will very likely become good citizens? With the unfortunate ones, I can understand. In some cases, you have to worry about how you'll feed the kids. The middle class seems to spend more time disciplining them compared to both other classes.

Question: What do you think he's trying to do after all this?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 11:00 PM PST

Ex looks giddy and happy when I'm around, and no matter what he does he constantly looks back to see what I'm doing. He acts like a guy with a crush. His body language is flustered, and excited. I don't understand because 2 months ago he said he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings again and that he wouldn't forgive what I said about his mom although he said something about mine first. Does this mean he changed his mind? He smiled and said hi on Sunday when he came down and saw me there he said something about my moms clothes and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable and didn't have new clothes. That's what he's referring to. Also I'm a virgin and he knows I'm waiting till marriage to save the people who say he wants to "smash" -_-

Question: I'm bullied by my own family!!! What should I do?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:59 PM PST

Every day I am told my grandmother that she wished she never took me in. I love with her and her daughter, my aunt. I have two younger sisters and they have no chores. I have all the chores. I'm called stupid, dummy, idiot, and other names. Sometimes I am hit, especially when I raise my arms to protect myself. I have depression and this bullying in my family doesn't help. In fact it's the reason. What should I do?? I don't want to leave my house as all my friends live nearby and I would be sent to my father. Help It's not just my grandmother who bullied me. My younger sisters do too. I can't do anything about them as I get in trouble

Question: How to talk to my mother about returning my phone back?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 10:58 PM PST

I got my phone taken away for two months because if attitude. I feel like I have learned my lesson ,but I don t know how to tell my mother about my phone I don t want to sound demanding not that is what I am going for. Any tips thanks love all xoxo

Question: Why haven't my parents kicked me out of the house yet?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:49 PM PST

so im 21 and i dropped out of college and recently quit my job. know i just sit at home and watch movies all day. why haven't my parents kicked me out yet?

Question: Does my dad have the right to tell us what to do?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:46 PM PST

He always says this is his home, and his rules, and hes always telling us what to do, we live in an apartment, our mom plays the bills and shes the only one working, my father hasnt worked in a year and drinks everyday, hes always telling us what to do and we have to follow his rules in his house, and he also makes our mom service him and do everything for him, we all do everything and he does nothing, is this fair?

Question: My sister dislikes me, but pretends she doesn't. She lies about others and has an explosive temper. How do I deal with her?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:33 PM PST

Question: Afraid of parents?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 09:08 PM PST

f13 i've been masterbating for a while now and i'm afraid my parents are gonna find out. take all the things i use and the banned me and take my door off! (Help!)

Question: My mom wants me to go out far away with her and I don’t want?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:39 PM PST

I'm 18 years old and my mom is one of those that says you're not staying alone home you're coming with me everywhere I go. We live in New York and she wants to go to her sister house in New Jersey but I don't want to. I don't like to be there and I already told her but she don't want to listen to me and I don't know what else to tell her in order for her to leave me here and alone

Question: Should I change my primary care doctor or not?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 07:34 PM PST

My mother want me 2 change my doctor bc she doesn't want 2 help me with a letter to housing stating that I should have my own room. When I went to her office 2 find out y. She told me that she help me with a letter 4 SSA that I can be independent & manage with my own $. If she help me with the 2nd letter for housing it affect the 1st letter she wrote by saying I'm sick & need help. Then she called me lazy 4 not asking my neurologist the letter. My uncle told me all I need is a letter stating that I need a place to relax and study not irresponsible with my money & doesn't know how to take care of myself History between my mother & her is I heard My mom is talking about her business to everyone she knows. I've heard that my doctor is talking about my mom business to everyone at the pharmacy store. I told My friend about this. He told me that it's not my fault. I'm just happened to be in the middle of a conflict. If I change my doctor it doesn't solve anything. I might make the situation worse by getting socail worker involved. Reason y she rejected is bc she doesn't want to lose her job He asked me if I want 2 change my doctor? I told him no. Even though she is tough on me. She is tryna teach me some value of life which I don't know of. (For ex. My friend explains to me why it's very important to come to my doc appointment on time). Another ex, she blast me about why I didn't make appointment with her. I apologize & say I wanted 2 have a few words. On that day.

Question: Please help! My boyfriend is being demanding to the point of aggression and I don't know how to fix our relationship?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 06:50 PM PST

Hello everyone, I am an 18 year old male from the US and I need some advice on how to deal with the issues going on in my relationship; it is really starting to affect me mentally, emotionally, and physically and I need help. Basically, I have been in a relationship with my 22 year old boyfriend for nearly two and a half years now and while he can be a really sweet and caring person, he also has a bit of a rude and demanding side to him that can sometimes be hard for me to deal with. He has this issue where he just snaps with anger or aggression and just demands me around and degrades me and sometimes it really hurts. If I am near him when he is in a bad mood or going through one of his episodes he will yell at me, degrade me, accuse me of things, and in some cases he has even slapped, hit, and scratched me to the point of bruises. He'll call me a slut or whore, and pull my hair, and force me down and he won't stop until I am physically crying or actually trying to get away from him and then all of a sudden he will be the nicest person again, and pull me close and tell me he is sorry and kiss all the places he hurt me. And then during sex he never lets me do anything. He always keeps me held down, tells me not to look at him, and basically tries to control me. It's getting frustrating and most nights I go to bed crying or getting upset over it because I don't know how to explain to him how it hurts me. Am I being oversensitive? How do I fix our relationship for the better?

Question: I was abuse as a child sexual by my dad and my brother my dad is dead but my brother just moved back in with me after 17 years?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:50 PM PST

He was hit a car and dose not remember it but I have to face it every day is it wrough for me to be afraid to be around him and somewhat hat him I have to face my abuser everyday and he doesn't even remember the sexual or any of the other abuse my self harm has gotten bad again I don't cry but I really don't know what to do it not like anything the law can it has been too long over 17 years ago

Question: Why Is My Dad So Annoying?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:42 PM PST

I'm 15 almost 16. So just right now I was helping edit my sister's college application essay and my dad yelled at me because he thought I was taking all the computers in the house. I tell him to "shut up" because I'm using it for an important purpose and he threatens to hit me because I told him to shut up. Well obviously I'm not going to treat him with respect if he just yells at me all the time. Plus, he's not very caring that much. He never really thinks my birthday, Christmas, or my middle school graduation a year ago was that important. It's not that I'm mad because I don't receive gifts, but because he doesn't say "congratulations" ever for my achievements. I'm a pretty good student and I usually get mostly A's and sometimes B's. I don't do drugs, have any boyfriends (haven't gotten a "first" kiss yet), or go out to parties late at night. Yet, he complains I'll have no future when I grow up. He always urges me to think about what I want to be when I grow up. But obviously to a teenager; finding out what I want to be for the next 50 years of my life is pretty difficult. He also never lets me enjoy things. He won't let me shop once in a while to relieve myself because he thinks "education is more important." And he always compares me to my sister. He says that she already knows what she wants to be when she's an adult and I might end up being a useless person with no purpose in life. @dave: I know there are two people here. And I'm pretty sure I know who's the b*tch. @abdul: I also happen to think you're pretty annoying too. I don't understand how I'm a b*tch when he's the one who's yelling at me for no reason. You Yahoo users are real weirdos, aren't you?

Question: I have nobody to live for?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:38 PM PST

My parents don't care about me. To them, I'm just a resume, the name of a college, and a series of numbers. They like that I got good grades, and that I'm going to a prestigious Med School. But they don't care about me as a person. Trust me. I've tried to talk to them about my experiences and problems, but they just ignore me. The girl I'm in love with doesn't like me, because she's out of my league. The thing is, I have a bright, lucrative future in neurosurgery, which I actually enjoy. I have hobbies. Still, I can't help feeling lonely and ugly and alone.

Question: How to not hit my brother in an argument?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 05:02 PM PST

l have a twin brother and we get into heated arguments he started yelling at me because he thought l took his water bottle when it was really my water bottle so l pushed him because he was screaming and it got me really mad my question is how do i just ignore him because l screamed back with him and now my voice is gone and l have a headache what should l do next time

Question: My wife of 7 years recently passed away do you think it is possible for me to raise our 3 triplet daughters?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 04:55 PM PST

Question: My child mother has tried to commit suicide multiple times because she's a dummy and have emotional issues.?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 04:12 PM PST

She's a good parent I guess because my son is always healthy and she has a good home and job for him she was just going through a lot o guess idk she's a idiot. But I want joint custody and if I bring this up in court and use it against her can't I get or most likely have custody? The only problem is I have no proof she tried to do it i just know about it. What can I do

Question: Is it legal to video tape inside my own house to catch abuse in Pennsylvania?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 03:41 PM PST

My POS sister is living in my mum and I m house while she goes through **** with her landlord over bedbugs and glue in the locks. Anyway, growing up with my sister was traumatizing and I d prefer to have nothing to do with her because of how abusive she can be. My concern, however, lies with my 3-year old nephew. My sister has sole custody because the father is an abusive alcoholic. I have already contacted CPS, but I want to know if video evidence would help. My sister is rarely physically abusive, but she s very emotionally damaging. If anyone had to grow up with a narcissistic parent, you know what I mean. She puts her needs before his, she doesn t care if he s eaten or not, she ll dress him in completely inappropriate clothes for the weather (sweater and pants in summer, shorts and a tee in winter), she gets angry with him during bath time and bedtime, screaming at him with such ear splitting volumes to just fall asleep, like it s a choice. One time she smacked his *** pretty hard because he wasn t putting his shoes on fast enough! I can t fully explain all of the psychological abuse she puts him through, so that s why I want to install hidden cameras with audio. Is it legal to record someone in your own home, especially when they don t actually live there?

Question: I SAW MY BROTHER KISS OUR COUSIN?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 03:18 PM PST

I was going outside to meet my bf and I caught my older brother (m16) kissing our 2nd cousin Elise... she's F16... What Should I Do Is that ok ? Wtf?

Question: Does this sound like love?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 03:11 PM PST

Ex looks giddy and happy when I'm around, and no matter what he does he constantly looks back to see what I'm doing. He acts like a guy with a crush. His body language is flustered, and excited. I don't understand because 2 months ago he said he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings again and that he wouldn't forgive what I said about his mom although he said something about mine first. Does this mean he changed his mind? He smiled and said hi a couple days ago too he said something about my moms clothes and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable and didn't have new clothes. That's what he's referring to. Also I'm a virgin and he knows I'm waiting till marriage to save the people who say he wants to "smash" -_- Do you think he wants me back?

Question: I lost my son in Iraq 12 years ago. Now my 11 years old granddaughter wants to know why her father is gone. What do I tell her?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 02:52 PM PST

In 1988 I was married with a woman who had a 2 yo son. We divorced after 11 months of marriage when she left for another man leaving her child with me. I legally adopted him and he became my son. In 1989 I married another woman (whom I'm still married with) and it all was good from then. We had another child in 1990 and we made no difference between them.They were our children. In 2004 when my eldest son was 18 he decided to enlist in the Marine Corps and he decided to make contact with the woman he had hated so much during high school for leaving him as a child.She was happily married at the time with another man and treated my son badly or that's what he said when he got home that evening. I still see his face when he realized his natural mother didn't want him. My son was killed in action in Iraq in may 2005 at age 19. His fiance was pregnant at the time. In Jan 2006 my grauddaughter was born. Now at 11 she wants to know about her father.Who he was,what he did why he's not here anymore. It's hard for me to answer questions to which I don't have an answer for. Truth be told I lost my kid to a war I opposed to. I didn't want him to go. I took Meredith to Arlington national cemetery where he's buried and it was heartbreaking seeing her just stare his grave. She didn't cry. She just looked and it,then tapped it with her hand. I told her he was brave to fight for the country but honestly I don't know how to handle this anonymous: thank you so much. It broke my heart seeing her tap his grave at Arlington. You're 100% right and I agree with you on focusing more on his life. They have the same witty smile and expression. I look her and I see him,maybe I might add that too when I talk to her. Thank you

Question: Do I have to pay back child support? I'm a Dad and need help.?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 02:42 PM PST

Me and my baby mama don't get along and I will admit I have not gave her a dime in money for our son because she don't let me see him when I want to. He's 1 years old and she said I can only see him for as long as I want but he can't spend the night. So I just don't even ask no more because I feel like my son should be able to stay the night with me and not me just seeing him for hours. I haven't gave her nothing because everything my son need I have and i feel like if she need help then she can ask somebody else the same way I get his stuff she can get it too. I haven't seen my son for about 6 plus months and she dont ask me for money but shenasl me for diapers and stuff he need but i told her if o cant see him the way i want to im not helping her with nothing. So she said she's going to put me on child support and I was wondering since he's 1 would i have to owe more because shes filing late. Btw I put myself on childsupport and she just didn't go down and take a DNA test. I just don't wanna deal with her. She said I shouldn't be willing to help without the courts getting involved and I feel like that's bullshit so she's been ignoring me and I'm kinda glad I don't call and check on my son because I don't wanna hear her voice

Question: As a father what is the absolute best circumstance you could be in to hear upsetting news about your daughter?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 02:27 PM PST

Hello, I am here to ask a question directed towards fathers. My dad is the most wonderful, caring and supportive man I know and I have something to tell him that I know is going to break his heart. 5 years ago I was molested by my sisters husband. Thankfully they got a divorce two years ago for other reasons and I no longer have to be around my offender. But I have not told anyone in my family because I am terrified my father will think he couldn t protect me, etc. I ve come to a point in my life where I need to finally tell my family so they will stop questioning me on why I suddenly stoped liking my ex- brother in law. My question is, as a father, what is the absolute best circumstance you could be in to hear this kind of news? Would it be alone, with both him and my mom there, at home? Really any options would be greatly appreciated.

Question: My grandmother was run over by a reindeer last Christmas. How do I get over the trauma that is reopening here in December?

Posted: 01 Dec 2017 02:19 PM PST

She was walking home from Aunt Laura's on Christmas Eve and we begged her not to go cause of the weather. Since she had left her medication at home she said she had to go home (a 23 mile walk). My cousin Michael said he'd give her a ride. The car got stuck in snow and they were stranded. They were apparently walking home in the blizzard struggling to stay warm. The reindeer came out of the sky and hit them and they were both decapitated. My grandmother had her arms around her 22 year old grandson when we found them Christmas morning. My grandpa took it so well. he said he thought there was no such thing as Santa but now he believes. By dinner he was hitting on with my newly widowed grandmother on the other side of the family. Now they are married as of April. So how do I get over the trauma of my grandmother and cousin struggling through the snow huddled against each other trying to stay alive when reindeer came and hit them and killed them? It seems so much more real now that it is December again.