Family: Question: Are people who have sons better/stronger than those who have daughters?

Question: Are people who have sons better/stronger than those who have daughters?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:31 PM PST

Question: When is too old for a mom to be seen naked by her children?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:26 PM PST

Is it later for daughters than sons?

Question: I need helppp?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:01 PM PST

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Question: Is it normal to react so sudden and voiently to your younger sibling and feel bad about it later?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 01:01 PM PST

Okay, I have always been a very kind, sweet, caring person but I snap sometimes. I don't like snapping but apparently I do and it's quite violent. I don't like it, I don't like being violent. But unfortunately. If a person bullies me/ picks on me enough I will act violently. I'm so glad I had my nails cut when my breakdown occurred. I feel so guilty. So, my sister kicked me, punched me, and punched my stomach. Finally, I got enraged and grabbed her face ( my nails in her skin and pushed her face down) she stopped fighting me. But the fact that I'd react so voiently without thinking really bothers me.... She wasn't hurt or anything but this still really bothered me that I reacted so horribly. I think I just had a mental breakdown. I'm 18, and she's 11. We are both female and the same height/ weight. Is this normal?

Question: Am not seeing my mom as a mom..?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:59 PM PST

Due to the many fights, i dont really see the mom-daughter relationship anymore. My parents are divorced and I live with my mom. Currently, i dont like coming to my own home, I just want to be out all day because of my mom. She doesnt talk to me, only when she needs something from me. Money in particular. I pay my own bills, I dont get much money from my current job. I'm trying to save money for things. I never bothered her with the subject money ever since I started working to pay off my college. She always starts argueing about money. She never apologizes, she just think its okay to pretend nothing happend. Because of what she is doing, I just dont feel the need to talk to her or interact with her anymore. I dont feel happy in this house at all. As im not getting paid enough to get my own place/be able to rent a place, it has to stay like this until i get paid enough. But its gettin to a point where I just want to leave... any advice?

Question: My younger brother is a high-school stud who gets lots of girls while I, the older brother, sit at home like a loser. Anyone else like me?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:52 PM PST

I'm a 21-year old guy who goes to university. My younger brother is 17, and he's literally better than me at everything. He's good-looking, more intelligent than me, physically more athletic and much more confident. Now on weekend nights I will usually have no plans while my brother will have parties to go to. He'll bring the most gorgeous girls home and almost different ones every weekend. I'll often have no plans as my brother enjoys life, has sex, gets good grades and is on the soccer team. Even though I'm four years older, he's almost taken over the role of older brother. He sometimes says, "Come let me take you out" and will sometimes let me go out with his friends. He decides when we go and when we come back. Even when he's mad at me I'm scared of him though I'm older, because he'll tell me off or say that he's "disappointed in me", which feels awful :(. I'm not jealous, because he's really nice to me. He hugs me spends time with me and takes care of me when necessary. But is there anyone else whose younger brother is effectively the older brother?

Question: Running away?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:46 PM PST

Should I stay to make my abusive parents happy or leave for my happiness and benefit

Question: If my parents had never met would I still exist and be born to a different mother or father?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:45 PM PST

Question: Urgent help please/ i wanna run away?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:32 PM PST

I've developed anxiety at such a young age. My family critisized the way i look ever since I was about 7? It's ongoing. My parents always bring out my flaws, since I have anxiety I've developed a skin picking disorder which sounds gross sorry but I can't control it, and it's left horrible scars and they just tell me with those scars I'd never look good. I'm unable to do things which i feel like would be beneficial for my future, my sisters force me not to take part in them because they haven't and I'm a girl and they're going nowhere with life. Sexism and racism is such a huge thing in my family. They don't accept my boyfriend I've been with for 10 months because he's not my race. His mom loves me. I love him so much I told my mom she doesn't understand and she gets aggressive towards me. She doesn't like my best friends because they're black. I can't hang outside of school with them because it's 'embarrassing.' My parents are bipolar. One time my mom could tell me she loves me then the next minute she could point a knife at me. I want to leave for my future but my mom says it will make my dad upset. I don't know if I should put my dads happiness before my own or put myself first and live with my aunt who is very understanding and very much like me. I'm accused of stealing from my dad in my house when I haven't but I still feel so bad I can't look at him and I just want to leave. Should I?

Question: Help! Does my mom love the dogs more?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 11:11 AM PST

Ok this might be really long but here goes. I've been feeling really conflicted about my relationship with my mom. I'm 14 years old and really want to have a good relationship with her. But, we have 5 dogs and I think they're starting to come between us. One of the dogs, (named Vito) does dog shows and all. A while ago we went on this huge trip across the country for a dog show. She always says how much she loves the dogs and babies them, etc. The particular breed that we have tend to have lots of medical problems, etc, and whenever we go out shopping we always have to be home by a certain time to take care of them. Whenever they make a mess or go to the bathroom in the house (they're not housebroken) it's my job to clean it up. She always hugs and kisses them in front of me and it makes me feel bad because she never does that to me. She gets mad and yells at me for the smallest mistakes, whether its forgetting to do a chore or accidentally scaring the dog. I really really want to confront her so that we can resolve all of this. But when I've confronted her before, she blows me off and won't even see my side. I also feel bad confronting her because she gets me lots of nice things and don't want to seem ungrateful. I don't know what to do - it feels like I'm living in the dogs' shadow.

Question: Could the reason that my sister is so immature be because she's younger?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 11:08 AM PST

My 30 year old sister has the mentality of a teenager. She dates inmates, smokes cigarettes, leeches off of people, and still eats junk food even though she's obese and has health issues. My oldest sister is 37 and is very responsible, reliable, trustworthy, doesn't leech, and dates reasonable men. Could my younger sister be like this because she's young? I'm 19 and the worst that I do is leech off my mom

Question: My parents are giving me away to another family?!?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 11:01 AM PST

I don t want to leave . I cried over this the whole day . I don t know what to do. Their giving up on me . And I'm not trolling

Question: How to tell my cousin I don't want him to live with me?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 10:44 AM PST

So me and my cousin are moving out from a house we shared with my brother. So we started to look for a place but my cousin is very on and off with work and isn't that clean he told me he is changing but I don't want to risk what if he doesn't how can I say never mind bro sorry.

Question: How should I handle my father when he starts lashing out both emotionally and physically?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 10:17 AM PST

My father and I constantly argue, hes almost 61 and I'm only 15(m). Every time I disagree with him on something or even if I prioritize my homework over chores he'll always find a reason almost daily to get mad at me. A huge trump card he's got is my phone, he'll always just take it away and it gets really really ******* annoying after a while. But even then sometimes it'll escalate further and he'll threaten to beat me. For example yesterday he said he rarely goes on face book (a flat out lie) and so I jokingly said, "dad please you live on face book". Well after that he started yelling at me to never disrespect him again and that he'd beat the **** out of me I kept it up. He hasn't really gone through very often, but ever since I was like 13 he'd get up and throw me to the ground and slap me and pull my hair every few times a year. I'm not sure if he will now though considering I'm just about stronger than he is. Anyways I'm tired of this life where I have to constantly keep my mouth shut and do as told unless I wanna get a face full of hand and a scolding. My mom typically stays neutral or gently side with my dad (not his actions though). What bothers me too is that he's taught me to act mouthy and crap, like he'll constantly jab and my sister and I, and he'll be a dick about it. Whenever we say something he tells us to shut up and that we should know our place by know. I get we shouldn't insult him either but ***** sake, he's not only a dick of a father but just a bad guy

Question: Is it normal that my parents fight everyday?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:19 AM PST

I am 16 year old girl. Far past 5 years or so I ve seen my parents fight literally everyday. Not like friendly fights, but almost violant ones. They scream on me, my sister, eachother, on my little brother that is 5 years old, my brother screams at them, there is always discord in our house. Mom is screaming at my sister because she is sad, father calling her all kinds of words in every language, my mother cheating on him. I am usually in my room, because I am really afraid of them. I am too emotional, I can not handle people screaming at me very well, I have social anxiety and Paranoia. Both of my parents drink, but not too much. When i ask my mother why they fight, she usualy says "I think you haven t seen other families if you think our is the worst!" and when i say that Our family is not normal, They yell at me and yet again reply with the same "You havent seen other families". So I am asking: Are other families like that aswell? I don t know anymore. If so, I really really don t want to have any relationship or family in the future.

Question: My family babies me too much. What should I do?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 09:04 AM PST

I'm 17 and I live with my mom, grandma, and older brother. They treat me like a baby and I'm sick of it. I recently got a job and they keep telling me that I can't handle it blah blah blah even when I can handle it perfectly. They don't let me go out unless I have a solid reason for going out. Pretty much any grownup task that has a little element of risk to it, they don't let me do. They constantly call me at work and when I'm out and I just ignore them I turn my phone off When I turn it back on, I am bombarded by messages and missed calls with them all saying they're gonna call police if they don't get my whereabouts at the very moment. Words cannot explain how annoying this is! How do I tell them to mind their own damn business and let me breathe?? I have never felt so annoyed in my life. It's just ridiculous how I can't live my life cause my family constantly hangs over me and tries to keep me caged up like a pet. I get they wanna protect me but seriously I'm 17 1/2 I turn 18 in 6 months. I'm pretty much an adult. I am very mature for my age, all my coworkers even say so. I'm responsible and sensible. Family just doesn't see this. What can I do in the meantime before these 6 months are up and I turn 18? Should I just block them out and ignore them or tell them off? I love my family of course and I appreciate them caring, I just wish they would tone it down a BUNCH and let me live. Thanks for answering!

Question: How to let go of things your attached to?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 08:36 AM PST

I have a problem. I wouldn't say I'm a hoarder at all lol. But every time a special person gives me something like grandparents or parents I'll hold on to it and cherish it. But the thing is even just a chocolate bar, bag, just junk stuff I'll hold onto. I don't fit these pair of pajamas and I wanna give them away but my grandma gave me to me so I keep I guess hoarding clothes too even when I don't fit them because someone special gave them to me? I'm very sentimental I guess.

Question: If I don't see my family on Christmas am I am unfaithful family member?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 08:23 AM PST

My Mother has never supported my Dad's relationship with his family. She has never allowed him to have a holiday with his family except one Christmas Eve when his father was terminally ill. Yet, my Mom complains about her brother being unfaithful to the family cause he always goes to his wife's side of the family for holidays. As a result we don't like that uncle or his kids and consider them 2nd rate family. So since I can't see my Dad's side of the family on holidays because of my Mom's bad behavior then am I an unfaithful family member to his family even though we see them at other times of the year like weddings? Am I a 2nd rate relative? The rest of his family gathers including his brothers as their wives are better then my mother.

Question: Can my stepmom kick me out of the house if i am underage (im 17 and she owns the house)?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 06:49 AM PST

Me, my dad and stepmom live together. We have all constantly been arguing and she finally wants me out. I do not turn 18 until september but can she kick me out with no place to go seeing as how her and my dad are my legal guardians? She gave me until the new year to get out but I don t have the money to support myself. any help would be great

Question: Do I have to give an “equal” Christmas gift to my sister?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 06:32 AM PST

Due to low self esteem, my sister can be rather nasty and controlling. In addition, she's stolen cash/credit cards from me and my family on multiple occasions. As a result of this, we're not very close (and she has issues with my dad and brother as well). I've bought fairly expensive gifts for my brother and dad (a cashmere sweater for my brother, and Waterford glasses for my dad) but I'm feeling conflicted about my sister. I don't feel overly generous toward someone who is unkind and steals from me, but I'm worried if I don't get her something as nice as what I got for everyone else, there'll be some fuss. I really don't want to give her anything at all, but I've compromised by getting her a book and a Global Giving gift card (let's you donate to the charities of your choice — she LOVES donating my dad's money, figured she could use her own for a change :) ). Do you think I'm being unreasonable? Should I just suck it up and buy her something else that's nicer? (For perspective, I'm in a bit of a money crunch after getting the gifts for my dad and brother, so in addition to being distasteful to me, doing this would present a financial burden as well.)

Question: How do i get my critic husband and our 25year old son to get along well, frction started sice his teen years?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 06:21 AM PST

Question: I think my mom is cheating on my dad.... what do i do?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:54 AM PST

my mom and dad have a pretty rocky relationship (they fight randomly almost all the time) but my dad still loves her endlessly and proves it in many ways. however, my mom has been going out with a colleague who's a guy and they're really close. she always texts him (i saw when she left her phone on the table) and every time they talk she calls him 'dear'. his contact on her phone is also more 'loving' than my dad's one. i feel so heartbroken because i always saw my mom as a role model. i also feel so sad and hurt because my dad doesn't know what's happening. what do i do? i don't want my family to break apart, i love both my mom and dad very much :(

Question: Whats wrong with my parents?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 05:29 AM PST

Ok so i have bad acne/oily skin so i have spent over $250 dollars over the past 7 months on skin care products with money they give me i don't understand whats the problems my mom said im gonna kill you i said for what skin care products and the money you give me she said i need to go to a counselor its not that serious i always do good at school and have never smoke,drank or anything like that im 15 i always do good and listen to my parents there acting like skin care products are like drugs

Question: Why God did this to me?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 04:36 AM PST

I just dont get it. What is the point that God gave me legs but i cannot use it. It only sits there doing nothing. I cannot run or playing football like a normal kid. I just sat and watched them doing fun stuffs. I hate when my friends or others looked at me with sympathy and looked down by others. I could only gave them fake smiles and laughs to hide the pain inside. At least, they would be comfortable. Sometimes its really hard. You know what's worst, i only been a burden to my family. They had to spent their money for me and i cannot play football and do other things with my little brother. It is really frustrating. I kept asking myself maybe "they would be better without me?" Maybe if i werent like this, my parents life would be easier and my brother would have a big brother to play with. Why me of all people?

Question: Am I weird and strange?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 04:31 AM PST

I love my mom completely, and I no she loves me too! I've got this over barring urge to make hot passionate love to her! Honestly I wanna no how the pussy that gave birth to me feels and how she taste!

Question: So i found gay porn on my 9-year old sisters tablet. Should i just ignore it or tell my parents?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 03:06 AM PST

Question: Was i in the wrong for telling my sister she should have an abortion?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 02:09 AM PST

So like my sister is 15-years old and she is pregnant by her loser boyfriend who doesn't even go to school anymore. She wants to keep it and she thinks she will make a good parent. I told thats not gonna happen and it's better she just has an abortion. She got pretty offended and isn't talking to me anymore. Btw i'm 14. Btw our parents are okay with the fact that shes gonna keep it for some reason.

Question: I’m close to my dad but have a second father figure?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:53 AM PST

Let me get this straight for y'all, I am really close to my dad, he and my mom are still together all of that jazz. His job has temporarily taken him out of state and hasn't been home for a while. In that time I've gotten close to another man in my life, and he's become a father figure to me. Is it bad that this happened? Should I tell my dad?

Question: Am I over thinking this? What should I do?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:07 AM PST

My brother, who has adhd and milks it to the fullest extent, gets more attention and love than me. I threw a bit of a fit to my dad and I tried to prove that he didn t know me so we actually got to talking and it was nice. I overheard them talking after he left and my brother asked what was up and my dad just said, " oh she just needed some attention. I don t know why or maybe it was in the way he said but it really hurt and i don t know what to do.

Question: Are children of single parents more likely to be sexually abused?

Posted: 03 Dec 2017 12:03 AM PST

I hear that kids with only one parent are more vulnerable to sexual misconduct. Generally, creepy adults are all over the Internet and on the streets. From what I see, they just try to contact everyone who fits in the age, gender, and race that they're attracted to. But does growing up without a dad (or mom) significantly increase the chances of being abused?

Question: My mom yells at me, what should I do?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:38 PM PST

My mother has anger management issues. When she s mad she yells and screams, and hit things like the wall or kitchen counter really hard to (in her own words) "stop from beating the sh*t out of [me]". She justifies her yelling by saying she doesn t know any other way to express how she feels. When I was younger(3 to 13) she hit me when I acted up but she doesn t anymore. It gets worse because I stutter when I m scared and her yelling scares me a lot. But when I stutter she gets madder and yells more. I ve had panic attacks and have been scared for my life when she yells. She ll yell at me even when I or my older sister have a friend over. I also realised she doesn t yell at my sister, but she s been screaming at me since I can remember. When I was in 6th grade(11 ys/o) she was yelling at me and grabbed my throat, I hadn t been more scared for my life. In 7th grade(12 ys/o) she told me I always ruin everything for everyone around me, she still says this to me though. I can t move out because I m 15, but I don t know what to do. I can t tell her I think it s bad because she ll get mad and think I m trying to tell her how to parent. I m scared she s going to break me and turn me into a broken adult. I already feel like I deserve to be hit and yelled at when by other people I mess up. I m desperate and don t know what to do.

Question: What causes a child to come out retarded?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:28 PM PST

When my wife was 6 months in I gave her a black eye. It was a mistake and I was drunk. She forgives me and all is well. But when our child was born he came out retarded. She says it is my fault but I never hit her stomach or nothin.

Question: Are my parents emotionally/verbally abusive?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 11:15 PM PST

So my stepdad constantly yells at me and tells me things that make me feel horrible. He calls me names on a near-daily basis (things like **** and *****) and is also ridiculously controlling. He looks through my phone, my diary...he dictates who I can and can't talk to even within school. It's gotten to the point where he's not letting me perform my shows after paying tuition to the theater company in my town. He's also forbidding me to hang out with my boyfriend and my best friend. Basically, I'm miserable. I'm starting to think my mother is, too, but she won't say or do anything about it. I'm not sure if it's because she's afraid of him, or what, but I'm growing frustrated. Is this actually abusive or am I just being stupid? If it is, then what can I do about it? (I'm fourteen. It's not like I can move out or anything and I suppose that if it's as bad as I think it is, I could call CPS, but I'm hesitant to risk being moved away from my friends.)

Question: My dad was arrested for having child porn you can look him up (David Bressette) and I want to know how to cope with it. PLEASE READ ALL?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:44 PM PST

I'm 17 years old and About a month ago I walked into my dads bathroom and saw on his iPad which was unlocked, a video of an infant being raped. He had found this video through the dark web and I called the police and filed a report. 2 weeks later his devices were seized and 2 weeks after that he is now being charged with 10 counts of child pornography possession. My dad was arrested about 3 days ago and I am so damn depressed it's horrifying... I miss my dad so much and I have accepted that he is a monster but he was such a regular guy. We went fishing,surfing and watched football every week. I lived with my dad full time after I myself was arrested and my mom kicked me out. My dad was my hero and I looked up to him for everything. This was such a shock and my heart has honestly been ripped out. Teachers have told my mom I'm like a zombie at school and I feel sick to my stomach if I think about him. I cry when any Pink Floyd, Led Zeppelin, or Beatles song comes. I know it's only been 3 days but I feel like I will never get past this, and I almost feel guilty for what I did but I know I did the right thing. Right now I just want someone to help me because I have no idea how to deal with the stress and pain of all of this. My dad is on every news channel which makes this so much harder. I just want my dad back someone please help.

Question: Should homeschooling be illegal?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:39 PM PST

I get that some parents think it's better or want to protect them from a tough/dangerous problem. Lack of socialization causes lots of other problems as well. Homeschoolers don't experience some things that schools offer. Bullied children can switch to another school, wealthy/famous children can attend fancier private schools, kids with anxiety can attend smaller or special schools. People who didn't grow up going to a REAL school generally don't experience the same childhood as their peers who did.

Question: Why is it getting increasingly common for children to commit suicide due to online bullying?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:29 PM PST

Back then there were less children dying over bullying. It got so bad that we had to make laws against cyberbullying, and kids as young as 8 have killed themselves. Does it have to do with the fact that less adults are involved with their kids? There's proof that there's less parenting since many families are getting poorer, so there's less middle class and wealthy. Or is it that young people are getting more cruel?

Question: If he wanted me back would he be on a dating site?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:17 PM PST

Ex looks giddy and happy when I'm around, and no matter what he does he constantly looks back to see what I'm doing. He acts like a guy with a crush. His body language is flustered, and excited. I don't understand because 2 months ago (we hadn't talked for2 months) I texted him and I the said he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings again for me again/it wouldn't because he wouldn't forgive what I said about his mom although he said something about mine first. Does this mean he changed his mind? He smiled and said hi on Sunday when we came face to face with eachother He said my mom looked like she came to church dressed in club clothes and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable and that he doesn't buy her any new clothes. If he was so hurt and unforgiving then why he is smiling all the sudden? Is he coming around? It bothers me that he's on a dating site if hes trying to come back....what do you think he's waiting for if he wants to make a move?

Question: Any other parents out there feeling guilty for bringing a child or children into this world now that....?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:08 PM PST

This US (and world in general?) has deteriorated so badly, economically and in so many other ways? So much polarity and divisiveness in our society, between the genders/people of opposing political affiliations... with all the mass shootings/terrorism/general violence...with high rates of divorce, broken families many kids have to deal with, worsening economic inequality, steady deterioration of environment and on and on? Seeming chaos on just about every level imaginable seems to be the order of the day now a days. There doesn't ever seem to be anything good in the news anymore. If things are this bad now, it's just hard to imagine how bad things are going to be for our children when they grow up, not the things are so great for them now, even. I'm just feeling very guilty sometimes that I even brought a child into this world, considering the overall picture at this point. Anybody else feeling that way?

Question: Is contacting my father a good idea?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 10:05 PM PST

My father has never been in my life however I do know my aunt uncle and cousins. My mother has no idea I know who he is but she's the one who told me about his siblings and I have a wonderful relationship with my aunt and her children. I do not know my uncle as well as I do my aunt and her family. I have met her parents on multiple occasions but do not know if they know who I am or not. My mother has since married (she was never married to my father) and she does not recognize my biological father as my father just my stepfather. My aunt and cousins since the marriage have not been in my life really and I do not know if I contact my father if it would be a good idea or not. I have no expectations as to how it would go. I have a feeling it would not go well but I want to at least meet him once in my life and have spoken to him once whether face to face or otherwise.

Question: Why does my father always stare at my other father?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:25 PM PST

Like I understand that theyr in love and stuff but does he always have to do that?? also Im 10

Question: Should I contact my father?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 09:23 PM PST

My father left my mother before I was born. They were never married and he has never been in my life. My mother seems to keep a grudge and I do not know if contacting him now would be a good idea or if I should contact him at all.

Question: Why are my dads calling each other daddy?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:58 PM PST

Hi, my dads keep calling each other daddy and its really confusing because they're my daddys also I'm 12

Question: Racoons in my house!!!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:36 PM PST

they are everywhere!!!!! all over my house!!!! i saw one run into my living room and another in my bed room

Question: Family planning mom's 75th birthday. Sister wants to order 2 dozen mini bundt cakes but I am in favor of a traditional cake. Thoughts??

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:31 PM PST

Question: My babysitter is abusive!! please help!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 08:14 PM PST

so i am 14 and i had a babysitter because my parents were going out for the night and i know im 14 so its weird but my parents are a little overprotective and worry about me when their gone and so basically when my parents left, the babysitter came and said hi and she made me some macaroni and cheese while i was on the computer doing homework and she brought it over to me and i had some and it tasted like ICE it was so cold so I asked if I could warm it up? and she SCREAMED SO LOUD "NO EAT IT YOU SELFISH BRAT" so i was shocked and just tried to eat it cold and she SCREAMED again and said "DONT EVEN EAT IT IF YOU DONT LIKE IT YOU IDIOT" so i said "you told me to eat it?" and she SCREAMED at me for talking back and GRABBED my computer mouse, and ripped it out of my computer and threw it across the room in rage, her face was bright red and she tried to grab my keyboard too but i stopped her and screamed at her to stop and she grabbed the macaroni and cheese bowl and smashed it on the ground and it shattered all over the floor, i screamed at her i will tell my parents and she slapped my face so hard so i ran out of the room upstairs to call my parents and she chased after me and when i grabbed my phone she caught up to me and grabbed my phone and threw it in the trash and started beating my head over and over and took her belt and started whipping me so i screamed stop and ran out of my house, and she locked me out.

Question: I have no friends lmao... I have no life lmao.. I'm **** lmao.. OMFG IM SO PISSED?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 07:07 PM PST

I was thinking a lot tonight about my life decisions and how I led myself up to failure and having only $30 in my wallet and $20 in my bank account, living with my mom, barely able to pay my car insurance, can't even decide if I should wash my clothes or not (nasty, I know sorry), can't decide if I should get a haircut or help my mom pay electricity bills, I'm applying for mcdonalds and I don't even get calls back. I mean I just got hired at McDonalds but it's been over a week already and I haven't heard from them to call me for my orientation and did I mention I'm dead broke? Like **** man I need a drink or blunt but I don't even drink or smoke. I drink a little with my brothers but never smoke. And I'm feeling like I need a smoke because beer ain't cutting it anymore. And I'm afraid my brothers let me smoke because it's bad for me. They smoke too and they used to always offer me a blunt but I always declined and now they don't offer me anymore and they barely smoke now too. If I asked him for a blunt he'll be like he don't have any or ask me why I want to smoke now and not with them back then. Oh my ******* GOOOOOOODDDD BROO. I just need to get away somehow. Like **** me, just **** me up SOMEHOW. I can't stand my ******* life right now...

Question: 21 and have strict parents?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 06:59 PM PST

I m 21, I have a part time job and am a full time student. I plan on switching schools next semester that is 2 hours away from home. My parents aren t happy about this because they want me to drive the distance instead of getting a place or living with my boyfriend. I told my mother Im not driving 4 hours a day to get to school. She then proceed to go down the path of saying I wouldn t be able to make it, saying there are a lot of cost to living on my own, which I knew I m not stupid. I also brought up the fact of maybe living with my boyfriend who is 30 minutes away from the school and she told me that it would never happen. I guess what I m trying to get at is, how do I tell them I m 21, I need to be a young adult I want to find out things on my own. I feel like I have no control over my life what so ever. It s to the point were I secretly want to run away. I don t know what to say or what to do. Parents and others are more then welcome to comment, I would just like advice!

Question: How do I tell my parents that some girls are bullying me (because they think theyre better since they're rich)?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 06:47 PM PST

I'm 14 from a middle class family but I go to a school from the wealthy side. Three girls bully me everyday because I dont dress like the Kardashian kids or live in multiple giant houses like them. I asked them to stop,but it goes on. I'm happy with my life, and having the latest iPhone be the most expensive thing I own. All they do is brag about having everything thats designer and shun people who are lower than them. The teachers dealt with them once but that's it. Lots of kids have rich parents in that area,but the truth is they don't really make a huge deal. It's only them that think it's the most important thing out of hundreds of other people. My parents are busy working, and we haven't talked much about school yet. How do i tell them what goes on?

Question: Am I overreacting or am I being verbally abused?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 06:04 PM PST

I'm 19 and I have bipolar. I was adopted at 3 by my now mother. I feel that maybe a lot of my issues are based off of her. She calls me names like fatty stupid useless annoying. She says I'll end up just like my family stupid and on drugs. I have self harmed before and she looked at me and said I wish I never adopted you. She doesn't allow me to have friends and I am not even allowed to have my phone at night in case I might message someone. She said I'm not the kind of person who needs friends because I am too weak and let them get me in trouble. I have to go to work with her at her school and make all of her copies and grade papers and I cant get a job of my own because I need to earn my keep with "all the food I stuff into my fat face" she calls me a crazy cutter and she asked me how anyone would love me with a leg like mine. I want to tell her I'm gay but when I got close she said if I say that I'm gay she will kill herself and I will have to deal with the fact that I killed her. I am not allowed to learn to drive and I dont go to school. I had to get my GED. If she gets mad she screams in my face and pins me against a wall and pulls my hair. I tried moving out with an old friend from school before I lleft who had secretly given me an old phone. But my mom told me if I stayed there she could have me institutionalized because of my bipolar and cutting. I haven't cut in 7 months. Am I being sensitive about these moment or are my feelings valid

Question: Future sister-in-law’s dog just died?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 05:47 PM PST

My fiance's family's dog just had to be put to rest and I feel so awful about it. We don't see them much (they live across country) or speak to them a whole lot but I've always felt a soft spot for his little sister. She's 16 and just sent me a text that her dog of 10 years passed away last week and that she missed us and I really didn't know what to say, I'm not very good with words (anxiety and all.) I did tell her how sorry I was but I felt like that wasn't enough. It's almost Christmas and I feel like getting her a necklace with her dog's name engraved on it would be a perfect gift to send her...but I don't know. Is that a good idea? Or do you think it would make her more sad? Thanks.

Question: My dad is texting another girl, he's being a man hoe, please help!?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 05:42 PM PST

For some information I am 13 years old and a girl. So about a month or two ago I found out my dad was cheating on my mom. I had my dad's phone and was just messing around when I found a text conversation. I waited nervously for a week until I told my family. My dad denied at first, but he than admitted to sleeping with the bitcch. We were really close before but I really don't like him now, he betrayed my trust. He apologized that night and said he would never do anything like that again, but I didn't forgive give him, I needed him to prove he was sorry and that he wouldn't do it again. As I said it is about a month or two after my dad cheated and me and my dad are still distant. A week ago from today I checked my dad's profile page and saw that he was still facebook friends with the woman he cheated on my mom with (Yes they were friends on facebook and at work) and his profile showed his family members, me and my brother only. Not my mom, the one he's married to. So today (December 2nd) I decided that I needed answers and went to my dad's office. I found my dad's gmail acc written down on paper but no password, so I spent the next hour or two guessing passwords until I finally got on his gmail. I then reset his facebook password so I could get on his facebook and look at his DM's. I looked and he was texting one of his women that he worked with stuff like "Your so so beautiful" and "Can I come over?". Remind you I just found this out about 30 minutes ago. Help please.

Question: Does anyone know Maitaip Mukhamadeeva? Chelyabinsk Russia?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:46 PM PST

I am one of her biological children and I can t find her on any of the ancestry sites. If it helps any I was put in Children s Home No. 2 in Chelyabinsk in 1996-8. If you know anything or anyone adopted from that area in Russia please contact me. I am looking for my siblings too but I dont know their names

Question: Moms would you have done this?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:21 PM PST

I just got home from picking up my youngest daughter at her friends house. Since it was warm out and I did not go in anyplace and was only gone for about a half a hour I just drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Question: My grandmother was run over by a reindeer last Christmas walking home from our house. How do we prevent this from happening this yar?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:13 PM PST

She survived but was injured. She had too many egg knocks and we begged her not to go but she stumbled out into the snow with her 15 year old grandson Michael who went home with her for the night. They were both badly hurt and woke up from a coma in spring. My cousin Michael remains paralyzed.

Question: Emotional abuse?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 04:10 PM PST

My grandparents got custody of my sister and I at a young age and raised us, I am grateful so please don't assume that I'm not. They are Jehovahs witnesses and raised my sister and I to be, my grandfather died over a year ago and the environment has gotten worse. I'm 16, and was secluded from everything at a young age, in fact I was homeschooled my entire life, I don't and won't know how to take care of myself on my own. I don't want to be a JW and rebel against it. I'm constantly getting yelled at by my grandmother for being myself, and mistreated unfairly. She treats my badly but my sister great. She always fights with me and doesn't believe that there is favoritism in the household. I don't want to be here, I have no friends, very bad anxiety, and literally no social skills. I can't trust anyone in my family and my mother hates me for no reason, she has said she would have gotten an abortion but couldn't afford it. My grandmother is very unhygienic and it's to the extreme and gets mad when I don't like her touching me. Today she went through my clothes and stuff which I got upset about because I had gotten my period at school and there was blood on my underwear, I wasn't raised in an environment where we talk about stuff like that so I was uncomfortable. I don't have anyone to talk to because I'm not allowed to be friend with non Witness people, but I don't like witnesses so it's a lose lose. I am a coward so I won't kill my self but I think about it a lot. Rant over bye!

Question: How do I get over my fear of being sick on Christmas and not seeing extended family cause of it and thus being 2nd rate family?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:58 PM PST

Question: Am I right and should I talk to my brother-in-law?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:54 PM PST

Recently my BIL found out through a third party that the man he thought was his father isn't his biological father. This explains the man's relative coldness to him, and yet he did raise BIL and paid him through college. BIL is thinking of mending their strained relationship, but my sister (his wife) and parents think he should let things be; in their eyes BIL's dad was wrong to treat BIL the way he did through childhood, and BIL doesn't need him in his life. Of course this should be BIL's decision, but he's still young, and due to his strict upbringing plus absent mother, he tends to let others decide for him. He's a nice kid and I don't want him to regret it later. I met his father once, and he's not a monster (I can understand his slight resentment of having to raise a son of his wife's affair; I would probably feel the same). Should I tell BIL what I think? He's like a younger brother to me, but I'm afraid of crossing boundaries (with my sister being clearly against the idea). What would you do in my position?

Question: Do I live in a dangerous household?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:53 PM PST

I don t like where I live and it s because of my mom s boyfriend. He drinks a lot and argues with my mom. Several times, I ve been stuck in the car with them as they argued with each other and sometimes he even complains about me and my brother. We ve left the house several times, but we always end up back living with him. I m tired of hearing their arguing. I hate having that extra burden added to my already stressful life. I m failing my algebra 2 class, I hate how I m jealous and sad all the time, My stomach problems make me think I have IBS and the added stress of living in this house makes me just want to die. I know it s not a good way out of my problems and I probably won t kill myself because I m just too cowardly, but I don t know what to do anymore. I m scared.

Question: My Mom says my Dad is an arrogant puss. Could this be why my Dad is so ignorant of my brother's mental illness?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:37 PM PST

My Dad thinks getting angry with my brother will fix his anxiety disorders (OCD and Generalized Anxiety). So when my brother does his repetitive behavior our Dad gets mad at him like he is misbehaving. This invented my brother's new problem which is self-mutilating. So since my Dad is an arrogant puss could this be a contributing factor to his ignorance of my brother's mental illness?

Question: My whole family rejected me on Thanksgiving. Now Christmas might be the same, how do I get over the fear of this?

Posted: 02 Dec 2017 03:35 PM PST

I am the outsider of the family. I am overlooked cause my Dad is an alcoholic and my Mom has died. I reach out but they still overlook me. I can't just crash their party and so I am alone. My Dad's family is spread out across the country and my Mom's family overlooks me and was never close to her as she was bitter. So Thanksgiving I was alone. I plan to contact my Mom's family "I have a gift I would love to bring by" but only her sister who has no kids responds and that's after Christmas. How do I handle all this