Family: Question: I know my Dads best buddy looks at me sexually--he always grins?

Question: I know my Dads best buddy looks at me sexually--he always grins?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 01:39 PM PDT

he'll moan when I bend down to stretch stuff like that, what I like to know is if my Dad looks at my friends in a sexy way? I don't think he does, my Mom is really good looking and in shape.

Question: Is it rude to push a family member away when they want to give you a hug? I just hate hugs?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 12:48 PM PDT

Question: How do I get my father to tell me about my mother?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 12:45 PM PDT

Here's the thing. I'm a 16 year old girl and my mother died when I was about 4. So my memories of her are very limited. All I have is this random memory of her in the kitchen singing to me and airplaining peas & carrots into my mouth in the kitchen. And the way she smelled. Like fruity aussie hairspray, menthol cigarettes, worn out denim and greasy homefries when she came home from work everyday as a waitress. Which sounds gross. But for some reason I loved it. I get the impression my dad still isn't over it. I beg for information. For stories. What was she like. If I'm anything like her... I'm told by my aunts that even though I look like my dad I have my mom's redheaded curls and her eyes. But what else? He gets blackout drunk. Calls me by her name. Changes the subject when she gets brought up in any way. I feel like he takes it out on me. 16 years of living with him and he treats me like a stranger. Doesn't go past small talk and he can barely look at me. It's miserable. I confront him all the time about it. Asking why he just acts like she never existed. Why he doesn't ever wanna talk about her. He just always gets angry and says "I do. I see her every ******* day when I look at you.". I could just use some advice guys. It's not just my dad. It's like no one in my family ever wants to talk about her...

Question: Why does my Mom thinks shes the shi*?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 12:42 PM PDT

For some reason when I get in trouble my Mom thinks I think I'm being picked on when she yells at me, and then when I talk to my sister about how much time I have to get done with school she says I think I'm trying to look cool in front everyone in the room. Is there a reason for why she thinks shes the shi*?

Question: I'm 15 and my dad is away. Me and my step mom got into a fight and I told her I hate her. She then took my phone away. Can she do this?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 12:36 PM PDT

I'm on the house computer Shes not my mom so she can't do that. My dad is out of the country so I can't even contact him. This is so wrong what should I do?

Question: My husband and I are going to visit family in Mexico in January and the majority of his family is really poor. We're trying really?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 12:27 PM PDT

Hard this year to help them out with brand new washer machines. We would be helping out with four people total. My husband and I have money but at the same time we don't make $250,000 a year ( if you get my point). I'm thinking about doing a donation page on Facebook, but I'm a little nervous about asking people for help. What are your feelings towards this? I mean this is going to a good cause and I'm just trying to help people who really don't have a lot. Is what I'm wanting to do, wrong? Is there a way that I could ask for help without it looking like I'm just trying to take money from other hard working people? Please your feelings and please no nasty comments, thank you.

Question: Adults 30 & over, would you take them in?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 11:59 AM PDT

Your cousin, whom you haven't seen in a while, has depression & needs a place to stay so they don't end up homeless.

Question: Found a knife on my daughters bed?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 11:40 AM PDT

Please note that this is true, I am not making this up and I am not a troll...I have a 4 year old daughter who lives with her mother and not me. I pick her up from her mothers house every other weekend. Last time I was there whilst getting her clothes ready for the weekend I found a stanley knife blade on my daughters bed!! I picked the knife up and handed it to her mother and said "I found this on our daughters bed". That is all I said but I gave her a look as if to say "What are you doing?" I didn t want to cause any argument with my daughter there so I left it at that. The next day over the phone I confronted her about it and she flat-out denied it, this was last week and she continues to deny it. I ve told her mother, I m considering getting social services involved but shes the mother of my daughter and I dont want to see her in trouble. I am terrified for my daughters safety. Any thoughts? Thanks

Question: I want to go to this party, but I'm grounded how to convince mom to let me go?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 11:30 AM PDT

I got grounded for skipping class, my dad says he'd probably let me go, but they're divorced and he doesn't want to go against my mom. If I went, I'd have to have my phone or else it'd be a safety issue

Question: How do you deal with a negative parent?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 11:26 AM PDT

Question: I'm afraid that as I get older my parents won't love or treat me the same?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 10:36 AM PDT

I know that sounds silly, but it is something that genuinely causes me a lot of anxiety and fear. I am so worried that the older I get, my parents won't love me as much as they did when I was a kid. I'm afraid that they will see me differently, and then start treating me just like any other adult and not as their child (I don't mean treat me like a child, but more just that familial relationship type, if that makes sense). Help?

Question: My brother is emotionally abusive?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 10:21 AM PDT

Im 18 and he's 22 its been going on for as long as I can remember. He will scream at me for the most stupidist things for instance he screamed at me about a towel this morning. He called me stupid and everything. He always acts like hes better than me. He will yell at me everyday. I make a cooking mistake and he will yell at me. I forget to clean something up its world war 3. He calls me selfish because I don't do what he says. He is the reason I act like a pshyco and dont talk **** to me I have everyright to scream. You should have seen him this morning. I could go on but I'm not about to type up a novel. I am screaming as I type this because IM ******* PISSED AS **** EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM PISSES ME OFF. I'm trying to get my license and a car so I can get a job and be independent and get away from him but

Question: Should I move for a better job opportunity?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 10:16 AM PDT

I m currently 4 months pregnant. I live in California with my husband and 2 year old daughter. My daughter is extremely close to my parents and so am I. I was recently offered a job in Alaska as a cna. They pay for your school tuition to become certified and give on the job paid training. It sounds like a really god opportunity. However, me being pregnant and moving to another state where I don t know anyone would be extremely hard. Not only on me but also my daughter. I would be taking everything she knows and everyone she knows away from her. Im not sure if I could do that. My husband has his mom & brothers who live there already and wants to make sure that it s something I want to do. Either way he ll support my desion. I m just not sure which is the best one for my family and I. Any advice or suggestions?

Question: My parents don't want me to move out. I'm not sure what to do...?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 07:36 AM PDT

I'm 23 and recently graduated college. I have a decent corporate job which is literally a 4 minute bike ride from my house. I have some money saved up and I've been looking to buy my own house/condo to live in. I'm looking at places that are about 15-20 minutes away. It's a safe area, just a bit old. I told my mother this and she says she's not going to stop me. She thinks it's too early for me to move out. She thinks I should live at home and save as much as I can so I can move into a nice place in a better area. She thinks it makes no sense since I'm so close to work and nobody is kicking me out. She does have a valid point but she wouldn't mind if I stayed with her until she's 6 ft. under. I'm so stressed about this. I was looking to make an offer on a condo but I want her to see it first. Overall, I just want my parents to be happy and proud of me.

Question: My little sister is really mean to my baby brother sometimes. like REALLY mean. What do I do?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 05:49 AM PDT

My younger sister (6 years old) is sometimes very mean to my younger brother (1 year old). Sometimes she is nice. But other times she is just hateful. If he is in her way, she just pushes him or walks right through him and knocks him onto the ground. Often times very hard. The other day he went to get her toys and she took a basket and smacked him in the face with it and made his lip bleed. Today he tried following her into a room and she took the door and slammed it into his face.' I don't know what to do! Every time my mom sees this she goes crazy and gets onto her, yelling at her, saying "why are you so hateful?!" and a lot of other mean things. Which I know doesn't help the situation. It makes me feel bad for her. It obviously hurts me mom too, almost to the point of tears. What are some better tactics to handle this and help my younger sister? PS. Before my baby brother was born my mom spent all of her time with my sister. My mom is a stay at home mom. So it was just she and her going to the park. My mom coloring with her. Reading her books. So on and so forth. But since my brother has been born my mom ALWAYS has my baby brother to take care of. So now my sister plays outside alone or has to paint alone while my mom sits there taking care of my brother. Could she be acting out because she is jealous or doesn't get the time with her that she used to?

Question: My mom has been bullying me publicly for years. She never says anything positive about me and constantly puts me in bad light.?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 05:42 AM PDT

Question: Why is my personality so different from my fathers?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 05:40 AM PDT

my dad is usually serious but I am very laid back. it takes lot to get me upset but my dad is easily upset . my dad is also very soft but I can't show mercy

Question: How do I get my Mom to stop hating so many family members?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 04:27 AM PDT

She denies hating anyone but that is a load of BS as she does hate them and just denies it to sound good. Hate is not a family value. Family celebrations are all about which ones we have to boycott to please our hateful Mom. Events like graduations are all about who my Mom makes us ban. My Mom is a disgusting person.

Question: My aunt and my Mom's estranged brother had a fight. Police were called. What if they are called to the next family function?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 04:26 AM PDT

Anonymous: What?? We are always invited. In fact we are going to one in two weeks.

Question: How should I handle a situation with my dad?

Posted: 06 Oct 2017 02:10 AM PDT

Three months ago my mother passed away. My dad is starting to take his frustrations out on me. I'm 31 and was my mom's caretaker for seven years. So, I put my life on hold to help my mom. Dad used to take his frustrations out on others, I considered them rants. When I try to talk about my future, picking up where I left off with my education, etc, he always turns negative and it gets pretty loud. Just tonight he said your going to be 40 and still taking classes. I don't appreciate being talked too like that. I feel belittled all the time and I haven't done anything. My dad is white and my mom was Native American. He talks very negatively about Native Americans and he even claims that he brought my mom's family into the 20th century. Concerning our home, he gets life estate. We live on a reservation and he can't own it, only me. He really gets upset about that. All I know, I see and hear all this hate. Its always right under the surface. Apparently other members of his family talk the same way. None of them like me, for some odd reason. Simply put, I don't think he likes me. What should I do?

Question: How can I fix my dad's manners?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 10:16 PM PDT

He just doesn't like it when I tell him not to talk with his mouth full or while he's brushing his teeth. He also shouts when he's upset and said something mean to my mum last night so I tried to talk him into apologizing. He was just like "But I don't want to." I'm 12 and I don't know how to make him listen to me?

Question: I feel like my mom isn't going to enjoy her birthday?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 09:23 PM PDT

My mom is turning 50 this year. She didn't want anything big, she just wanted something small. So I suggested we go out to eat at her favorite restaurant for supper for her birthday, and she really liked that idea. I thought that was great, until all of a sudden my older brother kind of calls me up and says, "Okay, here's what we're doing-" and says were having supper at home, getting some fried chicken, and making salads, and now inviting a lot more people then my mother wants. I tried to tell him that maybe we should just go out for supper, and he said nope it has to be at home. I tried to tell my dad that I'd prefer to just go out for supper, but he said to just go with what my brother is doing because he's so excited about it. I was talking to my mom today and she asked if I was inviting my grandparents out to her birthday supper. I said there might be a change of plans and we might have it at home. And she sounded really disappointed, and said, "Oh, well I was really looking forward to going out, and went on to say she didn't want a lot of people. I feel very over powered in this whole birthday thing, and kind of bullied in to something I don't overly want to do, nor does my mother. All these other people are coming and she doesn't want that. I don't know how to make any of these salads, and I think it's just going to be a disaster. And it's too late to say no now. Should I just buy her a gift card to the restaurant and take her out after her birthday?

Question: I dont get this???

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 08:49 PM PDT

People always tell me and my sister that we look alike but they call her pretty and me ugly. My sister's best friend told me that me and my sister could pass as twins but at the same time she would call me ugly. They call us twins and the same name but call her pretty and me ugly.

Question: What's her problem?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 08:41 PM PDT

So recently, my mom has a problem with me wearing my leggings without a shirt long enough to cover my butt. I've been wearing leggings with a regular length shirt for forever, and suddenly it's a problem? She says she can see my panties through my leggings, which isn't true. The other day, I forgot to wear a longer shirt and she got mad, looked at me funny, and said "there's men in the house. Go cover up".

Question: I m afraid to talk to my brother?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 08:21 PM PDT

HELP so I m on my period. I m cramping, severe headaches, and I m extremely sensitive. I just took a shower and was changing. I pulled on my shorts, but got sidetracked by these scars on my leg. Then, my older brother walks in on me, jetting full view of my breasts. I wrapped my arms around my chest and ran at him, chasing him out screaming how I hate him and never want to talk to him again. Then I started crying. Which grew into sobbing. I m afraid that he won t look at me the same way now, and I m very embarrassed. Please, I really need help!

Question: Step dad lying to gain what?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 08:15 PM PDT

Me and my step dad have had a rocky relationship. We met when I was about 8 and I am 17 now and him and my mother are married. Since about two years ago, he has been lying to my mom and telling her I have stolen or touched something of his and I have no idea why. Just this morning before I went to school he told my mom I took a pair of his socks (which I can't fit) and she flipped out on me. It's so annoying and I'm sick of it.

Question: I hate my soon to be step father how should I break him up with my mother?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 08:06 PM PDT

Question: Why does my mom and family honor the dog more than me.?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 07:55 PM PDT

When I come home I go in my room cause no one will talk to me. If I try they ignore or don't want to talk to me. When they come home they IGNORE me and greet the dog ignoring me asking how their day was and only acknowledge them. I'm 18 now living with them and they've treated me like trash throwing my stuff not in my room in front of my door and complaining about me. I've been struggling to find a job and basically just live here it's like roommate except one that dislikes you.

Question: Justifying Abuse Because They Were Abused?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 07:21 PM PDT

I honestly can't wrap my head around it. My family tries to justify their abuse to their kids (including me) because they were abused as children. Basically, they'll verbally abuse me (and used to physically) and then when I fight back they'll hit me with the "Respect your elders because back in the day you'd get slapped or whipped with a tree branch for talking back" or something close to that. It's completely ridiculous. And it's not even about respect. It's about them using the authority complex because they're off in the head. IDGAF if you were abused or your parents beat you as a kid. It doesn't justify you beating or verbally abusing your kids. It's like these people are completely brainwashed in my family. I'm wondering why are these people so off in the head? Generation differences?

Question: Is my dad mean ?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 06:52 PM PDT

When I was little my sister and I were crying and our dad tried to take a picture ot us crying to show mom. Then one time when I was 12 I had trouble tying my shoes still because of my learning disability. He made fun of me and said come here baby let me tie your little shoe for you. Then I pulled away and just tried it. Now I'm 17 and he made fun of me for not having my drivers license. He said he's disappointed I didn't get it and i Need to act like an adult. Then he made fun of me for not having a job when I was 15 or 16. Is he abusuve ?

Question: Parents putting me in a detention center, what should I expect? PLEASE HELP!!?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 06:07 PM PDT

I'm 17, turning 18 in February. My parents found out I smoke marijuana and now their putting me in a detention center. I dont know how long I'm going to be in there but probably for a month or two. I live in Detroit so has anyone ever experienced this or have any advice to help me make it through this bad time? PLEASE HELP!

Question: Isn't it awesome being the only brother born in the old millennium?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 05:59 PM PDT

My brothers were born in 2000, 2001, and 2005 and I was born in 1998. Do you have any siblings? I will ignore the pedantic assholes :)

Question: Why does my eldest brother get special treatment?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 05:51 PM PDT

My parents always have treated him better, taking him to nice restaurants, letting him do stuff giving him money, if I ask my mom for money she gets mad and makes me do house work and whatnot, if he asks he gets it no questions asked, I begged for years to get me a bb gun, her excuse is he (the golden boy) is irresponsible, but she just let him get one but not me!! He drinks, smokes underage and doesn't get in trouble, I talk "snotty" and am screamed at, why is this

Question: My mom loves me too much?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 05:47 PM PDT

Im 26 and I live on my own. She wants to join together with me to build a house. Her excuse is that she is too old to apply for a house mortgage. She literally has loans that are the size of a motgage when combined, and she is already 60. She was the loans manager of a financial institution for almost 15 years making a great salary. Never had student loans because she had a scholarship. She had lots of opportunity to own a house. I am her only child. She makes up excuses about why she has loans amounting to all this money, as if i'm stupid and cannot do math. She gets upset and yells when I tell her that she has to be withholding information. I love the city which I currently live in and all of my friends live here. I wish to purchase property here and raise my family. She doesn't like the city I live in and claims that she doesn't fit in. I agree. But she needs to let go of me. She is one of those single mothers who never focused on having a serious relationship with a man, her son was all that she needed. Very selfish.

Question: I hate my dad?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 05:44 PM PDT

Every time he comes home in a bad mood he makes sure i'm in a bad mood too. He's always picking fights with me, trying to embarrass me in front of other people. He yells at me and calls me fat, a *****, dirty ect if my chore is not done but when my sisters chore is not done he says nothing to her. Some people say its because she's younger but My sister will be 14 in November and i just turned 15. We're not that far apart in age. Sometimes when her chore isn't done he'll yell at me for it and call me mean things. I always tell my sister to clean up but she doesn't want to. My sister and I fight sometimes (but all siblings do) and my dad says he's gonna injury me if i lay a hand on her like im just gonna hurt her. My sister and i are the same size. Same weight & height. Not too long ago my dad busted me in my mouth when me and him were arguing and it gave me a swollen mouth for 3 days so I couldn't go to school. I'm just miserable here and i'm treated so unfairly the marked out word is b i t c h also he's always belittling me and saying i wont succeed because i'm "retarded"

Question: What if she asks me about a few days ago?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 05:38 PM PDT

I moved near San Diego where my wife is from after getting out of the Navy. We spend weekends with her sisters family where our daughter Kristina can play with her two cousins. Kristina is the age of the younger of the two cousins. 6 and 8 years old. On Tuesday I stopped by to help my brother in law unload some new windows for his house. Rachel who is the oldest was then getting a spanking. Rachel did see me cause Mom paused giving the spanking til I went outside with Derek. None the less Rachel was across Mom's lap with her school skirt off....in her lacy white underpants. I am concerned with what do I tell my niece if she talks about Tuesday when she was getting a spanking when I came over? What if she asks about seeing her panties?

Question: How do I get back at my dad for leaving my mom for another woman?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:58 PM PDT

Question: Am I what is wrong with society? :'(?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:57 PM PDT

This happened about two months ago, dad had me watch over his food he was cooking as he went to the bathroom. I knew he would not tak long,but I did as he told me. About two minuets later he came out and asked if I flipped it (btw it was bacon) I said no since it just started and he was not gone long. He got really mad and yelled at me "You are what's wrong with society!" it hurt me so bad to hear this. He said I burnt the food, but I really did not. I looked at after be ate and absolutely none were even closed to burnt. Now after that shooting in Vegas and stuff like that I feel so horrible after what my dad said. Am I really whats wrong in this world!? (btw im a female as someone thought I was a guy before)

Question: Who played Keneau Reeves mom in “Devil’s Advocate”?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:53 PM PDT

Question: I'm Afraid of Friday the 13th!?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:48 PM PDT

Friday the 13th is next week on October 2017 and I'm so scared of that day because I feel like I'm going to see my second cousin. I feel that she has a twin sister and I had a big problem with my 2C earlier. I told her that my friend think she's ugly and it got me into trouble and I got grounded. She lied to my family that I called her ugly and I tried to explain the truth but they won't believe me. I haven't talked to her in three months. I got grounded in late August because that's when my parents find out. My aunt told them about it and heard about it from her first cousin who is my cousin once removed. What should I do? I feel like I'm being spy on by a secret twin sister. It's unknown to me that if my 2C has a twin sister. If she texts me, it scares the sh!t outta me. I'm so scared and I highly believed that she has a identical twin sister.

Question: Can being happy solve the issue with very easy to anger parent?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:31 PM PDT

My dad hates his job and he tries to pin his anger on me and my sisters. I used to get very emotional as he was technically am emotionally abusive parent. I would defend my sisters and would sometimes join in lies they would make to save their hides,they always worked then. I found out if I act happy and laugh a lot I do not feel at all bothered by his anger anymore. Like anytime he has a bad day and complains I instead ignore him and just laugh about something else like funny videos or making jokes with my sisters, but i wonder if what would happen if he gets really angry at me what would happen if I just laugh and smile and ignore him? Im an 18 year old female if your wondering.

Question: My aunt wants me to hate who she hates but my parents tell me not to. Who should I be loyal to?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:21 PM PDT

The aunt is crazy but I know my parents will always love me even if I disobey them.

Question: My Dad is an ignorant person. How do I enlighten him so he won't hurt my (emotionally)?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:19 PM PDT

Question: My cousin falsely accused her father of abusing her. Should I trust her around my kids?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 04:19 PM PDT

Question: What would you say about a lactose intolerant "roommate" who purposely ingests lactose to fart worse?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 03:50 PM PDT

My brother "George" has absolutely horrible smelling gas. It makes me gag and makes me wonder how many times he shits his pants each week.. George purposely goes out of his way to choose foods that contain as much lactose as possible, in order to make his farts smell as horrible as they possibly can. What would you say about a roommate like this? Does this sound like the behavior of a mentally stable adult?

Question: My dad won't let me study abroad where I want?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 03:47 PM PDT

I'm a sophomore in college and I'm thinking about studying abroad for my first semester of junior year. My parents are all for studying abroad, encourage it, and actually brought it up before I even thought about it. The only thing is, my dad only wants me to study in Europe. I'm very interested in New Zealand and have been since I was 16, but every time I talk about it he makes fun of the country and me for wanting to go there. My mom thinks I should go where I want to go, but my parents are divorced, so he doesn't really care about what she thinks. I'm not trying to be ungrateful because I do feel so lucky that my parents are paying my tuition, I just don't understand the point of not allowing me to travel where I want if I'm going to be traveling somewhere no matter what. By the way, he only wants me to go to Europe because I can travel to many different countries, but New Zealand "is just New Zealand."

Question: When I couldn't wake up in the morning, my grandmother used to say "The only time you can wake someone up is when they're asleep"?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 03:30 PM PDT

Is this true?

Question: What to do about dad?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 03:22 PM PDT

I'm an adult and i'm not perfect? but i am blamed/ hated for everything. Told my dad during an argument i will shoot myself, he said to shoot myself and hung up. If i call or text he hangs up. He told me not to call or text him. He left family at a point and never apologizes, as he never does. And if i bring that up, i'm the bad person. He says because he is the dad, he don't have to apologize and can do what he want. He is emotional abusive, and hates his son what to do?

Question: Yelling at your father is disrespectful am i right or am I wrong?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 03:15 PM PDT

the father i'm talking about is our creator

Question: How to talk to my mom about my grades? (Please answer quick!)?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 03:14 PM PDT

I am currently working on raising my grade. It can't instantly go from A- and B+ to an A. But my mom never seems to realize that. My school has a website where parents can check grades, and my mom checks them every other day. My grades are improving, but are not yet an A. My mom just came home and checked the website. She saw my grades, and she says she wants to 'talk to me.' But every time she wants to 'talk to me' she always ends up yelling at me, and that achieves nothing. I told her I wanted to finish my Homework first, so I could stall her (I already finished), and I'm writing this during that time. But I can't stall forever. What should my next move be? Thank you, DIck! I tried this technique (though to a lesser scale) and my mom just gave up and handed the responsibility of checking my grades to my dad, who is a lot more understanding of how grading works, and of my efforts to raise them.

Question: Gals, I need your advice?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 02:52 PM PDT

My wife Mary's hairdresser moved out of state and she is looking for one that is "Good and has reasonable prices." I know of a hairdresser that is excellent and has reasonable prices, my ex wife Jo. I don't know if I should tell my wife this information. Would that be opening a can of worms? Would any woman want to go to a hairdresser that is her husbands ex wife? I can see possible trouble it that happens. But what would happen if I didn't tell her about my ex wife and some of her friends recommend my ex wife to her and she goes for a visit. Would my wife be mad a me for not telling her about Jo before? What would happen if they became friends? Would they compare notes about me? My gut reaction is to NEVER mention my ex wife to my current wife but I admit I do not know how women think when it come to someone doing their hair. Gals, please give me some advice on how to handle this. THANKS

Question: How do I get my extended family to stop disliking me because I am my mother's son (they hate my Mom)?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 02:48 PM PDT

I am hated purely because my Mom is a disgusting person on the inside and out.

Question: How do I talk my Mom out of having her sex change surgery?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 02:44 PM PDT

Question: My aunt is going to be mad at me if she finds out I spoke to her daughter today. What do I do if she finds out, she scared me?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 02:19 PM PDT

My aunt hates her daughter with passion.

Question: Do you think my family is being fair??

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 02:10 PM PDT

So 2 days ago my mom told me that's it's my grandpas birthday and that were driving 5 hours to see him. This weekend I had a soccer game tigers vs Morelia to go to and I had to cancel because of course my grandpa is more important even though my friend paid 75 for it. I don't get paid a lot and my check hadn't came in yet. Now my mom and sister expect me to help pay for gas. I usually don't mind at all but right now I'm going on a cruise and this will be my first vacation ever. I grew up poor so I could never afford it and now my mom and sister call me selfish even though she just went to universal with her kids and everyone was thrilled for her. I am trying to save cause I leave at the end of the month but my checks have been short I haven't even had money for my self and the cruise I could only afford cause I was paying monthly since the beginning of the year. Now my family is calling me selfish and especially for me not knowing nothing about this trip and for me being broke I think have about 60$ until my next check. Do you think it's right of them to expect me to just help even though I knew nothing? I get nervous because I'm a little chubby and when I visit my family I always get judged and called names by my uncles and aunts so I really don't like them. I just feel stressed that they make plans and no one bothers to tell me until the end when they've made up there minds. And if I don't agree I get scolded. They like to gang up on me and I have big family issues. I will probably give her like 20$ do you think I should help with anymore money? Do you think there being unfair?

Question: Am I being a baby? I don't like my Mom's boyfriend.?

Posted: 05 Oct 2017 01:17 PM PDT

I am a grown adult woman. Married with children of my own. My father died about 18 months ago. My Mother started dating someone about 5 months ago. Initially they were just friends. Once they started going on official dates she told us about him and said she was sure we'd want to meet him. I had some hesitations at that point because he is 18 years younger than her. But was willing to meet him and give him a chance. She gave me his full name that night and I looked him up in the public records only to find that he has 4 DUIs and had a restraining order against him from a previous girlfriend. All of these charges were years ago, nothing recent. At that point I told my Mom what I had found and asked her to reconsider a dating relationship with this guy. She did, but a few weeks later decided she was too bored and resumed her dating relationship with him. At this point I refuse to meet him or be around him or let my kids be around him. My Mom says that he has changed and she hasn't seen any of that old behavior and we should give him a chance. I have tried talking to him via messenger and he seemed easily angered when I asked about their age difference and my concerns he went into full on Father mode scolding me and telling me what my problem is. I see this as an anger issue. My Mom defends him at all costs and agrees with everything he says or does while thinking my approach is wrong. Am I being a baby? Should family come first? Are there red flags?