Family: Question: Is Oklahoma DHS still offering the advantage program? I have been unable to get a hold of our caseworker and haven't had Services since July?

Question: Is Oklahoma DHS still offering the advantage program? I have been unable to get a hold of our caseworker and haven't had Services since July?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 01:53 PM PDT

Question: My uncle is a scary drunk. How do I act around him this weekend when I see him at his daughter's wedding?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 01:22 PM PDT

Question: My aunt wished me a Happy Birthday but my birthday is in December. Should I tell her she has the wrong date or wrong person?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 01:21 PM PDT

I think she might have meant to sent it to my cousin (another nephew) whose birthday is this week (not sure which day).

Question: Why is my mom punishing me for something that wasn’t my fault?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 12:58 PM PDT

So basically, I broke my glasses unintentionally, and my mom is making me go with her to the eye doctor to get them fixed, even though I don't even need to go. Usually when I break my glasses, she goes without me there. She says that I have to do this to "fix my mistakes" but I don't even understand how that fixes my mistakes, it's actually really stressing me out because I have medically diagnosed OCD. But she doesn't seem to care whatsoever. I've even had a stressful day today, and yet she still doesn't seem to care. I need these glasses to see far away, because everything is blurry without them. She doesn't understand how important this is, or how stressful this is. I am very angry at her right now, and it feels like she's saying "not everyone makes mistakes, you're a failure" even though she's not saying that, but that's how it feels. I don't know what to do.

Question: Am I an A hole or is my sister lazy?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 12:50 PM PDT

My sister is 20 and is clinically diagnosed with anxiey/depression (which specific anxiety, I don t know.) However, I feel she uses this as an excuse to be lazy. All she will do is wake up, watch YouTube on the couch for 18hrs, and fall asleep again. She has mommy and daddy make/buy her food, she lets her trash build up around her on the couch for weeks on end before someone else has to pick it up, and she will never do her dishes, just tosses them in the sink for everyone else. She makes no effort whatsoever to go to school or find a job. Honestly, if I were my parents, I d give her an eviction notice stating she needs to contribute to society or at least the household or else she needs to leave. But they just give in to the whole "I can t I have anxiety" spiel and just let her be that way. If parents suggest she do chores, she throws a fit like a 5 yo and blames it on her anxiety. But if dad wants to take her to a movie suddenly all of that goes away and she can go to the theater. I want to be understanding and realize what she is going through but I just can t sympathize with her with as little effort as she puts forth. Am I a narcissistic a hole for feeling like this or is she really just using it as an excuse?

Question: Should I ask him to cuddle with me?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 11:59 AM PDT

So recently my life has been really crazy and stressful. I've known for quite a while that cuddling can reduce stress, and it's an easy way to get to know someone (if it's non sexual). So my question is, should I ask my uncle to cuddle with me? Again this is completely non sexual, I just think this is not only a good bonding experience for us, but it would help both of our stress problems. I asked him a couple weeks ago and he said he wasn't the cuddling type of guy, but I'm telling you if I ask him again and in the right way I really think he'd be up for it. So let me know what you guys think. Im new to Yahoo Answers so it's good to finally be apart of the mix.

Question: Grounded for a year HELP!?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 11:32 AM PDT

I failed 3 classes last year so my mom made me take summer school. And I failed that too because I was late everyday and got 6 tardies (which count as absences) so I was grounded for the remainder of the summer. I wasn't even allowed on a family trip to Arizona so I decided to get back at them by spending $1,000 dollars on fantasy sports. Well my mom checked her credit card and realized she was missing $1,000 dollars from her credit card and she confronted me and I confessed to her that I stole $1,000 dollars and my mom lost it at me and told me I was grounded for a year ---List of punishments--- No electronics, (includes TV) No books No drawing No writing No Mp3 No lunch I have to stay in my room 24/7 except for school, meals, church, bathroom, and chores Only 6 hours of sleep per night (which includes the time it takes me to get to sleep) and if I nap it will get reduced by one hour No bed comforters, so I have to sleep on the bare carpet My parents are setting my room temperature to 90 degrees, and if I make it cooler it will be increased by one degree No going to family gatherings Only one helping of food each meal No fun foods or eating out No bedroom door My mom put cardboard over my windows so I can't look outside I have to eat hot sauce every day I can only take 5 minute showers and if I take longer it'll be decreased by one minute Showers have to be on coldest setting I have to wear a winter coat and a jacket so I'm even hotter

Question: How to Deal with Current Relationship?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 10:14 AM PDT

I have a fun relationship but unfortunately life can't always be fun @ some point you have to be responsible. My bf (24, im 21 y/o) is always using my car & it drains me. As of now his lights gas water is off since he & his family let bill add up to $800. Now he is staying with me & using my car cause he has nowhere to stay or have a permanent spot to be @ so he uses my car to chill from place to place until I'm off of school or work. He doesn't have a job & he has a working vehicle with no insurance so the vehicle doesn't move. I don't like him being in my car bc a wreck can happen his fault or not & I will be responsible, I have illegal tint & if he gets a ticket I'm resposible, we got in an argument & he punched my speedometer & Broke the glass & cant pay to fix it, I provide the gas, & I clean my car. I ask him to keep friends & family out my car since his mom is rude to me, but he doesn't see that. His mom is rude sometimes but when in need she asks me for things. She slams doors when I'm there & ignores me when I speak & his sister always tells me how to live my life & try's to "outsmart" me @ everything. I think they all are taking advantage of me since I have no mom (passed away when I was 13) no siblings, very few friends (really 1) & my dad is hooked on his gf & her family so I'm by myself. I want him out of my car but he feels as if I owe him this since I was always at his house, as if I had nowhere to go, but I have a Home , I was just visiting my bf. Advice???

Question: Is it bad to pretend you don't like someone?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 09:52 AM PDT

This guy at my job has a crush on me and tries to hollar at me all the time but when I see him I duck and look down and pretend I don't hear him. When he says hi to me and says something I just laugh at him.. And after hearing him and his gf broke up that makes me mad and I just ignore him more..but secretly I do have a big crush on him.when I go home he's all I think about..is this bad?

Question: Opinions on stability for a 2 year old 7 on 7 off visititation?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 09:50 AM PDT

We have joint custody but currently are doing 5 days then 2 days. My son is 2 and I was just wanting opinions on stability for my son if we did the 7 straight then 7 with his dad.

Question: Why does my dad always yell and call me a loser?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 09:47 AM PDT

Question: Help my stepdad is a dick?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 09:02 AM PDT

he's literally the most irritating person i've ever met. he's like really dumb, he's never even gone to high school yet he acts like he's smarter than everyone and knows everything, he's super bossy and acts as if he's my dad which i'm really grateful he's not lol. he's also really ******* childish like, when i or one of my siblings does something that he doesn't like for example like grab a cookie from the kitchen or something like that he says some **** like "i'm gonna tell ur mom later" ... like what grown *** man says that? what kind of person over 10 years old threatens to go to your mom? also, i'm only 17 and my siblings are 11 and 13 so obviously sometimes, as teenagers, we act like teens and get mad or whatever and we sometimes get angry at him too and then he just screams at us and basically every time he says "if you don't like me, just tell me and i'll go and live on my own blah blah blah" like? what the ****? why would you say that? i mean i understand that he's only human and he can get mad and sometimes when i get mad i can be annoying but if he actually loves my mom why the **** would he threaten to leave her just because her children are annoying sometimes? also a few years ago my mom was checking his emails because she was suspicious of him i guess, and guess what she found in his inbox.. mails of him sending to other women to have sex. +

Question: My dad told me sexy once when I'm 24 then when I was under 18 like 16 or something he told me that he would date me if he wasn't my dad.?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 08:50 AM PDT

I'm 24 year old female? Is this weird? He only told me this stuff once. But never sexually abused me tho. Serious answers please!

Question: What relation to my father is my second cousin?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 06:58 AM PDT

Question: MY COUSINS HUSBAND IS ASKING ME OUT WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 06:47 AM PDT

Question: Suicide in family, now my brother is bullying me and my mom won't stap talking shi* and is telling everyone. How to stop this, please help?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 06:38 AM PDT

Ok so first of all my dad's wife killed her self she was found on her knees but apparently she hung her self police and investigators think that someone may have killed her because she was having serious problems with a co-worker and plus while she was alive she was a really mean and bad person. I never got to be a part of my dad's life growing up because she had him whipped and would never allow him to see us or allow us to stay at his house. Never got calls from him on my birthday nor any holidays and we saw him at least once or twice a year. This lady would spread lies about us and just the sight of me and my twin bro angered her. I am 25 now and just because I am a girl everyone thinks this will effect me more which is not the case here. I feel bad for my dad and regardless of the past I don't want to hold any grudges and I want to be there for him. I got day's off work to see him and make sure he's ok, but my mom keeps telling everyone she knows about this suicide which is none of there business. And now she is mad at me for even wanting to go claiming there's a full house and that my dad doesn't deserve me going there. And my brother called me an idiot and said I was acting like I'm 15 yrs old. Like I am just trying to be a nice person and let go of the past. Regardless of what has happened I think it's the right thing for me to do with being his daughter and all. How can I get them to shut up about the subject? There not respectful and I don't see how I'm being childish for wanting to go spend a few days with him. I've been depressed before I've gone through the same thing I was bullied in my past severely and I used to cut. And I had no one thank god I helped my self to stop those ways and it's just right for me to go and give condolences and make sure he's ok vs just going for an hour or two like my brother wanted. Any advice towards my family and how to stop there hate and snitching would be greatly appreciative.

Question: My mom lives next to me.And she forces me to eat lunch at the university s restaurant which is an hour away from my house.Why is she doing?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 05:44 AM PDT

this?

Question: My Mom has me blocked from Instagram and Facebook cause she worries I will copy her photos. How do I get over my hurt feelings?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 04:32 AM PDT

I don't ever share her photos but she obsesses cause of what I was like as a kid. It hurts my feelings to be blocked by my own mother.

Question: My brother had a girlfriend who had a baby 9 months after they broke up. How do I find out if it is his baby (could he be a deadbeat father)?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 04:24 AM PDT

Question: No one in my family remembered my birthday Saturday other then my Dad and one cousin. I feel rejected, how do I get over the hurt?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 04:23 AM PDT

The one cousin only remembered because he is old enough to use Facebook and saw it was my birthday and wrote Happy Birthday on the Facebook wall. My Mom didn't even remember. Nor did my siblings. Or they knew but didn't care. I am a 20 year old guy so I shouldn't care but it really hurts. I have 31 family members on Facebook and only the one cousin wrote "Happy Birthday".

Question: How do I get my Mom to forgive her brother so I can play with my cousins again?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 04:12 AM PDT

I am banned from seeing any of my cousins from that part of the family cause my Mom is pissy that my uncle was rude to her last Christmas. I am banned by my Mom from going to my older cousins wedding this weekend cause the uncle is going to be there. It is so unfair. How do I get her to forgive her brother or at least stop grounding me to get him back.

Question: I found a bong in my moms bag, how should I deal with the situation?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 03:47 AM PDT

I went to the bathroom to wash my face and I noticed my moms makeup bag on the side and idk why I decided to look but I opened it up and there was a small bong wrapped in a paper towel with some black stuff on it and then I opened the side pocket and there was a bunch of empty sandwich bags and a couple lighters my mom is a smoker and smokes everyday I m just really confused on how to react and if I should bring it up to her or just not talk about it my mom is super secretive and leaves at 3 AM and comes back the next day sometimes she also lies about visiting my aunt I ve never smelt any room in my house that smells like weed so she s going out and smoking it....aaahhh i wish I didn t open it because now I wanna know everything... lol these answers are too funny I'm just gonna mind my business...it could get awkward if my mom knew that I knew she was getting high aS Fuc K I've seen her do worse but it's..uh probably fine...

Question: What is my paternal name?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 03:00 AM PDT

Question: What does it mean when a dad tells their 24 year old daughter that they are sexy?

Posted: 10 Oct 2017 12:11 AM PDT

I SWEAR I'M NOT TROLLING! HE TOLD ME I'M SEXY. HE ONLY TOLD ME THAT ONCE THO. BUT HE HAS NEVER SEXUALLY ABUSED ME THO. What does that mean?

Question: How do you deal with an obnoxious/stubborn old man in the family?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 11:40 PM PDT

My old man is 72 years old with acute dementia because of his abuse of alcohol his whole life. He s become very obnoxious lately to the point where we don t even want to talk to him anymore, requesting senseless favors, asking to go to the pub when he could barely even walk on his own. He has a hard time giving respect to his family and is very very stubborn.

Question: What do i do?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 10:53 PM PDT

Im 16 years old and a female. My mom talks about her problems and how life is really hard for her. She talks about how stressed she is all the time and im getting stressed about her problems. She talks about money problems all the time but she wont let me work and help her out what should i do?

Question: Are you mad at your mom?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 10:37 PM PDT

Question: Is this a sign of someone feeling detached/unconnected with their family?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 10:02 PM PDT

I'm writing an essay about a character in a story, and I need some opinions. This character dreams about his family being killed, then he takes revenge on whoever killed his family. In your opinion, is this a sign of detachment from his family? I personally think that it is. If an individual truly cared about their family members, it would be difficult to even imagine them dying. What are your thoughts on this?

Question: Is it weird that I'm friends with my brother?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 09:19 PM PDT

He's 4 years younger than me, but he's pretty mature and we have a lot of common interests. Is it bad to hang out with him like a friend?

Question: How can I fix my family's problems?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 09:04 PM PDT

My family has never been perfect. My dad refuses to see his aunt and uncle in law because they were very rude to him (and it was a big deal). However, my mom's parents don't seem to understand this. My dad doesn't want me or my younger brother to ever see or speak to our great aunt and uncle, but my grandparents keep on telling us that we should visit them. They will sometimes come uninvited to family outings, and my dad gets really upset whenever this happens. He blames it on my mom and her side of the family. I've also been paying attention to their arguments and it feels like the only reason why my parents are even together anymore is because they didn't want me to grow up in a broken home. I'm not sure if this is enough information, so I'll try to summarize some extra details so that this makes sense. -My mom was always really protective of me, and my dad wasn't allowed to cut my hair until I was in 5th grade. My dad has never hit my mom but my mom grew up in an abusive household and her dad was constantly beating her. -My mom and dad rarely listen to what the other has to say. -My dad has always felt left out of my life, and that has only made our family's problems worse. He feels like he isn't even allowed to raise me. He might be moving across the country soon because of all the stress. I'm sorry if my question doesn't make sense, and I'll try to clarify it later. That being said, my question is how can I fix all this? I don't want my parents to get divorced. (P.S I'm 13 years old if that helps at all) Thanks in advance!

Question: How do I forgive my Mom when she continues to hurt me daily (emotional hurt)?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 08:25 PM PDT

I want to forgive her. I am an adult living on my own now but her continual hurt makes it hard to forgive.

Question: My cousin is getting married and I am the only cousin not asked to the wedding. How do I stop feeling so sad and rejected?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 08:20 PM PDT

My Mom doesn't get along with her family so I was excluded since they didn't want my Mom there. It hurts.

Question: Is it bad to stay home on your birthday?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 08:09 PM PDT

After a full week of work I'm off for 2 days my birthday is tommrow..I went shopping and brought beers and a cake stuff to celebrate at home.. Is this bad? I will have plenty of time to party to for the rest of the year but will be home with a room full of beer and balloons..help?

Question: Why is having a single mother a big deal?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 07:59 PM PDT

Everyone has a single mother and no father so why is it an accomplishment to have one? I don't know anyone who actually has a Dad.

Question: Help!! I'm really nervous about going to school tomorrow?!?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 07:56 PM PDT

Okay so I'm in high school and I'm starting to think there might be a cult in the school. Some of the "cult" are in my classes. They always wear black, gray, or red. Two of them are in my English class and they always choose each other as partners for projects in class. One time, (let's call her Kate) had to be my partner and she got mad at me because I didn't do any work. I did do some work actually. We were doing a poster board and I pasted 2 pictures on it. While we were working she was like "Are you going to do any work?" I said "I don't know" and she just looked at me weird and went back to working. She's so intense. She has long ash brown hair, pale skin, black hoodie, black everything. Then at lunch she sits with a group of like 7 people and they all wear black like her. And there's this boy in the group who could be the leader of the cult. He's always yelling and then everyone laughs. And one time a bunch of people from other tables crowded the cult table because the people in the cult were doing fist fights. Is this a cult???

Question: I feel like my mom doesn't trust me?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 07:41 PM PDT

I just entered high school so I understand her worries but I don't really do anything bad. I'm at home most of the time and when I am out I'm just walking around with my sister and 2 of our friends. I tell her where we are going and when we leave the house. Lately she has been all up in our (me and my twins) buissness a lot more recently and is always asking us weird questions. When we walk around town when she isn't home I always get a call from her asking what we are doing. I constantly feel anxious when I am out with friends and we aren't even doing anything wrong. Today she asked me to share my location with her all the time and now I feel as though every move I make is going to be watched. I understand her worry but I think she has taken it too far. How do I tell her I feel as there is no trust between us without making her more suspicious.

Question: Someone has been having sex with my mother, what to do?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 07:07 PM PDT

while on my mom s phone today i stumbled across some texts from someone whose number isn t saved saying he "loves her" "loves how fit she is" and "wants her body" and a bunch of that kind of creepy ****. judging by her texts back, it s obvious they re well-acquainted and have had sex numerous times. my parents don t get along very well, and i m sure my father has cheated in the past, so i can t say i m surprised, but i feel violated. i turned 18 yesterday, and have a 10 year old sister and 5 year old brother, and our mother is getting ****** by some middle aged golf loving douchebag??? nah **** that i wanna kill this **********. i was going to call him and flip **** but now i want to find out who he is and where he lives. when i saw "i want your body" i knew this ********** couldn t be let off easy. i was thinking about finding his home and smashing his windows in with a bat and destroying his yard with a couple of my friends. how should i go about this situation? what would you do?

Question: Cant get a long with my husbands family not sure what to do?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 06:55 PM PDT

My husband family has a lot of drama or never hardly talk to each other. My husbands sister talk crap about me behind my back. One of his sisters is in abusive relationship and has 4 kids. She doesn t show them a lot of attention since she has a custody order with her ex. She only takes them for weekend but sometimes doesn t. She can leave the guy anytime but plays victim game runs back to him. She has done this for years. Her family never call on my daughters birthday and never send anything. When we went there for vacation for month they disclose me a lot from photos and pushed me to side. My husband hardly talks to them and he agrees that he isn t really close since theirs a lot of drama when it comes to his sisters and some family members. My family is like that with my mothers side i have them mostly taken out of my life. I do get a long with his brothers though they actually call once month and we check to see how they are. His mother is pretty much out of are life as well. Though his father does care but never called happy birthday to his grand daughter or even send anything. My family has to make up and help us out and send stuff. I know this is harsh but I don t ever want to see them really. I don t want to go down there either since it s awkward. My husband would probably want to go up to see his family but i just couldn t. They act like they do so much for my daughter but they haven t. I just don t think it will work. Not sure what to do

Question: What is wrong with my son and why is he so mean to me?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 06:40 PM PDT

He's 24, still lives at home with me but never pays any attention to me and takes everything for granted. Made good grades in elementary and middle school but once he started high school, he started giving up on school. The plan all along was for him to go to college but he's failed that. He doesn't study and is very lazy. He said he doesn't want to be in college and just wants to work. He doesn't understand though that he needs a college degree because that was what I and his grandparents wanted for him. He is smart but he's lazy. I always pushed him and made sure he did his schooling but he never wanted to do anything more than the bare minimum. He doesn't study. He's so lazy about everything, never cleans up. I have to constantly ask him to clean up the dishes, do his laundry and take out the garbage, etc. He doesn't remember to do anything. I have to lecture him all the time about things like manners and cleaning. It gets to where I ask him so many times I have to yell and we end up arguing. He goes out with friends every once in a while and I never met them. He sneaks out and I call him after he leaves to ask him where he's going, who he's with and why he's going, etc. He always lies to me though. I've found alcoholic drinks in his room and I don't like him drinking but he said it's hypocritical because I drink but the thing is I am an adult with my own house, he's just a kid. His brain is still developing. I don't why he is like this. I didn't raise him like this. Most of the time he just stays home though. He said he feels guilty about leaving the house but he gets along with his grandma and dad well. He and I never got along though. I don't understand? Also he's always scared to talk to people so I have to do everything for him. He just can't function properly in society. IT's aggravating.

Question: Kylier Jenner is pregnant? Does this make her mom Caitlyn Jenner, a "Trandma"?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 06:20 PM PDT

Question: Boyfriend s parents won t let us be home alone? (We re 18)?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 06:02 PM PDT

So my (first and only) boyfriend and I have been together for about three months now (we were friends for years before that) and out parents have met, etc. He s allowed to be home alone with me at my house since my parents are pretty chill (provided the door is open) and our curfew is reasonably late. On the other side of the spectrum, we aren t allowed to be alone at all at his house. I m not even allowed to be on the property if there isn t a parent home. Seriously, not even his teenage brother counts as a "supervisor." The weird part is, as long as we re not in the house, we can do whatever we want to alone. We live really close so our ideal hangout is each others houses, but he can t always be at my house. We never show PDA or anything around either of our parents, and we re not planning on having sex. We re both pretty much adults, yet I end up getting kicked out of his place on super short notice whenever his parents go anywhere because they don t trust us. I ve tried to respect their traditions...

Question: Guys what does this mean?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 05:39 PM PDT

I go to church and I feel like he cant take his eyes off me. He said he wouldn't allow himselof to have feelings but if this were the case and if it were me i wouldn't even look at him. Yet he's constantly observing me. I don't look at him but on the off case i do our eyes lock cause he's always looking over, and i look away. Today my friend was with me and saw how much he was looking so she smiled and he smiled back at her knowing she's my friend.Doesn't make sense?

Question: I am extremely worried about my son?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 05:34 PM PDT

He's now 30. He left the house 10 years ago. He has a good job. He lives in a good apartment, but he has never had any friends. No girlfriend. He lives completely isolated from people. I think the only person he talks to is me. I'm worried about him. How can I help? I asked him to go to therapy, but he refuses.

Question: My daughter wants to start working out with me.?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 05:34 PM PDT

I'm a little worried that if she becomes bigger than me then she will have to be MY Dad. I'm very insecure having a woman be in better shape than me let alone my own daughter. Are my fears justified?

Question: Does it hurt to get hit with a wooden spoon?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 05:32 PM PDT

Question: I think my son is detached from us?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 04:42 PM PDT

My son does not like being around people, especially me, my husband, and his 2 sisters. He does not tell us anything and he never calls us. His two sisters have also stated they rarely talk with him. I could understand when he was a teenager, but now he is 24 and it has gotten progressively worse. I did get a chance to speak with him the other day and told him that he needs to start telling us stuff and to stop being so detached. All he did was shrug it off and say whatever. I know, maybe i shouldn't have said that but I'm really concerned about him and think that he needs counseling, what can I do?

Question: What can I do mom is telling me how to live my married life?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 04:39 PM PDT

I'm 27 and married and have an 8 month old boy but my mom has always been controling my life since I was growing up. Now that I'm married she wants to tell me how to care for my baby and how to live with my husband. I'm happy in my marriage but my mom wants us to be a certain way like always hugging or cuddling each other and stuff like that. We do it but we also give each other our space she tells me u don't listen to me!! She says I want u to tell ur husband this and that and it gets annoying. Mom wants me to be like her and wants to decide for our baby what can I do? She tells me you and your husband are weird the way we do things. She would always tell me when you grow up and move out you can live how ever you want it will be your life. Well it's not that way any advice?

Question: Mom keeps returning my clothes and it’s annoying me?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 04:12 PM PDT

I bought clothes before that I can't find anymore. Ugh it's so annoying and when I ask her why, she says I never wear them. But I do and I'm trying to build my confidence. But she never lets me express myself. I'm 18 and she's still controlling my life and not listening to me.

Question: I don't know what to do.?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 03:56 PM PDT

about a half an hour ago, my mom, who has been drinking, started blaming me for everything that is wrong with our lives, from all the stress to the finances, and I don't know what to take from it. Obviously I'm super upset and pissed, because it's her own habits such as smoking and alcohol that are causing our financial issue, and I can't even look at her I'm so upset with her. We own a small horse business, and mind you I literally take care of everything, the yardwork, the horses, the house, I do everything. Im 18, and she's pressing me to get a job, which I would love to do, but she's not going to do the work to keep this farm running, she refuses to. And after blaming me for everything, she was saying how she's just going to take me out of my vocational school, and go live in a homeless shelter. I'm not moving to a homeless shelter or dropping the biggest opportunity for a future career just because she is "tired of all my ****." On top of all of the current stress, I was diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder last year, and I have never felt this bad before. I want to just move out, and go live with my dad, because at least at my dad's I can go a single day without my alcoholic mother blaming me for everything. I know it's a long post, and very much a vent, but I'm lost as to what to do guys, I can't decide if I want to move out or attempt suicide again, I just don't know what to do, and I can't handle all this anymore. Any words of advice or whatever is appreciated

Question: I feel like my mom doesnt care?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 03:53 PM PDT

I left my house because of my mom disapproved of my bf.. And i ledt 7 months ago and my mom calls me but just tells me to call the insurance to do this and tbat for her but never have she asked me if i needed any help or if I'm doing ok or if i need money for food..so thats why i dont answer my mom calls because my friends aleays ask me if im doing ok and if i need anything i can call them..

Question: How to deal With my Current Relationship?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 03:20 PM PDT

For the most part it's a fun relationship, but my 25 yo bf (I'm 22) has no job & has a truck with no insurance that sits in his yard. Well he's been using my car & im sick of it. When I'm at work or school he wants to use it b/c the lights, gas, & water is off at his house & he needs a place to stay , this is b/c his mom, him, & sister has no income, by the way his sister try's to show me out & try's to tell me how to do things & his mom always has a attitude towards me but then when I'm need asks me for rides. Just the other day she asked me to put their bills on my name , but I declined. Well I don't like the fact that when I'm not there he has his family in my car (they don't deserve a ride by the way the act towards me), he had a fit & punched my speedometer & doesn't have the money to pay to fix it, & I have to provide gas for him to be in my car. He feels entitled to my car b/c I used to be at his house 24/7 instead of mine. Like I needed a place to stay, when I was just visiting. I'd like to be friends with a old friend & maybe rekindle what we left off, but he's always in my car or at my house. Any advice?

Question: Why does she make me look bad around guys?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 03:13 PM PDT

My sister has to make me look bad or make fun of when we are in front of guys every time. She picks on my insecurities like my nose or weight and expect the guy to join her picking on me. She says things like "yea she's a lesbian" or "she's dirty" even though I'm straight and take showers. She also call me names like ugly. She does this everytime she is around a guy she likes and tries to make him laugh at me.

Question: Don't understand why stepdaughter is so angry I told her the truth?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 03:08 PM PDT

I told my stepdaughter her twin brother's girlfriend thinks she is mentally defective and thinks it is a bad idea for the kids to see her because their brains doesn't work properly after they go places with her. I thought she would totally want to know. But it totally destroyed her whole day and she flipped out and got really depressed because she thought they were ok and wants to know what she did wrong NOW. I SAID NOTHING AND TO FORGET I SAID ANYTHING.And now my stepdaughter is afraid that she is not gonna see the kids because I said that. Because the GF has tried to keep her from seeing the kids before. I tried to tell her lets pretend she doesn't think you are defective ,or maybe that isn't exactly what she meant, which made it even worse. And she went out to the barn and starting throwing darts at the dart board and seemed very upset. She is bipolar. I asked her if she is on her period and is she taking her pills and she got really pissed off. So then I told that she should know the girlfriend is a negative person and she needs to stop being so sensitive and rise above the negativity. I learned that from Joel Olsteen. That also made her almost CRY. so I tried to fix the situation by coming into the barn and making small talk about how it get's dark early now. she kept ignoring me so I kept coming in and she blew up and then I announced the kids wanted to talk to her and they hung up because they hear her yeling because I put it on speaker

Question: How do I cope with Father's Day when I see all the people who have father's with them and my father died 7 years ago?

Posted: 09 Oct 2017 02:47 PM PDT

And my step-mother, two half-siblings, and my Dad's siblings have not spoken to us since except once despite my multiple attempts at reaching out. My step-mother resented that he spent as much time with me as he did when he was alive so they have not responded to my outreach. This makes me miss him all the more as Father's Day was always with not just him but his whole family (wife, kids, and his siblings and mother). His mother died three months before he did (both cancer). How do I cope with this holiday in less then two weeks, I have been dreading it since Mother's Day and the pain lingers to early July. I have moved on at Christmas and enjoy my mother's family but Father's Day is a painful reminder as that was his annual reunion. Some of his family still gets together but I am not welcome there and they got mad the year I just showed up.