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- Question: My friend told me I should not celebrate Christmas?
- Question: Do your friends ever try to have you killed?
- Question: I m in 7th grade, and this boy in my class is always calling me fat and getting really physical with me.?
- Question: How to get my best friend back?
- Question: Is it wrong for me to feel this way about my friends?
- Question: What am I supposed to say? Zero social skills :(?
- Question: My friend overshares her problems with me and refuses to get help for herself. Am I selfish?
- Question: How romantic was this moment between me and this man?
- Question: Why did my friend keep telling me to go home, was she jealous?
- Question: How to reconnect with a buddy from high school?
- Question: I’m in a group of 3 and I’m getting left out. What do I do?
- Question: How do I deal with my clingy roommate?
- Question: Question mainly for single men or anybody that can remember the single life....women can answer too but please let me know u r a female .?
- Question: Taking a poll..please answer this with a yes or no..and please give an honest answer only..tks?
- Question: Friend joking about being in love with his best friend ?
- Question: Is it silly to track down an old school friend?
- Question: I skip school because my friends do?
- Question: Wouldn’t the world be a better place if we exterminated people with this opinion?
- Question: How to not smell up my house when smoking weed?
- Question: Could I still get her back???? :(?
- Question: Friends with an exs friend?
- Question: Why is everyone so annoying?
- Question: Roommate suggestion?
- Question: Would you still be friends with someone if you're friend treats women like ****? control's them, beats them, verbal abusive.?
- Question: Do you like to have a small circle of friends? Should I keep this person a friend?
- Question: How should I react to my "friends" behavior?
- Question: How did I hurt his feelings?
- Question: I went to another country I had best friends but one of them doesn't have a phone?
- Question: How to ignore someone until they miss you?
- Question: Friend saying weird sounds?
- Question: What should I do with a stranger I found in the Alps?
- Question: My best friend and others are replacing me?
- Question: What does makeup designer do?
- Question: Am i losing my friend?
- Question: Coworkers unhappy about other co-workers promotiion?
- Question: How to get my friend to stop smothering me? He thinks it's funny?
- Question: Worried about my friend?
- Question: A sort of friend has a key to my house but i want to ask for it back without it leading to an issue?
- Question: How can I be more open to people?
- Question: Please answer this!?
- Question: How can I have a good time at this party and not feel like crap when I go home?
- Question: How should I deal with my 21 year old friend's stress?
- Question: Worried I may not get to hang with my friend like old times? May be different?
- Question: How do I turn acquantainces into friends and strangers into acquaintances?
- Question: I want my friend Adrianna to find a man to put on a leash ? HELPPP?
- Question: I am 17, I am unwanted and not needed. Help?
- Question: Question about neighbor avoiding me?
- Question: Why would a girl after being friends then distancing herself, say that "I can't promise to be friends"?
- Question: I need help with my friend group. I’m not happy at all but I really like some of the people in it.?
- Question: Why do I feel so numb?
- Question: Relationship advice?
- Question: How come guys can't stop tickling me once they find out I'm ticklish?
- Question: I don't understand why keep losing new friendships like this too often?
- Question: How do I help a sad friend.?
- Question: How to help a girl that is suicidal?
- Question: I don't want to hang out with my "friends" anymore?
- Question: Is confronting a stalker a good idea?
- Question: Was my gf rude?
| Question: My friend told me I should not celebrate Christmas? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 05:24 PM PDT Okay so let's call my friend B. B and I were talking a few days and she spit out of her mouth, that I do not believe in God, but I dont know. I consider my Agnostic. I corrected her and she then goes on to say I should not celebrate Christmas because its Jesus birthday. Why can I not spend time with family, exchange gifts, and buy a christmas tree?? I am so upset because she is one of my best friends, but totally not her place. She also has been in MY bussiness, saying what i should do and so on. WHAT DO I DO ??? B IS DRIVING ME INSANE |
| Question: Do your friends ever try to have you killed? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 05:09 PM PDT |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 05:03 PM PDT I have curves (boobs and a butt) but I really don t this that makes me fat. He s tiny, only about 4 6, and I m 5 5. He rest gets on my nerves, but he acts "depressed" around all the teachers so they treat him differently than everyone else. He even told my classmates and I that he fakes it so he doesn t get in trouble a lot. He s not exactly popular, he only has about 4 people he talks to, but he s getting more attention by being rude. Am I actually fat? |
| Question: How to get my best friend back? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 04:55 PM PDT Me and my best friend haven't talked to each other for 5 months so far because of something stupid how do I get her back to be friends again without me texting her first |
| Question: Is it wrong for me to feel this way about my friends? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 04:32 PM PDT I moved house and then I had to move schools away from my 2 good friends. We were only friends cuz we were in the same lessons together (in school buildings we would jus walk past each other and jus say hi). Now that I've moved we talk over text and they make me talk to them like every single day and to be honest I'm not feeling it at all. I just wanna stop talking to them and move on because tbh it feels way too forced when we talk over text and doesn't feel the same, idk what to do.I feel bad for feeling this way but this is how I feel...? I don't know how to tell them this cuz they always say they still wanna stay friends with me but I'm not feeling it. It feels forced cuz I'm not putting in that much effort cuz I don't feel like it. Im 14 by the way. |
| Question: What am I supposed to say? Zero social skills :(? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 04:13 PM PDT I have zero social skills for some reason, and in addition to that, English isn't my first language. So especially when I talk to someone in English, I get stuck in conversation a lot, I never know what to say at all, my mind is completely blank and I'm not even exaggerating. It's so bad that I wish I'd have someone to constantly ask "what am I supposed to say now?". Here is an example: Somebody told me that they did good on a test. What am I supposed to say? Tomorrow they are having the final test. Am I supposed to say "good luck" then? And if they do pass it tomorrow what am I supposed to say then? I literally feel dead inside and I probably come off that way too as I feel completely socially inept. I don't have other problems like reading body language or understanding emotions etc, it's just this problem with never knowing what I'm meant to say, what is the right thing to say. It causes conversations to stop a lot because of me, because of the silence. I've read around online but the general advice on how to keep a conversation flowing doesn't help me when I literally never know what to say to anything. I was never like this before, 4-5 years ago. I started being like this about 3 years ago. I don't know why. :( I feel so alone in this and I often feel like I don't want to live anymore because I've never seen anyone else who is like this and I feel so stupid. |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 04:07 PM PDT Hi, I have a new friend in college. She is very sweet and comes over our dorm alot to hang out with us. Lately, however, she is getting to be a but much. It started with the occasional "yeah I had a tough childhood" interjected into otherwise normal conversations. And of course I'll sit there and say "Oh I'm sorry." And sit there quiet to let it soak in or whatever. So it builds and builds, she just keeps sharing all of her problems in the past with me and I never know what to say. For how long we've known each other it's going way too far sharing some of the things she does. I'll not talk about it, but just shitty things that happened to her when she was younger. She says she is over the things that happened in her past but she brings them up abruptly and Just keeps talking about it. Recently she told me that she hasn't felt emotions in months and that this is something that comes and goes for her. I told her she should see a therapist and she said she didn't need help, that she gets over these "phases" Just as quickly as she gets in. At this point, it's hard for me to worry about her anymore. What more can I do for her? She told me that if she ever got to the point of suicidal tendencies that she would know better than to end her own life. I told her that anyone can say that but a suicidal person is a suicidal person. I know it sounds very selfish but I just can't deal with her anymore if she is not going to seek help for herself. I don't know what to do. |
| Question: How romantic was this moment between me and this man? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 03:54 PM PDT I was standing behind a man I've known for years. He knew I was behind him. He was talking to a man and a woman infront of him. He bent over and moved his *** into my front and he accidentally stood on my foot. I then put my hand on his waist, he then stood upright, he looked down at my foot and then he turned his head and looked at me and I looked back at him. We looked into each other's eyes for a minute before he looked away and I still had my hand on his waist. How romantic was this moment between me and this man? |
| Question: Why did my friend keep telling me to go home, was she jealous? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 03:41 PM PDT My mom is really harsh with me, and I left with a friend's co-worker on a fling. My mom then texted my friend because I didn't respond for two days, and my friend got SO involved. I checked in with my mom, and she was cool with me being there. My friend was pissed off and trying to get me to call my mom, but I messaged her. This friend then got SO involved, she said it was weird I was there, to pay him half, and kept telling me to leave and to go home, when my mom wasn't. She was annoyed she was dealing with my mom, and even texted telling the guy for me to go home and to pay half and that I encouraged him to skip work. Is this not jealousy? I think she is now going to say I wasn't answering my mom when I did later on. My friend even told the guy to block my mom. |
| Question: How to reconnect with a buddy from high school? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 03:17 PM PDT I graduated high school in 2012. There was this guy in high school named Justin I was really close to or so I thought. After high school he went to college and I enlisted in the Marines. I got out last year and now I'm in college. Justin and I stayed in touch for a while after graduating high school,for like a year,then we parted our ways. I wished him happy birthday this july as a way to reconnect but he didn't reply. I'd just wish to reconnect with him but I already texted him this summer like "Happy birthday dude,it's been a while since we last touched base,how u doin?" and he didn't reply. What should I do? I don't want to be the needy guy but in high school he was one of my best friends and I kinda would want to talk to him again,especially since we never had a fight |
| Question: I’m in a group of 3 and I’m getting left out. What do I do? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 03:07 PM PDT okay so a new girl came to school a couple weeks ago and she's sweet and tall and cool in general, so I invited her to my lunch group. anyway a couple weeks in my friend texts me asking if she can sit with my group because her friends are having a fight. So since then we're a trio, but whenever they're talking to eachother I just feel jealous. I have jealousy issues so I'm aware that I'm overreacting, so I'm not gonna say anything about it. as I type this they're out having ice cream with eachother and i was never invited, and i forgot to text back both of them earlier (i was playing cup pong with both of them seperately) and I just sent both of them and one of them just texted me "___ wants me to tell you to leave" and obviously it's a joke but I still feel sucky. I have a lot of mental health issues and so this gets to me even more. what do. I do? seperate myself from them? |
| Question: How do I deal with my clingy roommate? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 03:00 PM PDT My roommate is SUPPPPERRRR needy. As in the world HAS to be revolving around her 24/7, and you have to be paying attention/doing things with her ALL THE TIME. We use to be good friends, but the closer we got the more this neediness began to emerge and completely turned me off. I'm relatively introverted. Socializing constantly make me feel really tired and I like to sit in my room reading a book, or browsing on my computer, and so on. But if I do this (sit in my room without her) for any period of time longer than 15 minutes she'll start sending me messages, or snapchats, or making sad faces at my door because I'm not paying attention to her. She ALWAYS needs multiple people with her. She can't self-entertain whatsoever. I've talk to her about this MULTIPLE times, trying to make her understand that me not hanging out with her, and me having alone time IS NOT because I hate her, but rather because we just have really different personalities. And yet, every time I do something without her, I get angry/sad texts from her, and every time I leave the house she HAS to know where I'm going. I can't handle this anymore. I'm just so annoyed and not sure what else to do. I've told her a thousand times. Any advice whatsoever?? |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 02:38 PM PDT if you were mad at someone and not wanting to talk to them anymore because of it but they were trying everything to get you to talk to them again and even tried to entice you by saying they have a sexy and nice friend they want to introduce you to that they think you might like romantically..would u forgive the person in order to meet the hot friend? Please be honest and tks in advance will choose a best answer |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 02:30 PM PDT would you shun a friend that went off on you a bunch of different times but apologized this time and actually had a solution to make sure it will never happen again..such as getting professional help with their anger issues?? would u shun a person like this? or would u not..please answer yes..you would shun regardless or no, you would not. Tks in advance for honesty and will choose a best answer..tks again:) |
| Question: Friend joking about being in love with his best friend ? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 02:00 PM PDT A friend posted a serious video (context : he takes cinematography lessons) on his bestfriend profil adressing to him how he loves him and how he is the most amazing person ever ? talking really fondly and smiling. Also rememoring romantic moments saying these were the best. Then he quickly deleted it and said it was a joke meant to fool everyone, that is was a prank ? and when we talk about the video he said he doesnt want to talk about 'that thing' because apparently it caused drama with his familly ???? I know him to be really close to his bestfriend but i never heard of him being gay since he dates girls so i don't understand why he did that stupid joke ? is it something funny to boys to joke about that like this ? |
| Question: Is it silly to track down an old school friend? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 01:40 PM PDT There is someone that I knew in grade school that I think I would like to speak with again. Is it silly to try to phone them and explain who I am? |
| Question: I skip school because my friends do? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 01:39 PM PDT Two of my classmates are sick and will be staying home tomorrow and another one is having ad riving test tomorrow so none of them will be at the school. The thing is, those 3 are my best mates in the school who is the ppl i only hang with. It would feel awkward to go when all of them are away. |
| Question: Wouldn’t the world be a better place if we exterminated people with this opinion? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 01:30 PM PDT Opinion: "Narcissists are better people to have as friends than guys with ADHD." |
| Question: How to not smell up my house when smoking weed? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 01:27 PM PDT I am going to smoke outside with a friend but after we are going to go inside my house. I've already been caught and my parents don't approve so I can't get caught again (and don't tell me to stop smoking thanks) I just want to make sure there isn't the smallest trail of the smell when my parents come home. Any help?!? |
| Question: Could I still get her back???? :(? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 01:11 PM PDT I had a bestfriend Jessica for almost 5 years, we had an amazing friendship But unfortunately everything came to an end back in March. We had a heated argument and SHe told me to never speak to her again, but I kept trying to contact her to apologize to her, I sent her 2 long apology letters to her house and I even sent her roses. A few days later I had police 2 officers come to my house and asked me to leave her alone because she's had enough. We haven't talked since March and it's still bothering me alot, she blocked me from her Facebook and even her phone. Sometimes I feel like trying to talk to her 1 last time because I really miss her. It's been 7 months what should I doo please help??????? I saw her from far away at the mall the other day, she was by herself but I didn't have the guts to talk to her |
| Question: Friends with an exs friend? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 12:46 PM PDT I dated this woman for 6 months and I was sleeping with my best friends ex at the same time. The girl I was dating introduced me to a few of her friends but we never really hung out.My ex and I stopped talking 2 months ago. The woman I was sleeping with just so happens to know my ex s friend. My ex s friend invited me to a party at my ex s friend house and I went with the woman I cheated on her with. The word got back to my ex and she told me to maintain my distance and why was I hanging out with her friends and some other girl. She her feelings were hurt and that I should let sleeping dogs lie. What does that mean? Is it fair that she s telling me to keep my distance? |
| Question: Why is everyone so annoying? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 12:45 PM PDT every one of my "friends" always asks me to be with them when their other friends aren't around, and then when they come back. BOOM! Gone to hang out with them again. Why is everyone so mean to me :( |
| Question: Roommate suggestion? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 12:30 PM PDT Long story short, I got an apartment w/ an old roommate. We got along fine in our dorm. We still get along however she's VERY LOUD & always has people over. I didn't find out that her old roommates didn't get along with her for those reasons until after I moved in. The only reason I'm living with her still is because she's in the sorority I'm interested in so I'm trying to maintain this healthy friendship. I'd talk to her about what's going on, but she's the type to get mad about that & I would hate to have to live with someone that secretly hates me. On the other hand, rent is going up as well & I can't afford it. My friend told me to at least stay in for a couple of months to see if I get in the sorority then move out but I'm not sure what to do. Suggestions? |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 11:19 AM PDT I used to hang out with this guy that could beat up women, control them, verbal abusive to them too. Yet I see people hang out with him. I see some of my old friends hang out with him after they know what he did. Yes I did too but I moved on from that old crowd. I moved to a nice city and I'm just now getting out and meeting new people. |
| Question: Do you like to have a small circle of friends? Should I keep this person a friend? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 11:13 AM PDT I don't really hang out with many people anymore because so many people are selfish. This friend of mine invited me to a poker game. It was a $5 buy in and I ended up winning it. I won like $40 and at the time I wasn't working I was getting unemployment and that $40 was all I had. My friend said "you should pay for gas" i'm thinking wait you invited me to this game and I told you this is all I have. He got mad at me for not giving him gas money. It was like a half hour drive and he's the one that invited me. He can be a dick and when I have a selfish asshole friend I will stick up for myself and if I have to cut them off I will. Now if it was my friend that wasn't working and he won a poker game I wouldn't ask him for gas money. I've had more fake ones then real ones but I still get out and try to meet people. I just say **** them and meet new friends. |
| Question: How should I react to my "friends" behavior? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 10:43 AM PDT I'm 16 and I have a friend that is 21 and he makes fun of literally EVERYTHING about me. I lost motivation for school because I feel nothing I do is worth something. I don't want to be friends with this person anymore but we have mutual friends and live close. i'm joking Please report this question so Yahoo will delete it |
| Question: How did I hurt his feelings? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 10:27 AM PDT A guy told me I hunted his feelings because I deleted him from my fb... but he is not a close friend at all (he was my tutor for a semester) and I barely talk to him...We met today and when we were talking, he realized that I deleted him from fb. He said that I hurt his feeling. I am not sure how should i have responded? |
| Question: I went to another country I had best friends but one of them doesn't have a phone? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 10:16 AM PDT I told my other friend to hug my friend for me, when she did that the other friend didn't say anything I feel she forgot me, I feel sooooo sad how can I get over her? We're just friends but I really loved her as a friend I think she forgot about me, I really wanna forget about her and not care but I cant |
| Question: How to ignore someone until they miss you? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:46 AM PDT |
| Question: Friend saying weird sounds? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:42 AM PDT My friend is always saying stupid things like "wanna see my pencil" or some sort of vomit noise like 'oot oot'. What are these sounds, and what do they mean? Are they from something? |
| Question: What should I do with a stranger I found in the Alps? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:11 AM PDT |
| Question: My best friend and others are replacing me? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:48 AM PDT me and her have been best friends for two almost three years. but when school ended last year and summer break started, she didn't talk to me at all during break. soon enough, school started again and like every year, new people always come to the school. lets just call the new girl k and my best friend s. so a few weeks into school, k and s are quickly best friends and s dedicates all her time to her and my other friends but not me. when i try to spend time with her and my other friends, s and k always tell the group to go somewhere with them and leave me behind. k and s call each other besties and that they are each other main and ****, even though they only met a couple weeks ago. they do everything together and never invite me. even when i try to join them, they ignore me and run off. i don't understand how ive been replaced by someone who she only met a couple weeks ago? |
| Question: What does makeup designer do? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:20 AM PDT |
| Question: Am i losing my friend? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:46 AM PDT I thought we was close, we usually talk on the phone everynight and she usually bombards me with texts all day lol, and worry about me leaving her .. last 2-3 days she hasnt been texting me or answering her phone. She has been depressed she said and I can tell because she doesnt speak much , she sent me this text today ''My anxiety and depression is very high and i will end up annoying u with my paranoia and you will snap at me thats why i didnt answer'' Is she drifting apart from me? is she bored of me? |
| Question: Coworkers unhappy about other co-workers promotiion? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:28 AM PDT This coworker who I have always been friendly with just got promoted and it seems like the other co-workers are not happy. They are not happy with the choice. I feel like there is a possible sabotage especially with one specific person even though She didn't want the position. She felt like this other person should get the position but she stated many times she didn't want that specific position. I see her try to convince other co-workers that she doesn't deserve the promotion. Like I said before this girl who was recently promoted and I have a great working relationship but the girls didn't with her as they try to point out with me. I just try to change the subject. I ignore those conversations and try to find something to do so I they don't try to talk to me about it. She isn't aware about how people feel but I don't want to tell her so her feelings get hurt. Our boss above her thinks everyone is happy about it? What do you think I Should do? Continue to ignore it? |
| Question: How to get my friend to stop smothering me? He thinks it's funny? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 06:06 AM PDT My friend is obsessed with smothering me (literally). I get really nervous when he's behind me bc he tends to put me in a headlock and put his hand over my face so I can't breath. His parents have seen him do it and just tell him "stop messing around". I told my parents and they just say he's playing. But he does it all the time until I panic and he let's me go or I break free. I've asked him not to do it before and he just says stuff like "quit being a b**** abt it and he thinks it's funny and does it more when I complain or struggle. We could be watching a movie, playing video games or even walking down the street he always does it. |
| Question: Worried about my friend? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 05:27 AM PDT Okay so I have this friend we have been friends for 7 years now 2 months ago he got an new girlfriend and now all of a sudden he has no time to hang out and they are engaged should I be worried about this and if I do how much I mean isn't it a bit soon to be engaged so fast and can I do anything about it |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 05:06 AM PDT myself and a new friend became very close very quickly, i had a major operation on my leg and wasnt very mobile a few months after we met so I gave her a key as she was always popping by to help me or see how i was. We had a very intense friendship, she moved from her parents place into her own flat of which i helped her move decorate etc I also changed the locks for her and she quizzed me on if i had kept a spare key for the lock i used. I gave her all the keys and would never have sneakily kept one without her knowledge. she has been very adamant on not wanting anyone to have a key including her partner, her mother and myself despite her having keys to everyone elses place. her words were that she isn't comfortable trusting anyone like that and what would i need a key for anyway. its not that I need one as such but it would be nice to have that sign of trust go both ways, she has let herself into mine and cooked me dinner before I'm back, it would have been nice to have the same ability. The friendship has soured, mostly petty arguments and me feeling uncomfortable that i make more effort than she does. I have also seen her behave in quite a vindictive way towards people she has fallen out with, I've known her to lie to various people and she seems addicted to drama and seems to actively cause issues. I am no longer comfortable with her having a key, however we are still friends in a more casual way so i dont want my asking for the key back to become an issue either. ps, if i change the locks and the friendship remains she would at some point find out. I'm a half way point when she goes away for work so she would normally stay to make the journey easier however I tend to need to leave before her the next morning. |
| Question: How can I be more open to people? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 01:13 AM PDT When it comes to dating and making friendships I used to be open but ever since I had a really bad heart break I always had my guard up and never really opened myself to anyone after than and toxic friends putting me down really contributed to my closeness as a person. I don't share much about myself I assume everyone guys are trying to play me and people are just fake. I wanna be open again how do I get my self of worthless back? |
| Question: Please answer this!? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 11:09 PM PDT https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20171024050627AA0V8KS |
| Question: How can I have a good time at this party and not feel like crap when I go home? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 11:07 PM PDT I have been invited to a party this weekend because my friend is going. I know this is an opportunity because I almost never get invited anywhere, but I have had opportunities before and I keep blowing them. Normally at parties, I try to mingle, talk to people who are standing by themselves, and attempt to join conversations when appropriate. It is extremely difficult for me to join in conversations and actually be heard/responded to without sounding like an idiot. Most of the people going are very attractive, successful, outgoing, bubbly, spontaneous, and basically the exact opposite of me. There is one person going who has outright stated that she dislikes me to multiple people in the past - I feel incredibly uncomfortable when she's around because she keeps looking at me like I'm some sort of monster, and these are HER peers, not mine. Most people say "ignore the jerks and show your inner beauty", but I don't really have that either. I am awkward, I don't smile a lot (bad teeth), and I have severe social anxiety which often makes it very difficult, especially around a bunch of new people who are already really close with each other. For those reasons, I am quite unlikable; most people who meet me for the first time write me off as weird, rude, creepy, or just someone they have no interest in getting to know further. I know that the biggest issue here is confidence, so what can I do in the short term? How can I actually do a good job and make a good impression for once? |
| Question: How should I deal with my 21 year old friend's stress? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 10:53 PM PDT I'm 15 and I'd like to find a way to make our lives less dramatic. She is stressed about school, finance, relationships, etc. I don't have those problems but she vents to me. I always listen to her and see how she feels. She's been like a sister to me since childhood. Occasionally, she starts crying as well. I don't think she always wants to tell me these things because she feels like she might load me with "adult problems". There's times when she's been crying but she just doesn't want me to be exposed to those issues too much. |
| Question: Worried I may not get to hang with my friend like old times? May be different? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 10:08 PM PDT I haven't seen my friend from college in 3 years but now he's moved to the town in living in. He gave me a tour of his house tonight and we had a bro hug. I'd like to hang out with him like we used to but he sent me this after I left: "I've got a family now so we can't hang out as much as we used to but I'm always here to talk OK?" He is engaged to his girlfriend who has a 2 year old son. |
| Question: How do I turn acquantainces into friends and strangers into acquaintances? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 10:06 PM PDT I think the biggest factor is my face. I have a lot of scars from popping zits (most of them aren't noticeable but there are few). I don't think people want to have ugly friends. I want to be friends with people in one certain group (they are choir girls), they are not popular but they are friends with some popular people and they are super nice. But the thing is, I'm acquantainces with a few of them, and I forgot how to make friends because I'm pretty sure that I had social anxiety in 6th Grade. And I'm not wanting to become friends becuase they're popular. I just want to be friends with them becuase they seem like they're super fun and stuff. But I think they're very closely knit becuase no one new is joining their group. Only one girl did, and they knew her before she went to our school. Also, in one class two girls were being kind of mean who I thought were my friends. One girl was being mean, the other one saw that and was (sort of) nicer. I asked if I could be partners with them for something, and one girl said no right away, and the other said there are others and you can find one. (They aren't in that group, this is the stranger part of the question). So there are many SMALL groups in that class, but there are 2 people in the group I want to be in. One of the girls is SUPER DUPER nice, and the other I never really talk to much, but she was nice in the few times I've talked to her. I am in the school a cappella group. ALL of the girls in the group I want to be in are there, plus some others. One girl is a Pentaholic like me, which means a Pentatonix fan, but she is giving me mixed signals. Like one day she's talked to me a lot, and the other she was ignoring me. But she has never been mean to me. I've heard others say that she can be mean at times, but she's never been mean in front of me. SOCIAL MEDIA I DO NOT HAVE so that won't work for me. |
| Question: I want my friend Adrianna to find a man to put on a leash ? HELPPP? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 09:47 PM PDT |
| Question: I am 17, I am unwanted and not needed. Help? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 09:30 PM PDT I am 17 and I have no friends. People say that I am ugly and weird. I do not have a mother so I do not know how to do my make up or hair well. One day I wore a ponytail to school and the girls at a lunch table near me said "her hair looks nappy" and just complain about me constantly. I guess I am worthless. I have braces, I have a 36ddd size chest, I suck at sports, I am a junior because I turned 17 on October 1st. I have a 3.8 GPA and I am a nerd I suppose. They make fun of my hair, they make fun of me for wearing braces, and they make fun of my big boobs. I have very clear skin, blue eyes, and brown hair. One of the baseball players had something on Instagram that said that I was the biggest loser at school and he told me that I am ugly and that no guy will ever like me. All I wanted was to make friends and I don't need to be a popular kid. I just want to drop out or move to mars. I hate my school. Will life ever get better? I sit alone at lunch and I one time fell down the stairs and some kids were laughing. My teeth are kind of big and I also get teased for that. P.e. class back in the 9th grade was awful because I sucked at sports, especially volleyball. |
| Question: Question about neighbor avoiding me? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 09:26 PM PDT Im a married woman and A guy in my neighborhood is old friend from high school. When I learned he moved into neighborhood I messaged him on Facebook about our kids playing and they walked over to play a couple times a week for several months. He needed babysitter once a week and I voulenteered through Facebook. He Seemed appreciative and said his kids were super excited. Anyway, every week he had an excuse an hour before of something coming up and that next week I would for sure babysit. His kids would still come over other days to play. He has since not messaged about this and kids haven't came over. I don't get why he wouldn't just say never mind to not babysitting and avoid me..Should I ask what's up and why he's avoiding me, or just ignore and see what happens. My daughter wants to play but I don't want to message him if he's avoiding me.. |
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| Posted: 23 Oct 2017 08:53 PM PDT My friend group was really great, but one of my friends is always making life really confusing because he constantly makes mean jokes targeting me. Well one of my really good friends who was in the group was also friends with my other friend, and whenever they were together I immediately felt ignored or forgotten. So I was happy in this group because I never felt out or unwanted, but recently my other friend has become a part of the group. It's making the group unbearable for me because I'm starting to feel out again. I feel like I'm losing my friends, but I don't want to leave the group because I really like a majority of the people. I really like all of them, but I don't like the mix of people. I have tried talking to my friends but that hasn't worked. Any advice? |
| Question: Why do I feel so numb? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 08:28 PM PDT I just don t find anything or anyone interesting anymore. Everything is just grey and dull. Things I used to love like art, nerdy stuff and even makeup are even boring to me now and I can t get into it. Or anything. I ve spent the past two months struggling to find a job and all I can think about is how pointless it would be for me to even have one because I don t have anything I would want to spend money on or any reason to save it because I don t know what I m doing with my life and I just don t see the point. Like we just live to work and then die. great ? And I can t even find purpose with other people because it seems like all of my friends just have their own lives and plans now and other friends they hang out with. Holidays I used to look forward to are just other days of the year to me now. Idk I have like "up moments" where maybe I find something funny or my dog s excitement and energy when I come home will make me a little happy but for the most part I just feel numb and empty. |
| Question: Relationship advice? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 08:13 PM PDT I am a 20 year old female, whose a sophomore in college currently staying with my aunt while I'm in school; however I am single and I don't really have any friends,and I'm starting to become depressed about it. I'm so lonely and I will go to look at some of my social media accounts and I see that some of my old classmates have gotten married, engaged or have a child or just having fun in general. Does anyone have any advice for me to find someone or at least some friends? |
| Question: How come guys can't stop tickling me once they find out I'm ticklish? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 08:05 PM PDT I was making out with this really cool guy yesterday for the first time. And he poked me in my sides like just kidding around. Of course I'm really ticklish there so it made me laugh. Once he heard me laugh, his face like totally lit up and got this big smile and was like "oh you're ticklish." And then he like started tickling me everywhere. Other guys have done this too. Don't totally get it. |
| Question: I don't understand why keep losing new friendships like this too often? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 08:02 PM PDT I'm a person who doesn't want to have any conflict with another. I never do anything to upset someone. Basically I'll meet new possible friends, then later on they introduce me to their other friends. Everyone else seems cool, but then there is going to be one who spreads some random bs behind my back and cause all those potential new friends to collapse. I never in my life met that person, or even seen him and this is what happens. Am I just unlucky or is this some kind of new social trend to keep groups clique. |
| Question: How do I help a sad friend.? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 07:55 PM PDT So a good friend of mine recently had a friend walk out of his life. I want to be there for him but I simply don't know how. How should I help? I don't want to make anything worse. I need to be there for him |
| Question: How to help a girl that is suicidal? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 07:53 PM PDT So there's this cute girl that I slept with (not sex, I mean we literally slept together) at my friend's house because he was having people over and this girl just happens to live next door. We cuddled together and kissed a little bit and then fell asleep. It turns out a few month ago she sucked one of my other friend's d*cks. It doesn't bother me too much because my friend already told me she was kind of a h0e. I'm 16 and she is 13. I honestly feel so bad for her because her mom is a drug addict and her brother hits her sometimes (I can beat his a$$ because I've done it once before. I didn't beat him bad because I wasn't that mad at him, but let's just say I "knocked him down with minimal effort"). I guess she does these things for attention because she thinks nobody likes her. Her mom found out she sucked my other friend's d*ck because her brother knew and told their mom. Then she ran away from home and was caught downtown and brought back. Then her sister came by to pick her up but her mom called the cops and she was once again brought back. All of this stuff happened 2 days ago (the d*ck sucking was months ago) and I want to help her. My friend told me that she tried to kill herself last year, and she really doesn't have any friends. What can I do for her? Should I just stay out of it? |
| Question: I don't want to hang out with my "friends" anymore? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 07:05 PM PDT The three of us have known each other for a while. We used to hang out a lot and have a great time, but lately I'm getting really sick of being around them. They both seem to have a lot of mutual friends that I never met, and they always arrange plans with those people doing fun things like going to concerts, road trips, parties, etc., and they never bother to invite me. They always talk about these people when I'm around, and all the plans they arranged with their friends. Whenever I try to jump into the conversation and say "maybe I could go to that, too" they just ignore me and change the subject. They want to hang out next weekend, probably just using me for my living situation, but I don't know what I should say. I just want them out of my life at this point. What do I do? |
| Question: Is confronting a stalker a good idea? Posted: 23 Oct 2017 06:45 PM PDT So confronting a stalker like someone you work with or use to work with they've been stalking you because they think they are your best friend. Is it a good idea to get them to stop? |
| Posted: 23 Oct 2017 06:33 PM PDT I asked my gf to hang out today and she said she was busy ..how about tomorrow? was she rude... |
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