we were together for 2 in a half years, we fought a lot. But we were under an agreement that i wanted a child and he played his part for three months(we are both 37) then i got pregnant and he wasnt happy. Spent two months with him telling me he would make my life hell if i kept it and theres nothing about me he wants passed down to his child etc etc. I had an abortion and left him, months later i took him back and he blames me saying i wasnt ready nor was our relationship since we fought a lot ..but that he does want kids he just wants to be sure our relationship is ready..again we are 37 years ago. Is this guy full of sh&it? or what

So i was with my ex for three years, i was pregnant and he didnt want it, he freaked out and pushed me into an abortion.I months later went back to him. But since i hooked up with an old friend and have started to fall for him..he wants to date and says he likes me. My ex supposively loves me but really..after an abortion ? and we are 37 yrs old..so sad. What would you do?

I mean you. Me and you. Why not?

I am thinking of putting her on hormones and making her into a boy because she is 11 and still dresses and acts like a boy. What do I do?

I kinda just want to invite a girl and two guys over and sleep over at like a hotel or resort, but they are not allowed because they are guys. We are not the kinda kids who would do bad things.., so is there something similar or a loophole?

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice. What does this mean? does he still have feelings? friends and family say he stares i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times

is it genes or diet?

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times

Im 16 and this girl that asked me out is really great. We have a lot in common and she's really attractive but she told me about this guy she made out with during the summer and sent nudes to is it wrong for me to be upset.

I've been dating my girlfriend for 2 years, and we both care deeply and love one another, but it's very hard to make time. We only see eachother about once every 1-2 weeks. How can I see her more often?

What does he mean?

Things going well so far with gf...we 're young early 20s been official for two months now.... failry new... but jesus she test me everyday..... I am beginning to show my lovey dovey soft side to her.... But i know women hate weak men..... I notcied lately shes been wearing the pants.... IE: i apologize when theirs nothing to apolgize for.... she ends our calls... she controls the sex.... plus she has more interesting days to talk about when we re on the phone.... She does say yes to our dates.... but I feeling she'll be slipping soon...If I dont change above.... Are these traits of weak boyfriend?? What qualities would you change??

I'm in college and there's this really cute guy in my class. When I was walking to class, he was standing outside the room talking on the phone. Then he took a direct glance at me as I entered the room. (Usually nobody looks at me most of the time at the school). Then left the room to use the bathroom. As I headed back to classroom, I walked as if I was sort of slightly commanding his attention again (just a vibe through my body language). So then he looked at me again. Then about a week later, after we all took an exam, I was gushing about how I didn't finish the exam to a friend. Then my friend noticed him walking out of the exam room and asked him what he got for a specific question. After he spoke a few lines with her, he turned to me and asked me "did you finish the exam?" (I think he heard me from the hallway saying that I didn't finish because it was expected that everyone else finished the exam. I was the only one late to class.) I was so anxiety stricken and shy that all I could manage to do was slightly shake my head while turning my head away. I couldn't look at him. Does it sound like he possibly likes me? Guys usually never talk to me.

Me and my girl been official for two months.... early 20s...but the problem is I'M RUNNING OUT of IDEAS :(.... I know I know .... two months really?? out of ideas?? Well, I ve token her out to all kinds of dates prior to being official and during..... movie, dancing, golf, dinners, ice skating, parks, beaches.... The only one I got left is traveling....How do young adults spice things up???

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice. What does this mean? does he still have feelings? friends and family say he stares i dont stare at him and gave him a dirty look a couple times

Well, I like my best friend and I think he might like me too, but he says that he's not ready for a new relationship yet. We've kissed before though.

I've been smashing this girl for a while now. She's great. What's weird is she'll let me choke her and do all of this rough kinky **** to her, but she hates hugs and caressing. She also considers herself a sex addict btw.

How do you know that when a girl texts you a winkey face that whether its flirty or friendly?

This girl that i really like just broke up with her boyfriend and I'm thinking about confessing my feelings. We do have some history together. When she was with her previous boyfriend she flirted with me and we really hit it off. She never mentioned him to me, even when i asked her out more then once. After they broke up i got a lot of mixed signals from her. Thats also at the time she started hanging out with a guy friend she became very close friends with. They were hanging out constantly and it really prevented me from talking to her because i wanted to be alone with her. When i finally got the chance when i saw her alone, i went over to her to catch up with her and she seemed very happy about it. After that it was back to mixed signals again. She was hanging out with her close friend and she looked at me a lot but looked away when i looked at her. Then she started dating her close friend but it only lasted four months. i saw her a few days ago she smiled at me but then looked down. I saw her again and I'm not sure if she was looking at me but she was looking in my direction. I want to start talking to her again and confess my feelings. Do i have a chance with her? I don't mind taking it slow.

I've been having some issues such as having ppl linear in our room past 12 on school days, his girlfriend sleeps over sometimes and I find that really weird and uncomfortable. I know I'm supposed to have some tolerance and let him do what he wants because it's his room too, but are my requests unreasonable ? I don't want ppl over past 11 on a school night, but idc about the weekends. I only want gf to sleep over on the weekends, no school nights. I want to say this to him without coming off at as rude either. Should I say hey can I talk to you ? So I don't want to come off as rude but I've been having a couple of issues. Could we not have ppl over past on school nights ? I can't stay up any longer than that because I'm exhausted from my day at that point, but idc about weekends at all. Also I'm cool with your gf sleeping over but can we limit that to just weekends please ? I just wanted to bring this all up because it was bothering me. Let me know I'm doing anything that's bothering you. Thank You

i'm 15 and my boyfriend wants to go down on me. but i'm really self conscious. and he also wants to su k my toes but i hate people touching my feet (he has foot fetish). i don't know what to do. please help

This girl that i really like just broke up with her boyfriend and I'm thinking about confessing my feelings. We do have some history together. When she was with her previous boyfriend she flirted with me and we really hit it off. She never mentioned him to me, even when i asked her out more then once. After they broke up i got a lot of mixed signals from her. Thats also at the time she started hanging out with a guy friend she became very close friends with. They were hanging out constantly and it really prevented me from talking to her because i wanted to be alone with her. When i finally got the chance when i saw her alone, i went over to her to catch up with her and she seemed very happy about it. After that it was back to mixed signals again. She was hanging out with her close friend and she looked at me a lot but looked away when i looked at her. Then she started dating her close friend but it only lasted four months. i saw her a few days ago she smiled at me but then looked down. I saw her again and I'm not sure if she was looking at me but she was looking in my direction. I want to start talking to her again and confess my feelings. Do i have a chance with her? I don't mind taking it slow.

Hi all! I am 23 and in college. The first day of class I thought this one guy in my class was SO cute! Then I found out he is the TA (teacher assistant). He teaches the discussion portion and the professor lectures for the..well lecture. TA's sit in on lecture, which is why I saw him sitting in class. Anyways, within the first week of school, my TA and I matched on tinder. I messaged him and we talked for like 1.5 days. He gave me his number. I never texted him because I was not sure if he knew I was in his class and how he would feel about it. So, I told him on tinder. He said we better not talk anymore because it is not professional. I still think he is really cute. He seems great. I would like to talk to him again. Can I do so when the semester is over? When the semester is over, I will have graduated,and of course that class will be over which means we will no longer have the student-teacher relationship. What are your thoughts on this? Semesters are 16 weeks long. So it will have been 16 weeks since we talked. Do you think he will think it is weird for me to try talking to him again at that point? Could he possibly still be interested at that point? Also, how should I go about talking to him again? Like do I email him or what? Thanks so much guys!! P.S. if you're wondering, I am 23 and he is 31.

Tonight my one roommate got on my nerves a little bit. And he can be really sweet. But also it annoys me when he buys stuff for me. Especially since we aren't dating. I mean he is a good guy and all. But I just lost interest in him, because of it. So I pretty much just want to ignore him from now. But how do I tell him in a kind way not to buy me stuff or do certain things?

Ok so I started dating this girl (I m a girl also so please don t judge) it is my first time in a relationship and I will admit I was kind of nervous which is weird because I knew her for years. (I m not lez I just wanted to try) It was a week before high school started and she asked and I accepted, a few days later I got news I was going to die and with my overload on school work and stress on grades I broke. I couldn t handle the stress and problems it was to much. My friends had moved over the summer and I couldn t talk to my parents so I thought maybe I could talk to her. I told her I was dying and that I was struggling with school, I just wanted some comfort someone to tell me it was going to be ok. But she broke up with me through text and said to me her ex girlfriend (who cheated on her and got pregnant) was the best chance she ever had and that made me feel like trash. I tried to talk to her again but she ignored my texts and avoided me. She talked behind my back about me to my "friends" and I was alone. My parents would have freaked by the thought of me having a gf in the first place and I didn t want to deal with them. Was I wrong to tell her? Did I do something wrong? I thought couples were suppose to be there for each other. And I m not dying apparently the doctor mixed up the results

I just turned 30 and I'm a virgin. I was thinking I wanted to lose my virginity because people always asks me questions about that. They are so persistent and they can asks questions for hours and hours and I don't know what to say. Also I'll be a virgin forever if I don't have sex now. I was at a party and a 24 yo guy told me he liked me. We kissed. I gave him my number and he texted me. I told him I want to lose my virginity because I'm 30. He wants to have sex with me right now but he wants to be my boyfriend. I don't like him very much but he seems to like me and I don't understand why. I asked and he said I'm pretty. So he is texting me he misses me, he wants to see me every day, he likes when I laugh, I'll change my mind about not wanting a relationship. I saw him once after the party but I didn't feel like having sex for the first time the day after my windsom thooth was extracted. He said he isn't a virgin but he didn't have sex for 1.5 years because girls don't like him. He said he wants to change things about his life because of me. He things he should lose weight because he wants to look good for me, he said he wants a driver licence (I have a driver licence but I don't drive), he said he wants a high school diploma (I have a Master's degree). I felt scared when he said that. Why do you think he wants me to be his girlfriend? English isn't my first language, I'm writing there because I don't want to be recognized.

I was sleeping over at my friend's, sharing the same bed. We laid talking and then we began a play fight. She bit my hand really hard it left a mark, pulled my hair, slapped my face, bit my jaw, tickled me and then gave me a few face kisses. And cuddled me to sleep. So... is her behavior acceptable?

A friend of mine invited me over to her house. She snuck me in her room and took me to lay with her in her bed. We laid talking and then she kissed my forehead and wrapped me in her arms, with my forehead touching her jaw. We stayed like this for 30 minutes. Then I had to leave so I woke her up slightly. She pulled my face towards her and kissed my forehead. "What was that for?" I asked. She replied "Because I love you." She was holding my face and was looking at me then she leaned in and kissed my nose and giggled. She sat up and said "I'm going to miss you" (as she's traveling in a couple days back to college) and hugged me tight and kissed my cheek and forehead. Then she stared at me and said "I want a kiss." I then kissed her cheek. And she got up to sneak me out. She held my hand and led me to the door and asked me to please come again tomorrow after her parents sleep. Is this friendly or flirty?

I don't want to hand out candy anymore but also am not ready to go to bed yet and am wondering if it would be mean to let them help themselves instead of me answering the door.

So my boyfriend and I of 6 months broke up and it was a really nasty break up. A month later we realized that it was stupid and we both made mistakes and we wanted to fix them because we both still really liked each other. When we told our parents we were talking again his parents were fine with it, but my mom said no at first and then agreed I was almost out of high school and could take care of myself. Then out of the blue my ex's dad texted my mom and told her I had sent my ex provocative pictures and my mom completely shut me down and said I can't talk to my ex, see him at school, text, call anything. And especially I can't date him. My ex's dad realized what he did was wrong and tried to let my mom know I was a good girl who focused really hard at school, but my mom said that nothing was going to change her mind. But then she told me..."unless you have something that might help your situation?" I really like this boy and he really likes me. Could someone please help me figure out what to say to my mother to convince her to give him a second chance?

I've been smashing this girl for a while now. She's great. What's weird is she'll let me choke her and do all of this rough kinky **** to her, but she hates hugs and caressing. She also considers herself a sex addict btw.

There's a girl I know. She's 18, her name is Caroline. She's extremely attractive and very smart, she goes to Yale, somehow. Freshman year of hs Caroline made out with drug dealers, and gave a guy oral at school. She also lost her virginity extremely drunk when she was 14. Fast forward to senior year of high school, Caroline goes on spring break. She has sex with 4 guys she just met in a span of 4 days. Then she got a boyfriend and had sex with him. Caroline attempted to get a sugar daddy this summer but she chickened out. Now, fast forward to college. Two days into college Caroline had sex with two random guys on the same day. She then became **** buddies with a drug dealer. She then became **** buddies with another guy that was kind of a dick. He took the condom off her without her knowledge. Then, she became **** buddies with yet another guy. Then, you got it, she had another one night stand with someone else. Then, she of course has sex with yet another dealer and that's the most recent thing that has happened I guess. She's made out with probably 8 different guys outside of the guys she has had sex with. Caroline is really anxious a lot of the time and gets drunk before every big social event. She gets high every weekend and occasionally trips acid. When her **** buddy made her mad, she made him walk in one her making out with another guy naked. Then, when her **** buddy/dealer gave her acid, she left and did anal with one of the other **** buddies I listed above.

i would NOT date a fat girl

My current crush has the most beautiful middle name ever - Alexandra. And she speaks in a well-spoken, posh accent. That s why I fell in love with her in the first place. Is this a good reason?

She likes touching me, putting her head on my shoučder and she even hugged me in front her ex boyfriend she hangs out with. she said to her friend i am so cute she could take me in the bag like puppy and take me home.long ago she asked me for piggyback ride. Basically she didnt want me to go home or leave her. We went out again and she was hugging me only and when she got drunk a bit she said that i am now sad since she says i am her friend and she tried to said : i really really... And then she stopped.. Basically she was sad. Did she try do say come and take me or what? She also compliments me alot and says i have big heart and deserve the best. I feel so stupid for not doing anything, she saw i was tired and offered her lap. She also comments how tall i am compared to her, she isnt doing it to other people. She told me i smell good she hugged me. Also she invited me home to build shelves and stuff and to talk to her mom( what?). She invites me on every possible event and wants me to go to coffee with her every week to learn speak french. Does she like me? She reluctantly says we are friends and we constantly argue over my reluctant expression of feelings towards her and other people( she says i ignore every time she tells me - i love you. I love you is powerful yet she says she uses is often with people she thinks make her feel great. I said i need to go to toilet and she flirted and said you can use one in my apartment.

I'm 16 and a virgin however I can fit 3 fingers in my vagina, im staying at a hotel with someone who i wanna **** and wants to **** me too, hes experienced at sex and i have some questions to ask. 1) will he know im a virgin ( by the feel of my vagina not by how im acting) 2) is it gonna hurt if i can fit 3? 3) will his dick fit?

I know these questions are entirely annoying, but I need at least one other opinion. So, a girl I really like just messaged me "Goodnight bestfriend ❤️☺️" Normally, I would take this as a sure sign of a friend zone, but I'm confused as she sent this message earlier: "Being best friends first, that makes the best of relationships" Thanks to any relationship experts out there.

I was gang raped by my ex and his friends. My ex (not going to say his name) begged me to go. And I didn't want to go but he talked me into going. Just a few weeks ago he was being mean to me and saying he's glad my grandpa died, etc. so I don't know why I listened to him. But last night was the party and justice said he would pick me up. So I was like ok cool. So he came to pick me up around 9:30. The party started at 9:00 pm. And when I was in the car 4 of his friends were in there also. They were being really disrespectful because when I tried to sit in the front one of his fronts were like you better take your *** to the back and they all started laughing. So it took about 10-15 minutes to get there and when we got there I was so bored. And I asked him if we could leave and he told me to grab a drink and enjoy myself. So about an hour/ hour and a half later we were leaving and we got in the car. So When he was driving, he was going the other way and I was like "this isn't the correct way" and he said that he knew, he was "just taking a short cut" and I believed him. A few minutes later, I noticed that he was driving to his house and I said why haven't you dropped me off? Why are we going to your house? And he said that he had to drop something off at his house and told me to come in. And I said why? And his friends said " omg why does she ask so many questions " and they started laughing. So I just went with it and went in. As soon as we all walked in justice locked his door and pushed me on the couch and raped me... his friends did it one after the other. And I was crying and saying stop. Anytime I would say something they would hit me. After that I tried calling my friend ayonna and they took my phone out of my hand and said who was I trying to call? And I told them no one and I was so scared. And like an hour later they took me home and told me if I told anyone they'd hunt me down and kill me. This morning I was in so much pain and I was hurting. I regret everything. I should have never went and I'm scared to tell my boyfriend because he might get mad at me or break up with me even though I didn't do anything. I'm so scared and don't know what to do. I am being truthful!! Why would I lie about something this serious!!! And my boyfriend isn't here in Canada! He's all the way in South Africa!!

He won't tell me but he seems to like playing head games, like saying I'm not pretty and not hot and calling me the n-word. Can't tell if he's trying to push me away or if he's just a douche. I certainly wouldn't use harsh words to push someone away who liked me. Id just say I dont like you and don't wanna be friends.