Bf is 33 and I am 30. He insists that he wants to be married for at least a year before trying to have kids. I don't have a problem with that but Id prefer not to be having kids after 35 for many reasons (mostly poor genetics) Id rather not go into depth for. We've been dating about a year and a half and I found out he was going to propose within the next month or so yesterday. However, 3 weeks ago he severely caused nerve damage when he broke his ankle. The diagnosis he has for the nerve damage is at least 6 months to be able to walk, this doesn't include being able to walk well such as going hiking or on long walks. He is saying hed rather propose when he can walk well as his plans involved that. However, I am worried about this due to the amount of time this injury will take, plus needing a year to plan a wedding and his statement he wants to be married for awhile before kids. I tried to tell him I don't need a fancy creative proposal where he is able to walk well but I don't think he gets it. This wouldn't bother me as much if we were younger.

I want to propose to my girlfriend of 3 days to marry me over text. She LOVES texting, every time we go out she is on the phone texting. So I think I should ask her to marry me via text but I don't know how to ask please help.