I'm 27 years old with only one child. Me and my child's father was engaged but we broke up last year. I went to college and now I'm focus on my career. I have a friends and a lot of females who I grew up with have 2 or more kids and not happy with their life and still worrying about when I'm having another baby. I can't have a child by anybody and the friends who recently had a baby is single, the father is not in the house hold but they talking bad about being on birth control. They talking about how the birth control is bad for me. They make me feel guilty and they say I'm selfish for only one child. It's females who was jealous of me and my child's father relationship, they seen how he loved me and wanting to be with me but if course we broke up. My friend had children by dead beat guy who were in a relationship. I never judge her but when I was going to college to get my education, she was telling me I will never find a job in my field but she always was the one compaining about being tired of working as a CNA and she want more. She was being so negative towards me and I did end up finding a job but she don't know that yet. She always been salty. My mama seem like she is throwing shade at me but she always wanted me to be better and had better for my kids then she did, I don't understand why ppl around seem nagative.

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I have lived in my hometown since I was born! I'm only a freshman in high school, but I'm so sad and all I want to do is stay home and not go to school. I have cried almost every night thinking about how many people I love that I left behind. Not to mention they're 9 hours away!! I had to leave my best friend, and I mean BEST FRIEND. She's been there with me through everything and leaving her is one of the worst feelings ever! I had to break up with my boyfriend and I know I'm only a freshman, but I swear on everything I'm in love with him. That might make older people laugh, but we were dating for almost a year. I need advice because I'm usually really happy, bubbly, and outgoing, but now I'm always sad and shy. Help me!!

Ex who dumped me messaged me saying "don't talk to my friends again b*tch" He's never called me names. And "what the f*ck is wrong with you. I know you messaged (friend name)" I said "I messaged him ONE TIME and it was A WHILE AGO" ex then blocked me and later apologized. I said "you were really mad and it scared me" he said "I'm sorry I didn't mean what I said" I said "were u jel" he said "lol no". Was he jealous

The child could be his (she was with multiple partners) and he asked her about aborting the baby because he did not want to have a family with her if it was his child. She went ahead and had the baby anyways and a year later he just wants to have a piece of mind so we can move on in our own relationship. What should he do and what will happen if he is the father?

Lol I don't. If I died I'll just be worried about how wil my parents find the money to bury me, how will they pay for my body funeral? :/ they're pretty broke right now and I know that burying a person isn't easy. Maybe they'd make a go fund me or something to bury me? Lol

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have realised that the only times I am feeling fine with myself is when I have a grown man used as a slave at my feet licking them carefully to make me feel relaxed. I have also discovered that punishing a man excites me, I like to slap them hard and watch them kneeling in front of me begging for mercy. My question is: am I wrong if I like to have slaves licking my feet? are there other girls like me? thanks!

I am an attractive middle-aged woman and I've been on a date site since February of this year. So far I'm meeting guys that want very short-term relationships; either that or they are overly needy. Many of them don't even have a vehicle. I'm trying to attract people that want a real friendship/relationship. I cite this in my profile what I'm looking for but for some reason I keep attracting all the same ones who want strictly a sexual relationship. What could I be doing wrong?

When I was in my very early twenties I dated this girl and although we were only together just under 2 years, this girl was the only one I saw myself being serious with. At the time, we were both dumb and young. Had no clue what we wanted. Conflicting life changes led us to drift apart and her calling it off. I was dumb, emotional at the time and took it very hard. After a year, I actually began the healing process and it turned out to be the best following six years of my life. I figured myself out, what I wanted in life, goals, accomplishments and even worked my way up to being a boss of an entire company. So I figured out my career path and what I'm good at, moved up in life and financial stability. We haven't spoken in all these years, so lots has changed for the better. Apparently in this time she got married and even divorced. Yikes. It's been some time since her divorce and years later she got in touch with me on social media. I have nothing against her or hard feelings at all towards our past. Yeah I still have a soft spot for her, but I'm strong within myself. She wants to get coffee sometime. What could this mean? This girl has her life and career together. Definitely independent.

Hello. So, longer story short I am pregnant. This is besides the point the other day I was talking to my co-worker and he sent me inappropriate photos without my consent I did not ask for them or asking. They asked for a picture of me and my family and then they sent me something bad back. tl;dr: What do I do? I will not tell my husband because number one I did not ask for it and number two it will cause drama that is not needed. Should I block the person and report him for sexual harassment at my job?

Why is this happening to me ?? I'm a nice loving person with a good heart.. yet bad things always happen to me ... I can write a book on all the bad things that has happen to me... I always ask god why is this happening... I feel like I should no longer be alive.... I don't have any friends, I have body odor, I'm black and fat, I can't keep a job, people say I'm dumb, no one likes me, I have no future... I feel like this is the end for me .... :((

In reality he slapped me multiple times and I was trying to pull away. We were on the floor because he put me in a choke hold first and then brought me to the floor. He is a lot larger then me and cradled my head and then punched me in my nose. I remember him taking aim because I was attempting to move. Anyway he is saying none of what I remember is true and he only slapped me to try and get me calmed down and didnt mean to break my nose. He is now attempting to be very sweet and saying sorry over and over and saying please dont leave and he will never "slap" me again. What do you think are the chances that he will place his hands on me again? Online it says it will almost certainly will occur again but is that accurate? People can be so complex. He is also saying he will attend counseling or a battery intervention class if I don't go. I did call a domestic abuse shelter because have no where to go and was told they have room for me but am a bit scared to go there for some reason too and don't want to over react.

bueno el problema es que mi mama esta enojada conmigo (pero muchisimo) tengo 15 años, e conocido un chico desde hace 6 meses hace 1 o 2 semanas apenas empezamos a ser novios.. yo cuidaba a mi hermana y estaba sola en casa con el, lo invite para que vieramos peliculas y charlaramos un rato (de verdad, nisiquiera nos hemos dado un beso ._.) y pues bueno estabamos bien y todo, pero mi mama llego y empezo a gritar tanto que lo golpeo a el .-. y luego a mi, me dijo mil cosas y bueno.. el es un gran chico se que me quiere y se preocupa por mi, pense que despues de eso no iba a volver a hablarme pero al contrario se preocupo y pidio perdon por haber venido cuando no debio hacerlo yo estando sola, y se enojo porque fueron tan duros conmigo.. la cosa es que mi mama no nos quiere juntos ya me advirtio y me amenazo pero de verdad lo quiero y quiero estar junto a el, pero quiero hacer bien las cosas que este bien con mi mama y recuperar la confianza con ella (aunque se que eso es otro tema y requiere tiempo) pienso en que hablen ambos pero no se.. ¿que me aconsejan ustedes? ayuda por favor!

I don't know if it was a mistake or not--they all went ewww, I had stomach problems the whole day. I didn't like being caught while wiping my butt. I'm sure this happens a lot ..so I let it go. what is your guess? I wont have them back in house, husband is upset but I don't want to see them anymore.

I had a long first date with a guy (almost five hours). We both were engaging in conversation, and we both seemed to have a great time before meeting via texting and during the date. We had dinner, and then went for coffee. After the date, I contacted him via text few days later, and he did reply back each time. He said that his parrot has been sick for few days, and he is watching the parrot to get better. Neither of us talked about meeting for a second date. I am guessing either he is not interested to meet again, or he is busy with the parrot and other things. Which is the case you think/guess? He did say during the date that he is a little shy person. should I contact him, or wait for him to contact me? I am new in the dating game. I am looking for long term relationship, and I am not looking for friends with benefit kind of relationship (the movie).

They cohabit in parents home, they are 40's something with a teen age child??