When I was in my very early twenties I dated this girl and although we were only together just under 2 years, this girl was the only one I saw myself being serious with. At the time, we were both dumb and young. Had no clue what we wanted. Conflicting life changes led us to drift apart and her calling it off. I was dumb, emotional at the time and took it very hard. After a year, I actually began the healing process and it turned out to be the best following six years of my life. I figured myself out, what I wanted in life, goals, accomplishments and even worked my way up to being a boss of an entire company. So I figured out my career path and what I'm good at, moved up in life and financial stability. We haven't spoken in all these years, so lots has changed for the better. Apparently in this time she got married and even divorced. Yikes. It's been some time since her divorce and years later she got in touch with me on social media. I have nothing against her or hard feelings at all towards our past. Yeah I still have a soft spot for her, but I'm strong within myself. She wants to get coffee sometime. What could this mean? This girl has her life and career together. Definitely independent.

I have killed two crows while driving.. first one two months before .. me and my wife were in the car .. we were driving at probably about 30kmph .. this bird flew straight into the front wheel probably to pick up a Crap lying there .. I couldn't apply brakes as I thought the bird is landing away from the tires .. but it does .. coincidentally, my wife committed suicide after 8-9 days .. she was under treatment for paranoid illness but never had a clue that she will go to that extreme .. i was thinking about the crow incident and wondered if i did that mistake of running over the crow and hence lost of my wife . Today I was driving very slow with my son in a street .. I had no clue where this crow flew from but still died in the front wheel .. Is it bad sign ? Or it is common ? I don't know how common that a crow get killed by a car running over it ?

If I don't ask for it than we can go days without sex. Our timing is different. When I want it, he's too tired. When he wants it, I'm not feeling it so when we do it, one person is turned on while the other is turned off. When he wants it, he doesn't make a move, if I don't say anything than he'll watch porn. I tried talking to him about this but the more we talk, the worst things get. Is it best to divorce him because he doesn't meet my sexual needs?!

My wife told me that she's pregnant she's on birth control she has an IUD in. We've been having lots of sex lately. We've been married 2 months. How is it possible she's pregnant ?

Hello so I was dating this guy for 2 years now we had been talking for a whole year trying to get to know each other I was always honest with him from the start told him everything I love this man, if I can even call him that I feel so hurt and betrayed. Today we were talking and I asked him because of something I found out And he told me he was married you see she's with another man now but still they are married he wasn't honest with me I feel so stupid what do I do ?! And I may be pregnant but I'm not sure yet, I took the plan b pill but On the 3rd day please help?!

He said "it's over" "leave me" "move on" but did these things.. 1. Messaged me a lot and called twice just to apologize for being mean when I texted him, saying things like "(my name)?" "Please I'm sorry" while I was out 2. Said if I didn't stop messaging him he'd block me. He blocked. Hours later he unblocked and said "are you done?" 3. Got really jealous. And I'm not imagining that. 4. Texted "bye" again after the last time he said it, 10-30 mins later, like he's coming back. I messaged him "why do you confuse me" and he said "bye" then blocked me. Why did he do these ^^ above things

My brother had it rough this couple of months. He had a divorce, got fired from his job and he needed my help so I gave him some money. MY money from MY bank account. My wife is mad for some reason. Apparently, I had to let my brother starve to please her. He helped us when we got married. We had a financial problem and he payed our rent for 4 months, but she's an ingrate.

I'm barely 18 I'm a guy never dated never kissed I'm still a virgin. I'm not hideous I'm just not the star quarterback. I'm cool with the emo kids athletes skaters everyone etc I just haven't found someone who loves me yet but by my mid 30s I want someone I can cuddle with in bed (not a surprise why I'm single now is it?) somebody I can love and trust and have children with.

I am born on 12/28/1991 and my wife on 5/10/2001. How do you compute it?

My stepmother is one of the nicest people ever to me and my brother. She helps me with homework, never calls me names or yells at me, cares about me, buys me nice things, takes me to the movies and is very nice. My mom and dad have never been married. My dad did cheat on my mom with my stepmother but I was not affected by it as I thought I would be. I know they ended up together in a way that's not morally acceptable, but they have been married almost six years. So my mom is even more bitter about that. My mom has a new boyfriend too. Well my mom kicked my brother and I out because her boyfriend doesn't like us. My dad and stepmother welcomed us of course. My mom started calling me horrible names, blaming us for the breakup with my dad, hitting me, telling me that she needs space and being mean. I was really hurt by it. I am a bit sensitive and I do love my mom. When I come back in from school, my stepmother always cooks and asks us how our day was. My mom never cooked much and fed us quick cooked or frozen, unhealthy food. My mom doesn't work and receives public assistance. When she does work, she quits after a few months. My dad still pays her child support but she gives us a small portion to spend for allowance and uses the rest on her loser boyfriend. At a point, she stopped giving us an allowance. My stepmother is a police officer and gave my brother and I much more than my mom does. My dad shares joint custody with my mom, so we split in btwn homes. Am I wrong?

There was a poor man named Heinz whose wife was dying of cancer. There was a doctor who had the medicine to make his wife better, but Heinz did not have enough money to buy it. Heinz went to everyone he knew to borrow the money, but he could only get together about half of what it cost. He told the doctor that his wife was dying and asked him to sell it cheaper or let him pay later. But the doctor said, "NO." Heinz got desperate and broke into the doctor's office to steal the medicine for his wife. Should the husband have done that? Why?

Why don't they instead look in universities, classes at community centers, the library, etc? Why do women try to meet men to date when the men are drunk and only want sex at night clubs and bars? It seems like night clubs and bars are the only places where women are open to men's advances. But at the same time, these places tend to attracted alcoholics and low lifes who just want sex... I don't get women's logic.

I went out once with them and it was weird. After years of us being friends she told me the friendship was over. Her husband walks by me everyday and gives me a mean look.???? Yes he also works with us. I wonder why he is still eyeing me.His wife and I are not friends anymore.Her choice.She now going in behind me after i come out of the bathroom stall at work.she and i were close friends.we never had any disagreements.however, all of a sudxen it is like her husband is obsessive? Controlling? She will not even look at me or speak in passing.it is just really weird how all of a sudden she treats me like i did some awful to her. I never ever did anything against her.Her husband goes up to her and then looks at me..????i am not in the picture anymore so whats his angle?her husband has no friends and hangs out with her and her friends alot. It is just so odd. I wish she and i could have remained friends but it is clear he is the problem.maybe?

I don't know if it was a mistake or not--they all went ewww, I had stomach problems the whole day. I didn't like being caught while wiping my butt. I'm sure this happens a lot ..so I let it go. what is your guess? I wont have them back in house, husband is upset but I don't want to see them anymore.

I promised my gf I'd come over after work today. I have a lot going on with my job. She told me she'd wait for me before she would start to cook dinner. I told her I'd be there at 6:00. Well it's 7:30 and I haven't finished cleaning my house yet. I should have done it yesterday but I was exhausted. I called her just now and told her I was sorry but I probably wouldn't make it for dinner and wouldn't get to her house till 9/10PM. She seemed really upset and said forget it she has to work tomorrow and hung up the phone, I'm just really busy. Was I wrong?

We've been married for over 18 years. He is the most predictable person. Does and says the same things over and over - maybe attributed to being on the spectrum. But recently when I suggest we do something, that he has always enjoyed... he says no and "oh I'm evolving." He won't even watch a movie on tv anymore "he's evolving." Last year we saw a musical production he loves: it hadnt toured in years- when he found out it was in town, we even went to the next town so he could see it again. We recently found out it's in town again, initally he was excited but. he's turned cool again stating "he's evolvong." Oh how we only wish that were true ... what do you make of this cold shoulder response to me ?

This dynamic you see a lot. The fat controlling loud woman married to the skinny, weak, shy, soft spoken man who is nerdy. The wife wears the pants and orders the husband around and since he's shy and weak, he never fights back and obeys her.

I've met some mean men in my life but none, none have been as mean and vindictive as a scornful woman. Most women aren't like this but when they are they're like a 5 headed poisonous snake. No offense this is just my experience.

I don't appreciate my husband looking at exposed attractive women.

Earlier last night when my parents and my brother were over for dinner, my wife spent about 10 minutes during dinner talking about the overflowing toilet at the office and how the whole office smells like ****, and she can't even take a dump and hasn't for weeks. Then she mentions how she almost pooped herself because of no available toilet. Then she talks about the color and peculiar smell of the overflowing poo in the toilet. Plus about how she had to clean it up as there was a giant splotch of it behind the toilet All while we were eating meatloaf and patatoes. And we were all grossed out and she kept on. I don't think she understood how gross that is and how can I explain it too her

Once a week? Once a month? Daily? Every other day? How often do you and your spouse argue?

Been married just over 3 years. Husband's ex wife lives 2 hours away. She was very sick about 2 months ago and was in the ER. He went and spent the whole day and never really told me what he did while there. He said he was going coz his kids needed him (they are 14 and 13).The kids told me he spent the day at her apartment when she got discharged, he bought her medicine, etc. All this without consulting me. Her family also came in town to see her at the same time so no he's not the only one that could have done these things. A month later I was sick; took myself to the doctor, purchased my own medicine etc. It's hard not to make comparisons to the treatment. This last weekend he took the kids back home to their moms and he was supposed to drop them off at Church where she was. He ended up going to church with her and who knows what else they did coz he didn't tell me. He stopped going to church with me about 3 months ago. Am I justified to be bothered by this?

My wife and I have been married for 5 years. We've been trying to conceive for years before, but the doctor said that I have a low sperm count and that it would be unlikely for me to get her pregnant. I gave up trying to be honest, but recently, my wife got pregnant and I'm extremely anxious. I think that baby might not be mine. I love my wife so much, but I can't forgive her if she cheated. I need to find out.

He never told me about it. I found out thru my eight yr old step daughter who mentioned it to me the other day. She is also taking lessons there. Why did my husband not mention this nor include me?

My husband is controlling and abusive, but afterwards he tells me all marriages are like that. This last time he called me every insult he could think of, he told our kids we were going to live in separate houses because of how bad Mommy is (and listed several horrible reasons all not true). He brought up pictures on his phone of attractive women and said "this is what a beautiful woman looks like - you are so ugly". He drove my car so fast and recklessly on the way home that today it wouldn't start. He got all dressed up and left the house for over 4 hours to make me think he was going out to find someone else. Then after he does all that he says "I told our son I was leaving and he is crying and wants me to stay, what are we going to do" and he wants to make up. Is this normal by any means? We have been married 15 years and I have very little emotions left inside.

long story started 7 yrs ago. He works when he wants..I've caught my wife handing over cash like $50.00 at a time. Then lies to me she didn't do it.why? i just want the truth not a lie.yea 50.00 is a lot when my wife works at walmart. anything he needs she pays. He knows in his thinking why work when i can get mom to pay it..im the outsider. But i don't shut my mouth. more less venting..

To put it bluntly, would you still love them if they gained a substantial amount of weight and stopped trying to look good for you? How would that make you feel?

My husband wants my whole check for the mortgage to help him pay along with me paying the light billmy car payment, phone,He has anger issues and i finally landed a steady job after 17 mnths since we had our son and I was furloughed until Dec. I told him the day i was furloughed not to take it out on me and he said he wasnt but i knew that was a lie. I have two more checks coming, one this week and another in two weeks. He said he needs my whole check(s) leaving me without any money for me to go get this tooth worked on that has been hurting me and chipped for over a year, also I need new contacts and glassess. My 17 month old broke my glasses and my contacts have expired so i can't see worth crap. All he cares about is me giving him my checks for mortgage. He makes a lot more than me, he's a radiologst tech and I'm a headstart teacher assistant who's now furloughed. He said my job is a scam and i haven't had a real job since before our son was born. My dad said he always felt good as a man even now saying that he pays the mortgage for the family (now just him and my mom) while my mom pays other bills and always contributes to making sure the house is clean and decorated. My husband wont let me decorate w/o his permission so he puts up tacky curtains and its embarrassing inviting ppl over. My friend's an interior designer and she came to see our house and she said the curtains have got to go. I told her i know that. Hes a know it all and tired of running in circles w/ him.

They cohabit in parents home, they are 40's something with a teen age child??