My mum thought that my brother was touching me inappropriately and she asked me about it in private about it i told her that weren't thevase and i was really shocked that she would think that and although she has moved on it has been on my mind since I haven't told any of my brothers and sisters but I can't get that out of my head

Last week his girlfriend was over, and he had dressed up and planned to take her to dinner (using my car, of course). And as they were leaving, I simply asked him "When are you going to come back?" And he was annoyed and said "When I fuc**ng wish! Stop nagging me" His fate was sealed at that moment. In front of his girlfriend, I smacked him across the face so hard I could see my finger marks shining on his cheek. As he looked at me, I could almost see the ego deflating out of him. I took him by the ear and locked him in his room, ignoring his protests. I called his gf a cab to go home. Since then, he has been a different boy. He's angry with me, but he doesn't dare misbehave, answers me politely, and obeys me if I say something firmly. It's almost like the one embarrassing incident knocked out his ego and allowed him to appreciate his mistake. I guess a VERY occasional slap in the face can serve a purpose. But was it deserved, or should I apologise to him? I'm a single mother, he is 16. Previously I tried sending him to his room, confiscating privileges but that never worked. He was too proud to let me know that those punishments affected him. This behaviour began about three months ago.

I'm twelve and I love my girlfriend more than anything. I would give up anything and everything for her and she would do the same for me. I want to spend the rest of my life with her, but her parents drive me crazy! First of all, they're super homophobic (I'm gay). She's terrified to come out to her mom because even though her mom is the most accepting, she's not accepting. She said that every middle school girl who's gay is a liar and it's just a phase. Next, they don't let her do ANYTHING. I get to hang out with her roughly every month and a half and I CANNOT deal with that much longer. I can't deal with not getting to spend any time with her. Her parents are insanely strict and whenever she asks for something, they say no. Why? I have absolutely no idea. She's not allowed to do ANYTHING without an adult, which means no alone time. The girl hasn't even had a childhood! She's never learned to ride a bike or swim, she hasn't even eaten ******* seafood. Her parents are super lazy and don't seem to give a **** about anything. Her mom didn't work in the first place and her dad lost his job six months ago. Did he look for a new job? No. So they're getting their last payment in a week and after that, they basically won't have money to eat. My girlfriend is super stressed out about it and it's stressing me out to see her upset. I told her I'd give her money whenever she needed it and I would do anything to help. I can't deal with this anymore. What do I do?

Of course you would like each of your children to embody MANY virtures, not just one. But if you had to pick JUST ONE, what would that Virtue or Faculty or Capacity be? . Here are a few possibilities, organized into clusters of somewhat connected virtues Cluster 1: strong, quick, self-reliant, competitive, a fighter, a winner whenever possible , Cluster 2: a planner, a seed planter, an Earth-lover, a Nature-lover, an investor for the future Cluster 3: curious, open-minded, informed, witty, funny, communicative, smart Cluster 4: kind, caring, loving, listener, nurturing, cautious / safety-mined, family-centered Cluster 5: talented, a bright and shining star, playful, warm, generous, expressive Cluster 6: hard-working, skilled, practical, organized, competent, reliable, dependable Cluster 7: fair, honest, balanced, observant, genial, all-around people-person Cluster 8: deep, intense, probing, strongly intuitive, powerful, transforms/heals others Cluster 9: highly-educated, intelligent, wise, sage, philosophical, independent Cluster 10: tough, determined, sure-footed, persistent, goal-oriented, accomplisher, achiever Cluster 11: brilliant, genius, visionary, paradigm-breaker, different-drummer Cluster 12: soulful, poetic, musical, artistic, conveyer of what's beyond words thanks for your answers Revision... Cluster 5: talented, confident, self-assured, a bright and shining star, playful, warm, generous, expressive

This guy (who is my friend) is 25 years old and still has some anger towards his mother, because when he was 10 years old, his mother married a guy that he did not like because of him being mean to him, and also he didn't like the guy's children. Ok, so the children of my friend's ex-stepfather (that he did not like) falsely (which was proven) accused him of sexual molesting them. And at that time my friend's ex-stepfather and his ex-stepfather's ex-wife were in court fighting over custody of their children, and so the children's mother used this false accusation against my friend's ex-stepfather in court. Ok, so my friend had to go to counseling as a result of this false accusation, and his mother kept putting up with it until the judge wanted to have psychotically tests done on him. So my friend's mother gave her husband the option of either giving up custody of his children or leave her, in which he gave up custody of his kids. Later in life though, my friend's mother and her husband ended getting a divorce anyway, because she didn't want his kids living at her place because of the false accusation against her son. So my friend still has a grudge against his mother, because he thinks that she was selfish because she married a guy that he did not like and because he thinks that she should have divorced him at the moment that his kids were starting to accused him of sexual molesting them. So do you think that my friend's mother was very selfish and irresponsible? By the way, I'm not sure why those children accused my friend of sexually molesting them. But one of the many reasons why it was proven false was because those children kept telling stories that were way different to each other to law enforcements. So their stories didn't add up at all. This is a reply to allycat. My friend's mother and even his ex-stepfather (who is the father of the children) thought that the stories told by the children didn't add up at all, and I know this because they told me in person. My friend's mother and his ex-stepfather think that the reason why the kids lied about that was because their mother told them to. Keep in mind that this happened 14 years ago, and my friend was 11 years old at the time that it happened.

I moved out of state to be with my girlfriend. We live at her moms house and she promised me that we would move back to my home state after she finishes this year out. But now she wants to stay another year here. Her dad just got arrested and will be in jail for awhile. Her mom depends on her daughter quite a bit and always asks for money. My girlfriend also has to be a mom to her brother who is 15. She said she's worried about her mom and her brother and that she needs to stay here another year to make sure they are okay. I can understand that part with her dad being in jail for assault. Not sure when he could get out but what should I do? I feel like I'm the only one making sacrifices. She told me she wanted me here to help her get out of this place with all the bad memories and now she's wanting to stay. I know her mom talked her into it. I just need some advice. Thanks

We were raised by a very mentally abusive father who would always bring us down. Now that we are all older and Work he expects money from us which makes no sense? He hold against us that he had to take care of us and feed us as children. What do you think is behind this?

For months my sister would call me on the phone crying begging for money, $10,000. I'd always say no until she threatened to dump her children on the neighbours and kill herself. Like an idiot I gave her $3000, I wasnt in a position to give that to her, my husband had recently lost his job and im a stay at home mom. I told her that's all I have and she can't ever have anymore. Later that year we met up and she saw recent pics on my phone of me and my family on holiday to Kenya and she and her teen daughter went crazy and jealous and almost in tears saying "I thought you had no money, you could have not gone on holiday and gave that money to me". I don't know what to do. I feel she's being so outrageous. I'm not rich, neither is my husband, we just work very hard for the little we have. She on the other hand is 45 years old, obese, 7 kids and she's never worked a day in her life. She got by on scrounging for money off siblings,parents,cousins,in laws, inheritances, all sorts. I feel so used. Should I cut her out of my life?

I only see him on holidays but his poor teenage children have to see him every day and their mother is also an alcoholic.

She made me far more mentally ill then I would have been because of her bitterness in her divorce where she used me as a weapon against my father.

I have always wanted a dog, but my dad does not want it inside our house. A year before, a man gave me a dog but when I arrived in my housd with it my dad gave it back to that man. Now, I am going to have another dog and he does not know anything about it. My mom have promesed me that he will not take it off from me, but im not so sure. So, what can I do if I my dad gets really angry? How can I convince him? Thanks you :))

My nephew is 2 months old and he is already screaming and making noises. He also trying to sick up by it owner and he also started to grab his babybottles

The other day I broke my phone and the screen isn't working (I know this can be fixed) and my parents took it and won't give it back. I paid for this phone with my own money however they pay the bill. My parents made me quit my part time job and I'm not allowed anywhere besides home and school, I'm not even allowed to go to any after school activities. My parents are considering sending me to a detention center for a few weeks or months. I am 17 and I turn 18 in February. How do I convince my parents to just leave me alone and let me do what I need to do? They are like this because I occasionally smoke marijuana and got suspended for school for a day.

I am the youngest sister and I have two older sisters who say awful things behind my back. I never do anything to deserve it, but they call me horrible names when I m not around. She s retarded, fat, a wh*re, ugly, stupid, b*tch. Anything under the sun that is mean and hurtful. (And I have heard them say these things!) I am none of these things. I am just their little sister and I never talk about them that way at all! One is 22 years old and is pretty much a bad influence on her younger sister who is not much less younger (20). I m 18 and ever since 2013 I have had to endure their nasty insults. The eldest acts like she s it. She calls me ugly sometimes, puts on a fake attitude of kindness in front of my parents (and to my face), flips her hair at me, makes fun of anything i do (new hair cut, different makeup, clothes), says mean things under her breath aimed towards me, and makes fun of me with her sister. Her sister (i disowned them) will copy anything i do or like. She makes fun of me as well. I feel as if they are trying to sabotage my growth and understanding of who I am as a person. When I started getting A s and made the honor roll in hs she started getting jealous. Saying things like "I wish I was smart" in front of my parents. Then when the next year rolls around she tries to start acting smart by saying "smart" things. They will also not give me any credit for my accomplishments and downplay them. Does anyone else have a similar experience?

My mom was doing my hair and she did thw braids really small and all I asked was "can you do them bigger?" She stopped and told me t have someone else do my hair because I'm too "picky" she was saying how she hooes I die and hopes that cps comes and takes me away. I don't even want to live here anymore everyday she calls me names like "b*tch, motherf*******..etc. She always says how I'm going to get pregnant within a year and how I'm a hoe. I dont even leave me house I barely even leave my room so idk what shes talking about. Its just up to that point where I want to live but I can't. I kind of want to call cps or someone that can take me away because I don't want to live with someone who calls me names every single day for no reason. My sister said she'll adopt me but I dont like her husband because he always cals me fat and I'd what to do. I want to kill myself. Can I get some advice?

I'm a 19 year old female. I stay with my mother, well technically she stays with me. It's my apartment because she couldn't get one in her name due to credit but she helps pay bills. We split the bills and take care of business together. Like roommates. I came home around 4am the other night and she had a major problem with it. Once I asked to spend the night over my best friends grandmothers house, jus her and her grandmother and she almost didn't let me go. When I went she didn't approve and she was really upset with me. Is it bad for me to come home In the AM as a 19 year old female who pretty much has her own stuff and isn't texhnically living in her mothers house?

Ok whenever we get back from our everyother year anni ,my husbands aunts come visit and we move recently and his sister will not come see our new house . She does not like the town i live in but it is a nice town just not as fancy smachy as hers . On facebooj she only likes stuff if my husband talks about their brother . She cuts me out of pictures . Is she doing this in purpose to get to me ? Idk why because i never bother her ,i only talk when i see and when im with she hardly speaks . I am not sure what to do about this relationship . Is it normal to never talk to your inlaws even when you are with them

They are divorcing cause I made my Dad become an alcoholic by acting up. I am in high school now and don't act up as much.

My parents divorced when I was 12. I was in special ed for learning disabilities as was my sister. They had three kids and two were hyper active with learning disabilities including me. The stress of such my Mom says is what broke the marriage and they wanted to protect us from their fighting. My Mom also said when I was a kid that if my Dad had loved us the way she and her parents love us then he would have worked on the marriage in therapy. He refused marriage therapy. I feel because I was learning disabled and ADHD I am the reason their marriage broke. Had they had three normal kids then they'd have stayed married. My Mom has openly said the stress of our disabilities divided them and she wanted to protect us. I am 41 now and spend my whole life trying to make up to my Dad for making my Mom leave him. Also I feel he might not love me since my Mom said he loves us but not enough or he'd have worked on the marriage. She told me his parents don't love us (I later learned this was not at all true and they very much loved us). My mother committed alienation of affection when we were kids but that is the past now. I am left with the damage 20 to 30 years later. What types of books or classes can I take along with therapy which I am in to overcome this toxic shame I feel for causing my parents divorce even though it was not intentional?

My Mom has her own emotional problems so I can't go to her and my siblings won't care. I wish I could get my Dad to review this but I want it to be sincere, not faked-----https://www.drphil.com/advice/six-tips-for-effective-listening/

When her daughter (my cousin) was growing up she was banned from having birthday parties if she misbehaved any as well. Now the daughter is 27 and estranged from her mother and lives in pain every day while the mother lives in glory with the other daughter. So what would make a mother refuse to acknowledge her own daughter's birthday?

I'm a rapper/artist/producer. My mom won't let me work on my music till my grades are up. I have ADHD, I hate school, it doesn't interest me, and I want to drop out. Everyone tells me I need to know how to read, write, and do math. But obviously I know how to do that already because I'm in the 9th grade. I want to dedicate myself to music and marketing full-time. My mom has PTSD so she gets angry about little things, and she's also religous so she thinks differently. I tried seeing if I could live with my dad but she said no, because she thinks it is to dangerous in New York and she sacrificed to much to let me go. I work hard as hell on my music I will not let anybody stop me. Music is therapeutic for me. If I'm not working on music, my life is meaningless. I want to work with new and upcoming artist. I also want to speak for thoes who are to afraid to. T.D. Jakes said "In order to soar. You must leave the people you love." What should I do? I also have back up plans. That 1 in a million can be me. I make $20-$100 dollars per beat. I can make up to $200 per day. (I'm doing it already) Well not a day, but a week.

My little brother is in 9th grade and I'm in 12th and when I was a freshmen I stayed to myself and matured and pretty much stopped bothering everyone because I didn't want them to bother me but now my brother is literally so immature and still comes into my room to turn off my tv and takes off the news in the morning when I'm watching like can you grow up?? It's really cringy

How do i stop thinking about it,I do have a younger brother which I appreciate.But I've always wanted a older sister because we can do makeup together,watch netflix and stuff.(I know sisters fight too) I have no friends....

I'm 15, and my dad makes me go to bed at 10 every night, even weekends! It's way too early! Especially if I have homework to do, but also if I want to talk to my friends or go out at all! My dad is treating me like a child! Aren't I too old for a bed time?

My child father live in California but orginally from Georgie. He's been in California for 3 years. He see our daughter once a year! He barley calls her I can count on one hand how many times he called her in a year! Which is pathetic. Every year when he visits her, She's so happy to see him but when he leaves she doesn't here from him. He goes months without calling her nor answer his phone. A couple days ago I caught my daughter silent crying to herself and she's only 5 :( She misses her dad and wondering why he doesn't answer/return her calls. She ask me "Do her dad love her?"... Now he's coming to see her again, another pop up! I'm fed up with him playing with my daughter emotions. It's a repetitive cycle he surprise her and leave no contact. How do I put my foot down without lashing out? I'm tired of seeing my daughter hurt, should I let her see him?

I am currently living in Ohio with my mother, but my boyfriend of a year is in NJ, and we both decided to move in together. We see each other twice a month, sometimes once and we connect so well when we're together, so we wanted to take it to the next level of living together. I am 22 and he's 30, hes in the military so he can't move as he pleases. I found a school out there where I can transfer my credits and I'll be working out there too, but I am not sure when the best time to start applying for jobs? I will be moving there in 3 months and I am not sure when it's too soon to start applying. I have my pharmacy tech license and I know I need to register that with the state of NJ, but its 70$ ! I have 3 years of retail and I'm just nervous about all of this honestly. I lived in CT for two years with my father, but that was my dad! I told my mother I'd see her every 2-3 months for a weekend. (i also dont plan on living there forever either, maybe 2-3 years, when I'm done with my nursing and my boyfriend is done paying off his house.)

22 year old guy i am living with my sis and her bf. they are like 20 and 21. currently staying so i can job and move to my own space, yet to happen. As i live here, my sister and bf really make it uncomfortable. I typing today cause talking to my sister just triggers me horribly, it pains me that i'm no longer this "brother" she knows anymore. Like we've always lived together, it hasn't been that long from moving out of Mom's house. Still, why the hell does she continue being this way? she always been the annoyed type, but at this age, at this moment in life when i need family and help, in this time in my life i've dealt with such aggressive beastly behavior in the past months with another sister, that was the worst thing this year. Now that im with my real sister, she seems to forget that i came from a horrible place, she keeps thinking everyday how much she just wants me out, she clearly admitted it by saying she wants her place back already. Its like a horrible whine to me. It's my sister's place but you know what, to my sister i say you really know how to make it uncomfortable and unfun for to live in your presence. My presence is nothing of wickedness around her, I don't get along with the family we know, therefore im looked as this "wickedness", not the good brother, the angry violent needs to get help brother is how she treats me no stop. At these retarded moments of conversation, i have to control my outburst, i have to calmly explain what she is saying to me, this destroys what she says, filtering out the bullshit, she slowly listens but still does not care to further conversation. I have to really pay attention to not let her get the better of me cause we know each other well like that but she has lost her eyes for me, she doesn't see me as the brother she grew up with but i still see her as my father's little daughter. my sis Like they really don't like talking to me that much, i'm not a hard person to talk to but they sure as hell make it be, I am not like that!! her bf and her can be persistent on unnecessary remarks. I get no encouragement, literally have no love for me as a person really wanting to get his life straight. My sister is heavily influenced under all the drugs and her bf have shared, they live a non-healthy life. The relationship looks so fake at times, my sister does not seem genuine at all. its pretty damn genuine when acts like a ***** towards me. I already called her '*****' once. she heard it and took that insult with her. Told her she hasn't stop being so cruel to me all day. You beginning to act like our horrible half sister, don't be like her, don't try to be that way. Have they learned nothing? My sister does not try to think the good of me at all. what the ****!??! how does this happen to us!?!? without our father to watch out for her, i been seeing more of what she hides she doesn't really think about how father would see this, her own boyfriend giving her drugs, letting him talk **** and letting herself get hurt?!? Are you serious sister? You literally letting a man talk to you like that? you've made it okay to make some game? what a fake relationship, its not one at all to be around my sister. She has forgotten her father, OUR FATHER WOULD HATE THIS GUY!! I was too nice to let them stay in my house before i lost, that's why im here now. She does want to try to get a rise out of me to point a finger i swear i feel it sometimes. She doesn't make it straight with he bf that im the brother, telling her im the weird one here, im her BROTHER. I do matter in her life until she claims im not anymore, no one else can claim it. Im not controlling her but she thinks she has this authority and game pick with me, I got nothing to pick with her!!! I'm the one that was driven away from my house, i need the support and if she really.... ...if she really wants me out before i reach an opportunity, her and the bf are gonna kick me. Will they really do that to me? make me suffer more..I'm not trying to suffer more at all in anyway, not a job, not these subtle aggressive behaviors, not the streets, i'm not willing to suffer anymore. Why does she push for it? the realization has to be within her that her brother doesn't wanna suffer in life...Does she really not care?! I mean my brother cares for me, he's 20. Why not her?

I am 21 female and I am already going through a crisis for not finding a job with my major. I've been sleeping alot lately, maybe because of depression but also because am so stressed. My mom is treating me so horrible and treats me like a maid. she wants me to clean ALL the time and I do clean to the point my back would hurt and its endless chores but she tends to ignore and says I don't do anything and that I am useless or using up their money. My younger sister does little and whines about it the whole day so my mom starts putting me down and making duaa against me when she does something. my sister just pretends to help her in front of her its like am living a Cinderella story I swear. They both team up to me and put me down in any way possible they can every day reminding me that she pays for me. sometimes I just wish she can die I swear or I get married and leave this hell hole. it stresses me out more and makes me eat so much uncontrollable amount of sugar which then breaks my face out. idk what to do moving out isnt an option as it goes out of the house rules and there are no marriage around the corner. idk what to do. i know it might sound stupid but it makes me cry soo much and i dont want to show them am weak or that its working that they put me down. i just show that their words doesnt effect me

She takes everything I say and do and make it something negative, she tells me that I'm stupid and that even when I do my best I'm not good enough, she's been saying she wants to kill me, she hits me a lot and yesterday threw a plate of food at me and starting hitting and pulling my hair, she says she wouldn't care if I was taken away and she can't put up with me anymore, everyday is just her screaming at me and telling me bad things about myself. I never feel like I got the chance to be a kid, I have to feed my siblings breakfast lunch and dinner, I give them baths and get there clothes out and ready for school, I help them with their school work, make sure they do their chores, and when I try to do something for myself my mom yells and says I'm a lazy brat that can't do anything right. She blames everything on me like when she loses something she says I'm the one who lost it or that I stole it and when my dad and her get in an argument she says it's my fault. She puts me in situations that she knows will be extremely uncomfortable for me like taking my picture when she knows I don't like it, getting angry at me when I don't want to talk to someone or do something ***** lasagna if social anxiety, she signed me up for therapy and said she "wants to figure out why I am this way and what is wrong with me" my therapist told her why and what was wrong and ways we can both help but my mom doesn't want to have to do anything, she only wants me to be the one to fix myself

I am only 14 so can't fix the money problems.

My Mom's cousin did this and his ignorant parents are tired of him. He is in his 40's and the parents in their 70's and ignorant.

My fiancé and I live in Provo Utah, my fiancé moved here to get away from him s abusive amd toxic family. His saint of a mother moved to Utah to be near her only sane son after she was bought out from her home by his father. My fiancé and I love each other but his dad said that if he and I move back to Nashville he'll lease us a place to stay and he can get treated at several cancer treatment centers, I could get a job working in either Nashville or a surrounding town but his dad is abusive and his brother is mentally ill, so much to the point to where he had a double amputation for no reason. My fiancé has Chronic leukemia and I'm terrified about his health right now. His mother amd I are trying to convince my fiancé to stay in Utah because it might not be perfect but he'll be in a loving environment opposed to being with his dad and brother? How should I go about this. I want to provide more information in Utah we have the Huntsman cancer research institute, while in Nashville there is St. Thomas and Vanderbilt. I don't know what to do.

Im hanging out ghost lollipos with little sayings on them, what do you think of this? "Sending you a ghost hug. You can't frel it but its there!"

Ever since I was born I disappointed my father he wanted me to be born a boy and I was born a girl. I guess that's why he prefers my two little brothers over me. I see him playing with them and laughing with them I see him taking them everywhere but when it comes to me he just ignores me like if I'm some stranger and not his daughter. My mother is a little nicer than my father, but she calls me ugly and that I should wear makeup like all other girls my age and then maybe I'll be beautiful and I'll get married or someone would love me. They say mean things about me saying that I'm useless, that im a good for nothing daughter and after hearing this for a long time I started to believe them. If I died no one would notice everyone would forget about me the next day. I'm just a little stain in this world, I should make everyone the favor and just kill myself. I resorted to cutting because cutting makes me forget a little about the pain I'm in.

I've been raising my nephew since he was 1 and I was 19 and had to drop out of college and work up to three jobs to survive now I'm 27 and basically gave up my whole life. No dating no nothing just working. I finally convinced my Mom to keep while I finished college and we split him up during the week. Thing is my nephew doesn't appreciate anything I do for him and is very defiant. I've always been career focused and he was forced on me by my mother and she took off and vanished and got married. Everyone tells me how bad of a person u was when I tried to give him back then. Whole time while my mom claimed him in her taxes. But I want a break. I have no kids and have been careful not to. Because I always wanted to get my career together first but I feel like I have no life and missed out on so many years. Any advice?

I love my mum very much we have always been close considering i'm her only family left and my dad is dead. I have gone off to college and my mum has been coming over to my apartment every chance she gets.My roommates are teasing me for begin a "Mama's Boy' which i'm not. How can I tell my mum to back of kindly.

Hey, I'm 17 turning 18 in about 7 months, I go to early college, and all in all I'd say I'm a pretty good kid. But lately my mom and I haven't been getting along. I have had a great childhood and my mother who felt that she missed out on her childhood because her parents were so strict was dedicated to make mine amazing. And I learned to love her more than maybe other children would love their own mothers. She's an amazing person and I saw that. But now that I'm getting older I find that we fight more and more. She does not trust me even though I always do what I am told, I don't sneak out, and I never do anything bad. I went to stay with family for a few months this past summer to work which gave me a feeling of independence and freedom however ever since I have been back my mom has been very protective like she has started making me send photos of who I am with when I spend the night at my friends house because she thinks I am going to start sneaking around with my (first) boyfriend. I'm starting to believe that she just doesn't want to accept the fact that I am growing up. And I don't know how to tell her about this because if I was to bring it up she will just get mad at me.

My dad and uncle are silly. They are so proud about our Spanish heritage. Our lastname is Basque, and my uncle always makes a big deal about our blood type which very uncommon worldwide, and very common among Basque people. My grandmother has a big coat of arms of our lastname in her living room. My dad is always listening to folklore music from Spain, and watches news from Spain, and TV shows from Spain online. My dad has never been to Spain. I'd like to take him, but I've never been there. I don't know how to get around or what to do in an emergency. Japan, I know by heart. I would know what to do in pretty much any situation. I want to treat my dad to a trip. Should I take my Spain or Japan?

I don't wanna go to college i wanna do an at home job like youtube and i'm young so i can't work just yet. So i want to do youtube.. i can't say like oh this is a full time job 24/7 i'm gonna make money off it i know it's not THAT fast and i know it's a stupid job so don't bash me for that. But it's a chill job and i wanna do it.. But my sister thinks i'm over my head it's a dumb job i'd make NOTHING off it my mom barely knows and i'm sure she thinks it's dumb too my dad seems to think it's okay but they don't want me talking into a mic or a face cam cause they think people are gonna like steal my identity or something. Can i convince them to accept this is what i wanna do temporarily or full time for a while...

So ive always dreamed about being an actress, so much that after 11 years of doing nothing i auditioned to see if i could get into a show ase with the biggest agencies in new york city and los angeles. My parents absoultely dont want me to do it, so i didnt tell them did it in the first place, i never expected to get in. Now that i have how do i convience them to travel to new york with me (im almost 17). Its a huge once in a lifetime oportunity for me that i never even thought i could ever have. They seriously wont let me do it, they dont have a problem with the industry they just dont think im good enough, and i am about to have a nervous breakdown, every suggestion will be well recieved. Thanks

My sister is the worst. My brothers are both cool. My sister is horrible in every way, shape, and form. How do I tell her she sucks? I am 23 and female.