Family: Question: Sometimes parents do the craziest things.?

Question: Sometimes parents do the craziest things.?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 02:03 PM PDT

This happened when I was about 14 years old - many years ago. My aunt and uncle and cousins were visiting. It was decided they would stay the night. There were enough couches and beds. So for some reason that I'll never understand: since I was only 14 but had a full size bed they decided there was room in my bed for my 11 year old female cousin to sleep with me. They put some pillows between us. Nothing happened. But thinking about it now I'm thinking that was kind of weird. I had two male cousins. But I got the girl to share my bed.

Question: Would it be bad if I cut my own mother out of my life?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 01:22 PM PDT

I truly love my Mom. But she has torn me mentally and emotionally. I still have scars in my life emotionally and here I am now an adult. Growing up she woul do do so much to me that I still remember. Like tell me I wasn't beautiful inly my sister, tell my boyfriend he should talk to my sister instead of me and put me out for her dates and all types of stuff. She's never happy for me, she constantly compares herself to me. If I accomplished anything she go on to talk about her accomplishments and turn it on herself. She left my little sister on me when I was 19 and she was 9 months and married a new guy. I still have my little sister so therefore my life has been on hold. My mom still claims her and get food stamps and refund for her since she's been born she's now 10. I get no help whatsoever. I'm in school and about to graduate. My mom only calls me when she needs money and sometimes I give it to her because she comes up with lies about being sick, she's getting put out and all types of things. Ive suffered from depression for so long and now that I'm graduating I brought a 5 bedroom home and her and her husband lives in a hotel they can barely afford and wants to live with me until they get on my feet. I'm much happier when it's distance between us and I just want to work on mysellf. Im thinking of cutting contact for a year but worrying about her well-being. Any advice

Question: Accidentally sent a dick pic to another girl and now afraid of getting blackmailed or shamed?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:39 PM PDT

I accidentally sent a dick pic to my crush's friend (names are identical) and now she has it...I told her to delete it and she said she did...But I cant believe her...She can use it later to blackmail me or take revenge on me... I told her to send her nudes as an insurance so that in case she leaks mine, I will leak hers....But she doesnt seem to agree with that idea.. I'm afriad and tensed now...What should I do? SHould I tell her mom that she has my nudes so that she can take action on her.... It has a full pic of me against the mirror... My face is shown in that

Question: I need relationship advice please!?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:36 PM PDT

I have been with my boyfriend over 2 years, & we are both 20 years old. Our relationship completely revolves around his family. His parents go out every weekend which leads us to staying home babysitting his 2 little brothers.I am all about family respect, and i do respect his family, but it seems that he always wants more. He always asks for more. He always expects more from me towards his family such as me giving his mom attention, he complains about me sitting quietly when im around his family, but i do that because his mom will not even consider that im sitting with them, she will be on her phone the entire time, but he expects me to constantly try with her. Now anytime I try to explain the things he does that bother me, such as not being able to stand up to his parents, he denies that he does anything wrong, and he somehow makes me feel as if it is my fault. And to mention that I'm the one who always has to go over to see him. and when i complain that i go 4 times a week and he comes every month or every two months, he sees nothing wrong with that.

Question: What is my mothers maiden name?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:20 PM PDT

Question: Why does my husbands family take family photos without him ??

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 11:11 AM PDT

He asjs for photos when they are with him then they take them without and post for hin to see ,why would a family do that ????

Question: How do I help my mom feel better?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 10:43 AM PDT

I grew up very poor, we were always struggling and my parents worked multiple jobs to support a family.My dad worked his way through college and got a good job, eventually we made it to where we were living comfortably for about 2 yrs but then my dad died. We got a decent life insurance policy and when my mom recieved it she used it to buy a house for us. Then it started going around my family that we had "money" we didn't, my mom didn't have a great job and we were back to living paycheck to paycheck because she didn't want to squander what was left of the life insurance. My moms family is riddled with addicts, so they came out of the weeds asking for money which we expected and of course my mother said no but then we were visiting her grandma (she raised her) and while we were there she pulled out a file full of all the receipts of things that she bought for my family over the years like gifts for my brother and I or subscriptions to those magazines schools sell and told my mom that is was all of the money she owed her. My mom was devastated because in times when we were truly struggling my mom didn't ask for help, these were things that were given to us as gifts like dolls I had when I was little and she expected that now that my mom had money she was to pay it all back. So my mom did pay her back, and now she's sad, not because of the money but because we weren't the only grandchildren she did these things for but we were the only ones she felt "owed" her anything

Question: I love my stepmother more than my mother am I wrong to feel this way?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 10:35 AM PDT

My stepmother is one of the nicest people ever to me and my brother. She helps me with homework, never calls me names or yells at me, cares about me, buys me nice things, takes me to the movies and is overall nice. My mom and dad have never been married. My dad did cheat on my mom with my stepmother but I was not affected by it as I thought I would be. I know they ended up together in a way that's not morally acceptable, but they have been married almost six years. So my mom is even more bitter about that. My mom has a new boyfriend too. Well my mom kicked my brother and I out because her boyfriend doesn't like us. My dad and stepmother welcomed us of course. My mom started calling me horrible names, blaming us for the breakup with my dad, hitting me, telling me that she needs space and being mean. I was really hurt by it. I am a bit sensitive and I do love my mom. When I come back in from school, my stepmother always cooks and asks us how our day was. My mom never cooked much and fed us quick cooked or frozen, unhealthy food. My mom doesn't work and receives public assistance. When she does work, she quits after a few months. My dad still pays her child support but she gives us a small portion to spend for allowance and uses the rest on her loser boyfriend. At a point, she stopped giving us an allowance. My stepmother is a police officer and gave my brother and I much more than my mom does. My dad shares joint custody with my mom, so we split in btwn homes. Am I wrong?

Question: What do you say when talking to a friend about your parents if you have 2 dads.?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:56 AM PDT

I am writing a story and this kid is talking about how his dads sing to each other when they are sad. Usually i say My mom and My dad. But how do you tell them apart for gay couples? like My one dad. Or my papa and my dad. or dave and larry?

Question: How tall could i be?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:49 AM PDT

Im 13 and 5 7 and my mom is 5 6 and my dad is 5 8 and my grandpa is 6 0 and my grandma is 5 3 on both sides about.

Question: Custody modification?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:49 AM PDT

So the mother gets her son 2 weekends a month and she picks him up from school. she lives close to 2 hours away. the son is also going to private school. in agreement it says father pays for all school expenses including uniforms and supplies. when she drops him off on sundays, she keeps forgetting his uniform or belt. and he usually comes back with no socks on. he has to wear black socks to school. she also pulled him out of school early one Friday cause she had to make it back to work and he now has an unexcused half day absence? She also is dropping him off 15-30 mins late on sundays. Could this be cause to have it changed to where she couldn't pick him up from school since items aren't being returned and she is pulling him out early? Not saying she couldn't pick him up on Fridays just make the meeting time at 7 that day. We ask for the items back and she becomes very uncooperative and says she doesn't have the gas money to drive down to return them but will mail it to the father. but we still have not received any items. by now, she probably has at least 5 pairs of black socks, 2 shirts, 2 pants, and a belt. All of which the father paid for since it is in the agreement he has to pay for these things. It wouldn't be such a big deal if she actually took him to school. But she doesn't. The agreement is picking up on Fridays from school and returning him at 7 on Sundays the 2nd and 4th weekends of the month.

Question: My mother was in the hospital and my step daughter did not call and I am pissed off should I be?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:24 AM PDT

My step daughter said she tried to call my mother 3x on my mothers birthday and said it rang and rang. Then my wife got a card for my step daughter to mail to my mom and my mother never got the card. My mother was in the hospital and I sent a text to my step daughter with the hospital number and room number and my step daughter never called. I beginning to think my step daughter is lying about calling and sending the card and my mother should not give her any more bday or xmas presents if my step daughter can not reach out to my mother for her birthday and when she is in the hospital. It causes friction with my wife and I because she tries to defend her daughter when I tell her, but this is the truth.

Question: Do i have a right to be pissed ?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:20 AM PDT

My brother and sister were never there for my mom. My mom and dad had MAJOR fights, the police know our house and i was there everytime to help. Everytime my mom and dad had a fight i was there to help and break it up. It would get violent many times and i was there. My mom was in the hospital with an emergency, i was there everytime. Everytinme she need me. My Brother and sister were never there. FK work, everyone has work. My life kind of stalled because i was dealing with so many problems and i was so young. I had to handle it all and it a lot. Work, school, and handle ALL the family problems. I mean FK, im just a KID. I did graduate from Emergency MEdical Technician academy but i should be much farther. My sister and brother tell me why am i not farther in life, I said F Fkin YOU. Im so mad my sister n brother were never there to help, they are the oldest im the youngest. They left it all to ME. Im so mad.

Question: Is it fair if my mother gives my biological son more birthday money and xmas money that my step daughter?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:12 AM PDT

Is it OK if my mother gives my biological son more birthday money and x-mas money that my step daughter who does have her own biological grand parents also? In other words my step daughter should not have any resentment toward her step grand mother? She gives my step daughter at least 50 dollars which is nice gift.

Question: How can I stop feeling so guilty about...?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:09 AM PDT

Cutting all contact from my narcissistc mother? I will be going away to see my Aunt & Uncle for the first time in years...w/o my mom. This will be the first time EVER that I will be away from my mom because she NEVER wants to do much for the Holidays. Its usually been her & I- & my mom is NO FUN at all. Every time I bring up going to see my Aunt/Uncle or them coming to see us- my mom will change the subject & Im sick of it. I would like to see my Aunt & Uncle. My Mom is a REAL DRAG to be around because she is : Controlling, Manipulative, Talks about herself all the time & never asks about how you are doing. Thinks she is more superior & talks down to others, Instigates with others & gossips a lot-starts crap & doesn't know how to mind her own business, Obsessive, Aggressive (in some ways) overall.....NARCISSISTIC! Would you want some one like that in your life? My mom has been like this for a long time now. I have wanted her out of my life for a while now & I have not seen her in a month. Yea we chat sometimes- but I don't like talking to her. Unfortunately for me, she is my mom & I'm 35 years old- I think I'm too old to tolerate this mess from her. She has physically, mentally, emotionally, verbally & financially abused me.....A LOT. Yeah I'm a 35 y.o. responsible adult & should make my own decisions & I have decided to fly to see my family, but this will be the first time ever W/O my mom. How would you handle all this? About my mom, etc? Thank you!

Question: I want to cut contact with my mother but I worry about her too much.. advice?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 09:04 AM PDT

I truly love my Mom. But she has torn me mentally and emotionally. I still have scars in my life emotionally and here I am now an adult. Growing up she woul do do so much to me that I still remember. Like tell me I wasn't beautiful inly my sister, tell my boyfriend he should talk to my sister instead of me and put me out for her dates and all types of stuff. She's never happy for me, she constantly compares herself to me. If I accomplished anything she go on to talk about her accomplishments and turn it on herself. She left my little sister on me when I was 19 and she was 9 months and married a new guy. I still have my little sister so therefore my life has been on hold. My mom still claims her and get food stamps and refund for her since she's been born she's now 10. I get no help whatsoever. I'm in school and about to graduate. My mom only calls me when she needs money and sometimes I give it to her because she comes up with lies about being sick, she's getting put out and all types of things. Ive suffered from depression for so long and now that I'm graduating I brought a 5 bedroom home and her and her husband lives in a hotel they can barely afford and wants to live with me until they get on my feet. I'm much happier when it's distance between us and I just want to work on mysellf. Im thinking of cutting contact for a year but worrying about her well-being. Any advice

Question: Do you think my parents should allow my niece independence?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 07:31 AM PDT

My mother raised my niece who is now 29. I am 23. She has a moderate learning disability and problems with reasoning and money, but she is mostly able to take care of herself. Instead of my parents allowing her to get her own housing, so that she can learn to live alone, they allow her to become dependent on either continuing to live with them or myself. Both of my parents expect me to arrange my life on what makes my niece comfortable. I don't agree with my parents on allowing my niece's feelings to control my life. I was going to move out of town for work, for example, but my parents tried to shame me for moving away from my niece. My parents don't even rearrange their lives to the extent that they are asking me to. My parents refuse to see that they are not treating my niece like an adult or even like a teenager. When I try to explain this, it turns into my parents calling me selfish and my niece crying and screaming. How will my niece function if my parents, who are in their sixties, or myself is unable to take care of her?

Question: My kids refuse to get a job?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 07:09 AM PDT

They both refuse to walk 15 miles twice a day(10 hours) 15 miles to get a job and 15 back everyday, no one hires them as neither own transportation or a birth certificate and ssn(I ripped theirs up 5 years ago). So is my plan good for them? I am their father. I don't want to teach my kids how to drive, but I do want them both to move out next year. They may not be mentally adults yet as that normally(from my experience as I am in my 50s) as that comes later on, but legally they will be 18 and 19 legal adults. My brother and sister keep mentioning how they think I am in the wrong. All I plan to do is kick my kids out next year, without them knowing how to drive. What is so wrong with that? The law does not say you have to teach your kids how to.

Question: Did I overreact to my stepson?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 07:03 AM PDT

My adult stepson has recently moved in with us (me, my husband and our 3 kids). My husband and I have 2 girls and one boy. Our daughters are 11 and 9 while my son is 6. My son sometimes has sleepless nights and I found out that when he can't sleep, he goes to my stepson's room and sleeps with him. I told my son that under no circumstances is he to do that again. My stepson overheard and wanted to know why I had a such a problem with it. I told him honestly because he was gay. Long story short, my stepson and I ended up in a screaming match where my husband had to intervene. My stepson now wants to leave because he says I pretty much accused him of doing something to his younger brother that he would never do. My husband is now mad at me as well. I can't help how I feel. Just a little context, my younger brother was molested at a young age by my uncle who also happened to be gay. Maybe I'm projecting...I don't know. But I just don't feel I should apologize for the way I feel.What should I do?

Question: We have a swimming pool and my son and his friend sometimes swim naked in it?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 07:01 AM PDT

His sister and her friends are having a sleepover and might be using the pool, Is it okay if my son and his friend still go naked?

Question: My sons mother wants to move to another state 1000 miles away and she want to take our soN what are my options!!??!??

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 06:24 AM PDT

My sons mother wants to move to another state 1000 miles away and she want to take our son.. He is nine years old. The first 6 years of his life we had 50/50 custody but the last three he has lived and went to school with me.. niether of us pay child support and we have never been to court before.l so there is no legal orders. What can i do?? What are my options

Question: My 14 year old son's friend (a girl the same age as him) was over at our house?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 06:20 AM PDT

I heard giggling coming from my son's room and I opened the door and they were both sitting on the bed naked. I sent her home and I don't know how to react to this What should I do?

Question: Are you friends wirh your inlaws on social media?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:23 AM PDT

I used to be friends with my sister and brother in law ,i tagged them in a joke to get them to talk but instead they said i was rude and disrespectful, it was a butterfly in the back becomes and buzzard in the crack . I asked my sister in law why she was with her other brother in a pic and she took me wronf said i made her afraid to post things but she always told my husband her two cents . She left me out of pics on her page once so i asked why and that did it for her so she has blocked me and bil too bc he does what she wants ,is anyone else like this but my mil is my friend lol

Question: My brother got arrested for DUI last night and my Mom wants me to go give him bail (she's out of town). How do I get out of this?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:05 AM PDT

It is his 6th arrest and 3rd DUI. He was also driving without a license. I don't want to bail him as I lose money and my Mom uses me to enable him. Yet, I don't like conflict with her so I always go along. She' says since I am the big brother I need to be the one to get him out since our Dad died. My brother is 22 and I am 28

Question: I'm invited to see a great-aunt who is visiting tonight. I want to see her but I am scared of my Mom who always insults my Dad, what do I do?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:03 AM PDT

My parents are divorced and my Mom devotes every visit to sharing dirt about my Dad. She will be insulting him to her aunt. Parents are divorced obviously but they divorced in 2001.

Question: How am I suposed to live with this?

Posted: 16 Oct 2017 01:18 AM PDT

I have been living in a two room apartment with my mother, grandmother and uncle for 20 years (room one for three of us, one for my uncle). I never had my own space, I was forbiden to stay in the bathroom or even balcony for time out when I needed it. My uncle has always used an oportunity to and interfare into my personal space. He kept opening the shelves with my stuff and checking it. He keeps picking for example my towel or my hairbrush and uses it in front of me demontratively. When ever I say that I don't like him doing this, that it makes me uncomfortable or when out of balance forbid him to do so, he says, he'll ask my mom and she will let him, that drives me nuts, because she always lets him his way. My grandmother still claims he's joking, but for me it's beyond being funny at all. My mother is on his side, because acoording to her our room is suposed to be a sitting room, therefore he can do what ever he likes. Now I have a new matress and he is eager to try it, the thing is, he doesn't wash himself propely, if he does that, my matrass will stink for weeks. I have no where else to go, no posibilities of renting, since I can't aford it. PLEASE, I NEED AN ADVICE!

Question: Should my dad have tricked me into getting a shot?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:52 PM PDT

My dad told me yesterday that we were going to have a day, just the two of us. Since he works a lot, and since I have two younger siblings, this is a really rare thing, so of course I was really excited to just spend the day with him. We were going to go ice skating. But before we went to the rink, he told me that he had to check on something at the hospital where he works. Like I said, he works a lot, he's a doctor, so this seemed normal, I went in with him, and then he sprung on me that I was getting a shot. I know that this doesn't seem like a big deal, but I am terrified of needles, I always have been. I can't stand getting shots, especially this one, which was the gardasil vaccine series. I had the first one in the series about six months ago, and I fainted after getting it. I told my dad that I didn't want to get the rest of the shots in the series since I fainted during the first one and that it hurt, but he said that he didn't care, that the vaccine is going to protect me against cancer, etc. He sprung it on me when we were already in his office, he snuck around and got the shot ready without me even realizing it was for me. He said that we weren't leaving for the rink until I got the shot. He made me lie down to get it so I wouldn't faint again, but then my arm still hurt for the rest of the day, and it still hurts today. It completely ruined what was supposed to be a fun day. I'm pretty upset with my dad for tricking me like this. Should he have done that?

Question: It is very common for people living in rural areas to sleep walk?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:38 PM PDT

I often find my friend's sister lying next to me in bed. I dunno why I always wake up at around 4 am. Maybe because of the presence of a person. Anyway, I woke her up and she told me she sleeps walk. Last night when she sleeped walked, I slept in her room.

Question: How do I tell someone I'm their kid?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:08 PM PDT

I'm serious. My mom told me, about 6-months ago who my biological father is, and I'm 20 and fine so I'm not looking for child support or whatever. I'm writing him a letter. I have no expectations.

Question: She keeps saying I look like a man?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:21 PM PDT

My sister keeps telling me i look like a ugly man or i can pass for a transgender. She always compares me to guys instead of girls and say i look like them. She says i should be gay and date girls because i wouldn't look right dating a guy. What ways can i improve my looks???

Question: Why do I do this?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:14 PM PDT

I noticed I do this an I'm wondering why you think... I have a close bond with a friend, she is older that me, she's a special friend. We get along great, she always describes or mostly shows how much she cares about me and always gets on my butt when t comes to tough love. One day she will make me feel like I'm special to her, then another day I freak out after having frustrated her a bit and I will start thinking she hates me and doesn't care about me anymore and what not.. (although in reality I know she does and she would seriously tell me if she didn't care, she's extremely blunt).. so I will make myself feel horrible to where I try to make her happy or impress her when really she never was upset.. then another day she calls me her sunshine or makes me feel like I'm someone special and then I began overthinking the next day if I did or said anything wrong to her in the conversation that would "make her want to hate me" so I will start freaking out again worrying if I she doesn't like me anymore.. why do I do that?

Question: If the 22 year old woman does move out of her mother’s home, does she have the right to sever contact with her?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:13 PM PDT

This question is related to the question about a 22-year old woman living with her mother who coerces her not to leave the house unless she goes with her brother. The mother who knows she has a driver's license and can drive well but used her just so she could drive her to places but forbids her to go anywhere else. The mother who threatens to bar her in the house and calls her a whore for going out and smiles when she watches her brother go out. also, that girl never did drugs or alocohol or anything promiscuous and got good grades but was coerced by her mother to be kept in the house. And can never go anywhere by herself. If that 22 year old woman moves out of such a house, does she have the right to sever contact with her mother?

Question: Is normal for a guy my age, 21, the have the burning desire of wanting to be a father?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:00 PM PDT

Serious question. When I was 15, I fell absolutely in love with one girl. So much that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. That love opened up so many avenues of who I wanted to be and the kind of person I wanted to become personally. All of my maturity development in the past five years stemmed from that. The one thing that opened up was the desire of being a father and a husband. For so long and still now, all I have ever wanted was to be a father. I wanted the experience and opportunity to raise a son or daughter. Nothing in this world ever fulfilled the thought of my heart more than this. Growing up, I had a very unstable relationship with my father and I still do. Mostly, I was bothered with way he behaved with my mom and with other people. He had a very tight ego and power trip over him. I f**king hated that. Recently, he got drunk and got upset with my mom and my sister. He went on a tangent and rage saying he is "f**king done with the family and leaving the house" I have been drunk before. I am not an asshole when I'm drunk. It made believe that no matter what, he would never change. My mom was such at an all time low, it was ******* traumatizing. She revealed that my dad had raised a hand at her and hit her. I made a deal with myself that I will grow up and be better than this piece of ****. That was one of the main reasons why I wanted to be dad. I want that now. Is that weird?

Question: Is this because of his age?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:57 PM PDT

I have an older brother, he's 22, and he's in the military. The problem I have with him is that he is just too honest. He never seems to care about people's feelings. Ever since he joined the military, he has became more and more rude to our family, which I can tell that he is the most honest with us than anyone else. He's always telling me what I should be doing with my life and he doesn't consider what I really am planning. Like today he said that I should be out walking more and looking for work (which is what I've been doing for awhile now) and says that I need to eat healthier. I told him that I know I am overweight (not obese) and he said that I'm getting close to being obese (which I'm actually not from what I've been told by friends and family along with what I've researched online). That is the rudest thing he has ever said to me and it really hurts. He does the same thing with my mom too. I don't understand why he has no respect. We have tried to ask him to consider other's feelings in a nice way and he just won't listen. I know that he truly does respect me and my family. He is a great brother and he always wants to be there for all of us. I just don't know why he just won't consider anyone's feelings. Is this because of his age? Is also because he's in the military (I understand that it's really stressful too.) Will he grow out of it?

Question: Dad touched me once inappropriately?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:56 PM PDT

I am 13 years old. Here's a bit of a backstory: My sister wasn't staying out of my room, so my dad let me use a lockable doorknob to keep her out. Thing is, we made an agreement that the key would stay on his car key holding thing. So, I went to unlock my door one time, got what I needed, locked it, and came back and sat on the couch, with the keys to my right. My dad said he needed to go to Walmart, so he came over and grabbed the keys, then got down and started rubbing my balls for around 5 seconds, then stopped. I didn't say anything, he just did it and walked to his car like nothing happened. I never told him to stop and I don't feel comfortable confronting him about it. I don't really want him to go to prison, because I've heard what they do to people like him, and I think of him as a best friend. Should I call the police (or my principal, school counselor, teacher, etc.) or just let it slide since this was just a one time thing and I didn't tell him to stop? Does this count as abuse? I told my mom and she just kinda laughed it off and said "Yeah, he just kinda does that." I am also concerned about what he might do to my 19 year old sister. She is cognitively disabled and trusts my dad very much. She doesn't like saying no to people, so I'm afraid she might let him do stuff to her. I just want to know if I should let this slide for the first time and do something the next time, or do something now? Thanks. Thanks for your replies. I'm honestly more scared for my sister than I am for myself. I have no disabilities, so I could move out when I'm old enough. But, my sister, being legally an adult, and having cognitive disorder, has to live with my parents forever as she is not able to support herself both financially and mentally. Also, I don't know if this is relevant or not, but another weird thing he does is he walks around the house completely naked. Sorry if it's not relevant, but it's the only other sexual thing I can think of...

Question: My parents won't let my teenager sister stay home by herself!?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:03 PM PDT

Hi, I'm autistic and in my 20s. I have a 15 year old sister. Let's call her Elizabeth! My parents won't let Elizabeth stay home by herself (by the way I live with my parents so I am part of the household, so I can't leave) My mom only let her stay home by herself for an hour, while my mom and I went for a walk, in the neighborhood. I asked my dad, why he wouldn't let Elizabeth stay home by herself. He said it's because he won't trust her, because he is afraid she will let the neighbors in. I talked to him and told him, that Elizabeth could talk to the neighbors and that she was willing. He still said, no! I don't understand, he told her he didn't want her to stay home alone, not even let her have a house key, because he thinks Sandy will let the neighbors in, yet Elizabeth said she was willing to talk to the neighbors. My mom says that Elizabeth has to get Dad's approval, otherwise, she would have let her stay home by herself. Please help! I tried to explain to him, that she won't survive on her own, and it's legal. My dad's like, "Well, I'm in charge of the house!" Please help!

Question: My parents exasperate me.?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:47 PM PDT

I'm trying. Really. I'm in a highly stressful week in my school year and they are just increasing my stress. My mom has this habit where she likes to tattle about every little thing that I do. She blames me for all her problems as well. My dad refuses to help me and only helps my brother. I'm just so stressed out right now and heartbroken with their insensitivity and willingness to hurt me. They are completely aware of what they are doing. I don't know what to do about it.

Question: I just need to vent?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:38 PM PDT

I'm a 16 year old girl and I'm just frustrated and tired. My mom is constantly crying because she believes my older brothers and sisters don't love her. My mom is a really good person don't get me wrong but she always likes to compare things and almost never recognizes the things her kids do for her. Anyways my brother also said some hurtful words to her 2 weeks ago and after then she'd just say that his words felt like a knife stabbed into her heart. My little sister went upstairs earlier and she was crying for god knows what reason. I'm just tired of all these family problems. I try to keep positive and not stress but it's just hard and I don't know what to do. Sometimes I wish I wasn't apart of this family!

Question: I'm 13 bro is 24. Im curious to see his private part im curious to see how mine will look at his age. how do i ask him if i can seehis penis?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:30 PM PDT

Question: Can you buy 1$ items on amazon?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:21 PM PDT

I've found something on amazon for around 3 dollars which looks pretty cool but my brother said amazon doesn't allow you to buy cheap items like this. He said you have to spend like 5$ or more is that true?? I'm trying to get this little poop emoji pillow for my little sister and every time I try to check out it won't let me is this the issue? Thanks for your time btw

Question: My parents took my gaming handheld away for no actual reason I could think of!?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:05 PM PDT

The one time I lay my 3DS next to me while I sleep I wake up the next day and it was gone! My dad said he took it and when I asked him why he said "because". I am absolutely FURIOUS with his reasoning!!! How should I go about getting it back? My parents took my gaming handheld away for no actual reason that I could think of?

Question: I keep hearing my mom and step dad having sex?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:05 PM PDT

And I told my mom before that it makes me uncomfortable and she gets all mad and says close your door it s none of your business and I really want it to stop but i don t want to say anything Becuase she will most likely ground me Becuase she ll think it s rude. Also I don t want to just block it out because if I get a baby sibling I m running away Becuase my mom is 46 and I m 14 and it will be really annoying to take care of. I m just mad rn probably won t actually run away just be reallllllly mad

Question: Can anyone help me wh there I should move to my dads house or stay with my mom?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:52 PM PDT

I want to be more productive and take respossibility for myself, I always let my mom do everything for me. I need to learn how to drive but it cost $350 for only six hours when I can get it free from my dad teaching me. The real reason why I want to move temporarily is to mainly learn how to drive and get my diploma. My job gym and my school will be so close. Meanwhile here it's not except for my job which is only 500 feet away. Other than that I hate buses and I get so exhausted doumg Fitness, school and job. Everything would be great if I can learn how to drive. I literally don't have anyone to show me when I'm with my mom. I don't see my dad very often since he works on the weekends? I think I would come back to my mom once I have the skills such as being more productive, responsibility's , learn how to drive and also finally get my GED. What should I do?

Question: My cousin boycotted her brother's wedding cause of a fight they had. She banned her kids from going. Is this child abuse towards the kids?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:46 PM PDT

The kids wanted to go and one, the youngest, was going to be flower girl. The cousin of mine had a fight with her brother. I don't know the issues though the cousin is sensitive and her brother moody. Nothing happened that is a threat to the kids though, just adult issues. So was it abuse for her to ban her kids from having fun at a wedding in order to get the obnoxious brother back? I ask cause my Mom used to do this to me when I was a kid and it hurt me a lot.

Question: My sister got drunk last night and she was real nice one minute and real nasty the next. Is this normal for a drunk 23 year old?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:46 PM PDT

She was also real goofy like a 4 year old.

Question: My grandmother informed me of something very bad her daughter did. Is it okay for a mother to do this since she was protecting me?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:42 PM PDT

She didn't want me to be hurt by the offensive actions of my aunt.

Question: When do you find it necessary to fight someone?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:37 PM PDT

My brothers girlfriend who I never met inboxed me calling me out my name called me the B word, called my daughter ugly, disrespected my dead mother, told me to kill myself, disrespected my nephew and his mother as well. She knew all of my personal business (my brother told her) and she through it in my face. She called me a broke B because I asked my brother for some money. My brother, the mother of his child, and the girlfriend all got into then the gf inboxed me talking crazy. I dont even live in the same state as them they all live in Wisconsin I stay five hours away. I want to drive that five fours and beat her A**. But check this out I had some of my female cousins and some of my friends in Wisconsin inbox this little girl (she 19) then she inboxed me and gone say "why are you sending people to my inbox to fight me" seriously she started this mess then she gone tell me to leave her alone all those extra people is unnecessary wth. I'm 28 its not a good look for me to be fighting a 19 year old but she really pushed my buttons when she talked about my child and deceased mother. I told and showed my brother the messages she sent and he had nothing to say I should be his A** too. I blocked the both of them on Facebook and I am so done with my brother. He's 37 by the way messing with a 19 year old I dont look at him the same he bogus for telling my business to her. The two years he was in jail I was the one who looked out for him then he gets out and put this chick before me.

Question: What do i do about my daughter?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:58 PM PDT

my daughter is a 14 year old troubled teen snd refuses to listen. she acts like shes a lot older, used to hang with the wrong crowd, is very mean towards me and her father but does not refuse to go to school. she has lost her sister due to meth and it kills her more and more everyday but her and her sister used to be around these people a lot together so she has easy access to it she always says she wants to get high and not deal with me and her father. shes not my ideal child to listen, want to go to college ect. she just says she belongs in the streets and misses her life with her old meth head friends. what should i do? and i do not let her leave the house only to school and back and anywhere else she needs to go she goes with me what should i do?

Question: Why do these things happen to me?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:55 PM PDT

I have numerous problems. can someone please help me with them? 1. Every time I watch rick and morty I pop such a hard stiffy that it bursts through my pants and scares the **** out of my dad. 2. When I'm angry at my brother I take a wet **** in his laptop and then close it 3. I saw my dog walking on his back legs so I went over and snapped the ***** bones 4. My sister keeps cheating on me with other family members/ scratch 'n' sniff stickers 5. When I'm sad I find comfort in slipping my dick between two cheeseburgers and then proceeding to **** a *****

Question: Why do my dad and family always choose my cousin's side?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:54 PM PDT

I'm an only child, and I've lived most of my life away from my cousins and other family. So, I have this serious problem where it feels like my whole family is against me and frankly, I think I'm just going to abandon them after I graduate from college. For example, the other day while we were having a family get together, my cousin insulted me under her breath and everyone started laughing. I didn't hear the joke, but I knew it was about me since she was looking my way and mumbling it. When I asked what the joke was, no one would tell me it since I'm "too young" (I'm 17) or they're "not a snitch". I kind of just stormed up to my room and stayed there for the rest of the night after that. Another example of this is my dad. My dad always takes her side no matter what. One day, she was insulting me all day in front of the entire family and I didn't say anything about it. The moment I finally tell her to shut up, I was scolded by my dad for being "disrespectful". Also, she opened my packages and wore the clothes I had ordered for my self with my own, hard earned money and when I told my dad about it, he didn't say anything to her or even mention anything. I'm considering just leaving my family now and just living my own life without them I really don't need them. **** them all. They're just toxic and biased as hell. Should I just abandon them? Does anyone have any clue as to why they're doing this?

Question: Are my parents responaible?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:38 PM PDT

My mom had me when she was 18, my dad has never been in my life. I spent a lot of time with my grandparents because my mom likes to go out. My mom has since re,arrows, and they have another kid. My parents like motorcycles, and having fun. They drink a lot. My mom and step dad got into bad accident and my mom was almost killed while they were drunk. I am 18 now, and my mom still likes the bars, she goes without my dad a few times a month. When she's at home, she drinks amd gets drunk every day...but she doesn't think she has a problem.

Question: Is it weird for a girl to have a foot fetish?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:27 PM PDT

I'm a 16 year old girl and I have realised that the only times I am feeling fine with myself is when I have a grown man used as a slave at my feet licking them carefully to make me feel relaxed. I have also discovered that punishing a man excites me, I like to slap them hard and watch them kneeling in front of me begging for mercy. My question is: am I wrong if I like to have slaves licking my feet? are there other girls like me? thanks!

Question: Help! I brought my wife from another country, so Thanksgiving is not her normal holiday. When we were married I had to work a bunch of...?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:26 PM PDT

OT and work would t give me off, so I had to marry the day after TG. Now we are having many problems over it because I want to have the big family TG like always, but she wants TG day to be with just her, and then the day after to be our own day again (anniversary). This eliminates the two days that most people get off for TG and now I have a very hard time scheduling my family TG. Am I wrong to want to have a day to be with my family? I told her we have two days and one of them can be just hers, but she won t see it like that. Please just give your honest thoughts, and she will be reading this. Thank you.

Question: My mom died and my dad is kicking me out. Is there anything I can do?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:24 PM PDT

I'm 18, and my mom recently passed due to chronic illness, and I'm sad by it everyday. Not only were we really close, my dad was a jerk my entire childhood, and she was the only person to defend me from my dad. My dad no longer has a reason from kicking me out of his house, and since I graduated high school, it's perfectly legal for him to do so. My half sister (she's a ***** who's my dad's little drone) wants to take my room, because she and her family want to move into my dad's house, and my dad is kicking me out. I'm trying to find living arrangements with some other people, but nobody can help me. I have a job, but me alone won't be able to pay rent for some shitty apartment, because I'm tied up with car payments. My girlfriend and I think we might be able to scrape off of our teeth if she and I lived together, but her job doesn't pay a lot either. My daughter's husband contacted me, and he says he feels really bad about it, and wants to pay me to help me down the road. The problem is, if my sister were to find out about that, he would be in some deep sh*t. I'm expected to leave by the end of November. Can anyone give me any advice on what to do?

Question: How to convince my parents to let me go on an 8th grade trip to Quebec?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:01 PM PDT

My parents are very over protective, but let me go on a 7th grade trip to camp not too far from the city I live in. But since this is out of the US, they're freaking out about it. I understand they love me and just want me to be safe, but I really sometimes wish I had my own independence. I want to go with my classmates as it's my last year of middle school and just to enjoy it. Next year I'll start high school and it will be no fun in games, just stress and work. My mom was talking about how if I were to go she would stay in the hotel we're staying even though parents are not allowed. It might seem bratty, but I won't want to go if she's coming along. These trips are meant to be strictly students only as we even talk about personal things. We even made a deal over the summer if I keep straight A's I get to go. I have all A's right now, I just have to keep them up. But it looks like she's breaking that deal (I'm not surprised). Please, how do I convince them to let me go on my own? By the way, teachers are coming and they will be very overprotective. By the way, I don't think this trip has a cost because of the school I go to.

Question: I was really thinking about this. Is it normal for brothers to see each other naked? What if I'm 13 and he's 23. But were brothers?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 05:59 PM PDT

Is it normal for brothers to see each other naked? What if I'm 13 and he's 23. But were brothers and never seen eachother naked? I was really thinking about this. Is it normal for brothers to see each other naked? What if I'm 13 and he's 23. But were brothers? But I want to see how mine would be when I'm his age? I was really thinking about this. Is it normal for brothers to see each other naked? What if I'm 13 and he's 23. But were brothers? An we've never seen each other naked

Question: Should I just apply at a grocery store or wait longer? Read details before answering please.?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 05:56 PM PDT

Ok I gone to Bartending School a few months ago I been looking for a few Bartending jobs but no luck, I'm not really close with my family that's why I'm thinking of just applying to the grocery store 20 minutes away but I know I also would regret not getting a Bartending job to cause that's what I took the classes for is to make drinks, but my family are making me so frustrated I might even cut ties with them when I move out, should I wait longer to see if I get a Bartending job or apply at a grocery store? I have experience with a grocery store but not Bartending, there are jobs that have no experience required though but they are a bit farther I can't drive yet but I'm taking the test Friday, I know my mom wouldn't drive that far so that's why I'm thinking before doing anything, I was about to apply to the grocery store right before typing this. I'm asking here because I don't really have people to talk to, I could go to my dad who doesn't live with me and text him but I already know he'd rather seeing me going to college, he didn't have the right to say that because he's never hung out with me much as a child mostly cause of drugs. Sorry if this was long didn't think it would be this long.

Question: My dad is very controlling of me and a little obsessed with me and depends on me, what should I do?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 05:48 PM PDT

I love him very much I know he loves me but I'm 20 years old I need to have my own life and I need to have my own family in the future without him controlling me, what should I do? Everytime I leave to go to my apt he gets so mad and upset and takes it to heart that I'm leaving because of him What do I do? Feel like I'm in a crisis? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03

Question: Can you love someone with out feeling the need to be around them or talk to them super often?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 05:27 PM PDT

I don't mean in love romantically, I just mean family or friend love.