My bf and i have been together for 9yrs. We have only been financially stable for about a yr, were saving for a house that we plan on buying next yr, however i have told him i dont want to live together till were engaged. And he took me on romantic vacation for my birthday last week and i really thought it was going to happen but never did. So now i feel like im just waiting, his brother and sister just got engaged earlier this year and im wondering if he doesnt want to "jump on the bandwagon".. or if he just dont want to get married

I've been in a relationship, long-distance, for four to five years. We've spent, roughly, a few days together once a year and are ready to commit. Our problem? I live in GA, and she lives in PA. How does one go about legally marrying someone? We just want to get it signed at a courthouse/have no actual ceremony, so I'm not sure how to go about this. The reason I don't fly up there to her/vice versa is because I'm not 18 yet (turning 18 in a few days) and we don't have the funds. She's 19, and I'm 18. We want a courthouse wedding, and then when we're financially stable we'll have an actual celebration/honeymoon. Both states offer courthouse weddings, but after looking up the specifics, we need to be living together/in the same state. We just want to get married since we're 99% sure this is a "forever" thing Of course, I just wanted to know for curiosity's sake. My mother used to say never marry someone until you've lived with them, and that's what I plan on doing.

My fiancé wants me to find a job, hold the job, save, and find my own place so when he arrives to the United States from his country on a visa, we will have our own place. Also, so he can have an address other than my parents' to put on the visa application. I live in the Bay Area of California which is a pretty expensive place to live. Finding a job will be no issue for me. Holding a job where I live which is 10 miles from work with no car will be an issue. Saving will be an issue. Finding my own place will be an issue. I feel like I could do what he wants me to do but it would be very difficult and I'm not sure if it's the right thing to do and for some reason I'm wondering if I made a mistake accepting his marriage proposal. I could move to Texas and work while living with my maternal grandparents. I could save, get a place, get a car and get married. But I'm just having doubts about accepting his proposal and I can't even understand fully why I'm having doubts. Something doesn't seem right to me?

Say that this spoiled rotten girl I don't like is getting married. No she's not an ex, I throw up in my mouth a little at the thought of anyone wanting her, shes just a person from a past circle of friends that I do not like with a passion. I know that she is getting married next saturday at a local park. Say that I put fake license plates on my motorcycle and wear a tinted helmet so no one sees my face. While she is standing with the groom and the minister, I ride by with a super soaker and blast her with a super soaker filled with orange soda, ruining the dress, her hair and makeup and drenching her, then I ride over to the tables and knock the wedding cake on the ground. Then I ride away. What kind of investigation would likely come of this? Could I get away with it?