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- Question: How do I deal with an egotistical, condescending friend?
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- Question: How to make my friend stop treating me bad?
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- Question: Why does he act like this...?
- Question: My friend is always touching me.?
- Question: Guy friend gave another guy a dirty look?
- Question: Is our relationship wrong?
- Question: Are they bullying/teasing me?
- Question: Do you think he meant this?
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- Question: What year did bic stop making ajustable lighters?
- Question: Is it bad that i still sleep with a 'comfort blanket' and im 13?
- Question: Females Never Seem To Take To Me. Plz Help?
- Question: Is it rude to bring a bottle Of wine to someone’s house and take it home after if there is still some left?
- Question: Would u be friend with someone who steals?
- Question: Is this rude?
- Question: Would you contact an old friend or sounds desperate?
- Question: I Dont Have Any Female Friends?
- Question: Can someone help me on what to say to an old friend?
- Question: My friend is copying me and it's really annoying!?
- Question: Friendship is dead after 16 years. How to move on?
- Question: Why hasn't she changed her profile picture?????
- Question: Did anyone never make friends in college? I have none and am about tograduate?
- Question: Do you think my friends would believe this?
- Question: My best friend is moving away and I can’t stop crying?!?
- Question: How long will it take to get my high school diploma mailed to me?
- Question: What do i do when my cousin cheats badly with his best friend?
- Question: Why would a girl after being friends then distancing herself, now say that "I can't promise to be friends"?
- Question: Was I wrong for doing sexy dancing at the club?
- Question: My best guy friend just told me and my other best friend that he likes both of us. What do I do?
- Question: My friend is using me to make herself popular?
- Question: Do bullies grow up to be successful? Does it really not get better?
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- Question: I have an autistic friend (don t ask how that happened) and she wont leave me alone! help me get rid of her without offending her!?
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| Question: Friend won’t pay me for babysitting her kid, what should I do? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 05:30 PM PDT I was babysitting my friends' kid overnight and in early mornings. She decided she was going to walk out on her kid and her husband because she was "sick of not being free" and her husband had asked if I couldn't watch their kid overnight again so he could get to work because his wife wouldn't come home and he had no one to watch her. So I said hell no. Tell your wife to stop being immature and start being a parent. She found out and now she's pissed off at me and refuses to pay me. Should I just chalk it up as a loss and move on? |
| Question: How do I deal with an egotistical, condescending friend? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 05:11 PM PDT I've known her for about five years now we're really close. The problem here is that she's "academically gifted", as she likes to describe herself and it's true. She's smart...and likes to make other people around her including me, feel like a lesser person next to her. Not only that, but whenever anyone brings up anything that has to do with school, she'll find a way to integrate her academic achievements into the conversation. One time, I brought up how I loved my English class and somehow, it turned into her talking about how she was student of the month and year in her middle school English class AND how she had an "above average" PSAT score. It pisses me off beyond words at how much effort she makes to show off and whenever I attempt to point it out, she'd make it seem like I was a horrible person for saying that she needed to tone it down on the bragging or that she was very condescending.I'm pissed at how big her ego is and that nobody seems to notice when she puts others down or when she brags about her GPA, her student of the month awards, how her teachers love her, that she has a "perfect memory" and her constant bringing up of Stanford and how she's "highly competitive" for a spot. I have many other friends I know are more academically accomplished than her and they are by no means as egotistical as she is which is why I can feel proud for them and I can't seem to be proud of her. My question is, how am I supposed to deal with her? |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2017 05:09 PM PDT He isnt rich or giving them taking care of them, just sex. Do we have enough reason to call him sweet dick? |
| Question: How to make my friend stop treating me bad? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 05:04 PM PDT My friend has been lashing out at me the past month. We are both juniors and school is a bit stressful. I am a pacifist and don't like engaging when others get angry and start sassing. Before she used to get upset over small things and I just ignored it, but this past month is worse. She's always complaining to me about either not caring about her insecurities enough, me trying to get working when she just wants to talk, or if I sit by another friend. She even forces me to be like her 'assistent', which I am now refusing because no.I keep telling her I'm stressed and need to work, but she just gets angry and pissed at me and starts being a (sorry) ***** to me. I've told my friend and she agreed that I wasn't being treated fairly. I don't know what to do, today when she was bickering about me sitting by my other friend at lunch, I said, "Really? Are you seriously going to do this right now?" And she looked startled. Since then we haven't spoken and I'm glad. Less stress and stepping on egg shells. I've told her many times I don't like being treated like this, but she doesn't correct it. What do I do? |
| Question: Isn't this so annoying? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:44 PM PDT Isn't it so ******* annoying when you see a new girl at school who's super popular and has so many friends? When I was new, nobody even cared! Ugh! I hate it when this happens! |
| Question: Why does he act like this...? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:36 PM PDT My boss is a man and I am a young woman, we have worked together about a year. It turns out that he is a person who is always very affectionate to me, strokes my hair very often, calls me "dear", winks the eye to me, laughs at my comments... However, on the other hand, he often and unecessarily scolds me for minor things (he does not do the same to others), sometimes he is unfair to me (he is not to other workers), and especially when he is in front of other workers he changes his attitude with me and treats me poorly, indifferently , sometimes answering me in an unpleasant way to my questions... while with others he is friendly, makes jokes, he laughs with them. And I don't understand it. Why does he treat me like that, not even wanting to look at me, as if I do not exist, when the others are around? |
| Question: My friend is always touching me.? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:08 PM PDT So last year my close female friend (I'm a female as well) used to touch me all the time on the boobs, butt, thigh or sometimes kissing my neck in a playfull way I would tell her to stop or just didn't care but this year (8th) grade she stopped doing that stuff until I went to her house and we were watching t.v and she was sitting on my lap I didn't mind because we're Close like that but I knew she was acting kinda weird already like more touchy than usual she was moving my hand so I was touching her Brest I didn't move my hand though idk why and then outta no where she just stuck her hand down my shirt feeling my boobs. I don't know how to feel honestly because she's religious she goes to church and reads the Bible and all of that stuff so she's kinda giving me mixed emotions. Is this normal ? Is someone wrong with me because I sometimes enjoy it? |
| Question: Guy friend gave another guy a dirty look? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:07 PM PDT I was hanging out with a guy friend of mine that I haven't hung out with in awhile. We ran some errands and just talked some about life and past relationships. When we got to the library however and another friend of mine was getting ready to leave. He greeted my guy friend before we went and eat down at a table. My other friend that's like a little brother to me decided to come hang out and eat down beside me. He gave my friend a dirty look and hardly talked to me before leaving shortly after. |
| Question: Is our relationship wrong? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:07 PM PDT I met this girl at a summer job.We got close and she confided in me about her sexual abuse as a kid. I wanted to be there for her and help her. I never minded giving her anything even physical comfort. I'd lay in her lap and let her stroke my hair and touch my face. She'd hold my hand and intertwine our fingers. She'd ask for hugs. Sometimes she'd get playful and bite my hand or lick food of my fingers. We sleep and cuddle closely (foreheads touching,head on chest) in the same bed at sleepovers, And I noticed she only does that with me. One day she asked me if I like someone. I said no.She replied "I think I've a crush on you.Is it weird?" Then another time she said I'm falling for you. She has a boyfriend and I eliminated the possibility of her liking me. Then we had a fight and she backstabbed me to our mutual friends:lying,sending screenshots, humiliate me etc. When we're alone, she says things like "youre addiction.Youre making it hard for me to move on, I can't get over you.But I can't trust myself with you." I'm an abused kid myself and I love the comfort. But I don't know whether she sees me the same, or more. |
| Question: Are they bullying/teasing me? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 03:27 PM PDT So recently it's started to feel like members of my friend group are attacking me. We've always been a group that makes fun of each other without actually meaning it but I feel like they mean it. I am a very antisocial person who prefers movies and my couch to going out. This has caused many issues with my friends. They make fun of me for staying home and call me grandma. They will say "hey do you want to go somewhere. Wait no. You don't." Without letting me answer. And I know that it gets annoying but to me that shouldn't dictate how good of friends you are. They've also started to make fun of my lack of driving. I've had my license for almost two months and no I haven't driven alone much. The reason being most of the places I want to go include going with my mom. I work with my mom and she teaches at my school. So unless there's a special circumstance, like she's sick, I drive with them. They make fun of me for that too. It's gotten worse because a friend of mine got her license last week and has already driven my friends places and such. I'm tired of them making me feel like crap. I constantly feel as though they don't really want me around. I can't leave them that's not an option. So are they bullying/teasing me? Or is it just me? |
| Question: Do you think he meant this? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 03:05 PM PDT He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, and he continues to constantly stare at me to the point that my friends and family notice. What does this mean? does he still have feelings? |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:28 PM PDT So I am in high school and it seems like I am not "living it up" so to speak, like everyone else. There are some girls and guys with big groups of friends and they're always hanging out/ partying with each other etc.. I have one best friend who I am with a lot and we hang out quite a bit. I also have a couple other friends who I am pretty close to but we do not hang out anymore (we used to). I feel like I should have more friends but I always feel like I don't matter. I have a boyfriend who I am very happy with, but nothing ever seems to be enough. A big part of me just wants high school to end so I don't have to worry about fitting in anymore. It's not that I don't get along with people, I do. Popular kids, band kids, I can talk to whoever as long as they talk to me first (another problem). I just can't get close with anyone (to the point where we would hang out and do stuff together) anymore. It was so easy when I was younger. Every year I lose more and more friends. Due to changing classes etc. In a way I'm ok with how things are and my life. But In a big way I'm not And it makes me really sad. I just don't know what to think of it or what I should do..if anything at all. |
| Question: How does adrenaline work? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:55 PM PDT I was ding dong ditching with my friend and a guy came out of his house and started chasing us down the street. I don't mean like slowly i mean like this guy was a high school track star. I felt so fast and i felt like i was running faster then i have ever ran. What in our bodies makes us have more endurance and more speed when we have someone chasing us and we are in danger? |
| Question: What year did bic stop making ajustable lighters? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Is it bad that i still sleep with a 'comfort blanket' and im 13? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:24 PM PDT I have had this blanket thing since i was a baby. my whole life. ive had it through the bad times and the good times. i remeber being scared and just clinging to this basically piece of cloth just because it smelt of comfort. I know people say " your getting older now, you need to strat growing up". my mum says its fine btu shes my mum so she would say that ! please im not going to get rid of it but it may help just to know that other people have comfort blankets or its just ok. Thank you! :) |
| Question: Females Never Seem To Take To Me. Plz Help? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:22 PM PDT Please dont judge me but I dont have any female friends. For some reason girls never seem to take to me. Honestly growing up in elementary school, I was in a group of female friends but I found out those same friends were talking about me & eachother. Once I began high school it changed me. I stayed 2 myself & didnt talk to anyone. I am now 23 yrs old & last year I told myself that I cant keep holding on to the past. In life you have to grow through things & God has really been helping me with that. I do carry myself in a different manner than others. Im mature, I speak proper, & Im creative. Im a sweet person but at same time I speak up need to be. Guys seem to always take to me personality wise & I can make friends with them in 2 seconds. But women just never ever take to me. I do speak & try different things but it doesnt work. I refuse to FORCE anything because I know that nothing is wrong with who I am & if something is meant to be then it'll happen. But I do admit that sometimes it bothers me. I see everyone else with female friends. All except me. I feel as if over the past year I have learned to loosen up, make conversation, & attemp friendships. But thats just that Is there any insight or tips from anyone on here? Thank You. |
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| Question: Would u be friend with someone who steals? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:11 PM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:09 PM PDT My friend comes to my house and I always serve food and drinks to her and her husband. Occasionally she will bring some snacks or drinks to share, but then always takes it home with her! Idk why but I find this a little cheap and rude... what do you guys think? |
| Question: Would you contact an old friend or sounds desperate? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 01:08 PM PDT Had an old guy friend who I missed talking to everyday. I used to tell him everything which now know was not a good idea. I have depression and my son has autism. I told him one day a year ago that my son ran out to the road when we got out the car. He told me that s because he is throwed off like his mama. I took strong offense and told him never to contact me again. Of course he called me more than once to apologize. Now am missing that friend and want to talk to him again. Is it a good idea to Facebook him or that would be desperate and I shouldn t want to? |
| Question: I Dont Have Any Female Friends? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 12:05 PM PDT Please dont judge me but I dont have any female friends. For some reason girls never seem to take to me. Honestly growing up in elementary school, I was in a group of female friends but I found out those same friends were talking about me & eachother. Once I began high school it changed me. I stayed 2 myself & didnt talk to anyone. I am now 23 yrs old & last year I told myself that I cant keep holding on to the past. In life you have to grow through things & God has really been helping me with that. I do carry myself in a different manner than others. Im mature, I speak proper, & Im creative. Im a sweet person but at same time I speak up need to be. Guys seem to always take to me personality wise & I can make friends with them in 2 seconds. But women just never ever take to me. I do speak & try different things but it doesnt work. I refuse to FORCE anything because I know that nothing is wrong with who I am & if something is meant to be then it'll happen. But I do admit that sometimes it bothers me. I see everyone else with female friends. All except me. I just recently ended an 7 yr friendship w.my only female friend because of my own reasons. Long story. Is there any insight or tips from anyone on here? Thank You |
| Question: Can someone help me on what to say to an old friend? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 11:53 AM PDT Well we haven't been friends like we used to for over a year because we had a falling out, because of me paying more attention to a guy and her not telling me when she was mad at me and what she was upset about, so i didn't know i was upsetting her, but it turned into a fight and i have missed her ever since and its always so tense when we work together but we talk and joke together sometimes. About 8 months ago i messaged her a loonh message and apology and she read it and never replied to this day. I am not involved with a guy in anyway now, but she seems to be doing well without me. We used to not even look at each other at work but its gotten better., soon its basically only gonna be us at work and i wanna try and make it less tense and talk to her about it all but its been so long and im not sure what to say to her or how to say it. I just wanna tell her im sorry we couldnt have been better friends this past year and i wanna say more but i dont know what else to say. I wanna know if you guys think i should even try ? And if you do think i should what should i say? Thanks in advance for all your answers |
| Question: My friend is copying me and it's really annoying!? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 11:13 AM PDT I've noticed that my friend has been trying very hard to be like me. She does everything I do and starts to like everything I like. She listens to the same music as me and apparently has the same hobbies too (drawing, reading etc). It's really annoying. I don't get a chance to be myself because someone else wants to be like me. I want to tell her that it is very annoying but I don't know how to do it without offending her. She gets mad and sad very quickly. I couple of months ago I decided to change my clothing style (because I wanted my own unique style). I started wearing vintage tees and high waisted jeans, and she started wearing that too. One day I went to school with a vintage hoodie. Next day she wore one too! And the day after that and so on. I also mentioned that I wanted to work at NASA when I grow up or become an astronomy scientist. And then she said the same. I gave up on NASA and astronomy because I want to do at least one thing without she doing it too. So I said that I want to go to art school and then become a Disney animator. Two days later she wants to do the same. She's obviously obsessed with me and it is the most annoying thing. I can't be myself and I can't be unique if she continues like that. What should I do? When I said that I started wearing high waisted jeans and vintage tees I didn't say that I came up with the style. I hate to say this but if your answer contains something like: "it's the whole point of friends ship" or "you're overreacting" then you're not really putting yourself in my situation. Imagine not being able to be yourself. Imagine inventing something and then someone else says that they came up with the idea first. |
| Question: Friendship is dead after 16 years. How to move on? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 11:08 AM PDT It feels like they're dead. I can't ever speak to them again because of how they treated me and my child and the things they said about her are unforgivable. I miss our friendship but I know I can never allow this person back in my life after this. I miss what our friendship was so badly and it feel like a part of my soul died. How do I move on from this? |
| Question: Why hasn't she changed her profile picture????? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:52 AM PDT I had a bestfriend for 4 years, and I noticed that she would change her Facebook profile picture all the time. But she kicked me out of her life in February after a big fight, and she even deleted me on Facebook. But I've noticed she hasn't changed her Facebook profile picture since February. Why hasn't she changed her picture????? She used for changes it all the timw |
| Question: Did anyone never make friends in college? I have none and am about tograduate? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:51 AM PDT |
| Question: Do you think my friends would believe this? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 10:08 AM PDT I was at a restaurant waiting to be seated for lunch with 2 of my female co workers. Walking out of the restaurant was this gorgeous woman. She had a figure to die for. 36G would be my guess. She was showing a lot of cleavage. She came over to me and gave me a hug and said "It is great to see you again George. How have you been"? We just talked for a few minutes and then we were seated in the restaurant. Just before we parted, she gave me her card and said "let's have lunch some time to catch up on old times". The last thing she said was "We sure had fun in the back seat of your car when we were in high school didn't we"? My co workers immediately said who was that beautiful woman. I told them it was an old high school girlfriend from 20 years ago. They wanted to know what I was doing in the back seat of my car with her. Can someone suggest a answer to their question that would not make me look bad to my friends? I think everyone reading this knows what I was doing in the back seat of my car but I can't tell them that. I thought I might tell them we were reading the bible. Do you think they would believe that? |
| Question: My best friend is moving away and I can’t stop crying?!? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 09:43 AM PDT So, recently I found out my bestest friend was moving away. Let's just call her Jade. Jade lives on the other side of my town as me and we see each other often. So when I was in school, Jade moved to my school. We were also going on an overnight school trip and I was sharing my dorm with her. I didn't really like Jade that much but once I got to know her properly at the trip, we immediately became besties. We would text each other all the time, go to each other's houses often and hang out with each other all the time. It's been two years since that happened and we've recently moved to a new high school. I partly just went to that highschool so me and Jade could stay best friends until university and further. p.s I don't have ANY friends at my new highschool because most people are from the same school and already have groups they hang out with. So it's been a month now and I went to Jade's house for dinner. And that's when she told me she was moving away. I immeadiatley felt heartbroken and that all our memories and plans in the future were crushed. She's not moving too far and just a 40 minute distance from where I live. She's also moving school too, which makes me even more heartbroken as I won't have anyone to hang out with and also just she was my bestest friend I've honestly ever had and it hurts my heart to see her go. I'm happy for her though, and her new house is way bigger and better than her other one (rest in comments) |
| Question: How long will it take to get my high school diploma mailed to me? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 09:06 AM PDT The reason why im asking this is because I don't want to walk on graduation, i hated high school i have no friends, people who pretended to be my friends lied to me countless times and made fun of me. |
| Question: What do i do when my cousin cheats badly with his best friend? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 09:02 AM PDT |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:40 AM PDT Before she used to always talk to me and give me signals that she liked me, but now she gives me cold turkey and just behaves strange. I asked her why, and she just said "that I can't promise to be friends" |
| Question: Was I wrong for doing sexy dancing at the club? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:29 AM PDT My friend is total prude and she got mad and said she wanted to slap me for being light skin? |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2017 08:27 AM PDT We're all really close and they're both my best friends. I kind of had a thing for (let's call him Sam) but I didn't want to say anything because I didn't want to ruin our friendship and I actually really like our friendship. My other best friend (let's call her Emily) means so much to me and I don't ever want to lose her. She said she doesn't know if she likes him but I think she's just saying that to be nice. Anyways Sam said it over text and now we're all shocked and I don't know what to do. They're both my best friends and I don't just wanna say Bros before hoes because he's not a hoe he's one of my bros. But at the same time I wouldn't mind dating him. Someone help me. |
| Question: My friend is using me to make herself popular? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 07:48 AM PDT I have 5 friends. We are all girls but one girl in the group likes to single me out and pick on me. She says rude things about me and says she is just joking every time. We were all sitting at the table and she whispered to my other friends something.Then she tapped me and said" Can you go sit over there?" pointing at an empty table. They all burst out laughing when she asked.She was trying to hold in there laugh. I asked her why, she said she had another friend coming over. I sat over there and her so called friend never came. When she meets someone new, she introduces them to our group and she always have to say something rude about me only me. I stopped hanging with them a long time ago but she still talks about me to everyone. Like we were having a school meeting and I sat by a table next to them (not close near them) and I heard my name and this random girl i don't know who is friends with her asked "who is that?" and my old friend pointed to me and they both laughed. I miss my old friends but she has ruined my relationship with all my friends. And whenever her friends are not around she comes and sit nexts to me. |
| Question: Do bullies grow up to be successful? Does it really not get better? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 07:34 AM PDT My bullies are now in their 30s and have great careers and families while i, the nerd still lives at home and has no career. Are our bullies in high school actually better than us? It didnt get better for me, yet it has for them? |
| Posted: 25 Oct 2017 06:17 AM PDT It's been going on almost a year that I've been hanging out with a married friend and we both attracted to each other and have a lot of un hang out together - I call it off a couple weeks ago and have no contact with him because It's too painful to hang out and can't move to the next stage. So I believe I did the right thing. I can't be friend with him. Agree with me? I appreciate your advice |
| Question: How do you stop making people make fun of you? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:58 AM PDT Hi guys, me and boyfriend recently broke up but then got back together a few days later. Whilst we weren't together his friends FaceTimed me and called me names, you may find this funny but they called me "nanny McPhee" and I had no idea why, then I met up with them and told me they called it me because of my tooth and I explained to them why it was like that, all my other teeth are straight apart from one but it doesn't look bad like hers in the movie. You might think I sound pathetic but I know it's a joke but I don't want them to continue calling it me. I want to tell them to stop but I'm worried they will make fun of me even more and I don't want to lose them as friends. I have had no previous comments on my teeth apart from these guys, it's something I can't help and I want to get them sorted. Can someone help please? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03 |
| Question: Why are people (not all but so many) so stupid? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 04:45 AM PDT I feel even guilty saying someone is stupid, but when I look around me everyday that is all I see and hear. At my office I have my colleagues who are always complaining, making rude comments, unwilling to see facts and just depend on feelings, make rude sexual passes or jokes, every has gang mentality. They even dare to tell me that there is something wrong with that I don't enjoy the things they like. People I meet outside of work are rather similar who just want to sit around and talk about stupid stuff, gossip just to pass time and make their life seem better. Sometimes I feel like people even get offended when serious topic that matter are raised whether it is personal or social topics. no one wants honest advise or solution, but just someone who would roll in the mud with them. I am not saying I am all that but this is something that I am observing and have been for a while. I now don't hang out with friends anymore as I am tired of pretending I am cool with this. I am choosing to just be quiet around my colleagues. But I feel a bit alone these days. I do talk to people about random stuff but I don't really talk about meaningful matters and think I feel about, I basically don't open up to anyone. I feel like I have no one to talk to, let alone someone I could be attracted to and be my life partner. I am not sure if I am what is wrong here or the rest of people around me. I have no problem with solitude but when its too much like it is now I am concerned. |
| Question: Husband can't attend best friend's wedding.? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 03:48 AM PDT My bff went all out for my wedding, her fiance helped during the reception to make things go smoothly and I was looking forward to being able to return the favor on her day. My husband just found out he has a work event he is not allowed to miss. In the 15 to 20 years of this event only 5 people were able to get it off. I don't know how to tell her. Im so worried it's going to hurt her feelings. I'm not sure she'll completely understand why he can't get it off when it's 9 months away but even if she does and doesn't say anything i think it will still make her a little sad. They aren't super close but it's one of those things where she wants people to be apart of the day ( not selfishly just to celebrate with her). Like I said both her and her fiance made sure to help us and I feel terrible we both can't be there... it's also 4 hours away so he can't do a half day and still make it. I of course will still be there helping anyway I can. I really don't know how to approach it to best make her understand that this isn't him snubbing her or to make it so she isn't hurt by it. Any advice? |
| Question: Im 14years old and have no social life.? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 03:00 AM PDT im 14 and i have NO social life. at school i have a 2 close friends and the rest are aqquantances. my two close friends don't even talk to me on messages but they talk to each other... so i guess that made me feel quite lonely. i also always see people hanging out with friends and posting it on social media and i can't help but feel really envious of them. i want to hang out with my friends but they all have their own friends (I've never had family friends because my dad never liked them since he always had so many) . when i did sports, i would always be really awkward and shy since i am quite introverted (and lack social skills). even at school, i try to meet some new people who i can hang out with but they all have their own friendship groups that re REALLY tight. also i am quite overweight and have acne, glasses and am soon getting braces- I've heard people laughing at me in gym class making me really down) so i resorted to making friends online, even then i was always having to reach out first. i really want to go out and have fun but i don't know what to do... |
| Question: I told a guy online I'll be his friend forever but he is toxic? Posted: 25 Oct 2017 02:59 AM PDT |
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| Question: All my friends are so mean to me. HELP!!? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 10:39 PM PDT All my friends are so mean to me. I didn't even do anything. During lunch, I won't even talk to them and they just call me white trash and make fun of me because I'm white. My other friend is mean to me too. She'll just tell me that I'm fat and ugly and that I don't look good. On picture day I come to school and she told me I looked bad. And then she kept trying to take pictures with me! My other friend is a ***** to me too. She looks at me like I'm dumb all the time. Today I was trying to be nice to her and I was like "who are u waiting for" and in the most immiture rude way, she goes "my OTHER friend." Like sorry. Then I was like don't talk to me like that and she was like all sassy. I don't know why I make the shittiest friends. And that's not all, there are so many more! I already have severe social anxiety and making friends is difficult enough. Please just give me advise. I don't want to be friendless my birthdays in a month. |
| Question: Why do people use bullying as a method to stop being friends with someone? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 10:05 PM PDT When they don't want to no longer be friends with someone why do they start to bully their friend? |
| Question: My friend is following me from high school and i hate it? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:54 PM PDT I just started University, hoping to meet new people and get out of my small town and just be me and do things i feel are important. recently, my best friend from high school, a stoner drop out has been coming to the city i go to school in to smoke with people he knows here and crash at my place every night. every time i tell him he needs to stay somewhere else, I'm the bad person. he just told me he wants to come here to start community college through some program and wants me to get an apartment with him. i said "no" and he just doesn't get it. he says I'm a dick, but i honestly don't want to live with anyone else, especially not him, because he will smoke the place up and bring over trashy people. i just don't know what i want to do. i don't want to lose a friend, but i really need to distance myself |
| Question: When will good thing happen to me ? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:52 PM PDT Well I'm suppose to be the 7th son in the family, why is it that I always **** and friends are not talking to me even though me are in the same team. No invite but then when season start they talk to me. I do know that's it's part of life but I feel like this ain't normal everyday at brunch and lunch I'm by myself and ain't going lie I'm well known in school but I don't care about that I care about how my friends treat me and how girls always say no to me like my world is comming down I don't know how long I can keep going I feel like I'm unless. |
| Question: Suspicious “friend”? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 09:37 PM PDT Do you ever get this feeling like a friend is just lying to you over stupid things? Like you just can feel they are but you know if you ask, it would only start trouble? Last time I knew my friend was lying but, she claimed it was to protect me because I was going through a lot. And then she lied over FB. Idgaf about being removed as a friend from FB, I just wanted to see if she would lie about it as I've caught her lying before. And she tells me someone overtook her account and she was unfriending everyone. I started laughing, because it was such a stupid lie. (She thought a post I posted about was about her, it was one of those funny ecard posts btw. Smh) The only thing that's ever really bothered me with this friend is the lying. & idk, most of it I just laughed & let go. But somethings I just really want 2 keep asking about until she tells the truth. But she normally likes 2 say I make her feel guilty or I make her feel bad. Because I asked about a situation I felt suspicious of because she was obviously lying about? Sounds more like a guilty conscience & she only feels bad because she was caught. I mean, I guess I just keep her as a "friend" because obviously I cannot trust her & I'm kind of wanting to see what her deal is. I just would like her to tell me the truth, its not like I'm going to threaten to never be her friend or speak 2 her again. Which she's threatened me with. She's like much older than I am btw & we are both adults. Anyone else have same experience? |
| Question: Why is a dead person keeping me alive? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:57 PM PDT There's this guy... he's a friend of a friend of mine... he killed himself in June. Whenever I get depressed, he'll pop into my head. He even shows up in my dreams if I'm sad. I don't get it. I never met this dude. Why is this happening? |
| Question: What ethnicity does he look like? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:46 PM PDT |
| Question: My friends are toxic? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:43 PM PDT I have two main friends. It's the three of us a as a friend group. Always has been. Recently both of them have gotten closer, even though I've known (let's call her E) for 8 years. (Let's call the other one C) I guess you could say is the more "dominant" one. E just follows C around everywhere, and I don't try to fight for E because I'm not childish like that. It turns out both of them don't care about me, or rather, they're not so much as friends as I thought they'd be. They planned an event together and even after I found about it, they made excuses about why they couldn't include me (but then they started inviting other people). I know if I part from them, they're just gonna get salty and talk about me in my presence. Any advice on how to deal or how to move on in a healthy way? |
| Question: How to feel more comfortable with my co workers? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:39 PM PDT I am a new cna who always trys my best to provide exceptional care and i guess it is getting noticed. Sometimes i over hear the other aids talking bad about me making lies. I think its a incercuirty thing because allot of them are very lazy.everyone in the nursing home always gossips and talks trash about eachother. I keep to myself allot but its starting to get to me. Idk what to do |
| Question: Is my friend a bad friend? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:29 PM PDT My friend Sam (let's just called her that) use to be really nice and understanding and we've been friends since 5th grade and now we're in high school. For some reason, she have been mean towards me and some of our other friends. We always called each other names and insults each jokingly, but Sam have taken it too far. I feel like she has gotten meaner over the summer. She would call me and one of our friends an idiot or stupid when we say something wrong ESPECIALLY to one of our friends, kim ( let's just called her that). When kim brings snacks to school, Sam would order Kim to give it to her and kim would give it to her nicely. When Sam brings snack and kim ask for it, Sam would make her beg for it. Sam used call me and Kim trashy bc of how we use to look last year. Me and Kim use to have so much acne last year and now they're all gone and I basically had a glow up. Sam doesn't know how to do her hair and would make me do it. There was one time where I said to Sam while I was doing her hair that I can't believe she doesn't know how to do her hair in a jokingly way, and she said at least I know how to do simple math unlike you. She keep saying how some high schooler know her name now and it's getting annoying. We hangout with the same of these girls who are pretty popular I would say. She's nice to them but act shitty towards me, kim, and one of our other friends. I want to talk to her about it without causing any stir. How can I do that? |
| Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:28 PM PDT Have you ever thought, "I have friends, but I just want a pen pal sort of person to talk to who doesn't live in the same state as me." Or something like that. I just want a ln out of state friend I could talk to or someone I could get to know. Not a creaper I swear |
| Question: I have online friends.. and it's so awkward talking to them? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:06 PM PDT like I get online friends, we get really close, and we video call or like call each other, and it gets really awkward... like that awkward silence, or having to adjust mics because one cant hear them.. ugh. It's so freaking awkward! So I had this experience with this girl, and we called each other. She couldn't hear me well because my mic had a problem or something. I tried to fix the problem, she still couldn't hear me. Now that's awkward. So I just play it off and say "oh, my sister is playing loud music! we can't talk. let's just type..." like wtf?! Is that not awkward enough?! How do I start talking to my online friends without having so many awkward experiences like these? I just don't feel comfortable anymore. |
| Question: Am I being rude by ignoring her? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 08:00 PM PDT She goes to a different school from me about 15 minutes away. We have a one class together, because she is taking medical class, which only our school teaches, and they get transported here. I was in the 6-7 period class, but schedule got moved, so I have 3-4 now. I only have a person, I know in there, and we sit in the same table with the girl. My friend, who would not admit, he's catching feelings for her, but it is obvious, because he always telling me stuff about her and stuff. She, on the other hand, I'm not sure, but flirt a lot with my friend and I. My friend, who has never been in a relationship, doesn't play back, but I do a lot. Lately, I been feeling she is clingy and acting different around me, ignoring my friend a lot. I realize that I made a mistake, and I don't want to be a co*kblocker like that, so I decided to ignore her and just tell her to quit bothering me, which she did. Since then, she hardly talks to me, and started to talk with my friend now, and it makes him really happy, and honestly I'm glad for him. Here and then, she would try to start a convo with me, but I usually just answer with 1 word. What do you guys think? |
| Question: If someone tells you to leave them alone should you? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:56 PM PDT I told my best friend that I had feelings for him and it didn't go how I thought it would. He said that he was confused, that he thought we were just friends and he wasn't trying to understand me at all. He's been distant, hasn't been really responding to my texts or calls or invites. He asked me to leave him alone and I just can't handle it. We have mutual friends, and everyone including him keeps talking about him and his new girlfriend and it makes me want to cry. Everyone likes her, everyone thinks she's stunning and this amazing person.. I just can't stand it. I don't know why I can't like her. I just don't get it? Why would he choose her over me? How do i win him back? :( |
| Question: Do girls try to find boyfriends entirely as status symbols to impress their girlfriends? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:55 PM PDT so they won't think she's a total loser no guy will date? |
| Question: Roommates secretly planning to move out? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:51 PM PDT So, my roommates (my best friend and her fiance) are secretly planning to move out. They don t know that I and my other roommate know, but they told a couple of other people about it and those people told us. I want to talk to my friend and tell her that I understand, that she wants to start a new life with her fiance and I get it, etc. because I m sure she s just been dreading telling us. I also think, based on what their friends said, that they were planning to just kind of up and leave without telling anyone. How do I go about talking with her about this? I also have no idea if they're planning on paying the bills when they leave, which is also why I need to figure out how to talk to them 😂 |
| Question: Is it okay that im quiet in one of my classes? Posted: 24 Oct 2017 07:47 PM PDT So im pretty talkative. But somtimes i can just be more reserved in my math class. I know people in there but i just dont make lots of effort to start up conversations because its one of my worst subjects so im really trying to focus. Everyone around me are really close friends and its hard to get in on their groups. I always get stuck in situations where im placed next to people who are already so close so there like who tf are you? XD i have friends in all my other classes except my math class. I make conversations but not as much as i would like. The teacher jokes around with all the students except me and like some other kids who dont really talk much either. It bothers me that im real quiet in this class cause normally im not a quiet person? Tips on how to make conversations with new people? I am in a low math class where i am in all AP or honors classes for my other subjects. so its almost like a whole different world in this class because of the level of knowlege. So its all students who are slow to learning. where im not in classes like that all day so its weird coming into this class where i dont have many friends cause all my friends are in honors classes. |
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