Family: Question: What do I when I hear my parents have sex?

Question: What do I when I hear my parents have sex?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 02:13 PM PDT

So I've talked to them about because they can hear me crying, and they say it's completely normal. Yeah, I think so too but am I the only one who finds it rude?! (Btw, my room is close to theirs and they still close their door) Sometimes I get angry, too. I think it's even worse when they do it in the middle of the day. LIKE IM STILL ALIVE!

Question: These two boys are being creepy?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 02:07 PM PDT

My Son has two friend who have interest in our daughter Amnda. Amanda is 8 while the two boys are 9 and 10. Amanda had on a a very short dress which the younger boy told her she looks pretty in her dress as well as he thinks she is really pretty. The other boy is crude and laughed at her dress and said he wants to see her get another spanking wearing it. This boy unfortuantely did come running in with our Son last Sunday when Amanda was across Dad's lap getting a spanking. He wants to see her get spanked again cause he knows that Amanda white panty will show due to her dresses shortness. Shoudl I be worried about either of these boys? Are they creepy?

Question: My father is cheating on my sweet mother hardcore?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:47 PM PDT

I'll try to make the story as compact as possible. 2 years ago I went through my dad's phone because I was suspiscious about him since he always watches porn. I find out he is dealing with prositutes. I speak to him about it a month after finding out. He brushes it off. I then tell my mother after a year. A big fight ensues. My mother who is rather naive forgives him or in is indenial and brushes it off herself. Today I go on his email because he has information from a website concerning directly linked to his account (I'm 21). So I changed the password to the website so I can log in. I find out that he is dealing with swingers, sending penis pictures (hes around 60), meeting up with prostitutes. And actively seeking woman for all types of relationships. The problem is he treats my mom horribly, especially given the fact that he is doing these things. What should I do as a 21 year old person who is financially dependent on him? I truly just feel for my mother.

Question: My wife wants to get a surrogate but I want her to carry our children?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:37 PM PDT

My wife is scared of pregnancy and how she'll lose her figure, etc. I told her those are the sacrifices she will have to make but she refuses to do so. We have been wanting children for 2 years now and we're finally ready but she's the only thing holding us back. She insist we get a surrogate but I want her to carry our first child. We can't seem to come to an agreement and I'm at my wits end. What do I do? How do I convince her to carry our children?

Question: If your cousin has a baby does that make you an uncle?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:21 PM PDT

Because i know it seems confusing because i am from india and in my culture if my cousin has a baby i am an uncle because my cousin just had a baby girl i have niece But in american culture if your cousin has a baby that makes it your first cousin i am still confused because i want to make sure are you an uncle if your cousin has a baby because in my culture it is different than american culture because i am in uncle if my cousin has a baby but in american culture your cousin's baby is your first cousin

Question: Phone confiscated at 16... Fair?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:12 PM PDT

Hello! I am a 16 year old female, attending both college (full-time) and highschool. I am also in Martial Arts, and have responsibilities there. Now I am getting things done at a steady rate, I am not falling behind in anything... But this isn't fast enough for my Mom. She confiscated my phone, and I can only use it when I am out of the house (means I am cut off socially, most of my friends are out-of-state)... Without sounding like a spoiled brat, is this completely fair? I have a hard time looking at things objectively sometimes, especially when I'm upset. Thanks. :)

Question: I'm a 21 year old girl and feel suicidal?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 12:57 PM PDT

My father has always been abusive, but it's getting worse. He's always cursing me out, telling me I'm not loved, cursing my mom out who doesn't have any money because she was a housewife. I have no money, no job, no transportation. I was an A student but crashed my car and ever since then I've had a hell life. I'm literally thinking that there no way out of here. My last job, my dad took all of my money and spent it and threatened to let go of his job if I didn't give him the checks. I literally feel sick to my stomach thinking about all of this. He said I deserve to die and I shouldn't have been born that way he could be a bachelor again. He said he wasted his life raising kids and literally my siblings and I are so kind to him. I don't know why he hates us. I'm feeling so broken. Please help me. I see nowhere out. I want to get out of here and take my loving mom who is a heart patient and my 2 siblings.

Question: Why do some people only imagine girls getting hurt?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 12:55 PM PDT

When the news report a child who was raped or killed, people are more likely to imagine a little GIRL, not a boy. They're also likely to imagine the offender to be a man, not a woman or an older child who's a girl. Sex trafficking has always been a big problem as well. There's so much evil in this world, but some individuals only imagine females being the victims. Oftentimes, a young girl is an example of a dangerous scenario.

Question: Am I a asshole on my birthday?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 12:38 PM PDT

I just turn 26 and on my birthday I like to watch horror movies since my birthday is one day way from halloween. So, I found a silent movie called "The call of Cthulhu" and my family watched it for about 15 minutes before my parents said "ok, enough of this lets watch a real movie." And switch movie to "Big Sick". So, I got bored earlier in the movie and left. Now my parents are calling me a asshole for leaving my own party. Are they correct or are they asshole from taking my party from me?

Question: How can I tell my divorced parents to see a family counselor? Also, how do I tell my dad and stepmom to also see a counselor?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 12:38 PM PDT

My biological mother and father are divorced, but still fight just as much as they did when they were married. My dad and stepmom also argue a lot, and it's not healthy the way they argue. I talked to my previous counselor about this, and she said the way they fight is not healthy, although arguing is healthy in a relationship. Please help! I personally don't need to see a counselor anymore, but I don't feel comfortable hearing them argue (both bio and step) and talk bad about each other (bio parents). I've already confronted them about this, but they don't seem to listen or care.

Question: Will the government help arrange a place to stay for someone that got kicked out of their home and is unemployed even if they're 25?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:57 AM PDT

We are planned my on kicking out our 25 year old son because he's a bully to us and his siblings, but we don't want him to be out on the streets, so will the UK government help him find somewhere to stay?

Question: How to get my mom to understand what I m going through?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:56 AM PDT

My dad is in the military and we just moved to a new state. I spent three years at a different school and I moved the summer before my senior year. So I don really have any friends here and I m extremely stressed and depressed all the time. I know my mom is stressed about this move too, but she s been extremely rude and angry at me for no reason. I try to help out at the house a lot but she still always yells at me for not helping. How do I explain to her that I m really not happy here and how do I make her understand?

Question: Is my mom overreacting, or was I rude?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:46 AM PDT

I went to a science show with my son *Bob(7yrs) daughter *Cindy(2yrs) my mom (48), sister *Linda(15) and brother *Tom(13).(im 27) We were having a good time until Cindy started screaming until she was red in the face, even a staff member told me to leave. So I went out to the parking lot for 15 min, called mom to tell her we need to leave because Cindy is still screaming and people are now looking at me like im kidnapping her. Mom comes out and tries to take Cindy back inside but I said no we got kicked out and im not even in the mood to stay. As we're getting in the car my mom tells Linda she should have just stayed home, she didn't even want to come anyways, no one did. Then goes on to say next time she's only bringing who she KNOWS wants to go and "it looks like it will just be me, Bob and Tom!" So I turned to her and said "don't make me feel bad that I have to leave because Cindy is crying and ur being rude to Linda" Then she says the kids dad didn't NEED to go anywhere and should have watched Cindy. I made the choice to bring both kids and said I felt pretty obligated to go when she asked me 3 times last night. Well she didnt like any of that and said "I just love how everything turns out to be my fault" I got really upset and said "yeah mom keep that up, you turn everything around so that its YOUR fault" I calmly told her what she said and implied was rude and negative comments are unnecessary. So at 10pm, Dad found her "sleeping" in the back of the van! What the hell?

Question: Am I legally allowed to kick my 25 year old son out of my council house? He bullies the rest of his sibling as well as us?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:23 AM PDT

It has become me to emotionally draining to have him live with us, and he's been old enough to live independently for many years now

Question: Why is my cousin so irritating?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:18 AM PDT

I have a thirty something year old cousin who thinks he's better than everybody and tells people how to live their lives. He has a wife and a son, first off he judges me saying that my mom made me into a b***h and said I don't have what it takes to be a man and talked about how my mom raised me. First off his son is 12 years old and still lays in bed with his mom and sits on his moms lap, so he needs to fall all the way back and worry about how he's raising his child cuz his child is spoiled and thinks he better than everybody too. Then he complains about grown men who don't work and say they fail as men but guess what he is a 30 year old with a wife and child but doesn't work either. He even made up a huge a lie about him owning a wood shop buissness. He's a hypocrite and a liar. My uncle even says he's a compulsive liar and judges every bodies flaws and acts like he doesn't have any. I'm an 18 year old guy with a job and I go to school and I'm successful and good at both. So don't come at me. Is it just me or is my cousin a real piece of work?

Question: Is it bad that I forgot my sister's birthday?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:12 AM PDT

Question: How as an adult to deal with dad that hates his son?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:44 AM PDT

I am not perfect. I try and do what I can to be helpful. My dad has always treated my sister better. He treats her like she is the only child. Me and my sister have had issues, though we can talk sometimes. She can be rude though and act like she is better. My dad acts ashamed of me. He treats me like he hates I'm his son. He has threaten me and he isn't apologetic. He also left family at a point, and I'm the bad person if I was to say something about that. During an argument, i have called him to let him know I didn't intend it to be an argument. He will either not answer or hang the phone up on me. I have told him I would kill myself, and he said kill myself. He have claimed he doesn't hate me. Though he treats me like he hates I'm his son.

Question: Do you also think it was wrong my dad hit me?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:16 AM PDT

He did that just because I kept making fun of my sister after she peed in her bed last night. It's just hilarious cuz shes 16 already and not a little child. I mean if it makes her upset when I tease her why is that my fault?? She shouldnt take everything so seriously

Question: Are We Related?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:51 AM PDT

My mom has a kid with my stepdad, that's my brother. my brother's cousin on his dads side... who is that to me? Are we related? is she like my cousin also? or not?

Question: I am 23, I no longer live at home, my mom tries to tell me what time to be home from hanging out with friends, always wants to?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:36 AM PDT

Do everything together, eats up all of my food, is a metandone addict, smokes 1 to 2 packs of cigarettes a day and is a pathological liar. She also has a history of stealing. I feel depressed when I go around here and she will big the hell out of me if I go a day without seeing her. She will tell me that she has money, she never has enough, and has tried to get me to buy her cigarettes. I am so sick of her beahvior and she lives with my dad and they divorced 18 years ago. She is on disability.

Question: I fixed my 15 year old sister's computer earlier and found several porn sites in her browsing history? Should I tell our parents?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:26 AM PDT

Question: My husband invited my nephew who is in town visiting his sister out for dinner, my neice invited her boyfriend should we pay for his meal?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:12 AM PDT

Question: HELP MY MOM WONT GET OFF MY BACK?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:44 AM PDT

I've never had a good relationship with my mom. She is super sensitive and gets angry too easily. She always thinks other people are to blame for her problems. Anyway I've decided to stop putting up with it. I'm 15 and my whole life she's told me I'm bad, I'm rude, selfish and I dont care about others. I admit I have an assertive personality, I'm straightforward and I can be harsh. I put myself first and I take care of myself and my needs. I know my worth and I know what I want. I know who my friends are and I have real true friends. I'm confident with my appearance and my skills. I don't let petty things bother me and I dont put up with bullshit. But for some reason my mom has a problem with this. She thinks I'm a *****, that I'm unattached and evil. I've realized at this point, since I know no matter what I do, no matter how successful I become, if I'm not weak, over sensitive and soft hearted (cough my brother) she wont like me. The real thing that bothers me is she's set on trying to diagnose me with some sort of disorder. She said she thought I was autistic because (her words, which are very ignorant for many reasons) "I'm not good at communicating with people and I'm insensitive" Then she said she thought I had anxiety. Now shes trying to say I'm depressed?? Its like she cant get it through her head that she could be the problem so she has to blame some sort of illness for ME not wanting to talk to her! I wouldn't be surprised if she called me a sociopath tomorrow. I'm not blaming my mom for my flaws I have. If you're just gonna call out my flaws its no use because i hear it from her everyday. I'm not looking for anyone to blame. I just wanna know whats up with this and how I can change it because I feel like the only option is to shut her out, which I really don't want to have to do.

Question: Should I buy my sister a present for her 16th birthday even though we dont get along?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:37 AM PDT

Question: My daughter has been doing the wrong things. How do I stop it?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:39 AM PDT

My daughter is 15, she lives with her mother, so I don't have much control over her. My daughter has been doing the wrong things lately. She plans to get a job at 16, but I don't want her to because I want her to focus on her education first. Then, her mother is thinking of moving to New York. I don't want my daughter there because her mother's family is weird, and I don't want her to live in a weird town in New York. I plan to move to Phoenix Arizona, and my daughter's mom thinks that's not fair that I'm moving all the way to the west when I won't let them move to New York. So recently I heard that my daughter has a boyfriend. I don't want her having a boyfriend until she is 18. I made the mistake of dating her mother at that age , because years later I met her again and she had my daughter, and I'm afraid of my daughter because she knows I do drugs. How do I put a stop to all this?

Question: What do you think about...?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:18 AM PDT

My father is a psychologist, my mom a teacher and they both alive but I lost an important figure at 24. I am a 31 years old guy who studied the same faculty (Political Sciences) of my uncle -he died when I was 24- has same political views (center-right) and the same job he used to have (sales account). Do you think they feel right in looking at me inspired by him in some of the most important choices? I never ask them but sometimes I am frustrated by the fact they have some bad ideas on him.

Question: Somebody help me?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:11 AM PDT

Okay so basically I'm slowly giving up on living at home. My mom not only moans 24/7 but I Expects me to do every ****. An argument started this morning because she started shouting say I was rude and selfish for not making a pancake mixture I made it but it only fit the kids and they had it for breakfast so I was like instead of shouting ask and I'll go make it for you then she lost it and she said dont even bother and if you try making it I'll pour the mixture and this bullshit. I do everything I wake up look after the kids feed them cook dinner clean the kitchen feed them again make their supper and feed them again before I get them ready for bed but my mom doesn't see this and only wants to see the bad side. I'm soo ******* done with it. She respects my brother who caused her so much heart ache like running away smoking weed and doing stupid **** but when I talk back the whole world has collapsed. I can't move out atm I'm only 18. Financially unable to. What do I do. And now she's refusing to speak to me for something I didn't do. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03

Question: What s the name of a play with an anarchist mother?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:55 AM PDT

The mother is always exploding things in the basement and there is a line about our children not being our possessions, but given to us to set out into the world.

Question: Can a muslim father disinherit his son whenever he needs? is he allowed to do that? or does he need a reason?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:32 AM PDT

Question: Girls would you be mad or happy?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 06:18 AM PDT

Say you just got a new apartment. You then sent your bf a video of you eating a sandwich. He then replied with "hey your fridge better be full of food or i'm fill it up. I have to feed my girl. I don't want her too look like a skeleton lol". How would you feel?

Question: I have a doubt about staying with my mother in law's house, what should i do?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 04:33 AM PDT

Question: I stopped doing everything for my kids that costed extra money?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 04:08 AM PDT

These are some things I have done for my kids. I am 55 my kids are 17 and 18. When they were 5 and 6 I told them Santa was not real. At 5 and 6 I stopped buying them christmas presents. When they were 8 and 9 I stopped buying them birthday presents and stopped celebrating their birthdays. I have never taught either how to drive but I expect them both to move out with no transportation. I have had both homeschooled since they were 8 and 9. Stopped allowing them to go to summer camps at 11 and 12. When they were 14 and 15 I made them get rid of all of their games and electronics. As they were way too old then. Am I a good father? Only wondering as my brother and sister have told me I am "horrible" but I do not think that I am.

Question: My step dad is controlling everything I do, what should I do?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 03:57 AM PDT

I just turned 16 and I live with my mom, step dad and 3 younger siblings. He's constantly shouting at everyone but he always says I'm the problem and the reason he's angry. I got grounded for 2 months this summer for sticking up for my mom when he was shouting at her. I'm not allowed friends over, when I am allowed out I have to be home by 5:30 on the dot otherwise I'm grounded again. I'm hardly ever allowed in the livingroom, I have to stay in my room. He keeps saying he wants to kick me out, I would have no where to go if he did. My two younger brothers are his biological children so they get whatever they want. They have the bigger room. Whilst me and my 14 year old sister have such a small room we have to put most our things in the cupboard with the boiler in. Other than that we just have a bunk bed and small desk in there. He can see every message that comes through on my phone to his, I'm not allowed to talk to boys. I'm old enough that I should be allowed to do these things and live my life

Question: Can a traveller marry a non traveller?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:57 AM PDT

Question: 18 turning 19 October 19 this year. Am I a loser and failure at life. I also got dropped from two College classes and still live with mom?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:29 AM PDT

Who lives with her parents. I'm a girl and my mom said I should be ashamed for having no job. She doesn't have job either. How dare her welfare self accuse me of being barren on her selfish loser parents who mooch off her and everyone.

Question: Is my father mentally illed?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 01:08 AM PDT

I mean this crappy man dont give a crap about my personal problems,once someone asked him about which grade i am in and he didnt even knew that..omg!! Profesionaly he is a ayurvedic docotr,and i suffein fro terrible conatipation from years an when i discuss about this to him he always neglets by sayin"u have nothing,its not called constipation its something else" i am so pissed of at him,tht i cant tell..wanna murder my father,ths insane man gives no crap to hell loads of my personal problems hapening in my life and there are loads of other similar stories too..😠😠😡😡😡

Question: How do I go about reconnecting with my father's side of the family?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 12:30 AM PDT

I had a falling out with my father in 2008.... he passed in 2013.. We never spoke again after 2008.. My mother had gotten cancer and I decided to move closer to her as she raised me and I was very close with my mother. My father didn't want me to move and said I could just drive over and see her.. I needed to be closer as she had 3 months to live.. I moved, he was pissed said have a good life when I left and we never spoke again.. Like I said he passed.. I do not speak to anyone on his side of the family... At first it was because I was pissed off... Now it's been years and I want to reconnect. I do not know how to go about this.. I haven't spoken to my grandmother on that side of the family since 2008.. I want to try to connect, but don't want to be pushed away.. Any advice you might have would be great. My grandmother doesn't deserve to be punished because I was pissed at my father..

Question: How can I stop being jealous of my sister having a boyfriend and me being single?

Posted: 15 Oct 2017 12:13 AM PDT

I'm pissed that she got a boyfriend and said didn't even want one or look for one. She got one without even trying while I've been trying for so many years to get one but am still single.She keeps showing me stuff she gets from her dates with him that makes me so jealous.We also share a room together and I have to hear her texting her boyfriend often. She should just keep the stuff she gets from her dates to herself. I'm suicidal cause I'm single and almost killed myself today from loneliness. I've been kind of suicidal cause I'm single & have a hard time making friends from about 1 year now. *for about I also feel sad when I see couples in general on television or when I'm walking down the street.

Question: Need to convince my parents!!!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:24 PM PDT

Ok so me and my friend our both 13 and we re planning to go to downtown Disney to walk around, look at shops, and maybe watch a movie. Her parents are totally fine with letting her go but my parents won t. They say I m too young to go alone and an adult needs to be there. How can convince them that the location is safe and I m mature enough to handle myself?? I know how some people are and what the world is like but I don t think they understand that.

Question: Am I able to report to child protective services about this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 11:07 PM PDT

I'm 15 and I think my mom is neglecting me. I've been struggling with mental health issues for 3 years which she's very well now about and I've basically begged for help for but she never got me any. Now that they've never been taken care of it's starting to show as I'm too depressed and stressed to go to school so I missed a whole week straight. My mom pounded me about it and treating me like a 2 year old even though I will be an adult in 3 years. Tonight she was partly drunk we she came in to my room and argued with me and when she's drunk she has allot less of a filter and says what she really feels. I told her maybe I should pack my bags cause she said she doesn't want to take care of me anymore and she said fine go ahead and pack my bags cause she's tired of me. I have to deal with this kind of stuff from her all the time. Does this kind of stuff count as neglect or something so I can get help?

Question: What percent of the time do ur parents act like they: 1) hate u? 2) ignore u? 3) Actually kind of like u?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 10:01 PM PDT

Xagney sorry to be a creep but just gotta say you are very beautiful <3

Question: My mother is going to hate me for this?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 09:51 PM PDT

Oh wait... she already does 😐 oh just for being myself... 🎻 lol thanks for the laugh fox

Question: Can i kick out my fiances brother?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 09:31 PM PDT

So me and my now ex fiance bought a house just over two years ago. Both our names are on the house and we just recently broke up about a month ago because he was no longer putting his kids first and other reasons. Meanwhile he let his brother move into our basement without my permission and now his brother has his new girlfriend and her baby in my basement as well. When i said i do not want them here my ex and his brother started yelling at me calling me crazy and many other immature things. As part owner of my home, do i have a say in who does and doesnt live here. What can i do. Please help.

Question: What can I do to show my dad how much I appreciate him?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 09:00 PM PDT

I'm 18yrs old (and a girl), and my dad has raised my little sister and I our whole lives by himself. He works super hard and spoils us to death. Hes a great dad, and unfortunately I haven't always been the best daughter. My junior year of HS, I got locked in with the wrong crowd and started doing bad things, though my dad never once gave up on me. I ended up pregnant and moved out on my own, yet my dad remains my number one supporter and now with a clearer head, I know how lucky I am. I want to do something for the man who loved me when I couldn't love myself. Any suggestions? I just want him to know how thankful I am for him, and how sorry I am for the past.

Question: Why do rich couple's have the least amount of children?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 08:45 PM PDT

Why aren't they populating the globe with their offspring? They can afford it.

Question: What does this mean ? What should I do? help?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 08:03 PM PDT

All my life I've always thought my uncle was wired and I never wanted to be alone with him especially after all of this. Every time I went to my grandma and grandpas house and he went he would try to get me alone. One time he came and I was in my grandparents room and he came into the room sat down on the bed next to me and started to touch my thigh and he moved his had a little higher and kept it there. I felt really uncomfortable but I didn't say anything cause I was scared, confused and I didn't know what to do. He started to ask me inaproprite questions like if I ever kissed someone and if I ever had a younger kiss before and if u wanted to learn at that time I was around 10 or 11. As soon as I felt uncomfortable to the point where I couldn't take it I left out the room in a hurry but I never said anything . And a few months later he came over to my parents house and I asked him if he had a game I could play and he took out his phone and clicked on a video of a teen girl naked touching herself and masturbating . I said eww out load and he quickly took it off but my parents didn't notice or thought it was something else I said eww too. I am now 15 and still don't want to be near or alone with him because he always makes weird and inaproprite things to me . I never said anything to my parents or anyone . I don't want to cause a issue between my family and plus I'm not sure what that would classify as ? I don't know what to do .

Question: I need ideas for sympathy gifts!!!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 08:00 PM PDT

My family recently lost a member she left behind children and I want to get them each a gift for Christmas the youngest daughters are easy I ll get them a photo blanket with there moms pictures but what do I get the boys? They are teens and early 20s I really want to get them something that will mean a lot to them but also not to girly

Question: What should I do? Please help!?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 07:53 PM PDT

Three years ago, my mom passed away when I was 11. So then my siblings and I moved in with our aunt and uncle and their 4 kids. I hate the way I get treated by my aunt and uncle. They yell at my siblings and I daily (Not their kids) They make me do things that I don't want to do. They make us clean the entire basement by ourselves (that's where our rooms are) even when the floor is covered with inches of water. I get yelled at for 'playing stupid', but I'm actually being serious. My uncle calls me stupid and a brat, and ungrateful. I don't care if I shouldn't say this, but I HATE THEM. ALL OF THEM. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM. Honestly, they make me want to kill myself. I want to run away, or just be gone. I have self harmed because it takes my mind off of this temporarily. It's the only thing in my life that I have control over. What should I do? I have no one to talk to about this. I don't trust anyone. I do online school so I'm home everyday, all day. I can't talk to the school counselor because I don't know who they'll tell.

Question: Does my brother and sister hate me? Would they be willing to see me again?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 07:17 PM PDT

I'm talking about my older half bro&sis but I call them my bro & sis. They're from my dad side, we grew up together until I was 7-8 yrs they left because their mom got jealous of how much my siblings enjoyed being with our dad &my mom. The mother unfortunately brainwashed them for yrs to make them think they're (my parents) bad people. The last time I saw my sister was when I was 12 &met my niece for the first &last time. I contacted her last year on FB msg (we are not friends on fb) on her birthday she replied "Thank you!🤗" The last time I saw my brother was when I was 16 and he called &travelled with us once then he stopped contacting(we are still friends on FB but he stopped posting &I think he blocked me from seeing his college time pics).I'm now about to turn 20 my bro is 28 and my sis is 31. We've spent so many yrs apart that we don't have much of that sibling bond since after a while we were separated& I heard many half siblings really don't. If I tried to contact them would they still ignore me and never meet me again? Do my brother and sister hate me ? Do older half siblings like their younger siblings or are they upset they've come into the world?

Question: How can my family be put back together?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 07:15 PM PDT

I am a 15-year-old boy and my brother 12. Yesterday, my dad came home drunk, to the point where he couldn't stand up straight. He started to feed the dog way more than he should have. When he tried to give him more, I put the dog in the backyard. My dad then tried to go outside. I blocked the doorway. He tried to argue with me, asking if I had fed him. I answered no, but when he made his points he kept switching between yes and no. Soon after, he started getting physical. He cornered my brother and slapped him in the stomach. My mom was barely able to pull him off. My brother and I locked ourselves in a bathroom, but then we heard the sounds of our parents fighting. I went into my room and texted my friends to call 911. My mom then told my brother and I that we were going to spend the night at my friends' house. She did not know that the police had been called. As we were on our way to the car, the police came. We were taken to a room in the police station for a while, and my dad had to spend the night in jail. I had no idea my dad was taken there. We were let out, and we spent the night at the friend's house. When we went back home today, my dad refused to speak to any of us. Then, this evening, he explained that he was about to get a promotion, but now he will get fired, and it is our fault since we could not deal with it on our own. He then told us that he wanted to separate and that we no longer love him. He refuses therapy or counseling. How can I get my family together?

Question: Is it better to openly be a b itch or to be fake-nice?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 07:12 PM PDT

One or the other folks. No smart-*** answers about how perfect you are. "whatever you do to others will be done to you" <-- come on dude u know that's bullshit

Question: Why does my baby daddy fight unnecessarily with me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 06:17 PM PDT

We share a 3 month old son but havnt seen eachothers since I was 7 months pregnant. I ended our relationship when I was 3 months pregnant for various reasons mainly because I was about to end thing before I found out about the pregnancy but he kept guilting me not to. Secondly he a drug addict and thirdly him and the mother of his first child are not really over. When he found out I was pregnant he wanted me to move in with him and get into a more serious relationship (we were casual) I refused because of the above. This led to a miserable pregnancy with him constantly fighting. I m not innocent here I told him he wasn t the father and to terminate his rights in fights however I apologized once I was less overwhelmed with the pregnancy. Now our son is 3 months old and he has nevr met him, he contacts me from time to time to arrange a meet up yet he always starts a fight over nothing which leads to him not visiting. I don t care as I never ask him to visit he makes that initiative. Today he begged me to come by as I was near his place I waited and gave directions he couldn t find me so I suggested we go to a mutual place he started yelling at me and told me to forget it and hung up. I tried to call him he just ignored me. My main question is why does he keep fighting with me when I literally accommodate him every time?? He asks to see his son and when I go out my way to make it happen he causes an argument or fight which leads to nothing eventually.

Question: Ladies would you be happy?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:48 PM PDT

Say you were talking to your potential new bf and you sent him a video of you eating a sandwich in your brand new apartment. Keep in mind it is empty. He then said "hey that fridge better be full of food or else i'm going to fill it up for you. I have to keep my baby girl well fed I don't want her to look like skeleton lol". Would you be mad or happy? ...

Question: Can't go to my parents?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:41 PM PDT

I live with roomates but whenever I felt sad or lonely I went to my parents house because it used to be my favorite place. But now they are arguing more and my sister constantly texts me to come home and take her away but I ignore her texts because I can't be there when they fight anymore. Where do I go as my only comfort zone is now a place I hate and why can't I be the brother I'm supposed to be and help my sister?

Question: How tall will I be if my grandpas were both 6'0 and have a incle thats 6'0 and one thats 6'2 but im taller than my parents (mom 5"3 dad 5"6)?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:37 PM PDT

Question: Spoiled or Privileged?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:29 PM PDT

I'm 23 years old, Female. Me and my older sister have always been well take taken care of by our mom. My mom had been paying for a 3 bedroom house that I lived in alone since I was 18. I never paid a bill and she never asked me to. When my car broke down on me 2 years ago, she gave me her car and bought a new one for herself. This year I wanted a Jeep and she searched for one until she found one in another state and had it transferred. She still pays me and my sisters phone bill, she's paying for my art school and if I ever run out of money she puts some in my account. Me and my ex used to have really bad arguments about how I've always been handed things and that I was not allowed to tell him how to spend his money or judge him for being broke but he actually did have bills to pay off. Aside from my mom, my old manager promoted a month after working he said because he thought I was pretty and 2 months after that he helped me get into a manager position that I'm now working. Everyone calls me spoiled and a brat but I don't really feel like it. Just lucky that my family can take care of me and if being pretty helps me move up faster than so be it.

Question: How can I reach out to my cousin's ex-wife and just be a friend right now because my cousin is a scumbag?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:27 PM PDT

Some of the stuff about to say You're going to hear about families great communication ( scasim) Really felt sorry for my cousin's ex-wife mainly because I know what it's like to go through someone you trusted if I do nothing nothing but a scumbag my father cheated a step mom and I'm still feeling pain. The breaks my heart is that she was Tech the girl that all the guys flirted with and all the guys wanted but she picked my nerdy cousin and he cheated on her with a "lessbian" and now the next couple weeks he is expecting a kid be "lesbian". This girl he even has a kid with my cousin. But I just want to reach out to her be a friend the only thing is I've only met her once it was at my cousin eyes Grandpa's funeral how about I never really got much of a chance to get to know her just because you know kind of awkward getting to know somebody at a funeral. Can you guys help me find surprised words to tell my cousin's ex-wife because I want to just be a friend for her and just very troubling time just because I know what she's going through... And she's hot enough for your could date her that's kind of a joke but she truly is a wonderful person and I would date her cuz I respect the fact how she races for kid that is my cousins she is raising him right. Disciplinarian correctly and she truly is a wonderful mother and I'm hearing this from my grandmother who I would trust

Question: Does my 12 year old son have the "middle child syndrome"?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 05:02 PM PDT

Some people suggested this and as a parent, I'm not sure if this is even a thing. I have a 15 year old daughter and a 9 year old son as well. Fairness is a very important thing to him, and he can be an attention seeker as well. He is more rebellious than his sister and brother. At 12, my daughter never was rebellious or complained much. Every child is different, and I've always thought this is something that some kids go through during puberty. We have open communication and he knows that I am always here to listen. Any child in the family is disciplined when caught doing something wrong. We've explained that he can't have more freedom than his sister because she is OLDER and more responsible. Meanwhile, he knows better than to manipulate the younger one.

Question: Are subsequent children more likely to show behavioural issues?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 04:40 PM PDT

A study showed that firstborns are not as likely to bully their peers, commit crimes, become high school dropouts, and end up in jail. Are last born children MORE likely to do things that will have serious repercussions? It sounds like a lack of parenting to me, not the birth order. Whenever I meet children with behavioral issues, they're from all kinds of positions in the family. Sometimes they're the middle of youngest, and sometimes they're the oldest. There's nothing significant or likely about it.

Question: How do I react to my cousins or relatives if they say this about about me?

Posted: 14 Oct 2017 04:22 PM PDT

So every year for Christmas I visit my cousins and aunts and uncle in Los Angeles 300 miles away from where I live. There are a few times where my cousins would mention I'm quiet during a group conversation or I don't talk, even of I do talk. The thing I get offended by anyone saying those things because it sinks in and affects me inside and outside as well. How do I respond to them to make them realize that that's kind of rude and that I'm offended by it without causing drama or commotion?