So I saw this message on my husband's phone, and freaked out. He has a steady good-paying job, but he is an alcoholic also, and as far as I know has never done drugs (not since he was a teenager and tried once). The message is: "I need 2 grams right now. I'm in the back. Can't wait asap". Is he talking about coke? Heroin? As far as I know the friend the message was sent to was used to doing drugs but has been clean for a while, and he's employed by my husband. I know nothing about drugs, but the message seems suspicious. Should I be worried? And if he does do drugs, what signs should I look for in him?

we been married for 2 years and 1 month,he wants a divorce,i know he like my little sister and my best friend,they both have big boobs,i don't. will he stay if I keep him happy ?I can get photos of them naked,

Is it like how they portray on tv?

Here is the long story short. I married my highschool sweetheart who joined the navy right out of highschool. So naturally I moved across the country to be with him. Well he told me that's needed to find somewhere else to go because I'm to much of a liability. So I moved in with one of my guy friends that I used to work at. (Before my ex made me quit.) Well we have kinda started something... we aren't together but we sleep in the same bed, together, and even do other activities together... I've grown quite attached to his two kids but his ex is telling the children's attorney that my dog bit her daughter (which isn't true.) He seems to always be piss and short tempered. Not like blow up but snappy and has an attitude. I kinda want to go home but the job opportunity and finding somewhere to live is impossible. So I would be able to actually move home just close to. I don't make enough to support myself here and it took me months to get my minimum wage job here and can't seem to get anything else. But I also want to stay. Honestly IDK even know why I want to stay... but I guess because every time I talk about going home the guy I live with gets this really sad face and I don't want to disappoint him. And I really love his children and don't want to leave them behind....

I've been w my husband 8.5 years, married 3.5. We have had some issues for awhile. He hurt me bad & I couldn't get over it. I held a grudge, which was wrong. During fights I said hurtful things I never meant but I said them. I didn't realize how bad I was hurting him. In Aug I felt like he wasn't talking to me. He was distant so when we were arguing I told him to leave, even though I didn't mean it, he left. After a few days he said he would go to marriage counseling but when I made the appointment he couldn't go & never could. I went & was diagnosed w PTSD (abusive relationship), anxiety disorder & depression. I listened to my husband about our problem. My words & actions hurt him I worked on myself, went to therapy, did what I didn't. To show I support him on the business I took money from savings & gave him it. I helped him get a loan, which I hesitated b4 Bc of my past relationship that got me in a financial mess. Things were ok but not moving fast & I freaked & started pressuring him to come home. He got mad & pulled away. He has repeatedly told me he didn't want a divorce he just needed time. Thursday he got mad at me over it & didn't text him. I gave him some space like my dad said. Neither of us are big believers in divorce. My therapist told me to send him a message saying that I'm trying to give him some space & I'm here if & when he wants to talk & I love him. I did that & he answered. We briefly talked. I want to work on us but I feel he's given up, punishing me.

I know that marriage is not supposed to be about "what do I get out of it," but I feel like it is supposed to be mutually beneficial right? I'm not satisfied with our physical and emotional intimacy. My husband spends most evening either sleeping early or in front of his computer. If I'm watching something on T.V. he doesn't like he'll just go to his basement where I've always been willing to watch many things that aren't necessarily my preference just to be with him or to show interest in the things he cares about. I do the majority of the cooking and cleaning and I also work full time. We split everything 50/50 except domestic and emotional departments. I feel I'm expected to carry the relationship. I don't know if I'm cut out for this for the rest of my life. I don't feel taken care of in any way. I wanted to do pre-martial counseling because I had concerns it would be this way but he didn't feel comfortable with the female counselor I selected. I asked him to select someone he felt comfortable with but he never got around to it. I've asked him recently to look again. I've told him we're not going to make it without help. He doesn't like for me to discuss our issues with family and friends but I need some guidance (thus why I'm asking strangers on the internet for advice!). I'm 38 and he's 36. No children and most likely will never be if I'm going to do all the work.

Sometimes he will spend 35 dollars every other day . I made 2 accounts ,one for my checks and another for his ti pay bills with bc he makes more . We dont touch that account ,i put thr cards in the safe but i only make 279 twice a month and he still over spends and i feel like i cant spend anything ,what should i do ,if i compalin he says i do it too but i dont

Is all of a Sudden a big deal....

That means you watch another guy have sex with her... She'll let you choose the guy too. Any particular type of guy(s) you'd choose?

My wife gave this guy a kiss in the cheek when she saw him. She claims it's her friend for a long time. I personally do not know him that is why I am upset. I know they do not talk everyday so why kiss him? They are not close. This might be dumb as I might be over reacting but I felt some how inside.