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- Question: My pregnant wife doesn’t want to lose weight and become thin again?
- Question: How do you explain this to kids ?
- Question: What is wrong with my father?
- Question: How much money require to move Itlay with family?
- Question: How do I get my ignorant father to realize I did not choose to have anxiety issues?
- Question: I live in MO with my mom my dad is in TN. I am almost 15 and want to live with my dad. How do I do that?
- Question: How to keep people out of your room?
- Question: Why is it family members can't feel compassion for each other?
- Question: I need help?
- Question: Why was my mom rude to me?
- Question: My parents make fun of me?
- Question: My step dad wants me to call him daddy?
- Question: Why is my father constantly yelling? Every time someone says something he disagrees with, he yells.?
- Question: My parents are so over protective ?
- Question: Was what I did child-molestation 7 yrs ago? Should I kill myself? Serious question, and need serious answers. Trolls will be blocked?
- Question: Am I in the wrong of how I feel (Pregnancy)?
- Question: How can I get custody or guardianship?
- Question: What do I do about my abusive father?
- Question: My aunt threatened to hurt me and when I tell my grandma she wont believe me what should I do?
- Question: Is it normal to wish your mother death? she is the worst mother.?
- Question: How do I get my Dad to stop keeping me in the dark about family event invitations we receive? He says he won't and then he does?
- Question: Since no one likes my spoiled and selfish 24 year old sister why does my Mom act like I have to speak as though she is fine?
- Question: What makes a Dad refuse sympathy when his adult son is mentally ill?
- Question: My sister is pregnant, OMG, will people curse our whole family since she is not married?
- Question: Is it normal to be uncomfortable around my father(18F)?
- Question: Should invite my parents to my middle school graduation?
- Question: My father never approves of my girlfriends.?
- Question: I'm 14 and I'm wonder if it's a good idea to get HRS China town wars?
- Question: Do Fred and Acetone Huffer be twins?
- Question: Why does my sister hate teasing so much? She always gets upset even though it's all meant in a funny way?
- Question: My brother used to sleep with every girl on the block. How do I know if he has stopped or is just better at hiding it (he is now 26)?
- Question: It hurts me so much that I can't see my Mom's family on family holidays. How do I make sure I am not thought of as a 2nd rate relative?
- Question: Family arguments. When to seek help?
- Question: What is a good gift to give from Utah?
- Question: Why dont my parents trust me when I go to a friends house?
- Question: My parents are emotionally abusive and its ruining the family?
- Question: Are there such things as provoking laws? I need serious help. It's for my sister who Is suicidal. Please no negativity. Read below.?
- Question: I m 16, my dad married my stepmom who already has two kids, my dad made a prommise to me that there wont be another child, then it happens.?
- Question: Could what I experienced as a child be considering abuse?
- Question: I stole money from my parents?
- Question: I realized that my mom is a narcissist, how can I get out of this situation?
- Question: Will it likely affect a child negatively if their parents left them for 4-5 years?
- Question: If Kim Jong under tries to hit us we will have to evacuate?
- Question: I don’t know what to do with my life!!! I need help.?
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- Question: How should I pretend to get along with a sibling a live with and dislike?
- Question: My aunt likes to cut my Mom down to me. If I ask her to stop she will never talk to me again. So how do I handle it next time she does this?
- Question: How do I get the dark old wounds from my parents' divorce to stop opening?
- Question: I don't like my sister. Is this okay or are we supposed to like all family? I love her but don't like her?
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- Question: I found out my sister has a vape. I wanted to tell my parents right away because I don’t want her to be doing drugs but she said she wasn’t?
- Question: Why do I feel like I have another half sibling? My dad lost his virginity when he was 17 he had me when he was 21...?
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Question: I haven t ate all day? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:54 PM PDT im 15 female_ive had nothing to eat because i slept at a friends house and i got home and my mum or step dad wont let me have anything to eat i feel like im going to be sick because lack of food and im not allowed to leave my room |
Question: My pregnant wife doesn’t want to lose weight and become thin again? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:54 PM PDT My wife is 5 months pregnant. I've told her on multiple occasions that she needs to lose weight because she's becoming really fat and it's unattractive. We go to the gym and I've introduced her to my daily workout but she constantly complains that she is tired and using her being pregnant as an excuse. I've seen pregnant women work out and if they can do it she can too. It's disgusting to see her this way because she used to be so beautiful and had an amazing body. All my friends have wives that are gorgeous and i'm stuck with a fat one. How do I convince her to stop complaining and get back in shape? |
Question: How do you explain this to kids ? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:53 PM PDT My 4 1/2 year old daughter likes Doc Mcstuffins we were watching an episode that had two gay doll women with kids. It was an episode that was suppose to teach kids and families what to do during a natural disaster. The boy on there asked if he can ride on the dragon the dragon said " as long as it's ok with you're moms ". Then my daughter started asking what happened to those kids daddy ? Why do they have 2 mothers ? Did their daddy leave like mine did ? She keeps asking me stuff like this I don't know how to explain it too her I don't think they should show this to children like my daughter other kids will ask questions about it. How do you explain this to kids ? Why would they put a gay couple in a kids cartoon ? |
Question: What is wrong with my father? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:49 PM PDT Ok so here's the story. My mom suddenly passed away on July. It made my father go crazy pretty much. He always had the symptoms when my mom was alive but now that my mom is gone it's gotten 100x worse. He been asking questions like "can I use the bathroom" or "is it ok for me to drink the pop". He alsob asks is it ok for him to walk around the house and stuff. The last couple days he's been saying he's gonna get arrested for doing things like walking upstairs and now he Things he's on probation for whatever reason nobody knows. My sister and I was worried so we took him to a psychiatrist and they said he has Dementia prove previous alcohol abuse and now he has anxiety from my moms sudden passing. So they put him in some anxiety pills he has to take 3 times a day and been taking for about 3 weeks but he seems like he did a full 360. He was doing ok you know a couple questions here and there and now he's worse again. What do you think it is. Also he has had glaucoma all his life that he never got taken care of and has had low sodium before. He also was a bad alcoholic for many years but has completely stopped drinking since my mom passed. He would drink beer everyday without eating or anything. He also never leaves the house. He stays in the house all day. Maybe that is making him go crazy. So is there any idea what is wrong with him. Is it Dementia or something more serious. Also what else can I do to help him. Thank You. |
Question: How much money require to move Itlay with family? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:31 PM PDT |
Question: How do I get my ignorant father to realize I did not choose to have anxiety issues? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:05 PM PDT He thinks I did. |
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Question: How to keep people out of your room? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:28 PM PDT my little sister always goes into my room when I'm gone and steaks stuff and no matter how many times I yell at her and talk to her about it she still does it. So I need some sort of trap or lock to keep her out because that's the only thing I can think of |
Question: Why is it family members can't feel compassion for each other? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:16 PM PDT I am 64 retired,spent my life raising my 3 adult kids,I enjoyed it but now I feel life means nothing.My kids don't understand depression they don't even try to understand sometimes people or moms need that emotional support.I have tried to be positive,but nothing works.I helped a mom with 3 young kids that was more or less homeless,I gave her kids winter clothes,food,it made me happy her kids are so cute,they are total strangers only met them twice,but all I get from her is an email thank you that's it,,I am a loner,my husband gambled our entire 401k that we were going to use when we retired to see the country now that won't happen,I feel no enjoyment,volunteering is out I'm not good in groups of people,therapy is no,so I sit and feel sorry for myself,do my kids or husband care,not at all,,,,,,,,please no sarcastic answers I really would appreciate suggestions |
Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:38 AM PDT Im 13 and i dont know what to do. Okay, so im in foster care and live with my uncle/current foster parent. He wants to adopt me but i dont want him to change my last name to my dads Which of course is his brother. My parents cant take care of me and everyone on my dads side of the family is a wanna-be tough nail that thinks they're better than everyone, when they're all really con-artists, drug addicts and alchoholics. I lived with my grandpa for 10 ½ years, my grandpas nephew for 6 months and my uncle for 2 years, and out of all of those i hate my uncle the most and im still living with him even though i dont want to. I dont even know how to start with him, hes been smoking marijuana for a year now because he was too scared to when i first got here. He broke up with his wife because she was a spiteful piece of crap but he still would have sex with her, over and over again, with me in the house. I would tell him to not be so loud but he doesnt give a flying rat what i say. So the idiot had a baby with her and now she holds it over his head. And it makes him angry, so its all focused towards me, but hes not innocent. He has had a total of 9 women over and has had sex with them all, with me in the same building. I retreat to my uncles adopted dads house when i dont know what to do. I have gone to a mental hospital for a total of 28 days due to all of these traumatic experiences that drive me insane, im used like a slave and beaten like one |
Question: Why was my mom rude to me? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:32 AM PDT wedneday I found out that my new med I got had to go in the fridge, and I did not want it in my parents fridge as 1 there is not much room in there and 2 I did not want my parents to see the meds I got. so I was looking for a mini fridge so that I can keep my meds in there and some other things as well. well I found one on walmarts website and on a yard sale site. I talked to my mom about it and I said Walmart was 37.0 and used was 40.00 and she said not much dif between used and new price wise so go get used one, well yesterday I went and got it and stepdad chimed in about it and asked cost of both and I said and he said u had to used? and my mom said some friends you have they let u buy the used mini fridge without being there for u and making sure u knew what u were doing and I said well mom I talked to u about it and said prices and u said go for used one so I did and she said oh u must have talked to me when I was zoned out so it does not count that u talked to me about it. so is pissed that I got it, then in store I was low on money and had to get allergy bedding and ear drops and she yelled at me telling mem that I did not need all of that now and some of it could wait till I had money and that I went so many years without so why is now so important? and today she wanted to see mini fridge and I did not want her to see my meds so I said no no no it is just lack and she stormed off all pissed cause I would not let her see my mini fridge, why was she rude to me? I took my meds out of the fridge and hid them from her and showed her the fridge and said sorry I was trying to do homework and all u can see it now and she said no I do not want to see it and I said yes come see it, and she said oh u should not have it plugged in if nothing in it so I came back to room and it was unplugged I think she unplugged it when I was not looking. she acts like it is my fault for her being zoned out and will not own up to the fact that I talked to her about it. : now my mom asked whe I last washed my hair saying that my friends are not doing a good job or making sure my hair is washed and I said I washed I the day and she said no u did not and she said u did not brush it either and I said yes I did and she said no u did not wash it at all I do not believe u and I said fine believe what u want but I am not lying and she was looking at me like yeah right I know u lying today she was like I am very angry with you for inviting people over today and I said u told I could and she said no i told u that u oculd invite them over only if the house was clean and that is not what she said. then she told me that she never told me to get the mini fridge that we talked about it but she never said get it and I know she said was good deal do it if I wanted it so I did. why is she being so rude to me this weekend I did nothing to deserve it at all |
Question: My parents make fun of me? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:05 AM PDT I don t know why. On occasion they call me retarded, and (since my business class hasn t been going so well) they are saying that I deserve to go to summer school. Every time my nephew comes over, the humiliation is worse. I don t know if they are stressed because of him or what. And business is my only class that I am doing bad on. The rest are good and my mom went to the parent-teacher interview so she has the proof that I am doing well. I need help on this soon, or I don t know what I will do with myself. Thanks -T |
Question: My step dad wants me to call him daddy? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:39 AM PDT My step dad creeps me out. He forces me to call him daddy or else he spanks me. My mom let's him hit me. He likes to stare at me when I get out of the shower. And one time he frenched kissed me when we are alone my mom doesn't believe me and got mad. When my moms not around he shows of the bulge in his pants to me. Sometimes he smacks my but or squeezes it even though I told him to stop! He said he likes the way I dress even though it's just my house clothes that I like to be comfortable in. He also kisses the back of my neck when ever I least expect it. He likes to wrestle with me and I don't like it. My mom said he's just trying to bond with me. Also he treats me like a maid and forces me to serve him like give him a bear or make him a sandwich. My mom said I need to respect him. Also he farts in my face and I think he gets off on it. What should I do I'm 17 years old? Also I'm also in the wrong because I gave him a ******** because he caught me drinking beer. He was blackmailing me to my mom and I don't want my mom to lose him because she really loves him. And also he's paying for my college tuition. Should I just deal with it until I go to college next year? Is this what adults have to do to sacrifice for their loved ones and to reach their goals? |
Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:25 AM PDT It is so frustrating. My father is 83 years old, and he never wants to talk about anything serious. My mom passed away six years ago, and ever since he has started yelling when he can't get his own way. It's like he's reverting back to being a child. I don't understand where the yelling is coming from, and why do we have to be the brunt of it? I try to make it easier, and he keeps saying he won't do it again, but still does it. It is so frustrating to have to do deal with this, and to top it off, I feel like I am playing peacemaker all the time between him and my brother. My brother acts like he is so perfect, and never does anything wrong, and it's always someone else's fault. My brother thinks lately everyone is yelling at him, when anyone raises their voice. And it's not true, when did everyone get to be so darn sensitive? |
Question: My parents are so over protective ? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:24 AM PDT I'm 15 and I have had all A's since 6th grade and they still don't trust me. Last night I had a game to work I'm in student council and we work and I didnt make it home till 2:00 AM and my mom was mad blowing up my phone and I'm like omg what's the big till. Do dont let me do anything they just want to sit at home in my room . I really can't wait till I'm 18 for I can go to the military or something, but for now how can I stop them for being so over protective? |
Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:18 AM PDT So, I'm 21, my sister 14. 7 yrs ago, when I was 14, and she was 7, I licked her genitals. At first, because she did poke her finger in my butt (She did this omce to my cousin to) I told her can I lick her vagina, she said no, I ask her another time, then she gave in. I did it for like 7 secs. I did apologies to her, and wrote her a paper of my wrong-doings. And she forgave. I havr never done anything sexual again to this day. Am I a child-molester? |
Question: Am I in the wrong of how I feel (Pregnancy)? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:15 AM PDT My Mom wants her Friend to come down when I deliver however we do NOT. Especially me. For one reason is he thinks my Mom and him are dating which they aren't and secondly he has caused trouble for my Mom in the past, but mostly because I just want Family there. I also do not want my Mothers help afterwards because she smoked in our house and just bragged about her X when I had my Daughter. The only person I'll accept to help me is my Mother in law. Am I in the wrong for not wanting my Mom's friend at the hospital? She keeps persisting he is. |
Question: How can I get custody or guardianship? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:46 AM PDT My husband and I want to get custody/guardianship of my little cousin. Her mother is with a possible child molester (he's had several accusations against him from younger girls) she never spends time with her, always high and takes what money my cousin gets for birthdays and Christmas to get herself junk food/ marijuana. Her father has rapped and molested her mother and has been caught taking very inappropriate pictures of me growing up. Both parents neglect her, and her parents and currently trying to get divorced. They have made my little cousin go without food, and have even denied buying her female products around that time. My husband and I have helped take care of her and she has brought up the fact she would like to live with us because we are better parents than her own. We also have a child of our own and have treated her as ours as well. We would like to know what kind of process and complications to look forward to if we do decide to take action. We want her with us and both parents paying HER child support. |
Question: What do I do about my abusive father? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:46 AM PDT My father has been absent for most of my life so my mother raised me and my brother single handedly. He came back suddenly a few years ago and tried to reconcile with us. But then he started hitting my mom really bad, and then eventually me and my brother. He doesn't hit me so much but he hits my brother really badly, I won't say the details. My mom doesn't do anything cause she loves my father too much. I live in a country where child protection services aren't a thing, we tried to call the cops but it got worse. Plus my family members think my father is the perfect dad. Please help?! |
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Question: Is it normal to wish your mother death? she is the worst mother.? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:14 AM PDT truthfully since im a kid shes been the nastiest human being known to earth. first of all my father was abusing me and she forced me to see him every weekend after i told her. i remember she use to hand me to him laughing and they would talk about me while she strapped me in the car seat at like 4 years old. shes been living with my grandma all her life. shes STILL living with her to this day. she makes my grandma drive her kids to school, buy them food,clothe them feed them and brush their teeth in the morning. while she sits upstairs and plays candycrush suga and facebook all day long. my grandma tells her to study with my young brother and sister and she says "she dont wanna". she has 5 kids. im 23, my brothers 20, my other brothers 14, and the kids are 7 & 9. theyre getting so fresh, and they get it from her always cursing around them. when i was kid she sat on me til i couldnt breath then choked me while she was alone with me. if it wasnt for my grandma id be dead. through the years she puts me down calls me names, when im home she tells me i have no friends and need to make some. then when i do go out at night she tells my grandma" she looks like a s*** wearing that.. where the hell is she going?" its like if i stay home im a loser and if i go out im a s****. when my brothers and sisters start with me and she witnesses it she tells my grandma that I am starting with them. meanwhile she just heard a 9 year old curse me out. and i didnt say anything back.i hate her! i also would like to mention that she had me at 18. its like she hads kids and ignores them. ive always been her target always. she goes out and buys food for the rest of them but never asks me if i want anything. she whispers things to the kids about me like im 2 years old. its been 2 months since ive talked to her and we live in the same home. she walks by my room singing songs and ..basicaly picks on me. im tired of her bullying. idk what to do. what would you do? |
Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:04 AM PDT I live in one of those families where everyone hates someone. So family events on my Mom's side of the family always have someone we are supposed to hate for the year. Right now it is my Mom's sister my Dad is pushing me to hate cause she left her husband. She is guilty of sometimes using her kids as weapons against her soon to be ex-husband but I feel that is their immediate family's business and not ours. My Dad differs and pleaded with me to leave town when the aunt and her daughter were passing through two weeks ago. I caved in to his demands and did. Really sad part is her kids are being punished by us avoiding them just as they are by their mother using them ads a weapon. So now my Dad keeps me in the dark from family invites this aunt might be at. He also has a relative on his side of the family he doesn't want me to speak to. SO how do I get him to let me know when we are invited? I am an adult so can see who I want but if I don't know there is a gathering then I can't without driving past people's houses everyday looking for cars but that would be stalking (I used to do that). Cause of my obsessive past I can't invite myself to something like Thanksgiving but only go if invited. Yet my Dad keeps me in the dark about that cause of this love-hate game my parents play. My Mom is just as bad. |
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Question: What makes a Dad refuse sympathy when his adult son is mentally ill? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:03 AM PDT |
Question: My sister is pregnant, OMG, will people curse our whole family since she is not married? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:02 AM PDT |
Question: Is it normal to be uncomfortable around my father(18F)? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:00 AM PDT He is an angry drunk who even sober is angry. Since I was a child he would grab/slap/pinch My butt and I am now 18. As a child he drunkenly tried to choke me and I genuinely fear coming home to him because of how he treats my mother and I. He never apologized to me about anything once or he pins it as if it's my fault. In a very menial note he would always pull off my blanket as well as turn on the lights and slap my butt if I'm not up before 11am. Is this normal? |
Question: Should invite my parents to my middle school graduation? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 07:34 AM PDT |
Question: My father never approves of my girlfriends.? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 06:36 AM PDT Since my very first girlfriend over 15 years ago, he has always said something extremely negative about them. They were always "too ugly", "too fat", etc. Now I met the woman of my dreams who's a nurse, intelligent, beautiful, funny, loyal, religious, but she's African American. My father says he will disown me of I continue dating her because she's black. We've been together for over a year and I could see myself marrying her. |
Question: I'm 14 and I'm wonder if it's a good idea to get HRS China town wars? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 06:27 AM PDT is it a good idea? I think my dad will be fine with it. Even thought you can sell drugs I won't do it. Do you think I should get it? |
Question: Do Fred and Acetone Huffer be twins? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 06:15 AM PDT I called dat numba dat boi put on hear but it was disconnected. Dat boi better hope i don't find him. He be lookin dead already dough. |
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Posted: 29 Oct 2017 05:57 AM PDT I see them once a year on 4th of July and occasionally run into them or see them at funerals. However, my Mom and my siblings and I don't go to family holidays cause we are not invited due to silly grudges my Mom likes to hold over stuff everyone else is over. I obsess all day and every day that we will be known as the "2nd rate" relatives. By 2nd rate I mean relatives that are only known at a distance. I am dreading Thanksgiving cause of this. At Christmas I at least take a gift around to two of my Mom's three siblings (one declines my offer). Yet, while her siblings are nice to me, their kids are teens and young adults so are never home. |
Question: Family arguments. When to seek help? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 05:26 AM PDT Basically my parents are arguing every day this week, over trivial things such as plans for the day. I'm starting to dislike my mum. Mainly because of the way she speaks to me. She also drinks a bottle of blossom hill red wine per night. My dad tried to hang himself last week, thankfully he went to bed. My mum also said we should both hang ourselves. "Why don't you get two ropes". The way she speaks to me is awful, I had a better time with my maths tutor! Any ideas.... I'm 17 ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.04 |
Question: What is a good gift to give from Utah? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 05:02 AM PDT |
Question: Why dont my parents trust me when I go to a friends house? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:11 AM PDT I'm 18, yet everytime I go out my mom dumps out my purse without me knowing. Last night, they knew I was coming home at 10. But, still made a fuss about it? While taking a shower she dumped my things out. What does she think is in there? The contents of my bag were the same when I left the house. I havent done anything bad in the first place to make them so suspicious of me. My dad is controlling (even with my mom) so I get he cant be helped. I left my phone on the couch for the first 2 hours and came back to 20 missed calls from them. It doesnt make sense since my dad was the one who dropped me off and picked me up. Even though they knew the times that I'll be staying they were upset at how many hours it was. Its a party so it was 8...What is wrong with them...? I feel like I'm 12 years old and on their leash. Talking with them is not an option because they scream and talk over me always.Everytime I try to talk to my mom she keeps telling me I'm not an adult for some reason. Oh and I dont even go out much so ??? |
Question: My parents are emotionally abusive and its ruining the family? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 11:57 PM PDT title says it all, my parents are emotionally abusive and my younger sisters are both considering to run away. I grew up with my mother being physically abusive until the age 14, after that just was just mentally abusive, three years ago we went to her home country which was Iraq and last year we came back here to the united states, ever sense we did my father and mother haunt us every day for making us come back, every second of the day we are yelled at for this BS, like its stuff we can control. I want to do something about this, I want to do something for my siblings, my younger sister called me today saying that she wishes death over this life because of what my parents do. They are trying to make us move back to Iraq. although I'm an adult, the culture we grew up in doesn't really allow you to move out alone. I want to move out and take the three of my siblings, but I can't possibly afford it, and I don't even know if its legal for me to just take them. can someone suggest anything? I really don't know what exactly I should do or where I should start, talking to them is not an option, been there done that. |
Posted: 28 Oct 2017 11:37 PM PDT My sister has been going back and forth with her baby daddy and their family and her baby daddy friends. Long story short. My sister tried to commit suicide a week ago and she is in the hospital now. Her baby daddy boyfriend was texting her and stirred up some drama between them and was calling her crazy etc and just a big mess. Well my sister is really soft hearted and has asked nicely for her baby daddy friend to stop texting her (he likes he btw and she turned him down) and now he's mad and they've like joined forces against my sister and now she's in the hospital. When she asked him to stop texting and calling her he didn't. She IGNORED him for a while then he stopped and would call her and text her saying oops didn't mean to text u my bad. Or that was a accident dial I didn't mean to call. Just messing with her u no? And she snapped on him and then they started to make fun of her call her crazy etc etc because she's tired of being provoked so recently she tried to commit suicide because for some ppl it's just tough and my sister is not crazy, who's crazy is the ppl who want to push u to the point that u don't even want to live. It's not right and now my sister is in the hospital and I'm so sad for her and what can I do? Because what if she does take her life? |
Posted: 28 Oct 2017 10:13 PM PDT I m 16, my dad married my stepmom who already has two kids, my dad made a prommise to me that there wont be another child, then he surprises me that my stepmom is pregonant, which I don't want another sibling. |
Question: Could what I experienced as a child be considering abuse? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 10:07 PM PDT I'm currently 14 years old and recently I've been looking back on the relationship between my dad and it want very pretty. From age 8 I've lived with my father and my brother and although none of this is happens anymore I'm worried i might have been abused. There were many times that he shoved me into walls or pushed me to the ground but I rarely was actually injured besides minor bruises. The only time I was left with serious physical marks was when I was about 7 years old and my dad was trying to help me get ready for school cause my mom was away on a trip, I was always bad about brushing my hair so he was trying to get the knots out but I started whining and complaining that it was hurting. It all escalated really quickly and I started crying which made him even more annoying so he pinned me to the ground and when I wouldn't shut up he began hitting me on the head with that back of the hairbrush. I don't know how long it lasted but eventually he just let me head off to school and when I came home he acted like nothing had happened. The next day I woke up with welts all over my head but no one noticed. In fifth grade I told my schools counselor about everything as that's around when it was the worse but she told me there was nothing she could do since, and I quote "it's not worth worrying about" my friend who I had told about this also told the counselor and said the same thing to her. Was my counselor right that it wasn't legally abuse? |
Question: I stole money from my parents? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 09:45 PM PDT At school we were supposed to each get several donations for a fundraiser. I did not know until the fundraiser was almost done, so my parents were the only donations. They donated 50$. I felt embarrassed for only having one donation so I didn't hand it in. I kept the money for myself and now I feel bad and that karma is gonna catch up to me or something. |
Question: I realized that my mom is a narcissist, how can I get out of this situation? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 09:07 PM PDT At this time, I have now realized that my mom is a narcissist. She is amazingly manipulative, controlling, and is never happy. She came to live with my dad, brother, and I because she doesn't work and it didn't work out living with her sister. I graduated high school with good grades but didn't get accepted to uni. I went to a community college. My mom last night told me it's my fault for her not being happy living with her ex (my dad). She said she was disappointed that I didn't go to college. She went further and said I duped or deceived her and she has said she expects me to support her (even if that means her living with me as a grown adult child) and sees nothing wrong with that. She said that her and my 16 year old brother could move in with me if I was in my own place now. I'm 25 and I might be going back to school to get a nursing degree and desperately want to move out. She blames me for us not having money. My dad always told me that she was codependent and I believe him now. My dad wants me to move to uni. I don't talk to him as much as I should because when my mom moved in, he ignores her completely (only talks a little). When I have conversations with my dad, my mother gets mad and asks me if I was talking to him if she thinks we're talking. I've shut myself off from my dad and actually seeing my extended family because of her. At times, I feel guilty for feeling this way, but I'm not responsible for her. Should I get counseling and how can I move out? |
Question: Will it likely affect a child negatively if their parents left them for 4-5 years? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 08:52 PM PDT I know a 9 year old boy who lives with his 15 year old cousin and her parents. His parents left him when he was 6 to work in a foreign country. This child stayed in Canada and doesn't talk to his parents very often. The boy's aunt mentioned that his parents won't come back until the 15 year old girl (his cousin) turns 18. Or maybe sooner if they're lucky. It's already been three years without mom and dad. I notice that their 15 year old is already a bit affected by this - and I'm sure that it would affect their own child as well. Meanwhile, these relatives are his legal caregivers. |
Question: If Kim Jong under tries to hit us we will have to evacuate? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 08:37 PM PDT I live in Baltimore which is the reason I'm asking and my mom says he hates DC and that really close to me and I'm freaking scared |
Question: I don’t know what to do with my life!!! I need help.? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 07:55 PM PDT I'm almost 20 years old and I have been living in a house with my mom and stepdad and also two brothers. I don't go to school , I do have a little job where I babysit a friends baby and i usually go to her house to babysit him I get paid $25 a day . I have known my stepdad since I was 7 years old and I never had a good formal relationship. I am a calm person and also quiet so I don't fight or argue with him . I am not dramatic so I don't like problems or anything out of the ordinary. My stepdad, he works to pay bills and somehow buys restaurant food to eat at times but he has been annoying. Like he was never a father figure cause he never was that person that I felt comfortable talking to about my personal problems or laughed with. I never had anything good to say about him like sure he has helped my mom with a financial things and did a few good things but he has a bad personality. Like I can be five feet away from him and he could ask a question with my name coming out of his mouth. It's like I'm not there but I am . He acts like he were a mean and rude older brother. He wants all the attention and everything for him. Sometimes I wish I can leave but I don't know where to go . I don't live near family and my dad he lives far away too. |
Question: Would this be stupid? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 07:43 PM PDT I sent my friend something in the mail and it ended up needing more postage so the mailman made her pay 2 to 3 extra dollars. Which is not bad but it's still kind of not right considering I sent her a gift and she ended up using her own money that was apart of her big savingns to pay for it (i know $2 is not a lot but still. I apologize to her and she said it's all right no worries. Although I still want to pay it back and give it back to her considering I put her in that little position. Would it be stupid if I sent a letter (with the right amount of stamps!) with two dollars in it saying "Here, put this back in your piggy bank!" just for fun? |
Question: How should I pretend to get along with a sibling a live with and dislike? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 07:25 PM PDT About to get kicked out of the house for not smoking marijuana, not partying, no staying out lake... but not speaking to my sibling. Without going into a long spiel. She treats me and our parents disrespectfully and has been doing so for years. They have threatened to kick her out more times than they can count. My parents and she still don't get along. And me and her definitely do not like each other. How can I pretend to like her. Are there any books that I can read that would maybe help me put things into perspective. I just need to play along until I move out. Then I am done. |
Posted: 28 Oct 2017 07:18 PM PDT She is my Mom's sister. My Dad says she has no class to cut my parent down to my face. He is her ex-brother-in-law (my parent;s are divorced and don't speak to each other) and even he agrees this aunt is mean. Yet, I want to be on good terms with all family. |
Question: How do I get the dark old wounds from my parents' divorce to stop opening? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 07:17 PM PDT Edit My Mom used me as a pawn against my father when I was a kid in their divorce. I lived in the shame of hearing my Mom tell me my Dad didn't want a relationship with me or he would have tried to fix the marriage. My Mom was f..cked up. She remarried and said my new Dad was my step-Dad. He is a good guy but I wanted my real Dad. Now many-many years later those wounds open at the holidays. My Dad has died but his family is still alive. They usually don't ask me as they don't know me as well cause of my parents' divorce. When I am not asked I feel the dark-dark shame of being an unwanted child or forgotten. At Christmas I take a gift around and all but one of the relatives are welcoming. I used to try too hard and it turned people off so I don't take something around at Thanksgiving also as my Dad's family is relatively private. At Thanksgiving I feel all the wounds of my Mom's emotionally abusive behavior when I was a kid. I have no friends and so family is all I have. My anxiety from emotional abuse in school is such that I am uncomfortable making friends. I sound like a victim but what I am looking for is advise to overcome this. I have a step-father who is totally irritated if I show any sign of holiday anxiety. He was sympathetic when I was a teen but thinks all anxiety leaves at your 21st birthday. My mother is not nearly as emotionally abusive as she was now that my Dad has died but she still has bias' against my Dad' family. |
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Question: How do I scare away vandals on mischief night (cabbage night)? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 06:53 PM PDT I am the type of person who thinks that mischief night must be outlawed. I hate everything about it and I'd like to know how to prevent these damned teenagers from drawing ***** on my house with shaving cream, and throwing toilet paper all over my house like it's a garbage can. I would love to shoot their sorry asses but I'd get arrested so what else is there that I can do without spending too much money if any. I have a 3 year old daughter and I don't want her seeing the inappropriate dick drawings that will scar her for life. I want her to stay innocent for as long as possible. It's upsetting really that I will have to see my daughter leave my house one day. Anyway, anything you can tell me to get those asshole teenagers the **** off my property?? |
Question: Should I choose my sister or my parents? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 06:36 PM PDT I moved out recently to my sisters apartment because my parents weren't letting me make my own choices in life and were too controlling, they are trying to get me to move back with them saying they're willing to buy me everything I need, and I told them money doesn't buy happiness and that I'm happy where I am, but they kept insisting. I'm just debating because they said if I moved back they will enforce more rules and it'll take time to build their trust but I have problems believing they'll even give me any freedom. I only have a week to decide so what should I do?? |
Question: It’s not normal to nurse a kid this long is it? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 06:34 PM PDT My niece is almost 6... She still nurses like once or twice per day. My sister thinks it's totally fine because she's autistic and it eases her anxiety. I think by 6 years a kid should be finding something other than her mums boob to ease her anxiety!! My sister also has a 1.5 year old so reckons nursing her older daughter is no big deal.. I think it's gross. Who agrees with me and who agrees with my sister? |
Question: What do I do at this point? I want to give up? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 06:32 PM PDT Hello, I am a 26 year old pregnant female; mother of two. I am seven months pregnant and probably the most stressful ever. I was in an abusive relationship: mentally, physically and emotionally. He recently kicked me and my kids out two months ago. I was with him on and off for seven years. I'm currently just beating myself up for everything. I feel stupid for even allowing this man to take advantage of my life and practically ruin it. Im mad at myself. Ever since he kicked me out, things just been going downhill. I almost lost my car, I live with my mom, my job is stressful as is and physically demanding. I'm just tired. I'm stressed. I want to give up but my KIDS are the only reason I'm standing tall. I want to cry every night but I can't let my kids see me fall. My pregnancy hormones are making it ten times worse. I'm just down emotionally all the time. I feel stuck and unhappy with my life. What can I do? Nonetheless, I barely can keep up with back bills he put me in. I feel like I'm at rock bottom. No one to talk to; my mom is too busy worrying about taking my money. She helps but it's such a hassle and complaint. I literally have no one and I thought I had him (my ex) but I was stupid for thinking I did. He doesn't help with crap; only good thing is he takes them on the weekend because it's court ordered; yet they are always with their grandma anyway. I'm just tired mentally physically and emotionally. I feel like I will never be able to do better. I'm just stuck. |
Question: 18 Years Old Living With Toxic Parents. What Should I Do? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 05:55 PM PDT I'm an 18 year old male and still live with my parents. Right now I'm in technical school. I'll get right into it. I had to get my own cell phone because my mom tracked who I talked to and wanted to track my location. They wouldn't let me get a job in high school, so I have no money. This is a problem because most of the time, they won't feed me or let me use food around the house. Last year I was diagnosed with testicular cancer. Right now I'm in remission, but my mom keeps hosting events to raise money for the bills, even though they were already paid for. She's pretty subtle about our insurance, she wouldn't even talk to my doctors about payment options with me in the room. My dad refuses to do anything about this, and just tells me that I'm good at nothing in life, and repeatedly tells me that he wants to fight me. Yeah, I'm not kidding. It's not like I don't do anything around the house. I do laundry, take out the trash, and keep my room clean. They expect me to do everything for them. Family members are aware of whats happening, and they are on my side, they are starting to consider me move in with one of them. Before I consider that option, is there anything I should try or do? |
Posted: 28 Oct 2017 05:32 PM PDT Even putting nicotine in it and it helps with stress. She started crying when I still said I was telling and then started to say that she would run away if I was going to tell. She said this repeatedly and then she said she would just kill herself if she wasn't such a coward. I swear I was like her threpist for a half hour convincing her that that wasn't the answer. I need to tell my parents about her saying she would kill herself but I don't know how to do it without saying she has a vape. I know if I try to say "I can't tell you why I know she told me that she wanted to kill herself" because my mom would just think of the worst case scenarios. Please help me because I don't know what to do and I don't want my sister to die. |
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Posted: 28 Oct 2017 05:14 PM PDT Plzzz help me hes mean i tell mt mom he pushes my mom and in to shy to tell my dad cause he dont care should i call law enforcement and send him to jail by the way he gets mad at me for walker vy him he shubs me and so i get mad and throw is book bag dofge his punch kick him in his area and tell my mom should i stiill call law enforcement plz tell me ge is fat far and more far fat ****** |
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