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- Question: This is not a big deal that I should worry about it?
- Question: How to not cry when you see someone?
- Question: Why can't i open up to people about how i feel?
- Question: Why do some people sabotage others?
- Question: What's the worst thing a friend has ever done to you?
- Question: What kind of people are I your friend group?
- Question: What do u hate that people du when ur crying?
- Question: ?When a guy says I hurt his feelings?
- Question: How can I force my friends to listen to bluegrass music?
- Question: This chap wanted to beat me up for commenting his girlfriends picture(once) and there's this guy called tommy who comments everyone?
- Question: Rumor at my school that me and my bother are having sex?
- Question: Why would this man online say we are friends but he kept calling me the n-word and criticizing my religion?
- Question: What made her change????
- Question: How do I quit hs football my senoir year, mid season, without my school mates giving me hate.?
- Question: Does this woman hate me? Lol?
- Question: How to confront someone that's being mean to me and my friend?
- Question: Do you think this cashier liked me the entire time?
- Question: I never hear from my friends?
- Question: Am I evil?
- Question: Should I let go of my current friends?
- Question: My mom wouldn't stop hating on my friends?
- Question: My friend has just died in Iraq and I still can't believe he's gone?
- Question: I think so much differently than most 8th grade junior high students, why?
- Question: 14 Year Old Going On A Weekend School Trip?
- Question: I m at the end of junior high, I have realized that my beliefs and thoughts are quite different than most?
- Question: My fiancés and I's friend is a liar and it pisses us off??
- Question: How to help someone handle the loss of a loved one to suicide?
- Question: I hated my old school but i hate my new one too. What should I do?
- Question: Do you think this cashier liked me the entire time?
- Question: Why do people ignore me and laugh at me?
- Question: Why are quiet girls so sweet?
- Question: I feel like somethings wrong with me help please its serious?
- Question: Is there a foster home in my friendship is magic?
- Question: What are my roommates hiding?
- Question: Gift recommendations for men?
- Question: Why do people at school always annoy me?
- Question: What should I do about this Ex-Friend that is rude to me ?!?
- Question: I always take my sister's side and help her but all she does is stab me in the back?
- Question: Do people hang out with people they don't like?
- Question: Why am I still traumatized by this?
- Question: Internet friend? There's this girl I've been friends with online for months but she's so dramatic, is it even worth it?
- Question: I AM SUPER DESPARATE FOR ANSWERS PLEASE ANSWER How do I become friends with someone who doesn’t seem interested?
- Question: How do you cope with being alone in this world?
- Question: All good friends keep secrets.?
- Question: Why have I stopped caring about my social life and girls?
- Question: Is it wrong for me to refuse to talk to my friend? Are these reasons reasons rational?
- Question: What's with friends these days?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Why would my close friend text me she really misses me everyday after school even though we c each other everyday? #bothgirls?
- Question: How can I make more friends?
- Question: MY ROOMMATE MAKES ME WANNA JUMP OUT A WINDOW !!!!?
- Question: I'm in deep trouble with my mom she caught me doing very adult things somewhere!!!?
- Question: Am I wrong for being annoyed with my college roommate?
- Question: How many chances would you give after asking an online friend to stop calling you ugly and stupid?
- Question: My boyfriend and best friend both hate my friend. What do I do?
- Question: How to not be stone faced?
- Question: HEY IS IT WRONG TO DRINK PEE?
- Question: Should I get a G.E.D.?
| Question: This is not a big deal that I should worry about it? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:56 PM PDT What do you make of our new neighbor? They moved in this past summer with Jennifer who is the same age as our Son Matthew. They are both in 4th grade, best friends and our only neighbor so this is perfect. Jennifer takes swimming at the local swim club so she is often times in her swimwear. Last weekend she was over playing with Matthew in a shirt with her swimsuit underneath which again is normal. She got in trouble and was taken home but she left behind her video games so Matthew and I both went to return them. Jennifer was then getting a (light spanks for a few minutes) spanking across her Dad's lap which is not odd but I noticed that she did not have on her pink swimsuit bottom. She instead was lying over Dad's lap in a basic white nylon underwear panty instead of her swimwear panty. It is not a big deal but I don't know why the change? My Sister says Jennifer would experience the spanking more? |
| Question: How to not cry when you see someone? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:33 PM PDT My friend and I got in a huge fight and I can't look at her or hear her name without crying. |
| Question: Why can't i open up to people about how i feel? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:18 PM PDT i want to tell people I'm not okay, that every bit of me is hurting, but i can't. i keep getting so close but the choose not to. Either people won't care or they won't understand. Is there something wrong with me? |
| Question: Why do some people sabotage others? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:13 PM PDT There was a group presentation today and one of the members said during the presentation "sorry there's no picture because I didn't have time to make it". |
| Question: What's the worst thing a friend has ever done to you? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 05:12 PM PDT What would your best friend have to do for you to decide to cut her out of your life? |
| Question: What kind of people are I your friend group? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 04:40 PM PDT |
| Question: What do u hate that people du when ur crying? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 04:19 PM PDT Ok, so my friend was crying one day and I tried to ask what was wrong, but she said (with obvious tears) that she was just tired. So she obviously didn't want to talk to me. Thing is tho, nobody ever talks to me about their problems. What am I doing wrong? How can I gain their trust so I can b there for them when they need someone? I want to help, but how can I when nobody talks to me? How can I comfort/show concern 4 someone without scaring them away? Any advice/suggestions/tips/anything would be greatly appreciated!! |
| Question: ?When a guy says I hurt his feelings? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 04:18 PM PDT because I deleted him from my fb... but he is not a close friend at all (he was my tutor for a semester) and I barely talk to him...We met today and when we were talking, he realized that I deleted him from fb. He said that I hurt his feeling. I am not sure how should i have responded? |
| Question: How can I force my friends to listen to bluegrass music? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 04:08 PM PDT I'm 16 years old, a varsity cheerleader, and I am a huge bluegrass music fan! (today's music, Flatt Lonesome, Trinity River Band, Steve Gulley, Junior Sisk, etc.) But none of my friends like it, and most of the other cheerleaders make fun of me because of it. They all listen to pop, rap, hip-hop, you know, garbage like that. They won't let me play bluegrass in their cars when we go out. I don't have my license yet, so I don't drive. |
| Posted: 16 Oct 2017 04:04 PM PDT I just wondered why he's didn't threaten him like he did me, can you give me ideas ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03 |
| Question: Rumor at my school that me and my bother are having sex? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:40 PM PDT My brother and I are 14 and we are both twins. So my brother was leaving to go to my Grandpa's house and my friends were staying over and as he was leaving he kissed me on the cheek and left. My friends started and rumor that we were having sex and yes I have dumped them. Kissing on the cheek is normal in my family. But now me and my brother are getting teased at school how can we stop this btw I am a girl |
| Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:34 PM PDT Some friend. |
| Question: What made her change???? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:14 PM PDT I was close friends with a girl for 6 years, we hungout everyday but she cut me out of her life in June after a big fight that was my fault. We have not talked since June, But yesterday I saw her at the mall from a far and she looked soo different. She looked, really chubby, and just looked like a mess!!!!! And she looked really mad..... What would make her change soo much ???? She always looked soo beautiful |
| Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:07 PM PDT Today I told coach "I can t be a practice tommorow, I have robotics" to which he responded by flipping out and saying that if I don t make practice tomorrow I m off the team. I don t care about hs football (originally started doing it for purely selfish reasons) and want to tell him that I m going to robotics instead. I m very passionate about robotics and I promised the robotics coach (my favorite teacher btw) that I would never miss a weekly robotics practice for football. So I am going to leave the team because screw them, however my big fear is that the entire school will give me hate and make my senoir year miserable for me. How do I keep that from happening. |
| Question: Does this woman hate me? Lol? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:02 PM PDT I like this woman from school who told me she has a boyfriend. But she never mentions him in conversation. I never see them both together on her Facebook. She has tons of pics of her girlfriends and her children. She invited me to her birthday party. In class last year, she walked by my desk and turned the monitor to my computer downward and smiled. She said her boyfriend wouldn't mind if we hung out together. But we haven't done so yet. She hasn't asked me where I like to go. I feel like she could be playing games with me. When we talk on Facebook sometimes, she will say you need a job because you spend too much time on Facebook. I feel like she finds me annoying sometimes. Then a while back she blew up at me because I accidentally messaged her during work last night. I didn't know what days and times she works her second job and she cussed me out. She says she only messages me because I'm always messaging her. I'm not forcing her to talk to me though. Usually I just say hi and stuff |
| Question: How to confront someone that's being mean to me and my friend? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 02:31 PM PDT I am a senior in high school. My school is very small, and I know almost every single student and teacher in that school. My best friend and I are not usually mean people. If someone's getting drama, we might fight back a little, but normally, we never involve ourselves in it. There is one girl in our school, we'll say her name is Doris. She is mean to almost everyone. She hates my best friend for who knows what reason, as my friend never did anything to her, and today I just found out by one of my closest friends that Doris texted her last night and called me a b**** and said she's always hated me. This sort of wasn't news to me, because she always seemed to rub me the wrong way. She's horribly fake to everyone. But for some reason, it still hurt me really badly. She hurts so many people, especially with her stupid subtweeting on twitter. I left every group chat that she was in with me, I unfriended her on snapchat, and I blocked her on my finsta (I know social media is really dumb haha but that's where she likes to spy and get in people's business) I really want to confront her in person, but I'm nervous. I have no idea what to say. She needs to hear what she's dishing out, because it's not okay. What should I say to her? Should I confront her? I don't want to add to the drama, but it's sickening that she is so mean all the time. Thank you! |
| Question: Do you think this cashier liked me the entire time? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 02:23 PM PDT I have been going to this store for awhile and every time I would go there this guy cashier would always talk to my mom and I. Anyway I saw him the other day and he asked me what was new. I told him I just started Massage Therapy school. And he said that if I needed someone to practice on I could practice on him. And he asked me for my number. |
| Question: I never hear from my friends? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 02:21 PM PDT I have three friends and I've known them a long time. I'm always asking to see them and tell them I miss them. It seems that they don't have the same kind of urgency to see me, as I do to see them. I told two of them in a group chat two weeks ago that I missed them and wished I saw them this Summer instead of being with my ex boyfriend (even though they never asked to see me) , and one of them promptly ended the conversation and said she had to go to bed. I was upset so I just said "okay bye". It does bother me that we don't talk a lot and I've mentioned this to all of them. It's hard when only one of my friends drive so I know they can't always get a ride, but that shouldn't stop you from talking to a friend. I know they've tried to get out of plans with me before and would post photos of what they were doing on Facebook. Two weeks ago I had plans with two of them and a few days before one of them said that we couldn't hang out cause they both had to work. I know one of them started a new job so I understood, but the other one knew for a month in advance that we had plans and said she even wrote the date on her calendar. Then like a day or two after that, she was in my town with her brother and they hung out at someone's house where they had a get together. She didn't even mention she was in the area so I was hurt. I have aspergers so it's hard to make friends as an adult. I'm female. Not sure what else I can do to get their attention, it makes me sad. I get lonely. |
| Posted: 16 Oct 2017 02:08 PM PDT I have always been sneaky ever since I was little and when I started puberty and liking boys for a great example my friend was having a birthday party and my parents knew that a guy they didn't want me hanging around was going to be there but my mom asked the day before he was going to be there and I told her no and he really was going to be there so the next day she takes me to the party he was already there and my friend was hiding him and my mom found out he was there I think she came back to my friend's house and looked through her window and saw us sitting together and I got grounded for lying but when I was in high school it just kept getting worse and worse I was lying about where I was at and what scares me the most I can come up with a very convincing lie on the spot it's like I can't control it |
| Question: Should I let go of my current friends? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:52 PM PDT I have three friends and I've known them a long time. I'm always asking to see them and I tell them I miss them. It seems that they don't have the same kind of urgency to see me, as I do to see them. I told two of them in a group chat two weeks ago that I missed them and wished I saw them this Summer instead of being with my ex boyfriend, and one of them promptly ended the conversation and said she had to go to bed. I was kind of upset so I just said "okay bye". It does bother me that we don't talk a lot and I've mentioned this to all of them. It's also hard when only one of my friends drive so I know they can't always get a ride, but that shouldn't stop you from talking to a friend. I know they've tried to get out of plans with me before too and would post photos of what they were doing, on Facebook. Two weeks ago I had plans with two of them and a few days before one of them said that we couldn't hang out cause they both had to work. I know one of them started a new job so I understood, but the other one knew for a month in advance that we had plans and said she even wrote the date on her calendar. Then like a day or two after that, she was in my town with her brother and they hung out at someone's house where they had a get together. She didn't even mention she was in the area so I was hurt. I think maybe it's time I let go of them a little bit since I can't do anything more to get their attention. I have aspergers so it's hard to make friends as an adult. I'm female. |
| Question: My mom wouldn't stop hating on my friends? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:51 PM PDT i hate when i make a new friend and my mom starts hating them the second i say there public schooled and not homeschooled like, come the hell on!!! just because they don't have the same schooling as me doesn't mean you can just believe there monsters there are some homeschoolers i know that are jerks and my friend Ashlynn (also known as ashlynntheotaku on instagram and musical.ly) is public schooled and shes the nicest person i know and shes the reason for this when ever i invite her over or talk on snapchat my mom is always like "is she sending mean texts to you?" or "did she be mean to you?" i hate it when my mom does that how to i get her to stop? |
| Question: My friend has just died in Iraq and I still can't believe he's gone? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:06 PM PDT My friend has just died in Iraq 14 days ago,he was 20 yo. We had known each other since we were in middle school and he has always loved me. I didn't love him back that way but I really loved him (in a friendly way). I just cannot believe he's gone,I mean it's surreal thinking that I'll never see him again,ever. Like part of me still believe that he'll come back. Any adivce? I can't think about anything else right now |
| Question: I think so much differently than most 8th grade junior high students, why? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 11:36 AM PDT I'm at the end of junior high, I have realized that my beliefs and thoughts are quite different than most students around my age. Most students follow the common thought system of Make friends, stay friends even though they have hurt me multiple times, and I just forgive them the next day. School is my life, I study and do good, I don't think of my future very much, I have little to no stress, I just want to have "fun". | When I don't do that at all, I never cared about "fitting in" making friends, being social, having "fun". I want to be successful, I have no desire to waste my time with non productive things. I am already self employed, Selling products on amazon (amazon FBA). Why am I like this? Do I have a mental disorder? |
| Question: 14 Year Old Going On A Weekend School Trip? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 11:34 AM PDT I am not that good friends with anyone that's going and I hate sharing rooms with people as I like my own privacy. What should I do as I will be put into rooms randomly and I will have no private time and will have to share a toilet and shower. I think its disgusting but I really want to go on the trip. Any advice? |
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| Question: My fiancés and I's friend is a liar and it pisses us off?? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 11:00 AM PDT My fiancé has a best friend that he has known for years. My fiancé and I almost always hang out with him and he has became my friend too. However there is a big problem. This guy is a liar. not an occasional liar a compulsive liar. I HATE liars with a passion. He brags about how much money he has, how good his credit is, all the stuff he can buy yet he is ALWAYS broke. Before I realized this, we were all gonna move in together cause his friend doesn't wanna live alone. Everytime he comes over he says he found a place for us yet everytime this happens we hear nothing about these places again. Then he makes up a lie about the place and how it fell through. He has supposedly found a hundred places so far yet we have seen none of them. We ask to but he makes up an excuse. He does this with cars too, he claims how he is getting this car and that car but these "cars" are never seen. He lies about everything from lying about kicking someones ***, to cars to just about anything. It annoys the hell outta us but my fiancé still wants to be friends. We have called him out on his lies a lot and he still lies. His stories always change. How do we deal with this friend? We are about ready to cut him off for good. Anyone have this problem? |
| Question: How to help someone handle the loss of a loved one to suicide? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 10:43 AM PDT Okay so I am currently in 11th grade, and I have just recently esperienced one of the most shocking experiences of my life. A 12th grade who I knew and who taught me how to play volleyball committed suicide for an unknown reason. It has been 4 days, and it seems like it is taking a toll on all of us. However, it is effecting one of my friends the most. The 12th grader was her boyfriend and the event has left her in shock. What can me and my classmates do to help her out? |
| Question: I hated my old school but i hate my new one too. What should I do? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 10:15 AM PDT I left my old school and came to a new one for my freshman year because I hated my old school. I thought a new school would be great, but it's been almost 9 weeks in my new school and I still haven't made friends. I'm so lonely every day and I hate it. I have a few friends but we aren't close at all and i only talk to them in class. I had friends in my old school but I wasn't close with them, so I thought I could make new friends at a new school but I'm having a hard time. I went to my old school for 11 years and I knew everybody, I don't feel as welcome in my new school as I felt in my old school. Should I stay at my new school and hope things get better, or should I go back to my old school? |
| Question: Do you think this cashier liked me the entire time? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 08:01 AM PDT I have been going to this store for awhile and every time I would go there this guy cashier would always talk to my mom and I. Anyway I saw him the other day and he asked me what was new. I told him I just started Massage Therapy school. And he said that if I needed someone to practice on I could practice on him. And he asked me for my number. |
| Question: Why do people ignore me and laugh at me? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 07:32 AM PDT I don't want to sound like I'm a victim but I'll say the truth, people ignore me, no one texts me, no one calls me, even my parents don't care if I'm alive. I text my only friend I have and she doesn't reply me back. Also with family people. I don't know why they ignore me, is it because I'm ugly? I've seen they also laughed at me, like if I'm an idiot and don't notice it. They just talk about what I do and what i don't do, my family treats me like a failure. I'm really tired of this situation |
| Question: Why are quiet girls so sweet? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 07:14 AM PDT |
| Question: I feel like somethings wrong with me help please its serious? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 06:02 AM PDT Okay so I moved with my parents in Austria and i dont know german at all and its pretty difficult for me to find a full time job but also friends...let alone a boyfriend! my parents are really helping me with stuff but you know i feel alone.. i used to have many friends back in my country! and now its so difficult for me! i have people that i know here but i feel that they dont want to be around me since im the one to text first to meet! ohh god i feel so alone i dont know what to do its been 3 months since i moved and i feel so bad! i also have a job but its only 2 days a week so not that much money and i have to take care of my self alone my parents want me to be responsible with the money and use it right they dont help me with the money! but i live with them and they pay for the house so i guess its fair,Im 18 and i totally get it but its killing me for real i cant go anywhere cause i have to save! i also started a course for German Language so i can learn and find something new for a job with better money ! it is difficult but i will get through it! As with friends when i go out with them im confident and try to be funny and people look to have fun but they never text first to meet me! and that didnt happend with only one person it happened 4 people and one of them was a date! i feel like theres something wrong with me, i feel alone and sad ! I dont know if Im looking for an answer or just feel the need to tell how i feel! |
| Question: Is there a foster home in my friendship is magic? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 04:29 AM PDT |
| Question: What are my roommates hiding? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:27 AM PDT So, we're all moving off campus for school because there was an overflow of students who were guaranteed housing, so we got put in a place they want to tear down in march and they're basically kicking us out. my roomies and i were going to move together, but then two of them made separate plans and didn't tell me until i overheard them talking about it and I went up to them and asked them about it. It's ok cuz i figured something else out and were all moving soon. I told them I've found another place to live and when I'm leaving, but they aren't telling me anything. They just told me today that they signed a lease, but were hesitant to tell me where they were moving, and are trying to leave in the next few days. They wouldn't have even told me they're leaving so soon if I hadn't asked. They're acting really secretive and I literally would have come home one day to find that they had already left. Idk why they aren't telling me hardly anything, so I was wondering if they're trying to hide something from me? |
| Question: Gift recommendations for men? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 03:21 AM PDT It's my boy friend's 30th birthday and we don't usually go big on these things but I still want to give him a tasteful gift. |
| Question: Why do people at school always annoy me? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 02:30 AM PDT Is it because I'm shy?Is it because I'm a loner?All the time at school i feel hurt when people annoy me especially the guys.I'm sick of it I don't have the courage to tell them to stop. |
| Question: What should I do about this Ex-Friend that is rude to me ?!? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 01:42 AM PDT So I had a friend that was one of my really close friends and I had always been a good friend to her ... gave her advice , gave her rides places help build her self confidence etc. about a 1 1/2 ago she all of a sudden stopped being my friend for absolutely no reason and started acting really ugly towards me like publicly humiliating me on social media exposing pictures of me making fun of my out fits and such on there with another friend of hers and when people at school complement me or something ( like I recently had my hair cut ) she and her friend will have some snappy comment/reply and laugh about me and I did nothing to neither one of them and I try to ignore her but it's been about a year since I cut her off and still to this day she harasses me and still acts mean towards me every time I'm around what should I do and what do you think is her problem ?!? |
| Question: I always take my sister's side and help her but all she does is stab me in the back? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 01:39 AM PDT I always take my sister's side and help her out when shes down but for some reason that I dont know, she always seems to hit me when im down and snitch on me when i dont snitch on her if she does drugs or etc. Im lost... i really dont want to snitch on her but how do i get her to stop without her snitching again on me :( |
| Question: Do people hang out with people they don't like? Posted: 16 Oct 2017 12:37 AM PDT There are several people who have hung out with me on a regular basis, for example, classmates or coworkers, but then we lose touch as sometimes people do. But what I don't get is why, when I try to hang out, do they blow me off or outright ignore me... If they don't care for me then why did we constantly hang out (after school or after work) when we were classmates or coworkers? when i try to reconnect* |
| Question: Why am I still traumatized by this? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 11:52 PM PDT Okay. So, I haven't ever really opened up about this, (two of my friends know and I plan on telling my close best friend soon because of how bad it's hurting me now), but when I was four years old, I was raped by my high school neighbor. I was a child so I don't remember much. (I'm sorry.) My parent left me with him. He started to kiss me then it happened. I cried the whole time because it hurt so bad. This happened more over the next two years. Elementary school passed by because I didn't think about it, and when I did I thought it was normal. Middle school is when I realized that it wasn't normal and that's when I got really depressed. Freshman year: sucked. Sophomore year: better but I developed an eating disorder and it sucked. Junior years(this year I'm sorry I'm young): ****. Absolute ****. I think about it daily. I know I can be blamed for this but last week my male best friend initiated something in his car and I gave him a ******* and i was so scared and I cried for three hours after. I told my friend about it because I was so ready to end myself and she calmed me down and told me that it was okay. The same thing happened with my other friend but he made me change his contact name so there was an a at the start so if I needed to call him I didn't need to scroll. Am I just being a child for thinking about it still after twelve years or is this normal? I'm sorry this is so long. I'm sorry please help. |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:52 PM PDT Like me she has had trouble with people but she takes it to the next level. She's fun but then she gets depressed and drops off the radar. Either because of friends reacting to her over something (told everyone her friend killed himself for months, though he said to) or cause she gets depressed. She has a toxic friend that follows her around that's suicidal. Over the course of 5 months she's created like 4 discord chats and shut them down and unfriended multiple people multiple times, making it impossible to contact her. Very hard to deal with. I like her, she gets me more than most people but at this point is it even worth it? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:33 PM PDT There's a person at my school who is a Pentaholic (Pentatonix fan) like me. She is a lot more popular than me, middle-high (meaning she is in the middle but hangs out with a whole bunch of popular friends), and I am really unpopular. She knows I'm a fan, but I ALWAYS make the first move to talk to her. She is nice when she responds, but never makes the first move. And she isn't shy. Last year when she didn't know me well, and I was SUPER shy, she talked to me when her other friend wasn't there, and even when her friend was there sometimes. Also, someone said she can be mean at times, all of a sudden. I want a Pentaholic friend sooo bad, I've already gotten out of my comfort zone so much, but she doesn't make the first move to talk to me ever. I am very desperate to become her friend, but I only talk a few sentences to her everyday so that I don't seem desperate. Should I give up, although I really don't want to, or keep trying? If she doesn't ask me anything, we will never be able to have a conversation. How do I make her want to actually be my friend? I don't have social media that she uses BTW |
| Question: How do you cope with being alone in this world? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:15 PM PDT No family to speak of, no spouse or significant other or kids? |
| Question: All good friends keep secrets.? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 10:01 PM PDT |
| Question: Why have I stopped caring about my social life and girls? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:52 PM PDT I recently started community college as a college freshman and a lot of people have left my life, due to moving away or other reasons. I had a really bad break up with my ex girlfriend right before I started school, and I guess ever since I've stopped caring about hanging out with other people and other friends. Right now I'm really focused on grinding and working on my youtube channel and school, so I don't really have too much time for a social life anyways. Right before college started, my best friend moved to college, and I'm still left with several friends in the area, but I only see one of them at school and the rest I haven't seen since school started. For some reason I just don't care about going out anymore or hanging out with people. No one really texts me anymore besides one or two people and I'm basically solo most of the time. Is there a reason why I've changed my perspective so much? I went from a really active social life with many people to almost nothing and lonely, and I don't seem to care to chase girls or hang out with my friends. I am 18. Is this normal? |
| Question: Is it wrong for me to refuse to talk to my friend? Are these reasons reasons rational? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:22 PM PDT I used to be friends with this girl when I was a young teenager. At that time, I was trying to talk with her but she kept whispering stuff about me to another girl. I was really annoyed so I just went on my phone and just refused to talk to her. Now almost four years later, her parents my parents are friends. I locked my door but apparently it opened, and she's out there on the door. We had a moment where she glanced at me. Also I overheard her talk "crap" about me to another girl. Sorry I wrote reasons twice I am asking if my reasons for avoiding this girl rational? Should I talk to her and be friends or not? |
| Question: What's with friends these days? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 09:01 PM PDT A good friend of mine recently called me just to pretty much tell me, she thinks it's best we don't speak anymore and how all I ever do is overwhelm people and I'll never have friends. She proceeds to tell me I'm unstable, I don't act "normal", all I do is make her feel bad or guilty. How people have told her not to be friends with me because I'd never leave her alone and I'll overwhelm her. She also said, I'm not your mom! I can't be your mom, I can be your friend. (I never, never called her my mother only in a joke and she actually was calling herself my mother) The funny thing about all of this is... 1) I've never blamed her 4 anything. I always assured her she has nothing 2 do w/my anxiety & it's my problem 2 deal w/not hers. I only ask that she understand Im not my usual self. 2) I've asked if anything I said has bothered her/hurt her feelings cuz Id never want 2 do that. She's always said no, everything is good. 3) I caught her lying over stupid stuff. Although, I don't really care bout the lie, it just hurt that I felt I could no longer trust her as much as I did b4. After a wk I tried 2 just go back 2 trusting her like b4, but again, she still lied over stupid stuff so instead of getting upset/whatever I just didn't bring it up & I let it go. 4) I did artwork 4 her & never asked 4 anything in return & when she's stressed out I'm always there 4 her & I always remind her that even though she doesn't feel like it, she really does a great job and makes a difference. |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:35 PM PDT My friend bought tickets for my birthday to a concert. We ended up having plans, and the tickets were going to be sold...and I wouldn't have a gift for my birthday, which bummed me out a bit. My friend spent so much money though. Plans changed and we can both go now because the concert has been rescheduled. The friend has work the next afternoon and doesn't want to call off, so she wants me to buy the tickets from her. I think my friend is lying about multiple things not regarding the tickets, and has lied to me at least 5 times in the last 2 or 3 days. I don't think she would mind calling off the next afternoon, but I think she doesn't want to be friends anymore. I can't afford these tickets and she knows that, but I can't just let her lose that much money on nothing. I had texted her about the changed date and I was so excited, but my excitement has diminished. My options are to finally face the fact that she probably doesn't want to be friends anymore, or to somehow make all that money and fork it over and either go without the person that was once my best friend and the only person I imagined going with, or forking over the money to be a good friend and not go because it hurts me to not go with her. This friend and I are definitely going through a rough patch right now and we have been for a little while, but this concert thing is really upsetting me. |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:28 PM PDT We're super close and have been texting every day nonstop about life in general or joking about luv. She constantly texts "i rlly miss ya man" casually but we c each other everyday at school. Is it just a presence thing or more? |
| Question: How can I make more friends? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:20 PM PDT I'm not a social person so it's very hard to make friends |
| Question: MY ROOMMATE MAKES ME WANNA JUMP OUT A WINDOW !!!!? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 08:05 PM PDT So im dorming for college and have two roommate one who has become my best friend the other who i absolutely can't stand. she moved in about 3 weeks ago and since then she has been like a stalker. she found me on Facebook i never told her my last name. she texts me everyday and when i don't answer will keep texting. we have a class together and she will stare at me the whole class we are in the same row. one night i saw her phone on the desk open and she had it open to a text and she had a picture in it of my boyfriend and I ! i never gave her that photo she got it off one of my social medias and was sending it to someone. And about her 3rd or 4th night in the dorm with us at 2AM yes 2 AM she woke me up standing at the foot of my bed to tell me she got sick in the bathroom and wasn't going to class then next day. And in my previous question i said how she now has made us move her bed to the floor and is using my desk as a night stand. am i wrong for being annoying and angry? what do i do ? she also watches me sleep which is scary as hell |
| Question: I'm in deep trouble with my mom she caught me doing very adult things somewhere!!!? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:57 PM PDT This weekend I went to a festival, and I got very very high with my friends to the point where I remember not being clear headed at all. This was a bad bad idea as my mom was there too . My guy friend who I've had a thing with for like a month, was dry humping me to the beat of songs in front of all people around us ( a lot we're disgusted) and for some reason I decided to give him a ******** in some bathroom, no idea why. I ended up with what I'm pretty sure were c*m stains on my clothes this is an important detail for later. Me and this guy start making out in my friend group and he was groping me to the point where it was basically sex in public. My mom had my Snapchat , as I'm required to have her added. My friends posted a video of what we were doing on my story with the little reception we had it took about an hour for my mom to see it but when she did I got texts almost immediately showing up like rockets. I still smelled like weed and had the stains in my clothes. She dragged me out and let's just say I'm in deep **** now and I have no idea how to slow it better |
| Question: Am I wrong for being annoyed with my college roommate? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:57 PM PDT so i have this roommate and we've had issues in the past few weeks she's very creepy ( has pictures of my boyfriend and i on her phone . texts me every day and when i don't answer will keep texting ). anyway she causes issues and now her top bunk bed is down and my desk is now moved next to her bed and today i came back from now being in the dorm for the weekend and stuff on my desk was moved and she had stuff on it like a night stand. and tonight she's using it again. can i tell i don't want her stuff on my desk? do i have a right to be mad at this ? |
| Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:49 PM PDT How many chances would you give then to stop the immature cruel behavior (they are over 25 years old, male) before blocking and deleting them? This is assuming you both have stated that you want to be online ' friends' Note that he is calling you these things in the pretense of a joke, ay least you assume (as it can be difficult to know through text if someone you have never met is joking or not, even if the toongue-out smiley face emoji is included). |
| Question: My boyfriend and best friend both hate my friend. What do I do? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:48 PM PDT I have this new friend that is in my friendgroup. My group consists of me, my boyfriend, my best friend, and a few other friends. Pretty much more than half of those people (including my best friend and boyfriend) hate this girl. She has recentely become close to me. I agree she comes off as a ***** and can be irritating but she has never done anything wrong to me. I have gotten mad at her before, as I have with every, but I havent hated her. I dont know what to do. They want to stop inviting her to things and not be her friend. But I dont want her to hate me and like i said she hasnt been mean to me. I dont know what to do. |
| Question: How to not be stone faced? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:38 PM PDT |
| Question: HEY IS IT WRONG TO DRINK PEE? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:38 PM PDT I m asking for a friend. |
| Question: Should I get a G.E.D.? Posted: 15 Oct 2017 07:35 PM PDT I am a junior girl in high school and I hate it. It is not the learning part of school that I can not stand, it is the people. All of my friends are fake and I am sick of all these his school "friendships" and people who think they are cool just because they drink and vape. I am a fairly smart kid, so should I tr and get my G.E.D., or should I just suck it up and graduate? If I had real friends who actually cared about me, I would stay, but it doesn't look like I will find any too soon. |
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