I've been in a loving and sexually experimental relationship with my wife for 3 years. In the bedroom she'd call me Daddy and honestly it was really hot. Last year we had our beautiful little girl come into the world and our lives changed forever. Recently though our little Emma started speaking, saying simple words. To cut to the chase my daughter started calling me Daddy. The first time she did it, I cried and held my wife. It was a truly beautiful and special moment. Now though, as she starts to say it more and more, I have a hard to being called Daddy in the bedroom. My wife is really into the Daddy kink and I don't know how to tell her it just doesn't set right with me anymore. What do I do and will she be ok with this change in myself?

My husband is a truck driver and thinks he works hard (sitting in a rig all day). I work part time, but take care of 3 kids and am disabled (he loves to mock me for this and bully me about not working much). Today, his dog destroyed the electrical cord to my vacuum (again) and I asked him to please clean it up when he gets home so that I can cook and help the oldest with his homework. He said that because he works full time, he is not responsible or required to 1) help with the kids 2) help around the house. He immediately sat on the sofa to watch tv and after begging him to help multiple times, I got fed up and unplugged the tv. He physically attacked me and bruised my arm when he grabbed me and shoved me against the tv stand (he lies and said this never happened, although tons of people in the house saw it). Was he right for physically attacking me? He also forced me to apologize for "losing my temper" and still never helped around the house. He stood there demanding I take care of the house, dinner, and kids. He also tells me laundry is MY responsibility, as is cleaning up after him. His mother never worked much, he grew up with his mom waiting on his dad and he and his brothers hand and foot and living in a spotless home. I had to apologize after he physically attacked me

Like on Youtube, Google, etc. He uses his computers many hours a day but everything is always blank.

I took advantage of my wife when she came home drunk, once she fell asleep I started rubbing and kissing her. She did say stop but really did not resist I proceeded to finger her and do analingus on her she did not resist or say anything at this point. Then I proceeded to have intercourse with her after about 30 minutes of this. When I was done she got super pissed and was throwing out the word divorce. She did tell me not to do that again one other time previous to this. How bad is this and what the hell is my problem?

Is it true that if you're not happy being single then you wont be happy being married?

Are they all they're cracked up to be?

My husband and I hyphenated our last names together after marriage. so it stands as: NAME MYlastname-HISlastname. When our names were announced at the wedding, I could tell that his mother and family in general, made certain facial expressions that would suggest that they didn't like that. So what do you guys think of those kind of situations? Do you consider it normal, and would you do it for your wife, or husband? And if you did, would your family be bothered by it? Would love to hear some input! Thanks! Just to clarify, we BOTH changed our names. Not just me. If you're a guy who wouldn't change his name, why not?

I asked this yesterday but I've added some details. My father-in-law has recently started being very rude to me and my husband has been over overlooking it. I asked for a meeting with my husband and father in law together. My feather in law became defensive right away and attacked my children, saying " i don't like your children" i asked why? He said " because they breath" of course it made me angry, i said that is horrible, you have mo reason! He then attacked me personally. I looked to my husband to speak up and he didn't. I have been very good to my father-in-law for over 8 years, cleaning, cooking for him, running errands etc. Basically anything dealing with him was left to me to do. He and my husband never got along well until lately. I don't understand why I'm receiving this horrible treatment from him or this change in behavior since the money has been involved. I'm angry with my husband for not standing up for me. My husband has been receiving a lot of expensive gifts from his dad since this incident as well, they've been going shopping etc. I just found out that they've been keeping a secret, my father-in-law recently came into some money and my husband knew about it. I am angry at both of them not only for keeping secrets but i feel like my husband should put a stop to the way his Dad is treating me. I can't help but feel like my husband is allowing his father to mistreat me and disrespect me so they the gifts don't stop. Have i been thrown under the bus?

Last night my parents were watching wheel of fortune and apparently they were being too loud while he was working. He went outside and randomly firing his shot gun around in the yard ( we live at a farm) He then brought his gun inside and cleaned it then began to load bullets in it right in front of my parents. I could tell it was making them uncomfortable. He then proceeded to put the volume on mute and left the room. They were mad they had to get up to unmute it as they are in their 80's. When we ate dinner he had to repeat himself a lot because he talks quietly. He eventually started screaming at them and threw his plate at my poor father and his drink at my mom then proceed to spit mucus at them. They were both crying and incredibly hurt. He then proceeded to go outside and shoot his gun some more. One bullet went into the room where my parents are staying when they weren't in there. But it's going to cost money to fix and I'm just embarrased that I'm married to such a freak.

How do I save myself this embarrassment. I'm a girl. Most prolly it's going to be arranged marriage. Cause I don't know romance

My husband has been hiding a secret he use to be a male prostitute and from what I understand he started as teenager. According to him he was forced into that life but he survived by becoming more compliant. He said he got out by manipulating people and becoming the favorite of one wealthy client who as he put it "took care" of him. I mean he kept this part of his past from me and I found out about it because we started having money problems and he solved them by contacting old clients. We met when I was model at a mutual friend's party and I had no idea that he only started seeing me when he had just gotten out of that life. He's never gone back home because he's ashamed to face his parents I just don't know if I can trust him again. I get he's been through a lot but I just found out he's not the man I thought he was. I mean he's extremely homophobic so I can't even begin to understand his mindset. I'm not perfect either when I first met him he was the complete package he had good looks and money now and I'm ashamed to say I only saw dollar signs at the time. Except now I know where it all came from and all my life I've just equated money with happiness because as the poor kid in a rich neighborhood all the rich kids seemed happy and that's why my husband did what he did because he was afraid I'd leave him if he was poor because he has no other real job experience. He used to seem so strong and now I've learned he's a very broken person who was afraid I'd leave him. Yes his customers were men, and it was very traumatic for him and for as long as I've known him he's always had a very angry view of gay men and I didn't understand why until I learned about his secret. We've been together five years and have one child together. I just don't know how to help him because I'm not used to being the strong one and I feel betrayed because he went back to that life and I get it was to provide for our family but he's so broken now and I don't know what to do. I do love him I just don't know how to help him I'm not good at being the strong one. He's always been strong and confident and after he told me the truth he just completely broke down. He's like a completely different person now and that is what scares me because he's so broken and I don't know what to do or say and he said enjoyed it sometimes and what does that even mean? First he says it was horrible then he says it wasn't always bad I mean what does that even mean?

Could it be more? He says he loves me. I'm I just fooling myself?

we were soul mates, he was health addict--he had a rocking body--he would always force me to eat right go workout and stuff. he was 22, I was 18 when we met..on his way to work a cab hit him and killed him. so what good was eating healthy working out all the time? he is dead. he hurt me when he died. Ill go to graveyard and visit him, curse him out to feel better.a few times I took my current lover their for sex, I hope he saw me doing sex with another man. I tell my current guy that he was my step brother. dumb guy couldn't even see a cab coming? who does that to women? he really hurt me.

I don't want kids. I need to make my wife understand but she doesn't want to listen. What do i do?

My mother-in-law is extremely disrespectful, and my husband does nothing. I want to keep my mother-in-law in our lives because of my husband, but I want her to be more respectful. For example, she calls me names, she has given other men my phone number and told them to call me, she makes my husband think that I am being disrespectful to her which causes us to fight. She has also told my daughter comments such as, "daddy's sad because mommy has special male friends." I am constantly in a tug of war with my mother-in-law over my husband and daughter. I want to establish boundaries with her, and get my husband to defend me like he defends his mother. I feel like she is ruining our marriage and causing me to have anxiety attacks.

Just that one time that one night isn't worthy of legal enforcement of the marriage contract. When the wife (as in 99% of cases) starts denying sex within the first year, that's a bigger deal than one stupid 'consummation'.

Im almost 30 and still have Absolutely NO interest in dating. The way i see it there are several factors that make it so i have Zero interest in dating. First Millennial women around my age from 20-35 are entitled whiny brats who in their Delusional minds think they are princesses who should get a man who has Everything to offer but they dont believe they have to have Anything to offer in return when relationships are supposed to be 50/50. Second i have gotten really use to living alone and doing whatever i want whenever i want with no one else having a say and have little to no interest in changing that. Finally i just dont think theres any woman worth giving up my freedom for especially in my stupid pathetic generation (which yes its both men and women) its like winning the lottery to find a good woman and im not that lucky. Is it even worth dating in this garbage Millennial generation of delusional losers??? I am in Very Good shape and very well off in Real Estate investment so using that lame excuse "im looking for someone out of my league is BS" When like i said im not looking at all because 99.9% of women in my generation are worthless Losers

Hi everyone, Recently my daughter and her boyfriend have gotten engaged. As I know the young man, he is educated and is in a very reputable job. My wife and I have no issues with this. However my Father, is extremely racist... my daughter has told me to tell him, how do I go about doing this? I can't see him being OK with this, and I don't want to upset him. Any help???

i'm getting married in 3 days ...3days!! and he keeps saying i can't wait to get married so we can finally really "see" each other. I dont want him to see me naked and I dont want to see him naked suck him ect. ... dont want kids and i dont want sex. i love him and i love to kiss him i dont want all that other EXTREME stuff that he wants help!!!!

even in high school id spend 20 minutes in bathroom wiping and wiping, when I got home from school I still made skid marks, its terrible is summer months and then add my periods. do guys get turned off with ladies who have to wipe so much they get rashes?

My boyfriend says my ex husband is trying to cause problems in our relationship but I think he's being paranoid. My ex drove by near where my boyfriend lives a few times but my ex said he was having lunch near work and just driving around. My ex calls and texts a lot because we share a child together. My ex calls each night to say goodnight when he knows my boyfriend is spending time with us but never calls the other nights. My ex also texted me a joke kind of mocking my boyfriend What should I do?

They will blow up over the littlest thing out of nowhere and get very angry. Should I be concerned about this and what should I do about it?

Or should they stick to dating other people who also have kids themselves ? That way it's more of an even and fair relationship both ways?

What if you wait to have sex until marriage, and then you find out that neither of you are sexually compatible with the other? What if your future spouse is into BDSM and you find out that you are not? What happens if he/she is into some weird sex fetish that would gross you out?

My husband and I were watching tv and he heard one guy say "hey chicky baby!" He then said that to me in a degrading way. I was totally offended and I feel that he sexually harassed me. He told me he was only joking, although I believe him this isn't something that is funny. Should o forgive him?

I think I don't love my wife anymore. But she is a good person and I don't want to hurt her. What should I do?

Of course you are the only female whom he can have sex with, cause you're his wife!

He has made comments about underage girls such as marrying them , he looks at photos of his friends daughters and compliments them , if he visits someone he rather talk to the kids and always comments on children and now it's 2am he is watching his favorite show the voice kids and always replays the ones with little girls on it.. it's not normal to me for a man at 31 to keep replaying kids singing at 2am

My father-in-law has recently started being very rude to me and my husband has been over overlooking it. I have been very good to my father-in-law for over 8 years, cleaning, cooking for him, running errands etc. He and my husband never got along well until lately. I don't understand why I'm receiving this treatment from him or any of this sudden change. I'm angry with my husband for not standing up for me. My husband has been receiving a lot of expensive gifts from his dad recently as well. I just found out that they've been keeping a secret, my father-in-law recently came into a large sum of money and my husband knew about it. I am angry at both of them not only for keeping this a secret but i feel like my husband should put a stop to the way his Dad is treating me. I can't help but feel like my husband is allowing his father to mistreat me and disrespect me so they the gifts don't stop. Have i been thrown under the bus?

This is really killin me. They are all cruel and i love my husband but i cannot be a part of them and im mad at him aanytime i hear of them. Hes torn between 2 families. Its his own fault.. So i can only imagine how bad this is making him feel. .. Like what the heck do i do. . i cannot be played for a fool. I will not condone this. Like friends who take friends out to cheat too Also family...Like seriously u think im goimg to be okay w them after multiple times ? Im so torn

Im 27, and have always had a problem with cheating and wondering eyes. Im female by the way. Im a good person, ive just always had this problem. I recently married an amazing guy. He is gorgeous, smart, the life of the party, and ive never once heard him complain or be in a mad mood. Amazing right? Well lately his best friend has been complaining of a lack of affection between him and his longtime gf. He has also flirted with me, and casually gives me hugs and stuff. He is attractive and very charismatic. I cant help but like the attention he gives me when i see him, and i have fantasies about making out with him and cuddling with him, not sleeping with him. I don t WANT to think this way, i feel like **** but i can t help what my mind thinks. Do you think im feeling like this, because my marriage is lacking in something, like romance? Its gotten to the point where im often thinking of his friend. Idk what to do. Has anyone else felt this way??

I was looking at an article and the author stated that while going through a custody battle, his attorney actually told him to not even try to seek full custody of his children because "he won't get it unless the mother is a danger to the children." From several things I've read online, times have been changing for years and it's much more common fir fathers to win custody nowadays. But I'm now curious if attorneys always tell fathers things like this. This wasn't that old of an article, it only came about three years ago. Do divorce attorneys always tell fathers they can't win a custody battle?