Friends: Question: Should I be a teen mom? |
- Question: Should I be a teen mom?
- Question: I feel invisible because of one of my friends?
- Question: Continuance This is in reference to my last question. I accidentally hit the send ahead if time so sorry.?
- Question: What to do if Friend is introverted around me but extrovert around others?
- Question: Had an interesting experience. Need a little advice. Was with my fiance' and ran into an old friend of ours.?
- Question: How to stop being insecure?????
- Question: Can I let this girl poop and piss all over my entire chest during sex?
- Question: Are you a loner? Do you choose to keep to yourself and not have many friends?
- Question: Guy friend problems?
- Question: Was he jealous or just mad he didn't get what he wanted?
- Question: Drunk text from ex?
- Question: My friend didn't say, "Feel better" when I told him I wasn't feeling well. Usually he does, but this time he didn't which disappointed me.?
- Question: My parents found out about my online friends, but we haven't talked about it yet.?
- Question: How can you find out how many friends someone has on Facebook?
- Question: Porque nunca se valora un ácido o base débil con una base ó ácido débil?
- Question: Question about breakup ( serious)?
- Question: Should someone feel bad for rejecting a girl because she’s simply fat/chubby?
- Question: Best friend ignoring me, why?
- Question: Agree or disagree: it's embarasssing to have no friends?
- Question: Why is my best friend ignoring me?
- Question: Have you ever been surprised by your best friend? What is your story and how did you react?
- Question: My best friend is ignoring me, why?
- Question: Is it normal to feel lonely during your senior year of high school?
- Question: People think I’m dumb?
- Question: How did you meet your best friend?
- Question: My boyfriend is a manager of a store and it is another store connected and I ask him to help me get a job an he haven t yet.?
- Question: I embarrassed myself badly at a Halloween party last night and I'm afraid to go to school tomorrow?
- Question: Friend's obsession with working out has begun to drive other friends away from each other. Advice?
- Question: I completely embarrassed myself at a Halloween party last night, I'm afraid to go to school tomorrow?
- Question: My roommate lets her bootycall hang around the apt when we re all gone?!?
- Question: How do you feel about a friend who brags about this...?
- Question: Food problem?
- Question: How to tell someone you dislike them.?
- Question: I dont get my dad ?
- Question: Why am i so shy sometimes?
- Question: Do you think his wife feels threatened by me?
- Question: Did I handle myself ok at my friend's house? Or will I stop getting invites?
- Question: Am I doing something wrong here?
- Question: Was my boss trying to protect me from sexual harassment?
- Question: I hate feelings of affection, especially hugs?
- Question: If a girl is mad at you why would she keep talking to you?
- Question: Why does my friend hate it so much when I give her a light smack for fun after like she said something silly? One time she almost cried?
- Question: What does it mean if you freak out every time someone talks to you?
- Question: If a girl is mad at you why would she keep talking to you?
- Question: My friend never lets me pay for my food - what should I do?
- Question: I have this friend in another country I'm always the one who text first?
- Question: I made new friends but I don't want to be clingy?
- Question: My friend body shames people. Should I ditch her?
- Question: Small school.Have a group of6 friends.3becoming excluding+closer.I dont get invited and dont get along with other 2 as well.What should I do?
- Question: How do people make friends? Is there any app i can go to actually make friends. No dating apps?
- Question: Why do guys get more attention than girls?
- Question: Is my new "friend" using me?
- Question: Friends went to a party without me?
- Question: What should i do?
- Question: What do I do about my loneliness?
- Question: Girls .... DUMBEST boy ... of all time?
- Question: What should I do about my guy friend confessing & acting weird when I said I didn't feel the same?
- Question: What will you do if you feel that your friends have forgotten about you & they're having a fun social life w/ new people while you have none?
- Question: Us as a couple?
- Question: My friend flexed his muscles (we re both men), and it turned me on ... what should I do?
| Question: Should I be a teen mom? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 05:29 PM PDT Hello, I am currently 17 years old and I have thought about seriously being a mother since I was 12. Please do not freak! I am in fact a virgin, I am not having reckless sex that could but my health in danger, and I am not doing anything that will put me at risk for anything. My goal in life has always been to be a mom, and all of my experiences have only made this goal more and more desirable. I am very aware of the responsibility, financial details, health, and everything else affiliated with being a parent. I watch my mother struggle as a teen mom, I watch my friend struggle as a teen mom, and I watch my friends families that waited till there 20s to have children. I have seen them fail, messup, and succeed. I take note of their mistakes so I don't do the same. Edit: "No" is not an acceptable answer. Explain why or don't bother commenting. |
| Question: I feel invisible because of one of my friends? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 05:06 PM PDT So I have this one "friend" that everyone seems to prefer over me and I honest to god don't know why but it really hurts my feelings. For privacy purposes, let's just say her name is kate. Kate is always the center of attention. At lunch, everyone wants to sit right next to kate. When we do group projects in class, everyone wants to be in her group. If she's is ever absent, you can rely on literally almost every single person in my class to say "OMG WHERES KATE I MISS HER" and send her a million texts making sure that she is ok. If she says something at lunch, everyone immediately responds to her and shows engagement. On the other hand, I consider myself very outgoing and nice but everyone still prefers her over me. Because of this, I have a harder time making friends than her. If I make a friend and introduce them to Kate, they will automatically prefer her as a friend over me. It's almost like if I weren't there it wouldn't make a difference, although I am very outgoing. But if she's weren't there, the world would literally end and everyone will cry. They treat her like and Idol and she's not even one of the popular girls anyway. Please help I feel invisible! |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 05:03 PM PDT Like I said previously the old friend made the oh you married her remark to my fiancé' that day. But I had no clue until a few weeks/months later in the middle of a heated argument. I was shocked really. My fiancé' then accused me of having a fling with the old friend him of which has no merit because I hadn't seen him in years. My question is why the old friend even went there. And why my fiance' lied to him and said we were married when in fact that hasn't happened yet. Last but not least why accuse me of such a thing when it has been in fact years since I last saw our old friend. One quick note I met old friend before my fiance' but we never dated. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.04 |
| Question: What to do if Friend is introverted around me but extrovert around others? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:46 PM PDT My friend always cancels out on me whenever I make plans so now I don't even make plans anymore. She barley ever makes plans |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:40 PM PDT They began to chat so I walked a few steps away. Didn't feel like hearing guy chat lol. What I didn't realize was that I was a part of that chat. Old friend says to fiance' "Oh you married her? She's a goos woman." Fiance' says yeah. Mind you marriage has not happened as of yet. I found out about it a few months later im a heated argument. I was stunned to hear it. Why our friend said that idk. We did like each other in the past. Your thoughts? ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.04 |
| Question: How to stop being insecure????? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:28 PM PDT My name is Isabella, and me and my 2 bestfriends work in a hospital. But there's a lot of rude people and I always take things personally, it makes me feel sad when I get home. But my friends don't care what people think about them, they are always laughing and having fun at work, but I'm soo insecure. How can I be more like my friends???? |
| Question: Can I let this girl poop and piss all over my entire chest during sex? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:10 PM PDT It just seems sooooooo naughty and dirty to me! When a girl squats and drops a big dookie on me and pees, it turns me for some reason. I mean it's my personal kink! I can't help it.. should I just try it ONCE? C'mon, is not safe or what? I still like VANILLA sex. But life is full of excitement! |
| Question: Are you a loner? Do you choose to keep to yourself and not have many friends? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:00 PM PDT I used to be really social. I used to always hang out with someone on weekends but now I don't care. I guess its because I picked the wrong type of friends. I used to just have drinking buddies and that was all. I have decided to cut back and I stopped going out to bars. |
| Question: Guy friend problems? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 03:25 PM PDT So I was recently told by one of my guy friends that I'm "Hot but boring." Imo I thought I was kinda fun and occasionally said some funny things. But I prefer to only talk to people when they talk to me. I know it sounds kinda weird but I only do it because I don't want to be considered annoying. That's why I only talk to people when they talk to me, because I know it's convenient for them and I'm not inconveniencing them. We have a small high school so we only have two classes with each grade. The smart ones, the average ones/the below average ones. I transferred and my mom wanted me to be in average, but I can handle the advanced classes. So my friend group is mostly in advanced and we hang out with the advanced guys too. Most of us take a language together so that's the time to socialize with those boys. But I get all red in the face when they ask me anything or I give back a boring answer. Apparently all the boys think I'm "Hot but boring." I want to be fun and someone people invite to stuff and someone people want to hang out with. How can I be more fun and more confident when talking to guy friends? |
| Question: Was he jealous or just mad he didn't get what he wanted? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 03:10 PM PDT So this guy I like we'll call him boy asked me to this Halloween party last night n I went , the whole time at first he was ignoring me talking to other ppl even tho I was his date. Then me and his black friend tyreke ( a coke dealer ) start talking and hitting it off n he was giving me coke which boy wanted some bad. Boy walks in on us doing the coke and asks if I'm okay then leaves. Then I agree to not only take boy to the after party but tyreke too and boy gets annoyed and says he'll just ride with someone else hugs me tells me to go back to tys room and I see him trying to laugh behind my back after with one of his friends smh. So then we all leave to the after party and boy and reke get in a argument in front of me cuz he wouldn't give boy any coke n then boy told me to ditch him n the coke so we went inside and reke tells me " i guess u gotta listen to the bf huh" in front of everyone I was so embarrassed. Eventually we all leave n at this point I'm riding boy nd reke home and boy is acting weird more touchy than usual offering me cigs n telling me I don't gotta pump the gas then him and reke get into it omg they start fighting I thought a real fight was gonna happen in my mom's car... Boy was threatening him saying " she came with me I've known her way longer than u have n I'm not gonna let u take advantage of her if I wanted to b behind this wheel I could be, n reek goes "I see that". N they just kept talking **** but Ive never seen him act so angry he seemed jelly |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 03:07 PM PDT Last night I received a text from my ex explaining how much he is missing me and sh*t. I knew he was drunk cuz earlier I saw snaps of him drinking on snapchat. He broke up with me after a year cuz it's our senior year in University and he has too much on his plate to handle a relationship. He barely had any time for me so it was mutual. He also said he didn't see our relationship going anywhere. This is the text I received: "I miss you so much. I just wanna kiss you and make love to you. I know I am a piece of crap for breaking us off. I regret it so much. I love you" I didn't reply cuz I was sure he didn't mean that. He was just drunk and lonely. He texted me again this morning saying: "Sorry about last night. I hope you didn't take it personally. I don't regret anything I said but I apologize for coming off like that." I'm so confused. Should I reply? |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 03:01 PM PDT Should I let it go or bring it up? |
| Question: My parents found out about my online friends, but we haven't talked about it yet.? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 02:38 PM PDT My mum found out about the 3 girls I met on the internet. I understand that online relationships aren't healthy, but these girls have helped me through some of the hardest times. I've video called them multiple times and know both cities they're from, and even their adresses. We met over a game, but we talk over whatsapp, so I obviously know their phone numbers. I want to explain to my parents how much they mean to me once the time comes, but I don't know how I should do it. They helped me through so much, and they know more about my problems than my parents do. I'm only 13, but I still consider them better than my real life friends. At least the three of them are willing to listen to me and help guide me out of my problems. Disappointment hurts, and I don't want them to be disappointed in me for disrespecting them (i know about every single time they told me about internet pedophiles, and i am very careful about who i give my number to.) I just want them to know they shouldn't be mad at me for talking to someone and meeting new people. I love all three of them a lot and trust them more than anyone. I don't want to lose what I have with them. |
| Question: How can you find out how many friends someone has on Facebook? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 02:23 PM PDT There's this guy who's in two of my classes at college, and I've been crushing on him for over a year now. Although we're not close we're very friendly with each other, and I really want to add him on Facebook so that I can actually talk to him outside of college, but I'm scared that he's one of those people who are really picky about whose friend requests they accept, and I know that if he didn't accept mine it would absolutely crush me. So to avoid that from happening, I want to find out how many friends he has before I send or don't send him a request, because I know that if he has over 1,000 friends then he's probably one of those people who accept everyone who sends them a friend request, and that he would almost definitely accept me, and that if he has say, under 300 friends, he's probably someone who only accepts people who they know really well and he wouldn't accept me. And any number in between is just a gamble lol. But I'm scared to go onto his profile to check how many friends he has in case I accidentally like something, so I was wondering if there's a way to find out how many friends someone has on Facebook without having to go actually on their profile? |
| Question: Porque nunca se valora un ácido o base débil con una base ó ácido débil? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 02:05 PM PDT Estoy haciendo curvas de titulacion y nadie me ha sabido decir porque siempre se valora con acidos o bases fuertes... |
| Question: Question about breakup ( serious)? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:41 PM PDT I found this guy on tinder and he had this girl all over his Facebook posts when I checked but he was flirting with me so I went with it. then he skype me he asked for a kiss he said he would make it official when we meet. well basically he never met me and I told him I'm thinking about you and he said you're always thinking about me. then I told him I love him and he said no you can't love me you don't know me yet and I'm a bad person. I told him okay I'll stop loving you. you don't want me. it's best we never meet and stay friends I don't want you to break my heart. he kept agreeing. then I un friended him on facebok and he blocked me there. i also unfriended him on snapchat then added him back and he viewed my story and blocked me. i opened that girls profile saw her pics with him and found out they are married since a long time. i textsd him immediatelh saying i never want to talk to him And he replied saying so stop messaging me. I called him he picked said hello and I hung up. my body was shaking. he texted me saying " I'm busy at the moment please text me" I kept texted him then called and found out hes blocked my number. I really loved him but all I have for him in my heart is hate, only hate, and I'm trying to contact him to find out WHY he did this to me and to fight with him even more but I can't reach him. who ended the relationship in this case what do u think? also how do I get over someone I'm still physically attracted to but lost respect for? thanks |
| Question: Should someone feel bad for rejecting a girl because she’s simply fat/chubby? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:35 PM PDT A girl that's a good friend of mine at my campus admitted she has feelings for me. I told her how shocking that was and I sadly told her I can't like her back because of a more complicated reason I made up. In reality, it's all because she's simply fat and too plus sized. I can't imagine myself with her, and I still feel horrible. Sure I sound superficial, that's how I am, I'm a typical dude. She's nice and sweet, and does a lot for me, but dammit I want to stay friends with her. I just feel like a huge jerk for screwing her up all because of her weight. Now if I go change my words to her and tell her I feel the same way, I'm gonna have to be stuck with an overweight girl, I just won't be happy, but I'll feel good about myself about making her happy. Can you guys help me, pleeease!? Would you feel bad? I'm overthinking this. :/ Really appreciate it and I'll give best answer. |
| Question: Best friend ignoring me, why? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:29 PM PDT My best friend (who is a boy) has been ignoring me in school. I did nothing to him. We have band practice together everyday at school. On friday he flicked me off and he's aware hes doing it. Any ideas on what I should do or why he's doing it? I asked him why and he just ignored me, why? |
| Question: Agree or disagree: it's embarasssing to have no friends? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:11 PM PDT |
| Question: Why is my best friend ignoring me? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:03 PM PDT My best friend (who is a boy) has been ignoring me in school. I did nothing to him. We have band practice together everyday at school. On friday he flicked me off and he's aware hes doing it. Any ideas on what I should do or why he's doing it? |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:41 PM PDT My best friend Nick who was out of state for school getting his criminal justice degree and finishing up at the police academy called to tell me that he would not be able to make it up to my college graduation. I figured that because he had until the end of May to go, but what I had not expected was that he had graduated a week before me and had already received his degree. My church and my mom had thrown me a graduation party, but the church members would not let me go into the kitchen area (Nick was hidden in the kitchen pantry). After our service downstairs, we all went to the kitchen area and my best friend's mom said Don't you cut into the cake yet because I want to send Nick pictures of it before you cut it. She took pictures of the cake, then the pantry door opened and out walked Nick in his blues with beat red roses. When he came out, literally within seconds I was in his arms crying. When he set me down on the floor, our pastor said Sgt. Nick has been away in another state at police training and recently graduated last week to be home for Amber's graduation this week. He kissed me on the forehead while our pastor was talking and whispered "I missed you so much and congratulations!" He's really good looking and has the most gorgeous smile and facial features ever. When we were in high school, all the girls wanted to date him because of his looks but I just liked him for his company and how he treated me. After dinner, we went down to our favorite beach that we used to go to and just walked along the shore talking. He grabbed my hand and kissed it really gentle. He stopped and grabbed my arm, he put his hands on my neck and whispered "I have been waiting since high school to do this" then we started kissing and the kisses got even more intense. He whispered after putting his thumb on my bottom lip "I should've done that sooner, but you are the only girl that I've ever wanted to kiss like that" |
| Question: My best friend is ignoring me, why? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:38 PM PDT My best friend (who is a boy) has been ignoring me in school. I did nothing to him. We have band practice together everyday at school. On friday he flicked me off and he's aware hes doing it. Any ideas on what I should do or why he's doing it? |
| Question: Is it normal to feel lonely during your senior year of high school? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:25 PM PDT Sometimes I feel lonely ,especially after watching people going to parties and having fun on snapchat. I didn't used to be this way ,but after senior year I kinda broke away from my friends and just drifted off.. |
| Question: People think I’m dumb? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:11 PM PDT I have a very dry sense of humor and I usually set up something which I think is funny, but people don't really get it. I'm kind of scared everyone thinks I'm dumb, when I'm reality, not really. |
| Question: How did you meet your best friend? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:36 AM PDT |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:28 AM PDT OAN his boss just got her husband a job there, how should I feel? |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:23 AM PDT I'm a junior in high school and last night I went to a friend's Halloween party and there was a lot of people there including a lot of seniors because her older sister had friends come too. Normally I'm really shy in school and stuff, but one of my best friends who I haven't seen in months and who goes to another school was there and we are really hyper together. (There was no drinking or drugs or anything involved, this was the party for the "good" kids) But we ended up acting really stupid and fooling around while playing games and people, especially the seniors because we're not friends with them, were getting mad because we weren't playing the games right and trying to tell us how to play, even though we were just trying to have fun and not taking it seriously. I even accidentally hit a senior girl in the face with a ping pong ball, but I apologized a bunch of times. I also heard some seniors say I suck when we were playing. I was also being really loud and I'm afraid they'll judge me because I usually never talk. I feel like everyone hates me now because of how I acted, even my friends, and even though I didn't do anything mean, I was just fooling around and trying to have fun. I feel really stupid and I'm afraid to go to school tomorrow because I don't want to see anyone who was there because I know they'll be judging me and hate me for how I acted. I'm REALLY embarrassed. What do I do? |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:23 AM PDT Summary: A long time friend of mine and I started weight training five months ago. While we are both very much into it, he has taken it to a new level. Lifting weights and showing off snapchats of him working out have become the only thing he has been interested in for about a month now. This is annoying our other friends and they are starting to avoid hanging out with us due to how annoying my friend has gotten with his lifting obsession. Advice for how to bring my friends back together? Full version: Back in May, my friend and I (We will refer to him as Mikey from now on) both joined gyms and started weight training. I also signed up for a weightlifting class this year, so we are both very into it. We still workout together frequently and give each other advice, and It's become something Mikey and I talk about almost all of the time. Mikey is much, much more obsessed with his weight training than I am, and it's starting to drive away some of our friends. Recently, a friend who has been close to both of us for a long time has recently stopped talking to us. He avoids seeing us in between classes, going to the same parties as us, general hanging out, etc. and it's because of my friend's constant talk about how much he can bench. When we do end up striking up a conversation with this friend, Mikey does nothing but pressure him into joining the gym and to start working out. What should I do to stop this? |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 11:22 AM PDT I'm a junior in high school and last night I went to a friend's Halloween party and there was a lot of people there including a lot of seniors because her older sister had friends come too. Normally I'm really shy in school and stuff, but one of my best friends who I haven't seen in months and who goes to another school was there and we are really hyper together. (There was no drinking or drugs or anything involved, this was the party for the "good" kids) But we ended up acting really stupid and fooling around while playing games and people, especially the seniors because we're not friends with them, were getting mad because we weren't playing the games right and trying to tell us how to play, even though we were just trying to have fun and not taking it seriously. I even accidentally hit a senior girl in the face with a ping pong ball, but I apologized a bunch of times. I also heard some seniors say I suck when we were playing. I was also being really loud and I'm afraid they'll judge me because I usually never talk. I feel like everyone hates me now because of how I acted, even my friends, and even though I didn't do anything mean, I was just fooling around and trying to have fun. I feel really stupid and I'm afraid to go to school tomorrow because I don't want to see anyone who was there because I know they'll be judging me and hate me for how I acted. I'm REALLY embarrassed. What do I do? |
| Question: My roommate lets her bootycall hang around the apt when we re all gone?!? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:52 AM PDT A roommate of mine recently brought back a guy from a concert for the night (all the power to her). I didn t have much of a problem with it, just asked that she gives the rest of us a warning so no one walks around in their underwear/knows this guy is here. A few days later, she brought him over again. He proceeded to be drunk, loud, and obnoxious in our common space, and then stayed up all night with her loudly. In the morning, our entire apt had a place to be, and she told us that the booty call was calling an Uber to get home. A short while later, I found out that she actually told him he could stay at our apartment alone. I told her I was uncomfortable with this, and asked her to have him come join us where we were, which she said she would do. However, she didn t ask him and allowed him to stay in our home alone for 6+ hours (she s met this guy twice and the rest of us don t know him). He s now staying the rest of the day at a social gathering we planned weeks ago and cleared all of our guests with each other, and is already acting loud and drunk. Is it expectable that my roommate not leave guests we don t know alone in our home, and to clear it with the rest of the apt when she invites her booty call to our social gatherings? |
| Question: How do you feel about a friend who brags about this...? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:47 AM PDT she made some friends in college.. and I used to be her only "best" friend.. we have been friends since we were born since we are like family friends.. but her new friends are the type who parties and drinks and she brags about drinking vodka or whatever before class and at night before school or in the weekend.. and she brags about being sucked, making out, and cuddled by drunk guys.. and i dont think this is really something to brag about? now im not a type of person who parties.. or drinks.. im that type who just calmly and quietly does my work and go out when i have time and stuff.. so my thoughts can be totally different.. but now this is all she talks about.. and acts all bad and stuff and shes a total different person. its starting to annoy me.. and i dont know how to respond either. at first i was like "ahh cool, fun, becareful" but now i dont care.. she only talks about her new friends, drinking, party... i dont know what to do anymore and i still want her as my friend since we have so much and she sent me pics of her making out with random guys she doesnt even know.. im kinda mad at her and i dont wanna be like a mom and yell at her for doing the wrong thing |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:40 AM PDT So theres this girl at my school and everytime its lunch time she always asks to try my lunch, She always brings a lot of food for her but ends up sometimes stealing my lunch or a snack if its sticking out of my bag, If she asks to try my lunch she ends up eating the whole thing but if I say no she cries and says I *bullied* her. What should i do |
| Question: How to tell someone you dislike them.? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:32 AM PDT |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:13 AM PDT He is friends with my ex boyfriends who were jerks to me . I am married now and he ia still friends and continues to talk with them . Even people i have a problem with he says he cant be mad at them because he feels sorry for them . Well you cant feel sorry for me dad ??? What should i do ,i have been just trying to let it go |
| Question: Why am i so shy sometimes? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:06 AM PDT im 16 male. and being shy really bothers me. in school i act like crazy and i'm pretty opposite of shy, but at some places, where i don't know people that good it's really hard for me being there. So the thing is that i can talk endlessly, i'm not bad at that, but i can't be humorous because im afraid that people won't like me or think that i'm weird, even tho shyness makes me look really weird. i'm basically nervous. tho not quiet. And also sometimes i'm so nervous that it's difficult for me to smile, even shyly. so people get a wrong idea of who i am. they think that i'm cold and reserved and also nervous. I'm not like that on the inside. so basically i suck at expressing emotions, or as i already mentioned, at saying jokes and these are things needed to make connections with others. oh and also i blush, sometimes. how can i stop that?? it really bothers me. could u give me some advice?? |
| Question: Do you think his wife feels threatened by me? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 10:06 AM PDT I have a friend Tom who is 37, while I'm 26. He's married with a family and used to be my boss. We became friends shortly before he got a new job and left our old job. He started inviting me to his church back in late May and I've been going ever since. I don't have a license right now, so we carpooled for a good little while. For a couple months, another friend was joining us, but there were a few Sundays he was unable to join. On those days, Tom's wife insisted their son be in the car with us. She made it seem like she didn't want us riding alone together, although we've ridden alone together before and nothing happened. There was one instance, though, where he had to reach down in between my legs to pick the sunroof opener off the ground (it had fallen off and fell in between my legs) and I'm not sure his son saw or not. After that, the next two times, there were reasons that his wife had to take me home instead. Now my mom and I go to church together and sometimes I see Tom, but his wife is always with him. For the first 4 months, his wife never went to service with us, so it's catching me offguard now that she's going. Also, me and the other friend started attending Bible study a few Wednesday nights. The first Wednesday night, Tom was there (without wife). The next few times, he didn't show up. I am chalking it up to him having to work late, but who knows? Do you think his wife feels threatened by me so now she's keeping Tom on a tight leash or what? It just seems kind of odd that she's suddenly around so much now. It makes me uncomfortable and he never comes over to talk to me and our friend or me and my mother, if his wife is there. I also don't feel comfortable going over to talk to him if she's there. Me and his wife are cool, though. We get along well enough, but I have always sensed she wasn't my biggest fan. I'm not the only female friend he has, though. No, I'm not trying to be a homewrecker. I do have feelings for him, though. Trust me when I say I never intended on having feelings for him, I used to think of him as my enemy. It just happened. I sometimes get this feeling she has an idea, but doesn't want to accuse me of it or make things awkward by bringing it up. I FEEL like he's already pulling away from me, though. |
| Question: Did I handle myself ok at my friend's house? Or will I stop getting invites? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:59 AM PDT I'm a single twenty something year old. My friend has a 4 year old who really likes me. I always give him attention, play around with him,, I buy toys occasionally, etc, He always mentions my name to my friend which is nice. This last time I went to their house for a BBQ, there was another kid he was playing with. I tried carrying him when he was running around in the backyard but he just wanted to be put down. The parents of the other kid were running around their kid and my friend's kid and they were playing around. But I was just watching. There was also a point where both kids wanted a toy, but my friend's kid already had many turns so I gave it to the other kid for a turn, and my friend's kid started crying. Do you think that they will all think that I'm not good with kids and stop inviting me since I was not really playing along with them? Will the toddler stop mentioning my name? Or Am I overthinking? |
| Question: Am I doing something wrong here? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:50 AM PDT My girlfriend's dad is really into golf. He plays whenever he can find the time. His favorite golf partner is me. That is because he wins every game. He is not very good at golf. What he does not know is that I let him win every game. I do this because he REALLY ENJOYS winning and usually buys me lunch or dinner after the game to celebrate his winning. These meals are far more than I can afford. The few people that know about this tell me it is just not right that I don't play my best and try to beat him. My girlfriend knows I am letting him win and is happy with it because it makes her dad so happy to win. Her dad is happy with it and I am happy with it. It brings him SO MUCH JOY to win. Am I doing something wrong if everyone is happy with the outcome of our golf game? |
| Question: Was my boss trying to protect me from sexual harassment? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:48 AM PDT I am the only woman in an office of 12 people. My boss who is also a good friend is the greatest boss in the world. He gave me a job when no one else would and I just adore him. He is always available to help me when I need help. He is giving me training so I can improve my skills and get a higher wage. He is very generous with raises. All the guys I work with are my friends and I enjoy working with them. They are just great people and I enjoy coming to work each day. I found out my boss called a meeting soon after I was hired of all the guys and told them "We now have a beautiful woman working here and I do not want any problems with sexual harassment". "Anyone that is going to hit on her will be fired immediately". "I know having a beautiful woman working here is new for you guys, but she is a very valuable member of our team and I don't want to loose her". "It is my moral and legal obligation to see that she does not feel the slightest pressure of sexual harassment". I think my boss paying me a compliment. My friends that I told about this told me he was just trying to protect the company from sexual harassment claims. What do you think? |
| Question: I hate feelings of affection, especially hugs? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:32 AM PDT Am I normal for this? I feel like ****/extremely embarrassed whenever someone hugs me, whether it be my best friend or family members. It annoys me sometimes. I'm autistic, perhaps? I dunno, I get so embarrassed, and hate the feeling to death whenever some hugs me. |
| Question: If a girl is mad at you why would she keep talking to you? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:29 AM PDT I'm a girl and this girl was in one of my classes and I never talked to her before but thought she was cute. I told one of my friends but didn't tell her the name and she happened to find the girl on fb. So the girl messaged me on fb saying she was straight and had a boyfriend and now she's mad at me but keeps talking to me. |
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| Question: What does it mean if you freak out every time someone talks to you? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:14 AM PDT There's this girl who's in one of my classes at college, and I freak out every time she talks to me. It's not in a bad way though, it's a happy, giddy "oh my god I can't believe she just talked to me!" kind of way. We've known each other since last year but ever since we started having this class together, which none of her other friends are in, we've kind of become friends. Like I'm her go to person to talk to in this class, and whenever the class is over I find myself smiling and freaking out over all the conversations we had during the class as I walk back to my dorm. And on Friday she followed me on Instagram and I couldn't believe it and was really happy. I don't think I'm attracted to her though, like I've always thought I was straight, plus I have no desire whatsoever to kiss or do anything romantic with her, I think that maybe it's that she's very pretty and cool and popular, and I'm the opposite, and my mind simply can't comprehend that someone like her would want to talk to, let alone be friendly with, someone like me. Do you think that that's what's it is, or maybe it could be something else? |
| Question: If a girl is mad at you why would she keep talking to you? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 09:06 AM PDT This girl was in one of my classes and I never talked to her before but thought she was cute. I told one of my friends but didn't tell her the name and she happened to find the girl on fb. This girl is mad at me but keeps talking to me. |
| Question: My friend never lets me pay for my food - what should I do? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 08:21 AM PDT Whenever I go out with this guy friend, he always pays for my food. I always insist upon paying, but he won't allow me to. I'm nervous because I'm not interested in dating this guy - I just like him as a friend. I don't want to "owe" him and make him think that we are dating. What should I do? |
| Question: I have this friend in another country I'm always the one who text first? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 07:27 AM PDT We've been to a school together but now I went to another country, she never text first I'm always the first one we talk on the phone and spend hours we have alot of fun and we never wanna hang up and when we finish she always says she's free these days let's talk on the phone again and I say OK but she never text first I always be the first one to say lets talk |
| Question: I made new friends but I don't want to be clingy? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 07:17 AM PDT I feel If I hangout with them at school all the times it means clingy they are nice so nice and we have alot of fun together but I don't wanna be clingy I feel like anything I do is clingy I'm scared I'm gonna lose them because I always do lose friends |
| Question: My friend body shames people. Should I ditch her? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 06:35 AM PDT So my friend has been like this ever since this kid called her fat when she was 12. She's 14 now. And in the past few years she's been saying that I have a fat face. Or like I hear her say things about someone being "fat and ugly." And she takes pictures of her friends and then shames them saying stuff like "Look at that double chin." And when I'm with her all she talks about his losing weight and getting abs. I don't know how I could be fat since I'm actually underweight. I'm a little offended because most of my family is fat and it hurts that she makes fun of people like that. She takes pictures of me and then if she's on her phone she will show my old pictures of myself and talk about how I had like a double chin and ugly short hair. A lot of kids have a little bit of fat on their face though, right? So should I ditch her? |
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| Question: Why do guys get more attention than girls? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 04:05 AM PDT Am I the only who noticed this? Whenever I do something unusual, nobody cares. But when a guy does it, he's got 10 girls around him laughing. There's this one particular guy, and we've done many similar things. Yet he still gets more attention. I'm not saying I was attention, but sometimes I feel like nobody cares. I was thinking maybe it's because the girls in MY SCHOOL love talking to guys more than their girl friends. I don't know. It is just me? |
| Question: Is my new "friend" using me? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 03:50 AM PDT I meet this new girl at work a couple of weeks ago and we hit it off pretty well. A couple of days ago I had the same shift as her & we talked joked around and just clicked. After some talking she asked me where my brother was cause I usually have my shifts with him. Now when I first met this girl & talked to her it was only me at work and not my brother cause I only got him in just recently. She asked where he was and she's the type of person that jokes all the time so I shrugged & then she asked how old he was & I said jokingly he's too young, she was in on the joke. Later we texted and we joked around and out of the blue she suddenly asks what my brother is doing. I asked her why she suddenly asked this & joked that whatever it is the answer is no. She laughed & said I'm dying and that she was gonna add him om fb. I wrote back hah you're gonna scare the boy away & then she wrote hahaha I'm just kiiiiding relax with a laughing emoji. She is the type of person that jokes all the time but this mention of my brother in the middle of a conversation was weird and I even mentioned it to him. He said that it was probably random. She hadn't asked about my brother up until that very moment. She hasn't had a conversation with him privately before only when I've been present. My gut is telling me that I definitely can't trust this girl at all especially when she has told me some pretty private things and even giving me her phone number before asking about my brother. |
| Question: Friends went to a party without me? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 02:19 AM PDT They didn't even tell me about the party, and didn't bother to ask if I would want to go. We've all been friends for so long and now I feel like they don't like me anymore. I don't have any friends. It makes me so sad and so angry that they didn't even think of me. Of course I would want to go. I feel like I'm not good enough for them, and why would they even need to be friends with me since they're popular and already have so many other friends. What can I do? How do I feel better? |
| Posted: 29 Oct 2017 02:15 AM PDT I sent my friend a gift in the mail, she ended up having to pay 2 dollars to the mailman for the postage because i estimated wrong by accodent. I know its not much or a big deal but i feel terrible. I said sorry and she said no worries, its alright. Should i send her those $2 back? I asked my mom just to get a second opinion and she said no im fine. I still feel bad, what do you think? |
| Question: What do I do about my loneliness? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 01:01 AM PDT |
| Question: Girls .... DUMBEST boy ... of all time? Posted: 29 Oct 2017 12:45 AM PDT Something really crazy happened to this boy at my school, who has harassed my sister and me before. And I wanna know what you think. He was recently using a vacuum cleaner to masturbate (he's 16 years old btw). And I guess it was an old vacuum or defective or something, because his penis got minced! Like, he made it to the ER in time to save himself, but not his penis. It was totally cut off, and too damaged to reattach. It was sad for most to hear this and all, and all the boys feel sorry for him. But the boy was known as both not attractive but also a big pervert at school (I guess that's why he tried to get pleasure from a vacuum). He once grabbed my friend's boobs against her will, and always stared at mine. Plus, what he did was obviously kinda dumb. So some of the girls at school took a bit of humor in what happened. I wanna know what you think, so: 1. Do you feel sorry for the boy? 2. Do you think it's at all funny, what happened? (& why)? 3. He still has testicles, and hormones. But will he feel any pleasure, without his penis? Or any sexual "release"? 4. How will he get a girlfriend now? Or ever please a girl? 5. And how should us girls react to him, if he does act badly again? What should we say to him? ? |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2017 11:51 PM PDT Now he takes really long to respond to my messages, avoids most of my questions and won't hang out with me. Will he ever hangout with me again or is it the end of our friendship? He hasn't hug out with me for about 3 months when he used to hangout with me whenever he had a off day. Also, though I use the term guy friend we never did anything sexual or kissed. |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2017 11:27 PM PDT Basically it's a combination of one-sided friendships and lack of social life |
| Posted: 28 Oct 2017 11:17 PM PDT Gwen and I met in preschool and became best friends right away, telling each other everything and hanging every day Fast forward about seven years, we go to the first school dance together. We'd always been each other's valentine and our classmates typically assumed we were dating (or related) we ended up kissing after the dance, up in her room. From that time, we ARE a couple, and two years later, still going strong. Our friends know by now but we haven't told our parents, because we know rules would change: like we probably wouldn't get to have one-on-one sleepovers anymore, which happen often. See, we would cuddle, hold hands, and stay up half the night on the phone, even when we were in elementary school, so our parents don't suspect a thing. We're really open with each other. We haven't gone past making out and giving each other massages sometimes. We know to wait. But it's hard to have boundaries, when we trust each other totally. We change in the same room sometimes, other times one of us will be brushing our teeth while the other is in the shower. So yes, I've seen her naked, and vice versa. I mean sometimes she sits in my lap while we watch movies. I do get hard but she doesn't mind. Sometimes when we cuddle she lets my head rest on her boobs. Still, I think the most intimate thing we've ever done was me giving her a back/shoulder rub in just a bra. We haven't done anything that sexual. Are we too close, or going too far, for age thirteen? Are we healthy? |
| Question: My friend flexed his muscles (we re both men), and it turned me on ... what should I do? Posted: 28 Oct 2017 11:06 PM PDT My best friend and I like to text back and forth with a playful banter; shoot the ****, ask questions, send photos, etc. During our most recent text exchange, he sent me a photo of him with his shirt off flexing. My heart started pounding immediately. Not only because he has a great physique with bulging muscles, but because this was a photo updating me on his fitness program. He gained a lot of muscle, and trimmed any fat that was hanging on. In short, he looks amazing, and it made my heart jump so much that I got very excited, etc. Well, now I am nervous, because I have not really looked at him this way before; we have had a very chaste, normal friendship as is typical between two young guys. But now I have these urges and want more. Like, I want to see more of those muscles, and possibly something much more intimate. I m freaking out a little bit. Any advice here? |
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