So my wife really enjoys cooking. From making drinks and making dinner. Now I've been eating her cooking as long as we been married (1 year so far) but its starting to really get me sick. She really enjoys mixing food together and serving it in a bowl. For example she put eggs, bacon and blueberries in a blender and served it and it really disgusted me :( She did something similar at dinner by mixing foods random foods together. She makes breakfast and dinner everyday and she tried to make some juice by using the blender to blend corn, blueberries, apple wedges and she watched me drink it all. She enjoys eating this way but i don't whenever i offer to buy takeout she gets offended or when i ask to make dinner she gets offended i love my wife and i want to be supportive but what should i do? I threw up at work today and i cant keep making myself sick

I don't know what to do anymore, I have taken care of my wife for the past 6 years. I just got out of the army about 11 months ago. Back in June I took my wife to the airport with our 3 moth old son. Little did I know she said she wasn't going to come back. After a long talk we thought it was best to move back to our home state. So I put out a little over $3000 to move back, because that's what a good husband would do right? Well Just a few weeks ago I noticed she wasn't acting the same. I found a phone number, which is linked to some guy. Today I cleaned out our car and I found a used condom rapper, no condom though. I haven't used one in like 7 years. Do to the fact of moving back I had to claim unemployment and we also live off of my BAH from college. I get it from when I was in the Army. Anyways today she threatened me with a divorce and said she would try and take full custody. Then she about 10 mins later she said she didn't mean any of it. I haven't even brought up what I have found yet. If I lean towards a divorce I don't want to loose my son. Her parents own the house we live in as well, due to my wife putting making us move back. If I have to leave her I have no other option but to go back into the Army, to prove that I can take care of my son and have a place to live. This isn't the first time she cheated on me either. There were 9 other guys that I have dealt with. I'm at a point in my life where I am scared to loose my son from her. I loved her, what to do?

I thought it cant be that serious or bad. Hes probably not even diagnoses. But he kept saying hes a sociopath after I asked him one time. Cant tell if hes joking or not, but either way he's a good charmer who sucks me in

So last night it was 3am I was sleeping and I see my husband taking of my pants and then he takes out his d..k out from his boxers and then her reaches for protection and he starts putting it in me I am sick we had s..x 4 times that week i have work to go to and he said he was horny and did not want to masturbate what do I do?

My current bf has been separated from his wife for almost 2 years. 6 months into the separation, she filed for divorce and served the papers to him. Her terms were that they split everything equally. They also have a daughter together but she's over 18 so there are no custody issues. The paperwork he was served stated that he must provide income information etc etc. within 30 days of receiving the paperwork. However, my bf refuses to sign and just wants to stay separated. I'm not worried about this because I know there is no reconciling with his wife, the only reason he won't sign is because he doesn't want to lose half the money. He does have quite a bit and he also has a lot of equipment that isn't paid for totally so I think he is worried about the money side of it. He was served these papers 16 months ago. What happens now that he refuses to sign but his wife wants the divorce. Can she just be granted it? How long of a Process is it?

Is it possible to cook clean go to college raid my family I have 3 kids and a husband .. My husband is set on me doing everything at home and all he wants to have to do is work .. In tired of the arguments . I just want to know if it is actually possible to have everything done everyday..

Says that she can't quit when she sees me smoking and that I should quit with her. Why should I? I don't even want to.

My husband is 20 and in the millitary he got married to me and moved overseas it took him a year to find out that I could move with him. Our relationship has been long distance for a year just because he wasn't mature enough to figure out the process of of us living together overseas. he has a female best friend that he gave 700 dollars for a car without asking for repayment. he put groceries in her house and he pays for them when they go out to eat. He says his best friend will always be his Bestfriend and I'm just his wife. He also said If I have a problem with his friendship we can get a divorce. he has been overseas cheating on me and having unprotected sex with multiple women. he claims he wants a divorce because he is not happy with me And I'm a terrible wife. and he wants a women who can accept his relationship with his best friend he says he was to young to get married and he didn't kno what he was doing.We had an agreement that I will bring the paperwork to divorce him when I visit overseas in December will I be wrong to prolong the divorce so I can get as much money as I can from him.we have been married for a year and I still live with my parents.I think it's unfair to divorce someone just because you don't want to be married anymore.

I m only a child, at 11 yrs old. When I was younger, my parents would spoil me with toys. When I was 9, they divorced.. now I just have a bunch of toys lying around... they take up a lot of space in my house and I only have a one story house... I need help because I can t sleep at night knowing what inconvenience I cause my mom.

Most 22 year old women seem to hate men who are very successful, i.e. in medical school, or starting their own business that's successful, or engineers making nearly 100k at 22 years old, or going to law school, etc. They seem to rather go out with guys who dropped out of college and play video games 24/7 and drink alcohol all the time and don't have jobs and live with their parents and don't care about anything except partying @Fariha It's not even about these women wanting something serious. How could you want to be in a casual relationship with a drug addict who never shaves or takes a shower, who plays world of warcraft 15 hours a day and parties all weekend? Rather than a guy who is smart, funny, handsome, successful, and has a bright future?

I was raped twice by two different men during my undergrad years in college. I have been with my fiance for almost four years now and I have pretty much told him everything else about my past, but never told him about me being raped. Some of my friends know, but my family doesn't even know because it's such an embarrassing revelation. Am I a dishonest fiancee? The rape incident happened about 6-7 years ago and I've only told a select few people.

I don't know what to do anymore, I have taken care of my wife for the past 6 years. I just got out of the army about 11 months ago. Back in June I took my wife to the airport with our 3 moth old son. Little did I know she said she wasn't going to come back. After a long talk we thought it was best to move back to our home state. So I put out a little over $3000 to move back, because that's what a good husband would do right? Well Just a few weeks ago I noticed she wasn't acting the same. I found a phone number, which is linked to some guy. Today I cleaned out our car and I found a used condom rapper, no condom though. I haven't used one in like 7 years. Do to the fact of moving back I had to claim unemployment and we also live off of my BAH from college. I get it from when I was in the Army. Anyways today she threatened me with a divorce and said she would try and take full custody. Then she about 10 mins later she said she didn't mean any of it. I haven't even brought up what I have found yet. If I lean towards a divorce I don't want to loose my son. Her parents own the house we live in as well, due to my wife putting making us move back. If I have to leave her I have no other option but to go back into the Army, to prove that I can take care of my son and have a place to live. This isn't the first time she cheated on me either. There were 9 other guys that I have dealt with. I'm at a point in my life where I am scared to loose my son from her. I loved her, what to do?

I met my husband (single father of a 4yr old) and I find out that he lives in a very small town, 2 and half hours away from where I was residing at the time (big city) I decided to move in with him since I didn't want him to be apart from his son, and it was more convenient for me to move then for him to move where I was. Ever since I moved where he lives, I had to quit my job, and pretty much quit everything that I was doing with my life just to be able to be with him. Unfortunately in the town that he lives there are no jobs that meet my criteria. There's mostly fast food chain restaurants and a Walmart here and there . All the good jobs that fit my criteria are in the city. I've been trying to open a small business from home, but I've had no luck. Luckily my husband is very stable and we can live just out of his income.I've come to realize that staying home and being "mom/stepmom", and just catering to my husband and stepson is not what I want to do for the rest of my life as my only job. I feel like all my priorities have changed. And none of them involve me or what I want to do with my life, instead I've put all my needs and wants aside to please my husband and stepson .By nature I like working, being independent and having purpose in life and I feel like I've lost all of that ever since I got married. Moving is not an option (since my husband and I have discussed it in the past). Neither is divorced because I love my husband and my stepson. Any advice on what to do?

and my hubby is dragging his fit to join me at my parents'. How can I encourage him to hurry? No porn doesn't help, just makes me even more frustrated. I need my hubby to clean out my plumbing.

Only been married once, divorced for 10 years. One teenage son. In my early 60s. From broken family myself. . Guess I'm too sensitive for this world, so perceived as "weak"'/needing to "man up". Don't seem to be able to move on after my divorce 10 years later. Ex did some pretty horrible things to me and even to my son afterwards. Not saying I was blameless, but tried to spare son. Have medical issues now, feel alone/isolated/hollow inside. Didn't want to go through divorce court, just to mediation but ex wanted to go make it hurt (?). Plus she worked for the court so she knew it would give her an advantage (Lol). Wanted to try to make it as easy on my son as possible but she didn't seem to care about that. Despite all anger (even hatred) I feel ,sometimes wish we were together as a family for my son's sake. It's like I had to go through this whole trauma of a broken family twice, in my own childhood and now with my own divorce, and see my own child go thru it. Never remarried and don't want to. Ex is on her fourth marriage now. Guy she married emotionally ,mainly, abused my son when he was younger , she didn't seem to care and enabled him mainly. I shouldn't want to have anything to do with ex at this point, but I still wish we were still together sometimes just so my son could grow up in in intact family? Anybody relate to this?

i witnessed the person i love get her gaping butthole stretched and pushed un by another man? and i dont know if i can ever forget it and im married to her?

There are some strange old men who come into my girlfriends workplace as customers who began texting her. They got her number from her Facebook page which she has since taken down and readjusted her privacy settings. She was also friends of Aquintances of one of these men a while ago. I don't think she is cheating as she seems annoyed by it most of the time and she deletes their messages and doesn't respond. I think it's weird she deletes the texts. I delete all of the text threads between my ex wife and I and a female friend and I as I have discussed my relationship problems with both at times and I don't want to cause problems with my relationship. Also my ex wife and I have a friendly relationship I don't want my girlfriend to be threatened by and I discuss things with my ex that have nothing to do with our kids. Am I being a hypocrite?

Suppose you are married to a woman by arrange marriage (not by love marriage). Now you get to know that she had several relationships before and she also had sex with them several times. Now my brain is saying this should not matter but from heart i am feeling that i cant even get close to her.

On one side it sucks to be alone ( yet free from any obligations, responsibility etc ) and i wish i had a kid. On the other side there's women in general. I dated a lot and slept with many women; yet i never liked any of them. Their insecurity and constant need for attention are just some examples of why i dislike living with a woman. Women also require an endless supply of patience. Living with a woman means no privacy or time by myself; they want to be part of every freaking minute of my existence. Therefore; what are my options ? die alone or risk marrying and then divorcing ? Time is running out too - im in my early 40's and choices of women are limited; either young and immature or oldish and grumpy ( damaged goods ). Advice ?

Like I notice that Ivanka and Melania Trump married with kids but they were all over Justin Trudeau. Most cheating like 80 percent happen between married MEN and WOMEN.

You see most women dating guys who are fat, work low paying jobs, are boring, have nothing really going for them, aren't good fathers, aren't funny, aren't good looking, boring sex, etc. Instead of dating guys who are millionaires, funny, intelligent, fit and in shape, tall, handsome, dress well, philanthropists, world travelers, well spoken, charismatic etc Example) Why date Homer Simpson when you can date Ryan Gosling

I have come along way but in my head I keep thinking one day we can get back together and keep convincing myself she's rebounding right now how do I stop doing this ?

Ia woman who's husband was accused of molesting a girl recently. The incident happened years ago. Supposedly this happened when the girl was 7. She is in her late 20s. She wrote a status about it (not naming him). She just wanted to say that she never said anything because she didn't want to be blamed. There has been no contact between them during this Or before. She's not going after him legally. There's no personal gain for her in this situation. The girl Just spoke out on her experience. Slowly the rest of the family learned of who the girl was talking about and it became common knowledge to everyone but the wife. The sisters of the wife didn't tell her but reached out to her son and asked him to tell her. Obviously the family is angry with the husband. But the wife is angry with her sisters for them not coming to her first. The problem is, the wife is a doormat. She does nothing without her husbands permission. She stopped hanging out with her own sisters because they drink and her husband doesn't approve. She listens to no one, even got mad and ignored them when they told her he cheated on her. Her reaction would be anger and denial. She would cut them off. And now; that's exactly what she's done. She has cut all ties with them. Refuses to talk to them and doesn't even consider this a possibility despite the fact multiple women have complained that he's sexually harassed them. Should a woman stand by her husband when these type of accusations are thrown out?

I'm an american man

This is the 2nd miscarriage. He was supportive at first but then left me in bed to go celebrate his cousin birthday with him. When he didn't come home when he said he would I called him...then we argue. My husband do not know how to show love or emotions. I told him if he wanna act single he can leave the house and go do single things. When he came home 5 hrs later I was in bed still bleeding with a stomach pain. He knew I was miscarraiging. Instead of just holding me and comforting. He slide my panty off blood and all. And started to force himself on me. I felt disgusted. He smelled like beer. I knew he had been drinking but its not an excuse. He wasnt drunk and any ounce of respect I ever had for him is now gone. I'm disgusted with his lack of empathy and respect toward me.