Looking for an option that is affordable and fun for a bachelorette party! Drive-able weekend getaway from westchester county. Westchester County is in New York.

But I'd rather not go. I have social anxiety. I absolutely hate crowded places. Would it be rude not to go.

Please don't judge me, just try to see MY side. Harold and I were together before he mistakenly marriage another. She used pregnancy to keep him trapped. He decided enough was enough and they are divorcing. He has told his soon to be ex that he was marrying me. She said that was what he deserves and her children should have some sort of role in MY ceremony. I don't have children and honestly don't wont them there. This is my first wedding and the bride should have 'her day' her way! And before you start talking long-term, these kids live across the states, they would only visit during the summers and I work LONG hours during the summers so they wouldn't be too burdensome. The problem is his soon to be ex has posted on Facebook over and over nasty things about me not being decent to her children. I don't KNOW her children and have made no bones about the fact that I will not be going out of my way for them. She insists SHE is their Mother, so let her be. So, to make this simple please state YES OR NO: Is it ok for me to NOT want his children at my wedding? My soon to be husband wants ME happy. He is on board with the children not coming. They will have his full attention this summer, so he feels it's ok for them to sit this one out. This is ONE DAY of our life. He has his children 3 WEEKS during the summer, it's not like he is a dead-beat Dad! He agrees that this is our day to focus on us.

I proposed her in Sept 2016 it was accepted by her, but Right after 2 month she told me that her parents fixed her marriage with someone else.She also put a condition that I let her get married with another man, and after some time she will leave him, come to me and we will get married. I totally disagreed on that and let her go.(it was November 29, 2016) On Jan 7, 2017 she met me to tell that her father has rejected the boy with whom he has fixed the marriage due to the excess demand of dowry and he is not the right guy etc. Ours is a intercast marriage (Hindu Muslim). I cant stop thinking about her, sometimes i feel that i am in deep depression. I keep asking myself questions about our relationship. I could not sleep till i talk to her. I really cant live without her. But more importantly, I need to take a decision today. so that i can plan for better future. I asked her to marry ASAP. She replied "Bahut ajldi karenge" but sometimes i am confused with her behavior wen it comes to do it now time. Guys ! pls help me what to do ? How to deal with this situation. How do I know that she also wanted to marry me.? I am 43 yr man and my girl friend is 26 belongs to hindu family, we have been in relation for one year. But I noticed she is running away from marriage.?