My husband has mentioned twice that he and his ex wife had an abortion. And he's expressed that it was horrific, he regrets it, he wishes he hadn't done it. I have questions about it. Not consequential questions necessarily. Just curiosity and wanting more details. Is it appropriate to pry? Or should I just let it be and not ask him to answer possibly difficult questions, just to satisfy my curiosity?

I just found out that I have Visual Snow Syndrome. I see black spots in my vision and have ringing in the ear. I tell my husband the news. And I am describing the symptoms and he goes I have that too. To each symptom. I have been married to him for 10 years, Hes never told me he has ringing in the ear or sees visual snow. Is this narcissism or just being weird.

My wife loves me dearly. Anything I need her to do she does it and more and she's thoughtful. The problem is We don't have anything in common and when I try to get her to try some things that I like such as working out, volunteering, or being social she doesn't want to do either and gets mad when I won't stop asking her. She's fine with staying at home. I mean she will go to movies and stuff but other than that nada. I asked her what her "thing" was today and she doesn't have one. She has no ambition or any desire except to be a great mom by taking care of my step daughter and my soon to be son. If we didn't have a nickle to our name she'd be fine with it as long as the kids are taken care of. I bust my *** working 2 jobs and doing online school and she can't even sit her *** home and do some homework on the computer while her daughter is in school. Its old and I realize we have nothing in common and she is lazy. Doctor put her on bed rest and the first thing she says is "now you cant bother me about working out." I really feel as if she's feeding off of me. One minute she wants to do medical stuff, then dental assistant, then teaching, then this and that. She's 29 years old and I'm losing my attraction to her. It's like she sold me a lemon. I got head every other night, she was in school and working and then nothing. Its old. Im going to try counseling again and I want it to work. It's just that there's no partnership and I don't even want to have intercourse anymore. WTH

My husband happens to work in the same industry as I. He is also incredibly controlling and opinionated + annoying. If I do not "listen to him and obey his God given role of leader over me" he makes my life miserable. He has begun to call me verbally abusive names and tell me my co doesnt know what they are doing training wise (new job) and he knows better. I was crying at work and of course the boss asked why (when I was leaving to go home), I realize I should have "checked it at the door" but my husband started the verbal tirade while I was @ work via text. They asked me questions- and I ended up telling them how much of a psych/control-freak/manipulative/cheater he really is. My grandma chastised me and said no matter what they asked, I should have not told them. What should I do? I am embarrassed- but he keeps telling me I am dumb and a woman who doesnt understand this male dominated industry. I texted my boss and said I am sorry I was angry, but I need the proper training to do my job and with co workers constantly interrupting, I cant learn what I need to learn. My husband says he wont get counseling, will take every dime I have, and it was my fault he cheated. He also threatens to cheat again if I dont do what he says. So, of course I am crying at work because he texts me and provokes me and now my bosses and a few friends know all of business.

This is what it says to get married in Lakeland, FL. Couples are required to pay a $93.50 fee for a marriage license in Polk County, and will need to marry within 60 days of receiving their license. If a couple opts to engage in pre-marriage counseling, their marriage license fees are reduced to $61.00. If one or both of the parties wishing to marry are Florida residents, there will be a mandatory three-day waiting period between being issued their marriage license and being married. Non-Florida residents do not have to observe this waiting period. Couples who have attended a premarital preparation course will not have to wait to marry. All couples will need to bring a valid form of ID for a marriage license.

I love my husband but I am interested in other men. I want to explore sexual relationships with several other people. I want him for my life partner but I also like variety. I'd never cheat on him but I still have fantasies and urges. Is it normal?

Because if someone is emotionally attached to you (obviously this isn't love just codependent strong feelings) if you go and cheat on them you lose them who was your best friend when you started dating.

My husband has been planning a trip to Mexico for the past month with his friends. Before he left we lost power and I don't expect the power will be back till at least Sunday or who knows...I have 4 children under 5 years old and I'm staying at his parents house for now. I'm starting to feel irritated that he went. He hasn't even called to check on us. I want him to have a good time but I'm feeling resentful. Am I being unfair by thinking this way? Thanks for your input in advance!

I have children with my ex husband. My ex husband has issues I'd rather not get into and whenever there is a family event scheduled where my ex husband will be my boyfriend will not attend. My ex husband also calls daily and asks me how the kids are, wants to speak to the kids and also asks how I am doing. My ex husband also will not take his kids and instead will come over to my place to see them. This has made my boyfriend back off when it comes to his involvement in my life. He used to be interested in getting married and living together but has backed off lately. My boyfriend also used to take me on vacations and treat my kids to things but has stopped. Is it because of my ex husband?

he goes to the gym pretty much every day and I feel jealous because he could find someone better looking than me and I want him to stop going to the gym, Am I crazy, insecure or something? I don't know what to do ! please help

So it's been a year and me parents that live in Florida don't speak to my wife we live in NY. I go Down to see them a few times a year and speak to them in the phone but now they are coming to, not staying with us as they don't speak to my wife. When I told her they will be in for 2 weeks she got really upset as she feels they will monopolize my time which is not true. They say they have other business and visits to attend to but I think I'll ask them to Shorten their stay to Keep the peace with me and my wife -on a side note I've been threatened with divorce over this issue in the past. What should I do.

The guys openly joke about the huge size of his penis I noticed when he wears tight jeans it hangs down his leg I have become curious and keep thinking about it and him My husband is a good size but nothing like his I've never had a big one, my ex's were all normalish around 6 in, what do big ones feel like?

I ve been married to my husband for a couple years, he would drink occasionally but now it s an everyday thing, and maybe once a month he goes & binge drinks for 2days strait! trust me I ve talked to him, cried to him told him how much it hurts me bc his actions when drunk aren t the best, he s not abusive but can get verbally abusive if you get in his way, I ve told him everything I can possibly think of, he sometimes agrees w me at the time of our conversations (while sober ) but at the hour that he starts drinking it seems like everything we ve talked about is gone -means nothing to him .. I guess what I m seeking for here is just advice? maybe from another man? Is he depressed? (I ask myself why or how? We re fine) or is it that he just isn t Inlove anymore & can careless about my feelings...

For reals tho like my ex was tracking me down, sent me 4 follow requests in Instagram when I declined it...Could it mean he's obsessed or something? When he's already married and has a family?

My husband and I have been together for 11 years. I married when I was 19 and he was 22. We have gone through alot and we just had our first child at 10 years. Don't get me wrong, our son is our priority, and he is the JOY in our lives and the is the BEST thing that has happened to us. I think we both agree that we got married early and there's a part of both of us that is empty because we got married early and missed out on alot of our early 20's. (Also to mention I don't have a lot of friends because I was married and being a supportive wife. (I come from an Asian culture) How do I (us) deal with this while giving my full support to our son?

I know it's a process but he is my very best friend and now I feel so bored. Like what the hell do I do now? I mean I work all day & have a teenager and our 1 year old that keeps me somewhat busy, but all my friends are married off and don't have time for me. Any advice would be appreciated!

She should be an introvert and i am too. she never had friends but i have few very close and i love them very much. We are getting close to our marriage. she is very possessive for me and very short tempered. I love both friends and future wife. i dont know how to handle the situation. I think i have got one explanation of her nature/psychology. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-friendship-doctor/201105/why-would-someone-have-no-friends please sugesst me....how should i handle her...

Every time I turn on roblox to play the Vietnam war rp it's always "get up and take out the trash" or "go pick up our kid from school" then there's the "my parents are here aren't you gonna get off your butt and come out and say hi" and "Stop playing that stupid game you don't need to be talking to other women on there"

I'm very in love with my husband, but he has been displaying signs of BPD. He often sees things in a very strange/illogical way and he tells me I am at fault for his strange and explosive outbursts. I've been going to marriage counseling alone (in hopes I can figure out how to work with this) because he refuses to go . He won't seek help nor does he think anything is wrong with him. I don't know what I can do anymore. We are expecting a child and I'm terrified this kind of behavior will do permanent emotional harm to a small child. I want to be with him, but I'm afraid he won't get help. Will telling him that I suspect he has BPD cause permanent harm to our relationship or may it cause him to reevaluate and get help for his disorder? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. If I didn't love him so much I would've already left. He's never physically abused me, but he regularly emotionally abuses me. My life has completely changed since we've been together. I am isolated from my family and my friends, and he doesn't like me to go or do anything without him there.

I'm 25, Indian. Ive never been in a relationship as I always gave priority to my studies. Now that I have graduated college, my parents want me to settle down. In not convinced to settle for an arranged marriage while everyone I know is marrying for love. Should I give in and just go with arranged marriage? Is it any different from the previous generation? Why get married at all?

Saying where's your new job, I heard you started somewhere new, I need to know this info or Ill notify my lawyer. It's ridiculous. She won't tell me about my kid but will reply with a similar responce above if I as. But swearing on my life I have no other job. Will the courts hassle me til they find out Im really telling the truth?