My husband and I have been married for 4 years, I love him very much. The problem is when we have sex he doesn't last long like maybe 2 minutes.

He is 44 years old I am 32 years old, he's tried over the counter supplements drinking ginger and honey too, nothing seems to work. He is never ready for a second round because he is too tired, and usually falls asleep.

I don't know what to do, has anyone else dealt with this before, he does pleasure me orally before we have sex. Should I be complaining because I want more?

me and him have been together for almost 7 months he s 31 and divorced while im 22 and never been married i know what your thinking its more than just sex tho ive meet his whole family spent the holidays with his family he has pictures of us together hanging in his house he stocks up his cabins with liqour that i like got pj s for me that are for when i stay over his house BUT HE HASNT SAID I LOVE YOU YET i even wrote i heart _____and his name on a cake for valentines day and all he said was awwww thanks babe.....and didnt say i love you smh anyways its been bothering me ever since so yesterday i told him " i think i love you you dont have to say it back " all he said was "thats a pleasant thought im glad you really like me i dont like you any less" than gave me a kiss then said "he'll say it back when hes ready he's not cormforable with saying it yet he doesnt want it to break us up and he's getting there" so i asked him "do you NOT know what you feel about me " he said " i do dont get sad i just dont know how to express those feelings it takes time for me i thought you were happy with our relationship i thought things were going great between us" and took me out for dinner telling me not to be sad...anyways do ya'll think this is some BS excuse just to keep me around? maybe for sex? i know were suppose to go on vacation next month and stay at his moms beach house and he's taking me to vegas this summer but still IS THIS A RED FLAG? HELP

i have been married for a year now. i have been doing oral sex for my husband from the begining. but a few weeks back i vomitted while doing and i continued to finish it for him because he was already aroused. but since then i am feeling disgusted to do it again. he has been asking since then but a couple of times i ignored but after that i explained to him why i am unable to do it anymore. he got so angry and banged door, threw things and did not talk to me properly. Then after sometime he was back to normal. Then again after a day or 2, after foreplay he asked me for oral i said no and he abruptly stopped and went to sleep and didnt talk to me properly the next day. again 2 days later he did the same. If we start foreplay he asks for oral even after i told him the reason. And finally he makes me feel guilty about this like i am wrong. What should i do? am i really the guilty one? please advicce

I need for him to know that I like him as a friend and for sex too. I'm 17 now and have this major attraction toward him. I want him to know that nobody will ever find out. I think he likes me but not 100 percent. what do I do? him being married isn't a big deal because he sleeps on couch ,they fight too.

Lets be honest, ive taught him a lot of stuff I'm into, and I made him more open with new "things" That men wouldn't do. But if we have active sex, is it still normal for guys to watch porn? Is something wrong with me or is that just a guy thing. And no concerns correct?

I have 4 kids ages 12 and 10.6yrs. I'm exhausted, totally exhausted. My body hurts I'm so tired. My husband is at a meeting and it's 7:45pm. My kids don't go to bed until 8:45. Would it be wrong for me to go to bed now and the kids wait for dad to get home to put them to bed?

Long story short my wife had to schedule a c-section. I have an 11 year old daughter from a previous marriage. She is having a big ballet recital in a few weeks. My wife had a couple of days she could choose from for the c-Section. She knew the date of my daughter'showed recital and chose that day. I don't understand. I really wanted to be there for my little girl and watch her recital. My wife insists on me being there for the birth of our son. I want to be at both. I can't help but feel anger at my wife. What should I do? I feel like I have to be there for the birth, but I don't want to let my little girl down again.

I'm finally divorcing my wife after 6 hellish years and getting "oopsed" twice. She begged me to do the while "work it out for the kids" thing and I can't take it anymore. I don't want to put my life on hold anymore. So I decided to divorce her. I never wanted these kids to begin with, I care about them, I just would have left my wife sooner if she didn't trap me. So I got a co-worker to agree to do a paternity test. Him doing it in my place so I don't have to pay child support. Would this work? Before anyone jumps down my throat I told my soon to be ex-wife I wanted to wait before we had kids, a few weeks after that she told me she microwaved her birth control pills and that she was pregnant and that I cant leave. So again do you think this work? She's probably going to get everything else I've worked my *** off for for half my life while she sat on her duff eating chocolate and wasting my money on pointless crap. I don't want her to get most of my paycheck for the next 16 years.

I am three months pregnant and I am getting divorced. My husband and I cant seem to get along. We fight and he yells and I end up feeling terrible. I feel really sad because we were so happy when we found out and I had many hopes. Now I don't know how I'm gonna cope with this.

Hello. We started arguing a looooot because of my husband being jealous about every little thing that happens/ that he sees. SUPER JEALOUS. ABOUT EVERY LITTLE DAMN THING. After that he starts saying I am doing something behind his back. Even tho I never did anything to make him think that way. He just says it doesnt sound right or his intuition says something different. I dont know how to deal with it. I love him so much and it breaks my heart to hear how much he doesnt trust me.. I think he is just insecure, because of his past relationships and he doesnt believe I am not gonna leave him. Please, tell me, how to deal with it? how to talk to him? He starts mentioning divorce, because he says he thinks I dont really love him. But I really really do love him.

My wife is only 16 we've been married for 3 months. She's pregnant with her second daughter she was only 12 when she had her first baby. She doesn't think she's ready for another baby. She's worried because her ex left her right after their daughter was born she's worried I might do the same. She said she regrets having a daughter so young she was crazy about her ex when she was with him. They known each other for a long time. She thought she was ready for a kid. She doesn't know how she's gonna tell her daughters about it when she's older or if she should even tell them. She doesn't want them to make the same mistake she did. She cries about it everyday. How can I help her feel better ?

I am in year 5 of a 5 year Chapter 13 Bankruptcy payment plan, and have negotiated it successfully thus far, with 10 months to go. I have been separated for over a year & want to get a divorce as quickly as possible. I no longer have a bankruptcy lawyer, who removed herself from the case once we announced our separation. The payment plan payments are being split, with me carrying 75% of them, and both myself & soon to be ex spouse capable of paying what's left in the plan w/ little concern. I am not looking to modify the plan, but I am looking to have marital assets and debts divided by the divorce, a house with a mortgage. There is some equity in the home, close to 100K, I estimate. What I am understanding is the only way I can get a divorce before the bankruptcy period is over, and to have a divorce plan to separate the marital assets and debts, is to have the automatic stay in the Chapter 13 lifted. Is this correct? I do not want to wait the additional 10 months before filing for divorce, I want to do it now, soon. What is involved with lifting the automatic stay, to pursue the divorce, how complex to do so, and will it affect my ability in any way of being able to receive discharge papers for the Chapter 13 case at the end of the bankruptcy? Ultimately, I want the house sold, she lives in the home now with the teenage kids, to split the equity, and get my name off the joint mortgage, but am thinking it would not happen until after the bankruptcy is over.

I recently found phone #s with male names scribbled on bar napkins in my wife's pocket. We haven't had sex in 3 months either. It also seems she is always gone on the weekends, but says she is visiting family. I don't know what to believe anymore

She said my wife told her I was well endowed and a good lover, and asked me to show her, I did not but she could feel me growing.and I wanted to fvck her due to lust I am ashamed.

I didn't have much help growing up my mother was from Mexico and was not familiar with the law so didn't help after I was old enough to try to figure it out I reached out to him and he threatened to take everything I had

my wife calls me on her way to work and she tells me that her son ( my step-son) isn't going to school b/c he didn't study for a test. now, since i have little to no say about what goes on with him, all i could do is laugh and say nothing. my wife is a good mother but a so-so parent. my butt would have been at school whether i was ready or not for that test. she allows this type of behavior all the time. my hands are tied and i can say nothing b/c ill be the bad guy. does anyone have an explanation for this?

I am newly married and pretty active sexually but sometimes I am not in the mood, on my period, or I just have a headache. Hubby gets a ***** then sulks when I say 'no' he bangs doors and acts likes three year old. Men!!!!

We have been married for 7 years. Well back in October I busted him with pictures of his ex girlfriends on his computer. Some of them being nude and sexual acts. He also had accounts on several adult sites. He said he was just looking at porn but yet he had "friends" on his profile. When I asked if why he had "friends"if it was just to watch porn he had no answer and denies having contact with any of them. He deleted the accounts I knew about but I have a feeling that he's reopened them with a different email and username but I don't have proof of that. He's really secretive and I'm not allowed to know any of his passwords,not even the password for his phone. He blames me for his sneakiness and says that he has to be because I broke into his computer when he actually left it open by mistake. He bad mouths about me to everyone when we fight,female co-workers,his friends, his family and my family on occasion.He has made them believe that I'm crazy and I have been isolated from people who I thought I could count on. I'm sure I know the answer to my next statement but want input from you. If he's not physically cheating he's cheating emotionally. I know this is long and thank you for reading this. So what do you think? Thanks

I'm having serious second thoughts about having a baby with my wife. All she does is work every single day from morning until night. She is obsessed with money and her career. I visited the doctor today for a checkup and mentioned about us trying to conceive and the doctor mentioned that my wife and I should consider exercise together in the evenings. I felt like laughing at her because my wife is never at home. We haven't gone out together or shared a meal in months. 5 years of marriage and we take separate vacations, work and study separately and only come together of a night to sleep and try for a baby. I'm feeling more and more that I'm stuck in a marriage of convenience because she is never around. I'm being used so she can have a "mixed blood baby" as she puts it. She is Chinese and never spends time with me. She goes out with colleagues and friends. Makes her life interesting. I've been told by many people to get a hobby. But quite frankly that's just preoccupying all of my time to fill the void of not having human interaction with the opposite sex. Dates don't exist. Meals together don't exist. Time in the home together don't exist. Doing nice things for each other doesn't exist. She just stays in her company and I can't call or text her because she is busy. Minimal communication. I'm trying to find a second car.... If I find a car, there would be nothing to stop me going to live with my folks and commute to work. Because she is never around, I feel like I'm living alone anyway.

its difficult staying erect after hearing and smelling her farts all night long, seeing and smelling her period blood and stains. is this why its best married people have separate bathrooms nd women sleep with windows cracked open?

I have a 2 year old son and I have been back and fourth in court since he was 8 months old. Now we are back in court because he found out about me having post partum depression and now he's trying to take full custody. Being that post partum can last up to 2-3 years I was told by my doctor I'm very much better and have adjusted to being a single mom and my health is way better, granted it took me a long time to recover after having my son. Which contribute to me lossing my job of 3 years. We have hearing coming up but now he has filed an ex Pete to add a move away order to are hearing because he had gotten order from the military that he will be moving to the east coast now he is trying to take my son with him. He just got married because he knows the military will not let him have full custody of he's not married. So basically he will be moving to the east coast with him, his wife, her daughter & his mother and his wife is pregnant. So now he thinks that enough family for our son. His mom disappears and goes traveling like every 3/5 months and stays gone for a while. He basically using this as his parenting plan. Mean while back on the west coast my son has me his grand parent a his cousins his uncles and aunties speech therapists and cities and family & friends. I may of had post partum depression but that didn't stop me from working and doing what I needed to do for me and my son, he says are son needs stability all because i moved back in with my cuz I lost my job.

it was his brother

His son wants him there to speak on how he met her but I don't feel right about it happening because he divorced her in 1986 which means that has been over with but his son will be heartbroken

I am 20 and he is 22. He tells me that this one girl on Facebook is hot because she has a 34d chest size and he heard that she was a virgin. We got married in September of 2016 after 6 months of dating. I know he loves me because he married me and gave me a $2k ring. Why is he checking out other women? She is gorgeous without make up while I have acne scars. I made fun of her large breasts back in the 7ty grade. Why does he treat me like this?

The stay at home spouse gets an allowance and that applies regardless of gender And not only that since that spouse who is the main provider is the one working and making all the money it goes without saying they make the final decisions and calls and call the shots It makes no sense for you to expect your spouse to provide for you do all the handwork and then expect equality you want equality you get a job and help them out and you contribute financially too And i'm sorry but being a stay at home husband or wife doing house chores is nothing compared to Real Work. It takes no skill no education or training or even thinking to do those mundane task because it's not really a job you would do them anyways if your not married or living with a spouse because you need to anyways there is no stress involved. On top of that most chores are only done once a week not every day aside from cooking which doesn't take long It makes no sense when you spend maybe less than 4 hrs a day doing house chores and cleaning and then you spend the rest of the time watching TV netflix going online on Facebook Youtube etc and then you pick up the kids from school make dinner throw them in front of a TV computer or ipad while your spouse is working an 8 hr full time shift 5-6 days a week and then you dare call that an equal relationship and say you're equals ? I'm sorry in what world is that an equal relationship ?

Im seeing a woman and she says she's married but i dont believe her except for the kids i saw with her in pics. Plus we text and talk for 3 to 6 hours every night. From 8pm to 1 or 2am. Can she be married or divorced and playing hard to get ?

My marriage has not been good for many years, despite this I have stayed with my husband for my children. I cannot stand the thought of being away from them, and they mean everything to me. Recently my eldest son blamed me for messing up his life, which hit me really hard. My second eldest is failing in school this year, and I have tried everything to get him to care about his grades, but he just doesn't. I have tried to communicate with him, but he only replies that he is fine, and nothing is wrong. I have no friends or family aside from my inlaws (who I'm not very close with). I have always been my husband's excuse for his failures and now I' m tired of it. I cannot go on any longer being everyone's scapegoat, it has diminished my self esteem and self worth. I have given my life to my family, and have nothing to show for it but a broken heart.

My husband was the best man at his brother's wedding and during the toast he lamented on how gorgeous the bride looked. I was very upset by this because the only girl he should be calling beautiful is me. I was so upset I wanted to go home but my husband did not and he drove us. I could not enjoy the reception because of how upset I was about this. People wanted me to dance but I refused because I was not in the mood. The reception went until 11 and on or way home I asked my husband why she said the bride looked beautiful. He said it was common courtesy and that no woman was more beautiful than me. I did not believe him because he would not be calling another woman beautiful. It's only been a day but my blood is still boiling over his comment. I have even thought of divorcing him. So should I divorce him?

Surely it's adultery? It's sex, it's his penis, your holding he ejaculates on you, it's sex!!! My GF said it's just like kissing, but I think it's adultery?