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- Question: Do straight guys like a finger up the bum and to the left?
- Question: I [M/19] have been bullying my coworker [F/19] for the past few months to take out my anger on someone?
- Question: Why do women give me dirty looks in public?
- Question: Where do you meet girls that aren’t obsessed with social media?
- Question: Why would a girl look at me from a distance but not when she is at a closer distance?
- Question: Should a 30 year old and a 21 year old date?
- Question: How do I tell him I miss him?
- Question: My girlfriend told me she is only attracted to me because of my personality. How should I feel about this cause I really dont know?
- Question: What is your favorite? Thanks.?
- Question: Does it sound like my crush might like me back?
- Question: My boyfriend told me he's saving himself for marriage and he's a virgin. He's 29. And we already discussed we weren't gonna get married ?
- Question: Was this his way of telling me that i can see other guys ?
- Question: My ex girlfriend slept with my friend not even a month after we broke up. Why would they do this to me?
- Question: I want my boyfriend to ....?
- Question: Girls: have you met a man that could make you orgasm better than you can make yourself?
- Question: Do u think my friend will support me?
- Question: Would it be worth it to tell my crush i like him even tho he’s moving?
- Question: Have every person did something wrong in their lives?
- Question: Why is my mom making me feel bad about my boyfriend ?
- Question: How long does it take for you to completely forget about someone?
- Question: Boyfriend always talks about another girl. Help?...?
- Question: Do you guys ignore us simply because you don't want to talk to us or are there other reasons?
- Question: Should I tell her how I feel or do no contact thing first?
- Question: I used to cheat on my boyfriend but don’t anymore and feel guilt?
- Question: Guys only, what did he mean?
- Question: Would you consider this loyalty?
- Question: I am stranded on Mars. how do i get back?
- Question: Suddenly paranoid about a drunk night from 3.5 years ago ?
- Question: Would this upset you ?
- Question: Is he trying to get my attention!?
- Question: Should we use mad for human or upset?
- Question: Should I give him a second chance or move on?
- Question: In your opinion who is the more 'invested' person in a relationship?
- Question: Im afraid that ill never be able to have a physical relationship?
- Question: My girlfriend wants us to share locations through our phone. Is this normal? Would you let your partner do this?
- Question: Am I Friend Zoned By This Girl?
- Question: Being matched with coworkers daughter. Help!?
- Question: What do u think of a high pride woman?
- Question: Guy I’m seeing bought his baby mama an expensive watch for mothers day?
- Question: How to stop talking to myself?
- Question: I feel like I'm bad in bed. ?
- Question: Girlfriend might accept my kids!?
- Question: Was this his way of telling me we can see other people ?
- Question: This is for Suzy. Suzy, if you don't ever plan on speaking to me again....?
- Question: If you were a multi-millionaire would you tell your date this or keep it a secret?
- Question: How to accept that some people will never like you?
- Question: If you ignore girls, they will chase you?
- Question: Why is it called “Black Lives Matter”? Shouldn’t it be “ALL Lives matter”??
- Question: How to find a girlfriend when I have a long hair fetish?
- Question: They say that sex is easy to find and love is not, but women do not give me love or sex?
- Question: Why don't women have chemistry with me?
- Question: What should a girl do with some used condoms, she found in the bathroom?
- Question: What does it mean when a guy you've been going out with for 4 months says he wants to take some time off between us?
- Question: Do you ever get upset when a cute guy texts like this ?
- Question: What should I do if I have too many problems and they are all equally as bad?
- Question: Is this sexual/emotional abuse? (trigger warnings)?
- Question: Why is that so?
- Question: Dating site is a problem?
- Question: Why would boyfriend say this? ?
- Question: She broke up with me for losing sexual attraction, it was a long distance relationship. I'm not able to move on. How to accept ?
| Question: Do straight guys like a finger up the bum and to the left? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 09:02 PM PDT |
| Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:59 PM PDT I'm not a bad person, but I'm constantly angry, upset, frustrated, and miserable. But I have this coworker, I hate her so much because unlike me she has a boyfriend, and was promoted before me despite barely working there longer than me (I've been there almost a full year now), slowly I started lashing out at her, and now she's basically become my punching bag. I'm not going to lie, when I first started bullying her, it felt kind of good, like really good. It made me excited that I had complete dominance over her. It's gotten to the point where when she sees me, she turns down an isle just to avoid me. I've spread rumors about her at work, claiming she's gone down on half the men that work there, thrown her lunch from the break room in the trash and smacked it from her hands when she's there when I'm present, I've shoved her, tripped her, mocked her weight, and our store is so small nobody pays any attention to her so I get away with it. This has gone on for months, she put in her two weeks notice and now I know I was acting like an asshole but I am so angry and miserable all the time I don't know what else to do, so I don't feel bad about it. And I had more things planned down the road, so I'm not sure how far I was going to go with tormenting her. It feels good confessing it here though. |
| Question: Why do women give me dirty looks in public? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:54 PM PDT |
| Question: Where do you meet girls that aren’t obsessed with social media? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:46 PM PDT Are there any girls around the age of 24 that aren't obsessed with social media? |
| Question: Why would a girl look at me from a distance but not when she is at a closer distance? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:44 PM PDT |
| Question: Should a 30 year old and a 21 year old date? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:43 PM PDT |
| Question: How do I tell him I miss him? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:40 PM PDT Me and my friend hooked up every weekend during the school year in college. We haven't seen each other since we left because of COVID-19. We've talked a few times but I just want to tell him how much I miss him without it being too bad or awkward because we're in the same friend group and will see each other every day next semester. What should I say? Thank you for any help!! |
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| Question: What is your favorite? Thanks.? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:36 PM PDT What is your religion and what's your favorite religion? |
| Question: Does it sound like my crush might like me back? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:35 PM PDT So I met this guy at work about a month ago and he asked to be friends on Snapchat. We snapchat every day and at work we are always teasing each other/making eye contact. He started leaving me small notes on receipt paper if his shift ended before mine. Now I do the same if my shift ends first. He's told me in the notes/via snapchat that he really likes hanging out with me and that when he sees me he smiles. We've hung out once outside of work and I had a really fun time. However, I haven't been in a relationship in years and so don't know if he is simply being really nice/flirty or if he actually has feelings for me. I see on his social media that he has a lot of friends who are girls and I haven't met any of them, so I don't know how he acts around other girls. Another thing is that I am 3 years older than him and we are both aware of the age gap. I don't see a problem with it but maybe he does? I know that maybe the only way to actually know is to ask him, but I would like to get more input before doing that. |
| Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:34 PM PDT I'm so confused. When we went on our first date he and I talked about not wanting marriage, 2 years into our relationship he springs this on me.what am i suppose to do? |
| Question: Was this his way of telling me that i can see other guys ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:34 PM PDT Last week i came over to the guy I've been seeing for 3 weeks house and he asked me what i did for that day. I told him i went downtown. Once i told him that he asked me "are you seeing somebody downtown or something?" I paused and looked at him for a few seconds and didn't answer and the. He said "well if you do then i can't really get mad" Then i said "i went downtown to hangout with my befriend we went To the new bakery... that's about it" What does it mean We didn't have the relationship talk as of yet |
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| Question: I want my boyfriend to ....? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:23 PM PDT I want my bf to do certain butt stuff and he just doesn't want to. If he gives himself a sleeping pill and i do it anyways is that rape? Cause we're engaged and I think im entitled to it since I kind of own him in a way , also I wouldn't be drugging him he takes the pill on his own. Im obvi not gon reveal my name becuz.. Yah... But thx in advance. |
| Question: Girls: have you met a man that could make you orgasm better than you can make yourself? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:20 PM PDT |
| Question: Do u think my friend will support me? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:19 PM PDT My best friend of 18 years asked for advice on her crush and I told her it would be best if she just left him alone, because I heard he's a playboy and it prob wouldn't work out. I only said that because I also have a crush on him and plan to ask him out. I have known my friend since we were born, we grew up together but tbh I cant help but feel bad. . she should support me though, and i think if shes a real friend she will |
| Question: Would it be worth it to tell my crush i like him even tho he’s moving? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:11 PM PDT we aren't too close but i'm pretty sure he likes me too. but the issue is that he's moving far away soon so is there any point in me doing so? |
| Question: Have every person did something wrong in their lives? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 08:04 PM PDT |
| Question: Why is my mom making me feel bad about my boyfriend ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:56 PM PDT My boyfriend is 50 years old . I'm 32 years old and my mom is 56. I understand what she's saying when he gets old I could possibly feel different about him . I'm aware of what can go wrong. But I am obviously with him because i like him . She's always making negative remarks and says ahhh you can use him for now but you aren't gonna like him later because he is going to look super old . Why is she being so negative . She keeps saying it and laughing at him :( My mom is single btw and all her past boyfriend weren't cute and did major drugs (cocaine) and one has hit her before and the other tried to touch my boobs when I was a teenager . |
| Question: How long does it take for you to completely forget about someone? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:55 PM PDT |
| Question: Boyfriend always talks about another girl. Help?...? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:46 PM PDT My boyfriend always tells me about this girl he had a fling with. He calls her gorgeous, perfect Even and tells me all about their old sex life. (He mentioned they've had s*x over 80 times and he c*me in her every single time...). He's also mentions how her and I will never, ever meet because "my self-esteem would drop 6 feet under." Implying that she is way prettier than me....anyway, hearing about all of it really upsets me every time and I do try to tell him hearing about it hurts and to stop talking about it. But he always gets mad and blames me for causing an argument. what do I do? |
| Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:46 PM PDT this is kind of a dumb question but I don't understand how you guys work. im close friends with this one dude that has gone away for a little bit so our only form of communication now is texting but his reply game is so bipolar and I don't get why... like he would either reply in minutes or like today ignore me for 6 hours. I really don't get it maybe it is he just dosent want to talk to me but why? or are there other reasons? |
| Question: Should I tell her how I feel or do no contact thing first? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:44 PM PDT There is a girl I went on a date with about 4 months ago and she told me after the date that she wasnt feeling any romantic feelings. I liked her though and wanted to give a little more effort in trying to create a spark so I kept talking to her and learned new things about her weve also hungout a couple times since then but my feelings have become stronger like way stronger. I dont want to say I love her but It feels like im starting to fall for her a little bit. At one point I thought she was becoming interested because for like a week we were talking alot and one of those nights she told me she was horny and sent me a pic of her boobs and wanted to see my dick. I think I messed up big time here because I didnt know what I was doing and turned her off. We dont text each other as much as we did that week since then but we still hangout sometimes. She knows I like her but I dont think she realizes how much. Ive been feeling really depressed about her lately to where I dont feel like eating or doing anything sometimes. My friend said I should just tell her how I feel about her. He said there is nothing to lose and if she feels something after that then great but I know its probably not going to change anything and I know Ill lose her completely after that because im going to need to stop talking to her at that point. Idk if I should do that or try the no contact thing first and see if she reaches out to me instead of me who is usually initiating. What should I do? |
| Question: I used to cheat on my boyfriend but don’t anymore and feel guilt? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:27 PM PDT Hello, I started doing long distance with this boy I met over social media. Before the time I was with someone who didn't really treat me right. Anyways I was talking to like 4 other guys all these 5 months we been dating. I just met him for the first time this week and I love him, I really do. I regret it but I don't want to tell him. It would break him as he already is. I don't know what to do because I feel guilty. I just dropped all the other guys I been talking to. (They were all long distance too) |
| Question: Guys only, what did he mean? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:13 PM PDT I was telling my crush that I wanted to suck his d##k. Like how deep, fast, hard, and jerking it. I can't be too descriptive because I don't want to be reported. Anyways, he said you really know how to work it. What did he mean by work it. |
| Question: Would you consider this loyalty? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 07:03 PM PDT Your boyfriend or girlfriend is sexting with another person outside of your relationship. However, they have absolutely no intention of ever meeting up or doing anything physical with that person. Even, when that person tries. Does that make them at least a little bit loyal? |
| Question: I am stranded on Mars. how do i get back? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:58 PM PDT |
| Question: Suddenly paranoid about a drunk night from 3.5 years ago ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:58 PM PDT 3.5 years ago I went to visit a close friend of mine at his university for his birthday. We proceeded to get very drunk. We went to pregame at one of his friends off campus homes and then we went to the bar. I have never thought about this night until today. All of a sudden I am thinking, what if I had sex with some girl at the pregame and now can't remember. Do I tell my girlfriend about this. Did I cheat on her 3.5 years ago and now just don't remember. I need advice |
| Question: Would this upset you ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:52 PM PDT For example, the other day I was texting a guy and he kept texting me with words such as "u" or "ur". I let him knew it bothered me and he said sorry, but then keeps doing the same thing. In my opinion, it's fine with friends, but when a guy shows interest in me I think it's just lazy. I don't know, it could just be the age group. We are college aged... why do you all think? |
| Question: Is he trying to get my attention!? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:51 PM PDT I didn't handle my breakup well at all. He viewed my Snapchat stories after we broke up and I told him I missed talking to him and he said it back. He didn't want anything serious ( we broke up due to distance ) and he just wanted to be fwb which I didn't think was a good idea but still agreed because I missed him. That didn't really work out and I would text him a lot to meet up or just to spark up a convo and now I feel like I looked needy. Whenever we were on talking terms, he would view my story and January I cut things off because we were arguing and I apologized and he said it was cool then I stopped talking to him. Abt a week later he stopped viewing my Snapchat stories for good. 4 months later I posted a text convo and he viewed it out of nowhere so I knew he was curious. And lately he has been viewing all of my snaps since I went to the beach. I think it's weird he only does this when we're on speaking terms. So what's his motive. I honestly wouldn't think anything of it if we weren't exes but we have a lot of history and rlly liked each other. Is he trying to hint to be in a subtle way that he misses me or something like that? I haven't talked to him in 7 months and I rlly do miss him. Why is he doing this and what can I say to spark a convo? Today I posted something of my baby cousins and he viewed it in less than 30 minutes lol which was sorta obvious. I want to say something because my summer is ending and we won't get to see each other during first semester. |
| Question: Should we use mad for human or upset? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:49 PM PDT |
| Question: Should I give him a second chance or move on? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:48 PM PDT I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend and we've been virtually dating for about a month now. We haven't met yet. I'm 24 and he's 34. Things have been going really good, he makes me happy, he's really fun and he's honest. Until today. We've been having cybersex on snapchat and it's been really fun. Today while we were doing it I had to be somewhere and I told him I had to leave the call. He said it was ok and it was no problem. I texted him when I got back and he told me he watched porn because I left. That pissed me off. That's like cheating! I felt betrayed. I also felt betrayed because he seems really sweet and genuine; different from the rest. Why did he do that? I cussed him out and told him not to do it again. I had a similar problem like this in a past relationship I just came out of before this with my ex, and I thought this man was different. I was unhappy then this guy made me happy, now I'm starting to feel unhappy again. Do I not satisfy him or something? I asked him why he did it and he would never answer me. I'm american he's canadian and we've talked about moving in together prior to this and that's a big step for me moving to another country. But should I trust him and stay or move on? I've given him and second chance but I'm wondering if I should. I don't want this to happen again or worse. What should I do? I've seen this happen in other relationships too where men cheat because they don't get what they want in bed. Why do men do this?? |
| Question: In your opinion who is the more 'invested' person in a relationship? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:47 PM PDT I think we can probably all agree that two people are never going to be equally involved in a relationship. When everything is put together, from the overtures early on, to the level of involvement over time, one half of the couple will always be more involved. So which do you think it is, more often than not, the man or the woman? I'm trying to prove a point to someone, so if you could, please consider this: "which of the two is more able to leave the relationship?" |
| Question: Im afraid that ill never be able to have a physical relationship? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:44 PM PDT hi gang i have Asperger's syndrome and have an extreme aversion/fear/weird bodily reaction to physical touch, whenever someone touches me i do this thing where my body shakes, i make a high pitched noise, i push the person away from me and/or i jump out of the way. (the main areas for these reactions are my ribs, legs, neck, and hair.) im currently in an LDR and im scared that these actions will concern/scare my s/o ive never really been in a physical relationship and i know that i might not be able to, this scares me. what do i do about this? |
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| Question: Am I Friend Zoned By This Girl? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:28 PM PDT Me and this girl went for an ice cream date last week. Yesterday we were texting and joking around and she text me this "that Evil smile meant everything my friend". Is this a sign that I'm friend zoned? Before we went out she told me that she doesn't not plan on staying in town so does she just want to be friend?I have flirted with her and all that so she knows I'm into her. |
| Question: Being matched with coworkers daughter. Help!? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:25 PM PDT I am a single man, I was nice to a lady I work with but hardly know and in return she gave me her daughters phone number. I am not interested or attracted to the daughter. What should I do? |
| Question: What do u think of a high pride woman? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:25 PM PDT |
| Question: Guy I’m seeing bought his baby mama an expensive watch for mothers day? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:20 PM PDT My boyfriend has a son with his ex. She has a new boyfriend but he said "I'm getting my baby mama a watch because her new man wear fake watches and i don't want people to think she accepts fake jewelry" Then he said "her boyfriend might be mad because it's a nice watch but she's still my baby mama at the end of the day " |
| Question: How to stop talking to myself? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:15 PM PDT So, I talk to myself. I'll have a ful on conversation out loud with myself and I want it to stop. How can I do this? Any methods? |
| Question: I feel like I'm bad in bed. ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:12 PM PDT To be blunt, I've had sex with a handful of people. I am a girl by the way but I'll just give details on the ones that matter. I had sex with my boyfriend of two years obviously more times than I can count. I just never really got any serious comments about me in bed which bothered me. He just never really hyped me up about how I was in bed. He one time made a comment about how he was the one doing all the work in bed but I got angry at him for saying that and he never mentioned it again probably because he didn't want to hear my mouth. Then after him, I had sex with this one kid but it was a one night stand kinda sitch but not really. We said we would keep hooking up after that one night but he never called me back and pretty much ghosted me. The thing is- I am really bad at giving head. I hate doing it. I would do it if I was good at it. I did it for him and I think I just made a fool out of myself more than anything else. I know this is SOOO MUCH of a tmi but normally I just let the guy do whatever they want to me and I just kinda lay there lol. What else should I be doing??? Why do I feel like I'm just terrible now? I met someone else off Tinder and he commented on the fact that my sex game was "weak" cause I don't suck dick? Like what am I doing wrong? How can I fix this? How can I be better?? Please.. no rude comments it sucks that I'm living with this and was hard to type I'm just a girl who needs help. |
| Question: Girlfriend might accept my kids!? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:12 PM PDT I love my girlfriend but there's a few things that are bugging me. We both have kids from previous relationships. I moved in with her after about 4 months and from what I know of her she's not super affectionate with her children. Not saying she's a bad Mom she's just not caring like me. So when it comes to mine, obviously I don't see the caring part since she doesn't do that with her kids what makes me think she will be affectionate with mine. She gets very frustrated and annoyed. And I get it but I get my kids 2 weeks out of the month and I get hers DAILY!!! So I don't get her frustration. I want my kids to have a pleasant stay when they come with me and it just seems like they rarely have a good time. She's always on her toes and constantly yelling and complaining about things being upside down, dirty, etc. but when they're gone she a bit more lax, still complains but not as much. Do I need to deal with this or is she wrong? |
| Question: Was this his way of telling me we can see other people ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 06:06 PM PDT Last week i came over to the guy I've been seeing for 3 weeks house and he asked me what i did for that day. I told him i went downtown. Once i told him that he asked me "are you seeing somebody downtown or something?" I paused and looked at him for a few seconds and didn't answer and the. He said "well if you do then i can't really get mad" Then i said "i went downtown to hangout with my befriend we went To the new bakery... that's about it" What does it mean We didn't have the relationship talk as of yet |
| Question: This is for Suzy. Suzy, if you don't ever plan on speaking to me again....? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:59 PM PDT Because I have to finally be honest and realistic with what I see with my own two eyes.... It doesn't seem like you ever plan on speaking to me again, do you? I just wanted to say that I will miss you very much and that I will miss our friendship. We've always had so much fun together and a lot of great moments here that I still laugh about every now and then. I still don't know what happened or what I've done wrong or if I have said something wrong but things are just not the same anymore between us. I guess we've both just grown apart over these past few years, idk. You are making other friends now and seem to have forgotten about me, when I've been there for you ever since we've met. It's just gotten really hard seeing you making new friends while you continue pretending as if I don't exist. I understand why you are doing this because you've told me why several times but I still have feelings too and I am just heartbroken. It's unfortunate that we no longer speak anymore... It's like I don't even know you anymore but I am willing to accept that what's done is done. I don't want to accept it, but I am finally willing to accept that things do change. If you don't plan on ever speaking to me again, then I wish you the very best in all your future endeavors, I will miss you lovely๐ and I will always remember you and all of the fun moments we've had. Hope you find love and get married someday to the man of your dreams. :) Goodbye Suzy.๐น๐๐๐ |
| Question: If you were a multi-millionaire would you tell your date this or keep it a secret? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:57 PM PDT How would you know if your b/f or g/f has a gentle and true heart, maybe money has everything to do with it? |
| Question: How to accept that some people will never like you? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:46 PM PDT So my girlfriends family hates me no matter how hard I try because my girlfriend prefers to spend time with me over them and moved out and lives with me. We been together for four years and I tried everything in my power to get along and have a happy and healthy relationship with her family. I would even go as far as to say I actually care about them and care what they think about me which is why their actions and words hurt me so much... So- I turn to Yahoo since I did everything I know I can do. How do I come to fully accept that some people will dislike you no matter what and not let it hurt you anymore? |
| Question: If you ignore girls, they will chase you? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:40 PM PDT I was watching this video on YouTube explaining that if you just focus on yourself and avoid girls your whole life they will want you like crazy. I've tried it for 7 years and still nothing is new. I don't get it. That doesnt make sense. Why would you ever want to ignore a girl you like or have a crush on? Wouldnt that be rude and make the girl think you're not interested? That would be like if a guy was out and about enjoying himself when all of a sudden he sees a girl that looks pretty. But no, he doesnt look at her or even interact with her and just carries on business. I turned 27 recently and I've never dated before but last year I asked a girl out for the first time and got rejected. Should I focus more on my hobbies and job than girls? Wear a chastity belt or something? I feel like I'm becoming an incel here. |
| Question: Why is it called “Black Lives Matter”? Shouldn’t it be “ALL Lives matter”?? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:36 PM PDT |
| Question: How to find a girlfriend when I have a long hair fetish? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:31 PM PDT I want find a girlfriend but I have a fetish for very long thick silky hair. What do I do? |
| Question: They say that sex is easy to find and love is not, but women do not give me love or sex? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:28 PM PDT I am a man 36 years old, and women don't give me anything |
| Question: Why don't women have chemistry with me? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:22 PM PDT I am a man 36 years old |
| Question: What should a girl do with some used condoms, she found in the bathroom? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:18 PM PDT It still has live sperm inside it |
| Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:17 PM PDT I've been dating a guy for about 3-4 months. We met on Hinge but had many mutual friends so I felt like i sort of knew him before we started going out. Everything seemed to start out really great. I took things physically and emotionally slow as I had just gotten screwed over by another guy a few months prior, I didn't want to go through similar heartbreak. This new guy was great when I told him I wanted to take things slow. We hung out about 2 times a week. We seemed to take turns asking each other to hang out. We started a couple TV series together and by about that first month, I started to feel very comfortable around him and started getting feelings for him. Well now we are about at month 3 of dating and I told him I was about ready to have sex with him. He seemed a little skeptical for some reason when I said something but I just figured it was because he knew I wanted to take things slow. After the day I told him that, he seemed to slowly distance himself from me. He barely was responding to my text messages, one of my friends matched with him on Bumble and to top it all off, he cancelled on our plans to hang out the morning of our date (he's never cancelled EVER on hanging out). He then texted me saying he thinks he needs to take some time off from dating each other. What does that mean? Do you think he'll come back or does it sound like he's gone for good? I know he's going through some depression with his parents getting separated/with his job and COVID19. |
| Question: Do you ever get upset when a cute guy texts like this ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:13 PM PDT For example, the other day I was texting a guy and he kept texting me with words such as "u" or "ur". I let him knew it bothered me and he said sorry, but then keeps doing the same thing. In my opinion, it's fine with friends, but when a guy shows interest in me I think it's just lazy. I don't know, it could just be the age group. We are college aged... why do you all think? |
| Question: What should I do if I have too many problems and they are all equally as bad? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 05:10 PM PDT I am extremely overwhelmed too much I feel hopeless |
| Question: Is this sexual/emotional abuse? (trigger warnings)? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 04:56 PM PDT this was my 1st serious relationship and i had never done anything with a guy. he would always try touching me or asking me to do things to him & i would say no then he would get upset with me and say/yell things like: - "youre such a prude, i did these things in my past relationships its not a big deal you will love it once you do it" & would just compare me to his past relationships which were intimate & would gloat about how amazing he was at pleasing women- "you clearly just dont like me since you wont do things with me"- "just break up with me or i will because i need this"- "i get it you dont like me i dont deserve these things what did i do wrong to not deserve this"so i tried to break up w him & he [TRIGGER WARNING] threatened to k*ll himself. this obviously hurt me bc i didnt want him to do that. but also confused me because he "needed sex" & i wasnt giving it to him, so why would he want to be with me? but we stayed together bc i was scared to leave. eventually i just let him touch me bc i was scared of how he would react if i didnt. every single time he knew i didnt want to and that i would be on the verge of tears. i never said yes right away, i always said "ok sure" after him begging or making me feel bad. we never had sex and thankfully i was able to break up with him after over a year. im glad to be out but it has screwed me up mentally. ive never put a label on it or anything but seeing other women open up about abuse on twitter recently has got me thinking. |
| Posted: 07 Jun 2020 04:46 PM PDT Why are younger women Attracted to older guys? |
| Question: Dating site is a problem? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 04:45 PM PDT If your suitor has a somewhat simple family, he has had no money since 2016, this photo was from 2018, he is shy, he is silly, he has no driver's license, he does not understand flirting, he likes to smell his sweat in a stuffy room. |
| Question: Why would boyfriend say this? ? Posted: 07 Jun 2020 04:33 PM PDT So my boyfriend said he will see me after work.... I told him I will go outside for a little before he comes...he said I better not go anywhere....and had a really scary intense look in his eyes.......why he doesn't want me to go outside? |
| Posted: 07 Jun 2020 04:21 PM PDT What makes it worst is that we didn't have sex, we're virgins, i wonder who she'll make it and it gives me really anxiety attack for the reason it won't be with me. We met in real life once but just did oral stuff. What do I do? |
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