My husband has this old coworker. They were really close and cool with eachother. The only reason they started to hang out less and less is because my husband got a new job. Recently I posted some pics on my IG and his friend has began to start messaging me ina flirtatious way. Should I just block him and forget it or tell my husband about it? 

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My BF asked me if I would want to move in together. I said sure if it is 2 or 3 months before whenever we will marry. But, he is not sure when wedding will be. I then said something like, "if the move in doesn't work out then we don't have to marry". Was this reasonable to say?

It's our honeymoon and my wife says that she wants to "chill out" on sex and just enjoy the vacation. I'm a Newley wed guy and I just wanna bone my wife? Is that too much to ask?

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How do i get annulment new york i have traumatic brain injury and my husband abuse me forces to marry him to get green card and having his child someone please help me 

I am so tired of a sexless marriage. My wife is loving in every way but has completely lost interest in sexual activity of any king. We are 65 yrs old now. I am thinking of finding a girl for sexual relations but don't want to hurt her by her finding that out. Any suggestions? 

She usually tells me what's on her mind if there is an issue or I did something wrong. She said nothing was wrong. I have not done anything but she seemed quiet.  Since we were intimate a week ago I felt more connected to her. It's been a long time and I'm so glad she now sees it as an issue and wants to try again.  The bad thing is after we were intimate I had mushy feelings. I'm now more paranoid and jealous at times. It's very weird. We have 3 young kids so usually I don't have time for these feelings.  It's like sex and fun one night and then normal life for a week. I know I'm. It making too much sense but want to see if anyone else has experienced this. 

I will not be going to husband but I am dating someone I love. I just have not filed for divorce due to coronavirus. How should I handle this? I don't want to break any rules 

My husband is no help to me. We have been married 5 years and I take care of everything, bills, kids, Everything. I have been placed on bed rest and I had to hour full time help, because my husband won't do crap. I'm so feed up with his laziness. When he is home he doesn't help out, he works nights and he uses that as an excuse to sleep all day, everyday. When he is home he isn't an active presence in our home. I'm feed up. I do love my husband. However I'm tired of feeling like I have a mooch in my home. 

Whenever I am sitting with my husband watching TV he picks his boogers and pulls out his nose hairs the entire time

Hi guys I was wondering if you could help me since I have been in a relationship with my partner I have always felt like the other woman when his father died she was inconsolable and begged him.not to leave her she would often call h.by her husband's name she would ask him Togo out dancing with her. When I was working they would they would go to a shopping centre together because she wanted perfume and clothes together whenever we went out together she would take his arm she wouldn't talk to me avd ignore me. Then on one occasion when we moved into our own place he went to his mum's to get some stuff he had found that she had tried o kill her self no clothes on surrounded pictures of his dad. Recently though she has made him her carer so he is at her beck avd call 24 7 on one occasion they went fur a walk together but when he started being her carer they would go out for lunch together what do I do? His mum is is her 70s is quite a Character I saw a ring with a receipt for a ring I noticed he bought her Chanel no 5 he takes care of his appearance trying to loose weight looks like a film star . If it is incest what should I do?

First of all, I know my Parents won't get a divorce, but to be honest they probably should have years ago.  My Mom was once a  Barbie look-a-like, but has since blown up to nearly 300 pounds and has basically never really held a job  consistently or supported Herself. She chose to be a stay at home Mom and has been one nearly my Parents entire marriage. Therefore, my Dad has always been busting His tail and He clearly has  deep resentments over it and money control issues. This is especially exacerbated by the fact that my Mom often over spends and doesn't seem to recognize the value of money or the work required to make it. Probably because, like a child She doesn't understand it. SO this has led to nearly 30 years of screaming matches over Her spending and Him(my Father) being pissed off about the amount She spends on things He doesn't find important/necessary.

I recently got found out that I am pregnant after I married my wife. The father of the children doesn't want anything to do with the baby what so ever and won't speak to me about the situation. Do I have to get him to sign his rights away before hand? Is it legal in Oklahoma for two female couples to have both of their names on the birth certificate? How do I need to go by doing this? 

My mother never listens to anything I tell her or any advice I give her. I could tell her it's going to rain tomorrow and she would have to look it up online then proceed to ask someone else "is it going to rain?" in order to believe what I've said. I honestly think she thinks I'm a complete idiot or something.  I told her not to shop at our local market because there is a sign that says there were recent coronavirus cases in the store and to shop at your own risk (no joke). She INSISTED I was wrong arguing with me then proceeded to go to said store, didn't see the sign until she left said store and called me up in a panic in tears. Another incident happened with our home a few years back we ordered a new AC unit it was terrible we got ripped off. My mother needed a new AC a year later. My husband told her not to go with the brand we went with and she did. For 2 years she insisted my husband and I were wrong the AC unit worked perfect we didn't know what we were talking about. NOW her AC unit had the same problem ours did and she's gotta spend a fortune getting it fixed. Now she's upset said AC unit is junk.   It's almost like she has to "experience it" to believe me then will say I was right. Yet when other people outside of my husband and I tell her something it instantly must be true!  She once tried to convince my husband and I to pack up and move to Atlanta from Birmingham because this girl on the plane told her how wonderful it was there! 

At a birthday party for my partner's 1 year old grandson, I found myself listening to him discussing the current drama filled life of his first wife, the grandson's grandmother who was not at the party, while wearing the wedding ring from his 20 year second marriage, the partner before me who is deceased.  Even though we were outside at a park, I felt like I needed air. I got up and walked away. I've talked with my partner about the ring telling him previously that 5 years after his late wife's passing, I am bothered by noticing him put it on for special occasions. In the beginning, I did not feel this way because I imagined he needed time to grieve. Perhaps he still does and always will but my feelings about the ring have changed. We left the party briefly to pick up ice and I mentioned feeling awkward and why. He responded by suggesting we abruptly leave and said he only chose to wear that ring because it matched better with his watch. This was hurtful and something I felt like immediately reacting to but didn't.  Back at the party, I noticed he changed rings. We stayed, had a good time celebrating his grandson and enjoyed walking hand in hand through the park. Still, I find myself frustrated with him and wondering if he is ready to move on. 

filing for divorce, he is now saying he wants to take me to court and accuse me of domestic violence, in which never happened. For once I'm a small woman and we haven't even seen each other for months. He wants to do that in hopes of getting a green card? What can I do about these false accusations?

My fiancé's mother has never been married and a single mom to 3 kids. I don't have a problem with her, but my fiancé being the oldest she has put a strain on him that's made me very angry. She'll text him things like "I don't know why you put her before your family" and blame me for being the reason her family isn't close. Everytime I come around I'm nice and giving, but now I'm starting to resent his mother because she's not thinking of us as one.. it seems I'm having to play tug of war with my fiancé in the middle because she feels as such. If she was married would this be different? My fiancé was the first.. help!

We've been married for 6 years, itll be 7 years in 6 months. I've been having fertility problems and I wasn't able to get pregnant when we wanted to start a family. It took me years but he still stuck by my side. We went to fertility doctors over and over and at last, I got pregnant and gave birth to a healthy baby boy on February 2, 2020.  My husband has been treating me like nothing after his son arrived. No I'm not jealous, I'm extremely happy that he cares so much for his son. He just says mean things to me. He keeps telling me that he doesnt mind me leaving as long as his son stays. He never comes to cuddle with me anymore. He full on ignores me and only caters to his son. Sometimes I wake up and I dont see my baby in his crib and I go insane. I go downstairs to find him with my son which is a good thing. I'm glad he finds joy and love with his son. I just feel like he's abandoning me. He doesnt even want to sleep on the same bed. He just doesnt care for me at all like he used to. Yes I take care of my baby and I love my son. He goes crazy whenever he hears his son crying and tries to blame me for hurting him. He rushes to the bathroom when I'm giving my son a bath and he starts yelling and telling me to stop making his son cry. I mean, it's a baby and babies cry. I can't help that his son is a baby and still cries when he needs something. I tried talking to my husband but he says I'm just jealous and I'm seriousness not. I'm just sick of the way hes treating me. I've fallen out of love with him because of the way hes treating me. He treats me like I'm not there. When our son is sleeping and I come to him and try to talk, he just pushes me away and tells me to go do something else. I dont know what his problem is and I will divorce him if this keeps going on. I dont love him anymore and I'm scared for my sons future. This isn't what I imagined it would be. I feel like I picked the wrong man to be my sons father.

Filed for annulment and told my ex husband, we been married for less than a year and separated since the day of marriage. He's been acting weird and try to communicate with me more since that and making comments that we should sleep together (we never did) and not interested at all. I kinda feel harassed up to this point and he's made comments about suing me for money spent while dating me and on the wedding which wasn't really much(under 5,000) , can he do that? 

I've been married for nearly 17 years. We planned on having a family but I dealt with infertility and then cancer resulting in a hysterectomy almost 4 yrs ago. He has kept me from working for the last 18 yrs. I know I should have had a backbone but I was blinded. Ive been trying to make it work, but when you're the only one trying love dies. I am not in love with him anymore. I care but its over. I haven't had sex with him since Sept. There is reason for mistrust with him but I won't bring it up to a judge. He and 3 other people own a business and he makes decent money, however his business partners are shady with hiding money for one of the partners so he pays less in child support. I want to go to school so I can eventually support myself. Im nervous because idk how I'll support myself if they succeed in hiding money.

I'm 17, going into my last year of school before leaving for college, and the youngest/last kid to leave the house. My parents aren't bad people or abusive, they just absolutely hate each other's guts. It's been that way since I can remember, and they've been inches from divorce several times throughout my life. There's been cheating, constant screaming matches over everything, and a complete lack of boundaries between us and their marital issues. They've clearly just stayed together all these years for the kids. We know they're miserable though, it's just made the house tense and stressful. I stayed out of it growing up but now that I'm on the verge of moving out and they're gonna be an empty nest, I feel like I should tell them that it won't be upsetting to me if they separate. That I'd really prefer them both to be happy than to be together. It that my place/how can I go about that?

How should the husband face him after knowing that his wife exploredeverything with him and he too knows everything about her body and also dumpedher later? Now what can the wife do to comfort him?

Should he believe her? Because she might simply fake in front of him and might say that to fool him or not to hurthim, even though she knowsthather experienced exes will always be better for her? Otherwise, how can a virgin husband become her best partner on first attempt itself even though sje had more sex and explored everything with all her exes?

We have hot pillow talk now and then, but I'm the only one doing the talking. She used to claim "no fantasies." Now she says she 'perhaps" has sexy thoughts now and then. But won't ever share them with me. It's frustrating. Everyone has those. I'd love to hear a few. Anybody else experiencing this? Any advice? Asked, she says "that's just the way I am." Okay, but a little tidbit may be fun to hear.

I want to be clear I absolutely love my newborn son but I am struggling with the added stress and responsible in my life.  For starters he is sleeping during the day and then crying through much of the night which is obviously frustrating. On top of not getting very much sleep, I feel the pressure to provide financially. My wife currently isn't working and we have additional expenses from the baby on top of our regular bills. I'm finding it difficult to focus at work with the loss of sleep.  I completely understand my wife is working hard to take care of the baby during the day but she tosses him off to me after I finish work and goes to relax. I certainly don't mind giving my wife a break but I'm not getting any time to myself. Weekends haven't been a time to rest either as I find myself taking care of household chores that have been neglected through the week. Also, with the situation of Covid, I have not left my house to do anything enjoyable in months. I have asked my wife twice to take care of the baby for a few hours while I'm not working to allow me to allow me to have a bit of time to myself. Her response was to say that I'm being selfish. I know she's frustrated as well but that honestly angers me because I personally I have made a lot of sacrifices for her and haven't expected anything in return. I even agreed to get pregnant without wanting to because that's what she wanted.  We're both struggling right now, what can I do personally?

Not necessarily for their permission or even for like a huge purchase or anything. I'm newly married, just about 2 years and we have a 3 month old baby :) just wondering if most couples ask their spouse before making purchases. Lately  I've been getting whatever I want for the baby because my husband doesn't know what kinds of things the baby would need. When it came to things for the house I usually brought it up to him and he would tell me if he agrees or disagrees. How do you guys handle making purchases with your spouse?

I met her 7 months ago and immediately proposed to her and got introduced to her family. We're not officially married yet but hoping to officially tie the nut few months from now. Lately, we've been arguing a lot just about anything, but for the most part is how she responds to my questions or requests. I notice that she's always defensive for the most part rather than just admit to fault and I take that seriously. Also, I feel like she's not comfortable if I try to show her how stuff works ranging from household appliances to even good driving habit or just anything. Usually, she will be defensive in some form or claiming to know before finally giving in. These habits are really disturbing and so many times we've argued and also talked about it but looks like nothing is helping.   Sometimes I sit and before I knew I found myself asking questions like: Is she the one? Do I still proceed with the marriage license? What really is her character and whats her motivation? Do I give myself more time? Could be my fault for her behaviors? Do I just give up completely and start new somewhere? Do I just go on long trip? I'm really confused here!!!

This lamp has been nothing but trouble ever since my wife brought it home. All it does is shoot loads on her face.  Is there any sort of quick fix I can do?

Will she treat him like a loser and contact her exes with whom she explored everything?

There is a girl that has become my colleuge since two months ago. Last week I noticed that our companionship as colleuges has became better and better. Ice are broken between us a little. Last week she came to my desk and said a very special and warm Hi. She also waived and said a very warm goodbye when she left. She did nit have to do it. The other girl that is works with us was close to her. I havr to mention once recently I had asked her if she is married. I had asked in a way that she would not find out. I told her I asked this question because you have long last name. She said no, she has two last name.  Firstly: Do you think she knows that I like her and that the purpose of this question was to find out if she is single or not? Secondly: I want to tell her if she is intrested to come and visit a musum for instance. Should I tell her before that I had been impressed by her behavior and etiquette from the first day I met her? Would that be wierd to bring up the memory of the first impression she had on me and then ask her out? I mean to say would there be any chance that she may think it was an immature love if this guy liked me from beginning?