So my boyfriend is going to study in an other land. It's not sure yet but he will. I'm not going with him. But the thing is, everytime we together he keeps saying " i don't care if i have a girl or whatever when i come here, i will find my way cause i want you. " But lately that just makes me think, you're not even sure that you want me in your life. But i do understand though that he must go. But it makes me also feel like he's holding me, and I told him. But he says " I'm giving you your freedom, but hey, if i can have you now why would i want someone else having you " It just feel all so confusing to me, and it makes me also all sad and most of the times I don't know what I'm feeling cause at an other point it's my move but i really but really love him Please let me know what you think about this, honest please

She told me that they're insignificant to her but I still have this thoughts in my head. She's gonna move to another house soon and I'm kinda afraid she takes them with her

Basically, I have been speaking to a guy for a month now. Prior to this, I have known him for around 6/7 Months due to meeting him through his job as a customer. I began speaking to him and we really hit it off and got along well. I really do not want to sound horrible or in any way judgemental. It has come my to my attention that he changes his clothing once a week and has the same boxers on for a week. I know he does not lack finically as he has told this himself and is always wearing expensive clothing (when he does change them). It's come to a point where everything is perfect about him apart from his hygiene. One of the days he was bending over and I saw his Versace boxers had a hole in them which isn't an issue, the issue for 6 consecutive days that I saw him he had on the same boxers with the same rip. I am genuinely confused about how to approach him in regards to his hygiene. Do I say anything at all? He's a lovely guy and I do not mean to sound horrible but hygiene is of course very important. It's a shame as I do like him. I really need some advice, thanks guys :)

We dated for two years so I kinda feel comfortable doing that.  Do I look weak? I mean it's not a new relationship. We were texting and she just stopped. I think she went to bed. 

im a girl myself and my friends often say "kill all men" which is obviously a joke but like I don't see the point of it?? I think its a twitter trend.. but like I dont get it

3 years together and i left her, why i wont bring up here. i couldnt do it though and drove back an hour later, a month goes by and she acts normal until one night calling me over and breaking up with me. this was almost a year ago, during the break up she..was vicious, in he defense she wanted to kill herself, so did it, my family kept me alive, but she was really mean, she wished death on me while saying she never loved someone as much as me, she has so much anger, like i cheated on her or killed her mom, it was overboard in my mind. i had a panic attack where i almost went to the hospital, couldnt move, breath, she called me selfish for asking her to come over. she has treated me so horribly.i'm ttying to get over stuff i could go on, she is, i love her, she loves me, first person ihad sex with and only,i 'm 27. i truly love her but she has hurt me so bad and she doens't know how bad, she thinks most her actions are justified. idk what to do, i can't break up with her, i need her, she doesn't want to need me anymore and says she can only count on herself but after a fight she says shes still needs me.

My ex girlfriend and I broke up one year ago this month due to her losing trust in my ability to change.  I would get jealous and say nasty things to her.  At the time I was addicted to weed and it controlled my moods and my personality, making me paranoid. I truly feel with therapy and the right support from family I have completely changed my ways.  I am weed free now 6 months and family members have noticed my growth.  I've tried to win my ex back several times but she says things like she can't trust me and she has her guard up.  She also says that I broke her and destroyed her dreams.  She tells me she hasnt seen any other guy and has no interest in anyone.  But slipped in that a co worker is interested in her in a recent conversation we had.  She also told me her life is bad at the moment and she's unhappy.  I always thought things went the other way around when someone leaves a person.  That they would showcase happiness and even try to make the other jealous in some way.  But it's been the opposite.  I'm wondering if there's anything I can do to turn this around because I truly love this girl.  How can you win someone's trust back that won't let you in?  Should I give up?  She told me she still loves me. It's very confusing 

A woman moved into the apartment next to me. Like 30 seconds after I met her she said "you're really handsome." not sure if that was inappropriate. HELP!

I asked my boyfriend if we were ever going to get married and he said he would marry me when i least expect it. Not sure if that's legal. HELP!

3 years 1 year - gf demanded more time, did not receive, broke up saying don't love me anymore. 4 months later - came back, said I was the one she thought of everyday...  2nd year - on and off break up; says it's her way of dealing with relationship arguments 3rd year - she broke up with me because I demanded more time and commitment from her part.. then 3 days later, came back and said sorry. Note: Every time break up, delete me from social media and all our pictures and conversations.. so basically, she does not have anything with regards to our memories. 

It is 8:30 PM and I've been waiting all day. Im guessing its not coming until tomorrow but a boy can hope.

I was talking to my gf a few days back because I felt like she was putting as much effort into our convos. She would reply with short replies. I told her I felt like I was talking to myself via text. She then says " you are being paranoid and crazy". Idk why she would tell me that.  Wasn't putting in as much effort**

As I said I've never had a boyfriend. In middle/grade school I had good friends but I was invisible to guys. I always thought it would change when I got older and it hasn't. The older I get the more bitter I feel. I  grew the courage approach men I liked I was rejected every time with something like 'its not you it's me".  I couldn't handle being rejected anymore so I've stopped.  I've tried not to care. I've tried to do it casually. I've tried to just focus on work and hobbies and working on myself. And I've read and heard about a million times that you have to love yourself or no one will love you. And another million that you find someone when you aren't looking. Its complete BS I know other women that are jerks with obvious issues with some guy wrapped around their finger. I know other women that have multiple children with multiple men. I know women with big issues in relationships so that whole love yourself thing is not fooling me anymore. I also know wonderful women in wonderful relationships. All of my friends are married or with great guys and have homes and beautiful families. And I can't help but feel jealous instead of happy for them. I'm tired of feeling painfully lonely in my room at night I'm physically sick of it. And I'm afraid of how angry and bitter I feel too and I've been having increasingly negative thoughts and anger towards men in general. I am changing as a person. I use to go out of my way to be good to others. I don't know what to do now.

At least we all have something to look forward too.

We haven't even got to personally know each other. Normally I don't care about the words spoken behind my back, but if there are people who are driven to sabotage the chance for anything to happen between us, I don't have the energy to fix this, but my hope is that he will come and talk to me.

My ex bf has a gf on several occasions  I caught  him driving on my my street different times either late at night of early in morning I also receive No Caller ID phone calls which I never answer. What could be the reason he is doing this 

One person (exclusive) or multiple people (non exclusive).

If I don't like giving head and don't expect it in return, would men be ok with that?

A friend came to me asking for advice because their boyfriend is acting like he doesn't care about their relationship that much, and they doesn't know what to do. Their boyfriend always comes up with stupid excuses of why he can't spend time with them, like, "I'm busy watching TV" or something like that, and it's just not right. What should my friend do? Oh, and my friends boyfriend always tells them he loves them, which makes this even odder because his actions don't really show that they love my friend all that much.

hey yall my ex girlfriend recently left me for the forth time lol.  and i am trying to figure out just what is wrong with her.  Can yall read this and maybe help.  I have known her for about 16 years during this time we dated randomly here and there.  in this amount of time i know she has had at least 35 boyfriends and no clue on friends with benefits but probably at least 10 of those and short flings through out.  She has 4 kids by 3 different guys, and has never had a relationship last more than 6 months.  She has returned to many exes some as many as 10 times but never more than 6 months at a time.  If shes done with a guy she drops them cold completely ghost ya, When a guy leaves her she used to fake a pregnancy now shes fixed so she seems to fake an illness, recently used "she might have cancer" to get another ex back.  I guess she doesn't cause its never been mentioned again.  She also immediately introduces new boyfriends to her kids usually within a week so if they leave she uses a guilt trip saying the kids miss him.  She doesn't seem to want money just your attention and lots of it, she quickly pulls you into her world away from your friends and family and doesn't care at all what you want to do.  She wants you at her place with her and her kids.  She constantly text other men even when you're right next to her and she will ignore them sometimes but will never tell them to leave her alone she has a boyfriend.  I feel like she is keeping a harem on standby.   She'll have moments where shes fine but she can lash out anytime or dump you in the blink of an eye.  She might love you when you fall asleep and wake you up asking you to leave.  At the beginning of all her relationship or the rekindling of an old one she lovebombs big time.  Non stop attention that slowly fades then the monster comes out.  Shes already had to "soulmates" this year and its only june lol.  her new soulmate she has been seeing for a month is already living with her and young kids can you really find your soulmate within a month of dumping your old soulmate and sleep with me in between?  She already cheated on this new soulmate with me but i was unaware i didn't know she was already seeing someone. Hes hooked big time i see it all over facebook.  I think she is trying to make the old soulmate jealous and i was just used for sex in between the 2 and maybe put on standby incase this new guy didn't work out.  I just really don't know about her i thinking about staying away 

it was a long distance relationship, we met once in real life but we didn't do anything. I wonder who she'll lost her virginity with. I wished it was with me, she wished i was the one with her but well, after 3 months since we met she broke up for losing sexual attraction. I feel bad for not being enough for her. Today she said i was good for living with, marriage but for the SEX... she wouldn't do it with me. i'm broken for hearing this from her, it was 6months since the breakup and she told me this today and it really affected me.

I didn't handle my breakup well at all. He viewed my Snapchat stories after we broke up and I told him I missed talking to him and he said it back. we broke up due to distance and he just wanted to be fwb which I didn't think was a good idea but still agreed because I missed him. That didn't really work out and I would text him a lot to meet up or just to spark up a convo and now I feel like I looked needy. Whenever we were talking he viewed my story and January I cut things off because we were arguing and I apologized then I stopped talking to him.  Abt a week later he stopped viewing my Snapchat stories. 4 months later I posted a text convo and he viewed it out of nowhere so I knew he was curious.lately, he has been viewing all of my snaps since I went to the beach. I think it's weird he only does this when we're talking. So what's his motive. I honestly wouldn't think anything of it if we weren't exes but we have history and rlly liked each other. Is he trying to hint to be in a subtle way that he misses me or something like that? I haven't talked to him in 7 months and I rlly do miss him. Why is he doing this and what can I say to spark a convo? Today I posted something of my baby cousins and he viewed it in less than 30 minutes lol which was sorta obvious. I want to say something because my summer is ending and we won't get to see each other first semester. I think he might like me but Idk!! What do I do and say?! 

Does this mean?

There's this kid that I caught feelings for and we have sex from time to time. It's less than a relationship for sure but definitely closer than no strings attached. I hadn't seen him for a while and we would never have protected sex in the past. Then, there was a shift in him and he started not coming over as much and it was very obvious he was seeing other people when he wouldn't come over my house. He used to be at my house like every other night having sex with me. It had been about a month since we last had sex. So, he comes over last night. I tell him to bring condoms with him and he puts up a fight for sure because we hadn't ever used them in the past and he doesn't like wearing them but I wanted to be safe because I don't know what girls he's having sex with and I don't want to catch anything of course. However, he comes over and to make a long story short we have sex with a condom the first time. Then we get into a little argument about how he doesn't like that I'm having him wear a condom and then he just starts to feel my vagina with his dick without a condom. I tell him to stop. He says, "Stop baby, I'm just trying to feel you." And then he keeps feeling around me but I can tell he's trying to insert himself into me. I try pushing him off a little but not forcefully at all. Then I'm like "Stop, I don't want to." Then he says, "c'mon, it's already practically in there." Then I just give in and let him do it and we had sex that time unprotected. Was that rape or no?

I was alone with this girl. She said it really cooled off and she was getting cold. I called her a denier and now she wants to break up

I am 34 years old and since I was young I have been keeping a huge secret from everyone. I have a huge fetish for bondage and auto-erotic asphyxiation. I watch videos and stuff on the web all the time and I have a large collection of bondage/asphyx porn that I keep hidden. I frequently put myself in bondage by binding and gagging myself and I usually restrict my breathing as well during my sessions. I have been with my gf(ex-gf now) for 6 months and she had no idea about my secret life until 2 days ago. I was at her apartment while she was at work and I decided to have one of my sessions. To my suprise, she came home early and found me. I was laying on her bed hogtied with a plastic bag over my head to asphyxiate. I was also gagged and wearing a spandex hood. She freaked out and it didnt take long for her to figure out I had done it to myself when she spotted the computer recording my session. To make matters worse, she also saw that I was wearing a pair of her pantyhose. As she sat on the couch crying, I packed my things and left. That was 2 days ago. Today she emailed me and said she had never seen anything so bizzare and disturbing. She is sickened at the thought of me wearing her hosiery and asphyxiating myself.  Is there anything I can say or do to try and fix this? Or should I just leave it alone and walk away?

Plz somebody help

I m tired of staying in the house nearly all the time because I m ugly while my pretty friends get to go out with men and have a good time. I save myself the shame of having men tell me I m ugly and undesirable by staying home. I figure no men would ever want to be with me. Am I wrong about this? Can ugly women go out? I'm dying to know because I am tired of staging home and feeling lonely/suicidal.

My brother is not the same religion that we grew up with. My boyfriend and I are. Based on my boyfriend's social media posts, my brother doesn't like him and they haven't even met and probably won't in the next few months since my brother is in the military. My brother is already married to his "soulmate." Should I leave my crush alone because they might not get along due to a deep difference in opinions? Do you think he may see something that I don't?

So I (22F) have been speaking to a man (28M) that works in a store near my house. He's a divorced father of 2 toddler kids that lives by himself in a rented apartment. We have been speaking for a year now, off and on. Every time I would go to his store he would always tell me how much me likes me and things went intimate between us (not completely fully though). Since Im a student and work part time I never had the time for him so he broke it off. Ive never been in a relationship before so I was new to this. In the same store works his older brother (32M) who I never talked to. One day the 28M wasn't there and the 32M approached me to ask if I like him (32M). He was like 'do you like me? i know you like me' (I'm guessing he does this with every girl judging by how confident he was). Anyway, I said no and asked him 'why do you always keep laughing at me while I walk past? did your brother say i slept with him because if he did, hes lying' (dumb of me to ask I know). A few days later the 32M offered to give me a ride home but on our way there he started touching me everywhere and told me not to tell anyone. He said he likes me a lot. I later found out hes married and has a stepdaughter my age. I would always go to the store whenever either of them say 'come see me'. When they're both there, they would sneakily try touching me when the other isn't looking. They would try to one-up eachother with what they're doing to me so I could choose one over the other.  What should i do ?  

My boyfriend has been super busy lately and I respect that but sometimes he tells me he's doing something when he's really doing something else. The reason I know this is because I've caught him in a couple lies before but I hadn't said anything. Lately he's been distant and replying later than usual. I understand I may be overthinking but I'm not sure what to do? Every time I speak to him about it he takes offense to it. Help

I'm Hispanic and I'm really attracted to black women I think that black women are beautiful and sexy.  

Instead of dating guys who look like Thor. even though they fantasize about dating men who look like greek gods and/or remarkably handsome men who are funny, charming, romantic, and charimsatic

I live with someone like this I have no choice thats why I am asking I am trying to move out ASAP  I imagine this person was either went through some tough stuff and became this way maybe traumatized or maybe it some conditions this person was born with. What would make someone act overly aggressive and crazy and cruel  all the time? Everything this person does is loud always. Eats loud, walks loud, yells, slams cabinets and doors, gargling mouth wash super loud it's crazy. Also a control freak  Flips out over everything 

I really want to ask him on a date but I don't know if he's into guys or not and don't want to piss him off if he isn't

I'm facing a few problems with dating my boyfriend because our families won't accept us as an interracial couple.He was born and raised in South Korea and moved to the US years ago with his family.I was born here,but all my family is Brazilian,and I've always considered myself as a white latina.My parents are giving us hell,it's really stressing me out,and with his family is even worse,they have humiliated me ever since I met them.We've been together for 4 and a half years,I love him,here's one of the best things that ever happened to me,but we respect our families and their wishes,in our cultures (specially in his) the family approval is very important.For his family is a matter of tradition to not date out of their race,for my family the problem is that they don't like he and his family for not accepting me,they don't even wanna hear about my bf anymore.Now I just found out that I'm pregnant,and our families still don't know it.I don't even know what to do,because I'm sure this kid will be rejected by both families, everybody will freak out when they find out, and I don't want to bring a child into this situation. I'm seriously considering having an abortion. My boyfriend has been very supportive for whatever decision I make. We're both 22 and in college, and we had plans of having a future together, but definitely not like this.I'm so stressed out and heartbroken over all this drama over our relationship, so many degrading comments on us,I just really don't know what to do

I asked out this one cosplayer I've been following for awhile on facebook where we've been talking back and forth for awhile and she responded with an emoji the one that goes ":o". What does this mean?

I slept with my friend a few times within the two weeks I broke up with my ex. I made a mistake of leaving her and want her back. And no, I did not leave my ex for this new person. I thought that sex would help me get over my ex. Have I done anything wrong?

This guy I was talking to, keeps saying that I never listen when he asks and tells me to do sexual things. Why does he keep saying this? when I actually try doing things right. Thank you, Linda :)

So my boyfriend has recently gotten into painting his nails which is fine. It's just weird that I offered to give him nail colors and he never accepts. Yet he somehow gets nail color from his friend and it's nail color he doesn't own. Mostly girls have nail colors and so I worry that he's hanging out with another girl and cheating on me. Am I being unreasonable ? 

I had sex with a guy and was sore after for 3-4 days. It then became itchy and I ended up going to the clinic finding out that I have a thrush. .  Is this considered rough sex? It's never happened before with all the other guys I've been with.. 

Randomly 

My little sister has been texting a boy, I'm not nosy I just want to see because it's really funny how they text. Not even trying to get her in trouble either.

So I have been meeting a girl for 3 months. We text each other to meet for food, drinking and talking alone. one month ago I texted her that I miss her, she asked me if I miss her as a friend. I didn t replied. I called her next day to go out, she said I'm busy and she will text me in couple of days, but she didn't. We didn't text or talk for a 2 month till now! She still follow me in social media. We are not in lock down here. What should I do call/text her?

When me and my girlfriend get intimate in the bedroom, I've noticed that she regularly gets pains in her lower stomach during sex. These pains more often then not put an end to our sexual encounters for the night. It's worrying me because she doesn't know what is wrong and the doctor didn't really answer her question just told her to go on the pill.