Family & Relationships: Question: I made up a fake girlfriend to my best friend. What do I do to get out of it? |
- Question: I made up a fake girlfriend to my best friend. What do I do to get out of it?
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- Question: Isn’t it sad that all of the stores around where I live are boarded up and in ruins over the looters?
- Question: Should I kick my son out?
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Question: I made up a fake girlfriend to my best friend. What do I do to get out of it? Posted: 27 Jun 2020 04:23 PM PDT So 3 days ago, I realized that my bestfriend (a girl) and I (a guy) have been texting and facetiming every single day for the past 2 years. Then I realized that now we really don't have much to talk about and everything is just boring. So 2 days ago I made up a girl that is staying here down my road for the summer and that we're both very interested in each other. I said that we went on some dates and we're perfect for each other. I did this so we can have something to talk about and she could give me advice on the "relationship." I sent her a pic of a girl that i randomly saw on social media after she asked for a pic of what she looks like and now she's saying that I should take pictures with her to keep as memories forever. Now, I'm afraid she's gonna want to see these pictures or at least just one of them and then I won't have any to show her. What do I do to get out of this?? Any excuses to not send her pics? Or should I do something else? Im trapped and I know its 100% my fault and I need to find way to handle this. Thank you for your help!! |
Posted: 27 Jun 2020 01:52 PM PDT I am 29 years old. I have had no job the past 6 years because of severe depression, anxiety and panic attacks. I have tried getting into work and had panic attacks time after time and now see a psychotherapist and take medication. I use to work as ground staff in an airport and before that in retail. I also attended college to do a HNC in Travel. I have a partner but we don't live together. He is 30 years older. I was raised by my gran who passed of cancer in 2012 and cared for her before she died. My mum has been an addict all my life and my dad only bothered here and there. My confidence is low. I'm not driving yet either and I live in a very basic apartment ... everything is so messed up and delayed in my life and I feel like is there any point being hopeful that things will get better? Is it just always going to be like this? Because I don't know if I have the strength to drastically change my life. |
Posted: 27 Jun 2020 09:00 AM PDT Where I live there was a BLM riot in the town part, but where I live in the suburbs there are buildings everywhere that have been broken into and vandalized because of the looters. It is sad to see this. The window areas of the building are wooden boards now and broken glass is in the street and everywhere. Isnt this sad? The jewelry area at Walmart still has no jewelry in it due to this riot. This is so sad Louisville Kentucky is where I live |
Question: Should I kick my son out? Posted: 26 Jun 2020 07:59 PM PDT My son is 26. He moved back in about a year ago. He quit his job about 2 months ago, and is hardly putting any effort in to looking for another one. His truck isnt running right, and hes afraid to drive it, but he doesnt bother getting it fixed, or selling it. He doesnt do anything around the house anymore. I have to ask him over, and over. He eventually just gets pissed off. I know hes stressed out, but I cant take care of the issue alone, and I can't stand watching him throw his life away. I told him that he needs to move to his dads. Je said no. So I said that he needs to do more around he house, and get a job. He just said "I don't ******* care. Just do what you want with me" I think hes essentially givin up on life. I havnt seen him so unmotivated to do anything. Hes been in employed before, and he always had a job within a week. Its been 2 months, and he hasnt put in any effort. Should I show him tough love, and just kick him out? |
Posted: 26 Jun 2020 07:14 PM PDT |
Question: What word would best describe this? Posted: 26 Jun 2020 07:00 PM PDT Basically me and a coworker had a bit of a argument regarding documents, I spent better part of a day to put them in order as per a separate required sheet then per month and put in holders so they don't mix and put it in a envelope. The coworker removes the envelope and takes all the documentation out and removes the place holders. He mixes the documents and adds additional documents that wasn't properly documented on the accompanying sheet. I found this out as I came to work so I asked him in the most gentle voice I could muster to please if he sees the documents are strangely in order or he doesn't understand why they are looking different from yesterday to please call me as I have explained this to him the day before that I am working on it for the boss. He blamed me for not telling him and after I told him the care I take even with his documents he panics and figures out he did a big nono on the documents, so he proceeds to blame me after he notices its not working he tells me this " So only you may work with the documents?" This was in a tone of sarcasm as usually we all work with them but just this small time of 3 days that I needed for careful touchy of the said documents. What do you call if someone half threatens / bluffs like he handled the situation with his quoted words? I knew on the spot what its called and told him are you " " and after that he panicked even more and ran out trying to get more people to come and mediate that he can get the upper hand like he tried many times during the conversation and after failing to do that and angering other coworkers he proceeded to threatened me physically and emotionally. Then he said to not speak to him and when coworkers finally arrived to see what going on, he explained it in short and said "he's telling me what to do" and " in my country we fight it out like men, lets take it outside" after this he told the employees about what happened making my day absolutely lovely. Sorry for the dragged out story, just want to know that situation if you half threaten / bluff to try and make someone back off but you don't really have a case about it. Thankyouinadvance! |
Question: Do you get tired of hearing makes no sense and clueless and super? Posted: 26 Jun 2020 03:50 PM PDT I thought one would say it doesn't make sense as opposed to it makes no sense... |
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