I got engaged 4 months ago and I was so in love with him. We spent alot of time together and had so much fun. He promised we will always stay together for the rest if our lives.  Recently, his mother started controlling our decisions and he tells her everything we talk about. He also went with his mother to a lawyer and asked him to prepare papers in which it is written that in case he dies or we divorce I can only take my clothes and leave.Also, people in the village told my family that he was divorced and was in prison because he threatened his wife with a knife.I felt so insecure and left. He wants me to go back to him but I am not sure if I should marry him. 

Here's the truth.. Surrounding the anonymous cowards ramblings about me and my mom. #1. My mom was born on March 2nd, 1950. #2. She was horribly abused, and in fact raped repeatedly by her pedophile father.. And made fun of by her own mother. #3. She had myotonic, muscular dystrophy. #4. Back in her youth, women married young in any case. #5. Because of her muscular dystrophy, with a major symptom being low intellectual capacity, combined with her abuse.. And the fact that she married young.. She did not seriously outgrow the 1950s / 60s.. She seriously epitomized the 1950s and early 60s in her thinking. She did not experience more or later.. As other people would have. And because of her disabilities, being a homemaker was her only outlet in life. #6. She had no recourse against my father.. Not really. Had she divorced him.. Her only options would have been a nursing home because of her Medicaid.. Or public housing because of her SSI. Or go back to her family.. A dangerous move for her.. And she NEVER would have gotten custody of the kids, and in fact LOST custody of the kids in a divorce attempt. #7. It was either I fought my mom 1 time.. Or I would have visited a pedophile and ended up in a fight with Jimmy (Her pedophile brother) most likely. She did not have the intellectual capacity to fully appreciate that. I don't care about what's in, or in some cases not in somebody's head.. I'm not going through what she did.

I showed my mom a picture of me and my stepmother on my phone and she told me that my dads wife who is known as my stepmother is ugly restarted and a loser she told me that my dad shouldn't have married her I told her that it isn't nice to call her that and it counts on the inside my mom told me that my stepmother should get plastic surgery I told her that I only care about the inside and not looks and left  Is my mom right I even told her to get counseling for her bitterness  This is not a troll post this really happened

How can a husband face them knowing that they got everything to explore with her and now as they live in the same soceity they may still try to contact her for free sex behind his back? What will the wife do if her exes tries to return to her life for free sex after marriage by emotionally blackmailing her like beforez because its not a new thing for her to sleep with them?

My boyfriend moved here from another state at the beginning of 2016 when he was going through a divorce. He came here to be near his son, since his ex wife came here when they separated. She's decided she wants to move to another state. She has done this before (a different state) but he was against it and it didn't happen. Right now he has his son just a little less than half time. They are working on a plan where he would have him half time and work from home every other month and he would home school him while working and the child would fly across the country each month (over 2,000 miles) and i would watch him an unspecified amount of time when he would go in to work part of the time. My boyfriend's cpa is almost complete and his work has advancement plans for him. I'm completely against this idea and he's making the decision unilaterally. We've been together about 4.5 years. We live together. My question is does this seem like a good option? The child is almost 6 years old.

I don't know how to even tell her that without causing major disappointment to both of our families.

Do they offer happy endings at spas ?  Am worried that he is getting more than a back massage. He is nude under the towel but who knows if the towel stays on the whole time...  Another thing, he uses the same woman always, everytime he goes.He says it's because she already knows what he needs. Should I be worried ? Do prestige spas give happy endings ?

Our friends had a barbecue party last weekend in their backyard. They have a pool and when we all went swimming my husband was pretending to drown my friend and she was getting away laughing. I felt embarrassed as everyone was looking at me for my reaction. He randomly can pinch her as he walks passed or push her and they laugh and play fight. Am i being jealous for no reason? 

i asked him before and he said no he doesnt have kids and never been married.

He is in a relationship which I didn't know of when I started flirting with him ( we go to college together )  He flirts with me in his own shy way, but then when I open myself up he rejects me by pointing out his feelings for his gf only to wait for me after class or find me in the lunchroom and sit with me to talk and flirt.  Am confused...

I am multlingual and my parents married me off to someone who is monolingual because they think all multilingual people are too spontaneous and bad for marriage. They and my husband think of them as promiscuous, unfaithful spouses who spend time chatting with people from other countries who speak their target language. My parents wanted someone who will obey their orders without question, which is my husband who is monolingual but boring that he prevents me from speaking and practicing many languages because he and his parents consider it cheating on him, especially if I talk to more attractive foreign males who speak my target language. He's very religious like my family and is so devoted to me, yet possessive and clingy, that it's been causing me to cheat on him, even though he and my father-in-law installed software to track down my phone and computer to make sure I don't cheat on him again. Is it always best to avoid dating anyone who is multilingual because they are not marriage material, or worth marrying, especially if you are multilingual yourself? @g-People are so insecure and paranoid that they want someone that they can feel secure with. @Warw1zard -But parents don't like multilingual sons or daughter-in-laws. They want their children's spouses to be boring and predictable like them, especially with the son-in-law, whom they can walk all over. @Foofa Women always need to be defined by their families so that way men won't kick their asses if they think for themselves.

My husband and I have been married for just over a year. Everything was going so well, we hardly ever argued before marriage and it's even continued to be that way in our married life. We get along so well and our love for each other grows each day. However, I went to see a close friend last weekend for the first time in months and she was very upset. She cried for hours when I saw her and she is thinking of ending her engagement. She is due to get married in autumn and I was meant to go down to talk about her wedding but she ended up telling me something that could ruin my marriage. Her husband and my husband are very good friends and he planned my husband's bachelor party. I had my own but it was just my closest girlfriends. My friend hadn't talked to her fiancé yet but did to me. She found his old phone while cleaning the house (which he had hid). She showed me pictures and videos of her fiancé cheating on her with different women AND my husband who was my fiancé at the time kissing his ex girlfriend and in the video he said "We're heading to the bedroom for the last" the day before our wedding.  I just don't know what to say or what to do or how to feel. My husband went to see his parents and I only got back so I haven't faced him. The truth is that this is bothering me. I haven't been able to sleep or eat properly and just want to cry. Even if it wasn't his ex I would be mad but it hurts even more that he did that with her. And she is stunningly beautiful too.  *Sorry in paragraph 2 I meant her fiance  (my friend is due to get married she is engaged - my bad)

This is urgent