When we met, we were both slightly overweight. We gained weight together, but I decided to get in shape after a few years while he stayed the same. I love him, but he is morbidly obese. I hate to say it, but I am kind of repulsed by his C cup man boobs and saggy belly so big it could fit a basketball inside. In the back of my mind, I think, "Am I doomed to never have magical s** again?  Also, in the back of my mind, I'm thinking about all the health problems he's going to have once he reaches his 40's (if not sooner), and it scares me the thought of watching someone I love gradually lose their life over something that IS 100% preventable. I've spoken to him about it, but he has no desire to change.  What should I do? Am I shallow for this? 

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The friend is about your age. How would you react? Would you cut him out of your life?

Hello, So I am a University student and I have a long back story. I bought a car for the first time Last Summer for $4500. I did it out of anger being that I worked since I was 16 and was not given a new car while my younger cousin was given a new car (without working) when she turned 16 (keep in mind, my parents gave her a car but not their own daughter). I currently have $13,000 saved up but I already have an Invisalign appointment so I can get my teeth fixed (Hoping to finance them with payments). I just am throwing that out there because it is an extra expense right now. Before anyone goes off on me, I have 2 jobs (one working at my university and the other in the medical field). I also am supposed to be getting $1,000/month from the VA from my mom's disability. So right there, I can afford to pay $400-$500 monthly payments. My whole family is telling me to not buy another car so quickly but, I feel that if I am working my butt off, and after paying off the loan to my $4500 car, I should get a new one? Especially since I will be driving 30min to and from my workplace once school starts.  Opinions?