So I was at my grandmas house on my iMac late 2009 27 inch and I was watching youtube then suddenly lines started appearing all over the screen and it went crazy and I looked at a temperature monitoring app and it said my gpu was at 240 F

she kept farting and it was nasty so I kicked her out of the house then she chased me trying to fart

we've been together for a few months and he's 20 and i'm 17 and he's hot and athletic and so basically i was at his house in his room and he had to go poop so while he was in the bathroom i was bored so i looked at his phone he left on the table and i saw a bunch of texts from different girls saying love you and asking to hang out and even sexual messages and i got upset because clearly he's talking to other people and when he came out i asked him what it was about and he quickly got defensive and yelled at me and told me to mind my own business, i'm home now and my boyfriend randomly removed me on snapchat, what is going on??! i'm so upset

I am 16 and I cannot take it anymore. Especially with school our and social distancing and all. My sister gets to go out and my little brother is autistic so is almost unaware of it. My Dad is drunk nonstop. I can't have friends over cause it is too embarrassing.

i'm at her house and she's a nice lady she's my english teacher and she's young and she is forcing me to stay in the garage and won't let me inside what do i do

So I never had a Dad. When I was 2 my father took off and I never saw him again. I learned he died in 2012. However, my Mom's father took over as father figure. I was and am an only child so cousins became my siblings. We used to have a huge celebration, like a reunion, for my grandfather's birthday (June 20th) on Father's Day every year. It was so special to me since we all scatter at Thanksgiving and Christmas and just do individual visits. Now the grandparents have both died and Father's Day is no longer celebrated. I am sure cousins do with their Dads privately but I have no Dad as my grandfather was basically my Dad. I got far extra attention then the other grandkids since I had no Dad. Plus my Mom and I lived within walking distance of them. So I am 22. Tomorrow will be the 3rd Father's Day since he died. My grandmother died the same year. How do I mourn and how do I make the day special like it was when he was alive? I wanted to do a family gathering myself this year but with Coronavirus Pandemic can't do that. Next year I am going to with the uncles, cousins, etc..... That may or may not work on future Father's Days though. I have to get through tomorrow though. My Mom is away for a friend's 70th. I am aged 22.

She verbally abuses and hurts everyone in the family. To her friends and people outside the family she is fine other then judgmental. In the family though she is wicked. How can I get people to see this? We are thankfully estranged but I don't want them to think that is my fault. 

Today I was going to walk out of the room and my dad was coming in. I then said whoa because I didn't know he was coming in at the same time. He then looked at me and said are you ok? As if he hit me with the door or something. He looked at me really weird.  My dad wanted to go out for Father's Day today and he asked if we wanted to go to a specific place. My younger brother instantly said no right when he asked. Then my dad said no it's okay right away. My dad was about to close the door. My mom then asked my dad more about it. We then said instead of going to the first place we might want to just eat later instead.  He then explained more but do you think he got offended by this? He said yes the eating will come later My family said they just didn't feel up to it. The brother who said no my mom's child so like a step son and my mom and dad are divorced, they just live together right now

Before the pandemic we've planned to go on holiday to Greece or somewhere similar and now she doesn't want to go anywhere this summer, let alone this year and it's made me angry at times wanting to attack her and beat her up and book tickets to fly out secretly (I'm over 18).

she's a toddler and keeps making messes or spilling stuff and my dad forces her to sleep outside in the rain or even in the forest depending on his mood, he screams at her as well, what do I do? we live in Maryland

For example the morher carries his children which implies that they are his but she just carries them. Shouldn't they be equal?

I don't know their names and I don't know where they live. All I know is that I have three kids.

im upset at this, I won't be able to see him that much anymore because it gets really hot here in the 100s, they're forcing him to live there because he sheds and occasionally has inside accidents when he's sick. what do I do? I don't want him to live out there :(

I'm 14 years old, almost 15, a female teenager and my mom keeps wanting to go through my phone. My parents are pretty strict, and my mom knows i'm sneaky but the only thing i've been in trouble for recently is ordering a shirt online that was "revealing for my age" without asking. Then another time I was out with friends riding my bike outside and it started storming/raining hard so I got in trouble for that. I think my mom shouldn't go through my phone though, because I need privacy and I haven't really done anything. What should I do?

and I got FAT.Now she makes fun of me and yells calling me FAT.What to do?

I'm 18 and a couple of months away from leaving for college. I've had this problem with her for a long time, pretty much when I got my phone. The biggest fight we had was when she read my texts and outed my friend before they were ready. My friend had told me in confidence that they were gay, but I didn't realize my mom has been reading my texts for years. When I found out I told her that it was an invasion of my privacy and my friend's privacy. She seemed to think that because she pays for my phone, which I'm grateful for, she has the right to read my texts. I understand that in some cases it's necessary, but I have never given her any reason to mistrust me enough to go through my phone. She promised me she would stop but she hasn't. And I can't change my password with out losing my phone. What do I do?

My parents are getting on my nerves my brother and his wife is getting on my nerves and I just want to leave I'm 13 so I can't jut take a drive whenever I want to and my brother is getting on my nerves because he's mad at some of my family members but he made me mad to before and he thinks that him and his wife is the best I don't know if you think that but it seems like it but what should I do? I can't take it anymore  The only person I want to be with is my crush

I know her over 25 years, and she has always been narcissistic that I could tell but, is not this a farfetched lie? When I met her first time, she claimed that her father was a pharmacist. I never questioned it, but later I found out that he was a pharmacy technician. Later she told me that he was a scientist, working in cancer research. I think she forgot what she had told me. I never confronted her, not a big deal at the end Since then her father passed away. Today she posted a commemorate on him on Facebook claiming that he was a medical doctor, worked on cancer research. This is the woman that introduced me to her friends at her home as Paralegal where I am a lawyer. I dont want to embarrass her but I am sure her father was pharmacy technician. How do I handle her flat out lies? We are both from the same country.   Interestingly she posted her father being a physician in English commemorate only, in her native one she posted him as "scientist." I dont handle personal relationship as lawyer for the obvious reasons.  I dont want to feel that I have to litigate constantly.  This is a question from a social stand point.

He abused his wife and 2 children worse but I was also abused when we'd be at the beach with them in the summer. 

So my brother makes fun of me a lot. He's always making comments about me and putting me down. At one point when I was younger he said I was 'nothing'. Or he said he could say things about me but then I'd cry so he doesn't.  I'm not on speaking terms with him currently but it's so hurtful how he has treated me, always putting me down. That brings my self esteem down even further. I already have low self esteem as it is. And that doesn't help. Should I just ignore him? Should I not let it affect me? He obviously must think he's better than me.

My parents are wonderful and well-meaning.  I live 600 miles away and used to visit them once a month, and I had longer visits during the Covid-19 lockdown.  They're aging, and I want to have their final years be good ones. Issues Unfortunately they also drive me crazy (which is my fault, as I don't react well to their good intentions).  My mother talks AT me for hours on end, gives unsolicited advice (which I find offensive and pointless) and is a terrible cook but foists food on me constantly, and I can't even get it down, so I leave a lot of it uneaten. I try to just not respond to the constant talking and unsolicited advice, and I try to just smile and not say anything in response, but it's probably clear to her that I don't like either.  I try to just say that I'm not hungry when I'm given terrible food. And after my last visit, I received the following email from my mother a few days later: "We enjoyed your last visit as we always do and you're welcome to come anytime.  But I don't want to take advantage of your kindness .  We don't need anything and will order food from the grocery store.  Why don't you take a break, save your money and enjoy your new home?" Question I'm confused by that email, but overall I feel terrible.  Even though my parents drive me crazy, they've done nothing "wrong" at all; the issue is my response to them. How would you respond to that email?  Is there anything that you would or would not do to make the situation better? Thanks. To add, they demanded that I come "quarantine" with them during the Covid-19 lockdown.  I didn't want to go but my mother demanded that I do so.

The only thing I did wrong I apologized for and every one said they did not blame me. I grabbed her by the shoulder when she was being abusive a year ago. My sister is a cruel person nobody likes. I could easily hate her if I need to. 

Ever since my sister died they have not been able to love. I miss them My sister was killed in a car crash in February of last year. Now my Dad has no interaction around me and just spends his time invested in my autistic brother and my mother drinks and does nothing else. 

Hi, I need help with a family problem. Basically my Nan (my Dad's Mom) passed away and before she died, she said she had changed her will so everything was going to me and my two brothers (who are both under 18).  Before, her will was wrote in 2009 and everything was going to my Dad.  My Dad is clearly the Executor to the will as he's dealt with everything after my Nan passed away. I overheard my Dad say to his mate "I'm just waiting for probate".  Why would he go for probate if he's an executor to the will? Do you need to go for probate if there's a will?  As before anyone says that I'm after the money, then I'm not! I have massive family problems and need advice please! 

I m currently a graduate student and am 26 years old and I am really good singer ( I studied singing since I was kid) but up until 25, I never had a desire to pursue music as a possible career, but I do have passion for music. I was thinking of uploading some youtube covers to see if people enjoy my singing and see where it goes, but I'm afraid to fail and look like a fool. If your son said he wanted to pursue show business, would you think he was wasting his time or support him? ALSO, is 26 old to start a career in show business?

Recently grad. college and my parents keep telling me that moving out isn't going to be easy and that it's going to be difficult. HOwever, I ve been paying for the majority of stuff since I was a kid and I am moving to a place where rent is cheap. So, will moving out really be difficult ?

So I'm 22 years old, currently living with my mom. She's a hypochondriac and I personally dealt with years of depression. For the past two years I've been trying to better myself, but I feel like my mom is a becoming a huge roadblock. You see I made plans to get a place with my older sister by the end of March and to have my own vehicle by now, however my mom being a hypochondriac and frankly just a difficult person to be around can never keep a job. I always end up giving her 800 for rent and food. Before covid we all had the notion(me,my sister, my mom) that my sister and I were going to get a place together and that she was going to move into her own condo. However, unbenounced to us, my mom sold our home before we could even find a place, then moved us into this crammed 1 bedroom apartment. My sister decided to live with her bf and I'm currently out of a job due to the fact my mom didn't like me working at a clinic because of covid. Now that I have a new job that I start next week, my mom said she's going to take time off and go back to school. I apparently have to take care of all the bills for three months..I really just want to be out of this situation but don't know what or where to go.

i'm at his house every weekend due to split custody. i hate it here. he's mean, his views on politics and human rights are scary, he yells a lot, and according to my mom, he was verbally and physically abusive. i've seen the verbal bits around his new wife and stepchild. i get so stressed here. to pass the time quicker, i play sims and stay up really late so i can sleep all day. i'm close to crying right now and i just can't deal with this. any clue as of what to do?

If he's 6' tall, would you guess he's about 230 pounds?

I am 20 years old and the eldest child in my family. Ever since I was 9 and my parents had their second child I have had to practically raise my siblings. They use me as a babysitter, nanny, carer etc. They work, but even on their time off I have to step in. I used to take care of my siblings when they were infants and do things which a mother should and I did it for all of them. I also take them to school and collect them too and it has had a huge impact on my social life and mental well-being because they are not easy and it can be overwhelming.  My routine is waking up earlier and getting myself ready then my siblings and staying with them for the rest of the day. None of my friends have this life. My parents had 3 more children and the age gaps are huge too. I have tried explaining the situation to my parents and they told me to take some responsibility for once in my life and I felt heavily insulted. When I was 16 they decided to go to their friend's wedding in a different country and my mother promised she would take two of my younger siblings to a childminder but on the day she said she didn't trust them and left a 6 year old 3 year old and a 9 month child in my hands and it was the hardest weekend of my life. I had no sleep and was on the verge of a mental breakdown. I'm thinking of moving out but who will take care of the kids? I just don't know what to do but I hate doing it because it is so overwhelming and I can't take it anymore.

First of all, I've been estranged from my mom for about 4 years. She's always had some issues. She was an abusive woman when I was a child and it carried on into adulthood. Not physically any longer but verbally and emotionally. I just sort of slipped out of the picture. However, I remained close to my brother and his family. He recently was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer. About a month before this was revealed my mom and I started texting. She was very kind and pleasant. Then after my brother was diagnosed she text me and said she would really like to see me. She apologized, said she loved me.. but NOW she has just started forwarding my calls and my text messages do not get delivered. My sister in-law says she's doing good, so I'm not worried about that, but when my mom and I started talking I noticed that my brother's attitude changed toward me as well. He started being cold and distant. He has also started forwarding my calls, not answering texts when I try and check on him. There are times that I get a vibe that my brother doesn't want me around our mother. He has been there for her and God knows if my being around her causes him stress in his condition then I sure don't want that. She's always been very good to him, but me on the other hand? She abused me.. I'm just now getting my life back from it. Anyways. Should I continue to reach out to them or should I just stop. I love them both, but honestly, I'm afraid of being hurt again. What should I do?  Once when I was 5 yrs old my mom told me that she was devastated that I was born a girl and that she was depressed over it still. That hurt my feelings and though I was little I remember it. Another time I was 5 she tried to rub dog poop in my face because my puppy pooped the floor. That's the type of mother I'm dealing with here.  When I got married she made me put a pink bow on my dress. My now husband and I had been living together before marriage. When we went to pick out my wedding dress she made me put a hot pink bow on my dress and whispered in my ear- whores don't wear white wedding dresses. I was 19. 

I feel much more comfortble in my underwear at home but get into constant fights with other family members to put atleast a pyjama on...

I told her she has the wrong attitude and one mist stay fit for themselves and live themself. Never exercise for another person. Do it for you. That did not motivate her. Instead she got depressed. I'm not a bodybuilder, but I'm not really turned on by obesity or laziness. I work out every day and ty to eat right. We both let ourselves go a bit last year and Its not motivating shes not on board. 

My mother was emotionally & narcissistically abusive for the majority of my childhood. She still doesn't acknowledge it, & continues to verbally badger me in my adulthood.  I have a 1 year old son, & for convenience, she was allowed to watch him on almost a full-time basis until he was about 10 months old. COVID-19 happened, now she hasn't seen him in months. We found a full-time in-home daycare that's going well but now that restrictions are lifting in our area, my mom wants to start watching him again.  I told her we won't pull him out of daycare. It took us too long to find a good fit, & he's interacting with kids his age, but maybe she could pick him up from daycare once/week & keep him for 2 hours so I can stay late @ work. My husband was mad @ me when I told him about this arrangement without talking to him. I know why he's upset, I should've mentioned it to him 1st, but it seems like he doesn't want our son to be around her at all.  My issue is this: She's an amazing grandparent. She's devoted, she spoils him, she teaches him things, she doesn't treat him the way she treated me. The only fights we've had were just between the two of us, & never around/about my son. Usually through text/phone calls.  My husband's concerns are:  The way she speaks to me when she's upset  My son was bit in the face by her dog @8mo. & she didn't respect our wishes to keep the dogs away from him.  Her husband smokes in the house even though we asked him not to when our son is there. 

I'm 25 female, and still living with my parents and younger brother who's 15. My parents have always looked down on me and kept telling me that I'm stupid and I'll be good for nothing. Their words have discouraged me during childhood and I never focused on anything because I always thought I would fail. My younger brother is smart and my parents love him and they've never treated me like that when I was his age. Anyway, I got let off at my job and I've been sitting at home for 11 months now. I've been trying to find a job but it isn't easy. I am being useless and I've been cleaning the house, cooking, taking the dogs out and even grocery shopping instead of my parents. I don't let them lay a hand on anything because I want to do it since I'm sitting in their home without a job. My dad's friend has a son who's my age and he's financially stable. My parents have been trying to force me to date him. They both forced me to go on a date with him. I found no connection with that guy but he liked me and wanted to go further and I told him I'm not interested. That night, my parents threw a temper tantrum and called me every bad word in the book. They even said I'm hideous and fat and no one wants me and that they don't even want me and that I'm such a burden and a waste of  space. They set up another date with the guy and are trying to force me to go and give it another shot. I'm still not interested and I don't want to give it another shot.  I'm not interested in the guy. To me, he's rich but he seems vain and arrogant. I'm not even ready to be in a relationship. Both my parents told me that if I don't go on that date, they will kick me out and they are being very serious. I would rather be kicked out but I cant imagine being homeless. I only have $900 saved up in my bank account. Should I take the date and try to find a job and collect money to move out? Or should I leave now and just do my own thing without being forced to do it? My parents are fed up with me to the point where they don't care about me which is fine. I understand they cant stand me and see me as a creature living in their house. I just want to make a smart decision for now.