So today I did something I put a lot of effort into, being sexy for my partner (I won't go into much detail) anyway, she doesn't have much of a sex drive but we still enjoy sex, so I put the effort sent it to her, with a nice little message as she's not been feeling overly great, the reply I got wasn't anything to with what I had sent, it was more just regarding how I've misunderstood her "problem" (being her sex drive) which I haven't, I was left laid there crying naked feeling like after all that effort and it wasn't even seen anyway few hours pass of course I apologise, still nothing mentioned of the effort I put in, I mention how it's hurt me that even though the "misunderstanding" was dealt with why was the effort I made completely disregarded, she made it all about her how she's now embarrassed how I'm pissing her off she told me **** you , *****.  it's knocked my confidence, I don't feel beautiful within myself and I explained this than rather than just connecting emotionally with me and how it could of effected me, she just juItfied her lack of efforts told me I'm frustrating her, told me she's "gone" as in blocking me if I want her to, she even liked one of my messages then after calling me a ***** told me she hadn't even read it, what do I do? We've been together two year and she's becoming horrible, she's now sat getting High with her friend and not even replying to me, even though she knows how I feel, one of her response was "sorry I've been so terrible today"

Hello Yahoo Answers, I have a question. What do I do. My mom often encourages me to go outside, go swimming with my dad etc. But 4 scenarios have happened. Once I saw a pack of cigarettes in her bag. I was really confused. However, she is a school teacher and she might have taken it from someone. After 5 seconds, I couldnt find it in the same bag. Maybe she was smoking and tryna to hide it. Maybe she didnt want me to start smoking? Another time I went swimming with my dad, but I went into an argument and I came back home in 2 minutes from leaving. I kinda smelled something burning, just like cigarettes. Today, I left and came back again early. I didnt smell anything, but my mom was holding something with a shape of a cigarette pack behind, trying to hide it. She said she was trying to burn our grass to plant new grass or etc. I dont remember. But, she mentioned burning! Also, my dad was in a call with someone from his company. I heard that he said "for that you must have started smoking". They were probably talking about weight. I think the other person said yes, because dad answered with "did you do that with awareness or because you are stressed". Later in the call he didn't tell them to stop smoking, which I would do. It kinda adds up. Please help. Is this just a coincidence or should I do anything. Sorry for my English, I am Polish. Thank you for reading, Tymon She is very stressed lately.

He also doesn't say anything about it but it's just his face and his eyes that say everything. For instance, one day we were cuddling close to each other. At some point he cups my face in his hands ans starts to kiss my cheeks and at the same time with his hands throws back my hair (don't know how to explain but he does that often, my hair is long and parted, while he like them to be thrown back). I complained about his hand hurting my forehead (I have some scars on my forehead and it hurts when someone touches the hair tied to the skin close to the scars, it's quite a deep cut) and he said 'sorry' and looked at me in a really worried and sad way and kissed my forehead, than said how big the cuts were, and said from now on I'll pay attention. It's just that he is so impulsive ans not delicate at all when we kiss. Then he kept staring at them ans running his fingers on them. Why??

18-23 - you're within the standard university student age group, you can do anything you want, it's all good. you've still got years of youth ahead of you. 24 - not quite a student, but not too old either. still pretty young. 25 - definitely an adult now, but hey, you're only mid-20s. life's good. 26 - holy ****, you're only 4 years from 30! you're really old! hope you have your career/relationships/life together! no more excuses for you. you're starting to look older too. you better start thinking of settling down. Basically it feels like overnight I've gone from being a carefree, youthful person to suddenly being weighed down with all the worries I'd previously associated with early-mid 30s. I never thought I'd get old or turn 30, and now it's in sight. I hate it.

I see that Ireland is really scary, never been there but seen pictures of it, it is like some mysterious medieval place.