Only messaged when I got home I think she's up in another guy's apartment..should I sleep by doorway on couch and try to catch her?

The husband died after inly two weeks of marriage.

The way I see America left and right are both in a unhappy marriage.  Maybe the beat thing to do is let them divorce and form two countries.  Blue states of america and Red states of America.  No need for violence or another civil war.  Just divorce and break the country into two.

Physical abuse. Beating and choking your wife . Grabbing by the chest and pushing her to the ground. In front of the children. Is this grounds to leave, regardless of vows taken

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 3 years. His family is incredibly judgmental of everyone who doesn't think and feel the way they do. They argue constantly in front of us... over EVERYTHING. Every decision becomes an epic battle, from where we go to dinner, when we are going, what we are going to do later the next day, to who is driving. The constant chaos, constant negativity, and constant criticism seem to be their normal. Snide remarks, digging into each other's personal lives, needing to know why we made a decision (in detail) every time we made one around them... They live out of state so we don't always have to be around it but still get bits of it over the phone etc. Our last trip there was so bad that it made me second guess being able to marry into the family one day. They lack boundaries and don't seem to be able or ready to have conversations about the dynamic and how it relates to us.  I love this man and think I want to marry him... but I have never had a S.O.'s family be so up/down, hot/cold, super sensitive and super critical all at once seemingly all of the time... I don't know what to do, both for lack of experience with this chaos and for having been raised differently. The sort of direct disrespect and tones and unnecessary anger over little things was not tolerated in my home growing up.  Even though he isn't really like them... I am always told when you marry someone you marry their family...  Please give any and all feedback? I'd appreciate it..

We have been married almost 10 years and we have 3 young kids. Recently I noticed that I have been slacking off and not appreciating her like I should. I put my game back in gear. She's a caring person and basically all our money goes to our kids or other people. She's a very thoughtful person. To take this stress off I have been helping her with picking up items at the store even if it's for other people. I give her massages when she's about to break. I listen to her with out solving or judging and let her vent.  My goal is to be there for her as much as I can to help relieve her stress. But sometimes it's a lot. Or I feel like I do things and I get a "thanks". I guess that should be good enough but sometimes it's not. Just wanted to know your thoughts. 

my wife was abused mentally verbally physically and emotionally she wants their love or else she will make my entire families life hell we have been happily married for 22 years i tried to get her to understand that she can't make her parents love her but she told me that she will not let others live in piece until she gets her parents love  she even wrote this on yahoo answers  https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20200624183302AAfMco7

I will not be going to husband but I am dating someone I love. I just have not filed for divorce due to coronavirus and because I need the insurance at this time.  How should I handle this? I don't want to break any rules but my husband was like a terrorist in my house and I am glad he's gone

Hey ya'll. I was wondering what your thoughts are on this situation. I realize I made poor choices. You don't need to repeat the obvious lmfao. I just want your actual opinion on this issue. Basically my ex was psycho. He threatened to hit me with a bat, throw me down the stairs, would threaten to rape me if he got mad, and tried to get me pregnant. He never raised his voice. He always talked in a really calm, soothing voice. Once he was mad and shoved his dick in my *** as hard as he could without warning and I started crying. I met him because he was my drug dealer. The first time I hang out with him we got brownies and I got ridiculously high. Like I forgot my name. I forgot his name. Before I got high I didn't want to have sex with him. After, I'll have sex with basically anyone.  I told him I wanted to go upstairs so we did. He asked if I was sure, I said yeah. I kept passing out during the sex and couldn't stay awake. I kept insisting I was fine. He kept saying he loved me and it was really psychotic and weird. No I don't know why I dated him.  The next day I threw up profusely. A lot of people think this is abuse, I'm not sure what I think. I have PTSD from incest I experienced as a kid and am into extremely destructive sex and like putting myself in danger. Basically, my threshold is different than most.  I also just got high on weed. I'm not sure how I got as high as I did  to clarify i did enjoy myself, but i let him do things i wouldn't have let him do sober like sex, nutting in me, etc. 

What's so funny and why didn't he respond like a normal person does? I felt disrespected.

Husband always gets upset when I want to go to my moms house. I take out kids to see their grandmother but he seems to think we just sit around and do nothing all day long. 

My BF likes to tell me about once every month that he paid off his credit card and that he has to cut down his unusual expenses. Why tell me this? We don't have shared expenses and we take turns paying for food. 

One of my friend has left her husband 4 year back and her divorce cause is in court 1 year back she remarried a person in temple in front of priests and her marriage video courage has made And now she left with her husband and want leaving together relationship with another man Please some one suggest me if she go to leaving together relationship what are the legal cause she suppose to face

I am 20 and I barely have any friends. I dont go out and I feel so so lonely. I have my ffamily but my siblings dont do anything with me. The only person is my mum but i still feel extremely lonely. If I got married to the love of my life and enjoyed my life etc would it still be lonely without any friends? have you had this experience 

 If life should teach you anything men it's that your feels do not matter at all in any relationship.  

I would be like um what? And then ask for an explanation

Tgen, can the husband have rough sex with her without caring about hurting her, asshe will not have pain after having sex with many men? Otherwise what benefit will the virgin husband get by marrying an experienced wife if he still has to worry about pain while intimacy with his wife, even though she might have even had sex also with all her exes and dideverything?

   I need help my husband for three years and I have 2 kids with one in ex husband total 3 he has been giving a gift to other women and flirts and entertain them I need to file for divorce and complain to them my situation. 

My husbands brother is always asking him for money & it's not for food or something essential it's for marijuana. I already told him once to stop asking and my husband did not back me up so his brother still feels entitled to ask. I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works and we are financially stable. So his brother asked again and I told him to stop asking for money because we have rent and bills and a baby to take care of and the money that my husband gives him for marijuana should be spend on our daughter instead because she is more important than a sack of weed. He has a job and gets paid good. Me and him never got along. It's like he ask money on purpose to get me and my husband to fight. My husband always defends him and always puts his brother first before me. He never stands up for me as a man and husband should. What can I do to make my husband understand that I should come first instead of his brother? I'm so fed up with his attitude  His brother also had the nerve to be sarcastic and ask me "do I work?" As if that's his business just because I told him to stop asking him for money  I don't have a problem with people that smoke marijuana but he's an adult he should have money to buy his own stuff 

I got drunk in Europe and my friends brought me to a brothel. I got undressed and got into the bed. I came to my senses and told the women that I have a girlfriend, and a massage would be fine. I fell asleep seconds letter. Is this considered cheating