I am there for people's advice and allow them to break down when we are supposed to be enjoying the night but when I try to open up I am told let's be positive or try to move on, I don't want to hear it and get people to agree with them when everyone else listens to them all of the time crying or breaking down. They always makes me feel stupid and so quick to shut me down when I always listen to everyone else

I've had this friend group for maybe 3 or 4 years. I meet two in middle school and the other two who live an hour away in high school through an old friend. Our group really came together when we started a d&d group and played them through discord. As said before, I'm the only girl in a group of boys and it's never bothered me before now. I've been dating one of the boys for a while and we try to act not so "coupley" around the others but we rarely see each other due to an hour difference between us. When ever we all meet up, we'd switch between who'd visit who and its been back and forth for a while. It's been a bit harder since quarantine but we all still hang out over discord. One of my friends suggested, "a guy's night" which is basically a meet up without me. It would involve a sleepover (possibly at a hotel or one of their houses) which my parents would not allow me to participate in for obvious reasons. I understand it but I just feel left out because I really have no female friends for a "girl's night" or to confide in. I can't help but feel sad mainly because he announced it in front of everyone and I feel embarrassed. The worst part is he knows what he's doing because he told one of them who told me that he wanted me to be angry at him so I wouldn't be mad at anyone else. I don't know how to really respond or feel. I mostly stay silent whenever he brings up the idea. I can't help but feel left out.

So to start my sister is visiting from New York. She says she might stay in Florida though. She's been living in my apartment since April. I have a 3 br 2 ba apartment and I gave her my sons room while she's here.  Since she's been here rekindling her old friendships she's left her kids with me and my boyfriend often and been gone for hours 3 or more hours at a time. When we're not home she's even left her kids alone here before. Her kids are 3 and 4 year old boys. They are curious and destructive. They've made all kinds of messes and I'm sure my boyfriend and I won't get the deposit back because of these messes. Anyways she doesn't work and she's hanging out with her "best friend" every day. I say it like that because they spoon together on my couch every night. While her 2 kids are in the room. Also they see each other naked often but only claim to be friends.  Also she's moved this friend in our apartment without even asking! So this guy works but also pays nothing.  So they both abandon these kids with me and I already have 3 kids of my own. I work and my boyfriend works. We pay all the bills while she and her "friend" sits back daily and reaps the benefits. She also constantly claims that we're starving her when we don't cook! I'm pissed but I'm not sure what to do. My mom won't take her in and says we just have to work things out. Please give me your opinion. If I kick her out she will be in a homeless shelter. I've threatened to call cps and she doesn't believe me.

All the people that bullied and made fun of me at school I'm gonna:get revenge. Payback.

If they put something that comes across wrong than they meant, would you call them out on social media, or is that rude? Would you do it privately instead, or is the issue more important to show your opinion on in public? Thanks.

Hey! I'm male and i'm 18 years old, i'm still living with my parents, i have no education, i'm homeschooled for like 5 months, but they kicked me out from that school because i was not doing anything, i was just ignoring my homeworks etc, and i had terrible grades.  I have no talents, interests, no hobbies, no friends, and i can't even drive a car.  I want to know if there's any hope for me, and i don't know - what should i do ? I want to be successful in my life. But now i feel hopeless.. 

I dated my friends relative who wasn't very nice to me but I really liked him My friend seemed to take pleasure in rubbing my face in it when his relative got a new girlfriend. This upset me a bit but I could shrug it off. Now he's got her pregnant instead of rubbing it in my face my friend is treating me with pity and it's really annoying His relative probably treats the girl like **** as he did to me so I'm glad I'm not in her situation but my friend is acting like I should be jealous I've got other nice friends so I decided to end the friendship but it didn't have to be like that Do you think I did the right thing? 

My teacher yelled at me cause I didn't complete my work and I got mad I yelled back.....im a girl and I'm a good student I feel terrible for what I did but I also feel really ashamed to apologise....im kind of scared that he might hate me since he is my favourite teacher,I don't want that to happen..

My friend lives in a home where she gets hit and it's mentally abused. I told her to run away and come stay with me but she refuses to. She says she doesn't need help but I'm afraid things will get worse and if I call the police she will be angry with me and never speak to me again. What do I do?

It's ridiculous. He wears a cowboy hat, uses words like "Dixie" he eats apple pie and fried chicken lmao he thinks he's from Louisiana or Alabama or something it's hilarious and we are from California

So I have this teacher,he is super strict and he is much stricter with me..if he reprimand and I cry,what would he do?will he feel bad?

I want to get a job at a fast food place, and a friend I have would probably make a scene if she happened to see me working.. what should I do if that happens so I wouldn't lose the job?

So hes a pretty chill guy when he was sober and he used to be a chill person to drink with. But yesterday we were chilling watching netflix and then he started getting verbal which I can forgive because drunk people stay stupid stuff all the time. However, he got physical and started throwing stuff and trying to fight me and started making homophobic remarks at me for being gay. What should I do? His brother got home in the middle of it and protected me from him.

Last night, I was talking to another friend. His (the other friend's call came in. I ignored it. I knew he would call back. He did call back. But I chose not to answer it. I did some errands. When he does call he don't leave a message. At times I hear him having a conversation with his annoying eight years old. Yes, I mean that. Also he watching TV and laughing about someting he saw on it. Sometimes he runs out of things to say. So I tell him I'm going to get something to eat.  It was like four or five months we did not talk. A week would go by and he did not call me. I've asked him numerous time not to call me late (past 10p or early in the am (8:30 - 9:00)

I had an argument with a friend (who's Asian) about saying the 'n' word. He justified himself by claiming that the 'n' word was used for all POC, not only black people. Is this true?

Hello my friend wants to leave her current home but is scared she'll end up somewhere bad or nowhere at all, and if the judge doesn't allow her to leave who knows what might happen. So is there a way to find people who would be good?

I hate hearing about conflict. I hate seeing it I hearing about it I want nothing to do with it. I do my absolute best to stay away from from any news source not because I don't care but because I'm sensitive. Yes I mean they do matter just like the rest of us do. It's just really annoying that I can't do anything on the internet without having to hear about it. I can't go on Instagram YouTube Tick Tock nothing without having to hear about it. And I'm not annoying cuz I'm racist or anything cuz I'm not one of my best friends when I was a kid was black and I have three cousins and Uncle who are dark-skinned and I love them to pieces. I just really hate hearing about any type of conflict I don't like to know what's going on in the world I could be oblivious because my sensitive heart can't take it I don't like being reminded that everything can be just taken away from someone in a second. Yeah I can't express his feelings or else I get called racist or insensitive which is not the case.

So imagine you're straight and your best friend is gay. Then you find out your best friend is dying. Their dying wish is to have sex with you. Would you have sex with them?