I say your sibling.  You grew up together and were responsible for each other and will grow old together.  A spouse can fall our of love with you but a sibling cannot.  In the end, it's brothers and sisters who must look out for each other, as THEY are the TRUE LIFE PARTNERS.  What do you think?

He gets mad at me when i try to help him out with giving advice. I already paid off half his card for him. Then i find out he spent money on the card again. He claims extra hours at work will solve his problem. He complains about rent and the electric bill. I pay my credit card, pay for groceries, pay for cable and internet and give money for the rent but my husband tells me not to because he wants me to save money for our future house. My mom still pays for my cell phone for some reason she still wants me on her plan(i guess to help my husband and I out) My husband also has doctor bills (he has epilepsy) but i found out he didnt pay one on time and got charged interest just like with his credit card. Oh and he raises his voice and gets mad at me when i give him advice because "i dont listen to him" and he decides to walk outside all mad and says "i'm done" causing a scene. What can I do about this? Oh and he buys unnecessary things he doesnt need. I tell him to stop he doesnt listen.

He's over 30

My parents never helped me during my pregnancy and never cared for me as mine is love marriage but later accepted. As I live in other country she just came & said she is not habituated to the climate so she is not able to help. I was gone through a lot during my pregnancy with no help and later had C section & it's my first baby. I don't know how to manage a baby but she never even touched my baby nor never given a hand in helping me. With stitches I & my husband managed everything day & nights on our own by talking help of Google and YouTube on managing baby.As I couldn't eat proper food I couldn't produce milk and my baby survived with formula from day 1 till today. Everyday we ate hotel food and my body couldn't take it due to acidity and I asked my to cook some food as I felt hurgry, she just fought with me and packed her lagguage saying why should I help you? With sleepless nights and no energy in my body and again with the blames she made on me I went into depression since she left back. It's been 6 months by now but nothing has changed she keeps on pointing out that I hurted her with my words. Did I really hurt her or did I do something wrong, please tell me... I'm dying inside every day because she always digs the past and always blames me saying never any kids hurt their parents like this in front of son in law saying to cook and help in kitchen. She said I disrespected her and cursed me that one day even my baby will disrespect me. This is haunting me always 

My family comes from a very orthodox upbringing that believes that everyone should start getting married by 18. Of course not everyone can get married exactly by that age, but it's very close.  I'm male 21 and I don't want to get married right now. I don't feel mature and I don't have any friends. I'm not a social person and I get a lot of pressure from my mom that I should start looking for a partner.  To be honest, I don't even want to get married. I don't have any urge to get married, and sometimes I feel like I will never be able to get married.  My family has a tradition that the child doesn't move out unless after they are married. I feel like I'm going to live in my parents house forever in that case.  Has anyone felt like this? Is what I'm going through normal?

I remarried someone else. My actual husband does not have any children. He wants children but I do not want any. It is not easy to bring another human being to this world. I do not what to do or how to tell him that I do not want to have anymore children, I love him so much that I would prefer him to go and find a woman who can actually give him babies. Any ideas of what to do in a situation like this....

It's insane my mom and dad got divorced 3 years ago. She's CONSTANTLY accusing me of talking bad about her to my father. It's gotten to the point she listens in on my conversations and I actually have to SHOW her the last person I called so she will get off my case. It's absolutely insane. My father has NEVER said anything bad about my mother and honestly could give 2 s*hits about what my mom does. My mom is constantly accusing him when I go to visit she GRILLS ME about what we did or talked about. It's getting insane. I think my mom honestly needs help. I told her that she got upset. Anyone have any advice for me on how to handle this? Honestly considering going to live with my dad at this point. I'm 16 going to be 17 in 3 weeks. 

During my dad's marriage to his second wife, the woman would yell and call me horrible names while he was at work. The abuse wasn't physical. It was emotionally and verbally. My father at the time was immature and young so he didn't do much about her yelling and constantly criticizing me. I'm trying to become a stronger person by overcoming the trauma that she's left me with. I know that I need to eventually tell him in order for me to get the resolution I need as to why he didn't defend and protect me from the situation.

So my husband and I use sex toys together sometimes when we have sex. The other day, he wasn't home so I found out that it has 10 vibrations on it and I used it by myself without him there. Do you think I should tell him I did? Would that be a turn on for him? Or is it wrong to use it if you're married?

I'm 21 year old virgin and never had a boyfriend. I'm pretty much always in my own dream world in my head and don't have any friends. The word goes round that I'm ruining relationships and husbands pay attention to me more than their wife. I don't do anything. I don't talk to them. I don't even talk to anyone, just sit there. My aunts hate my guts and talk about me. My sisters don't like me for the same reason, they keep their boyfriends away from me and some men can't stand me because of their assumptions about me. I don't know what to do. Recently I was thinking about living up to how people see me like if they think I have the ability to do these things then I should become a homewrecker. It's making me go crazy idk what to do I'm smart. I don't trust any man out there. I'm a pretty quiet person and often seen as a doormat. I know if I have a boyfriend, he will try to make a move and use me. 

I am currently separated with my husband and we are going to get a divorce. I was talking to him today letting him know he needs to return it. Well he just told me that it's not my car and it's no longer under my name. He went to the dmv and had the title changed over to his name. I did not sign anything or touch anything. Can he do this in the state of Utah? Can he take me off and himself on without my say. He was never on my title it was just me. And add himself*

My husband and I got step daughter 6,  a new bed, dresser, chest of drawers in her very own room. She's not quite ready to sleep by herself so she wanted me to sleep with her. Well, last night, I was laying with her and I got up to go to the bathroom. My husband goes in there to say goodnight to her and tuck her in while I'm in the bathroom. I come back and she says that she wants her dad to sleep with her and not me. She tells me to "shoo" so I go to my bed. It made me a little upset because she will probably want her dad to sleep with her now instead of me. I'm just upset 

They are also teasing me because of it 

My old friend stopped by to drop off peaches. She told me that she was getting married. I congratulated her, and then made a silly remark: I'm surprised you never got an STD! That's because her fiancé used to be so promiscuous. Then she bursted into tears an called me a bad friend.

My husband and I were at a gathering where we met my older brother. My husband stepped away and so it was just my brother and I left seated next to each other at the table. At some point, I turned to my brother who was looking somewhere, I lightly tapped his arm to get his attention. His reaction was unexpected. He looked at me unsmiling, his upper body moved backward, then his eyes looked down at that part of his arm that I had touched and looked at me again. Its as if he was saying, what did you do that for? As if he was shocked that I had done something offensive. At that moment, I felt like a stranger to him. Things kind of changed after that at the party. I tried to make things light although I was offended inside. We used to be close but things changed after he got married. Do you think that was a normal reaction from a sibling? Is his gesture of meeting us at that gathering just for show, no more than that?

It is a happy marriage 

I will be turning 24 at the end of this year and I have still not found the right one. It has always been one of my dreams to get married someday, but I never thought that I would not find the right one at this point. I am so fearful because that means I that in another 6 years I'll be 30 and my biological clock will be ticking. Time has been going by so fast for the past 6 years for me. I have graduated from both high school, college, found a job within this time frame. At this point in life, really desire to be married and have kids before 30.  I even heard that once you reach 35 you have a greater chance of remaining single for the rest of your life. This is my greatest fear.

and the husband did'nt know about her past asshe hid it. How disgusting will he feel having been a virgin husband and with no sexual history, that also on the wedding night?  How awkward will it be for the husband on wedding to watch his wife enjoying and moaning for others in the videos and to get past these images being an innocent partner, whose all mood and happiness got broken on wedding night because of the past actions of his wife? What can the wife do in such situation who lied abouther pastandher exes did this to her husband? Can she comfort him someway?

Does she get reminded of all the good thi gs they explored together creating permanent memories with them whereas with the husband she did'nt have anything new with him?  What will go in the mind of her exes when they sees her knowing how they already got everything from her without commitment and already knows everything abouther body and may also have her sex videos with them whivh theycan enjoy always and also showto others and have fun and make fun ofthe husband?

My wife and I have different family scenarios. My wife has a small family. For Mother's Day we go visit our own families our separate ways because I don't want her to abandoning her family. My family constantly had get togethers. They hang out maybe 3-5x a week. I find this a bit overbearing I don't feel right forcing my wife to come along with me all the time. I mean I come alone for the smaller gatherings while she stays home and gets some rest from work or takes out her little brother out to eat. My mother wants her to come around all the time? Is this normal?

will the husband be inferior compared to her exes who got more from her in bed

will he ever be able to satisfy her like her exes or measure up to that which she enjoyed in gangbangs with multiple men? Now, as the wife is used to such forms of sex, then is it a risk for the virgin husband because if her pastdesires to slerp with multiple men together returns again after marriage, then how willshe control it?

I know you're busy trying to cheat,and figure out where your next cheap thrill is coming from but this is important: