I have been at my job for 4 years now, when i started I noticed my coworker, thought he was slightly attractive, but left it at that since I have a boyfriend and when I'm committed I usually don't pay attention to other men..and keep to myself at work. throughout the years I realized that i talk to every single person at work comfortably and him and I are very formal... if you need to talk its just business... I notice he has always helped me out when it comes to lifting things out of offices etc.. My coworkers have planned group outings in the past, but typically decline...since I'm busy with my boyfriend or get tired being at work. we speak to the same set of friends...after covid in march we all started working from home (and still are) and lately I have had dreams about him talking to me or this week they were three in a row about us making out and being in love? why would I have a dream like this? is there such thing as feeling others enegry? or premonitions or reading others emotions through dreams..? I feel guilty dreaming about making love and kissing him when i wake up since I am in love with my boyfriend who i live with?

My boyfriend was sentenced to 3 years. In California inmates serve 85% of their sentences. He also has 9 months of "time served" just by being in jail. How much time would he actually do on a 3 year sentence?

I wasn't happy in my relationship for a multitude of reasons and I did everything I could to make it work, but just wasn't happy and basically suffered from depression and anxiety. The relationship has now been over for 9 months but not a single day has gone by without my X sending me messages trying to get me back which I haven't responded to not even one of them. Here is my question Is she crazy or is that real love? Keep in mind I haven't responded to none of her messages. So shes basically been talking to herself for 9 months.

If I want to go out anywhere, she interferes, if I have a bf, she interferes, if I'm on the phone to a friend or client (I'm a hairdresser) she interferes, When I'm at works, she turns up at my work, wherever I go she asks when I will be back and says I've got to be back by this time, she tries to make me feel bad by bringing up my dog, she also threatens to kick me out, especially if I stand up for myself, I suffer from anxiety and depression, so seeing my friends or bf, or just going out by myself for walks or to the shops or walking my dog it helps. But do I really have to tell her where I'm going or when I will be back? I feel so depressed and this has been going on all my life, never my siblings. 

The chick with the flower profile pic, all of her questions and answers are so dumb

Esto me pasó mi suegra es muy querida conmigo me quiere me molesta habla mucho conmigo siempre hemos tenido una fuerte relación ella es muy querida... un día normal me di cuenta que ella me miraba mucho me detallaba siempre estaba viendome molestándome hasta que un día me dijo cómo tienes el pie muy grande yo quede como whatttt jajaja eso fue como la primera vez las seguidas siempre se quedaba viéndome el pie cuando estábamos acostado y decía que lo tenia muy grande que cuanto calzaba normal... hasta que un día vi que ella me miraba mucho el bulto cuando estaba en pantaloneta siempre se quedaba viéndome de manera 0 disimulada pensé que era mi imaginación y debía ser menos pervertido, hasta que un día descargué una aplicación donde no se puede ver mientras grabas lo puse normal como si estuviera sentado pero en realidad grababa ella en el video se quedaba viéndome mi bulto de una manera muy muy concentrada se pasaba la mano por la cara hasta que en un video se lamía los labios fueron como 6 veces en los que comprobé que verdaderamente se quedaba viendo mi bulto y se lamía sus labios, es mas un día me vio en bóxer en el baño y trato de mirar hacia otro lado pero su cara lo decía todo no se que opinan de esto si es imaginación o quizá sea realidad que fantasee conmigo...