When my BF was with his ex, he was so sure that he will marry her even though she treated him as garbage. They dated for a year and then it was an on off relationship. Now with me, we've been dating for 9 months but he is still not sure of marriage even though I've gone with him through tough times.

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My ex and I were talking and I had asked him when we first started to date almost a year ago if he actually did care for me because I didn't feel like a girlfriend I felt like he was only with me until his ex came back around.  He said "No. she and I were together for a few years and I wanted her to come back but she told me no. I see her and our daughter almost every day I thought I could just be friends but it made it harder for me to get over her. I never thought of you as a rebound nor did I use you. Normally I get over relationships fast and move on but this time it was different. There's nothing wrong with liking two people at a time." Then he said Yesterday (this all started on Father's Day over Facebook)  So yesterday he said  "I don't think you really understood what I meant. I never used you. I never stopped liking you or caring for you"  Does that mean present or in the past?  I don't want to ask because it will make things awkward.  On Father's Day he said  "Every time I send a paragraph you just say "ok" this whole paragraph was kinda showing you how much I like you"  But then talks about dating apps. I'm confused. I know he's going through a lot cause his ex won't let him see the baby 

Have you ever witnessed or been involved with brides or grooms cheating at these events? 

So this couple I know (let's call them Luke and Sophie) started to get divorced in August 2017. Around that time Luke pulled out of a show they were doing, which upset me as we don't have many men, and he is a very good actor/singer and does well in the NODA reviews. Around that time I see Sophie hanging around with this guy who we'll call Phil, and that's where I get suspicious. Fast forward a few months and I find out she got herself knocked up, with the accident due in May. Doing a bit of math, it would have been conceived around the time they got divorced. I asked if Luke was the father, and she goes "yeah, after all that" as she and Luke had got back together at the time. Hmm. Then at the end of 2018 they've divorced for good. There are no pictures of Sophie on Luke's social networking sites or vice versa, and Luke also has no pictures of the baby on there. Then suspicions started to arise again when Phil came up as a recommended friend on Facebook, with a picture of the baby as his profile picture. The baby looks a LOT like hers and has the same name (an unusual one). It didn't take me long to put two and two together. So now that I have a bit of evidence, do you think she cheated on her husband? Add the fact that she also lied to me about who the father was as well, and she says horrible things about Luke when she was the one who allegedly cheated on him. Thing is I'm a bit too scared to say anything as we have a mutual friend who means a lot to me. Any advice?

He is also a good human. That was what I saw when I looked into his eyes in the past. the ones who are in his life are lucky

a few details 1. it's our first relationship (were teenagers) 2. i have adhd (informal diagnosis) 3. i like him a lot and we have a lot of chemistry 4. what i'm thinking of isn't other people, it's like an episode of a TV show i just watched or an article i read earlier i just want to know if this is normal or if it's something else

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