I left the relationship 7 years ago and have had no contact. I have no plans on contacting him but I've found out that during the start of the relationship he was telling others that I unstable and even that I'd been hospitalised after attempting to kill myself. All completely untrue.  He uses to tell me stories about how all of exes, two in particular, were "crazy" and "unstable". I'm very curious to here their side of the story. Particularly one who he seemed very fixated on.  But do you think this is a good idea? 

Went to school with this guy. He was considered a geek, had bad acne & got picked on. Saw him on Facebook  and he's made a good life for himself, got buff and has beautiful women around him. The guy's like 41 dating girls in college. The comments on his photos are women flirting with him. 

My friend is texting a guy from another state, he's flying to our city and she's going to be staying in his hotel room with him. She's gonna pick him up from the airport too and they've never met before.