but before I got married I was talking to a guy that seemed liked a good guy. I ended things bad but a few years later I still remember him and I wish I still had his companion. I love my family and I don't want to hurt them but I wish I still had his companion. I always think of what would of happened if I was to pursue with that relationship. He does not want to get hurt and I understand but I want to continue to have him in my life. What do I do?

How can he face his friends after knowing that they all enjoyed with his wife for free which she hid it?

My friend and I have known each other for years. I have recently gotten out of a bad relationship and is rebuilding a life for myself and my kids. They are currently gone for the summer and I am using this time to heal. My friend who is now having Issues with her husband, decided to pack up her 4 kids and pets... yes PETS. And move them into my house without my permission. The have been with me a few days and I am overwhelmed with the situation and very angry at her for doing this knowing I won't turn her kids away. The kids are all between the ages of 11 and 18. There are 4. When I ask her how's reconciliation with her husband going she says she is avoiding him and working on healing herself. Please help. What should I do?

A few months ago, my BF and I were discussing about marriage, moving in, etc. But then he said he wants to wait a bit. Then today, he asked whether my parents have asked when we are moving out. Does this mean he is thinking of next step? He hasn't even proposed yet?

So I asked my husband if he wanted to use our sex toy last night and he said no. I asked why and he said he wanted us to have our own fun. This caught me by surprise. What should I do? I really wanted to use it. 

Low value women (obese, mental disorders, low paying job, unintelligent, etc) always complain about how they can only seem to attract low value men, and give off the vibe that they think they deserve high value men to be showering them with attention. Why would a high value man such as a medical doctor or a lawyer, who is rich and good looking and highly intelligent want to have anything to do with a 300 lb Wendy's cashier who is bipolar who has an inflated sense of self worth

I have found messages in his phone from him seeking out escorts many times throught our marriage. He has met at them at many hotels, even one by our house. I initially caught him when I was pregnant with our second child. He begged cried and said he would never do it again. That was 3 years ago. It hasn't stopped.  along with hitting me and choking me and calling me a *****. I have become the FBI when it comes to his phone and whereabouts. He comes home all hours of the night. What should I do ? I don't want to break up my family but this is killing me. I enjoy sex with him but it is repulsive that he is getting it from dirty hookers so I haven't been giving it to him. 

I want to get married again in the next 5 years . I feel like I was shortchanged in my previous marriage. How can I be a woman that gets a man to marry her 

Lately I posted that I was happy about t passing my university work and I got myself a car to learn driving in. He ignored my posts and acts as if they are not relevant. He doesn't drive, doesn't currently do education and he focuses on his  full time job and daughter with ex partner. At first I thought it was because he didn't care about me so I said to him 'we should call it quits as he doesn't seem interested at all in my life like I am with his. I blocked him as you do and then his friend messages me saying how he is crying and is upset etc. I got confused over this because he is resentful to my success and gives no support. I have many times supported his daughter, met his gaming friends as he games and whenever I mention to him in person about my life he gets competitive. So my answer is could he be jealous of my success and so ignores it as a way of belittling it? 

My mom had me at 21 which is her early 20s. She had a long term BF but they were obviously not married back then. They got married when I was 5 and my mom was 26. Otherwise they were just ur ordinary students.

Wife and I have been on a major dry spell. We have been putting our kids first and realized it has affected our marriage. We were intimate and since then I seem to care about her more like we are more connected. It's weird but wondering if normal. Thx 

I am so angry at her for saying this how can I tell my wife this I am Robert btw

Not sure what to say at this point. We have been married for 6 months. So two days ago I thought we were fine and I want to spice up the mood. So I undress and try to get him going. He instantly rejects me. He said no so me being naked, now humiliated just get under the covers. I act like I am fine but its his body and I won't pressure him to have sex. I act like I'm going to sleep and eventually I get dressed. I told myself I wouldn't do this again because everytime he rejects me it cuts deeper and deeper. I act like everything is fine and I made him breakfast yesterday. Anyway he was scrolling through his photos and I see recent photos of his which are selfies. Which I found odd. Made me feel uneasy. Because I don't know who he's sending them too and he never takes photos just because. I let it go but I'm furious at the fact that he went through my phone. It's 4 a.m. where I live I went to pee and my phone was not where I left it. Next to my pillow. So I got up couldn't find my phone went to pee and lo and behold its in the middle of my bed, where I sleep. He's done this before I told him I hate when he does it but he keeps doing it.  I'm trying to be a good understanding wife. I don't know what to do. He rejects me then go's through my phone also He's made no effort to be intimate with me. He's always on his phone and when I go to bed he's still on his phone. I feel like he's here but he's not. I have spoken to him about these issues in the past i sound like a broken record. I really just wanted to vent and get someone else's opinion because i don't know what else to do.  Not nude selfies, just selfies but he never takes any of himself so idk why he's doing it now.

If a man had a horrible relationship for 17 years and then had a nasty divorce where the wife abandoned him and the children, and he says he never wants to do that again, are there any chances to change his mind? He tried with me several months last year but got anxious because he felt like "little life" was in danger. Now after months we met after lockdown and after talking he kissed me passionately. But, also repeated he didn't want to hurt me again. I know he probably just feels lonely and passionate. I dreamt that night that we got married though, that's how much I adore him. He wants to see me again this weekend. Is there anything I can do to change his mind?

I've known my husbands family a total of 4  years and they've always been quiet and don't talk much. Never in the 4 years I've know them have I ever gotten a hug or really a "how are you" conversation. I say hello and ask how they're doing and it's cut very short.  My husband is the oldest (28) with a single mother (never married) who's 60. He has a younger brother and sister who are 22, and 18.  Every time I come over nobody talks to me, and my husband is the only one who's interacting. It's literally like I'm a fly on the wall! His younger sister makes me feel excluded in every way.  I have constantly tried and brought gifts, helped his family's house with basic needs, send cards and I never get a thank you. They go through my husband to communicate with me. I feel so irrelevant. Also, I've read horrible texts about how his sister feels about me saying it's sad my husband chooses me over "his family" Ever since this text, my MIL is being brainwashed by his sister. I just constantly get ignored and disrespected.  It's gotten to a point now I wont even attend his family gatherings. I let my husband know I'm not gonna sit in a house that obviously doesn't except my presence. I've been nothing but polite and loving and get nothing in return. My husband can go, but he feels now that we're married we come as a package deal. My family doesn't treat him like this so he doesn't understand. Am I wrong for this? 

and she was cheating on her husband, I am disappointed and disgusted on myself. Later, I found out she told her husband that she cheated on him, now she is all over the place, crying and emotional. Her husband is threatening to divorce her, because of what we did. If I know she was lying I would not have touched this hot mess. The good thing is they are trying to workout their differences, and move on with their live.

90 percent of single men and women across the world would absolutely KILL to be in the dating position that Hollywood celebrities are in. Heck, some women would probably even kill Chris Hemsworths wife just to be with him. Yet so many celebrities can't even maintain a relationship with these desirable men and women and are always getting divorced. Same thing with oeoole who aren't celeb ties, women who are married to loyal, successful good looking intelligent men who are doctors and millionaire CEOs who get divorce him over completely trivial things. Or a guy who's wife is beautiful and loyal and a great mother and smart and fun and he divorced her for completely childish reasons. The grass isn't greener...